I'm pretty sure Marriage is one of those times that you need to reveal, most other times you're supposed to hide it between you and Allah, but a potential marriage is one of the times you neex to be open so the person can see if the other is a suitable spouse
The adulterer (Zani) marries not but an adulteress (Zaniyah); and the adulteress (Zaniyah) none marries her except an adulterer (Mushrik). Such a thing is forbidden to the believers. Quran 24:3
Subhanallah I still think we have to excersise good judgment about “covering mistakes” of our own and others - what if someone is committing a terrible sin crime like molestation or incest etc? We surely have a duty to act upon knowing something like that
Yea this doesn't make sense. They are just twisting hadiths. Some of the signs of the end times is that Sheikh will allow Zina, riba and gambling and so on, so here we are
You think it is reasonable to start a marriage on a lie? What if the man is frequently associating with a man or men that have banged his wife and he is completely unaware? Not only has he entered a marriage he wouldn't have otherwise entered, he is humiliated. If this is the Islamic way, then the Islamic way is wrong.
@@divinity176If you find out about your wifes past then treat her like a trash and marry another virgin woman in front of her face. BE A MAN WITH DIGNITY.
@@divinity176 I will get to know from others for sure. One of my cousin sisters marriage has broken after one of her relatives told her husband about her past. Her husband kicked her out of house.I am happy for him
@@divinity176 i am not a nerd boy It wont be difficult to find about her past if she had. It wont effect my dignity because I will kick her out of my house in front of everyone else. She will be the one to lose dignity.
This was the comment I was searching for thank you 👍🏻 "The adulterer (Zani) marries not but an adulteress (Zaniyah); and the adulteress (Zaniyah) none marries her except an adulterer (Mushrik). Such a thing is forbidden to the believers." Quran 24:3
Stop confusing, tell the truth..... There is a sahi hadith SUNAN ABU DAWOOD 2052, KITABUN NIKAH GRADE SAHI (AL-ALBANI) SUNAN ABU DAWOOD 2052 BOOK 12, HADITH 7 BOOK 11,HADITH 2047.... Narrated Abu Hurayra razi Allahu anhu: The prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam said: The adulter who has been flogged ( repents to Allah) shall not marry save the one like him... In Musannaf Abu Dawood it is narrated that Abu Hurayra razi Allahu said: The message of Allah, blessings and peace of Allah be upon him said: "No fornicator on whom the hadd punishment has been carried out, should marry anyone but one who is like him " ,and it was narrated that one on whom the hadd punishment ( who repented to Allah subhnahutala) had been carried out because of fornication, married one on whom it has not been carried out ( i. e., who was chaste), and Ali razi Allahu anhu SEPERATED THEM.... why do so-called ulema hide this sahi hadith, why do they confuse the ummah....??? These are ahkamat by Allah subhnahutala, don't play with them..... don't give your personal opinion.....
This is exactly why a lay person is not supposed to read a hadith and interpret on his own. As the hadith stated that hadith only applies to someone who has been flogged, which basically means that his/her sin is known to the public. Next time see what the scholars have said about a matter before making your own conclusion.
@@AbdulazizKider there's other scholars saying opposite, that under certain such circumstances it is acceptable to reveal it indirectly without explicitly saying so. zakir naik and yasir qadhi. ppl forget everything has conditions on when it should and shouldn't be applied.
Just reject the man's proposal without revealing anything about your past sins in detail. 🧠😇 As a guy, I'd proudly reveal that I'm a 100% virgin to my potential wife without her asking.
Why does the married man who did zina with an unmarried man get away with it without any damages, especially when he had promised that he would marry the unmarried woman and make his second wife?!
nina sones yes you are 100% right many who called themselves "men" are hypocrites c*** they have sex before marriage and then they want a virgin girl to marry but god knows what to do and they will pay in this life before the day of judgment if they didn't repent and stop their hypocrisy . most to blame are the men i'm with you on this , but at the end of the day they didn't have sex with trees they commit this sin with a girl with her own freewill . that's why i said the one who saved himself (man or woman)has the right to say i want a partner who saved him self also and the rest they should shut their mouths and never blame anyone for the same mistake they commit (sorry for my bad English 😂)
Da Li thats what i think to ... a virgin have the right to get a virgin an equal right .. at one point you not 100% right , as you say the men had sex with women who wanted to ! Thats not right many girls and women get raped and abused or false hope like the guy say i wana marry you and have sex after this he say i dont want you no more even if he was the one who take her virginity.
nina sones i mean the majority with their own free will but of course there's some exceptions any women who got raped still a virgin according to Islam , no one has the right to blame her
Da Li its still not the majority. How many women get lies over lies from men just to have sex , if you ask women would you like me to take your virginity but i will not marry you , most of them would say no.
May allah save me and my brothers and sisters from these kind of spouses
I'm pretty sure Marriage is one of those times that you need to reveal, most other times you're supposed to hide it between you and Allah, but a potential marriage is one of the times you neex to be open so the person can see if the other is a suitable spouse
Allah has mentioned repentance in the quran so no matter what you did allah is most forgiving.
Allah can forgive but not humans
The adulterer (Zani)
marries not but an
adulteress (Zaniyah);
and the adulteress
(Zaniyah) none marries her except an adulterer
(Mushrik). Such a thing is forbidden to the
believers. Quran 24:3
Subhanallah I still think we have to excersise good judgment about “covering mistakes” of our own and others - what if someone is committing a terrible sin crime like molestation or incest etc? We surely have a duty to act upon knowing something like that
He said it something the person still doing???
If not, then concealing is better.
K Musa M Kamara so if a man stops molesting a child then justice for that crime is not something to bring upon him?
Yea this doesn't make sense. They are just twisting hadiths. Some of the signs of the end times is that Sheikh will allow Zina, riba and gambling and so on, so here we are
Haqq
@@mylaughingcompilations4963facts bro
This is the first truly honest and reasonable answer i have heard to this topic
You think it is reasonable to start a marriage on a lie? What if the man is frequently associating with a man or men that have banged his wife and he is completely unaware? Not only has he entered a marriage he wouldn't have otherwise entered, he is humiliated. If this is the Islamic way, then the Islamic way is wrong.
@@divinity176If you find out about your wifes past then treat her like a trash and marry another virgin woman in front of her face.
BE A MAN WITH DIGNITY.
@@idain9048 What if you don't find out but others around you know? What chance of dignity do you have then?
@@divinity176 I will get to know from others for sure.
One of my cousin sisters marriage has broken after one of her relatives told her husband about her past. Her husband kicked her out of house.I am happy for him
@@divinity176 i am not a nerd boy
It wont be difficult to find about her past if she had. It wont effect my dignity because I will kick her out of my house in front of everyone else. She will be the one to lose dignity.
lol after having fun in youth she expect a good husband 😂😂😂
@@falak87lol
Fr😂
This was the comment I was searching for thank you 👍🏻 "The adulterer (Zani)
marries not but an
adulteress (Zaniyah);
and the adulteress
(Zaniyah) none marries her except an adulterer
(Mushrik). Such a thing is forbidden to the
believers." Quran 24:3
Exactly bro😂😂
@@somebrotherfromgermany actually, that is not what the verse says. It speaks of evil men and women, not those who do zinah.
Stop confusing, tell the truth.....
There is a sahi hadith
SUNAN ABU DAWOOD 2052, KITABUN NIKAH
GRADE SAHI (AL-ALBANI)
SUNAN ABU DAWOOD 2052
BOOK 12, HADITH 7
BOOK 11,HADITH 2047....
Narrated Abu Hurayra razi Allahu anhu: The prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam said: The adulter who has been flogged ( repents to Allah) shall not marry save the one like him...
In Musannaf Abu Dawood it is narrated that Abu Hurayra razi Allahu said: The message of Allah, blessings and peace of Allah be upon him said: "No fornicator on whom the hadd punishment has been carried out, should marry anyone but one who is like him " ,and it was narrated that one on whom the hadd punishment ( who repented to Allah subhnahutala) had been carried out because of fornication, married one on whom it has not been carried out ( i. e., who was chaste), and Ali razi Allahu anhu SEPERATED THEM....
why do so-called ulema hide this sahi hadith, why do they confuse the ummah....???
These are ahkamat by Allah subhnahutala, don't play with them..... don't give your personal opinion.....
finally an answer. it never sat well with me. that ppl should deceive.
do you have the sources for the other parts you mentioned?
This is exactly why a lay person is not supposed to read a hadith and interpret on his own. As the hadith stated that hadith only applies to someone who has been flogged, which basically means that his/her sin is known to the public. Next time see what the scholars have said about a matter before making your own conclusion.
@@zenastronomy no one said they should deceive but that they should not expose their sins. Lying obviously is not allowed
@@AbdulazizKider there's other scholars saying opposite, that under certain such circumstances it is acceptable to reveal it indirectly without explicitly saying so. zakir naik and yasir qadhi.
ppl forget everything has conditions on when it should and shouldn't be applied.
How should she tell him she is not a virgin
Just reject the man's proposal without revealing anything about your past sins in detail. 🧠😇
As a guy, I'd proudly reveal that I'm a 100% virgin to my potential wife without her asking.
@@infj5196not everyone can tell it openly many people are shy like me. But I don't think a shy person will commit zina tho
It's marriage?
does anybody know who this ustadh is? jazaakumullahukhoiro
Ustadh shareef al araby
Why does the married man who did zina with an unmarried man get away with it without any damages, especially when he had promised that he would marry the unmarried woman and make his second wife?!
Cause its al Islaaaaam the 'religion' invented by a sex addict and Warlord mohhaaaamed (pi** be upon him) inshalalahla
He doesn't pure muslim women are also not allowed to marry unpure muslim men
what do you mean with 'get away' ?
What about the guy ? Should he be a virgin till marriage , and if not should he tell his wife ?
nina sones yes he should for me
a virgin man has the right to marry a virgin women and a virgin women has also the right to marey a virgin man
nina sones yes you are 100% right many who called themselves "men" are hypocrites c*** they have sex before marriage and then they want a virgin girl to marry but god knows what to do and they will pay in this life before the day of judgment if they didn't repent and stop their hypocrisy . most to blame are the men i'm with you on this , but at the end of the day they didn't have sex with trees they commit this sin with a girl with her own freewill .
that's why i said the one who saved himself (man or woman)has the right to say i want a partner who saved him self also and the rest they should shut their mouths and never blame anyone for the same mistake they commit (sorry for my bad English 😂)
Da Li thats what i think to ... a virgin have the right to get a virgin an equal right .. at one point you not 100% right , as you say the men had sex with women who wanted to ! Thats not right many girls and women get raped and abused or false hope like the guy say i wana marry you and have sex after this he say i dont want you no more even if he was the one who take her virginity.
nina sones i mean the majority with their own free will but of course there's some exceptions any women who got raped still a virgin according to Islam , no one has the right to blame her
Da Li its still not the majority. How many women get lies over lies from men just to have sex , if you ask women would you like me to take your virginity but i will not marry you , most of them would say no.