hollymolly. You "hear" from who? Vanessa is far from being a stupid woman AND she was coming off the lessons learned from Zack Efron. "Wasted..."? Not sure this applies...
I agree with you but If memory serves me correct, in an interview he referred to her as his 'girlfriend... of 10 years'. That signals to me a 'disclosure of non committal to taking the relationship further such as marriage. ie in the interview he didn't use the words misses, partner, soul mate etc. Be interested to hear a guys take on this!
@@jp3032 Men don’t care! To us women that means something but to men it doesn’t! Sadly they don’t care about unconditional love or that your love for them was pure. They don’t care!
@@Eva-nc1nb how do u know that? Have asked every man to ever lived, and get their response? Or are u projecting and assuming based on ur own prejudice?
It's so sad that Vanessa Hudgens raised him like a son in the bulk of his career, just for Austin's shining moment to be credited to everyone but her. She will be rewarded for everything one day.
I mean alot of Hollywood males do this. Just look at anna faris and chris pratt, he used her when she was at her peak and he was an obese nobody, then he lost the weight and got more famous and dumped her and there son for a younger woman lol.
10 years a girlfriend not a wife. It didn’t last because one of them was having doubts about their relationship. Now she’s engaged see how fast it happens when you find the one. Don’t waste your youth on someone that’s not ready to commit.
Her love life really hurts... she always end up dating a guy for a long time and she must have thought this is it everytime and i know she tried. Please give her the best man she well deserves. Edit: I was not blaming neither of them nor I think Venessa had failed her relationship. I was only expressing my emphasis on Vanessa.
Stays with somebody for 10 years if you’re not married he was using her and she just found out the hard way totally ignored her but it’s OK she’s engaged to a good man she’s got a good career she’s a businesswoman and I think she learned her lesson
You do not need to put a ring on it. Don’t get that mentality of some people. You can be married and cheat on people, too and be rude and ruthless. That just shows how awful someone’s character can be. You can always get betrayed.
@@nil.2713 it's not that they're saying they need to put a ring on it they're saying that if they have been together for ten years and the relationship was not progressing and he was just keeping her in Idol limbo it's a definite sign that he was just using her and only keeping her around for his own benefit and once that benefit ran out he discarded her just like how people say you can be married and cheat on each other it's not about the marriage or the ring it's about actually knowing the person you are with and not getting lied to buy them it's knowing the true demon underneath the human skin in a disguise built so well he seems like a fantasy
@@nil.2713 recently ppl have decided that marriage is too much of a commitment or it’s useless but there’s still a lot of ppl out there who believe it’s special and wait for it. It’s just odd to see ppl dating for ten years instead of just being married for society.
Why is everyone blaming Austin? ‘She wasted her time’ ‘she was so great and supportive’ ‘He used her’ what about him? He also wasted a decade on this relationship. Yes they didn’t get married but FOR A REASON. must have had issues! And if they wanted to why couldn’t Vanessa propose? Why does all the responsibility fall on Austin? oh and I don’t believe Austin used her, that’s just speculation…and even if he did, Hollywood is all about connections, just look at every actor! To get her connections he could have even become a good friend instead of wasting a DECADE of his life on this relationship? Oh and connections exist for lots but the reason he could pave his way in Hollywood was bc he’s a good actor! Don’t deny it. Chances are he would have made it by himself and with other people’s connections as well (which are easy to create! She also ended it They both got happily engaged 2-3 years later and Vanessa is married now too…everything happens for a reason but why is everyone always blaming Austin, the man! People move on and sometimes it’s not meant to be, but people still hold on 🤷♀️ and their relationship is none of our business we don’t know who was right or wrong nor do we know either personally…
They say if you go only for rich already made men, you're a gold digger. They say women should stand behind their men through thick and thin and be their strength in their not so great moments and help the men into their greatness. And when women do, this is what they get in the end. Edit: Yes this doesn't ALWAYS happen but it does happen a lot and it is sad
She hands down was the most supportive, uplifting and cherishing girlfriends ever. She GOT him roles and advocated for him! And he did her so dirty, I wouldn’t see Elvis because I can’t support someone like him as a person
Vanessa was dissapointed too many times. The level of disrespect this woman was shown for her pure heart and kindness is just gross. It's why so many people love her cause many can relate to the type of stuff she's been through in love. Only wish her to find the love that she deserves ❤️
she doesn’t share enough about herself for you to even feel/think this way LMAO forming parasocial relationships with strangers should be classified mental illness
I think this might be a cautionary tale for women out there. Don’t stay with anyone longer than 3-5 years, and especially not a decade of the best years of your life, if you’re expecting a ring at the end. If after 5 years the guy doesn’t marry you and marriage is what you want, move on, or at least move out. He is just not into you for the rest of his life.
Wasn't that guy in this industry since childhood? Didn't tom Hank the one who helped him to get the role? Wasn't what she did was just convincing him to take it, basically what every single sane friend he had was doing? Why does she deserves a standing ovation for that? Why does that count as using her?
@@p92827 1. did anyone force her to? my ex financially supported me for quite some times while i was struggling, does that mean i own him a marriage, and that I'm obligated to stay with him for the rest of my life? 2. your sources that can 100% confirm without doubt that it even happened? 3. Who to say, she's not the one who broke up with him? we don';t know what went on in their relationship, or what happened during their break up or why they even broke up, or who did it too. instead of making assumptions and spreading rumours, people should learn not to trust everything their read from tabloid journalist, or short video like this one.
@@user-ci4py1wc4c and you, instead of making assumptions that Austin did nothing wrong you just shut up. You're everywhere. We love vanessa. We don't care about austin
@@dreamkitty HE'S ENJOYING A MODEL NOW BUT KARMA WILL CATCH UP TO HIM. HE WILL REALIZE HE LOST A GEM OF A WOMAN. VANESSA SUPPORTED HIM WHEN HE WAS A NOBODY.
I don't know about that. We can't speak about it bc, non of us know what actually happened behind closed doors. Maybe they just grew apart or maybe they wanted different things from life. Not every single thing is black and white, most are grey. And in this case, well literally never know, unless they speak up honestly about it. So, don't spread unverified stories based on ur own prejudice against the man for what u assumed he broke up with her. It could have been the other way around, bc she just felt they weren't clicking anymore.
this is stupid, it’s a hard choice to make and while it is the right one for many, not everyone wants to be married! the best thing is to just follow your heart and trust your instincts, and most of all you do you
@@leeslyrose oh my bad i thought you were talking generally about girls and not specifically vanessa. yes, she’d be an amazing bride! hope her wedding day is magical
@@bri_33 it depends on her age. She has to make it clear early enough where she wants the relationship to go (e.g. marriage), then after 2-3 years evaluate if it’s genuinely going that way. If not, tell him it’s not and move on. If he doesn’t want marriage, move on.
@Vaani Papadakis:marriages should be considered carefully though since it’s a big step and you have to make sure you are ready to take the marriage step you don’t just get married without making sure you are both ready to be married,making sure your home life is stable financially…etc… you don’t want rush into a marriage since sometimes marriages and engagements don’t last if you aren’t with the right person to married or engaged to look at the celebrity couples who were engaged then called off the engagement or who got married and eventually divorced
@@Shophiamondar2 She did not do anything to get this man the part. He worked his butt off and his brain overtime to get it, and has rightly earned everything he is getting for it. It is VERY TELLING he had to go away from Vanessa to reach his highest potential. Vanessa encouraged him to try. But it was his hard work and his connections that got him in position to get it.
@@lindafrancis1237i be seeing you defending his sorry butt on a lot of comments. he pay you to do this? are you js some weird fan girl of a guy who could never care for you?
I think her and Shakira would have a great conversation on this subject. On the brightside she didn't have kids with him so she doesn't have to see him again.
People waste sooooo much time with relationships. They think marriage is just about religion! No its not! Its about holding ppl accountable for their declarations of love to you! It keeps people's time and hearts safer!
If marriage was so sacred then divorced wouldn't happen 60% of the time. Yes there is a sacred value behind marriage but most people don't value them anymore so marriage isn't gonna save someone who doesn't stand by those values.
Yea my husband knew he wanted to marry me from very very early on. When you know you know and if there are doubts they will never go away, someone should be sure of you from early
Honestly the sad truth is most men won’t go for the woman who does everything for them and sticks by them. They’d rather be with a woman who hasn’t seen their weaknesses so they can feel “masculine.” It’s sad but true. That’s why women end up in relationships for years just to one day get dumped and see their man married within a few months to a new woman
I dated someone 7 years. He broke up with me one day after finding someone else. I thought he’d eventually reach out (7 years was like 1/4 of our life at that point!) 8 years later…..still haven’t heard a word and he blocked me so I don’t reach out.
I believe you are far better off without him. He did you a favor. You will realize this in due time. People that don’t respect and cherish us have no place in our lives.
Its hard to move on from someone thst u been with for that long. I knew my ex for about 10 years and we were together for 6. It was the hardest thing to go through.
You have to detox cus if you jumped from another relationship again... the wound did not heal yet. And u might repeat the vicious toxic cycle with ur ex.
It’s wasted years as a woman because unlike men we have a biological clock that lets us know the safest and healthiest time we have to make babies ! The later the higher the risk of not only complications for the babies but for the mothers own life! FYI many women can’t even have kids anymore after the age of 30 but that’s not talked about enough
Don’t waste your time on men!! I learned the hard way too. Don’t stay with someone with NO commitment. Give it one year and someone should Know if they want to commit to you.
Was nothing for most his life, met her and gained the confidence to commit to a role like Elvis, feels terrified to lose his 5mins he stayed in character for a year after the movie 😂
Finding real love is so scary now because at least for me I always fear that the love isn’t as real as how I feel it is. Hate him for that, I could see how in love she was. I hope she gets better with time 🫶
When you treat your man like a son, he will fly away one day to find a woman. 1. Do NOT babysit a man, get a gentleman 2. Do NOT do project, get a deal to compliment your reality
only goes if the boyfriend treats her like a wife, it goes both ways!! stop blaming women for problems and look at the men as well. @@sparklesoulsubliminals
please he worked his butt off to get the role and dedicated two whole years of his life to it. it happened because of his hard work, not because vanessa advised him to audition
He got money and fame and *of course* a model to have on his arm (Cindy Crawford's model daughter).....I use to love Austin but I'm starting to realize it's all a front 🙃. His loss.
Honestly, always had my doubts about Austin Butler, but it doesn't matter now because she is engaged to an awesome guy who truly appreciates her for her. I had a good feeling about Cole from the beginning. I definitely thought, "Oh, this could be her husband!" He just glows when he's around her and she glows as well. You can feel the love! So happy for them and very well deserved for Vanessa. She found her Knight in shining armour
@@lindafrancis1237 To wish someone to be dumped is disgusting. What a sad little life you live... stop trying to make others miserable just because you are.
@lindafrancis1237 Just saw how many comments you write about Vanessa.... it reeks of jealousy. You can deny it all you want with those venomous words, but you'll never be as successful, rich, beautiful, or nice as her. In fact, you're nothing to me since I don't you, as well as to anyone else. I, too, am the same to you. Grow up and stop acting out like an immature child throwing a tantrum.
He tasted some very short fame so he dumped the one who encouraged and pushed him to chase the dream, but fame will never last. After Elvis there will be no more offers.
Well that's kinda what she is now or he could have said "ex" which would have probably pissed you fans off. Regardless of how long they were once together she's an EX now!! Like wth else is he suppose to call her!?? "The love of my life that got away"? Lmao people are never satisfied and over read everything 😂 he moved on. There's nothing wrong with that. Maybe he wasn't happy with her anymore. Maybe they both grew apart. She moved on too. It happens! Grow up
Austin worked hard for that role.... whatever happened between he and Vanessa had reasons of their own and not for anyone to judge. It's always sad when relationships break up, but it's not for the public to judge.
I’m guessing Austin didn’t want to marry and that’s why they broke it off after such a long time. She now has what she wanted with her new man cause if 1 doesn’t do it another will.
He broke up with her because now he’s famous and could afford a younger model.. he straight up had a new girlfriend (19yrs old) minutes after breaking up with her ifykyk.. he is an ass for wasting someone’s time like that.. 10yrs..! That’s fuckd up
Remember how everyone thinks vanessa was a sl*t because her naked photo leaks. Look at her, she can maintain good long relationship with every guy she dated. Years people years!
years mean nothing, men can stay with you for decades if you treat them like husbands when you’re just a girlfriend to them, but don’t be surprised when they dump you because even if it’s kinda cruel, legally they don’t owe you anything
That's what happens when you disrespect and devalue the person who lifted you up for ten years. She wouldn't take back that relationship, we all learn from them, but that doesn't mean he didn't hurt her. Once he hurt her she was over it and him. Plus she's happily engaged now.
The way he just glances over at her and isn’t even phased.. that’s some cold shit. You can she’s doing everything to keep her head and eyes glued to her phone to not meet eyes w him.
This is quite up there with the worst pain another person can inflict on you without putting their hand on you. She loved him when no one knew him but everyone wanted to be her and be with her. Only to leave after finding success and leaving her on the lurch after wasting majority of her twenties with him.
U can be with a person for many years,thinking his the one bcz of time spent together and eventually he might marry u. But the truth is once u realize he's not in the same mindset as u. It hurts more then anything knowing he never was the one who u thought he was.
Wow there must be some real experts on love in this comment section cuz a lot of the replies are incredibly insightful on a relationship they have only seen from media perspective
That just means you moved on. Nothing wrong with that, if something doesn't work out it's for the best to do that so you can make room for another chapter
Its not about years its about quality She didnt lost her 10 years... We all are human we fail but we win. Whatever happens we always learnt.. Life is a lesson
Can’t wait for Austin’s career to go down in a few years. He wasted her years while using her to support himself when he had nothing. She supported him, encouraged him & was nothing but loving to him yet he felt that he needed someone else to be by his side to be successful. He replaced her with a younger woman who has well known parents to get his name more connected in Hollywood. Can’t wait for Austin’s karma.
Funny. Who is Vanessa again? Oh, the one with the more or less successful high school musical Disney movies from decades ago...she is nobody, and Austin owns his success.
Why is everyone blaming Austin? ‘She wasted her time’ ‘she was so great and supportive’ ‘He used her’ what about him? He also wasted a decade on this relationship. Yes they didn’t get married but FOR A REASON. must have had issues! And if they wanted to why couldn’t Vanessa propose? Why does all the responsibility fall on Austin? oh and I don’t believe Austin used her, that’s just speculation…and even if he did, Hollywood is all about connections, just look at every actor! To get her connections he could have even become a good friend instead of wasting a DECADE of his life on this relationship? Oh and connections exist for lots but the reason he could pave his way in Hollywood was bc he’s a good actor! Don’t deny it. Chances are he would have made it by himself and with other people’s connections as well (which are easy to create! She also ended it They both got happily engaged 2-3 years later and Vanessa is married now too…everything happens for a reason but why is everyone always blaming Austin, the man! People move on and sometimes it’s not meant to be, but people still hold on 🤷♀️ and their relationship is none of our business we don’t know who was right or wrong nor do we know either personally…
she wasted her 10 years on him sad, good for her that she moved on
hollymolly. You "hear" from who? Vanessa is far from being a stupid woman AND she was coming off the lessons learned from Zack Efron. "Wasted..."? Not sure this applies...
I also feel like she wasted her time😢
Wasted nah its part of life I wish her happiness
I agree with you but If memory serves me correct, in an interview he referred to her as his 'girlfriend... of 10 years'. That signals to me a 'disclosure of non committal to taking the relationship further such as marriage. ie in the interview he didn't use the words misses, partner, soul mate etc. Be interested to hear a guys take on this!
She didn’t waste them! They just grew apart
It happens
Hate Austin for this.
Dude wasted her time. Literally everybody wanted to be with Vanessa. And she chose him.
Cry blood! Your useless hate on him means nothing!
HE'S ENJOYING A MODEL NOW BUT KARMA WILL CATCH UP TO HIM. HE WILL REALIZE HE LOST A GEM OF A WOMAN. VANESSA SUPPORTED HIM WHEN HE WAS A NOBODY.
@@jp3032 frustrated 🤡🤡 may your tears and pains be permanent
@@jp3032 Men don’t care! To us women that means something but to men it doesn’t! Sadly they don’t care about unconditional love or that your love for them was pure. They don’t care!
@@Eva-nc1nb how do u know that? Have asked every man to ever lived, and get their response? Or are u projecting and assuming based on ur own prejudice?
She’s the one that encouraged him to play Elvis for years. Now this 💔
Cry about it.
@@Aliceoelleyour depressed & probably hate yourself, stfu and take a nap
@@Aliceoelle You must be a lonely or miserable person if that’s your response.
@@oshahoney 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🥰🥰🥰
@@Aliceoelleyou are definitely single and hate your life.
It's so sad that Vanessa Hudgens raised him like a son in the bulk of his career, just for Austin's shining moment to be credited to everyone but her. She will be rewarded for everything one day.
I mean alot of Hollywood males do this. Just look at anna faris and chris pratt, he used her when she was at her peak and he was an obese nobody, then he lost the weight and got more famous and dumped her and there son for a younger woman lol.
@@topkek4223 that's so true... 🥺
@@topkek4223so sad n true
No loyalty. No Oscar lol
Camilla Cabello should take notes.
10 years a girlfriend not a wife. It didn’t last because one of them was having doubts about their relationship. Now she’s engaged see how fast it happens when you find the one. Don’t waste your youth on someone that’s not ready to commit.
Hopefully this new boyfriend of hers treats her well and it's not a rebound thing?
HE'S ENJOYING A MODEL NOW BUT KARMA WILL CATCH UP TO HIM. HE WILL REALIZE HE LOST A GEM OF A WOMAN. VANESSA SUPPORTED HIM WHEN HE WAS A NOBODY.
Yes, true if one is doubtful it sadly won’t end up to married
@@jillybean3688 fiancé. They're engaged.
As if being engaged has ANYTHING to do with being in love and not with some papers.
"We used to be close but people can go from people you know to people you don't"...That hurts the most.
Selena song ❤
“People that I loved are just people that I knew once” also resonates. From Interlude by Kelsea Ballerini.
Just somebody that I use to know.. only the memories never leave
It’s so hard to have been really close to someone and then they forget all about you with no reason why... no closure. It breaks your heart.
@@sw9714gotye will forever be in our hearts
Her love life really hurts... she always end up dating a guy for a long time and she must have thought this is it everytime and i know she tried. Please give her the best man she well deserves.
Edit: I was not blaming neither of them nor I think Venessa had failed her relationship. I was only expressing my emphasis on Vanessa.
She s got engaged, looks happy
HE'S ENJOYING A MODEL NOW BUT KARMA WILL CATCH UP TO HIM. HE WILL REALIZE HE LOST A GEM OF A WOMAN. VANESSA SUPPORTED HIM WHEN HE WAS A NOBODY.
@@jp3032 stop dumb 😂
@@jp3032 rest frustrated vanessa stan
How do you know ? You don’t even know those people. The only thing we know is what they allows us to know.
Literally just like Anna faris and Chris pratt. Men love using successful women then dumping them after they find success.
😢
Facts!!!
Thats why women must give a timeframe then move on.
Actually, I believe Anna said she was the reason their marriage failed, because she was too competitive with Chris, professionally
So TruE
Stays with somebody for 10 years if you’re not married he was using her and she just found out the hard way totally ignored her but it’s OK she’s engaged to a good man she’s got a good career she’s a businesswoman and I think she learned her lesson
She didn’t need to learn a lesson. He did.
You do not need to put a ring on it. Don’t get that mentality of some people. You can be married and cheat on people, too and be rude and ruthless. That just shows how awful someone’s character can be. You can always get betrayed.
@@nil.2713 it's not that they're saying they need to put a ring on it they're saying that if they have been together for ten years and the relationship was not progressing and he was just keeping her in Idol limbo it's a definite sign that he was just using her and only keeping her around for his own benefit and once that benefit ran out he discarded her just like how people say you can be married and cheat on each other it's not about the marriage or the ring it's about actually knowing the person you are with and not getting lied to buy them it's knowing the true demon underneath the human skin in a disguise built so well he seems like a fantasy
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@@nil.2713 recently ppl have decided that marriage is too much of a commitment or it’s useless but there’s still a lot of ppl out there who believe it’s special and wait for it. It’s just odd to see ppl dating for ten years instead of just being married for society.
It is sad. She’s the one person who believed in him and helped him find his success and this is how he treats her after
HE'S ENJOYING A MODEL NOW BUT KARMA WILL CATCH UP TO HIM. HE WILL REALIZE HE LOST A GEM OF A WOMAN. VANESSA SUPPORTED HIM WHEN HE WAS A NOBODY.
@@jp3032 rest hater and stop with the pathetic lies
& how did he treat her, they both broke up so rest, she was the one that broke up with him cos he stayed back in Australia to film for elvis
he has no obligation to notice her 💀she didn’t notice him either. please get a grip
Why is everyone blaming Austin? ‘She wasted her time’ ‘she was so great and supportive’ ‘He used her’ what about him? He also wasted a decade on this relationship. Yes they didn’t get married but FOR A REASON. must have had issues! And if they wanted to why couldn’t Vanessa propose? Why does all the responsibility fall on Austin?
oh and I don’t believe Austin used her, that’s just speculation…and even if he did, Hollywood is all about connections, just look at every actor! To get her connections he could have even become a good friend instead of wasting a DECADE of his life on this relationship? Oh and connections exist for lots but the reason he could pave his way in Hollywood was bc he’s a good actor! Don’t deny it. Chances are he would have made it by himself and with other people’s connections as well (which are easy to create! She also ended it
They both got happily engaged 2-3 years later and Vanessa is married now too…everything happens for a reason but why is everyone always blaming Austin, the man! People move on and sometimes it’s not meant to be, but people still hold on 🤷♀️ and their relationship is none of our business we don’t know who was right or wrong nor do we know either personally…
They say if you go only for rich already made men, you're a gold digger.
They say women should stand behind their men through thick and thin and be their strength in their not so great moments and help the men into their greatness. And when women do, this is what they get in the end.
Edit: Yes this doesn't ALWAYS happen but it does happen a lot and it is sad
Exactly😑😢
THAT BEING SAID,"IMMA GOLD DIG FOR LIFE"
bruh shut up
Fr I remember reading somewhere "A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing, a man's loyalty is tested when he has everything"
Happened to Kevin Hart’s ex too!
She was with Zac for 8 years she’s really loyal
She was with him for five years.
Didn't she cheat on him?
@@fozztno
@@fozzt Nope nobody cheated they just grew apart. It happens, they both said it was nothing dramatic
No she wasn’t. It was only 4-5 yrs.
She hands down was the most supportive, uplifting and cherishing girlfriends ever. She GOT him roles and advocated for him! And he did her so dirty, I wouldn’t see Elvis because I can’t support someone like him as a person
You don't even know what happened ut couldve been mutual 😐
Vanessa was dissapointed too many times. The level of disrespect this woman was shown for her pure heart and kindness is just gross. It's why so many people love her cause many can relate to the type of stuff she's been through in love.
Only wish her to find the love that she deserves ❤️
she doesn’t share enough about herself for you to even feel/think this way LMAO forming parasocial relationships with strangers should be classified mental illness
I think she's engaged now
She made horrendous comments about people dying at the beginning of the pandemic. She’s not a good person
@@JoanWhackwhat she say
❤
Whatever it took for her to walk past him like she doesn't know is something to be admired
SHE made Him..she was there when He was NOBODY...and when He known for His success..She forgot the person who was there for Him when nobody was
😢😢😢😢
He still a nobody don't know him at all
he was famous before her plssss😂😂
@@dreamkitty IN YOUR IMAGINATION
💀 i promise i knew austin way before he ever got with vanessa
Damn shows how we as people can become friends in an instant to immediate strangers in an instant 😢 Damn....
I Guess that’s just life random person from the internet.
@@mrniceguy4500 well I guess to random person from the internet 😆
Yes. I remember one time, being introduced to my ex fiancé and we acted like we had just met.
@@LMusk damn girl 😢 I'm sorry
@@LMuskOuch, that is icy. I understand, but still.
So predictable. He leaves her when he hits the big time!And leaves her for a younger girl.
Sharon stone ?
@@noorgonzalez1076 Kaia Gerber, Cindy Crawford's daughter
HE'S ENJOYING A MODEL NOW BUT KARMA WILL CATCH UP TO HIM. HE WILL REALIZE HE LOST A GEM OF A WOMAN. VANESSA SUPPORTED HIM WHEN HE WAS A NOBODY.
Hopefully Kaia see's him for the bum he is and leaves.
@@jp3032 rest hater
That ‘yeah’ was the most dreamiest voice she’s had from everything I’ve heard
Isn't it strange?
How people can change
From strangers to friends
Friends into lovers
And strangers again
yes, i think myself this everyday😞 break ups sucks
But we wouldn't feel anything walking past a stranger though.
From people, you know to people you don’t
Oooo this is celeste ? The girl that sings two sides of the moon ♡ 🥺🩷
It usually happens so suddenly ❤
He doesn’t need her fame anymore he wasted her whole 20s.
KARMA WILL HIT HIM HARD
All I know is never ever give your all to a man. Invest all that energy into building yourself and your own success.
True speak!!
I think she didn’t value her time honestly. As adults; what are we doing for 9 years you know?
I think this might be a cautionary tale for women out there. Don’t stay with anyone longer than 3-5 years, and especially not a decade of the best years of your life, if you’re expecting a ring at the end.
If after 5 years the guy doesn’t marry you and marriage is what you want, move on, or at least move out. He is just not into you for the rest of his life.
The key is not to move in with a guy before y'all are husband and wife!
So sad, she is a very sweet and intelligent girl. He looks at her like he still care about her.
He's a total narcissist
he looks like a jerk sry not sorry
That looks like his ego was bruised
HE'S ENJOYING A MODEL NOW BUT KARMA WILL CATCH UP TO HIM. HE WILL REALIZE HE LOST A GEM OF A WOMAN. VANESSA SUPPORTED HIM WHEN HE WAS A NOBODY.
@@jp3032 rest with copy and paste comment, u sound frustrated, lying pained clown
Nothing hurts more than this...to find out that you had been used. Been there
KARMA WILL HIT HIM HARD
Wasn't that guy in this industry since childhood? Didn't tom Hank the one who helped him to get the role? Wasn't what she did was just convincing him to take it, basically what every single sane friend he had was doing? Why does she deserves a standing ovation for that? Why does that count as using her?
@@user-ci4py1wc4c she helped him financially. For 10 years.
@@p92827 1. did anyone force her to? my ex financially supported me for quite some times while i was struggling, does that mean i own him a marriage, and that I'm obligated to stay with him for the rest of my life?
2. your sources that can 100% confirm without doubt that it even happened?
3. Who to say, she's not the one who broke up with him? we don';t know what went on in their relationship, or what
happened during their break up or why they even broke up, or who did it too. instead of making assumptions and spreading rumours, people should learn not to trust everything their read from tabloid journalist, or short video like this one.
@@user-ci4py1wc4c and you, instead of making assumptions that Austin did nothing wrong you just shut up. You're everywhere. We love vanessa. We don't care about austin
Honestly it seems like he fucked up the relationship and she moved on. Witch I’m very glad she did ❤
he did too he has a gf lol
@@dreamkitty I’m glad ☺️
@@dreamkitty HE'S ENJOYING A MODEL NOW BUT KARMA WILL CATCH UP TO HIM. HE WILL REALIZE HE LOST A GEM OF A WOMAN. VANESSA SUPPORTED HIM WHEN HE WAS A NOBODY.
I don't know about that. We can't speak about it bc, non of us know what actually happened behind closed doors. Maybe they just grew apart or maybe they wanted different things from life. Not every single thing is black and white, most are grey. And in this case, well literally never know, unless they speak up honestly about it. So, don't spread unverified stories based on ur own prejudice against the man for what u assumed he broke up with her. It could have been the other way around, bc she just felt they weren't clicking anymore.
@@user-ci4py1wc4c “ it seems” means it shows like that.. sooo I didn’t say 100% he did it. So stop saying something I didn’t spread misinformation 😂
Girls, if you ain’t wifed up after the 3 year, RUN!
One year
5
this is stupid, it’s a hard choice to make and while it is the right one for many, not everyone wants to be married! the best thing is to just follow your heart and trust your instincts, and most of all you do you
@@Random-vd8wu lol 😂 she wanted to be a wife; look at her now ENGAGED to a baseball player. I stand my ground. 👑
@@leeslyrose oh my bad i thought you were talking generally about girls and not specifically vanessa. yes, she’d be an amazing bride! hope her wedding day is magical
Typical man will use a woman as a place holder in her youth and once he is ready to be a man, he will usually leave her for a woman who’s like 19-25
Men are so disgusting
That’s why you never date for that long.
I agree, but what would you say is the cutoff? How long before you decide to split or get married?
Yeah, like marriages or engagements never fails...
@@bri_33 it depends on her age. She has to make it clear early enough where she wants the relationship to go (e.g. marriage), then after 2-3 years evaluate if it’s genuinely going that way.
If not, tell him it’s not and move on. If he doesn’t want marriage, move on.
@Vaani Papadakis:marriages should be considered carefully though since it’s a big step and you have to make sure you are ready to take the marriage step you don’t just get married without making sure you are both ready to be married,making sure your home life is stable financially…etc… you don’t want rush into a marriage since sometimes marriages and engagements don’t last if you aren’t with the right person to married or engaged to look at the celebrity couples who were engaged then called off the engagement or who got married and eventually divorced
Marriage means shit nowadays...and you don't love someone more or less because you're married or not
the way she said “yeah” in the beginning that sounded so cute. :( ❤️
There must have a bad blood between them. It's life.
No she literally helped him get the Elvis Presley gig and he got a little fam again and left her for his costar
@@Shophiamondar2 She did not do anything to get this man the part. He worked his butt off and his brain overtime to get it, and has rightly earned everything he is getting for it. It is VERY TELLING he had to go away from Vanessa to reach his highest potential. Vanessa encouraged him to try. But it was his hard work and his connections that got him in position to get it.
@@Shophiamondar2 lies
@@lindafrancis1237i be seeing you defending his sorry butt on a lot of comments. he pay you to do this? are you js some weird fan girl of a guy who could never care for you?
@@SuperJaspersmompls. it’s literally been stated HER connections landed him a spot don’t try and twist this js bc you like him
10 years is a lifetime in Hollywood
It’s a lifetime anywhere.
Yessss!
I think her and Shakira would have a great conversation on this subject. On the brightside she didn't have kids with him so she doesn't have to see him again.
Vanessa is gorgeous.
People waste sooooo much time with relationships. They think marriage is just about religion! No its not! Its about holding ppl accountable for their declarations of love to you! It keeps people's time and hearts safer!
Well said
If marriage was so sacred then divorced wouldn't happen 60% of the time. Yes there is a sacred value behind marriage but most people don't value them anymore so marriage isn't gonna save someone who doesn't stand by those values.
Yea my husband knew he wanted to marry me from very very early on. When you know you know and if there are doubts they will never go away, someone should be sure of you from early
@@Faery_Witch422yea you need to feel the intention behind it. Is it out of love and genuineness or some sort of selfish reason
If all the people accountable then why do so many people get physically abused by their spouses?
He’s an arrogant opportunist. Good riddance.
AGREE
HE'S ENJOYING A MODEL NOW BUT KARMA WILL CATCH UP TO HIM. HE WILL REALIZE HE LOST A GEM OF A WOMAN. VANESSA SUPPORTED HIM WHEN HE WAS A NOBODY.
@@jp3032 pained hater, cry harder
@@jp3032 spreading fake lies, move on🤡
Be deceiving yourself and spreading fake lies
Honestly the sad truth is most men won’t go for the woman who does everything for them and sticks by them. They’d rather be with a woman who hasn’t seen their weaknesses so they can feel “masculine.” It’s sad but true. That’s why women end up in relationships for years just to one day get dumped and see their man married within a few months to a new woman
Men are so shallow and overall suck if I am being honest
And the new woman is always younger
I dated someone 7 years. He broke up with me one day after finding someone else. I thought he’d eventually reach out (7 years was like 1/4 of our life at that point!)
8 years later…..still haven’t heard a word and he blocked me so I don’t reach out.
I believe you are far better off without him. He did you a favor. You will realize this in due time. People that don’t respect and cherish us have no place in our lives.
Stop waiting for him, move on, you deserve to be loved.
She is so sweet, she doesn’t deserve this
HE'S ENJOYING A MODEL NOW BUT KARMA WILL CATCH UP TO HIM. HE WILL REALIZE HE LOST A GEM OF A WOMAN. VANESSA SUPPORTED HIM WHEN HE WAS A NOBODY.
She cheated on him
I wouldn’t wish this on anybody 😔
I’m not sad that she left him, he’s dating a 20-21 year old currently and that says a lot about him :|
KARMA WILL HIT HIM HARD
& she is dating someone 8years younger than her, so stop being a hypocrite
@@jp3032 karma will hit your expired womb vanessa , her womb has expired that's y she is forcing marriage on everyone
@@lindafrancis1237 how am I the hypocrite in this situation?
@@officially_underrated1719 your old clown vanessa is dating a man eight years younger than her, u are a hypocrite!
Never ever do wifey level shit if u aren't a wifey.
Its hard to move on from someone thst u been with for that long. I knew my ex for about 10 years and we were together for 6. It was the hardest thing to go through.
You have to detox cus if you jumped from another relationship again... the wound did not heal yet. And u might repeat the vicious toxic cycle with ur ex.
I can’t imagine. I only was my ex a year and a half technically. But damn is it so hard. For 10 yrs and then it’s gone? That shit sucks.
people in the comment section think they know everything about them, as if they were there for the whole relationship
Karma is so so real. And it hits way worse than what u did to a person. Wasting a whole decade of a person is just plain cruel.
She didn't waste these years. They are part of her life with many lovely memories.
It’s wasted years as a woman because unlike men we have a biological clock that lets us know the safest and healthiest time we have to make babies ! The later the higher the risk of not only complications for the babies but for the mothers own life! FYI many women can’t even have kids anymore after the age of 30 but that’s not talked about enough
Fuck them memories
😂 BS she did and on him.
Don’t waste your time on men!! I learned the hard way too. Don’t stay with someone with NO commitment. Give it one year and someone should
Know if they want to commit to you.
Was nothing for most his life, met her and gained the confidence to commit to a role like Elvis, feels terrified to lose his 5mins he stayed in character for a year after the movie 😂
Vanessa hateful fans that can't move on clowns
😂
HE'S ENJOYING A MODEL NOW BUT KARMA WILL CATCH UP TO HIM. HE WILL REALIZE HE LOST A GEM OF A WOMAN. VANESSA SUPPORTED HIM WHEN HE WAS A NOBODY.
@@jp3032 u are laughing at your chronic stupidity while deep down u are frustrated jealous and pained😂😂
Your chronic stupidity is stunning
Damn.. I thought the one in yellow was his mom 😬
Probably is
That's Sharon Stone😅
@@tarrynabrahams3029 I have never heard of her. who is Sharon stone?
@@karim6752 basic instinct
korek ka Dyan..Akala ko din
Finding real love is so scary now because at least for me I always fear that the love isn’t as real as how I feel it is. Hate him for that, I could see how in love she was. I hope she gets better with time 🫶
When you treat your man like a son, he will fly away one day to find a woman.
1. Do NOT babysit a man, get a gentleman
2. Do NOT do project, get a deal to compliment your reality
So it’s her fault? I swear women can not win!!!
Just a lesson. Once understood, woman can attract correct level.
@@LymphaticSystem-of3vn there’s a lesson she didn’t learn : don’t treat a boyfriend like a husband
only goes if the boyfriend treats her like a wife, it goes both ways!! stop blaming women for problems and look at the men as well. @@sparklesoulsubliminals
He doesn’t even give her name credit for pushing him to play Elvis!
He did
please he worked his butt off to get the role and dedicated two whole years of his life to it. it happened because of his hard work, not because vanessa advised him to audition
It’s better. Why would you want to be friend with someone who clearly doesn’t want you in his life? She deserves better.
Now you're just somebody that I used to know 🎶
I was honestly waiting for Vanessa to start singing "baby come back to me" 🎶😂
He got money and fame and *of course* a model to have on his arm (Cindy Crawford's model daughter).....I use to love Austin but I'm starting to realize it's all a front 🙃. His loss.
Move on, they broke up because of long distance
Her loss
Her loss
HE'S ENJOYING A MODEL NOW BUT KARMA WILL CATCH UP TO HIM. HE WILL REALIZE HE LOST A GEM OF A WOMAN. VANESSA SUPPORTED HIM WHEN HE WAS A NOBODY.
HIS LOSS. THAT MODEL WILL SOON FIND ANOTHER GUY 😂
Honestly, always had my doubts about Austin Butler, but it doesn't matter now because she is engaged to an awesome guy who truly appreciates her for her. I had a good feeling about Cole from the beginning. I definitely thought, "Oh, this could be her husband!" He just glows when he's around her and she glows as well. You can feel the love! So happy for them and very well deserved for Vanessa. She found her Knight in shining armour
I hope when cole dumps her, u would still sing his praises
@@lindafrancis1237 To wish someone to be dumped is disgusting. What a sad little life you live... stop trying to make others miserable just because you are.
@lindafrancis1237 Just saw how many comments you write about Vanessa.... it reeks of jealousy. You can deny it all you want with those venomous words, but you'll never be as successful, rich, beautiful, or nice as her. In fact, you're nothing to me since I don't you, as well as to anyone else. I, too, am the same to you. Grow up and stop acting out like an immature child throwing a tantrum.
He tasted some very short fame so he dumped the one who encouraged and pushed him to chase the dream, but fame will never last. After Elvis there will be no more offers.
Meanwhile, Vanessa got engaged and is living her best life. I hope she's truly happy.
There are plenty more offers, dune 2, master of the air, bike riders, city of dreams & city if fire, keep up!!! Vanessa looser stan that can't move on
@@ImTheGirlAtHome good for her. Fake Elvis is not meant to be.
@@lindafrancis1237 she is for sure
@@mistyrivers4995 vanessa is obsessed with austin
10 years together just to hear he call her a "friend" 🙁
Well that's kinda what she is now or he could have said "ex" which would have probably pissed you fans off. Regardless of how long they were once together she's an EX now!! Like wth else is he suppose to call her!?? "The love of my life that got away"? Lmao people are never satisfied and over read everything 😂 he moved on. There's nothing wrong with that. Maybe he wasn't happy with her anymore. Maybe they both grew apart. She moved on too. It happens! Grow up
@@Faery_Witch422 I'm your fan, you are serving facts
@@PamElA3333-iq4sq aww 💖 thanks 🙏🏻
He noticed her and she chose not to notice him. You can feel the cold shoulder. I hope she’s happy. Same to him.
Austin worked hard for that role.... whatever happened between he and Vanessa had reasons of their own and not for anyone to judge.
It's always sad when relationships break up, but it's not for the public to judge.
I’m guessing Austin didn’t want to marry and that’s why they broke it off after such a long time.
She now has what she wanted with her new man cause if 1 doesn’t do it another will.
He broke up with her because now he’s famous and could afford a younger model.. he straight up had a new girlfriend (19yrs old) minutes after breaking up with her ifykyk.. he is an ass for wasting someone’s time like that.. 10yrs..! That’s fuckd up
He and the nepo baby are engaged allegedly
Remember how everyone thinks vanessa was a sl*t because her naked photo leaks. Look at her, she can maintain good long relationship with every guy she dated. Years people years!
years mean nothing, men can stay with you for decades if you treat them like husbands when you’re just a girlfriend to them, but don’t be surprised when they dump you because even if it’s kinda cruel, legally they don’t owe you anything
He made a shifty move. Lost a real one for a pick me
AGREE
HE'S ENJOYING A MODEL NOW BUT KARMA WILL CATCH UP TO HIM. HE WILL REALIZE HE LOST A GEM OF A WOMAN. VANESSA SUPPORTED HIM WHEN HE WAS A NOBODY.
Lies
@@jp3032 keep being pained frustrated vanessa stan
That's what happens when you disrespect and devalue the person who lifted you up for ten years.
She wouldn't take back that relationship, we all learn from them, but that doesn't mean he didn't hurt her. Once he hurt her she was over it and him.
Plus she's happily engaged now.
I hope cole dosent dump her and they broke becos of long distance
HE'S ENJOYING A MODEL NOW BUT KARMA WILL CATCH UP TO HIM. HE WILL REALIZE HE LOST A GEM OF A WOMAN. VANESSA SUPPORTED HIM WHEN HE WAS A NOBODY.
@@lindafrancis1237 I HOPE YOU REALIZE YOUR IDOL MADE A MISTAKE AND YOU STOP WORSHIPPING HIM 😂
@@jp3032 focus on your dry washed up old vanessa
@@jp3032 frustrated pained clown
The way he just glances over at her and isn’t even phased.. that’s some cold shit. You can she’s doing everything to keep her head and eyes glued to her phone to not meet eyes w him.
He lost a good woman.
KARMA WILL HIT HIM HARD
@@jp3032 KARMA AND ALL THE BAD THINGS OF LIFE WOULD HIT YOUR FAV HARD
She lost a good man
So heartbreaking.
This is quite up there with the worst pain another person can inflict on you without putting their hand on you. She loved him when no one knew him but everyone wanted to be her and be with her. Only to leave after finding success and leaving her on the lurch after wasting majority of her twenties with him.
He hella used her. He was nobody, she told him to audition for Elvis, then suddenly they break up? SUS ASF 🔍🤔👁️
KARMA WILL HIT HIM HARD
He used her for what, its not light she was Angelina Jolie or zendaya with a good track record
@@jp3032 karma would hit your fav hard when she can't have kids 😂😂😂
@@lindafrancis1237 she was at least famous and known. He was not. Tell me you're a Stan for him without telling me 🥱
She deserves so much better. This boy will forever regret losing such a gem of Lady.
he didn't deserve her
She didn't deserve him
Guys typically do this after breakups. Idk why they can’t handle being friends or cordial 🤷🏽♀️
Sharon knew she was behind them and stopped like that on purpose. Rude and petty.
U can be with a person for many years,thinking his the one bcz of time spent together and eventually he might marry u. But the truth is once u realize he's not in the same mindset as u. It hurts more then anything knowing he never was the one who u thought he was.
Wow there must be some real experts on love in this comment section cuz a lot of the replies are incredibly insightful on a relationship they have only seen from media perspective
😂😂😂😂😂
Vanessa is beautiful she will find her person 😊
I'll say she will get more beautiful. Mark my words
She's engaged now...
Girl is straight up living a Halsey song.
10 years and no ring 😳 she is brave for that
Sometimes its easier to pretend that other person doesn't exist... Or not being fake in public...
It's the song it got me fucked up now goodnight I have to listen to music for an hour now and cry lol
It just horrible that he starts picking up fame and he dumps her.
HE'S ENJOYING A MODEL NOW BUT KARMA WILL CATCH UP TO HIM. HE WILL REALIZE HE LOST A GEM OF A WOMAN. VANESSA SUPPORTED HIM WHEN HE WAS A NOBODY.
She was the one that broke things off when he decided to focus on elvis
@@jp3032 pained vanessa old clown
It’s super sad, just in general how you can give yourself to someone, so vulnerable then become complete strangers. Life is weird
Isn’t it strange…from strangers to friends. Friends into lovers….and strangers again…🥺
@KBALMO:she still calls him a friend according to one interview
And what hurts the most.. that people can go from people you know, to people you dont.......
Selena gomez❤
Crazy how she was a placeholder girlfriend
KARMA WILL HIT HIM HARD
@@jp3032I hope it does but sometimes (most times) karma doesn’t exist
@@LymphaticSystem-of3vngod is within us god is watching us
"People can go from people you know to people you don't "
My Mom always told me remember you were born alone and you might very well leave this earth alone so don't get comfortable making anyone your home.
I was together with my for 18 years - n from one day to the next we became strangers - I can’t remember much about him to be honest
That just means you moved on. Nothing wrong with that, if something doesn't work out it's for the best to do that so you can make room for another chapter
Its not about years its about quality
She didnt lost her 10 years... We all are human we fail but we win. Whatever happens we always learnt..
Life is a lesson
He's always going to regret that. She's engaged now.
“Strangers to friends, friends into lovers, and strangers again.” -Strange, Celeste
*people can go to people you know to people you dont*
He would never find someone as pretty and kind as Vanessa
I think this is the thing that is so crazy abt love… just how you can go to being strangers so quickly
Can’t wait for Austin’s career to go down in a few years. He wasted her years while using her to support himself when he had nothing. She supported him, encouraged him & was nothing but loving to him yet he felt that he needed someone else to be by his side to be successful. He replaced her with a younger woman who has well known parents to get his name more connected in Hollywood. Can’t wait for Austin’s karma.
he’d be nothing if it weren’t for her-
Funny. Who is Vanessa again? Oh, the one with the more or less successful high school musical Disney movies from decades ago...she is nobody, and Austin owns his success.
@@za4arovashka Lmaooo ur funny nobody knew abt his existence until the movie elvis and vanessa helped him get the role
@@za4arovashka and who even are u 💀
@@za4arovashka AUSTIN WAS FAMOUS BEFORE ELVIS? OK IN YOUR IMAGINATION
@@za4arovashka TELL TOUR GUY TO MOVE ON FROM THE FAKE ACCENT 😂
Why is everyone blaming Austin? ‘She wasted her time’ ‘she was so great and supportive’ ‘He used her’ what about him? He also wasted a decade on this relationship. Yes they didn’t get married but FOR A REASON. must have had issues! And if they wanted to why couldn’t Vanessa propose? Why does all the responsibility fall on Austin?
oh and I don’t believe Austin used her, that’s just speculation…and even if he did, Hollywood is all about connections, just look at every actor! To get her connections he could have even become a good friend instead of wasting a DECADE of his life on this relationship? Oh and connections exist for lots but the reason he could pave his way in Hollywood was bc he’s a good actor! Don’t deny it. Chances are he would have made it by himself and with other people’s connections as well (which are easy to create! She also ended it
They both got happily engaged 2-3 years later and Vanessa is married now too…everything happens for a reason but why is everyone always blaming Austin, the man! People move on and sometimes it’s not meant to be, but people still hold on 🤷♀️ and their relationship is none of our business we don’t know who was right or wrong nor do we know either personally…
I’ll show her what a man is! If a had the chance I’ll do it. Too late I’m married! I just don’t want her to lose faith in Us men! We are not all dad
Thank goodness there are men that don't want kids.
Aquela velha história. Se com 10 anos não casou, então, não vai mais.
The way Austin grabbed his heart when he saw Vanessa walk by ....