Things Not To Say To Somebody Who Stutters

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  • @edgawrysjr
    @edgawrysjr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I stuttered as a child as well as Tourette’s. I was severely abused in every way except sexual abuse. I was blessed by the grace of God to able to defeat them into adulthood and beyond. God bless this young man for coming forward. 🙏🙏

    • @Stuttering101
      @Stuttering101  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you! God bless you!

    • @Achineeeee00
      @Achineeeee00 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Theres a first time for everything

  • @YungTyeee
    @YungTyeee 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    my cousin sounded just like you growing up. Today I can't tell he had/has a stutter at all. Just keep working at it and dont go faster for anyone else. People who care about you will listen to what you have to say. You are very brave dude and I believe in you!

  • @toughlovestutter
    @toughlovestutter 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I wish the stuttering community would step their game up. Much love young man, I hope you find your fluent self.

  • @pixie3760
    @pixie3760 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My best friend at school stuttered badly, but she had the voice of an angel and when she sang you'd never know she had a stutter. She and her husband formed a very successful band ... I still miss you Vicki RIP

  • @dorothymuhonja1582
    @dorothymuhonja1582 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I've found healing here,so glad to see people with the same problem as mine

  • @kellycasperhanson4426
    @kellycasperhanson4426 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    👍 I really appreciate this video. I'm one of those well-meaning people who ends up saying something stupid because I just want to be helpful somehow.
    This is a great lesson that it's okay to do nothing but listen patiently.
    Thank you!

  • @lordaniolist
    @lordaniolist 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Completing my sentences for me was nice for a bit because I could finally get to rest after shoving all those words out of my throat, but then I realized how bad it felt, that they couldn't wait for me to say 1 sentence even though I listened to their monologue.
    My family for a bit found "the magic phrase" "Just breathe."
    Yeah, didn't help just stressed me out, especially being annoyed with me for not "just breathing". Thankfully the couple that said it, realized it didn't actually work and stopped but now some attention divert as if they can pause me for a second then come back into the conversation like talk to a pet while I'm talking or scroll through their phone.
    Keep at it and keep speaking! You CAN talk! ♦

    • @Stuttering101
      @Stuttering101  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That’s the worst! Completing sentences can be nice at times but I think it’s good for people to avoid it. Thanks for watching!

    • @lordaniolist
      @lordaniolist 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Stuttering101 I agree, especially when it's all the time or they keep guessing wrong then I have to stop and say no then start again.

  • @ramonavina2109
    @ramonavina2109 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    It's a gift we have my guy. Not a curse. Love the way you talk. Keep it up!!

  • @ZaNNe_22
    @ZaNNe_22 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Stuttering is such an overwhelming thing we have to deal with daily. I also stutter and it's a very frustrating and exhausting problem due to the fact that you can't control or predict whenever it will happen... . It's the worst when I go to the University, mostly because of the presentation I have to make and because I cannot make any friends to study and have fun with 😢. I have to always fake that I am fine around others...

    • @justanothermortal1373
      @justanothermortal1373 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I'm sorry to hear that ❤. I swear that if we should meet, I would never make fun of your stuttering. You're perfect as you are.

    • @ZaNNe_22
      @ZaNNe_22 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wish everyone was more understanding about our struggle. Thank you for your kind words, it means a lot! 🙏 @@justanothermortal1373

    • @Stuttering101
      @Stuttering101  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Work on it, own it, and never give up! Everyone has problems, some can be outward like stuttering so you just have to own it.

  • @phillyarchdad
    @phillyarchdad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great advice. Wish someone had given it to my Dad about 60 years ago…

  • @user-jx7cp2cq8i
    @user-jx7cp2cq8i 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    You're doing a great job mate

  • @norah4286
    @norah4286 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I just found your channel and I am so happy to see someone have the same problem like mine It makes me feel like I belong🫂

    • @58iJohnDoe
      @58iJohnDoe 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same, unfortunately, he speaks english 😔 my Hispanic ass don't let me feeling all he's saying because I can't get it 😔😔😔

    • @norah4286
      @norah4286 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@58iJohnDoegirlll me too I don’t understand everything he says, English is not my native language lol

    • @Stuttering101
      @Stuttering101  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you! So sorry it’s not in your native language but I’m glad I can help in some way!

  • @cindymillion5485
    @cindymillion5485 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love your voice and your message, Asher. Thank you for your videos!

  • @viralthings4379
    @viralthings4379 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey mate you doing a great job so keep doing what you doing and I hope you get batter as soon as possible if I tell you you wouldn't believe me I myself I also stutter I'm trying to get better and also keep trying and never give up!

  • @gregl8624
    @gregl8624 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good people understand.. keep being you😊 🇨🇦 Eh..

  • @franniehawkins6471
    @franniehawkins6471 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have a speech impediment too! I love this video!

  • @jannis.grossmann
    @jannis.grossmann 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you are very brave making this step! but you know that you can get rid of stuttering almost completely. I stuttered myself and while doing my therapy it went better and better, thanks to my friends who supported me and gave me recognition.
    I know a method which can help you. tell me if you want to learn this simple method, I would be glad to show it to you

  • @Kosac07
    @Kosac07 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Or you can accept that people will do/say whatever they think or want and get over it, regardless of the particular issue that we may or may not have. It's just life/people, don't worry too much about it~ 😉
    But if you're telling people what to do/not to do around you, then you can be sure they are going to do the exact opposite...
    My question now is, do you stutter while you think/in your mind too?

  • @ramonavina2109
    @ramonavina2109 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh and I'm a manager of a multimillion dollar company so don't let stuttering let you down...its all bullshit. Confidence and love in yourself

  • @jamessimmons7480
    @jamessimmons7480 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I ONCE HAD THIS PROBLEM AND THE MEDICINE BUSPIRONE WAS VERY EFFECTIVE IN TREATING THIS!!! IT IS A GREATLY UNDERRATED MEDICINE!!!

    • @ramonavina2109
      @ramonavina2109 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Shouldn't have to take a medicine for the way you naturally talk. It's a blessing that we talk the way we talk. I love my stutter and wouldn't change it for anything.

  • @matejailic5479
    @matejailic5479 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have an advice for you. When you are about to stutter (when you can feel it) try saying some melody lik mhmmhmhm because part of brain that controls speaking and singing is separated. Hope I helped!

  • @Its_irokia6
    @Its_irokia6 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your videos you'll became a huge TH-camr in the future ❤

  • @hanwakaranai
    @hanwakaranai 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you Asher

  • @unfortunato
    @unfortunato 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't know anyone who stutters, but I'll try to think of your tips if I come across someone who does.
    Am I right in thinking that your stutters get worse when you're nervous?

  • @startfromtoday4157
    @startfromtoday4157 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You look amazing dude!

  • @Zed7762
    @Zed7762 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good video 👍

  • @marvinmayer8343
    @marvinmayer8343 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sehr Stark von dir 💪👍
    Ich stotter auch und weiß wie schwer es ist.
    Du kannst sehr stolz auf dich sein ❤️😊

  • @ChatGPT-qm9tz
    @ChatGPT-qm9tz 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why do people's stutter go away when they sing?

  • @EvanKeyes
    @EvanKeyes 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel bad for you and keep going

  • @jimmy5992
    @jimmy5992 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    加油

  • @tigerhack7730
    @tigerhack7730 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👍

  • @cjay7740
    @cjay7740 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Stuttering is worst than death. It messes up my quality of life and kills my confidence 101%. Straight talk

  • @graciousxy351
    @graciousxy351 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know its unrelated
    But I'm in love
    With you❤

  • @Anonymous-qg9xx
    @Anonymous-qg9xx 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    With all due respect...listeners do not have the patience to listen to a stutterer...that is not meant to be rude....they might need to be somewhere and the stutterer is holding them up.....folks might help by saying words stutterers cant say because stutterers struggle.....we live in a fast pasted world and folks are always rushing!!! Fact of life.....

    • @velocirraptorr8144
      @velocirraptorr8144 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🥶🥶🥶

    • @b6b6b6b6b6
      @b6b6b6b6b6 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      okay, but for the same reasons that some silly grown-ups like you apparently don’t have the “patience” or “time” or whatever to listen to them, stuttering is low key kinda based and epic, because it’s inherently anti-capitalist and “time” is just a capitalist construct 😎😎😎🫨🫨🫨👹👹👹 get rekt + L + ratio 😹😹😹

    • @Anonymous-qg9xx
      @Anonymous-qg9xx 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@b6b6b6b6b6 wtf you babbling about!

    • @b6b6b6b6b6
      @b6b6b6b6b6 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@Anonymous-qg9xxyou being unbased 😂

    • @Stuttering101
      @Stuttering101  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Everyone is always rushing! I just hope to help out whoever decides to watch my videos.