I would rather mop the ocean than hear “let’s go with the flow” ever again!😂 If you’re reading this, never settle for less than what you truly want, sis! You deserve it all!✨
Avoid guys who are always shying away from talking when there’s an issue or act like there’s no issue on ground when clearly there is. I love Diamond’s vibes btw😍
In all seriousness, despite being light-hearted, this video gave me some reassurance that I’m gonna get through this situation I’m in just fine. The guy in question is literally several of these types at once, and I DON’T WANT THAT.
The type that tell you they don’t want anything before you guys start talking better listen to them. Because you’ll be the one to cry at the end. Talking from experience! Learned the HARD way
Funny how most of us ladies have similar experiences. Sad but kinda interesting what happening out there in all our various countries. Maybe we should look out for guys that deeply love us (almost to a simp) and will be great father's to our children
Diamond is so beautiful and free spirited, honestly she is just a delight. You both looked lovely. I love love her accent and how real she was with her examples. Bring her back.... she is a real one ✌️
I have been in that situation, the emotionally unavailable, those guys that drop bread crumbs and leave u scouting and questioning yourself. We want diamond back biko
The nonchalant and inconsistent ones are literally my worst😩. Its Actually the fine, good looking ones that are very unserious in this lagos ( their favourite word is let's see how things go )common will you get out from here🤣..
1. Reckless spenders 2. Guys that make you feel like they owe you no explanation for weird actions 3. Manipulative guys. 4. Guys that always get high or drunk.
I met a guy like that oh , you see this let’s see how it goes kind of guy. They are so fine. You would be so confused you can’t move on. It takes the help of the LORD 🥺. The English he used was early days ... we don’t know how it is yet. Let’s just vibe
And again and again I’ll keep saying this i love your in your 20s videos because I’m in my 20s and I appreciate videos like this all the way from South African ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍
I loved this video and I saved it. I thought I was the only one going through most of these things. Some people would say you are just too selective with guys but they really don't understand what someone is going through.
You see those Guys that would start listing all their wealth without even asking them on Day 1 of dating, Nah dem. Avoid them too. Baby, I'd spoil you geng just for mouth.
I dated a guy that lied to me that he was single, only for me to realize 5 months into the relationship that he has 2 Baby mamas and a girlfriend in France that sends him money........ Thank God I've gotten past that stage. E shaaa pain me ooo
You always encourage building friendships especially with girls. Personally,I'm scared of making female friends mostly because of the things I see girls do to their "friends" online and I don't want any of that, so I feel more comfortable having male friends...is that a good thing ?
Omo i got attracted to a guy, baba looked like someone with sense. it look me say 3 weeks to spot that he didnt have ambition. Always video calling me when im at work. Hey mogbe 🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️ cause he didnt have a job. The way i left the guy eh even him didnt believe that could happen. My sisters, i wasted time.....dont oh!!!
There's always something to learn in every video ❤️ In your other video, you talked about patience before going back into the relationship thing, is joining a dating coming off as desperate ?
The guy always trying to downplay your efforts and make you doubt your worth. They are the type that will constantly remind you of their own achievements and indirectly/directly make you feel worthless by comparing your achievements. They will make you have low self-esteem. We all need a man that will support and encourage us book. Pls run away from them!
Diamond 🤣🤣🤣 I enjoyed watching this Kamsi! Avoid guys who basically use you as a rebound love to get over their ex. They always compare every little thing you do to that of their ex. Finds it difficult to appreciate the little/big things you do, to the point where you end up becoming a pleaser. This literally, can kill your self-esteem and self love. Make sure the guys you're getting involved with has gotten over their ex.
So I’ve been here a couple times and your videos are relatable, funny and helpful, such queens!✨ I love it! Thanks for the tips but let’s also watch out for the “promise and fail” guys or the “promise and fail”anything honestly 😂.
That okpo part😁😁😁😁😁😁 this video was all shades of fun... Very relatable. I like the fact that you stuck to your real accent girl, someone like me will be tempted to sound like diamond inadvertently. Diamond killed it too....
All your points are exactly what's happening now and guys gossip way more than most ladies especially the ones that sleep with girls...they always kiss and tell!
This video struck a cord abeg😂🤧 "Go with the flow kinda guy", team "we don't need a title" NEVER AGAIN! Like you said they know what they want. Never settle. If it's red flag you're seeing no form colour-blind😂. Run! Before you get too attached
Like I met this guy and he was like let's meet up I was okay where? Nigga said we should meet at his house..... 😲 like. First date at your house!.. To me is a no no
The emotionally unavailable guys cracked me upppppp. 😂😂😂😂 The girl goes an extra mile to make him feel ur loved then boommm. The least argument he asks you if u've ever considered his feelings likeeee???? 🙅🙅 The level of toxicity is on another level
Omo babes!!! I really needed to see this video! Thanks you guysss🥺🤍🤍🤍 and Diamond is a total vibe!!🤗🤗🤗🤗 The streets have showed my good sis small lmao😂😂😂😂
Hey kamsi, love you and love your videos but sometimes i actually struggle to hear you except everywhere is really quiet or I put in my earpiece. If you can do something about the audio that would be great🤎
I would rather mop the ocean than hear “let’s go with the flow” ever again!😂
If you’re reading this, never settle for less than what you truly want, sis! You deserve it all!✨
Girlll preach😂🤎
😂😂😂😂😂
Until you hit 30 and your standard fall from that high horse
@@PAYDAYHEDGE another entitled Igbo man displaying his mentality
@@FavourBasseyOtu yeah another delusional Calabar woman that will hit 30 soon and understand what I'm saying
Avoid guys who are always shying away from talking when there’s an issue or act like there’s no issue on ground when clearly there is. I love Diamond’s vibes btw😍
Someone shying away is a sign of immaturity
In all seriousness, despite being light-hearted, this video gave me some reassurance that I’m gonna get through this situation I’m in just fine. The guy in question is literally several of these types at once, and I DON’T WANT THAT.
Good for you babe 🥰
The nonchalant ones are really the worst, and both y'all are so prettyyyyyyyyyy
Thank youu 🥰
Ditto that
Please bring this lady on the channel again and again and again. She's vibes! Love her already.
Was gonna say this 😂
The type that tell you they don’t want anything before you guys start talking better listen to them. Because you’ll be the one to cry at the end. Talking from experience! Learned the HARD way
Funny how most of us ladies have similar experiences. Sad but kinda interesting what happening out there in all our various countries. Maybe we should look out for guys that deeply love us (almost to a simp) and will be great father's to our children
Hi guys, thanks for watching! Hope you guys enjoy this video and feel free to drop your own type of guy to avoid ☕️ 👀
You're so good 🔥🔥🥰
The energy between Diamond & Kamsi is beautiful 🥺😍 I love it
Thank youu 🥰🤎
Diamond is so beautiful and free spirited, honestly she is just a delight. You both looked lovely. I love love her accent and how real she was with her examples. Bring her back.... she is a real one ✌️
Yeah pls bring her here more often🥺❤️
The way you guys are finishing each other’s sentences really shows your bond 😍😂
Avoid a guy who is intimidated by your success. Who equates your ambition or success to being materialistic. 🚫⛔️🛑
Totally!
Preach! 🗣🙌🏽
I have been in that situation, the emotionally unavailable, those guys that drop bread crumbs and leave u scouting and questioning yourself. We want diamond back biko
Diamond is absolutely stunning!!!
Mix signal = No signal
know this and know peace😒
The nonchalant and inconsistent ones are literally my worst😩. Its Actually the fine, good looking ones that are very unserious in this lagos ( their favourite word is let's see how things go )common will you get out from here🤣..
😂😂😂
Lmaooo 😂😂
😂😂😂
1. Reckless spenders
2. Guys that make you feel like they owe you no explanation for weird actions
3. Manipulative guys.
4. Guys that always get high or drunk.
I met a guy like that oh , you see this let’s see how it goes kind of guy. They are so fine. You would be so confused you can’t move on. It takes the help of the LORD 🥺. The English he used was early days ... we don’t know how it is yet. Let’s just vibe
The insecure guyyyyy ! Whew! Diamond had me at that example...
Kamsi and Diamond are literally twinssss. Love the energy so much😍😍😍
Thank youu 🥰
Men who never do any wrong in their own eyes 😆
Narcissistss
Can we take two seconds to appreciate how pretty Diamond is 😍✨
Omg can diamond come back to the channel🤩her energy is everything for me...
I am holding on to the "guys know what they want and they go for it".
Kam , you hit a point with the inconsistent guy “is it when you are married that you will calm down”???🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
And again and again I’ll keep saying this i love your in your 20s videos because I’m in my 20s and I appreciate videos like this all the way from South African ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍
Aww thank youu 🥺🤎
I loved this video and I saved it. I thought I was the only one going through most of these things. Some people would say you are just too selective with guys but they really don't understand what someone is going through.
You should definitely bring Diamond back! Loveeeeeeed this video, so insightful!💜
By far your best collaboration!!! Loved it 😍🔥
Thank youu 🙈🤎
I like how she placed an ad right b4 she told us the first guys to avoid.
Get that coins babe ❤
You see those Guys that would start listing all their wealth without even asking them on Day 1 of dating, Nah dem. Avoid them too. Baby, I'd spoil you geng just for mouth.
I dated a guy that lied to me that he was single, only for me to realize 5 months into the relationship that he has 2 Baby mamas and a girlfriend in France that sends him money........ Thank God I've gotten past that stage. E shaaa pain me ooo
Wow. For how long did you get to know him for ?
would love to see Akubeze on this 20s series too on guys, relationship & sex talks
You always encourage building friendships especially with girls. Personally,I'm scared of making female friends mostly because of the things I see girls do to their "friends" online and I don't want any of that, so I feel more comfortable having male friends...is that a good thing ?
The streets are SLIPPERYYYYY😂😂😂
Veryyyy slippery 😂😂
@@mavisanemoli8281 sisssssss
The “Okpo” 😭😭😭😂😂😂Kamsi 😩😩😩💔💔💔 I love diamonds energy !!! Y’all look so good together 💕✨
See that nonchalant guy, avoid him with everything you have.
Diamond is beautiful 😍 and I enjoyed this video. So exciting and educating
I thought you two are blood Sisters, had to check description to find out.
If you hear "let's go with the flow" Omo run oo 😂😂Leave his confuse ass.
Ayeee💀😂😂
The inconsistent one is the most annoying like if you wanted to you actually would, so don't fall for that ladies
Kamsi, Are we expecting Diamond again ?
This was so helpful...I meet narccicists who make me question my sanity...am glad to know am the sane one
I felt that "OKPO" in my bones🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
Lol. Me too.
This is the vibes and energy I signed up for!! 🧡
🥰🥰
I love diamond , I love the energy. Please bring her back ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Omo i got attracted to a guy, baba looked like someone with sense. it look me say 3 weeks to spot that he didnt have ambition.
Always video calling me when im at work. Hey mogbe 🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️ cause he didnt have a job. The way i left the guy eh
even him didnt believe that could happen. My sisters, i wasted time.....dont oh!!!
Definitely want Diamond back, loved this video! 😂❤️
Oh he watched my story 😂😂😂😂 bruhhhh we've been through that phase
😂 mute him x
Guys without goals and ambition ,and they are just like let it flow ...and me I'm like what the hell is flowing
🤣🤣🤣🤣 girl I’m crying
Please bring Diamond back the energy is amazing
There's always something to learn in every video ❤️
In your other video, you talked about patience before going back into the relationship thing, is joining a dating coming off as desperate ?
I dated a guy who is bipolar for three years, and girls, I almost died😭😂... Possesses more qualities on this list than not.
What does “okpo” mean?
Lol no sense
Before i continue, let me drop this (Diamond is so pretty)
Her voice😍😍😍😍
This gives me Nella Rose #girlongirl chat vibes. Lovely collab and interesting topic. Weldone Kamsi👍🏼😊
The guy always trying to downplay your efforts and make you doubt your worth. They are the type that will constantly remind you of their own achievements and indirectly/directly make you feel worthless by comparing your achievements. They will make you have low self-esteem. We all need a man that will support and encourage us book. Pls run away from them!
I'll say pray about it. Cause the only person I trust is God. If He hasn't said anything, I keep enjoying my singleness. Periodt.
True
Why can't I tag people to this video let them see their table has been broken 😂😂😂
A whole vibe 😊😘
What’s Diamond’s IG handle?
One question was your father once a principal of infant Jesus academy??? 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Diamond 🤣🤣🤣 I enjoyed watching this Kamsi!
Avoid guys who basically use you as a rebound love to get over their ex. They always compare every little thing you do to that of their ex. Finds it difficult to appreciate the little/big things you do, to the point where you end up becoming a pleaser. This literally, can kill your self-esteem and self love.
Make sure the guys you're getting involved with has gotten over their ex.
You’re both beautiful 😍. The girl in the white shirt reminds me of Ada Ehi
Thank you Kam,for bringing Diamond.Totally loved this video
Yay🥰
Omg diamond’s voice>>>
Avoid those ones that goes broke buying expensive things just to show off
So I’ve been here a couple times and your videos are relatable, funny and helpful, such queens!✨ I love it! Thanks for the tips but let’s also watch out for the “promise and fail” guys or the “promise and fail”anything honestly 😂.
Lol 😂 vitamin D lol 😂 please y’all shouldn’t spoil me I am purely virgin
😂😂😂
I am loving this… you girls are spilling facts!!!
Omoh Kamsi and Diamond is giving me brown skin girl vibes😍😍😍
Yasss hunayy ✨
I really like the energy and vibe please bring diamond back you guys look twins
Lmaoo I thoroughly enjoyed this video, the conversation was fun & very relatable. Diamond is a whole vibe too. Keep em coming ✨
It'll be nice to see Diamond on your channel again 🥰
I felt like you were shouting at me 😂😂..from that inconsistent guy part
That okpo part😁😁😁😁😁😁 this video was all shades of fun... Very relatable. I like the fact that you stuck to your real accent girl, someone like me will be tempted to sound like diamond inadvertently. Diamond killed it too....
😂😂😂 I’m done😂
We're almost at 40k 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
I seriously lived a relationship of compromise,and by the time I realized,I was depressed😥😥
Omo new subscriber on site. I enjoyed that too too much!
You two should start a show. So neat😍
All your points are exactly what's happening now and guys gossip way more than most ladies especially the ones that sleep with girls...they always kiss and tell!
The Nigerian / Irish accent is so lovely wow!
This is like having best friends!! I’m over here taking notes
This video struck a cord abeg😂🤧
"Go with the flow kinda guy", team "we don't need a title" NEVER AGAIN! Like you said they know what they want. Never settle.
If it's red flag you're seeing no form colour-blind😂. Run! Before you get too attached
I remember one during the lockdown.. telling me we don't need to date to know we love each other😹😹😹
Wow you guys look so much alike
Yesss, new video! I really enjoy your sit down videos
Why dragging it up?
That candle in the background has been there in a lot of your videos. Please what's the name? where did you get it and how much is it?
Like I met this guy and he was like let's meet up I was okay where? Nigga said we should meet at his house..... 😲 like. First date at your house!.. To me is a no no
I want her back🥺
Since you guys have told us the ones to stay away from
Tell us the ones we should accept too
Kamsi say na fixer😂😂😂 omg I love this video so much.
I definitely want more of Diamond🖤. 🤣You two are just the bomb 💣 The video was super fun to watch and helpful too 😘😘
I hate guys that come with on and off energy.... I don't give such guys time because it can be draining.
The emotionally unavailable guys cracked me upppppp. 😂😂😂😂 The girl goes an extra mile to make him feel ur loved then boommm. The least argument he asks you if u've ever considered his feelings likeeee???? 🙅🙅
The level of toxicity is on another level
Omo babes!!! I really needed to see this video! Thanks you guysss🥺🤍🤍🤍 and Diamond is a total vibe!!🤗🤗🤗🤗 The streets have showed my good sis small lmao😂😂😂😂
Please bring Diamond back, insightful content
It’s me saying ’drainnnn you’ at the same time with you guys...nice video btw☺️☺️
Hey kamsi, love you and love your videos but sometimes i actually struggle to hear you except everywhere is really quiet or I put in my earpiece. If you can do something about the audio that would be great🤎
kamsi great video but please work on the audio could hardly hear you in some of your recent videos. thanks.
Okay x
Sister why are your hands on your dress