My school won a playoff game against this small school that came 5 hours. We were all cheering, but it sucked to see the other team sitting in numbness on the floor. There were 8 seniors on that team, and that’s the last thing they’ll remember
I’ve been in both situations before and it is genuinely sad to see the losing team after championships and districts and stuff because I’ve felt that pain
I've also been in both situations. This year for my high school bowling. We were in the state semis, up against the first seat. It was a tight match in the last game. As it got to the last frame, we were down by 8. Meaning our last teammate had to get 9 or more to win. He went up and it went far right and by some miracle he got 9 and we won by 1. We all cheered out of excitement. But seeing the other team down and upset made me sad. Then we lost in the finals to a team that broke a damn record
Depression is long term sadness that leads to being suicidal, the only ones that just might get it from the are the seniors who wanted to go D1 and play pro
I just lost one of my tournaments and this is so true we lost by 2 and all the coaches could say was that "no one expected us to be there" and that we should be proud but you just can't 😭
Same, my team was very good in fact we won most of are games even winning on of the games I kid you not… 106-8 But anyway we spent ages working hard for the finals, barely making it (we won a game by 1 point to get to the finals) and when we did all of that effort was thrown away, we got smashed and we were devastated and the next year we lost just before the finals… but this year we should win hopefully. We are 2nd on the ladder and the season is closing up
As a CB for my hs football team it’s heartbreaking. We lost on our home field and had to smile for cameras through the pain afterwards. At the end of our day we’re all js kids, and especially our seniors we heartbroken, as for over half of them it was thejr last game…
That one guy crying into what I can only assume to be his mothers arms, didnt look like he played. He was probably so frustrated that his team lost without him, and he felt like he let them down
Why does your assumption lack prove. Your just making a wild guess with no proper base or clues. From the video the only thing you can say is that the boy is crying because his team lost. Please don't take this as offensive
No offense taken. He's wearing khaki pants, has his backpack on, and has 0 indication that he actually played in the game; I.e, he has no jersey etc. Yeah we don't have the whole video but, I can only assume that this is happening right after the game ended. With that in mind, if he was just a normal student, he probably wouldn't be crying into someone's shoulder honestly
he did play actually, he’s number 20 on bergen catholic. he’s my friends boyfriend and he was upset because it was his last game attending that school.
@@Lukemyfather1if you didn’t know bergen catholic ( the team shown who lost) is a catholic school with uniforms. They go to the game right after school in their uniform because they have no time. So after the game some people change back into their uniform if they didn’t bring extra clothes.
As a cheerleader watching the boys lose the third place state game hit different.Even the kids that don’t cry over losses cried.So as soon as we got on the bus we hyped them up like crazy 😂that was their favorite loss of the season❤
Its like at the super bowl when the losing team has to stay and like sit on the benches and shit while the winning team celebrates. They always have the winning team’s color in confetti so the losing team gets covered in it.
I’ve been playing sports all my life, I’m now a freshmen in high school, and I can tell you as someone that’s been on both sides of this situation, sure it feels amazing winning state or nattys for a sport, it’s imo one of the greatest feeling in the world, but you have to remember that when you feel that high, look at the other team and realize how bad they must feel after training and playing games for 3+ months and all of those hopes and dreams die in they blow of a whistle. It truly is one of the worst feelings in the world. An example is last week when I was playing u14 rugby, we played a team that we beat only by 2 points in the regular season, for the socal youth rugby championship and we beat them by 49 points. And in the end we were all happy that we won that game by a landslide, and you realize how terrible that other team must feel.
Bro this is so relatable every time my team makes it to the championships we lose and it just sucks and most of my teammates are crying and I hold back my tears most of the time because I don’t want someone recording me and posting it like this
As a player coming off of a heavy loss with senior teammates, I will admit that the feeling right after the game is probably the worst thing I’ve felt in a while
My brother was going to go to state in high school they had one more game to win in soccer and the coach put someone bad on for no reason, they lost the game at their home field and that was the last thing he remembered his senior year and he refused to talk about it again I’m sorry brother
Can't relate because I am going to regionals after I stepped on the corpses of the players I've beaten I feel nothing but pride after I robbed them of their chances of playing longer and after I've smelled the saltiness of the air from the evaporated tears of my enemies (my opponents😂😂😂)
@@SimonIsVeryHandsome that's great for you, but I sprained me ankle, got fouled out, and then my teammate watched the other team take the ball and stood there, and we had no other subs, so don't even start
This is the real reason why men cry sueing sports on both sides. As someone who plays sports, yk the pain of both the team and people supporting the team.
My last basket ball game.. we were in the championship and there was 1 minute left. The coach put me in and we were winning by 3 points. Before we know it the score was 67-68 and they were winning. We were all so sad at the end of the game everyone was crying so hard we ended up canceling the team dinner bc no one wanted to go anymore.
Damn, I feel them…My team was almost gonna win basketball, but the last team made the point and they won. Everyone in my team including me were crying so hard that we couldn’t stop.
After losing the state final for wrestling for heavy weight i was 56-0 before that match and received my first loss of the wrestling season it shattered my heart and i sat on the mat crying 😢
Happen to me stay strong and losing just makes you better it might be different but for me it didn't change me because i talk to my self it hurts but stay strong don't let stuff change you basketball and family comes first you mean everything to Jesus ❤❤
I was watching my brother’s hockey game and it was a really important game, like whoever won got to go to championships or something. They tied, so the game went into overtime and my brother’s team ended up winning and then were all celebrating, throwing around their gloves, sticks, helmets, etc. and then both teams lined up on opposite sides of the ice, facing toward each other and the other team had to watch my brother’s team get medals, a trophy, and a plaque and I actually felt so bad for the other team 😢😢😢
I’m a CB for my middle school soccer team and we lost in nationals because the refs had terrible calls I didn’t talk to anyone for a long time it hurts man
For every winner there is someone who came just as close to winning but fell short at the last seconds and a lot of people won’t recover from that and it hurts
In competition there is always those who win and those who lose. Whats important is to keep your head high after losing, cuz you should be pround for challenging the 50/50💪
This is soo true our volleyball team won state champs this year and we were all soo happy when we one but there was a lot of ups and downs throughout the season
This is so true I had a basketball game today and if we won we would go to the championship but we lost and everybody was crying it was so sad and seeing my best friends cry it breaks my heart
Naw I felt that heavy ASF this year, it’s my senior year and last year we went 2-18 so all the seniors this year didn’t play cause they hated the coach so we had to move up a bunch of sophomore’s and even a freshmen it was only me and one other senior and maybe 3 jrs. basically we were a JV team and we got zero wins, my senior night got canceled and my coach opted out of sectional. btw we got no wins either
At my school, our basketball boys pray after every game, whether they won or lost. Every time, they invite the other team to join their prayer circle, get on one knee, and put their arms around each other. Its times like that where I feel a bit of hope for our humanity.
I felt like this once, My school had made it to the county cup final and it was a heated game. One of the players of my team gave away a foul and the other team got a sideline. they passed it quickly and took a 3 pointer making the game 42 - 44. The person who gave away the foul and felt awful about it. As soon as the whistle blew revealing that we lost he cried his hardest knowing that the 3 month journey we had took to get here got us nothing but memories but he had so much regret. It was not just him feeling bad though, as my teammates missed a lot of chances as well. I ended up scoring the most points by 1 (17) and claimed a trophy. On our bus home, I shared the trophy with everyone acting as if we won a proper trophy to lighten the mood.
As the captain of my baseball team we lost in one of the most important stages of the tournament. It would have led us to regionals but we lost so we ended up not making it and it was my season with the team. 😢 And it was the worst feeling because they walked it off and we just sat and looked at the scoreboard while they celebrated while we just at and cried
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The grief from losing is far greater than the joy from winning
Well if it’s a Freshman loosing and a senior winning not really the senior will be insanely hyped but the Freshman will be like, maybe next time:(
@@UrGuyIsMeits a quote from kobe dont be rude
Too true. What even better is winning the next year after experiencing that grief from the loss
@@maxreed9523how is that rude. Bc Kobe said it?
@@BibleBois i was kidding
Seeing the kid cry on his mom's shoulder hits hard
Fr😢😢
Fr man😔
i was lookin for a comment like this..😢
I was like this😢
This happened to me
The only thing that sucks about seeing a team winning is seeing someone have to lose 😢
That doesn’t suck, the fact that you beat them gives meaning to winning. That’s competitive sports.
@@Anon-tg5txAgreed. There's a reason why winning in a competition feels more gratifying than achieving a personal goal.
That’s what the point of competitive sports is
@@Anon-tg5txI would say this is more a spectator view than anything
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At my high school, the coaches don’t let them celebrate like that, but they make them go give the other team hugs and try to cheer them up
Yea we can’t celebrate like that until we are in the locker room
No losing team wants a hug from the winners, even if it’s with good intentions
If I just lost a chip and the other teams players went to hug me, I’d be pressed
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Us to, we take a picture with the other team than celebrate on the locker room.
My school won a playoff game against this small school that came 5 hours. We were all cheering, but it sucked to see the other team sitting in numbness on the floor. There were 8 seniors on that team, and that’s the last thing they’ll remember
damn thats lowkey sad and 5 hours is OD
This is pain at its worst 😢
They were better to not come at all.
Did you at least give them a hug
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I’ve been in both situations before and it is genuinely sad to see the losing team after championships and districts and stuff because I’ve felt that pain
Same in basketball the highs are really high and the lows are really low no in between
I've also been in both situations. This year for my high school bowling. We were in the state semis, up against the first seat. It was a tight match in the last game. As it got to the last frame, we were down by 8. Meaning our last teammate had to get 9 or more to win. He went up and it went far right and by some miracle he got 9 and we won by 1. We all cheered out of excitement. But seeing the other team down and upset made me sad. Then we lost in the finals to a team that broke a damn record
Can’t say the same for me, I’ve lost about 98.9% of the time, and the 1.1% is mainly from the people on my team.
Depression described in 0 words
Depression is long term sadness that leads to being suicidal, the only ones that just might get it from the are the seniors who wanted to go D1 and play pro
this is not depression lmao wtf
All these people saying this isn’t depression are stupid I’ve been depressed after giving it my all but still losing state
@@Agtchickennugget do you know what depression is?
@@Agtchickennugget Yeah, you've felt depressed and sad from losing. Not having depression, which can be a mental illness
I’ve been there. I’ve seen both sides of it.
I’m gonna miss the seniors.
I just lost one of my tournaments and this is so true we lost by 2 and all the coaches could say was that "no one expected us to be there" and that we should be proud but you just can't 😭
Same with my team no one expected us to be there
Same, my team was very good in fact we won most of are games even winning on of the games I kid you not… 106-8
But anyway we spent ages working hard for the finals, barely making it (we won a game by 1 point to get to the finals) and when we did all of that effort was thrown away, we got smashed and we were devastated and the next year we lost just before the finals… but this year we should win hopefully. We are 2nd on the ladder and the season is closing up
As a CB for my hs football team it’s heartbreaking. We lost on our home field and had to smile for cameras through the pain afterwards. At the end of our day we’re all js kids, and especially our seniors we heartbroken, as for over half of them it was thejr last game…
Damn that shit hit deep like
Which football and what’s a CB
@@lewa7979bro your pfp just shouts ur a football fan and second cb is centre back, learn the basics
Corner back or centre back
centreback
The pain of losing can be overwhelming. It's tough to see others hurting after a defeat.
Bro stop
I JUST SAW HIM ON THE LAST 2 SHORTS
STOP FOLLOWING ME YOU STALKER
Ur everywhere bro
@@grayhunter4286 you’re acting like people can’t comment.
It’s sad cuz it’s so true
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If you look in the back it’s just a one point difference so it was so close😢
What was the point?
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Wdym cuz it was 56-55@@Coolkid897
That one guy crying into what I can only assume to be his mothers arms, didnt look like he played. He was probably so frustrated that his team lost without him, and he felt like he let them down
Why does your assumption lack prove. Your just making a wild guess with no proper base or clues. From the video the only thing you can say is that the boy is crying because his team lost. Please don't take this as offensive
No offense taken. He's wearing khaki pants, has his backpack on, and has 0 indication that he actually played in the game; I.e, he has no jersey etc. Yeah we don't have the whole video but, I can only assume that this is happening right after the game ended.
With that in mind, if he was just a normal student, he probably wouldn't be crying into someone's shoulder honestly
That makes sense. 👌 I understand. Have a good day/night .
he did play actually, he’s number 20 on bergen catholic. he’s my friends boyfriend and he was upset because it was his last game attending that school.
@@Lukemyfather1if you didn’t know bergen catholic ( the team shown who lost) is a catholic school with uniforms. They go to the game right after school in their uniform because they have no time. So after the game some people change back into their uniform if they didn’t bring extra clothes.
Seeing the pain of defeat is always tough, but it's a reminder that winning isn't everything. The grief from losing can be overwhelming.
BRO WHY ARE YOU COMMENTING EVERYWHERE
Bro commented like 3 times on this video. You're probably controlled by multiple peoples
You are not plato😂
It’s the worst to lose in a final I have experienced iy
Me, myself have lost a final in a playoffs in hockey 3 times in a row😞
“Whenever there’s a winner, there’s always a loser” -Probably somebody somewhere
no shit sherlock
As a cheerleader watching the boys lose the third place state game hit different.Even the kids that don’t cry over losses cried.So as soon as we got on the bus we hyped them up like crazy 😂that was their favorite loss of the season❤
Seeing the other team in pain after a loss is always tough. It's a reminder that winning isn't everything.
Shut up
You're a bot I'm sorry bro.😂😂😂
bro shut the hell up. hes a real person and exists.@@GRASS191
@@GRASS191 you are tho.
@@DireFnfStuff I'm real tf you talking about.
“No matter how many times I’ve won, I’ll never forget about the times that I’ve lost”
This quote hits different
“To achieve your dreams, you have to crush another persons dreams..”
Its like at the super bowl when the losing team has to stay and like sit on the benches and shit while the winning team celebrates. They always have the winning team’s color in confetti so the losing team gets covered in it.
Seeing that kid cry had me in tears 😢❤
I was about to cry when I was watching the kid cry on his mom's shoulder😭
Samee dude 😭
Literally one of the worst feelings
I’ve been playing sports all my life, I’m now a freshmen in high school, and I can tell you as someone that’s been on both sides of this situation, sure it feels amazing winning state or nattys for a sport, it’s imo one of the greatest feeling in the world, but you have to remember that when you feel that high, look at the other team and realize how bad they must feel after training and playing games for 3+ months and all of those hopes and dreams die in they blow of a whistle. It truly is one of the worst feelings in the world. An example is last week when I was playing u14 rugby, we played a team that we beat only by 2 points in the regular season, for the socal youth rugby championship and we beat them by 49 points. And in the end we were all happy that we won that game by a landslide, and you realize how terrible that other team must feel.
Bro this is so relatable every time my team makes it to the championships we lose and it just sucks and most of my teammates are crying and I hold back my tears most of the time because I don’t want someone recording me and posting it like this
My team just lost a round in the playoffs it sucked. One girl on my team said “it’s okay we’ll play again.” 💀
Nothing hits harder than disappointing your parents
Two different types of tears. Tears of joy and sadness
It is sad how true this is I am happy you show awareness on this because it hit hard mentally
As a player coming off of a heavy loss with senior teammates, I will admit that the feeling right after the game is probably the worst thing I’ve felt in a while
I’ve been the second way in so many sports it breaks my heart into a million pieces
My brother was going to go to state in high school they had one more game to win in soccer and the coach put someone bad on for no reason, they lost the game at their home field and that was the last thing he remembered his senior year and he refused to talk about it again
I’m sorry brother
Before every final game I play my dad says “remember there’s gonna be a loser to a game there’s no such thing as two winners”
my team literally lost championships today, and i cried harder than ever
same
Can't relate because I am going to regionals after I stepped on the corpses of the players I've beaten
I feel nothing but pride after I robbed them of their chances of playing longer and after I've smelled the saltiness of the air from the evaporated tears of my enemies (my opponents😂😂😂)
@@SimonIsVeryHandsomebro I beg you play for a middle school league don’t act like you MJ bro I can probably smoke you
@@SimonIsVeryHandsome that's great for you, but I sprained me ankle, got fouled out, and then my teammate watched the other team take the ball and stood there, and we had no other subs, so don't even start
56-55 is tragic. what a game
You are after all there to feel the joy of winning.
This is the real reason why men cry sueing sports on both sides. As someone who plays sports, yk the pain of both the team and people supporting the team.
My last basket ball game.. we were in the championship and there was 1 minute left. The coach put me in and we were winning by 3 points. Before we know it the score was 67-68 and they were winning. We were all so sad at the end of the game everyone was crying so hard we ended up canceling the team dinner bc no one wanted to go anymore.
Tell me why I’m bawling
bc it's sad asf
I have two sides, balling and bawling.
Idk maybe ur weak
The hardest part of becoming a champion is understanding that you have to crush someone else's dream to reach yours! 😢
When there is a winner there is always a loser😢
That was so sad to see the boy crying on his moms shoulder
“You can’t win unless you learn how to lose”
-kareem abdul-jabbar
This hits hard as basketball players.
Even winners would feel bad 😞
Stop bc this is literally so real 😭🤚
Remember everytime you win, you let someone else lose
“One shall stand one shall fall”
-Optimus Prime
As a baseball player I can indeed prove we feel like this after we lose a championship.
Damn, I feel them…My team was almost gonna win basketball, but the last team made the point and they won. Everyone in my team including me were crying so hard that we couldn’t stop.
" If there is a side of winning there is a side of losing "
- wise man
After losing the state final for wrestling for heavy weight i was 56-0 before that match and received my first loss of the wrestling season it shattered my heart and i sat on the mat crying 😢
Happen to me stay strong and losing just makes you better it might be different but for me it didn't change me because i talk to my self it hurts but stay strong don't let stuff change you basketball and family comes first you mean everything to Jesus ❤❤
I was watching my brother’s hockey game and it was a really important game, like whoever won got to go to championships or something. They tied, so the game went into overtime and my brother’s team ended up winning and then were all celebrating, throwing around their gloves, sticks, helmets, etc. and then both teams lined up on opposite sides of the ice, facing toward each other and the other team had to watch my brother’s team get medals, a trophy, and a plaque and I actually felt so bad for the other team 😢😢😢
The more you lose the more you get better
I’m a CB for my middle school soccer team and we lost in nationals because the refs had terrible calls I didn’t talk to anyone for a long time it hurts man
I’ve been in both situations and I can confirm this is true, celebrate but respect your rival.
This is so real, i started crying on our last game when we lost too 😭
For every winner there is someone who came just as close to winning but fell short at the last seconds and a lot of people won’t recover from that and it hurts
The loss is painful. The win is hopeful
That’s why people strive to win, so that they don’t have to face the pain and failure of coming second
It’s so sad cause it’s happend to all of us including me
I've been on both sides before and i can tell you the grief and disappointment of loosing still haunts me
As a basketball player, I can confirm 😢
This is really sad but shows how competitive of a sport basketball is and how seriously its players take it.
"Victory is written by winners, that's why you never know what's happening to the losers... "
i just won a huge hockey season and we were the winning team, it broke my heart shaking their hands after and seeing them with teary eyes
I remember when my team was in the football championship and lost by a game winning touchdown I cryed for weeks 😢
It hurts even more when it was a close game like this
In competition there is always those who win and those who lose. Whats important is to keep your head high after losing, cuz you should be pround for challenging the 50/50💪
Those who all cried, give their best that night but still loss just like how the world works. just keep moving forward❤
I actually shed a tear when I win a matched cus respect the other team trying there best ❤
the kid crying on the mom’s shoulder made my heart drop.
ITS A GAME BRO nothing to cry about
@@Frebrezeofficalclearly you don’t play sports
Tear of joy.
Tear of grief.
That’s what sucks whoever wins can celebrate as much as they want but if the losers say one thing there being “sore losers”
Hits hard 😔
This is soo true our volleyball team won state champs this year and we were all soo happy when we one but there was a lot of ups and downs throughout the season
Feel so bad for the losing team
This is what sports is all about. Someone wins, someone loses. Shake hands and try again tomorrow.
I respected that man
Seeing them cry on their parents and coach’s is the worst thing I seen today 😢
The highs are really high and the lows are really low-a wise man
This is so true I had a basketball game today and if we won we would go to the championship but we lost and everybody was crying it was so sad and seeing my best friends cry it breaks my heart
Naw I felt that heavy ASF this year, it’s my senior year and last year we went 2-18 so all the seniors this year didn’t play cause they hated the coach so we had to move up a bunch of sophomore’s and even a freshmen it was only me and one other senior and maybe 3 jrs. basically we were a JV team and we got zero wins, my senior night got canceled and my coach opted out of sectional. btw we got no wins either
Being failed to become the strongest is really a pain i feel that 😔😔
Losing By 1 In The Championship Is Crazy
At my school, our basketball boys pray after every game, whether they won or lost. Every time, they invite the other team to join their prayer circle, get on one knee, and put their arms around each other. Its times like that where I feel a bit of hope for our humanity.
Damm.... I feel bad for the players.. some of them cried...
This hits hard
We lost the championship it was heartbreaking😢😢😢😢
damn this is relatable af
The best is when the winning team isn’t toxic and actually shows good sportsmanship
Shout out to mum for comforting her kid ❤
This hits hard 😢
I felt like this once, My school had made it to the county cup final and it was a heated game. One of the players of my team gave away a foul and the other team got a sideline. they passed it quickly and took a 3 pointer making the game 42 - 44. The person who gave away the foul and felt awful about it. As soon as the whistle blew revealing that we lost he cried his hardest knowing that the 3 month journey we had took to get here got us nothing but memories but he had so much regret. It was not just him feeling bad though, as my teammates missed a lot of chances as well. I ended up scoring the most points by 1 (17) and claimed a trophy. On our bus home, I shared the trophy with everyone acting as if we won a proper trophy to lighten the mood.
As the captain of my baseball team we lost in one of the most important stages of the tournament. It would have led us to regionals but we lost so we ended up not making it and it was my season with the team. 😢 And it was the worst feeling because they walked it off and we just sat and looked at the scoreboard while they celebrated while we just at and cried
This one hit home, since I lost like this before. It was a battle to travel and we lost.
Seeing the boy cry on moms shoulder really hit me😥😭
Losing is apart of the game… ❤️