Sista Can't Believe Her Friend Dumped A Good Man For Not Having A Brand New Car

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  • The dating pool for single Brothas is horrible.

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  • @jay-t1030
    @jay-t1030 ปีที่แล้ว +641

    Crazy how us men have to be financially stable to date broke women😂

    • @Tienatra
      @Tienatra ปีที่แล้ว +55

      lol make it make sense

    • @12Gates.
      @12Gates. ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Broke and broken women

    • @miltonelliott8506
      @miltonelliott8506 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You're right JT I've been through that

    • @lirej2307
      @lirej2307 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      It makes no sense 😂

    • @smh7888
      @smh7888 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Even the ones on housing have the nerve to expect a man to be captain save a hoe to them and their 3 to 4 kids 😒

  • @Lovingthemarriedlife
    @Lovingthemarriedlife ปีที่แล้ว +189

    She actually did him a favor by dumping him. She wasn't the one.

  • @rangerwalker5369
    @rangerwalker5369 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    I have a saying, "A woman who doesn't ask for anything, deserves everything".

  • @TheDarylMack
    @TheDarylMack ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Old car = no car note !

  • @Yahfirstinme
    @Yahfirstinme ปีที่แล้ว +175

    That man dodged a bullet!!!! She didn't deserve him. If she was so concerned about a car why didn't she buy HIM one????

    • @realtalk6720
      @realtalk6720 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That part 👈 😂😂😂

    • @smh7888
      @smh7888 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Real Talk if he's smart he deleted her # immediately. She will try to come back after the next one pump and dump her, don't be weak don't even entertain a ungrateful woman.

    • @Knightboomer_559
      @Knightboomer_559 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Like Neo in the Matrix!

    • @MADNEWYORKER914
      @MADNEWYORKER914 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes he did!!!

    • @majorlazor5058
      @majorlazor5058 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She is so short sighted. That car payment he isn’t paying could go straight to her! A year of car payments is equal to an international trip for 2 people 😂😂.

  • @astriverofstrengthandknowledge
    @astriverofstrengthandknowledge ปีที่แล้ว +304

    For the longest time, I thought being alone and single would be depressing in this day and age. But now, I realize there is a difference between being alone and being with someone who makes you feel lonely.

    • @veganninja5886
      @veganninja5886 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Exactly! Being single has been the best thing for me. Its way better than being rejected or judged by women for what I dont have.

    • @SolitudeofaTiger
      @SolitudeofaTiger ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@veganninja5886 I don’t mind. I sit on my porch in the evenings reading my comicbooks enjoying the breeze.

    • @kellypittman7004
      @kellypittman7004 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      it's better than messing up your timing for someone who would actually love you for you.

    • @kellypittman7004
      @kellypittman7004 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@veganninja5886 well said bro. Most seem to want you to be a millionaire when they don't have much to offer than what is between their legs.

    • @lionessontherise2403
      @lionessontherise2403 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Now this is Speaking truth at amplified volumes!!

  • @sonjastanley1067
    @sonjastanley1067 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    When I met my husband, he was 22, living at home and had no car. But he had a great career and a nice nest egg built up, and he's never had me want for anything. Don't let petty things make you miss out on a great husband.

    • @KnowledgeSeeker78491
      @KnowledgeSeeker78491 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      These women don't tend to be great women, they just happen to look good

    • @warriorklan8444
      @warriorklan8444 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You did right sister congratulations on a good choice in a mate ?

    • @truezladye1893
      @truezladye1893 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same, a car doesn't define who a man is.

  • @thefm4506
    @thefm4506 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    Man this is a major reason why dating and being in a relationship isn't worth the hassle anymore

    • @Aaron-gn5sj
      @Aaron-gn5sj ปีที่แล้ว +10

      💯

    • @Nightrain349
      @Nightrain349 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Haven't dated in America in damn near 8 years.

    • @damianmccallie3980
      @damianmccallie3980 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That Real facts bro 💯

    • @cf6168
      @cf6168 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Nightrain349 it’s been 7 for me

    • @ElijahKMcCoy
      @ElijahKMcCoy ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@cf6168 10 for me!

  • @damianmccallie3980
    @damianmccallie3980 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    Being a single man is the best decisions I ever made in my life.✊

    • @jordanepps1156
      @jordanepps1156 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I’m just now figuring out this journey as a young men I’m so thankful that god put men on the earth that I can learn from I love all y’all fellas real talk 💪💯

    • @jaysbostonemergencyrespons8970
      @jaysbostonemergencyrespons8970 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Join the party bro

    • @ktv9247
      @ktv9247 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The problem is that is not human nature to be alone

    • @vipe7ify
      @vipe7ify ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You didn't all the message, look for right woman , we all get old and its lonely growing old alone

    • @juliuscastro
      @juliuscastro ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U just gotta find the right one

  • @carolharrison6718
    @carolharrison6718 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Sounds like he dodged a headache and liability 👏👏👏 Foolish women.

  • @djfields1
    @djfields1 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Every 17 and up male needs to hear this. So when they turn 18, hit the ground running. Trust me, kids you need to hear this.

  • @redman1225
    @redman1225 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I knew I met the right woman FOR ME, 20 yrs ago, we were engaged and I took her to look at brand new homes in a brand new neighborhood, she asked me why are we looking at these houses? I said when we get married, we can move into one [I had a nice bachelor pad] she was at home with her mom, she said, we don’t have to buy a new house, I can move into yours, I said ok, how about I buy you a brand new car for a wedding gift? She said why do that? I have a nice car that I just paid off and I like it, I was like…wow!,,, I got a good one here, we’ve been married going on 21 yrs, in the same house, I eventually bought her a new car that she wanted, but we live comfortably. We don’t try and “keep up with the Jones’s”

    • @bezmoney
      @bezmoney ปีที่แล้ว +8

      God Bless You

    • @b9479
      @b9479 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Bro you found a 💎

    • @butterflygirl01
      @butterflygirl01 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She settled for less. Too scared to ask a man for anything 😂

    • @autobotdiva9268
      @autobotdiva9268 ปีที่แล้ว

      💑

    • @mikekeyes78
      @mikekeyes78 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah but it seem like you were tryna buy her love tho

  • @eddiej4208
    @eddiej4208 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Why do women come into a man's life and try to rip him apart because he didn't become this imaginary man she made up in her head

  • @nikkiahanks7565
    @nikkiahanks7565 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I don't know where all this entitlement is coming from especially in the black community.

    • @TheEnigmaticBM39
      @TheEnigmaticBM39 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Feminist ideology and not having anything growing up

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Fantasy/entitlement aka living vicariously through others tax brackets

    • @bambinoesu
      @bambinoesu ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Disney

    • @cmaccmcqueen7639
      @cmaccmcqueen7639 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Social media. They weren’t that stupid before 06.

    • @TopFlightSecurity415
      @TopFlightSecurity415 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      its social media, they're willing to risk going broke and in dept trying to keep up with the joneses smh

  • @gideo5792
    @gideo5792 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    What’s insane is that these modern women will have all of these delusional demands, yet will give Pookie and ReyRey as many kids as they want for free. 🤷🏿

  • @spicymamamccaleb5747
    @spicymamamccaleb5747 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    ‘His car is old’ bihh at least he has a car, wth😂🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @jaymorgan.
    @jaymorgan. ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Meanwhile they go back to dating Pookie and Ray Ray with no car. Pookie and Ray Ray typically drive their women’s car or rentals. 😂

    • @cmaccmcqueen7639
      @cmaccmcqueen7639 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tbh Pookies are winning. The question is the prize worth it?

    • @BlackAmerican-u8e
      @BlackAmerican-u8e ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yup Pookie and Ray Ray will always have them dropping them underwear while you got to go the extra mile just to get some interaction.. I'm so over these women out here bruh

  • @Honmura17
    @Honmura17 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    At this point, Brothers should expand their options outside the US. It's a lost cause...

    • @logent80
      @logent80 ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely!!

    • @brandonwombacher2559
      @brandonwombacher2559 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dating Is Pointless.

    • @esmooth300
      @esmooth300 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@theoneandonlyK01 Typical, black, stank, μoe.

    • @LuciferTheDogKiller
      @LuciferTheDogKiller ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is a world wide issue, not just an american one.

    • @SVGIN
      @SVGIN ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OUR WOMAN JUST WANNA DATE RAPPERS UNFORTUNATELY!!!!!
      IVE MOVED TO POOR MEXICANS WHO HUST WANT TO LIVE...
      BLACK WOMAN YALL TAKE CARE

  • @jefferyoneal8629
    @jefferyoneal8629 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    She didn't dump him She dumped herself

  • @uncleg7676
    @uncleg7676 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    It was all about her wanting to be seen with a man in a new car, so she can brag to her friends. He dodged a bullet.

  • @honeybee4361
    @honeybee4361 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Everyone asked me after my Mom passed was I going to buy a new vehicle? Heck no its paid for and it was from my 👵🏾 Mom ❤

  • @bensisko-theemissary4940
    @bensisko-theemissary4940 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    The sister in the glasses is DEFINITELY my type. If I wasn’t already taken …

  • @karenchandler2921
    @karenchandler2921 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I am frugal, as well. But my late mom used to say to me when I would say to her, "I am frugal." Then she would say, "no, your cheap." Ah, the good ole days 😪.

    • @TheEnigmaticBM39
      @TheEnigmaticBM39 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @Hallam Dyal frugal is finding quality at a discount or fair price. Cheap is cutting corners on things of a perceived value. That's in my opinion.

    • @karenchandler2921
      @karenchandler2921 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@TheEnigmaticBM39 And your opinion is spot on. Thank you 😊

    • @macjoseph2375
      @macjoseph2375 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lol my mom says the same thing about me!

  • @Oba_Ewaunfo_
    @Oba_Ewaunfo_ ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Black family/community is about done. And people wonder why many of us single black men are “abandoning ship” to go “elsewhere”. This is shameful.

    • @kellypittman7004
      @kellypittman7004 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      but they will gang up to say men aint ish.

    • @TooDirty
      @TooDirty ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This is what happens when you put women's wants & needs above a community. The black community is about to learn a painful lesson in the next 10 years. We could possibly lose everything.

    • @butterflygirl01
      @butterflygirl01 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@TooDirtynope , y’all just left your families on your own and never built your community. What did u expect?

    • @johnlawful2272
      @johnlawful2272 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@butterflygirl01 yes the men who knocked y'all up and owe child support left their families

    • @relaxationstation7374
      @relaxationstation7374 ปีที่แล้ว

      How soon black women forget that it has in fact been black women who have spent the last 50 plus years vehemently claiming that they are strong, totally independent black women who are never, ever going to need a man of any kind for anything under any circumstances no matter what eventuality presents itself and that black men need to, "Get you a white woman!"

  • @CLTrattler704
    @CLTrattler704 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow! This reminds me of the time I took out a sister in Detroit for a date and she asked me why I did not have a new car. I explained to her that my car was only 6 years old, it was paid off, and I believed in purchasing appreciating assets, NOT depreciating assets. Needless to say, we only went out on one date. ✌🏽

  • @denesejamerson2356
    @denesejamerson2356 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This is why brothers are passing us up!

  • @turtlesage28
    @turtlesage28 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    This woman literally described me, no car note, it's 10 years old and runs beautifully. I'm established in my career. Always in the gym. So yeah the moment I see a hint of the modern woman I definitely turn around. Now IF I see a wholesome looking woman I will definitely shoot my shot. You preaching Phil. The woman in the video seems sweet. Her friend deserves to be played.

    • @AndreTheGiant85
      @AndreTheGiant85 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      The car gets you from point A to point B that's all that matters.

    • @iwalkupright
      @iwalkupright ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She walked straight down my street!!! 😂 It is the type of lifestyle which affords me practically anything I want.

    • @soinda87
      @soinda87 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good don’t be fooled with the narrative of fitting in.

    • @brucepower3429
      @brucepower3429 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I turn around too because the end result is always the same either she's gonna ghost or some BS from her side is gonna come your way.

    • @cerromeceo
      @cerromeceo ปีที่แล้ว

      Naw dude. When you see a modern woman bust those cheek, get your back rubbed and house clean then kick her to the curve

  • @joybrooks564
    @joybrooks564 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    That woman is immature. That guy dodged a bullet

  • @MrRollup10
    @MrRollup10 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The problem is nowadays you can't tell the materialistic women from the reasonable ones. Gold diggers don't stand out anymore. They all blended in together.

    • @no-oc2ov
      @no-oc2ov ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Conversations with them will definitely reveal who they really are!!

    • @MrRollup10
      @MrRollup10 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@no-oc2ov A whole helluva lot of conversations and time spent. Like several years worth.

    • @no-oc2ov
      @no-oc2ov ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@MrRollup10 no sir. Few convos can definitely let you know who are you dealing with. These materialistic ladies don't waste no time to grab grab lol

    • @MrRollup10
      @MrRollup10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@no-oc2ov That's definitely not always the case. There are a lot more chameleons out there nowadays. Trying to rush the vetting process is a good way to get took in this day and age. You really think you know these women after a few conversations, child please lol.

    • @no-oc2ov
      @no-oc2ov ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MrRollup10 not a child here. Full time college professor and I definitely know how to use conversations to scrutinize. You can spend years and if you are not smart in your conversations, it won't make any difference. Finding out a woman's preference on certain things shouldn't take years. No one can hide their obsession with materialistic things for years. They are leaving after some weeks or months when you haven't at least sent them to that designer store!!!!

  • @marlonmcconner2961
    @marlonmcconner2961 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I like this Sister’s attitude! I wish I was 30 years younger…okay, 40 years younger!!!😂

  • @godislove1602
    @godislove1602 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This bothers me so bad. That old car represents either:
    -contentment
    -financially wise
    -financially stable
    -forward thinking
    That friend makes me mad because a year later she’ll be looking back with intense regret complaining to everyone who will listen that no man values her.
    😩🤦🏽‍♀️ He dodged a bullet!

    • @esthernichols4451
      @esthernichols4451 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah. Or complaining when she sees him with a woman that actually values him, and she realizes she lost a good thing. Then will get on the internet and ask "where are all the good men?" My response, "you had one fool. But you gave him away". Smh

    • @cool_cat007smoove3
      @cool_cat007smoove3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said

  • @lesley5380
    @lesley5380 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I blame the Housewives franchises and other reality tv shows, for this warped reality of people out here smh.

    • @thenewjord50
      @thenewjord50 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And social media

    • @SVGIN
      @SVGIN ปีที่แล้ว +3

      BROTHAS YALL BETTER MOVE ON FROM THIS MESS...
      ALL THEY WANT IS RAPPERS ....
      ITS SAD BUT I MOVED ON 10 YRS AGO

    • @BlackAmerican-u8e
      @BlackAmerican-u8e ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SVGIN Yup.. if you not some hoodlum throwing up gang signs and talking about f*ckin multiple B**ches you already disqualified from a lot of these modern day Womens attention. But I'm glad I am. They can have them!!

    • @SVGIN
      @SVGIN ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm serious !!! All they want is jail birds 🐦 ...
      I moved on 10 yrs ago ! It got pointless

  • @pierrecalderone
    @pierrecalderone ปีที่แล้ว +11

    People like her friend will never be happy. She's ruined by past decisions that she's still making. The man was lucky.

  • @dosborne7041
    @dosborne7041 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Every time I look at my 2002 paid off working car, it brings joy to my heart... It has not let me down or left me hanging. I am committed to driving this car for the rest of its life. By the way, I have been making my old $500 car payment to myself ever since 2002.

    • @yvonneholmes9991
      @yvonneholmes9991 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Congratulations to you!!!

    • @jamesanderson3913
      @jamesanderson3913 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Bro! I have a 1995 Toyota Corolla I bought brand new and a 1998 Volvo S70 I paid cash for in 2002. They both run excellent! House abt paid off and i am loving it. Focus and discipline on a goal at hand...

    • @hectorramos9242
      @hectorramos9242 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      2000 Chevy gang

    • @KnowledgeSeeker78491
      @KnowledgeSeeker78491 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@jamesanderson3913 Do you have a partner to stand beside you because you sound smart

    • @jamesanderson3913
      @jamesanderson3913 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@KnowledgeSeeker78491 No partner just navigating through this thing alone right now but its clear, stress free, drama free and fruits of labor are seen. Your "Working like a dog" video is the real deal and very truthful! 🔥 🔥

  • @beautifulblackbutterfly1765
    @beautifulblackbutterfly1765 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    9 times out 10 men who are attracted to materialistic women are usually materialistic themselves.

    • @King_king880
      @King_king880 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ...... That's not what the videos was about and you don't know who's materialistic until you get to know them to a degree. You always wanna blame the man though.

  • @80RM
    @80RM ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Truth spoken from a realistic and still very attractive lady.

    • @NurseSnow2U
      @NurseSnow2U ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Isn't she absolutely GORGEOUS?!?! 😍🥰

    • @goodgirlvicki
      @goodgirlvicki ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep she's natural pretty

  • @CyCamronAnderson
    @CyCamronAnderson ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Uncle Phil’s reaction to these vids like this be hella hilarious😂

  • @noahknight4039
    @noahknight4039 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Her friend is worried about how she looks riding around in his car.
    Don’t worry a non-BW will look at what matters and snatch him up.

  • @iceman_2360
    @iceman_2360 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm willing to bet the same woman who rejected the guy for having an old car is bad with finances or needed a reason to break up with the guy because he was that much better than her and she couldn't level up so she self sabotage the relationship.

    • @JuwanBuchanan
      @JuwanBuchanan ปีที่แล้ว

      This is true. Women sometimes destroy the relationship themselves because they feel like they don't qualify to be with that man.

  • @miltonpickering7701
    @miltonpickering7701 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I drive 1995 Acura and I love the fact that I don't have a car note or a mortgage for ten years now. I wake up debt free everyday.

    • @kevinumba6281
      @kevinumba6281 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'd kill to get a Acura legend in good condition

  • @simplelife6827
    @simplelife6827 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    A true woman is happy to be with her man even if he's walking. You never know what life is going to throw your way. For richer for poorer in sickness and in health. It means something, don't let anyone try convince you differently.

  • @Abdulalimuhammad
    @Abdulalimuhammad ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Like Madonna said we are living in a material world and most people are material people.

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And broke st the same time

  • @rocnnrollbus
    @rocnnrollbus ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I drive a 24 year old Escalade and retired from the Air Force at 38 with a pension and disability. Didn't get the time of day from most women when I was younger for the same type of reasons, just excuses.
    I do love old cars though..
    I love to wrench on old cars!

    • @macjoseph2375
      @macjoseph2375 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      for real! I have a 2002 Honda accord and she drives great. I'm in no rush for a 2023 vehicle with car prices sky high right now. I saw a 2023 GMC Truck for $80,000 its insane.

    • @kevinumba6281
      @kevinumba6281 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wouldn't mind getting a 2002 Escalade with some chrome rims

  • @ashgat05
    @ashgat05 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Da hell?!! This is some petty, gold diggerish foolery!!! I hav an 11 year old car dats paid for and I’m not in a rush to get anything new. Ppl worry about the wrong things!!!! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @tankcoatpink
    @tankcoatpink ปีที่แล้ว +47

    This is why I’m investing into myself 😂‼️ as I should. I feel like imma be serious about dating around 27. I’m 20 now so I don’t know what true love is anymore.

    • @TooDirty
      @TooDirty ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Smartest thing a 20 year old could say. Good luck man 👍

  • @BlackManTravels
    @BlackManTravels ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Make near 200k a year yet I drive a 2007 GMC Envoy. I'm good.

  • @lovefood4eva1983
    @lovefood4eva1983 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I see why men are getting their passports. These modern American women are impossible to deal with , this applies to all races of women in America. Men, these modern American women are not worth the stress, depression or anything of that matter so if you have to go to another country to find a feminine, classy, loyalty and non gold digger with no drama and that is submissive, go right ahead, yall have to find peace somewhere. This is coming from a woman .

    • @JACKWABBIT73
      @JACKWABBIT73 ปีที่แล้ว

      You new men are weak... always complaining... women this, women that... in my day we just hit it and quit it till we find a good one, PERIOD

    • @animalworld3440
      @animalworld3440 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Mostly black w

    • @brucepower3429
      @brucepower3429 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@animalworld3440 other groups in western society are the same if not worse they just don't speak openly about it if you know men from those cultures they will give you the truth.

    • @animalworld3440
      @animalworld3440 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@brucepower3429 that is true

    • @butterflygirl01
      @butterflygirl01 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@animalworld3440nah most American bw would sleep in a shack and ride with u in a car from the 80s before any other race would. Stop lying. Bw have the lowest expectations for men which is why they’re easier to use

  • @rahkriga
    @rahkriga ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Its depressing to know black women are like this.

    • @JACKWABBIT73
      @JACKWABBIT73 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      It ain't just black women

    • @leonjohnson1824
      @leonjohnson1824 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@JACKWABBIT73 EXACTLY!!! Other groups of women are way worst!

    • @theerealatm
      @theerealatm ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JACKWABBIT73 yeah but we behind and need to build. Not keep up with jones

    • @garyprater8139
      @garyprater8139 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel you. This is also why they decided to cross over too. Hoping to strike gold.

    • @rahkriga
      @rahkriga ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JACKWABBIT73 I only like black women..not concerned with the rest. Nice try at deflection though...

  • @Reesestoked
    @Reesestoked ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As sad as this sounds, I've had this conversation with my friends for years. They don't get it. They want "instagram flexes" not realness.

  • @karlabrabham3727
    @karlabrabham3727 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It doesn't matter what job or what car you drive it matters how your significant other treats and loves you

  • @rejavenated
    @rejavenated ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was cool with a girl (who was a single mom) that stopped talking to a great guy to her and her kid, solely because she wanted to have a hot girl summer with her friends

  • @animalworld3440
    @animalworld3440 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Get your passport brother's.

    • @calebhenderson6507
      @calebhenderson6507 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bro.. just got mine renewed. Brazil was hella nice.. trying to see with Africa is all about

  • @HJW018
    @HJW018 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My best fried drives a car from 2001, he's also worth seven figures and is set to retire at 40. He's routed out many a gold digger by car alone.

  • @TC-cd5sm
    @TC-cd5sm ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The delusion is hitting an all time high

  • @michaelwehye7029
    @michaelwehye7029 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Uncle Phil, you had me crying laughing when you started playing the “I deserve” song! 💀🤣

  • @esmooth300
    @esmooth300 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I graduated high school back in 2003, and females were telling dudes back then, that if you're riding the bus (while the brotha was going to school and working full time) you're not worth dating. Almost 20 years later, it's morphed into the car needs to be bran spanking new, *PLEASE* black men, find African descent women from elsewhere.

  • @theerealatm
    @theerealatm ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She was already branching onto another man with a newer car. This is her excuse.

  • @nikkiahanks7565
    @nikkiahanks7565 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don't understand where all this entertainment is coming from this is why alot men don't want to date a entitled women.

  • @georgehudson5019
    @georgehudson5019 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That's the problem they don't want Savers they want Spenders

  • @mauriceharris8195
    @mauriceharris8195 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm dying laughing! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣! This man played the song from Momma Dee "I Deserve" lmao

    • @rwyatt26
      @rwyatt26 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @thesonofdeforever1138
    @thesonofdeforever1138 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Had a women diss me because i have an Android and not an Iphone .... I make 75k Per Year ..... She had an Iphone making 25K per year. Thanks to Morpheus ... I dodge that bullet.

  • @chucku.1745
    @chucku.1745 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So you want pookie in a hellcat that lives with his grandma without saying it 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @lildaddy1namillion
    @lildaddy1namillion ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If she can't take care of herself she can't take care of you.

  • @sionrouge1697
    @sionrouge1697 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So....THE STORY CONTINUES.

  • @gilbertnicholas1582
    @gilbertnicholas1582 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just had to get a new car cuz my baby started giving me problems after 12.5 years of loyal service😢

  • @bardacat16
    @bardacat16 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I only dated one guy in my life and i never cared about what he drive , he had a cheap car used it took us to point A to point B.

  • @jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71
    @jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Great video. The lovely young lady is right and it's refreshing to hear a sister speak up about these things. Her female friend is an example of a none virtuous woman.
    Remember this quote because God Almighty put it on my mind one day.
    "A none virtuous woman has about as much value as a wooden penny at best and detrimental at worst."

  • @brianmuhammad6903
    @brianmuhammad6903 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Debt is slavery. The brotha probably doesn't want a car note. Why do some sistahs like being in debt?

  • @smd4751
    @smd4751 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    That was very stupid of her. Material things can change, it's who he is as a person and his character that counts. Even Barack Obama had a messed up car when he and Michelle first met and starting dating and look at them now. She looked at the big picture and where he was going. She saw that he was a good man and that he was destined to be great. We need to do the same.

  • @FallacyAsPraxis
    @FallacyAsPraxis ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Materialism is a disease that consumes a person's soul. Some of these women would have a man believe that he's less than a man if he's not driving an expensive new car for HER to look good driving around in. I will never get how or why some dudes fall for these types of women. The minute you start talking to them you can right away tell what they're all about. Here's thought: how about she go buy the expensive new car that she wants to be seen in and pay the note and insurance herself?

  • @clockehvac1240
    @clockehvac1240 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    WHAT THE HELL. YOU LOST A MAN OVER THAT

  • @yosefisrael5149
    @yosefisrael5149 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Proverbs 14:1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.

  • @capcomman1
    @capcomman1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That's a trait that I'm glad that I have ,which is that I don't follow any Instagram models.

  • @heybro6105
    @heybro6105 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There are women on welfare calling men broke. 😅

  • @AphrooneRichardson
    @AphrooneRichardson 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've been a GOOD GUY for 60+ years in the Western Matrix! Now at age 73 I a GREAT GUY with my PASSPORT and exploring my relationship OPTIONS and DRIZZLE DRIZZLE and ZOOMIN' ZOOMIN' outside of the Matrix! AMEN-ASE!

  • @PeaceFam100
    @PeaceFam100 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I truly think she's lying for one reason...Where's the backlash from her friend for airing her bidness?

  • @sandraknight7032
    @sandraknight7032 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Long as we get from point A to Z I don't care about the year of a car. When I met my husband he didn't have a new car but his stability, mindset and conversations were on point. And we worked together to build our home. He is and will forever be the love of my life,God called him home 1 year ago.

  • @donaldmcgee6334
    @donaldmcgee6334 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You know why he doesn't have an new car, his 401k is sitting at $500,000, his IRA is decent, he has about $25,000 cash for an emergency, thats why he doesn't have a brand new car.

  • @baruchdta
    @baruchdta ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They do not know what a good man is,, remember,, Eddie,, why you call me animal.

  • @Slimbrodie67
    @Slimbrodie67 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its a blessing she left him. She did him an favor most definitely

  • @Chris_Cross-pf3dp
    @Chris_Cross-pf3dp ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have been single my whole life and I must say the women out here are a waste of time! I have dated women and all those sucked, especially blind dates. Never had a relationship, all I had were hook ups and every time I approach a woman it's always the same old line, "I have a boyfriend!" That's it I'm done with these modern women.

    • @thenewjord50
      @thenewjord50 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same ones who capping about having a boyfriend they be the same ones complaining about not having a man

  • @mr.mackey9720
    @mr.mackey9720 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Her Friend will learn when she's 40 and alone

    • @theoriginal668
      @theoriginal668 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts💯
      They become very nice after they hit that wall. They'll be happy to get on the bus with you 😅

  • @CompleteIndifference
    @CompleteIndifference ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Indifference Makes All Of The Difference. 🤷‍♂️💯

  • @kenneymccall8568
    @kenneymccall8568 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had a female tell me to get rid of my PAID FOR 2014 V6 fully loaded Honda Accord because SHE had 2 Mercedes.. said it's not a good look for her. Lol let alone me being debt free, good credit, getting ready for retirement, 6 figure income and 36 years in my course of study profession. BYE FELICIA! now I'm with the woman of my dreams! Hallelujah!!

    • @PJ-fl3do
      @PJ-fl3do ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol wow don’t blame ya

  • @SL-ud7tf
    @SL-ud7tf ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good she dumped him, coz that brother had a blessed escape!
    Now sing: I deserve, I deserve, I deserve 🤣

  • @Elanastonee
    @Elanastonee ปีที่แล้ว

    He dodged a bullet from that superficial woman!!! Kudos to him & blessings🙏🏽💯

  • @my2centz728
    @my2centz728 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Warren Buffett is one the richest men on Earth and drove his old beater into the ground!

  • @coxwagan
    @coxwagan ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Now I'm 60 and I met a woman that's 65 and did you know this r helper. Still ask me what kind of car I drive where do I live and where do I work the main questions on the interview to date a black woman and modern time a definitely turn off

    • @tmantman6896
      @tmantman6896 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      just tell her to mind her business I work thats all that counts

    • @Bidness100
      @Bidness100 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tmantman6896Facts

  • @jamesharrisjr4145
    @jamesharrisjr4145 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The look on Phil face when the sister said his is car old lol

  • @Drobib
    @Drobib ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had that happen to me listening to my best friend I swear a year later he owned to clubs his own 18 wheeler and thriving meanwhile she's 57 still single dating pookies🤦🏿‍♀️

  • @donaldmcgee6334
    @donaldmcgee6334 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She did him a favor in the long run

  • @syrzelhenderson6269
    @syrzelhenderson6269 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ridiculous!!🤬

  • @geneevans7885
    @geneevans7885 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dude dodged a major bullet.

  • @lucky7eleven754
    @lucky7eleven754 ปีที่แล้ว

    I heard someone say "you can have a clean outfit on but it's always that person whose looking for a tiny stain for them to say something .

  • @mateaukalua4426
    @mateaukalua4426 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I grew up poor 😂. We were eating beans and ramens every night. Some nights we had nothing and my growling stomach kept me up at night. Would never date someone who thought like that.

  • @lucky7eleven754
    @lucky7eleven754 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She saying all of that, what is she bringing to the table? This is why black men date outside of they race. R.I.P Kevin Samuel , he would've destroyed her for those remarks.

  • @CesarChavez-bn6iv
    @CesarChavez-bn6iv ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just like this chick I was talking to for spring/summer of 2019 she was asking to borrow $600 for her bbl
    I said no she tried her weekend job & her playboy baby father end up paying for it which I’m glad I didn’t want to contribute funds because I didn’t want her mother and family to hate me if anything happened and I heard she almost died

  • @dynastyfamily00
    @dynastyfamily00 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here is the problem with this young lady.
    Shes friends with a direction less women, which at some point will make her direction less as well.
    Lions never associate with hyenas

  • @mekelayijoy7291
    @mekelayijoy7291 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FOR THE GOOD LOVE OF PEACE 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @SupaTuffGong
    @SupaTuffGong ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We want the "instabaddie" look and are confused when the person that comes with it is devoid of character.😩😩