Getting Ready For Marriage: Single Life, Looking For Someone, & Courting
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 มิ.ย. 2021
- Due to high demand we discuss a profound topic surrounding getting married young. Featuring Sheikh Fuad tune into a lighthearted, insightful, and thorough discussion with the subject of preparing oneself for marriage, misconceptions, challenges, and more.
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Hadiths Mentioned
sunnah.com/bukhari:5066
sunnah.com/bukhari:3113
sunnah.com/ibnmajah:1846
sunnah.com/bukhari/81/63
sunnah.com/bukhari:5096
Quran Verse Mentioned
quran.com/24/32?translations=...
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TBH I really want to see sisters talk about this topic so they can discuss their own ideas/thoughts.
Actually
Try Honest Tea Talk
@@modoulaminsaidy9018 Lol, yeah let's recommend that feminist podcast for 'muslimahs'...
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Loved the video barakallahu feek!
Ay keep it goin love the talks ma shaa allah
And generally good topic 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽may Allah protect uh guys
Best video ever,full of wisdom Masha Allah
I have really learned alot from this MashaAllah it is very beneficial 😊
mashallah may Allah reward you for the work you have done. thank you and jazakallah khairan
MashaAllah an informative podcast as always 🔥
We need more of sheikh faud
This is a really good video
Your absolutely right the Quran is our solution to all issues we face/encounter .The Quran is the instruction manual of our life and living. Allah gave us His wisdom through the holly Quran. In which contains the direct instruction how to achieve the success in present life and hereafter. May Allah grant us all pious spouse that will lead us to Jannah 🤲🏽
Mashallah. Love from Sweden
yessir they got ustadh fuad on here, Barakallahu Feekum
wa feek. We had to do it 💯
Mashallah great video
mashallah very informative
Paying mehr is a negotiation if the girl asks for a certain amount of money it doesn’t matter how much and the guy is willing to pay that then alhamdullilah may allah swt bless their marriage. Don’t make it seem like a girl asking for high mehr is haram or a bad thing you guys might not be able to pay that but there are men who will happily pay that amount👍🏽
The best mehr, is the lowest mehr. These girls with 100k mehr don't even practice half their Deen, they just want the money, it's not rocket science.
@@Ahmed-ny1xc That's wrong. She can ask for a trillion dollars and she wont be any less than a women who ask for a single dollar.
I wish these podcasts were on Spotify 😩 but Alhamdulillah this is very good and helpful too! Keep up the good work🤍
Check Apple podcast sister.
Parents refuse marriages for their own selfish reasons. They just don't want to help the young couple financially to get married. Which is very sad because it's not difficult to allow them to live with you for a year or two!
At some point its about pple uh are frnds with if all uh frnds hv gf and uh dont hv uh will automatically look for one but when uh attach urself with good frnds who contantly remind uh of Allah and the here after there is zero chance to engage in such things .....but at end of the day we just ask Allah(sw)to guide us and protect us from all evil.
Something that's rlly toxic i our culture is that the elder siblings should get married first and without that the younger can't marry. My dad was 21 and my mom was 18 when when they got engaged but the parents delayed the marriage so much that when they got married my dad was 30 and my mom was 27 and they had gone thru a tough time
@Nader's salad whiskey it's culture that's toxic not the religion. In islam if u have the means to get married then u should as marriage complete half our faith
SubhanAllah.I keep being told I need to finish my degree and then find a good-paying job then think about marriage. It doesn't make sense to me. I've been living on my own for the past few years, Nothing is paid for me and I pay for everything, do my own laundry, clean my apartment etc. MashaAllah I work and earn a living with a flexible job and plan to finish school with no debt and Allah is the greatest planner. There shouldn't be so many roadblocks for me to get married but All I get is zero support from my family. I think I will keep on trying to find a wife if it's written for me it will happen insha'Allah and WAllahu A3lm. Jazakum Allah Khair. Im learning and binging through all the episodes right now.
i would start looking now so you can learn. It takes many attempts to find potentials which can take 3-5 yrs.
@@befree9579 does he need his parents approval to be married?
I love ur mentality. I learnt a lot from u. Thank you
Asalamu Alaykum 👋 From Western Canada. Been watching your podcast for about 4-5 months now.
I think you should change your name brother you're name means "slave of Ugas" May Allah give you good
@@yd5698 وعليكم السلام
Thanks for the kind words. “Abdu” is just a short form of my first name to keep some level of anonymity.
@@abduugas Oh ok thanks for the clarification
@@yd5698 No worries!
@@abduugas if I were you I would write my initials to make it more anonymous like I did you know
I'm 28yr old sister, I completed my higher education, been in a career for 3 years, I'm modest and strive in my deen, I don't leave the house much or socialize with men. I live in MN and lots of Somali sisters my age are struggling to find good men, we come from single mother households. So our mothers might not have a large options to help us, I feel like the only option left is going to the masjid but there are lots of women already on waiting lists for marriage with no prospects. It feel lonely and many sisters feel hopeless as we want children and have never been in relationships. I have also opened my options to practicing reverts, because looking in our community has gotten me no where except childish men who do not want to address their trauma.I put my trust in Allah and go through my emotions as they come.
Subhanallh ! Sorry for that. I would like to encourage my fellow Muslim men to engage and show light of hop to such ladies who are grewing older and older.
Perhaps you are in kenya I could have sort out this heartbreak issue.
But observe sabr you wil get a relief after hardship
That’s the issue many sisters face after finishing higher education without family focussing on helping the sister get married. All this education won’t matter when you have kid after kid and you won’t be working. Brothers aged 28-32 will be looking to marry 20-24 yr olds not similar aged women whose eggs 90% have gone. Not blaming anyone but this is an ongoing issue which families should be tackling.
Ma sha allah, you guys touched on great points. I gotta say money is the #1 reason a lot of people don’t get married. In the U.S. if your willing to get married you need approximately $80k- $100k if not more. It’s sad that the haram is so easy to do and the halal became an obstacle. Marriage is a business deal nowadays.
I loved the podcast! Ma sha allah keep it up!
Wth bro $80k - 100k for wedding cost or to be married as a man? that's ridicolous.
25:00
Should’ve used Quran/sunnah based advice when listing what to look for in a spouse @33min & reference your sources jzk
Generally, for marriage, one needs the minimum cost of living as income.
Don't bring exceptions or anecdotes of "I know so and so who did it" or "I did it"
I am speaking in general.
Generally, girls' parents refuse to look nor consider you if you don't have ALL of the following afforded.
No debt
Substantial mahr.
rent for 1-bedroom.
Bills: phone(s), electricity, heat, water, internet
Transportation: Car (can be used), also includes vehicle insurance, gas
Food: enough to feed 2 people per month
I mean that’s the basics tbh