He ran out of lies everything came crashing down- he betrayed me for the last time. I left without warning & never returned 5 yrs ago🎉.. he destroyed the best life he ever had with me & he knows it. 🎉🎉
browneyes...I too left 5 years ago and remain in No Contact. She lost the best thing that ever happened to her and never saw it coming. 11 years together and she threw it all away. Not once but twice during the relationship
These narcs should have read the fine print before they enlisted into the devil’s defeated army of narcs😜 We are the real ones plus God is on our side!!!
I already know they miss all what you provided- the stability and everything. They will be haunted by all you did or the person you were in their miserable life cuz they know they’ll never find another you ! ❤
They only have themselves to blame. But, they'll never admit or accept that they ever did anything wrong because they can't cope and deal with reality and face the shame. They honestly believe that they are "Special" and should be pampered, petted, and patted on the back no matter what they do. I was actually married to a toddler. I kept thinking to myself throughout the marriage, "When is he ever going to grow up?" Now, I know the answer to that question. It's NEVER. He is a child trapped inside an adult body.
Read about Pan they have Peter Pan syndrome because of childhood trauma. We met them for a reason. And their Harem is the same as the story of PAN and NOT Peter Pan. Biblical 🙏🆘♥️
When you're done be done forever because they're going to keep trying to come back someone told me when you take out the trash you leave it out you don't bring it back in
Funny story. Today I went to take out the trash (the people here snoop in my trash just like many others before) and I forgot I had it on my person. I've brought it back in. I'm going to take it back out v soon. And this time. I swear...
I cleaned her house, did her assignments, let her clear her exams by teaching her,fought for her in streets when someone attacked her,cooked her food, cleaned her shoes when she was getting late,washed her clothes,took care of her when she was being hospitalised (high fever),combed her hair, what not… the list never stops 😂now I feel myself like a fool . Learnt a lesson to check the water before doing those things …. Her loss. But I DISCARDED HER FIRST 😇
Glad you did! Trust n believe she’ll never find another that will do what you did. And she’ll never forget you , regardless of who she’s with. Just stay absent and silent- that drives them crazy. All they want is to hear your voice to make them feel better. They know exactly what they did.. so leave them to deal with that.
@@davidcole2530 Yeah that hurts. It has been almost a month . Though I felt like a fool . But I am accepting the fact that I am capable of loving . She has taught me how to love unconditionally. Thanks to her in the end .
🌬️🌬️🌬️God is good. I survived! Married a Narc on my birthday 1/24/24 and the judge signed and gave me my freedom September 12, 2024! Amen and Amen! Annulled and wiped clean like it never happened!!!!🤚🏽 I'm free!! ☀️💜☀️💜☀️💜☀️💜☀️💜☀️💜☀️
Narcissists = pure ego, 💯 manipulation in everything they do. Nothing they do equals love and caring for another person. Every single thing they do is for them and their ego. I learned that the hard way and it took me seven years until I finally said no more, I am not gonna dwindle down to nothing to anybody in my life ever again.
They want to come back to continue to take your soul because the devil is ferrous with them so they have to come back to finish the job. Be careful and stay prayed up.
@@shirlspark_stardust glad to hear you’ve stayed strong. I was technically married to mine, too. She lied at the altar so I consider it annulled. But it’s been 7+ months no contact and not a peep. Probably because she monkeybranched and she’s busy with a new supply.
I treated him good and did everything!! But when I left him I exposed his butt and shamed him so I think I’m safe from him trying to come back. It’s been 18 months so far all he can do is watch me level up 🎉
I'm currently married to a bird. Like you I've done everything so ungrateful and unappreciative then always talking big like he got something. He don't have a pot to piss in. Or a windows to throw it out of. Straight man-child😅😅
@@tdayy31 That’s funny what you said about your ex not having a lot to piss in or a window 🪟 to throw it out of. Narc I left said the same thing to me but what he didn’t know was I secretly bought a house when with him. That was my exit plan. We was not married just living together! No I have several windows 🪟 that he will never get a chance to look out of. Just his apartment ones 😂😂😂
Yes,you hit on the the nail, she's confused and delusional..... hiding from the world because no one believes her lies,she was exposed to everything she did to me.she lost
Exactly! My narc changed her number and is not talking to her own family because they are still calling me and telling me she's a fool. I thank them for their encouragement and compliments; however, I informed them that I have no desire to return. So she's hiding in lies to avoid the truth. I pity her.
Thank you so much for your coaching and by the way, you’re so beautiful. I just love strong, black women that are beautiful, beautiful, and just empowering and you’re sharing it with us.
She just called Friday 5times back to back havnt herd from in 6 straight months I answered she started playing the victim Im like wtf did You Forget I caught you in the middle of the night with the grass man I ran for my life I am not strong enough for a Female narc enventhough its a spirit without God and willingness you are defeated......Thanks for the info.
Why you answer? They just wanna hear your voice then change the whole narrative. Don’t fall for the BS again - if you’re really done , stay no contact it kills them. And she knows exactly what she did , she hopes you will forget it.
Block, delete and close that door for your own health. I ran back too many times and lost time and resources each time. I am free and the FINAL discard has been a cleansing thing for me and very productive.
My final leg was closing the joint bank account after splitting up 2.5 yrs ago. I would’ve thought we broke up that day. The are so conniving & manipulative and will do any & everything to get a reaction out of u, preferably a negative reaction. I pray my ex gets everything he done to me x 100
How to get rid of a narcissist neighbor? The smartest or best option is to slowly stay cut ties and stay away from the Narcissist and anyone close to the Narcissist. Save yourself and protect your family. Indifference and complete isolation from the Narcissist should be exercised. Eventually people will see them for who they are.
I found myself thinking about this subject today and i thank you for this channel.God sent you ,i never knew i was with a Narc for 17 miserable years. Thank you for the teaching 🙏🏿❤️
Another great educational video. Love it. I am so glad I discovered these messages before I got in to deep with a Narc this past summer. I knew something was wrong in the way he “moved” with the early love bombing and disappearing acts after 5pm (work). I just could not put my finger on the issue. Now I know!! And I got out quick before getting to close. I am so glad that I did. And he cannot come back here.
So true that’s why I went NC4EVA the best thing you can do it’s been for years, I’ve been out of that mess and I’m almost at my five year mark come May 💪🏽 I just thank God that I made it out and didn’t look back. I don’t have to go looking for anything. All kinds of information comes my way about that narc his health has been failing 🤦🏽♀️ karma is really wearing him down but that’s the seeds he sewed 👎🏽💯✌🏽.
He is sick person. Very delusional. He tried to dressed it up by saying that he was depressed and going through problems. I remembered all that he said to me. And we will always be friends and he immediately with this prostitute. Letting everyone see him with this women. Both are homeless and on crack. I will never go back to this fool. I'm Ms. 7-11. But he knows that I will never come back. ❤❤❤
Yeah in they dreams cuz its a no go its been 3 years since we we're done ain't no come back with a demon thank u for all your knowledge n wisdom on narcissism
we The Power Generator. Light supply. once we oUt , their energy gets switched off and the only way they can isgeting various backup supplies that can't may j up the source . it's over we out and Done
These people will always when I say always COME BACK in some cases it might even be years there was this girl I dated back in the day she contacted me 15 yrs later after she left me And left town and so u know she had the nerve to act like we never stopped talking I told her that she was a complete stranger to me and that I don’t know why she contacted me she was telling me she had been trying to contact I said I wish her the best but I’m not interested
Hello Ms. Telsha. Good afternoon. Thank you for sharing the words of truth with us today. I like your outfit, it's really nice. I didn't get out to a service this morning, so thanks again for this message! God Bless 🙏💎🙌💯💪
Please talk about the ex narc dying. His family is being so cruel. They tried to hide his death. The girl friend is saying horrible things. Help please ❤
praise God...I am done Miss Tea...God did not create us for this abuse...praying everyone is healed. We deserve better...thank you Jesus...have a blessed day
4 years now and no contact so far I hope it stays that way , but I have a feeling he’s eventually going to reach out to me again, or I’m going to run into one of his friends, and they will say guess who I ran into…I’ve been a hermit for the past 2 years and somehow found 2 people that don’t know him, but 1 knew a friend of his, and the other from a business that amazes me since he moved out of my state to Ohio, and then North Carolina, and now he’s recently moved to Oklahoma all in the past 4 years. I haven’t gone out to socialize anymore and just work and try to start going to a Bible study that I’ve always want to do and get closer to God & the Holy Ghost that helped me back in 2020 when everything was falling apart and the worst 2 years after that was when I got to know and how God & the Holy Ghost showed me the way I just had to work on being patient with myself and him to start over again, but the only question I have is why do I feel spiritually like he’s going to show up again somehow in my life?? How do o break free from that feeling that stays in my mind??
THE NARTIST I HAD WAS LIVING WITH WHITE WOMEN WHEN I MEET HIM I DIDNT KNOW TILL ONE NIGHT SHE CALLS MY PHONE AND HE DIRTY LOW DOWN PERSON LIE EVERYDAY THEN HAD SEX MY DAUGHTER I JUST DONE I DONT WANT TALK EITHER ONE OF THEM ITS REALLY SAD CAUSE HE PULLED MY DAUGHTER FROM ME GOD GET HIM THIS REALLY SAD I WANT WORLD KNOW WHAT HE HAS DONE
Thank you. Should I delete the narc off of my instagram accounts? Or, should I keep them on my page so that they can see how I am flourishing without them?
Don't you dare come running back to me! ACCESS DENIED FOREVER.
He ran out of lies everything came crashing down- he betrayed me for the last time. I left without warning & never returned 5 yrs ago🎉.. he destroyed the best life he ever had with me & he knows it. 🎉🎉
Say that sis amen
@@thelordhasbeengoodtomethan5154 AMEN !!🙏🏿 I’m so grateful & thankful I’m away. And the strength to stay away 4 ever! Whereabouts unknown
browneyes...I too left 5 years ago and remain in No Contact. She lost the best thing that ever happened to her and never saw it coming. 11 years together and she threw it all away. Not once but twice during the relationship
@@Bob-zh6dw yesss! I gave way too chances & the fake luv bomb. That last cheating and betrayal I was done forever.
Same with Mine 😊😊😊😊😊
These narcs should have read the fine print before they enlisted into the devil’s defeated army of narcs😜 We are the real ones plus God is on our side!!!
I discarded the narcissist and he tried to come back but no contact remains I don't want evil in my life praise Jesus for saving me 😊🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@@shirlspark_stardust Praise God! Amen and Amen! ✨💜🙌🏽👑🙌🏽💜✨
They can always comeback like they did nothing wrong to you like hey how you doing with a fake smile.
Just pathetic how they function in life!
Its disrespectful and disgusting
Like ain't ish happened. As if you had amnesia.
He said that he wanted to get revenge but God wouldn’t let him so he killed himself . Always remember God is the number one.
@@Fullgrace061 wow
In hell did he open his eyes!
@viewerthawatching5712 that's the sad part 😔
I already know they miss all what you provided- the stability and everything. They will be haunted by all you did or the person you were in their miserable life cuz they know they’ll never find another you ! ❤
They only have themselves to blame. But, they'll never admit or accept that they ever did anything wrong because they can't cope and deal with reality and face the shame. They honestly believe that they are "Special" and should be pampered, petted, and patted on the back no matter what they do. I was actually married to a toddler. I kept thinking to myself throughout the marriage, "When is he ever going to grow up?" Now, I know the answer to that question. It's NEVER. He is a child trapped inside an adult body.
An EVIL child, at that!
Sounds just like what I went through with my X husband. Little boy in a grown body
Yep stop developing at a child and got stuck in their trauma !!! They still angry and deeply distorted cause their mother left them at 14
@@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd a bitter, angry, controlling child!
Read about Pan they have Peter Pan syndrome because of childhood trauma. We met them for a reason. And their Harem is the same as the story of PAN and NOT Peter Pan.
Biblical 🙏🆘♥️
When you're done be done forever because they're going to keep trying to come back someone told me when you take out the trash you leave it out you don't bring it back in
Funny story.
Today I went to take out the trash (the people here snoop in my trash just like many others before) and I forgot I had it on my person. I've brought it back in.
I'm going to take it back out v soon. And this time. I swear...
I cleaned her house, did her assignments, let her clear her exams by teaching her,fought for her in streets when someone attacked her,cooked her food, cleaned her shoes when she was getting late,washed her clothes,took care of her when she was being hospitalised (high fever),combed her hair, what not… the list never stops 😂now I feel myself like a fool . Learnt a lesson to check the water before doing those things …. Her loss.
But I DISCARDED HER FIRST 😇
Glad you did! Trust n believe she’ll never find another that will do what you did. And she’ll never forget you , regardless of who she’s with.
Just stay absent and silent- that drives them crazy. All they want is to hear your voice to make them feel better. They know exactly what they did..
so leave them to deal with that.
You just described what I did for my ungrateful narcissistic wife
So you did all those nice things for her, then you discarded her. Typical female (ooooops 😏🫣🙄😁) She must have seen it coming 😢
@@browneyes9507 I will follow your advice .
@@davidcole2530 Yeah that hurts. It has been almost a month . Though I felt like a fool . But I am accepting the fact that I am capable of loving . She has taught me how to love unconditionally. Thanks to her in the end .
Praise GOD for deliverance!!!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🔥🔥💯⛓️💥
AMEN!! 🗣📢💥
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Yes AMEN praise God 🙏
🌬️🌬️🌬️God is good. I survived! Married a Narc on my birthday 1/24/24 and the judge signed and gave me my freedom September 12, 2024! Amen and Amen! Annulled and wiped clean like it never happened!!!!🤚🏽 I'm free!! ☀️💜☀️💜☀️💜☀️💜☀️💜☀️💜☀️
@@PurpleReels wow congrats
@@shirlspark_stardust Thank you kindly. Life is good. 💯🙌🏽👑🥰👠🙌🏽💯
He could NEVER and he knows it. He chose his side so he must stay over there 👉🏽. Never ever ever again.
Narcissists = pure ego, 💯 manipulation in everything they do. Nothing they do equals love and caring for another person. Every single thing they do is for them and their ego. I learned that the hard way and it took me seven years until I finally said no more, I am not gonna dwindle down to nothing to anybody in my life ever again.
They want to come back to continue to take your soul because the devil is ferrous with them so they have to come back to finish the job. Be careful and stay prayed up.
I literally told her that she was the worst thing to ever happen to me and that I wished I had never met her. She ain’t coming back 😂
@@BasedLeifEriksson told the one I married that and he tried to come back several times no contact
@@shirlspark_stardust glad to hear you’ve stayed strong. I was technically married to mine, too. She lied at the altar so I consider it annulled. But it’s been 7+ months no contact and not a peep. Probably because she monkeybranched and she’s busy with a new supply.
*they really think we want to be bothered with them..after all they done!.. the scars tell me NO! THANK YOU TES!💜💜💜💜
Right! They are delusional!
Healed and whole & on my way to the top!
I hope he will come back and I have the opportunity to reject him!
I treated him good and did everything!! But when I left him I exposed his butt and shamed him so I think I’m safe from him trying to come back. It’s been 18 months so far all he can do is watch me level up 🎉
I'm currently married to a bird. Like you I've done everything so ungrateful and unappreciative then always talking big like he got something. He don't have a pot to piss in. Or a windows to throw it out of. Straight man-child😅😅
@@tdayy31 That’s funny what you said about your ex not having a lot to piss in or a window 🪟 to throw it out of. Narc I left said the same thing to me but what he didn’t know was I secretly bought a house when with him. That was my exit plan. We was not married just living together! No I have several windows 🪟 that he will never get a chance to look out of. Just his apartment ones 😂😂😂
@@BlaqueDiamond412 love it🤣🤣🤣
@@tdayy31😂😂😂😂😂 He’s pissed 😤 lmao
@@BlaqueDiamond412 well I'm so happy for you I wish you many blessings!!!
Asking the right questions and the narc be clueless to the answers. They tried now denied ❤
My narcissistic ex believes his own lies
Yes,you hit on the the nail, she's confused and delusional..... hiding from the world because no one believes her lies,she was exposed to everything she did to me.she lost
Exactly! My narc changed her number and is not talking to her own family because they are still calling me and telling me she's a fool. I thank them for their encouragement and compliments; however, I informed them that I have no desire to return. So she's hiding in lies to avoid the truth. I pity her.
Thank you so much for your coaching and by the way, you’re so beautiful. I just love strong, black women that are beautiful, beautiful, and just empowering and you’re sharing it with us.
She just called Friday 5times back to back havnt herd from in 6 straight months I answered she started playing the victim Im like wtf did You Forget I caught you in the middle of the night with the grass man I ran for my life I am not strong enough for a Female narc enventhough its a spirit without God and willingness you are defeated......Thanks for the info.
Why you answer? They just wanna hear your voice then change the whole narrative. Don’t fall for the BS again - if you’re really done , stay no contact it kills them.
And she knows exactly what she did , she hopes you will forget it.
Block, delete and close that door for your own health. I ran back too many times and lost time and resources each time. I am free and the FINAL discard has been a cleansing thing for me and very productive.
My final leg was closing the joint bank account after splitting up 2.5 yrs ago. I would’ve thought we broke up that day. The are so conniving & manipulative and will do any & everything to get a reaction out of u, preferably a negative reaction. I pray my ex gets everything he done to me x 100
He will! In GOD timing & when you least expected
How to get rid of a narcissist neighbor?
The smartest or best option is to slowly stay cut ties and stay away from the Narcissist and anyone close to the Narcissist. Save yourself and protect your family. Indifference and complete isolation from the Narcissist should be exercised. Eventually people will see them for who they are.
I found myself thinking about this subject today and i thank you for this channel.God sent you ,i never knew i was with a Narc for 17 miserable years. Thank you for the teaching 🙏🏿❤️
This woman never misses. This is my narc ex in a nutshell.
God Bless sister and others
We must trust God and practice practice 🙏🙏
Another great educational video. Love it. I am so glad I discovered these messages before I got in to deep with a Narc this past summer. I knew something was wrong in the way he “moved” with the early love bombing and disappearing acts after 5pm (work). I just could not put my finger on the issue. Now I know!! And I got out quick before getting to close. I am so glad that I did. And he cannot come back here.
Hey Hey there she go looking awesome this Sunday...Keep hittin wit this good word 👌🏾
So true that’s why I went NC4EVA the best thing you can do it’s been for years, I’ve been out of that mess and I’m almost at my five year mark come May 💪🏽 I just thank God that I made it out and didn’t look back. I don’t have to go looking for anything. All kinds of information comes my way about that narc his health has been failing 🤦🏽♀️ karma is really wearing him down but that’s the seeds he sewed 👎🏽💯✌🏽.
Looking absolutely gorgeous Ms.T❤
I'm done! And I know!😂❤
He is sick person. Very delusional. He tried to dressed it up by saying that he was depressed and going through problems. I remembered all that he said to me. And we will always be friends and he immediately with this prostitute. Letting everyone see him with this women. Both are homeless and on crack. I will never go back to this fool. I'm Ms. 7-11. But he knows that I will never come back. ❤❤❤
He sounds familiar.....they will do is smoke up all the money. Sleep anywhere. Steal. And act like a fiends.
Yeah in they dreams cuz its a no go its been 3 years since we we're done ain't no come back with a demon thank u for all your knowledge n wisdom on narcissism
we The Power Generator. Light supply. once we oUt , their energy gets switched off and the only way they can isgeting various backup supplies that can't may j up the source . it's over we out and Done
Those glasses ❤
Love your glasses !
These people will always when I say always COME BACK in some cases it might even be years there was this girl I dated back in the day she contacted me 15 yrs later after she left me
And left town and so u know she had the nerve to act like we never stopped talking I told her that she was a complete stranger to me and that I don’t know why she contacted me she was telling me she had been trying to contact I said I wish her the best but I’m not interested
Access denied for ever❤ I wish you the best though✌🏾
That bird will get dopamine deprived. Yeah I said it 😂😂😂😂
Dr Peter Salerno has great video on narcissist. They do not change.
Always such great videos/advice. Love the glasses! ❤
Hello Ms. Telsha. Good afternoon. Thank you for sharing the words of truth with us today. I like your outfit, it's really nice. I didn't get out to a service this morning, so thanks again for this message! God Bless 🙏💎🙌💯💪
Looking pretty❤️
Beautiful glasses and lipstick 💄
❤❤ Not going back and I mean that after awhile it's embarrassing I quit
Please talk about the ex narc dying. His family is being so cruel. They tried to hide his death. The girl friend is saying horrible things. Help please ❤
You look Amazing ❤ Bright and Beautiful Angel 😇💖🙏🦋🕯️🔥💎💐
Thank you for your videos 🙏💖💯
God bless you 🙏💖💯
Drop it Tea.
Like the glasses
Far as the them wanting.......As my Mother use to say........! I don't give a good tinkers ding dong! Ts. Lol
Great advice
When you know…you can NEVER un-know again…I tried to can never look at him how I once did cuz all I see is a pure demonic spirit.
DONE ✔️ DONE ✔️🙅🏽♀️👿💯
praise God...I am done Miss Tea...God did not create us for this abuse...praying everyone is healed. We deserve better...thank you Jesus...have a blessed day
4 years now and no contact so far I hope it stays that way , but I have a feeling he’s eventually going to reach out to me again, or I’m going to run into one of his friends, and they will say guess who I ran into…I’ve been a hermit for the past 2 years and somehow found 2 people that don’t know him, but 1 knew a friend of his, and the other from a business that amazes me since he moved out of my state to Ohio, and then North Carolina, and now he’s recently moved to Oklahoma all in the past 4 years.
I haven’t gone out to socialize anymore and just work and try to start going to a Bible study that I’ve always want to do and get closer to God & the Holy Ghost that helped me back in 2020 when everything was falling apart and the worst 2 years after that was when I got to know and how God & the Holy Ghost showed me the way I just had to work on being patient with myself and him to start over again, but the only question I have is why do I feel spiritually like he’s going to show up again somehow in my life??
How do o break free from that feeling that stays in my mind??
its been 22 yrs...he's coming back but be ready to stay no contact lol
Their manipulation days runs dry
U look amazing
Just subscribed😃Yeah😀
Access denied indefinitely
Preach 😎❤️💫
You are very beautiful❤
THE NARTIST I HAD WAS LIVING WITH WHITE WOMEN WHEN I MEET HIM I DIDNT KNOW TILL ONE NIGHT SHE CALLS MY PHONE AND HE DIRTY LOW DOWN PERSON LIE EVERYDAY THEN HAD SEX MY DAUGHTER I JUST DONE I DONT WANT TALK EITHER ONE OF THEM ITS REALLY SAD CAUSE HE PULLED MY DAUGHTER FROM ME GOD GET HIM THIS REALLY SAD I WANT WORLD KNOW WHAT HE HAS DONE
DaVinci code!!
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Thank you. Should I delete the narc off of my instagram accounts? Or, should I keep them on my page so that they can see how I am flourishing without them?
@@Angelxbaby88 block
Dam bae u lookin fly