Sista Admits She Turned Away Good Men For Pookie & Ray Ray, Now She's Ready For Good Men

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ส.ค. 2024
  • The consequences of turning down good men will always end badly.

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  • @robsawyer8034
    @robsawyer8034 ปีที่แล้ว +1074

    Never feel sorry for them. Why? Behind every 25+ girl crying about men, there’s a mountain of broken hearts from guys she played with, cheated, rejected, friend-zoned, called lames, laughed at, used for free dinners and ignored

    • @TMB1974
      @TMB1974 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      💯💯💯

    • @movingforward-fc4lg
      @movingforward-fc4lg ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Now she has realized that reality has set in and it’s too late 💯

    • @butterscotchlolly3744
      @butterscotchlolly3744 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Facts. Don't feel sorry for them.

    • @annoyedcitizen8652
      @annoyedcitizen8652 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      Churches are full of these women, praying for another chance.

    • @freddyjimenez6434
      @freddyjimenez6434 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      That's A FACT!!!

  • @neeckyneecky8242
    @neeckyneecky8242 ปีที่แล้ว +347

    If she rejected you in her prime, reject her in her decline, Simple as that.

    • @ThugNinja
      @ThugNinja ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Mic drop

    • @milesdiontre
      @milesdiontre ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Bars

    • @josephbatiste8809
      @josephbatiste8809 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      😂😂 I agree ☝️ 😊

    • @ciladapoeto.5327
      @ciladapoeto.5327 ปีที่แล้ว

      Most of you men are in your decline. Especially the moment u open ur mouths 👍

    • @neeckyneecky8242
      @neeckyneecky8242 ปีที่แล้ว

      A man can fix his financial status,but can you fix your ran through pussy.

  • @obtryce7070
    @obtryce7070 ปีที่แล้ว +606

    They don’t want corny guys, they want chaos and drama.

    • @StreetsidePhotoOnline
      @StreetsidePhotoOnline ปีที่แล้ว +93

      Sometimes, men gotta put in perspective what they call corny, and realize you're winning. These are the same women that call the everyday focused man corny, lame, and CREEPY, but most times the men they DO CHOOSE, end up hurting them mentally, financially, physically, and THOSE guys did not creep her out. She didn't have a funny vibe about the drug dealer, the abuser, the violent felon. The construction worker, the guy with glasses, the man in the city uniform, he creeped her out. Think fellas

    • @ericpowell4350
      @ericpowell4350 ปีที่แล้ว

      They don't want peace. They want problems.

    • @jbubba1053
      @jbubba1053 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Until they get ran through and used up

    • @qjtvaddict
      @qjtvaddict ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That’s why they get nothing

    • @TheTruthTheyHate
      @TheTruthTheyHate ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@StreetsidePhotoOnline EXACTLY🎯 🎯 which is why y'all have to stop prioritizing them over yourselves they'll have you out here looking stupid by not acting like yourself but acting like the type of man you think they like which are the REAL lames and weirdos

  • @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
    @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    She’s still attracted to those men. You can tell by the way she described them. She knew that they were bad all along.

  • @brandonf.8360
    @brandonf.8360 ปีที่แล้ว +517

    Who feels sorry for a player when you signed up for the game?

    • @damianmccallie3980
      @damianmccallie3980 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      That Real facts.

    • @eugenedantzler4485
      @eugenedantzler4485 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      YO😂😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯I love that! Real facts bro

    • @MC-xl2ff
      @MC-xl2ff ปีที่แล้ว +17

      It's like when you get a dog and it shocks you when the dog starts acting like a dog.

    • @quincywright2821
      @quincywright2821 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      FAAAACTS BRO!💯💯🤣

    • @acewilliams7917
      @acewilliams7917 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💯

  • @rattales58
    @rattales58 ปีที่แล้ว +435

    At least she isn’t blaming ALL brothers for her choices 😂😂😂

    • @757CitiesReppa
      @757CitiesReppa ปีที่แล้ว +53

      That’s progress

    • @peregrines6xteen687
      @peregrines6xteen687 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yet....😂

    • @757CitiesReppa
      @757CitiesReppa ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Whoa, whoa, whoa..😂😂😂

    • @joshuagrant6192
      @joshuagrant6192 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Crow Black That Part!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @shadowprodify
      @shadowprodify ปีที่แล้ว

      @@japhya0378 you have to understand, as men, especially as black men, we're called dusty, trash and have heard the saying that "men are dogs", because women chose wrong and the vast majority gets blamed publicly. Isn't that tearing down as well?

  • @leecosey7003
    @leecosey7003 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    I remember growing up in the seventies and eighties even in the mid-90s. And every other day when I used to walk down the street I used to see black weddings coming out of churches. And this woman is the perfect example of why I don't see any more black weddings coming out of churches anymore

    • @cultusdeus
      @cultusdeus ปีที่แล้ว +50

      It's not just black women. It's also white, hispanic, asian. All the women want to ride the carousel in the USA and they all want to party in their 20's with Chad. Chad can be any ethnicity or color, just as long as he deliver's the tingles and thrills.

    • @dcoldestjenkins5868
      @dcoldestjenkins5868 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      BM, go get your passport immediately!

    • @cultusdeus
      @cultusdeus ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@dcoldestjenkins5868 I'm already overseas with a passport and have been here for over a decade. It's not for everyone long term, but it's worth a try.

    • @spiritualwartv
      @spiritualwartv ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow

    • @rp7r54
      @rp7r54 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@cultusdeus TRUTH

  • @dialac1
    @dialac1 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    The tragic part of this is that a simp will reach out to her and date her. That’s what frustrates me about my brothers.

    • @IAmNextUp
      @IAmNextUp ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We'll see, she is not cute enough.

    • @leecosey7003
      @leecosey7003 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      And the saddest part is she's not really all that attractive with that bye Felicia haircut

    • @aquadragon88
      @aquadragon88 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      No 🧢 smmh

    • @chihollywood9379
      @chihollywood9379 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      ​@@leecosey7003 facts. She's average at best

    • @leecosey7003
      @leecosey7003 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@chihollywood9379 exactly average is the best way to describe her. Cuz she definitely would not make you do a double take

  • @h2oboi531
    @h2oboi531 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    When a woman says “I now deserve a good guy.” She’s forever in the streets.

  • @bigjac4evr
    @bigjac4evr ปีที่แล้ว +178

    I was trying to talk to a couple of girls I knew about 15 years ago…they literally laughed at me and told me I was corny and my clothes and shoes were lame. Fast forward to today. I make well into the six figures. Both of them are single moms, one of them has 4 kids from 3 different men and both live in section 8 housing…guess who’s laughing now?…😂

    • @gyhbvdvg3584
      @gyhbvdvg3584 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      They are the corny ones now

    • @josephbatiste8809
      @josephbatiste8809 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That’s a trip 😂😂😂😂hehe and funny 😎

    • @adraincrawford7733
      @adraincrawford7733 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great. Go ride by their houses a smile at their goofy asses

    • @rr4245
      @rr4245 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg

    • @Zoloft77
      @Zoloft77 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@gyhbvdvg3584 and probably dusty as hell.

  • @tyronewilliams8344
    @tyronewilliams8344 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    How common is this story? Women get with Pookie and Ray Ray because, to them, the good men were "corny, lame, no tattoos, no swag". Now, after being ran through and accumulating miles, they want the good guy. But he's found a GOOD WOMAN and is off the market. Now who's corny and lame?

    • @thomashammond16
      @thomashammond16 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      When they come back at the good guy point down the street and tell them pookie live over there 🤣

    • @dcoldestjenkins5868
      @dcoldestjenkins5868 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      BM, go get your passport immediately!

    • @rr4245
      @rr4245 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True

    • @DwaynesJohnsonLaysTheSmackdown
      @DwaynesJohnsonLaysTheSmackdown ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pain and heartache is motivation brother!

    • @GoatHolyfield
      @GoatHolyfield 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Extremely common It's almost like it's their strategy or something

  • @ECO473
    @ECO473 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    Her: I DESERVE a good guy!!!
    Me: Does the good guy deserve Pookie & Ray-Ray's reject???

    • @MarioLopez-si8jb
      @MarioLopez-si8jb ปีที่แล้ว +31

      More like leftovers.

    • @rockfresh5359
      @rockfresh5359 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And his bastard worthless kids who won't respect you're sacrifice

    • @ECO473
      @ECO473 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rockfresh5359 Damn straight, brother!!!

    • @ratesforless
      @ratesforless ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Her: (SIGN language used to deflect before immediately changing the subject)...

    • @paulsanjurjo4390
      @paulsanjurjo4390 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@MarioLopez-si8jb you took the words out of my mouth. Leftovers!

  • @thecaptain4420
    @thecaptain4420 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    To All the good men who she friendzoned in the past, please take a bow and collect your rewards.

    • @Armyvet55
      @Armyvet55 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂😂😂right

  • @obtryce7070
    @obtryce7070 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    This never gets old

  • @thecaptain4420
    @thecaptain4420 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    She made her choices, she is strong and independent. Winter is here. “Don’t save her, she don’t want to be saved”

    • @adraincrawford7733
      @adraincrawford7733 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Project pat and 3 6 mafia said it best

    • @NickM_FirstofHisName
      @NickM_FirstofHisName 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      At best, help her out of a bind, if you catch my drift

  • @copperpenny7639
    @copperpenny7639 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I have no sympathy for her. She should have been looking at the guys character even in her 20s

  • @jahsunhova6089
    @jahsunhova6089 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    A large number of successful black men are quietly leaving for women of a different nationalities 👍🏾💯

  • @MCC876
    @MCC876 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    The problem with this lady is that she has been through too much to be able to pair bond, especially with a good guy. It’s not gonna work.

    • @Butterfly22593
      @Butterfly22593 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      At least she admitted she messed up and is working towards healing her trauma

    • @troywest1724
      @troywest1724 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Butterfly22593 Self induced trauma. She just looking for a clean up man. And only a Simp would take her seriously.

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      PREACH!

    • @BigSmoove77x
      @BigSmoove77x ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Butterfly22593shut up you sound dum this is our black women with this stupid foolishness stop taking up for her. This what she gets for picking the bad guy.

  • @theRock-hh1gl
    @theRock-hh1gl ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Good men, RUN FAR AWAY from this.

  • @Larry-qz3es
    @Larry-qz3es ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I come to a conculsion that...
    She hit the Wall
    Ray Ray & Pookie smashed and dashed on her.
    The Tyrone & Chad's told her to kick rocks.
    On behalf of the Good Men's association, we kindly REJECT your desire to come back to us.

  • @mariobalotelli2410
    @mariobalotelli2410 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Many street dudes are physically attractive because they work out 24/7 in prison....

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 ปีที่แล้ว

      Possibly with STDs too. 🤣🤣

    • @Brothapocalypse
      @Brothapocalypse ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂

    • @cmaccmcqueen7639
      @cmaccmcqueen7639 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Actually that’s why they like prison guys. So respect to you for identifying this

    • @milesdiontre
      @milesdiontre ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @MrK.A
    @MrK.A ปีที่แล้ว +170

    She wants good men to pick up leftovers. A half eaten sandwich that's been discarded after a few bites from chad and Tyrone. Nah, I'm good.

    • @Brothapocalypse
      @Brothapocalypse ปีที่แล้ว +35

      A half eaten sandwich they left on the sidewalk next to a bus stop

    • @dcoldestjenkins5868
      @dcoldestjenkins5868 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      BM, go get your passport immediately!

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly!

    • @ciladapoeto.5327
      @ciladapoeto.5327 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Now imagine if women had the same mindset towards men who slept with all kinds of easy women and spread their penis around the community, while playing the field, and then comes on a platform talking about they want a submissive,wifely,good girl type. It happens all the time and women are expected to just accept it, because that's just how men "are". Women are expected to overlook it. That's the difference.
      I don't hear men telling other dudes with that player mindset talking about you don't deserve a good girl. Patriarchy sucks. The double standard is glaring

    • @TheTruthTheyHate
      @TheTruthTheyHate ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@ciladapoeto.5327 they actually have the opposite mindset thats the kind of guy they WANT! No female wants a dude that no other women want so ur statement doesn't make sense women actually like the high body count guys tht has multiple women ijs

  • @SconionRunion
    @SconionRunion 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    When I was in the navy I saw it over and over. However, after Pookie and Ray Ray dogged them out they expected that corny guy to step in and take care of her and Pookie And Ray Ray's children, but corny does not equal stupid.

  • @H.O.T.Merchandise
    @H.O.T.Merchandise ปีที่แล้ว +55

    This Is Why I Always Used To Laugh 😂 When I Used To Hear The Sayin' " Good Guys Finish Last " 'Cause I Always Knew Deep Down It Was Never True. This Good Guy Is A Winner & Always Will Be.

    • @elmztana1201
      @elmztana1201 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nice guy finish last if the take these used up baggage carrying women.
      Probably divorce him later on because her friend said she could get paid.

  • @Pharaohx115
    @Pharaohx115 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    this women told on herself but doesn`t want you to call her out .

    • @robsawyer8034
      @robsawyer8034 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      If she’s single after 30, she’s already told in herself.

    • @La-wr5dn
      @La-wr5dn ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@robsawyer8034 Do you say the same about single men past 30? I'm just curious.

    • @MarioLopez-si8jb
      @MarioLopez-si8jb ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She's single, 30, and heavier and older. I wouldn't look at her.

    • @MarioLopez-si8jb
      @MarioLopez-si8jb ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@japhya0378 you're right but guys don't have to look good or feminine to get a pretty lady. However, the lady has to look good.

    • @MarioLopez-si8jb
      @MarioLopez-si8jb ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@japhya0378 intelligent people don't call people stupid.

  • @TARGETLOCKED00
    @TARGETLOCKED00 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    No thanks she can keep it with all those Fighter pilot test miles 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @3poms28
      @3poms28 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Dat snatch has more mileage than a 95 honda civic with over 300k on the dashboard lmao!!! 👙🚘🛠👀🤣

    • @carlosjbolden7525
      @carlosjbolden7525 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Her kitty been shot up & burned out bad...Her Walls are destroyed..

    • @Nightrain349
      @Nightrain349 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@carlosjbolden7525 You can hear the echo as she talked.

    • @kumarcollins585
      @kumarcollins585 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      you also run the risk of catching something in that swamp.....since she's a pookie chaser

    • @theoriginal668
      @theoriginal668 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Who wants to go skydiving in the Grand canyon with out a parachute. Not me.

  • @babatundeonabajo
    @babatundeonabajo ปีที่แล้ว +98

    One thing I like about Phil when talks about this subject is how he always notes that simply because a woman doesn't have any children, it doesn't necessarily mean she has never been pregnant before. It's something all men should ask specifically for before proceeding into anything serious.

    • @blackice7408
      @blackice7408 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup. She could've had an abortion

    • @ms.virgo82187
      @ms.virgo82187 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And women should make sure they ask men how many abortions they paid for and made a woman get. Goes both ways. If you don't want kids take precautions on both ends to not get someone pregnant or get pregnant. In my opinion its nobody business about that because it has nothing to do with you. Only things I want to know about a man's past is how many kids and babymamas you have, you got a criminal record, and if you have or had an stds!

    • @elmztana1201
      @elmztana1201 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@ms.virgo82187 that’s it’s nobody’s business ish is womens fav line when questions get too real . We all know abortion decisions are made final by women regardless if the man wants to keep it .
      The reason asking abortion history is the same as the body count topic . We want to know how a female’s decision making is . Multiple abortions would imply poor decision making and sexual deviancy.

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ms.virgo82187 true

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elmztana1201 very true

  • @soyafuera
    @soyafuera ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Living in SoCal I have realized the problem on a more intimate level. Here, it's only 5% black, and they're mostly Pookies. So you really get a lotta non bw that like the "educated lame" kinda bm. The problem is that the traits that non bw find attractive are the SAME traits that bw call "corny". The reason however bc they don't want competition. Here they know you can do way better than them, so they convince themselves that they don't like it so they don't have to compete for you, and because we live in a culture that doesn't value a competent, educated bm. Lemme tell you, non bw here are MORE than willing to compete. Bw don't realize the err of their ways until it's too late

    • @WolfamongSheep626
      @WolfamongSheep626 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      There are 22 million Black women in the United States
      There are 117 million white women in the United States
      So if me being a “lame” makes me undesirable to 22 million but desirable to 117 million (which is the low end because that doesn’t include other non black women) I LOVE THOSE ODDS, just be yourself gentlemen.

    • @KNGDDDE
      @KNGDDDE ปีที่แล้ว

      They'll keep learning the hard way. Their kids already can't read or do math at high rates, spiking crime, and a plethora of social and mental dysfunction.
      It looks like the gov is reigning back in these benefit programs... ratches are looking to struggle soon lol.

    • @dcoldestjenkins5868
      @dcoldestjenkins5868 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      BM, go get your passport immediately!

    • @tmantman6896
      @tmantman6896 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      there you go your right

    • @karlkilcrease51
      @karlkilcrease51 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@dcoldestjenkins5868 yes sir begin in Central and South America, then travel to Portugal, explore Western Africa to Ethiopia, stop in Thailand and end your voyage in The Philippines. My Brother, you will have burned yourself out, but you will have been in the ultimate candy store, especially in Thailand and The Philippines.

  • @joemomma3208
    @joemomma3208 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    well i’m ready to hit powerball too! I passed up good lottery numbers for years and now i’m ready to settle down and retire! so wish us both luck! 😂😂😂🤣

  • @goldenbrown3433
    @goldenbrown3433 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I like the boosie “c’mon now man” feature 😂

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      C'mon now mane!

    • @3for4PA
      @3for4PA 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can't get NO REALER... hearing HIM say IT 😆

  • @Righteousone18
    @Righteousone18 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    I had both parents and I had a pretty good upbringing. I remember I broke up with a chick because I felt she was still talking to her ex. I think he was in the streets. A hood dude. She begged me to take her back and I did reluctantly. A few months later she breaks up with me and goes back to her ex. Fast forward a few years after that, God had has us meet up again. She had broken up with her ex and wanted to get back with me. She remembered how good she had it. She gave me her number and I never called her. Never take her back men

    • @b9479
      @b9479 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      NEVER!!!!!!

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      PREACH!

    • @TheTruthTheyHate
      @TheTruthTheyHate ปีที่แล้ว +17

      👏 👏 👏 they made their bed so let em sleep in it

    • @jamesjames9932
      @jamesjames9932 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Shalom. You better delete her damn number. You're too valuable to accept mess. Move on man and don't even give her chance to have a conversation with anymore or else. You're playing with fire 🔥

    • @Righteousone18
      @Righteousone18 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jamesjames9932 this was years ago. I’ve definitely moved on. I don’t think I even put her number in my phone. She wrote it on some paper and I probably threw it away

  • @janeenjohnson8039
    @janeenjohnson8039 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    These women believe those music lyrics and tv personalities are real and strive for that in their life

  • @jamaicasysbm2580
    @jamaicasysbm2580 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Do not save them leave them to the streets let the winter 🥶 chill there spine, hyperthermia and frost bite awaits them

  • @m.a.c.570
    @m.a.c.570 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Lol as someone who goes to church, there's many of these 30 plus year old women there. Expecting that they can walk from the club into the church and find a man that wants to take them seriously. They don't realize that church men have standards through the roof.
    My advice to her and women like her, focus on Jesus cuz that's the only man that's going to love y'all. 🙏🏾😂

    • @theman2017inc
      @theman2017inc 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Which explains why they call Jesus “their boyfriend”

    • @m.a.c.570
      @m.a.c.570 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@theman2017inc Lol exactly you get it.

  • @NebkadBible
    @NebkadBible ปีที่แล้ว +33

    A moment of transparency == A moment of regret

    • @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
      @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She doesn’t regret it. She just wants a good and decent man to step in a give her the fairy tale ending.

  • @jaymac8496
    @jaymac8496 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    They only want to take accountability when it’s too damn late

  • @clockehvac1240
    @clockehvac1240 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    TO THE STREETS SHE SHALL RETURN.

  • @TheStrategos392
    @TheStrategos392 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    That Boosie ad-lib did it.😂😂😂

  • @abovebeyondandforever6571
    @abovebeyondandforever6571 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Phil is having too much fun with these reaction videos! 😂

    • @blackice7408
      @blackice7408 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@japhya0378 🤦🏿

    • @bakulubaka8661
      @bakulubaka8661 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmao 🤣😂🤣

    • @troywest1724
      @troywest1724 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@japhya0378 BM don’t owe y’all ish. Statistically y’all don’t deserve ish. SYSBM

    • @rm5282
      @rm5282 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Japhya 03 you all (women) like to use insults and shaming types comments when you can't refute the talking points. So, Phil has insecurities because he told the truth about a female who wasted her time and distanced herself from the good guys. Now, all of a sudden, she says she deserves a good corny type of guy. Nope, she blew her chances chasing the bad guys.

    • @troywest1724
      @troywest1724 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@japhya0378 The only grown child is you. My mother knows about you jezebels and Succubus.

  • @jhayabusa9344
    @jhayabusa9344 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    So they’re now willing to give their leftover, body, soul and mind to allow a good man access to the scraps or leftovers of the hot fresh meal they used to be?! what does he want with that?! Such an insult without repentance. 👎🏾

    • @gyhbvdvg3584
      @gyhbvdvg3584 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They think good men are fools

  • @adrianprince7266
    @adrianprince7266 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    Good men shouldn't then come now to bail her out. She chose to be with those guys early on and now after she's been dumped all over wants a good guy to come save her. No way

    • @DexterpresOU
      @DexterpresOU ปีที่แล้ว

      Right! The Captain save a hoe days are over.

    • @africaisking7817
      @africaisking7817 ปีที่แล้ว

      She wants a good guy now to kiss those decades long sperm soaked lips 🤮 no thanks !

    • @dcoldestjenkins5868
      @dcoldestjenkins5868 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      BM, go get your passport immediately.

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      PREACH!

  • @rickyclover9393
    @rickyclover9393 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    She can save herself. Grown ass women making teenager mistakes. Naw, I am good at dealing with you. She too damaged beyond repair.

    • @marquishoward3529
      @marquishoward3529 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Ikr. She wanna be saved, it’s 2 men who capable of doing that
      1. Jesus
      2. Dr Phil

    • @movingforward-fc4lg
      @movingforward-fc4lg ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Like project pat said she don’t want to be saved 💯

    • @dcoldestjenkins5868
      @dcoldestjenkins5868 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      BM, go get your passport immediately.
      Passport > Being a Foodie Call

    • @albertmassaquoi1539
      @albertmassaquoi1539 ปีที่แล้ว

      I blame the media for romance the idea of the bad boys

    • @rickyclover9393
      @rickyclover9393 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@albertmassaquoi1539 Blame is placed on grown ass adults who make shifty mistakes and bad decisions. The media is entertainment and propaganda that an individual can choose to indulge or ignore it.

  • @thecaptain4420
    @thecaptain4420 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My fellow good men, who are still looking for relationships, please stop chasing women like this for dates or relationships

  • @MyNameIsCorey
    @MyNameIsCorey ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Look how she smiles when she describes her relationships with them that tells me right there she hasn't learned her lesson and it's ok you like what you like you can't turn it off and on like a light switch (I know Ciara makes it look easy but even she can't put on the show forever). Getting ran thru and being in toxic relationships coming up childless is probably just as bad if you were to have had kids, no you may not have the physical baggage but the phycological baggage almost never goes away.

  • @lamarwest1231
    @lamarwest1231 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Brother I so agree with you creating this video because as men when we’re trying to get it together in our 20-30’s we don’t get consideration but now we got it together with 6 figure careers, they want to consider us now😢😢😢😢.

    • @deetaylor2202
      @deetaylor2202 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah and it's really sad and pitiful too

    • @ms.virgo82187
      @ms.virgo82187 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not necessarily...why would a woman in her 20-30s just sit by and wait until you get it together? Lol 😆 Yall know men not trying to settle down at that age. So both men and women should get serious in their 30-40s when BOTH have their stuff together. Can we stop always trying to put it on women to "settle" and basically wait around when men not trying to do the same?

    • @dcoldestjenkins5868
      @dcoldestjenkins5868 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      BM, go get your passport immediately!

    • @aarongray1981
      @aarongray1981 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ms.virgo82187 please speak for yourself, I had no problem settling down in my 20s. Even our grandparents generation settled down early and they didn’t have it all together 🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @enviedeveryday2835
      @enviedeveryday2835 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ms.virgo82187and we ain’t trying settle down with broken bw with pookies sperm in her

  • @memyself4ever1
    @memyself4ever1 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    For those brothers she passed up, they have been blessed to find true women. She had indeed hit the wall with a vengeance.

  • @jupiterroyalty2176
    @jupiterroyalty2176 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Your reaction to "He so corny", priceless.

    • @freddy8479
      @freddy8479 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨
      "HE A LAME, GUUUUURL!!!!"

  • @AL-ALady
    @AL-ALady ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Men please realize rejection can be protection. As a woman I've seen women like this everywhere. And if they get with a good man they try to exploit him. Use your discernment. Think about who you go after as well. Are you both after the same type. She wants RayRay and do you want RayNisha? 😂🤭

    • @enviedeveryday2835
      @enviedeveryday2835 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      99% of bw is rayisha

    • @KingJancelot
      @KingJancelot 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@enviedeveryday2835 Your math is slightly off. 99 1/2%

  • @bruceleeroy8302
    @bruceleeroy8302 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They usually call a black man, who is well spoken and has his life together, "corny" or "gay" if he's not into Pookeshas

  • @martialag
    @martialag ปีที่แล้ว +50

    The nerve of her 🙄 She sat there with a straight face and said that foolishness!

    • @manospherecreed9464
      @manospherecreed9464 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's a woman and a black one at that...go figure 🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @NickM_FirstofHisName
      @NickM_FirstofHisName 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She's making you a favor! You're not happy?

  • @dmraybanz3459
    @dmraybanz3459 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    HER: "...I want the good guy NOW...!"
    GOOD GUYS EVERYWHERE: "...Run!!! Head for the chopper!!!"🏃🏼‍♂️🏃🏃🏃

    • @dcoldestjenkins5868
      @dcoldestjenkins5868 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      BM, go get your passport immediately!

    • @3for4PA
      @3for4PA 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      NOW!!!!!!😆

  • @gabrielgadsden3986
    @gabrielgadsden3986 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Unfortantely, this is a trend. Now sistas like this want good brothas to be a clean-up men for the damages Pookie & Ray Ray have done to them. NAH, HARD PASS!

  • @cprophetu
    @cprophetu ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Why do women think their is a endless supply of good guys lying around like products in a store on a shelf? Lol! Smh. Even products on store shelves run out.

    • @cprophetu
      @cprophetu ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So men will run out also, especially as women get older.

    • @robsawyer8034
      @robsawyer8034 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because there’s a thirsty horny simp waiting to jump in that dm.

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@cprophetu Young women love older men....

    • @dcoldestjenkins5868
      @dcoldestjenkins5868 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      BM, go get your passport immediately!

    • @willia3r
      @willia3r ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cprophetu nope, not when you have women purposely aborting male babies...😐

  • @randy3432
    @randy3432 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Get your passports fellas.

  • @jerrywalls3402
    @jerrywalls3402 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    I blame the rap videos and 'hood movies that promoted and romanticized the hustler lifestyle. If you push a certain image on an impressionable demographic, this is the end result.

    • @theoriginal668
      @theoriginal668 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah ok but what about the conscious rap. No excuse.

    • @mc2383
      @mc2383 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@theoriginal668 They're not exempt. Common's "I want you" video is the pinnacle of toxicity.

    • @theoriginal668
      @theoriginal668 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mc2383 It's obvious you don't know the meaning of the song. He's talking about hip-hop. Go back and listen. I refuse to throw the baby out with the bathwater.

    • @rockfresh5359
      @rockfresh5359 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I need a Soulja mentality 😂😂😂

    • @blackcobra9465
      @blackcobra9465 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, definitely reaching with your comment & that's not always true @jerry walls but I kinda see your logic

  • @ml_kayAli
    @ml_kayAli ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Now THIS is the dynamics that I've been witnessing in relationships & in society. Finally, yall got to the bottom of these women motivations out here. They refuse to go against "the sisterhood" (The Women Collective). The ones with sense know enough to rebel against the 304-minset✊🏿

  • @damianmccallie3980
    @damianmccallie3980 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Women like her need to keep it moving she been ran through by pookie and Ray Ray anyway all the good men out there keep an eye on the swivel.

    • @robsawyer8034
      @robsawyer8034 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly- never take them seriously after the dudes smashed and ran through.

    • @damianmccallie3980
      @damianmccallie3980 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@robsawyer8034 Real facts.

  • @quincywright2821
    @quincywright2821 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    He is a Vengeful and Jealous God!💯...when mortal women reject his gifts he sends you he'll rain down MISERY in your life ladies..WAKE TF UP!🤣🤣

  • @neeckyneecky8242
    @neeckyneecky8242 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    From the streets she came, to the streets, she shall return.

  • @oakhuemo66
    @oakhuemo66 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    “Bro what u got goin on? U LGBT?” 😂😂😂😂 Phil my country cousin funny af

  • @randolphnoel7863
    @randolphnoel7863 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Too much physical and mental trauma to take a chance on her she ought to get some serious therapy. Fellas avoid these women at all costs.

  • @stayflyking
    @stayflyking ปีที่แล้ว +25

    She lying. She's not ready, she just doesn't want to be alone..

    • @koribryant2235
      @koribryant2235 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rite Bra She Getting Tired of Getting Smashed N Left L0L 😂

    • @MasterMack-lw7vp
      @MasterMack-lw7vp 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She is for the streets, let her stay in the streets.

  • @Imprimas21
    @Imprimas21 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    No she don’t. She just haven’t found the right Pookie yet. It’s only a matter of time.

  • @jayd6446
    @jayd6446 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Older women in the past would inform the younger generation about if he was a good man or not. Fathers would vet the guys before he could take you out. Remember how guys had to knock on the door meet the parents. SMH
    Now your girlfriends vet him. They only worried about three things wallet size, johnson size and if he looks good.

  • @mannysantana
    @mannysantana ปีที่แล้ว +8

    When women say they can’t find a good man they’re lying!!! And this is why fathers are important. Fathers nurture their daughters to make good dating decisions, but yet modern society says men aren’t needed in the home….

  • @melaninfuture
    @melaninfuture ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Back in the late 90s, my homeboy and I used to always talk about this. How our moms raised us to be gentlemen and treat women with respect, yet it always backfired on us lmao. We were considered to be the older meaning of the word simp. We hated our moms for it, and we hated the “roughnecks” who the girls always went after. A few of those girls became damaged goods. Hopefully, this generation gets this relationship stuff together.

    • @allenayquest8929
      @allenayquest8929 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      WRONG! You mama-Tought you RIGHT! The only problem was being within an environment dominated by those who did NOT do the same! ..And resulted in the Streets being their parents! There is where/why you didnt fit in!

    • @NB-yu4lj
      @NB-yu4lj ปีที่แล้ว

      @@allenayquest8929 facts America is toxic

    • @enviedeveryday2835
      @enviedeveryday2835 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@allenayquest8929no she taught him not to date blk women like u. She should told her sons to disrespect u t hots

    • @enviedeveryday2835
      @enviedeveryday2835 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Facts same thing my mom raised me to be a good man but you get disrespected by bw. I just pump and dump now

    • @GoatHolyfield
      @GoatHolyfield 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women hate nice guys but they sure do love Raising them 😂

  • @dwightsanders1168
    @dwightsanders1168 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Remember that kid in school that slacked off all year???? And then begged the teacher for extra credit in June in hopes of passing??? Some of these women remind me of that kid.....

  • @aws21st
    @aws21st ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Well at least she confessed.
    Maybe there is a reform Pookie and Ray Ray out there for her.
    Miss lady you don't deserve anything, you have to earn.
    Because a lot of women see winter ❄️🥶 is coming.

  • @davidtyler6708
    @davidtyler6708 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    When Ms. Kitty is in charge of your vetting.

  • @projectleroy920
    @projectleroy920 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The phone stopped ringing for her. Now she's past the wall 🧱🤣✌🏿

  • @rejavenated
    @rejavenated ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It’s very selfish that they *WANT* to be put through the bs only to think they “deserve” the guy that is good. Save that for the women that would appreciate them off the rip.

  • @MrMayes-qy5ru
    @MrMayes-qy5ru ปีที่แล้ว +33

    "Delusion", at THIS point, is an understatement 😐
    She actually sounds insane, and needs help 😒

  • @DBOSS-mb3tr
    @DBOSS-mb3tr ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I never felt bad that these types of women didn't want me, because I realized that they are still girls in the mind!! So I let the kids be with kids!!!

  • @gangstagummybear3432
    @gangstagummybear3432 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Picturesque reason of why so many men are leaving this country to find women that appreciate them outside of the country.

  • @Speakinurmynd
    @Speakinurmynd ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I swear these women come off an assembly line.....when theyre young, reject the good men, get with the pookie/ray ray, get done wrong again and again. Get older, realize you dont want those guys anymore (or realize you can no long attract them), carry around unhealed past trauma, which you REFUSE to seek professional for, you have nothing to offer a man because your broken but continue to date anyway, and have the nerve to claim "I deserve" a good man now! Oh i almost forget, when they cant find a good man, or let me rephrase that, when good men dont want to deal with them and all their baggage, they get on social media and whine that men are trash!

  • @dannybaldwin7343
    @dannybaldwin7343 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    🤭 Sistas will drink " Pookies " bath water 🤭😁

  • @Slimbrodie67
    @Slimbrodie67 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That's female nature to the fullest extent. I've been accepting and embracing it

  • @monsterensemble351
    @monsterensemble351 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Women have children with criminals then raised them in a single mother household and blame men for the product they made you started with a bad batch the nerve of these women

  • @StreetsidePhotoOnline
    @StreetsidePhotoOnline ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Sometimes, men gotta put in perspective what they call corny, and realize you're winning. These are the same women that call the everyday focused man corny, lame, and CREEPY, but many times the men they DO CHOOSE, end up hurting them mentally, financially, physically, and THOSE guys did not creep her out. She didn't have a funny vibe about the drug dealer, the abuser, the violent felon. The construction worker, the guy with glasses, the man in the city uniform, he creeped her out. Think fellas.
    Once you realize that no matter what position a woman is in, good or bad, she thinks she's settling for you, you just sit back and ride this life thang out.

  • @Ghost-fb3pk
    @Ghost-fb3pk ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good men, do not fall for her nonsense. She put herself in that situation, let her continue to pay the price. She got herself with pookie and ray-ray, let her stay with them.

  • @goodlife1500
    @goodlife1500 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m glad I was considered corny, I dodged Atomic bombs.

  • @jetjam725
    @jetjam725 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Running Words: Trauma, Healing, I Deserve, Hot Girl Summer, and Any Negative Words Towards a Man with No Self Accountability.

  • @dennisbarrett9604
    @dennisbarrett9604 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    After all that. She's been ran through more times than the sum total number of tunnels on a subway train, and nailed more times than Jesus she expected good men to give her their time?
    HEEEELL No. This is the very reason why
    Damage goods cause collateral damage.👎🏾🤮

  • @gorgeousbaby1513
    @gorgeousbaby1513 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Tell her to go back to Pookie and Ray Ray

    • @Brothapocalypse
      @Brothapocalypse ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly. Maybe they "improved" now that they're in their 30s and feel they deserve a 2nd chance too 😂

  • @gunznroses
    @gunznroses ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yup, they just want validation from other women. It’s goofy as hell.

  • @Noholdingback3
    @Noholdingback3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've been saying over the last 15 years to people all the time that women always looking for validation from a woman I always said that

  • @thesagesapprentice383
    @thesagesapprentice383 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Like eating a sandwich....off the floor....that's been stepped on...and bitten by thirty other people. Good men want the new model, not the used and refurbished one. This immutable FACT will never change, ever.

  • @BernardBethea6339
    @BernardBethea6339 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    They didn't want good men during the summer we don't want them that winter is coming

  • @user-of7pj7sx4r
    @user-of7pj7sx4r ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I rather be happy 😊 and boring than toxic and chaotic... these women don't understand that...

  • @NateTheGr8ness
    @NateTheGr8ness ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She made her bed 🛌. Now she's gotta sleep 😴 💤 in it! Better call Pookie and Ray Ray to help you change the sheets and pillowcases!
    If you do it once, learn from it, and DON'T do it again, you're a victim. If you do it 2, 3, 4, 5, and 6x, you are NOT a victim. YOU are a volunteer!

  • @enjoyingthedecline4319
    @enjoyingthedecline4319 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Save your breath men, they'll never learn. Just stay on your purpose.

    • @KingJancelot
      @KingJancelot 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah they won't change.

  • @marshallallied
    @marshallallied ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Women who do this are just revealing how immature they are.

  • @lesh4057
    @lesh4057 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️These women never cease to amaze me....she is absolutely nuts🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I'm without words right now.

  • @paulsanjurjo4390
    @paulsanjurjo4390 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You get what you asked for. You rejected the wrong guys and went for the bad boys. Now you want the guys who you once rejected? You expected them to wait around for you? Now you want the good guys? Work it out with Pookie and Ray Ray. What ye shall sow so ye shall reap.

  • @CLTrattler704
    @CLTrattler704 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The message I heard from Phil on this video was… “GOOD SINGLE BROTHERS…LEAVE!”✌🏽🛫🌍👏🏽

  • @dalebrown6148
    @dalebrown6148 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I got this from a post I saw online about the illogical thought process most of these females have in regards to decent men..."“If no other girl wants that guy, why should I want them?”
    Count your blessings fellas. Don't be stressed out about these females.

  • @The313dash
    @The313dash ปีที่แล้ว +16

    It’s the HipHop images. I’ve had women say if you ain’t been to jail or got a baby mama I’m good. Yes they want toxic men.

    • @thenewjord50
      @thenewjord50 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Even if you don't kill anyone too

    • @dcoldestjenkins5868
      @dcoldestjenkins5868 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      BM, go get your passport immediately!

    • @enviedeveryday2835
      @enviedeveryday2835 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No even before hip hop they like prince Rick James they weren’t good men

    • @KingJancelot
      @KingJancelot 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah if you don't destroy your community, you'e weak but if you try to put the youth awa from hamr, you're weak.

  • @actionjackson5759
    @actionjackson5759 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She deserves Pookie & Ray Ray, She belongs to the Streets.

  • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
    @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    "A win is a win" Multiple bad traumatic relationships without kids isn't a win. You just took a smaller L and have less baggage than those who had kids from those relationships.

    • @thomashammond16
      @thomashammond16 ปีที่แล้ว

      True because you take the aura of those lame penises wherever you go.

    • @dcoldestjenkins5868
      @dcoldestjenkins5868 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      BM, go get your passport immediately!

  • @karlkilcrease51
    @karlkilcrease51 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Her biological clock tells her those eggs are getting scrambled, she's desperate to salvage what's remaining of her youth as she sets on the precipice of middle age. Word to the wise to both ladies and gents, don't waste your life chasing after the hot chick or the smokin dude. If you have to chase them and they continue to play you to the left, they don't deserve you, you're too good for them. You are spiritually and emotionally far beyond their comprehension, that's why they don't recognize you.

    • @ms.virgo82187
      @ms.virgo82187 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very true...I never understood why women would try to fight over one man when there are several good dudes might not be the best looking but at least can hold a conversation. Looks are not everything I need some intelligence and that business mindset. And I found both in my man and he a couple years younger. Women yall better stop with all that BS! I'm middle aged and settle so it can happen...but you all gotta be open to what yall call the "educated lame" which I still don't understand what that's suppose to mean...lol