Get hot by becoming your own beauty standard

In this video, I go in-depth about a concept I mentioned in a previous video which is “becoming your OWN beauty standard”. Becoming your own beauty standard is how you become an IT girl. The girl that has that sexy uuuumf. The magnetism. The confidence. Everything. I first start by saying you must analyze yourself - your weaknesses, and your strengths and then use that to build out YOUR own standard of beauty within yourself, what you can improve on, and then create your own personal maintenance calendar to meet your standard. I then talk about letting go of this attachment to “ugly” and instead identifying and choosing to be HOT. When you constantly condition your brain to perceive yourself as ugly, it will go into overdrive trying to uphold that image for yourself. The brain will send the body messages, which form habits to uphold that image of the ugly. You won't dress up, you accept yourself as “below average”, and you'll neglect your appearance, all because you have identified as “ugly”. CHOOSE to be hot instead. Your own version of hot that's unique to you. That is where your real magnetic, irresistible energy will be cultivated. I go on to talk about the importance of being able to present your inside beauty to your outside with non-verbal language. This means, prioritizing your appearance, carrying yourself well, and having that confident energy. Doing this is so critical for the way people perceive you because perception is reality. If you don't appear to be THAT girl, no one will give you energy or time to listen to what you have to say. People are visual and I talk about how it's important to play up to that sense FIRST. Grab people's attention with your appearance, and keep them around with your value. Lastly, I mention that you're swindling yourself out of being confident and hot because you’re choosing to let your weaknesses be your excuses as to WHY you can't be an IT girl or THAT girl. You have a choice. Choose to be hot.
Being an it girl means that you commit yourself to becoming the best you, and doing that with full conviction. You aren't trying to be like anyone else, stop that shit. Have tunnel vision, focused attention ON YOU, and you only. Making YOU the best you and only trying to uphold that image of beauty, grace, and elegance. Not anyone else version, not anyone else’s ideal. That's a waste of precious energy that could be directed at yourself. Anytime you give an outside source attention - meaning you compare, you get sad, you feel unworthy - you are losing fuel.
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