🇵🇭 The Filipina that youre banging doesnt Love you…(the harsh truth)🇵🇭

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  • @Tmidiman
    @Tmidiman ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here’s the master class, this applies to women all over the world.

  • @robtsteiner
    @robtsteiner 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    good comments and thanks for cleaning up your language, much much better kudos to you for that.

  • @drmachinewerke1
    @drmachinewerke1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As long as I love myself her love has no meaning

  • @darlayjones669
    @darlayjones669 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everything you've been saying is really true and also very common in all third countries you go to. That's life.

  • @Sahrokh
    @Sahrokh ปีที่แล้ว +51

    @Jasper since you want to be true and raw, I'll be with you too. Year 2023: even if you are a 26 old NFL player, finding a woman who stays with you "just for love" is next to impossible. But here comes the truth bomb: we *KNOW* she bangs us "average elders" only for the lifestyle. We are not dumb.
    However, it's not like there's an alternative. We *EITHER* die a lonely death in an overpriced slum in America *OR* we bang a 9/10 22 old who does not love us in the Philippines. Which of the two is the best alternative? I thought so.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🎯🤝

    • @HeavyfromHollis
      @HeavyfromHollis ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I want an arrangement it's cheaper than marriage and I can get a few more arrangements if it doesn't work out..

    • @kingmaafa120
      @kingmaafa120 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts

    • @marcbrooks9062
      @marcbrooks9062 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh 😮you keeping 💯

  • @Shrimpwinglet
    @Shrimpwinglet ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That’s not just Filipina women, thats ALL women.

  • @RPhTom
    @RPhTom 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes, she DOES love you.... like her grandpa. She just doesn't LUST after you.

  • @silversurfer9019
    @silversurfer9019 ปีที่แล้ว

    What you're saying is true everywhere.

  • @paulmackie5622
    @paulmackie5622 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    good info

  • @TimBorggrenDenmark
    @TimBorggrenDenmark ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why you pick the Philippines over like Thailand?

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don’t pay for play I don’t wanna smoke green Thailand they don’t speak English and my exes from Thailand. I just chose the Philippines cause I felt like it.

  • @tomlambert915
    @tomlambert915 ปีที่แล้ว

    the rate of exchange in 1960 was 2.0 in the Philippines. what has happened to the economy since is a big factor.

  • @brandonlevy8680
    @brandonlevy8680 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    glad to find a channel that didn't sugar coat it. You summed it up when you said that (going to paraphrase) that it is an equal exchange. The guy gets a fine ass little morena and she gets a better life (and possibly her family). Been to the, Philippines MANY times and lived in Bohol and Cebu for two years and will probably return to, Bohol permanently in another year or two. For people who are new to the, Philippines. Don't try to get into their head (the filipinas), and don't try to have a deep conversation with them. They are so averse to confrontation that you will never get a straight answer from them. You will catch them in little lies and it is literally impossible to get them to say the truth. Even caught red handed. You have two options. Drop her and move on OR just accept that it is a business arrangement and don't confuse yourself. For the newbies. Filipina are ruthless when chasing another man. They don't care if he is taken or who his partner is. You are going to get a lot of social media request from her friends and family for... meetings. They have no qualms with stealing a man from their best friend, cousin or even sister. Also, they throw the word love around very easily. Just remember. You got your filipina by making her comfortable (impressing her) and being a westerner and if you met online, she is talking to other guys. If you met her in person, just remember, as soon as another westerner gives her any sort of attention (compliments), you are going to have an outsourced cream filled morena cookie when she gets home... and they hate condoms. Don't stress yourself guys. A replacement is literally right outside your door. Don't ask questions, don't try to get into her head and don't fool yourself. Have fun, keep her happy and if/when she becomes a pain, trade her in for a newer model. Again, a replacement is right outside your hotel/condo/air b&b/bungalow/house. Also, like, Jasper said. Besides the morena cum dumpsters, try to respect how poor these people are. Don't accept the "skin tax" but at the same time, tip nicely and treat them good. What is chump change to you can literally change their life. If you aren't complete ass, you will literally have male friends trying to hook you up with their family members. You can have pretty much ANYTHING you want in the, Philippines. Don't stress it but try not to lie to yourselves. That 18yr old you got isn't introducing you to her friends and family because you are handsome and sweet. She is doing it because she just hit the jackpot. Another funny thing is most of us foreigners like dark and slim women. In the, Philippines that is unattractive. So, we are (or will be) in a country that "demonizes" the type of women we are attracted to. Just enjoy your time there. For the weekend or the rest of your life but just don't lie to yourselves. That little sexy 18yr old will let you do whatever you can think of to her. But she isn't doing it for love. The alternative for her is a tin house with mats thrown on a dirt floor, sleeping on the same mat with multiple siblings with no running water and the bare basics in electricity if they are lucky and if they work, they are working insane hours for chump change and giving most of it to their parents and dying in debt or having a ton of kids so THEY can pay for her retirement in an endless cycle.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Facts brother 🤝 thank you for breaking it down 🫡

    • @staffanlundberg
      @staffanlundberg ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amazing well written comment clearly above average TH-cam standard. Makes me think ... What ?? Could this be written by the producer of this video ? Everything you mention is in line with what he says in this video. Except You added some sexy stuff like "They don´t like condoms " and more... Things that makes me think...maybe I should contact this truth-teller in the video that gives me such interesting facts about the Philippines ... oh well , what the hell....it was a good video anyway although I do not really believe that the filippinas all are that superficial ....I just don´t ...right or wrong ...

    • @brandonlevy8680
      @brandonlevy8680 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@staffanlundberg I just discovered this channel. Just letting you know my experience from visiting there over 30 times in the past 27 years and even living there for two years. You can believe or don't. Go visit there and find out and then it will be a moot point. If you scroll down, you see me disagreeing with some of the things he says (the comparison to, Thailand and the Philippines). This isn't the west and this mentality exist in MOST 3rd world countries. Go out of the tourist areas and see the conditions they live in. Then you might understand. There is a reason it is one of the "sexcation" destinations of the world (along with, Thailand and Vietnam). The acronym LBFM was used way before the internet. There is a reason for this.

    • @pandian3511
      @pandian3511 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brandon hi. You are right in your points, yes they will Never Ever tell you the truth when confronted. They always lie through their teeth. Yes they will destroy and have destroyed many good families in my country, and have caused many uncalled-for divorces!
      Over and above that I tell you, if a girl is a hideous hyena, as many of them are, she will go over to some asshole and get you shot by a gun. This has been done several times. There was a guy from USA giving video news about them, and he said it happens at most times. When you question her credibility, this happens. And she will be sleeping other guys without your knowledge, without remorse. You might not know this.
      So the rule of the thumb is, Never Ever Trust Them! They will tell you many
      I love you songs. Just fuck them and move on to the next conveyor belt. They are always there at every corner!

    • @staffanlundberg
      @staffanlundberg ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@brandonlevy8680 " this mentality exist in MOST 3rd world countries. Go out of the tourist areas and see the conditions they live in. Then you might understand."
      I agree that this condition is probably the most important fundamental in the attraction between young filippinas and western men. But this difference in material status between young women and older men has always existed as a fundament for marriage also inside of western nations. It´s only recently that it more or less vanished in the western welfare nations. Therefore I will argue that there also are other fundamentals that decide your relation with a young filippina, thai or vietnamese girl. Just like it was in the past in the western nations, when a rich man was highly appreciated by the poor working class women. If the elderly man is handsome, intelligent and has a good social personality plus is able to keep a strong material status for himself, his wife and and his children I think his chances to have a stable long term relation with a young filippian/thai/vietnames girl are good. However if You can´t hold a strong material ststus, well then You may lose it all, but then this is also the case nowadays in western nations. For the same reason You may think twice before you bring that cute Phippina to Your own western nation.
      Essentially I think we regard this matter in a similar way. We just express our views in different ways depending on our personal situations which may differ a bit for ...🤔

  • @akaBANGZaka
    @akaBANGZaka ปีที่แล้ว

    ..it's so accurate that it's funny....goog job, jasper

  • @trailguy
    @trailguy ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Most of attraction is feeling happy that a person has chosen you, the reason they chose you isn’t very different whether it be looks, age, IQ, net worth or family prominence. We all weight our preferences differently. It’s no more real or pure to weight your preferences one way or the other.

  • @edwarddebroe309
    @edwarddebroe309 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exactly, you are absolutely right. As you said, Dumaguete is full of them.

  • @bkbroiler8347
    @bkbroiler8347 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your absolutely right. Every man has a story complained about world zoom pointing out this fact. He's a duma princess...

  • @TheVoiceofReason4ya
    @TheVoiceofReason4ya ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Briffault’s Law “in relationships between men and women, the woman determines the terms of the relationship and that any association between the man and woman will only occur if the woman derives some benefit from the association.”

  • @mikedonalson6740
    @mikedonalson6740 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m 75. Ha ha. I believe you. I’ve been thinking of moving to Philippines. If I go. I will remember to keep my guard up

  • @willchu
    @willchu ปีที่แล้ว

    Real talk. Subscribed.

  • @cm6995
    @cm6995 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Finallly someone said it, I've seen so many of these guys hooking up with young Filipinas and it's so painfully obvious it's all about the loot.

  • @kuzinit2374
    @kuzinit2374 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best to start off by giving her an allowance, make her give that to her family if she wants, If you fall in love great , If she plays games , fire her

  • @leeboy244
    @leeboy244 ปีที่แล้ว

    your exactly right! 💯

  • @abhnergallegos5264
    @abhnergallegos5264 ปีที่แล้ว

    Real as hell

  • @hitechburg
    @hitechburg ปีที่แล้ว +49

    MEN and dogs love unconditionally, women love based on what they can gain.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow

    • @tydamon7316
      @tydamon7316 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Men DO NOT love unconditionally. That's fairytale shit. And even if you love someone, that doesn't mean you will stay with them. Love is overrated. Respect is key.

    • @KanekiWint
      @KanekiWint ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ​@@tydamon7316 If a woman was paralyed most men would stay, if the man was paralyzed most women would leave. I don't make the rules 🤷‍♂️

    • @tydamon7316
      @tydamon7316 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@KanekiWint It would depend on how she treated the man. If she was trash to him, he's leaving. If she was good, he'll stay. But it's not unconditional. That lie just sounds good. But it's a lie.

    • @keangwooichoo6138
      @keangwooichoo6138 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am single, so does not know about women

  • @lowrollerscratcher3563
    @lowrollerscratcher3563 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is not just apply in the Philippines. It apply for worldwide woman dating older man. I just let you know.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว

      Teach the lesson on your channel I’m well aware of how the world has worked for a high value man like myself not for you I’m not sure

  • @alfredopampanga9356
    @alfredopampanga9356 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sad but true

  • @spreadthevegemite8064
    @spreadthevegemite8064 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its the cold hard truth there

  • @exchng4n
    @exchng4n ปีที่แล้ว +48

    As a Filipina I am ashamed to the core of this truth. I’m married to a “foreigner” for 32 years, he is 7 years older, we were both broke but we worked, raised our kids, loved each other. We did not meet under these circumstances you mentioned but I met him in the Philippines and it took a few years before we got married so I got to know him better. There are decent Filipino women who will marry you for love but you have to find them in the right places. Real treasures are found in the deep. I hope I don’t get nasty comments here. I don’t get engaged in huge discussions but I feel like I have to say something.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️

    • @kinhason46
      @kinhason46 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I am married to a Filipino since 1986. Met her in the USA she 31, me 40. She's my 3rd and last wife. She was a working Hollywood actress, degreed and educated, multiple languages, with adequate amount of money, an MBZ, and looks. I wasn't any white knight doing a rescue mission as probably may be called upon.. I had been a single dad who raised my daughter since her age of 4. My wife wasn't desperate as 99% of your Filipinas. She suffered and stroke and I am still by her side like all of us would like if we suffered the same. Good luck...R-E-S-P-E-C-T

    • @EnforcerTV
      @EnforcerTV ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "true treasures arefound in the deep", never thought of it that way

    • @russellabad2271
      @russellabad2271 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You got nothing to be ashamed this shit happened everywhere even in over rated America

    • @justthefactsmaam5213
      @justthefactsmaam5213 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for your wonderful comment…We should all be so lucky

  • @johnpence1141
    @johnpence1141 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow this is so refreshing. The other channels try to imply something else when they damn well know what they are there for. At least Jasper is upfront about it.

  • @tomgerryinphilippines8817
    @tomgerryinphilippines8817 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its the reality when it comes to old guys with young women. I am 67 and have 44 year old filipina. She is my "young chick" and we have been together 11 years now. Yes i can give her and her kids a better life but she never takes advantage of me more than I am willing to give. The 70 something man with 20 something girl is hard to believe that she truly loves him but then again who am i to judge? If the guy is happy and the woman feels secure who cares. Thats how I feel about it. You can sense if a woman reality loves you by their actions and how they take care of you.

  • @cressmichael8816
    @cressmichael8816 ปีที่แล้ว

    My first favorite blogger ever ❤

  • @BarryBatsbak-f6o
    @BarryBatsbak-f6o ปีที่แล้ว

    You forgot to mention all the ceo's of 1-man digital wordpress studio's.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว

      ?

    • @BarryBatsbak-f6o
      @BarryBatsbak-f6o ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JasperinthePhilippines Many of these backpacker and digital nomad type guys try to impress these girls with being CEO's of their own little freelance wordpress website business. Even hand out business cards like that.

  • @Melvin-cd1oy
    @Melvin-cd1oy ปีที่แล้ว

    Facts 😂😂😂😂

  • @cressmichael8816
    @cressmichael8816 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please tell everyone 🙏

  • @cpeagle247
    @cpeagle247 ปีที่แล้ว

    I get what your saying, HOWEVER, you are too young to realise that some older men who have looked after themselves, savvy, sophisticated, relaxed - man, they are on another level. Experience and skill are everything.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol. I’m gonna be 47 in a few months. I’m not sure what men those are and let me guess you’re one of those men. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @cpeagle247
      @cpeagle247 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JasperinthePhilippines Aaaaha! why don't you show your face and overall physical appearance? You got plenty to say, after all, hiding behind anonymity are we? It's not what you say, it's how you say it. In general, however, would probably agree with you. Can name a few vloggers in their 50' and 60s who are doing well and there are certainly examples of more mature men having successful relationships with younger women. How are you doing with the ladies at 46?? I am 61, still stronger and fitter than many young men. You put down overweight older men yet nothing to be said about the epidemic of fat young men who cannot communicate, lack confidence, no money, immaturity, and have no idea where to begin with women!?
      The young men who get most of the women, you know. the so-called alpha players, the good girls don't want them, they are too reckless. My advice to older men is don't get serious with women under 25, they are still girls. The best age category would be 30 to 40 imho.

  • @blakerh
    @blakerh ปีที่แล้ว

    Just found your channel. I will send you an email soon. Thanks man!

  • @lucasfikaris6403
    @lucasfikaris6403 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you get alot of food for 20 bucks?

  • @charlesanderson6986
    @charlesanderson6986 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re 💯 correct

  • @doodlydodo
    @doodlydodo ปีที่แล้ว +22

    If there is a very old man with a young hot lady and he thinks she loves him then that man is delusional. But yeah if I was a 70 years old man and had a 20 year old hot girlfriend in the Philippines, I wouldn't care if she loves me or not. Does she give me sex when I want it? Does she she follow my lead? Does she show me respect and isn't combative towards me? If so then then I wouldn't care about her having an emotional attachment to me. I only care about how I am treated. Its a trade off. Like you said. They both benefit from it. Old man gets young hot Asian booty and the woman gets a higher quality of life.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very well said. 🎯

    • @MG77740
      @MG77740 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, its a relationship similar to a prostitute.

    • @doodlydodo
      @doodlydodo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MG77740 I’d say more like a sugar daddy.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup

    • @MG77740
      @MG77740 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@doodlydodo That's being kind.

  • @paulnoe9452
    @paulnoe9452 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent video Jasper. I totally agree .

  • @thebigdebacle
    @thebigdebacle ปีที่แล้ว

    And yet the truth

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup

    • @thebigdebacle
      @thebigdebacle ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JasperinthePhilippines I'm in eastern Samar now 13yrs I've seen at least 70 guys with delusional thoughts I'm 50 60 70 yrs old and my 20yrold filipina loves me for me all know have disappeared into the ether penniless my saying I told you so I'm a realist I hope my wife has young Filipino guys cause if its alright for the goose its alright for the gander

    • @thebigdebacle
      @thebigdebacle ปีที่แล้ว

      Great channel

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thebigdebacle ha ha

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thebigdebacle you’re smart

  • @richardshupe1737
    @richardshupe1737 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    money to a man is like beauty to a woman..what youre saying is found everywhere in the world..

  • @Jeff250lbc
    @Jeff250lbc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sad to Have to say it but Men should absolutely write this on the back of their hand..

  • @vincentfranklin4186
    @vincentfranklin4186 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😄

  • @eyeveealfa5606
    @eyeveealfa5606 ปีที่แล้ว

    daytime video. walking on side streets....the title sez it ALL....subtitle Cindi Lauper song= "Gurls just wanna have FUN" (funds). What else is NEW? YouRwelcome.

  • @wjmartensen
    @wjmartensen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hope youre youtube channel is getting lots of views, cant wait for your ativan episode

  • @keangwooichoo6138
    @keangwooichoo6138 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jasper, thanks for your honestly.

  • @1rockinthedadbod
    @1rockinthedadbod ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's why so many are widows. Back on a dating site to maintain the life.

  • @jeremyking3986
    @jeremyking3986 ปีที่แล้ว

    All relationships are transactional, nothing new.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว

      Many women have paid for me throughout my life even if they were half my age so you are right

  • @micclay
    @micclay ปีที่แล้ว

    I understand there's alot of good musicians in PI. Have you heard of someone hiring a private guitar instructor?

  • @SocialCreditScoreZero
    @SocialCreditScoreZero ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Both get what they want, she gets the money he gets the beautiful girl so no harm done. It's a winning situation for both. Love doesn't matter

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว

      Ok

    • @staffanlundberg
      @staffanlundberg ปีที่แล้ว

      " Love doesn't matter" Sorry, but You are delusional. If You start to love that "cute, sexy thing" it may break You completely ....

  • @catalysts17az38
    @catalysts17az38 ปีที่แล้ว

    good video bud, ill be over summer 2024. be safe and God bless

  • @Dmanz67
    @Dmanz67 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mines different!😂

  • @juiceman8108
    @juiceman8108 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This isn't any different then anywhere else in the world, this is common sense

  • @Arnuld15Governator
    @Arnuld15Governator ปีที่แล้ว

    The woman I am talking to never asked money from me. She's 26 and went to school for accounting. I'm 30 and told her flat out that I do not make great money. While I may be rich by their standards she wants to elevate herself out of poverty and support her own family by her own means. So the age gap thing didn't apply for me.

  • @vidong1704
    @vidong1704 ปีที่แล้ว

    If there is no mutual attraction, then it makes zero sense having a permanent GF who is with you only for the money. It is basically a long term, expensive escort whom you can't easily pay off to go away.
    There are cases in which younger ladies have fallen in love with an older guy but he had to be a fun person in other ways. It is possible but not easy to find. I mean, you can still find one, but you will have to date and date until you locate such a jewel.
    If the lady is over 25, your chances improve.
    So, my view on it is: if you feel she does not love you, which is not hard to see- she does not talk to you, stares into her phone, brings friends and talks to them, or walks behind you, not by your side, then, politely just tell her it's better you are just good friends and move on.
    The best way, is, if you need female company, you can go to bars and karaokes and you will have plenty. And during the day time, you can keep going out with ladies until you find one with whom a spark appears. Then, you build on that. But give yourself at least 3 months to see if it is real.
    Some gents choose not to date period. They just hang around bars, sing karaoke, and just live a free life like that. If you do not want to have a child and family, there is really no sense in dating.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, I mean there’s a difference between being attracted to your money most 20 year old Filipinos do not have pictures of seventy year old white man on the wall. I’m sorry that I had to be the one to deliver this message lol.

    • @vidong1704
      @vidong1704 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JasperinthePhilippines It is just common sense. However, I have met some brainy girls with whom I have clicked. You need to have a certain personality.
      It is not 100% impossible to find someone who loves you, but you will need to sieve thru maybe 100 useless golddiggers.
      And then, a girl like that would normally want a kid and a family with you.
      Some guys do not want to start the process even. Not when they are 60+.
      They just hang out the bars and this affords them non-committant female company any time they want. With no jealousy, no monthly allowance, no promises.
      It is not such a bad thing.
      Beats being at home with a person who does not love you. It is just a useless ballast on your life.

  • @petertosh4748
    @petertosh4748 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its transactional, always has been

  • @dhollongstreet4725
    @dhollongstreet4725 ปีที่แล้ว

    Harsh truth, don't care. As long as she is friendly and takes care of the few needs I have and will not turn into an "American" woman it is all good.

  • @edgregory1
    @edgregory1 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's ok, I don't love her either so it's perfect. Who needs the drama?

  • @SaulTeeBalls
    @SaulTeeBalls ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This man spoke NO LIES. Its the same thing in other countries and continents as well. I see it first hand in SOUTH AFRICA too.

  • @cressmichael8816
    @cressmichael8816 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man I love your videos and the truth thanks for honesty

  • @tedebear9943
    @tedebear9943 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hope this guy watches his own video again 20 years from now

  • @AngeleaniaNicole-co9tk
    @AngeleaniaNicole-co9tk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    At least your speaking the truth its like me if i was to be Elon musk girlfriend its just every american guy there is a Elon musk to most of them they don't understand we poor too

  • @retiredfive0829
    @retiredfive0829 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Dude, I love how you tell the straight truth! So many guys in my age group don’t wanna hear it I am 56 and the older they get it seems like the more delusional they get! And they really get pissed when you tell him how it is! So keep telling the truth I love it

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey truth hurts. Nobody delivers it like me.

    • @eduardomaldonado1647
      @eduardomaldonado1647 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JasperinthePhilippines You telling 100% facts. As an older man it is easier to get laid in phillipines but its because of the money. Pinay understand older foreign men usually are rich and more stable. Younger guys are poorer and sleep around a lot more unstable. A smart pinay will look for stability and if she is good will eventually learn to love you for it. I emphasize learn. She needs to learn if she don't take care of you then you will dump her like hot potato. Also men need stop wasting time trying court a girl especially in todays world at that age. Go out 3 dates and figure out if she is your type. Get her naked If she does not sex you by that point dump her and move on. Date many women until you find the right one. Only advice is don't be reckless wear condoms. Most pinay understand the game. You take her out to eat and pay a few dates sex is expected. Don't let a woman string you along for free stuff. Just be nice but don't be fooled for being stupid.

  • @garyhall856
    @garyhall856 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yap

  • @acttemp6170
    @acttemp6170 ปีที่แล้ว

    Getting married was never about love. Just look at the old times when marrige was arranged. It's about duty and raising a family. As long as she not giving the bush to someone else who cares. It's all transactional. You marry a women in the west and she divorce you and give it to a guy who does nothing for her, or a women who takes care of all your needs and has the ability to help her family. I choose the latter.

  • @koro9679
    @koro9679 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Finally, somebody's talking about the harsh truth!! Here comes a 70 y/o man holding hand in hand with a woman more than half of his age and he's so damn convinced that it's love!! Give me an effin break!

  • @Luvyumeash37
    @Luvyumeash37 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Japanese and chinese women are better comparatively in terms of loyalty

  • @rodrain2
    @rodrain2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m 75 and my filipina is 18 and she loves me. I don’t care what you say. 😂😂😂

  • @shakeblue5573
    @shakeblue5573 ปีที่แล้ว

    fair exchange is no robbery

  • @cressmichael8816
    @cressmichael8816 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are real 👨 man

  • @jimmynavarro162
    @jimmynavarro162 ปีที่แล้ว

    New subscriber luv the fact you tell like it is been there in before covic returning in August how to I take my spending money wasn't to comfortable with my wallet at security screening

  • @mistersniffer6838
    @mistersniffer6838 ปีที่แล้ว

    But what if she is always cuddling with me?

  • @litalaslo6375
    @litalaslo6375 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Court them longer and you will find it if she fall inlove with you.Stay single for the rest of your life and you have no head ache .

  • @carlsmith7458
    @carlsmith7458 ปีที่แล้ว

    I totally agree with you!. They just don’t show love.

  • @bigmike1976
    @bigmike1976 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    100% brother. There are a few that true. But most as you have said is spot on. Take your time guys. Lower age gap is best. 20 at the most.
    No reason older guys( 45 or older) for having a 19 yr old etc etc as GF.
    You are Wasting your time.
    Stay within a Realistic age and realationship. Do not support the family. Question this.What would they, her family have done to survive before you? Think on that.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว

      This guy knows what he’s talking about. He’s the real deal and he’s lived a good and bad side of both scenarios. Salute Brother 🫡

  • @DerekBrown-kv1tk
    @DerekBrown-kv1tk ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh well just do your best to not get attached to them since they wanna play that game just f*** them and bounce

  • @eddiem2211
    @eddiem2211 ปีที่แล้ว

    she's looking for an ATM

  • @onekerri1
    @onekerri1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice. Look @ 0:53

  • @ReyR0nin69
    @ReyR0nin69 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Great content. I like the rawness. I’m 39 and been to Philippines several times and dated several woman in their 20s, 30s and I would say ur definitely correct. It’s all transactional. However, even the same can be said from my experience in the west dating many women. Woman always prioritize income first. Physical looks, sex, personality are always secondary like the bonus. Especially the more attractive ones I dated in the west are just naturally more hypergamous and u can’t blame them for it. All relationships are transactional period… and it’s ok😊 as long as it’s mutually beneficial. Love is just a bullshit word to sugar coat the transaction. Now of course this truth becomes more blatant in the when there is a larger age gap.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True sir. Well said.

    • @Legal400
      @Legal400 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is rampant in other countries. Do not single out Pilipinos.
      The majority , like you, are remnant in your country. A fossil who became a victim because you were boastful just to bait a poor vulnerable individual .

    • @staffanlundberg
      @staffanlundberg ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Woman always prioritize income first. Physical looks, sex, personality are always secondary like the bonus"
      All women ? Also those in my country, Sweden ? I don´t believe You. I have a rich friend with something like a hundred million USD and we are both between 55 and 60. But he can´t get much when he is out in the nightclubs .. the girls all look at me for some reason. He also says that to me. Since I am older then him (but I look younger) I have to assume that looks etc matters a lot in Sweden for Swedish women. It seems to me that swedish women take their decisions mainly based on other things then money and then they regard the mans good financials as a bonus . Maybe not so in USA ?

  • @jameslee9726
    @jameslee9726 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As long my unit is happy I don’t care if my Filipina don’t love me.

  • @shadowboxer2747
    @shadowboxer2747 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “…. … Just like some of these goofies..!” 😅😂😂😂😂

  • @Anglophile2012
    @Anglophile2012 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are courageous and honest unlike many bloggers Jasper
    You do not sell a fantasy unlike many bloggers

  • @robfolks
    @robfolks ปีที่แล้ว

    No shyt Sherlock...tell everybody and they momma something that they don't already know, genius 😂

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว

      Doofus

    • @BlxckBaron
      @BlxckBaron ปีที่แล้ว

      Even though regular people like us know this, there are legit people out there who are deluded enough to think otherwise.

  • @puppetmasterblaster
    @puppetmasterblaster ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great points. Definitely good intel for people considering going there. Saving people from cold heartbreak and financial losses. Happened to me, not once but twice. And in my case, only a 20 year age gap. I was 41 and she was 19. Men and women are wired differently. I got hurt, burned and taken for a lot of money, but I make a lot here in the states and just shook it off like a BOSS. When I come back its with no hard feelings, I love PH and filipinas and now with a much different outlook 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Perfect. Like me & my Thai.

    • @richarddancer-w8c
      @richarddancer-w8c ปีที่แล้ว

      Richard Dancer
      It sucks being old and single. But if any guy makes it to his 70s - like me, he HAS to know money is the only thing that's gonna get him any female under 60

  • @vincentfranklin4186
    @vincentfranklin4186 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤔 Though your assessment is likely correct, employing that logic, you don’t love her either. You love the 🐈. 🤷🏾‍♂️ Keeping things real is good.

  • @Karma52
    @Karma52 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Karma52
    @Karma52 ปีที่แล้ว

    "...handcuffed in the province like some of these goofys" Ruthless! 😅

  • @marvindockery-lo9cw
    @marvindockery-lo9cw ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lots of truth. It took me three million pesos to learn this.
    The best you can hope for is an arriangement with a young filipina.
    Keep it business, do not fall in love.

  • @Biotrog
    @Biotrog ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The power of the p***y is a magical thing and can delude a man's mind--anyone, any time, every time, every where. Got to keep our heads together during those times

  • @darlayjones669
    @darlayjones669 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everything you just mentioned in this vlog is gospel truth to me. Second, that also goes to all the 3rd world and developed countries in this world, not only the Philippines. Keep doing the good job 👍👍👍👍

  • @MakatiMazz
    @MakatiMazz ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I thought I had a great 18 month relationship with a Pinay 36 years younger than me… that is until she ghosted me for no apparent reason. It both hurt me and confused me. I’ll survive.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, I never even ask why I’ve never been ghosted but if a girl ever breaks up with me or says I need space I never say a word they usually come back quick the ghosting thing I don’t know I’ve done that to a lot of people sadly but I’ve never experienced that, but you wanna know what you’re in the f**** Philippines you’ll recover

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      BGC is a different animal. Essentially you’re having girls from Quezon city in Pasay and areas of Makati come to you. I met a couple girls in taguig Anna Bgc, but it was mainly women in Quezon and pasay that were clamoring for me.

    • @MakatiMazz
      @MakatiMazz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I miss her. She was so sweet, but you’re absolutely right - next!

    • @fredbigornia1814
      @fredbigornia1814 ปีที่แล้ว

      Being g ghosted by a Pinay means they are having another relationship with another white man or black man, it's all business, no refund or return, maybe she is not contented sex wise or wants more money, maybe a rich man.! A younger man maybe or more boyfriends, Just my opinion and observation.

  • @youngbloodcarameloreo4608
    @youngbloodcarameloreo4608 ปีที่แล้ว

    You criticized us filipina but in the healthcare industry we the filipina who are the most willing race to have the compassion and have the patience to take care of you. We hade made a huge contribution to your country and make sure we are not living off the government’s money!

  • @cressmichael8816
    @cressmichael8816 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man I love you coz you are man of truth ❤️

  • @cressmichael8816
    @cressmichael8816 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are my hero ❤️ telling the truth

  • @solarguy1702
    @solarguy1702 ปีที่แล้ว

    Case in point; census taker came to the house but I wasn't home. Census taker asked what country I was from. After 14 years, nobody knew. They guessed Canada BUT they knew the name of my bank in the US.

  • @soup-nazi6824
    @soup-nazi6824 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So they are the same as western women...😅

  • @kell7195
    @kell7195 ปีที่แล้ว

    No Woman loves a Man like a Man loves a Woman, thats the way it works.
    No Woman will ever love you as much as your Mother loved you, brutal but thats reality.
    Your evolutionary purpose as a Man is to love your Woman, protect her and provide for the Children, you are disposable.
    Her evolutionary purpose is to Love those Children and care for them and raise them up.
    Men are the true romantics and finally realizing love only ever goes one way is a sobering wake up call but it is what it is.
    Deal with it and enjoy your life as best you can.

    • @kell7195
      @kell7195 ปีที่แล้ว

      Man loves Woman ---> Woman loves Children --> Repeat -- Mother Nature at work, if you fail to provide Her enough her inbuilt Hyper-gamey will change you out for someone that will, brutal but it works 🤷🏼‍♂

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว

      I teach the lessons here chief not the commentor’s

  • @mentorinspired
    @mentorinspired ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is my hang up on PH. Especially adding the lack of Infrastructure. At this point may as well go to Vietnam, Laos, or elsewhere and just live in Thailand. Pinas seem so high risk.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  ปีที่แล้ว

      Infrastructure? Been here? Live in a city. Manila no infrastructure issue whatsoever.

    • @mentorinspired
      @mentorinspired ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JasperinthePhilippines Do you not have crap roads, brownouts, and flooding issues??? Are the sidewalks not still crumbling and insects in apartments with musty smell. Especially in the city. You living like a tourist moving around isnt' the same

    • @brandonlevy8680
      @brandonlevy8680 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Every one of those countries you listed is better in everything with the exception of two things. Language (Philippines, everyone speaks some amount of English, although that can be debatable) and two, the most important. A visa. In the, Philippines, getting a visa is a joke. If, Thailand or, Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia, Malaysia or, Indonesia had the ability to get a visa that easily, Philippines would lose a huge amount of their expat population. I mean, Thailand you have better infrastructure, medical, safer, cleaner, food is FAR better, and the women are more beautiful. Exchange rate is almost identical, and cost of living is similar. I have visited ALL of those countries' multiple times with a LONG stay in, Thailand twice and again, if it wasn't for the visa, I'd have picked, Thailand OR, Vietnam over the, Philippines as a place to retire to.

    • @brandonlevy8680
      @brandonlevy8680 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@JasperinthePhilippines Sorry man, but I have to disagree with that statement. No blackouts/brownouts in, Thailand. I know you stay in, Makati (I love the hotel H2O) but once you get out of that little bubble, it is dirty. Trash everywhere and the roads are bad. Let's not even talk about internet service. Medical in, Thailand is FAR superior. Safety is another issue (the only time I was ever mugged at gunpoint was in the, Philippines). In a capitol city comparison, Bangkok trumps Manila/Makati in every single category. And once you talk about the smaller cities, Thailand wins by a landslide. Baguio, Quezon, Subic Bay, Angeles, Cebu, Bohol or Dumaguete don't hold a candle to, Phuket, Pattaya, Chang Mai, Koh Phi Phi (not really a city) or Koh Samui. Like, I stated in a comment above, the only reason, Philippines wins over the majority of SE Asia, is the language and the ease of a visa. Seriously, the infrastructure in the, Philippines is terrible. I remember during the, Mayweather and Pacquiao fight (I was in, Cebu for one of my long visits), they had PSAs about unplugging the fridge because the ENTIRE country was watching the fight. When, I had my property in, Mango Square the first recommendation, I got was to get a generator which turned out to be some of the best advice ever.

    • @brandonlevy8680
      @brandonlevy8680 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@livemina like I posted before. Besides looks, there is almost no language barrier, a visa is one of the easiest in the world to obtain and you are on a tropical island(s).

  • @Jedirising
    @Jedirising ปีที่แล้ว

    This whole video is facts !