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REFUSE TO SETTLE | Let's talk Singleness, Love, Dating & Purity | TSLS Valentines' special episode
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 ก.พ. 2023
- On this special episode of @theshininglightshow , we sit down with some young people to discuss dating and relationships in the church. Watch and be blessed!
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Juliana, your response when she mentioned purity got me cracked up. I remember this is your main area. Sincerely, I draw purity strength from you. I used to think I was the only one meeting men wanting my body. As a teenager and a young youth, I gave in at some point when I saw it’s the norm. But my body kept telling me that’s not my own life. Now, the moment you begin to talk naughty, I am gone!!!! To hell with unnecessary romance in the name of getting to know you. No matter the urge, heaven is the goal. Purity is safer o💯
One, I really enjoyed watching this. Two, Pastor Tolu is really sound. Three, I somehow felt for the men in the room sha. They were really taking the hit 😂.
Forget it..this your show is a breath of fresh air
The conversation deep and meaningful
This is such a heartwarming comment!! THANK YOU!!
Kai🔥
So much insight and wisdom in just a video, God bless @shining light. This is really impactful, what touched me the most is that your purity doesn't make you God's delight but you are honouring God because when you accept Christ you are already His delight so your purity shows that you honor Him as His bride also.
Thank you so much @Ms Julianah, Pastor Tolu, Mrs. Flourish and others. I would love to see more of this, please.
Like I always say " the bible teaches us to run away from sin and even it's appearance but in this generation as you are fleeing the sin is running after you" indeed we need to carry our cross daily. God help us all.
Amen ooo🙏
The part of not listening to some kind music is so true I found Out few months back when I was depressed nd I keep playing oma lay music everyday believe I was getting Worst until I decided stop listing to them
Pls we need more Christian contents like this
Pastor Tolu steadily dishing out wisdom. I love Juliana's vibe. She brought so much life to the discussion.
Yeah she did and I loved it 😅😅
until we find our way to the old-time pattern we will never fully our quest of knowing God . GOD bless you, folks, for this insightful discuss
Ejiro with the wisdom.
Wow since a good watch
We need part 2
I was, truly, blessed by this. What a group of sound people! God bless you all.
Juliana shared my exact views on absolute purity! Hopefully, someday, I get an opportunity to sit with her on a show and talk about things like this.
This blessed me in no little way. Exactly what I needed. Now this is a good example of the church ❤ the vulnerability. I love you all and God bless you 🙏
Very good conversation
Sister juliana was just cracking me up in this episode 😅
What Juliana said about Fathers is it! 📌
This panel was amazing 🎉🎉🎉😂😂😂😂😂 i love the authenticity
Thank you! This is life changing ❤️
This is soooooo wholesome. Thanks for unpacking. This is so real.
This deserves more views it's sooo wholesome
This whole conversation….. So good, so wholesome, so good! Every word! Was God breathed. I was blessed, edified and encouraged. Thank you so much
Glory be to God!! Thank you Temitope!
I love the complete honesty in this discussion❤️ you all are super amazing thank you sooo much for this. Please ma I will like to suggest that, you can have a discussion with ‘church guys’ as discussed during the session. I think we need to also hear from them gan gan😌 what their problem is. That’s if it’s possible, thank youuu🤗
🤣🤣🤣 we will try o! Thank you so much!
Thank you so much for this episode. it was all shades for me. I cried , laughed, questioned myself and above learnt a great deal. The closing remark was the height of it all. Cheers to not settling
Wow!! Glory be to Jesus!! Cheers to not settling!!
This is amazing, thank you guys for putting this together💗
This episode is such a blessing and I dare say everyone should listen to it! Soo much truth and wisdom was unpacked here...kai💥👌. The talk on purity was very spot on!
God bless you all.❤
Thank you so much!!
This is such a wholesome episode. I love how these topics were well dissected.
Honestly, this is an eye opener
This was so so so refreshing to watch and listen to!!
Thank u for the message guys, it is very apt👌 The presentation of the host was amazing and the guests did so much justice to the topic of discuss, God bless you guys for sharing with us from ur pool of knowledge.
Quick let me point out some lapses and things I believe could be better for subsequent recordings:
First I will like to say that the video editor need to watch more tutorials on how to pick shots, especially reaction shots, particularly when he/she has to work on more than two videos coz most of the shots picked were total distractions.
Most times, we see the shots of the host when It's one of the guest's that should be there, a reaction shot was wat I expected but it ended up being the main shot left on screen all through...there are lots of inconsistencies that needs to be corrected, I was almost turned off but I told myself that i must watch it till the end coz it was very engaging, if not I would have switched few minutes into it.
The sound engineer also has a lot of work to do bcos some of their audios were low though should have been boosted during editing but it was just left to run, at some point towards the end, the host's audio was lost and we had to be hearing wat she was saying from Julianah's mic.
It was a fantastic production I must say but little little things like this can be avoided if you guys pay more attention to the minutest of all the things you do, like the lower thirds for the guests came just once at d beginning, dat of the host never even came at all...I mean it's not suppose to be pls, this channel is going bigger by God's grace and I pray that it will remain a light that will illuminate the heart of many to Christ's glory.
Thank u so much.
In case you are wondering why I see all these things, I'm a video editor and a videographer too.
Stay blessed sis.
Thank you for taking the time to comment Folakemi! We are working to improve our standards, by the grace of God our next production will be world class. Thanks again for the comment and observations!
This was such a great conversation! Thank you for sharing ❤
This is so profound!!! 😫😫
All shades of perfection! 🥺❤️
Loved this! Thank you!
This is really enlightening, thank you for putting this together
Wow! Absolutely beautiful! The honesty, the DEPTH, the sanctity! THANK YOU!!❤️🔥
This episode is really loaded ❤️❤️❤️❤️ love it 👍
Wow I was very blessed, thanks so much for this episode😍😍
PT is wise!!!!!! Omo, I stan!!!!!!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I agree with your point on building relationships from a place of friendship first cos most times or sometimes you get to see people for who they are, you get their opinions and views from conversation and right from there, you can see your red flags or green flags. From there, you can know this is someone I'd like to enter a relationship with marriage in view with or a no for you.
Thank you for this episode, it's been a blessing
Such a good and educative watch🔥🔥🔥😩
This show was so insightful, I enjoyed every discussion made. 👍❤️
PT is soooooo wise!!
Thank you, thank you. I was indeed blessed and learnt alot.
God bless you all..Amen
Juliana, thanks for sharing the light
This is so great and insightful !
Sis Juliana's laughter 😂
Wow, my goodness This was so educative. Y'all touched so many topics and spheres of life. Thank you so much.
God bless you for this discussion....loved it so much❤️
This was wholesome 🙌🔥
This is such an amazing eye opener..
Like!!!!!!!!!!!!!?.
Omohhhh I am soooo blessed.
Every second got me hooked.
From the Concept of Dating to Talking on Sexual Purity.
I love love this.
God bless you real good.
Amen!! Thank you!!
I enjoyed every single moment
Loved how free (so free) Ms Juliana was
This has been very helpful thank you love from Rwanda subscribiiiiiiing ❤God bless you all
I was definitely blessed 🎉
Watch what you feed yourself. Very important, thank you for this episode.
I was truly blessed by this. Thank you so much!!!!
You are so welcome!
Wow!
So much light here.
Thank you @ shining light,Juliana,Pastor Tolu, Ejiro and Ella
This was so good. Thank you
Glad you enjoyed it!
This episode is so profound!
It really is!! Thank you!
Ah! I loved every minute of this discussion! God bless y'all 🙏🏾
Thank you!!
And this what I always tell my friends, God said sex before marriage its for protection not punishment, because those breakup that dis not involve sex and the one that involved sex are two different thingsss🙌
Facts
Amazing!
Such an amazing episode
Thank you Mokunfayo!!
Bravo 👏👏👏👏 I love this 🤗.
Thank you! 😊
PT is a wise man 🤩
Jeez 🥺🥺... This came right on time 😭 Thanks so much flourish, I'm deeply blessed. God bless you ma🙏🙏
Wow.. Glory be to God!!
Such wholesome conversation. I learnt and unlearned alot. God bless you all.🤗
Amazing!! Thank you Jesus!
God really needed me to find this video today! Thank you for sharing Shining light show❤️
Thank God
This is wholesome, there is so much wisdom here. Thank you for doing this The Shining Light Show.
Thank you Atinuke, all Glory be to God
5 minutes in and I loooove it!!!!
💃🏻💃🏻
Weldone!!!!❤
This was an amazing conversation with so much to learn, and more topics to address in the future..
Thank you Uju!! So much to cover
This is always a delight to my soul... Thanks amazing people I was blessed 😊😊
So glad to hear!! thank you!!
Juliana, please I need a very savage line for all these married men who will come to you and start first with who they are and what they can give you, then boom, play with me 😂😂😂😂 as though they are toys. Like I get so maaaaaaddddd and want to give them the insult of their life and just hold myself. Suggest savage lines Abeg
Pastor Toluuuuu!
I swear!!!!!!! 😂
Thank You, Thank You.... I was spiritually, physically, psychologically and all the positive "ally" edified.
God bless you all and prosper your contents at building the Body of Christ.
Halleluyah!!
Have really taken enough time to listen to this discussion like twice. With the finishing part of I will rather be single that be in a relationship that is not God centered. I would say like Emmanuella have been hurt by people I loved from church, people who came in my life with the notion of knowing God but the experience was all bad. Have recently been hurt by someone that for the first time I felt was the one and treated me well. This whole thing had drained me ,I no longer pray as I used to, I dnt know what to pray anymore, have lost hope in love, have questioned Good, my faith is down and have completely shut down. I really dnt know what to do anymore all I want is to understand what God is doing in my life right now. This conversation was really good and has opened up my mind
Dear Esther, thank you so much for sharing your story! I'm so glad tht this conversation opened up your mind. It may seem like nothing is clear right now in your life, but know and trust that god loves you and your story will be a tool for delivering others in the future. Don't loose hope, have faith in God and his love for you! If you've prayed and it doesn't seem to work, switch to praise and thanksgiving. God is good and faithful, and never disappoints! I look forward to reading your testimony❤️- Flourish.
By the way, you can check out our interview with Chimamaka Ige. It's really powerful and I believe you will get more answers and clarity there as well. Here's the link: th-cam.com/video/QdyNhBo169Y/w-d-xo.htmlsi=LKARul6ZqQYAGIKz
Finally 🥳🥳
This is the second or third time I am watching this.
And I am glad I came across this like someone said, it is a breathe of fresh air.
We love what you are doing @theshininglightshow
This was so interesting and funny 😁 shining light show to the world 🌍
Yess!!! By the grace of God!
Keep it up shining light 💡, but please 🙏😭 can you please make a video concerning crush, love, and dating and just like saving ourselves from heartbreak like PT said for the Gen Z
I started this episode thinking it was too long and I couldn't finish but as the tips kept coming, I finished the whole episode. God bless you💕.
🤣🤣 so glad you were able to stay till the end! It was really packed with lots of goodies
Me too
Blessed
before you land lemme stand up😂😂😂😂😂😂. Aunty however, barzzzzz
Well done guys
Came here because of Pator Tolu oo, this is a needed conversation because o wa necessary
Yay!! Thank you for stopping by! Very necessary conversation
Marriage is a covenant
I no dey hear, I get coconut head. I will read meaning to every single act if kindness coming from a guy I like..😂😂😂..
😅 okay o
I'm watching this video at mid night and to be honest, church boys no dey try smh
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You are enjoying the attention of the sister as a Christian brother and you are doing nothing to clear the air for peace to reign is wrong,omo I am enjoying the youtuber's comment
See PT🤗
I don’t agree with what the entertainer guy said. Date with purpose. If you’re dating someone and you see that the person does not exhibit your prospective husband’s qualities, just tell the man that you both can be friends but not more! Date with a purpose, for Christians it’s marriage. If you don’t want marriage seeing the persons characters and you think you both are better of as friends, or business partner, or as just acquaintance. Determine which the person you just met fits into and relate accordingly without pressures. Ejiro, if I meet your kind outside with this kind of mindset, I’d just want us to be friends and business partners and that’s all. Nice show 🎉
Thank you so much. The talk show is very loaded with encouraging words and more experience.
Please if possible next long talk show, kindly break it into part of 1, 2, 3 as you like. At least 30 or 40 minutes each. Thank you
Great suggestion! We'll keep that in mind for next time! Thank you Ebunoluwa!
I’d rather be single than settle
Oh my goodness… I’m so happy to have come across @theshininglightshow . So much enlightenment in one channel. ❤❤❤❤
The truth about me is that I have come a long way in terms of making relationships decisions. And thus far, I have not made the best decisions. Right now, I am taking a new itinerary. Putting Jesus Christ first and allowing the Holy Spirit to guide me all the way. I am no longer in a haste to make decisions. Right now I’m just relaxing in the finished work of Christ in what concerns my emotions, my relationships, my future husband, my career, my life entirely.❤
Yes exactly!!! Resting in the finished work of Christ!! Thank you for joining the Shining Light family!!
Know who you are.
46:54 I never experienced fatherly love but I'm not one of dose who accepts less from a guy
LoL the guys are taking the 🎯 hit
47:10 it's just not knowing their worth
Believe in God and not in Jesus, how?
you guys did mention toxic woman , toxic girl who re refusing to change. thinking talking back to a man is nice. ladies that dont take correct and insult men because the man is not leaving up to their standard