Zimbabwe is a broken society ... .. this young mother is crying out for help. This interview is sad in that it offers little help to a desperate mother of 2 aged 22. The presenter needs to research and be able to sign post people who present in such situations. The biggest issue is the welfare of the young children who are likely to suffer significant distress.
I cant believe she narrated her story without crying, she is such a strong woman. I cant help but feel sad for this woman. She suffered, she is suffering and i hope she gathers the strength to walk away from all this toxicity! How i wish she could just start over and forget about this whole mess. kungoti pane vana hapo and its not easy kukanganwa. Asi zvinogoneka. Wish u all the best wangu asi zvekuchamirira gupuro ratova drama. Go back to school, educate and upgrade yourself. Usazodzokera prizzz nyangwe ukanyengererwa sei because uchachema. Focus on your life and children. Ichava nhoroondo. Shinga mwanasikana
It's so sad to have parents like Fantan's mother. Some mothers are destiny killers, and they use muti to control their sons/daughters. Fantan's mother is worse than all mothers I know.
Her husband is very manipulative and abusive..And from all the issues she is highlighting,they are gaslighting her,making her feel like she is the one at fault and it's totally wrong 🤦..
Yu speak so well lil sis,life goes on,the sky is jus a measurement, I see yu achieving great things,yu are strong n focus.Vana vanokura uye iwe uchikurawo.Hazvina kutanga newe,leave this toxic relationship.Believe yu me,there is a better life ahead ,Trust God, love yourself n recover. Yu are down today, jus stumble,rise up,dust yourself n move on.
She is wife metirial , , humble and submissive is her natural character, and she believe in working... ahhh chii chaungazodazve pamkadzi umm anozvara, haahuri. Akakomborerwa achawana mkadzi uyu.
The lady is so beautiful and even the way she speaks actually showed her true behavior.Anavamwene ngavasiye tsika yokuparadza dzimba dzavana imba mota passport zvese mozvida ko iye muroora odii
When a man hides important issues like property documents to his wife, is not clear about it or dodges discussions to do with this it means he sees no future with you. Fantan knew exactly what he was doing.
I don't know hangu but ollah pa interview iyi aida ku sounder semunhu asina chakaipa chaataura pamsoro pa fantan, ungati nyaya idzi dzinowanikwa mudzimba dzese sei munhu achipwanya zvinhu mumba nekuisa ma blankets mu tub 🤷♂️
This is why we always encourage our sisters to have something to fall on if things go bad like this. Varume we are cruel and we always know we can sofa surf anywhere tosiya hedu vana
@yvonne katiyo yea I get the but I am talking about maybe chikoro, a career, or maybe katsapo kemari kakaiswa paside for rainy days like this. No disagreeing with what you are saying
Ben ndapabata hangu,of course as a married woman unofanira kusungirira,hausi kumuziva Fantan iwe,unoigirwa chingwa nemadomasi,pa carrier level,imagine at 15 yrs Gamu alive minor
Wife: I saw no red flags in dating. also wife: he had another girlfriend, he lied to me that he was taking me home when he was taking me to his house and forced me to stay there. I was 15. If he is capable of ignoring boundaries and doing whatever he wants with you without your input how will that suddenly change in marriage? That mother in law shd leave that house. Sell the house and divide the money
Gamu you might not see it now but that narcissist leaving is a blessing to you. You are a beautiful, strong and smart woman who will one day be successful in life. Even if he ever tries to reconcile in the future, please don't take him back, kuzvidzosera kumashure. Maybe achazogarisana namai vake sezvo vese vaine moyo wehutsinye. What kind of mbuya nababa who abandon mwana like they did the 16 year old. Karma will come knocking vachapfidza zvavo nekuti kutambura kurikuita mwana iyeye nevako zvichavapa munyama. Amwene vacho munhu akaipa who controls her son sepwere. Iyewo son wacho akapusa, he's not a man yet if he reports everything to mummy dearest. He will never have a successful relationship if he continues to allow his mother to meddle. Final and most important thing, never protect an abuser that's what enables them to continue unchallenged.
This is so sad Gamu must be 19 right now with 2 kids agh zvakaoma . All the best i wish I hope all the best for her . Ngaashandire vana hupenyu hwakanaka kumberi .
Ummm this lady is young but very calm, intelligent and knows what she wants, very assertive. On top of that she is beautiful 😍. What boggles my mind is whats with us men kurasa chirimumaoko nekuda kuombera. Someone is going to live a life of regret if one fails to wake ⏰ up and smell the coffee ☕
This lady deserves better, who on earth in this 21st century denies his wife to do side hustles? Haisi stone age era ino. The lady needs to be with someone who respects her and appreciate her. From her narration it clearly shows DJ is not husband material, vakomana vemjolo with too much pride and want to potray a life-style they do not afford. Its just sad - the lady needs to be away from this man
Yeah, Amai munoziva kutaura! Makarwairwa! Chero maphone calls enyu anoratidza ninipo! Musarasa hunu hwenyu amai! I got three major degrees from you: Humility, Obedience, and Meekness! You deserve More Gamu!
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She’s so down to earth ♥️
A very humble lady
This lady is a gem. A pure gem ❤️❤️❤️
You can say that again
Don’t be deceived by social media fellas.
@itaicomfort you're on point 🤝
@itaicomfort no but akarohwa kaa ska ofa achirohwa mapurisa aripo
What a beautiful, lovely, humble and mature woman who fell in abusive hands. So sad.
Can someone with a heart marry this lady, ave nepeace. She doesnt deserve this, so humble♥️
A DIGNIFIED WOMAN INDEED,she is one out of a thousand,at her age to be so submissive,humble and lowering herself,i love you GAMUUU.
Oh Gamu! you are a beautiful person inside and out.Very fluent and respectful.
Very humble woman, she deserves better
Taura hako.l can have her semuroora wangu.
True
Akashandiswa negweregwere. She has to be paid for every development that happened achina fan-tan
Fantan chibenzi chemunhu
Mmmmmm haachaiti dear
Zimbabwe is a broken society ... .. this young mother is crying out for help. This interview is sad in that it offers little help to a desperate mother of 2 aged 22. The presenter needs to research and be able to sign post people who present in such situations. The biggest issue is the welfare of the young children who are likely to suffer significant distress.
Narcissists will never want you to do your own thing because they always want to have control over you
Well said
I cant believe she narrated her story without crying, she is such a strong woman. I cant help but feel sad for this woman. She suffered, she is suffering and i hope she gathers the strength to walk away from all this toxicity! How i wish she could just start over and forget about this whole mess. kungoti pane vana hapo and its not easy kukanganwa. Asi zvinogoneka. Wish u all the best wangu asi zvekuchamirira gupuro ratova drama. Go back to school, educate and upgrade yourself. Usazodzokera prizzz nyangwe ukanyengererwa sei because uchachema. Focus on your life and children. Ichava nhoroondo. Shinga mwanasikana
She sounds very honest.She seems to have really tried her best to keep the marriage intact.
Akafanana naPrudence Katomeni.Very smart kid.
squanda`s voice too
Vakafanana zvisingaite
Pamwe ndi tete vake ne dimple iro 🙌
It's so sad to have parents like Fantan's mother. Some mothers are destiny killers, and they use muti to control their sons/daughters. Fantan's mother is worse than all mothers I know.
Vakafananisa
Gamu is mature for her age.mapudzi anowira kusina hari shuwa..Gamu all shall be well with you hako.
Her husband is very manipulative and abusive..And from all the issues she is highlighting,they are gaslighting her,making her feel like she is the one at fault and it's totally wrong 🤦..
I wish you all the best in your next marriage , u will get someone who loves you for you❤
I also saw it in the spirit 🙌
Such a mature person my sister my advice is you are still young and life still has a lot to offer you my dear
Matrue colours aFantan taaona nhasi, we believe you Gamu
Pathetic
Yu speak so well lil sis,life goes on,the sky is jus a measurement, I see yu achieving great things,yu are strong n focus.Vana vanokura uye iwe uchikurawo.Hazvina kutanga newe,leave this toxic relationship.Believe yu me,there is a better life ahead ,Trust God, love yourself n recover. Yu are down today, jus stumble,rise up,dust yourself n move on.
Mmmmm very touching .. wishing you the best gulez gamu 👏🏾 Mwari vakuvhurirei Nzira
Ola that laugh pataurwa zvekuvaka Borrowdale🤣
I thought I was the only one who noticed haha!! No harm in aiming high right? 😅
She is wife metirial , , humble and submissive is her natural character, and she believe in working... ahhh chii chaungazodazve pamkadzi umm anozvara, haahuri. Akakomborerwa achawana mkadzi uyu.
Mashoko makukutu👏👏
❤very true
Lovely and well explained . Gamu is too mature for her age. Decent
Nothing can be far from the truth than this
The lady is so beautiful and even the way she speaks actually showed her true behavior.Anavamwene ngavasiye tsika yokuparadza dzimba dzavana imba mota passport zvese mozvida ko iye muroora odii
38:21 that laugh from DJ Ollah when she said Fantan promised to buy her a stand in Borrowdale. 🤣🤣🤣
I thought ndin ndega ndapaona, apo i am from Chi town, ka laugh
Very humble wife may God bless her
I believe it now musoro waFantan inherera shuwa wakafirwa nepfungwa 😢 😢 😢
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😁😁😁 nhai veduwe kukura kwese kwaakaita kuye wotoona kuti hapana zvoripo
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
The rascal dread😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
but Gamu is full of maturity
Rascal vakaenda nema uniform madiki vakabatwa zvavo nembanje
Vakuinda kunoita zvikiribidi rascal dread
Yeah amature dan fantan
Zvikiribidi zvangu vakapfuura nekwaboyaman bvavatenga uniform diki😂😂😂
😆😆😆😆😆😆 Zvikiribidi hezvooooo
Why is it wifes of Zimdance crew are so humble and soft
Nekuti mapudzi anowira kusina hari
Training
No one is perfect but I am impressed by the way she speaks.....anogarika naye uyu.Vakakomborerwa zvavo vanaye.........
Very composed. I like her too.
@@majobho2034 haaite uyu varume vashoma vanoda vakadzi vanofukura hapwa like this.
@@johannesjohannesj.m9061 avekufukura after mufesi amuitawo mayazi. Pavaive vese haana kufukura hapwa.
Fantan lost a humble, family loving and well mannered wife
Do you know her did you stay with her?
+ beautiful
Thats what i saw
Winky D please teach Fantan kid to be mature ... he seriously need your lessons
😂😂
Haunyepe ndasiririswa
very mature woman.Woman go through a lot.Chakafukidza dzimba matenga.I am embarrased to hear this about Fantan
this lady wanted her relationship you can hear from those audios she was submissive and respectful
Very true
Hello Panashe, howzit. Ndi Isaac ku Botswana
She was submissive because haana pekutangira in life. Arikuda kuchengetwa nekuchengeterwa vana. Hurombo hunokudereso.
Decent young lady! Wish her the best
Olah your interview skills are top notch 👌 👏
She is humble ❤️❤️❤️❤️wish you all the best gamu
Mai va Fantan is the real problem here ngavarege mwana ararame life yake purizi
Taura hako ,,mai va fantan vane chekuita panyaya iyi
Very true Mai ndoproblem hombe
very true
Very humble lady i love you keep it up dear chengeta vana vako.kana asisade rega akadaro zvishandire uchengete vana.
This woman is very mature ,,,,tinokushuvira zvakanaka muupenyu nevana vako
Mai va fantan ndiyo honzeri yezvese
He is mama's boy, havarumuri havavaki achawana achisiya kusvika achembera.
Chokwadi
very humble and honest lady
When a man hides important issues like property documents to his wife, is not clear about it or dodges discussions to do with this it means he sees no future with you. Fantan knew exactly what he was doing.
This woman is a good lady surely she deserve a good man....not this type of radicals
I don't know hangu but ollah pa interview iyi aida ku sounder semunhu asina chakaipa chaataura pamsoro pa fantan, ungati nyaya idzi dzinowanikwa mudzimba dzese sei munhu achipwanya zvinhu mumba nekuisa ma blankets mu tub 🤷♂️
Ndiwe wakachinjisa zvinhu haadi kuti uite zvemabhero
Yah I saw that too
This is why we always encourage our sisters to have something to fall on if things go bad like this. Varume we are cruel and we always know we can sofa surf anywhere tosiya hedu vana
Anga asingamibvumidze ndopakatangira Hondo dzose Gamu atanga kitchen yake,Fantan akapwanya zvinhu zvose ndozvakaita kuti Gamu aende kupolice
@yvonne katiyo yea I get the but I am talking about maybe chikoro, a career, or maybe katsapo kemari kakaiswa paside for rainy days like this. No disagreeing with what you are saying
Ben ndapabata hangu,of course as a married woman unofanira kusungirira,hausi kumuziva Fantan iwe,unoigirwa chingwa nemadomasi,pa carrier level,imagine at 15 yrs Gamu alive minor
Fantan was abusing this woman using his fake celebrity status.. very manipulative that bastard,, run with your life my sister
Run my sister.
I hve full respect for you Gamu,deep down u hurt Fantan please as a man jus man up for your family
22 years , May the good lord bless u
Very beautiful and humble woman. She deserves a better man than Fantan.
Unfortunately our sisters go for these hood rascals. Gamu ndotokudawo sha.
I love her🥺🖤
I'm team Gamu all the way . Dj Fantan ngapete muswe amunhu mukuru wani
Welldone Gamu keep it up remain focused zvedzimba zvinowanikwa. I hope the man will not turn his back on kids.
She is very humble.
Mapudzi anowira kusina hari
u deserve better uchawana umwe achakuda u r very humble mature and beautiful
Wife: I saw no red flags in dating. also wife: he had another girlfriend, he lied to me that he was taking me home when he was taking me to his house and forced me to stay there. I was 15.
If he is capable of ignoring boundaries and doing whatever he wants with you without your input how will that suddenly change in marriage? That mother in law shd leave that house. Sell the house and divide the money
U know how it goes…ignore all red flags, get married & realize a dozen red flags 🚩
😂😂😂😂😂
The way her voice breaks at 6:40
Yah, life can be so painful. I feel your pain Gamu tjoooo
You're so cute Gamu❤️ you deserve the best not that beast
Mama vaFantan ndivo vane problem she’s responsible for all these
Say that again and again my dear warikutoti mwana wangu i serwbhu ndofanirwa kudya
Deno wakazowigirwa gaka remurooora wamame
Narcissist Fantan very manipulative, this lady is a gem 💎
So touching 😢
A very humble mukadzi unfortunately you fell in love with an abusive and cruel man,
Gamu you might not see it now but that narcissist leaving is a blessing to you. You are a beautiful, strong and smart woman who will one day be successful in life. Even if he ever tries to reconcile in the future, please don't take him back, kuzvidzosera kumashure. Maybe achazogarisana namai vake sezvo vese vaine moyo wehutsinye. What kind of mbuya nababa who abandon mwana like they did the 16 year old. Karma will come knocking vachapfidza zvavo nekuti kutambura kurikuita mwana iyeye nevako zvichavapa munyama. Amwene vacho munhu akaipa who controls her son sepwere. Iyewo son wacho akapusa, he's not a man yet if he reports everything to mummy dearest. He will never have a successful relationship if he continues to allow his mother to meddle. Final and most important thing, never protect an abuser that's what enables them to continue unchallenged.
This is so sad Gamu must be 19 right now with 2 kids agh zvakaoma . All the best i wish I hope all the best for her . Ngaashandire vana hupenyu hwakanaka kumberi .
Very humble wife wish you the best gamu❤❤
To imagine that Fantan is one of the people who are voting😢
Kagara kamunhu kezanu
It's very worrisome.
Kkkkk
Atori ma horror wangu 😜
It leaves a lot to be desired
Gamu is a humble lady she is a down to earth lady .We need ladies like this in the society
Eish this lady is very humbled baba Fafi must open a big shop for her coz vanodanana vanhu ava problem imaeri irikushota
very humble and matured young lady
Eish this guy is hell on earth…may God set you free my sister
I just fell in love with Gamu, very honest veduwe
Ummm this lady is young but very calm, intelligent and knows what she wants, very assertive. On top of that she is beautiful 😍. What boggles my mind is whats with us men kurasa chirimumaoko nekuda kuombera. Someone is going to live a life of regret if one fails to wake ⏰ up and smell the coffee ☕
Kurasa bhonzo rinenyama
Don't generalise to every men as We are way different to Fantan ,anongobvisa hembe pese pese zvinoratidza kufumuka kwake
Yah mahumbwe chaiwo, I feel for her. Hope she makes it ozviitira zvinhu zvake
This lady deserves better, who on earth in this 21st century denies his wife to do side hustles? Haisi stone age era ino. The lady needs to be with someone who respects her and appreciate her. From her narration it clearly shows DJ is not husband material, vakomana vemjolo with too much pride and want to potray a life-style they do not afford. Its just sad - the lady needs to be away from this man
She is a nice person.... Respectful even pama audios apo
He was too much Fatani Wacho . Live the man alone he is nonsense go To your own life You are beautiful young lady
Good timing…arikutotimarawo fantan iyeye mukufamba
Imboko Fantan uyu.
Ollah ndomufarira asi akaita ma interviews ake like this ka ndomira kumufarira ini 😏
Haa this is touching. Ma1
The lady is wise. respect
Caleb mutumwa waFantan😂😂😂
Mai fafi z very calm and sweet
Gamu you are so humble my dear
NO TO ANY FORM OF ABUSE. then the gaslighting from fantan, wow. Fantan unofira mujeri ukaramba uchidai.
Kamwana shame. She is so sweet and innocent. Kakavharwa nemabhambi
Are we going to ignore the fact that she was 15? Really?
Ndazvifungawo hangu kut hais mhosva here?
Mapostori4ED approve.
The DJ is so biased...anevake vaano favour...he seemed unprofessional in other instances.
kwana duzvi
@@citizen63zw isu mapostori echokwadi disagree to pedophile behavior!!
That lady needs someone who loves and cares for her
Paari kungoti Mhamha kureva vaFantan it really shows mkadzi bhoo uyu
Dear interviewer don't convince the young lady to be in an abusive marriage. Let her go to school, make money and take care of her kids. Zvakaoma
Keep going good work Ollah
Mapudzi anowira kune vasina hari chokwadi. Wish you the best Gamu in your next move or life . Remain humble Gamu God will open doors for you.
Ndomuwanepii mukadzii anenge uyu she's so sweet and loving.... Infact mai fafii ndokudai hanguu
😂😂😂
Gamu boe guys Fantan ukutambisa good wife uchitora Vimbai benzi iro vhurika maziso DJ
Akapusa Fantan uyu.
I'm very sorry mai fantan I wish you a good lucky in your life God bless you 🙏
Yeah, Amai munoziva kutaura! Makarwairwa! Chero maphone calls enyu anoratidza ninipo! Musarasa hunu hwenyu amai! I got three major degrees from you: Humility, Obedience, and Meekness! You deserve More Gamu!
Mai vaFantan ngavasaputsa imba ye vana it seems havafarire mroora wavo
@@emilymawere4232 sure, kungot zvaingoda kunzwa masides ose zvszvo kubvva kunamai neremwanakomna
Fantan Mummy’s boy 😂😂
That's the problem for sure
Ras-Caleb anenge akatorova nembanje akutotenga maUniforms madiki 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Vakomana veguka makafella
kwete zvekunyba wangu
Imagine 😂
So everyone is gonna ignore the fact that this man was dating a 15 year old
She's so pretty
Fantan njere hamuna 😅😅komagumbeze mutabhuuu manje
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