Don't Sweat the Small Stuff with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

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  • Ever find yourself in a marital spat over who left the dishes undone or whose turn it is to pick up the kids? We're Ken and Tabatha, and this week on Doing Life with us, we're taking the heat out of those hot-button issues that can turn your love life lukewarm. With Valentine's Day around the corner, we're dishing out laughter-laced wisdom on navigating the little irritations that can cause big rifts, all drawn from our two-decade dance of marriage.
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  • @georgeblackwell4670
    @georgeblackwell4670 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish my wife would be willing to sit down and watch these videos together to help our relationship! This is great advice! I’m standing in the gap for my marriage

  • @Movingforward595
    @Movingforward595 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    That’s so true. “At the end of your life, you’re not even going to remember it.” Overlooking the little offenses is such an important part of marriage!

    • @tashsmith5908
      @tashsmith5908 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I take notes lol…

  • @tomilola820
    @tomilola820 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This was too good! I have literally been looking for biblical guidance all over TH-cam over the past week, and I am in awe at how you both were able to put together such a powerful message on navigating a healthy relationship. My partner and I have been going through, but this message right here - this is the KEY 🔑 to a healthy relationship! Therapy helped a bit, our pastors prayed and that helped too, but this right here is the strategy! Don’t sweat the small stuff and lean into biblical principles! God bless you both abundantly for transforming lives through His unadulterated word & thank you for authentically sharing your personal experiences!

  • @ivetthsantana5799
    @ivetthsantana5799 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m divorced and yall’s videos have been helping me so much to prepare for the kingdom marriage I’ve always wanted. I know God has my kingdom husband and I’ll keep preparing myself for him ❤️

  • @monique_weaktopeak
    @monique_weaktopeak 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Tabatha... I am a single mommy and EVERYTHING ticks me off!! I constantly complain and nit pick everything and feel like I need to be like a policeman around my child and if I don't do that she takes 6 years to get ready in the mornings & forgets to brush her teeth, doesn't make her bed or her room is a pigsty. Had to hear that sometimes we just need to give them a hug with the "after school smell" 😂😋

  • @corinneroberson-hickson7633
    @corinneroberson-hickson7633 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amen. Amen. Amen.

  • @meganravare9817
    @meganravare9817 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This was so good! I’m practicing everyday to learn what it takes to be a Godly wife in all circumstances. You all have been so helpful in that journey! God bless ❤

  • @corinneroberson-hickson7633
    @corinneroberson-hickson7633 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Now, most definitely!

  • @yolandagrady7232
    @yolandagrady7232 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my goodness! I really needed this video! Thank you both for your words of wisdom!❤

  • @providencialopez-davis2263
    @providencialopez-davis2263 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What a beautiful reminder of what true Love is. Thank you. 🙏🏼

  • @alexisstrickland1820
    @alexisstrickland1820 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The socks and shoes lol so relatable 😂

  • @Audria_apdesigns
    @Audria_apdesigns 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so glad I found your podcasts .. I've been listening to a couple of episodes recently. Right now I think my marriage is in the fight for power stage😔🙈🥴

  • @corinneroberson-hickson7633
    @corinneroberson-hickson7633 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Having a sense of humor definitely helps

  • @natz726
    @natz726 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The way she always looks at him❤😊😊she luuuurves him

  • @gorgeouswales9635
    @gorgeouswales9635 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi. Sometimes you walk into a marriage where that spouse has issues you didn’t see until you got married. And when that spouse has issues it’s harder as you go along. Thank you both. Blessings!

  • @panouleex
    @panouleex 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m so happy to have found this channel. I’ve only watched two videos and it’s helped me so much. Thank you for this!

  • @CHOSENONES1111
    @CHOSENONES1111 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So true I'm definitely a strict person to live with. I like order but listening to this has given me a new perspective about love . This is so good I'm coming into covenant soon so I needed to here this

  • @kimichele1908
    @kimichele1908 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow... I really need to pray on this. I thought I was doing my mom duties in keeping the household, kids homework, etc., but I guess I was just a big old control freak & a nag😢

  • @ClarisaMann09
    @ClarisaMann09 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You two are hilarious 😂😂😂 one thing pastor Ken will do is help pastor Tab tell on herself. This is episode made me laugh and smile.

  • @JennyJay4
    @JennyJay4 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God bless you both! Thank you for ALL you do. ❤

  • @gigijohn316
    @gigijohn316 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a new subscriber, I'm loving your messages! This is starting to be life changing for me and my challenging 24 year marriage! Thank you both!❤

  • @corinneroberson-hickson7633
    @corinneroberson-hickson7633 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm happily separated

  • @tierraholden9377
    @tierraholden9377 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Young married woman and also leading a young adults. Thank you for sharing. ❤
    Y’all open some spots in my brain 😂that got me thinking or I didn’t think of that way. Definitely going to do in my marriage. My husband is definitely in a different season and I will support little more. ❤

  • @elisaalvarez0910
    @elisaalvarez0910 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What if the small things for you aren’t so small for me?

  • @shamecabless1
    @shamecabless1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m getting married in August and you’re helping and advance.

  • @nerayah
    @nerayah 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @dakotarocha6735
    @dakotarocha6735 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This whole episode was for me and yes, that scripture in 1 Timothy is dope 😂❤❤❤

  • @Ashlynma
    @Ashlynma 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a mom to a teen and toddler I am learning to not sweat the small stuff like I used to……

  • @mamajmas2508
    @mamajmas2508 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For the longest time as a mother, I did sweat for the small stuff and that frustrated and angered me big time. But now, I don't care anymore 😅

  • @KyalisimaSarah-kw8kl
    @KyalisimaSarah-kw8kl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God bless you

  • @IamAndreThompson
    @IamAndreThompson 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So practical and simple! Don’t sweat the small stuff!!!! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @ceciliamusakhi9923
    @ceciliamusakhi9923 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is beautiful, thank you so much ❤, God bless

  • @gcobisasagini380
    @gcobisasagini380 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really enjoyed this podcast. Before I watched this podcast, I was reading 1 Corinthians 13 (love), and boom, now you are talking about love. ❤️🙏❤️🙏🙌🙌

  • @Findingevydory
    @Findingevydory 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so glad I’m watching this today, I’m not yet married but this teaching can be used generally and I’m glad I got to share it with a friend who needed to hear this. May God continue blessing you and give you more knowledge to share these teachings and testimonies with us. ❤🙏🏾

  • @quintaamare52
    @quintaamare52 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you!! For this WORD!!!

  • @jenellpotts7991
    @jenellpotts7991 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love you both and truly appreciate this content! Your authenticity and love for God is beautiful and refreshing! You are changing lives! Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤

  • @tonya-toyareborndolls5650
    @tonya-toyareborndolls5650 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You guys are such a blessing.

  • @denisebell1168
    @denisebell1168 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a wonderful episode per usual, and really let me know I have work to do

  • @cynthianash3709
    @cynthianash3709 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤚I'm married

  • @moonbeloved706
    @moonbeloved706 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video. I just found yall and this is my second time watching yall. Thank you for the wisdom and love yall are sharing and spreading 💕

  • @thyramccray724
    @thyramccray724 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow this was Amazing I just send it to my Coworker Awesome love it 🙏

  • @nyawirak6827
    @nyawirak6827 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg!! Omg!! Am in tears, because how God is working on me🥲🥲 He is such a faithful and loving God. I had decided to actually do everything you jus talked about, and I get on TH-cam and see this, this message just feels me with so much hope, Praise God🙏🏽 and am just so happy, God You are soooo good, bless Your name.. Thank you guys❤❤

  • @christireidgordon
    @christireidgordon 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am loving this!!!

  • @sherrynelson365
    @sherrynelson365 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Powerful

  • @corinneroberson-hickson7633
    @corinneroberson-hickson7633 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Don't ever make a man feel less than a man

  • @breinspiredd
    @breinspiredd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You two have really been such an essential blessing in my life for my marriage. The mentors I always desired.
    Can’t wait to meet y’all one day!

  • @tammycovington3288
    @tammycovington3288 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good advice👏👏👏💯🙌 #love #tips

  • @patriciahamer3741
    @patriciahamer3741 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this podcast.

  • @RollanskyDarote
    @RollanskyDarote 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is amazing 🔥

  • @netchatvictor
    @netchatvictor 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Was in a marriage got divorced and now we are going to marry back

    • @netchatvictor
      @netchatvictor 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      March 4 would of been 19 years

  • @yolandasanders6397
    @yolandasanders6397 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙌🏾

  • @peacelove35
    @peacelove35 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️

  • @corinneroberson-hickson7633
    @corinneroberson-hickson7633 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They have to know their roles / parts and be comfortable .... watch your tone of voice

  • @davneatracampbell1857
    @davneatracampbell1857 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm married, you're talking to me

  • @Justritamich
    @Justritamich 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There’s a build up. And the more you try to ignore the “small stuff” the bigger the blow up

  • @Mandiblez
    @Mandiblez 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Will you wanna live with you😮

  • @NormaCD-hy8ie
    @NormaCD-hy8ie 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Doesn't fail, watching how the puddles of sweat just dried up within 48 hours was so satisfying, I used what I read about the other day. Although it actually took about 72 hours for my sweating to normalize, I went ahead and go'ogled Cynthia Yulesin’s Stop Sweating Today and I don’t have to change clothes 2 times a day.

  • @providencialopez-davis2263
    @providencialopez-davis2263 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1