To whoever needs to hear this. Ladies don’t give up so easily, these men are not worth your self worth. Life gets better so don’t give up. Times have change and things are not like 1975 anymore. Women have rights now and you have the right to be happy. You will look back years from now and be amaze at yourself at how much you went through. God bless you always ❤❤❤
The poor woman. Her parents are to be blamed for her miserable life . Her mother is the worst person of all. I hope her parents live with the guilt forever.
Koj yog tus neeg zoo. Pab tu siab. Thov cia peb Tej menyuam xaiv lawv tus hlub es lawv thiaj li tsis muaj kev tu siab os Hmoob aw. Zoo thiab phem los yog lawv xaiv na.
So unfortunate for your first wife and old girlfriend. I’m glad you never cross that line while you were married. You’re a good guy to your new wife too, you are the true definition of marriage thru sickness and health.
Tiag2 ces kom police ntes cov laus uas pheej yuam2 cov ntxhais rov qab mus yuav tus niag txiv ntaus neeg ntawv naw, lawv yeej paub lawm tias tus neeg ntaus neeg ces nws yeej yuav ntaus tas mus li os. Cas zoo li nej yug nej cov ntxhais tsis mob nej plab thiab nej tsis hlub kiag li es nej pheej muab yuam mus rau lub qhov tuag na hmoob.
Peb ua neeg nyob tsis yog tim koj txoj hmoo phem es yuav tau tug twg los lub neej phem. Peb nyias nqa nyias ib txoj hmoo los ua neej. Peb tsuas nyob ua neej raws peb txoj hmoo.
Exactly. Only wrong when a woman cheat. This rule was created by man so only man has rights. SMH… and how ridiculous is her mom to beg her brother to take her daughter back as his daughter in law when he encouraged his son’s cheating and abusive behaviors! What a horrible mother that could be at peace when your daughter is being abused.
Qhov koj tus qub hluas nkauj tuag vim yog nws niam nws txiv yog tus tsim nws tu tu siab es nws thiaj li ua 1 siab tuag lawm xwb cov niam tais yawm txiv zoo li no tus ntxhais tuag neb txhob quaj nawb mog neb yeej txaus siab cia neb tus ntxhais tuag lawm nrog neb tus ntxhais tu siab ua nws tau 1 leej niam leej txiv tsis hlub nws tu tu siab tuag kus
Tus txiv tsev, tsi tus siab, tsi txhob kuv xim. Txawm koj tsi tus tseem los tub tau tws neeg khws lawm. Tus txiv tsev, koj hais yuam kev lawm. Yog koj tuav koj tus hluas nkauj tes thaum nws lub puas zaum ib. Koj tub tsi kam tuav nws tes. Zaub ob los koj tub tsi kam tuav nws tes so nws lub kua muag thiab cawm nws txoj kev mob siab ntsws. Nws ib nyuas hais tias koj xob mus tes koj txawm ua vaub kib nkaum zog. Yog koj cia lis mus ntsi kiag nws tej zaum nub no nws tseem nrog koj nyob. Tsi tim koj ntau los tim me. Pis tsawg zaug los koj yeej ib kauj ruam qeeb. Hlub koj poj niam, Txawm nws pab tsi tau koj los hlub kom txua es thiaj tag kev txaum. Yog koj hmoo hlob tes koj cawm tau cov neeg ua koj tag los lawm. Yog hmoo me es tsawg zaug los thiaj tau txais kev nyuaj siab ntxhov plawv xwb.
Brother, be happy. Love your wife. I m happy you hang there to take care of her. I am a single dad now. My wife passed away 2 years ago. I still live with my siblings. If you just marry a woman's no problems. But you marry to the right woman good heart and mind it hard to find one.
You could have helped her. You could have made a difference. You had the chance. The world didn’t have to know how you would have helped her. How do you keep regretting? Let alone feel bad for her
He's helped her many times. The only thing he didn't do is marry her. She has to learn to live life by herself. Think for herself. But she gave up. That's not his fault. He did what he can. I'm just thankful he didn't harm himself first when she first got married. Anyways. Stay safe. Take care. ❤
Niam ntsuab teev aw kv yv ua ca kv thiab sau tau ntv rau koj o kv noog kj txhua2 zaj dab neeg kv cau koj lo ntev hv li lawm kv xav kom kj pab hai kv zaj dab neeg rau kv thiab o
I wish you would have elaborated more on their teenage relationship to paint a bigger picture of how strong their relationship was and why he was never able to let her go.
You as the "brother" should had told your yawm yij to not talk to other girls becuase hes married. Dont even feel sad for her cause seems like you dont care and when you had the chance to marry her again, YOU DIDNT.
Haha. It's not like he telling him to stop talking to other girls and he will stop. He'll just hate him. He cares but he's single and she now has a kid. If you're single and your ex-boyfriend is divorced with a kid, I doubt you would want to marry him either. Also, "qub nkauj qub nraug" getting back together rarely works out.
Agree to an extent. It's easier said than done. For one, she's now divorced with a kid and he's never been married. Two, everyone, especially her ex and ex's father will accuse him that the reason she divorce, instead of staying and put up with the beating, was to go back to him.
Tsis tsim nyog koj mus pe tom nkawv tsev, koj uas li no tsis zoo saib thiab nws tus txiv chim rau neb, nws tus txiv txhob txwm ua phem rau nws kom mob neb ob leeg siab. Koj yeej xav thab plaub.
Txawm yog hmoob siv li no rau hmoob tej ntxhais es Dr suav yaj thiaj li qhia txog koom haum ntiajteb txoj cai pov puag tibneeg ua neej haistias, ua li hmoob ua mas txhaum nom tswv txoj cai thiab rhuav lub npe hmoob ntsej muag thoob plaws qab ntuj. koj tus nus npaws ko tsis tas khuv xim los laus li no, koj twb pom tias yog koj tus qub hluas nkauj uas luag txeeb ntawm koj mus lawm, yog luag tsis hlub cas thaum nws rov qab los koj ho lees txais tsis tau ? koj yog neeg dag koj txojkev hlub nws tsis muaj tseeb ? kuv ntseeg tias txawm koj tau los koj yeej yuav tsis hlub ib yam nkaus tsis txhob los hus2 koj kwj tse toog pob ntseg kuv ntxub cov neeg dag li koj heev.
We parents should never play God with our daughters’ choice in spouse. I feel sad for your girlfriend who took her own life. You are a good man for staying with your wife despite her health condition. God bless you.
Txiv neej hmoob mas yeej ruam li no ib qho ob qho los tsuas hnov hais khiv xim tus hluas nkauj xwb ruam dhau lawm os . Cuag li qab ntuj no tsis muaj hluas nkauj li lawm os txiv neej hlwb dej
It’s very unfortunate that she took her own life, there’s many ways out of a bad marriage. Before, doing something stupid to yourself, think about the kids first. Very sad story. She’s only on her second husband, don’t worry. Look at Jennifer Lopez, she’s on her what 7th guy. Even if she was to divorce her second husband, so what, she’s not the only one to divorce that many husband. Don’t die for men.
Yog cov tXiv neej zoo2 li koj muaj tsawg heev li os hlub neb khuv xim neb txoj kev hlub 😢
To whoever needs to hear this. Ladies don’t give up so easily, these men are not worth your self worth. Life gets better so don’t give up. Times have change and things are not like 1975 anymore. Women have rights now and you have the right to be happy. You will look back years from now and be amaze at yourself at how much you went through. God bless you always ❤❤❤
Niam ntuas teeb aw kv yv ua ca thiab sau ntv rau koj o kv xav kom kj pab hai kv zaj dab neeg rau kv o
I agreed. We shouldn’t practice any old ways that have such a negative impact.
The poor woman. Her parents are to be blamed for her miserable life . Her mother is the worst person of all. I hope her parents live with the guilt forever.
Agrees
Koj mas dag li dag xwb yog hlub npaum li koj hais ces koj yeej yuav nws thaum nws nrauj txiv rov los lawm.
Koj yog tus neeg zoo. Pab tu siab. Thov cia peb Tej menyuam xaiv lawv tus hlub es lawv thiaj li tsis muaj kev tu siab os Hmoob aw. Zoo thiab phem los yog lawv xaiv na.
Yog koj pab nws ces nws yeej tsis tuag ces nyaj koj yuav tsis tu siab npaum no
Zoo kawg li os
So unfortunate for your first wife and old girlfriend. I’m glad you never cross that line while you were married. You’re a good guy to your new wife too, you are the true definition of marriage thru sickness and health.
Ib tug neeg yog khuvxim npaum ntawv twb nrauj txiv lo ca ho tsi yuav e ho lo seev na
Yog o thaub no dag xwb o
Pab koj tu siab kawg rau koj lub neej os😢
Koj khuv xim koj tu muam npaws npaum koj thaum nw lo ua poj nrauj 1ca ho tsi yuav tseem cia nw tuag lawm thiab
Cas tsis yuav thauj nws rov los thiaj tsis khuv xim naw..
Koj yeej tsis khuv xim koj tus qub hluas nkauj tiag yog koj yeej khuv xim nws npaum ntawv thaum nws nrauj txiv los thawj zaug koj yeej yuav nws lawm
Tiag2 ces kom police ntes cov laus uas pheej yuam2 cov ntxhais rov qab mus yuav tus niag txiv ntaus neeg ntawv naw, lawv yeej paub lawm tias tus neeg ntaus neeg ces nws yeej yuav ntaus tas mus li os. Cas zoo li nej yug nej cov ntxhais tsis mob nej plab thiab nej tsis hlub kiag li es nej pheej muab yuam mus rau lub qhov tuag na hmoob.
Peb ua neeg nyob tsis yog tim koj txoj hmoo phem es yuav tau tug twg los lub neej phem. Peb nyias nqa nyias ib txoj hmoo los ua neej. Peb tsuas nyob ua neej raws peb txoj hmoo.
Yus twb tsi yuav es khuv xim dab tsi os
29:16 I’ve always said it. This is the truth about Hmong religion. Nothing is wrong with a Hmong man cheating.
Exactly. Only wrong when a woman cheat. This rule was created by man so only man has rights. SMH… and how ridiculous is her mom to beg her brother to take her daughter back as his daughter in law when he encouraged his son’s cheating and abusive behaviors! What a horrible mother that could be at peace when your daughter is being abused.
Yg lawm o niam laus
You really only loved her like a sister. Platonic love, that was the love you gave her.
Sorry for all your losses. ❤
Qhov koj tus qub hluas nkauj tuag vim yog nws niam nws txiv yog tus tsim nws tu tu siab es nws thiaj li ua 1 siab tuag lawm xwb cov niam tais yawm txiv zoo li no tus ntxhais tuag neb txhob quaj nawb mog neb yeej txaus siab cia neb tus ntxhais tuag lawm nrog neb tus ntxhais tu siab ua nws tau 1 leej niam leej txiv tsis hlub nws tu tu siab tuag kus
Ntuj aw!!!yog kuv ces ntsov nyuj khuam nkaus nram laj kab lawm os .
Yog nws tus tub tsis ntaus kuv tus ntxhais ces nws yeej tsis mag kaw li os.
Tus txiv tsev, tsi tus siab, tsi txhob kuv xim. Txawm koj tsi tus tseem los tub tau tws neeg khws lawm. Tus txiv tsev, koj hais yuam kev lawm. Yog koj tuav koj tus hluas nkauj tes thaum nws lub puas zaum ib. Koj tub tsi kam tuav nws tes. Zaub ob los koj tub tsi kam tuav nws tes so nws lub kua muag thiab cawm nws txoj kev mob siab ntsws. Nws ib nyuas hais tias koj xob mus tes koj txawm ua vaub kib nkaum zog. Yog koj cia lis mus ntsi kiag nws tej zaum nub no nws tseem nrog koj nyob. Tsi tim koj ntau los tim me. Pis tsawg zaug los koj yeej ib kauj ruam qeeb. Hlub koj poj niam, Txawm nws pab tsi tau koj los hlub kom txua es thiaj tag kev txaum. Yog koj hmoo hlob tes koj cawm tau cov neeg ua koj tag los lawm. Yog hmoo me es tsawg zaug los thiaj tau txais kev nyuaj siab ntxhov plawv xwb.
Brother, be happy. Love your wife. I m happy you hang there to take care of her. I am a single dad now. My wife passed away 2 years ago. I still live with my siblings. If you just marry a woman's no problems. But you marry to the right woman good heart and mind it hard to find one.
I feel sorry for those young girl
Who’s married in the 90s. As I grew up. I never want to marry a soccer guy.
I agree. We were so nieve and were taught to listen to parents. If only we knew than what we know now.
😂
My x was a hardcore Hmong tournament soccer. 10 yrs of living hell with him.
@@minamoua6546 I’m glad that you got out
The earlier you run away from toxic marriage, the better it is for you
You could have helped her. You could have made a difference. You had the chance. The world didn’t have to know how you would have helped her. How do you keep regretting? Let alone feel bad for her
He's helped her many times. The only thing he didn't do is marry her. She has to learn to live life by herself. Think for herself. But she gave up. That's not his fault. He did what he can. I'm just thankful he didn't harm himself first when she first got married. Anyways. Stay safe. Take care. ❤
😢so sad
Niam ntsuab teev aw kv yv ua ca kv thiab sau tau ntv rau koj o kv noog kj txhua2 zaj dab neeg kv cau koj lo ntev hv li lawm kv xav kom kj pab hai kv zaj dab neeg rau kv thiab o
Koj ua yog lawm.
I wish you would have elaborated more on their teenage relationship to paint a bigger picture of how strong their relationship was and why he was never able to let her go.
You as the "brother" should had told your yawm yij to not talk to other girls becuase hes married. Dont even feel sad for her cause seems like you dont care and when you had the chance to marry her again, YOU DIDNT.
Haha. It's not like he telling him to stop talking to other girls and he will stop. He'll just hate him. He cares but he's single and she now has a kid. If you're single and your ex-boyfriend is divorced with a kid, I doubt you would want to marry him either. Also, "qub nkauj qub nraug" getting back together rarely works out.
I don't understand why you couldn't love & take her back when she only had 1 child, yet you claim that you love & Miss her?
Cas es yuav pab koj Tus muas kawg os
If you really loved her you should’ve married her. Maybe she would still be alive today
I agree with you
Agree to an extent. It's easier said than done. For one, she's now divorced with a kid and he's never been married. Two, everyone, especially her ex and ex's father will accuse him that the reason she divorce, instead of staying and put up with the beating, was to go back to him.
Tsis tsim nyog koj mus pe tom nkawv tsev, koj uas li no tsis zoo saib thiab nws tus txiv chim rau neb, nws tus txiv txhob txwm ua phem rau nws kom mob neb ob leeg siab. Koj yeej xav thab plaub.
Poj niam ruam es thiaj li yuam tus ntxais mus yuav niag tub dev ntawv
Txawm yog hmoob siv li no rau hmoob tej ntxhais es Dr suav yaj thiaj li qhia txog koom haum ntiajteb txoj cai pov puag tibneeg ua neej haistias, ua li hmoob ua mas txhaum nom tswv txoj cai thiab rhuav lub npe hmoob ntsej muag thoob plaws qab ntuj. koj tus nus npaws ko tsis tas khuv xim los laus li no, koj twb pom tias yog koj tus qub hluas nkauj uas luag txeeb ntawm koj mus lawm, yog luag tsis hlub cas thaum nws rov qab los koj ho lees txais tsis tau ? koj yog neeg dag koj txojkev hlub nws tsis muaj tseeb ? kuv ntseeg tias txawm koj tau los koj yeej yuav tsis hlub ib yam nkaus tsis txhob los hus2 koj kwj tse toog pob ntseg kuv ntxub cov neeg dag li koj heev.
Nej cov txiv neej uas. nej tus hluas nkauj twb mus yuav txiv lawm los. nej tseem pheej mus thuv luag..es yog nej xav li cas..
So sad!!! Thank u for sharing ur story brother.
❤❤❤
We parents should never play God with our daughters’ choice in spouse. I feel sad for your girlfriend who took her own life. You are a good man for staying with your wife despite her health condition. God bless you.
😅o
Lp
I totally hate when parents play guru.
3q
Txiv neej hmoob mas yeej ruam li no ib qho ob qho los tsuas hnov hais khiv xim tus hluas nkauj xwb ruam dhau lawm os . Cuag li qab ntuj no tsis muaj hluas nkauj li lawm os txiv neej hlwb dej
So sad... 😭
HPP. Hmoob people problem.
Why don’t you love your wife bc she’s your wife? Don’t love her to prove others how loving you are or love her in your ex place 🤦♂️
Seems like you got hit by the BAD LUCK stick!😢
It’s very unfortunate that she took her own life, there’s many ways out of a bad marriage. Before, doing something stupid to yourself, think about the kids first. Very sad story. She’s only on her second husband, don’t worry. Look at Jennifer Lopez, she’s on her what 7th guy. Even if she was to divorce her second husband, so what, she’s not the only one to divorce that many husband. Don’t die for men.
Sim Neej no ...yog yuav txheeb ze es siab phem ua luaj li ces tseg ncua txhob yuav ntxiv lawm o hmoob e
Hahaha,dab luas dab luas ruam tiag tiag hmoob nas niam dab luas Haha
Your life so sad 😢 unfortunate life.
Nyuam ghuav ntim xwb nws xaiv nws ne !
Tim koj tsi hlub nws txhb tias khuv xim ntxim ntxub xb os
Those parents are something else. Sad story.
Tab tom xwb os
Tim niag niam xwb
Tim niag poj niam ruam xwb os
Jux by reading some comments too boring not gonna even waste my battery
Why this guy so ruam tshaj ruam omg
The poor cousin did the right thing to leave her first husband but is not so smart to kill herself. My deepest condolences to you
Not trying to bash u bro but i believe u couldve helped her before she committed suicide…
What is the point?
Way too boring
Sounds like a fake story.