@@ilovechunkycats3884oh idk man maybe the brother a MAN finally DIDNT gice an f abt beauty and prolly cared for emotional connection yknow? That happens
Loves how yall are basically admitting u shouldn't fumble only if its a 10 bruh. Also ur a snowflake if u suiciding for THAT😂 😂like just jump off a building no need to wait lol
Tbh it matters on the situation/reason they broke up if it wasn't that bad and they decided to be friends then it'll be ok but if it was a big and messy break up then it'll be more complicated and then each person would feel different about the situation.
One of my relative family was like this and thats bcs it was their son who cheated but they liked his gf so much. It was satisfying to see them sitting happily with thr ex-gf and shoved all the food to her while their own son sitting in the corner abandoned, munching a single cookie. I dont think the ex-gf wanted to be with him anymore but that serves a lesson. He's a happily married man to another woman now.
@@Nyabennah ppl can move on with out cutting connection with ppl? You know that two people don't have to hate each other after they break up, I've had one break up and I'm still friends with them and I'm in a relationship rn and my partner is ok with me hanging out with them.
I was the NEW girlfriend at one point in time. Saw this kind of behavior, and we went our separate ways shortly after. They really invited BOTH of us over. I went along with it. Then found out they were encouraging them to hook back up. Found out about THEIR baby on MY birthday. This is cool and all until that person wants to move on and maybe even become serious with someone else. At that point, you can keep the friendship but be respectful to the new boo and keep it separate.
I’ve always been invited back to my exes family gatherings. Every family member builds a bond with me. But I’m also very respectful to the new boo thang. I think it’s hard to walk away from cool ppl just because your relationship didn’t work out. I’m still cool with every single one that’s alive today.
@@Patic234so people aren’t allowed to complement other people?? So ur just bitter and you feel the need to take any negative outlook u can, just to make others feel shitty about themselves?? I think ur the shallow one here…
Idk, I feel super lucky that my family didn't do this to me. They loved my ex but when we broke up they respected me enough to not keep bringing him by
@@chancellorchandlereven if they broke up in good terms why would you invite the ex over every dinner? Or even holiday dinners? How is the child gonna move on? And if they wanted to bring their new gf over they won’t because their ex is still buddy buddy with mom and are at the other end of the table gossiping 😂
@@chancellorchandler dude..no...ex gf/bf is an ex gf/bf for a reasons, dont you think? Doesnt have to be bad. But if you're Not wanting them in your life like that anymore then they shouldnt be. If the family still likes them, they should meet them separately out of respect to their own child.
this plus the comments reminds me of my dad saying “if you break up with her, YOU’RE moving out” as a joke to my brother and his girlfriend at the time (she lived with us for a while)… they’re married and have two kids now 😂
@@ratrat9241disrespect is disrespect, holiday is for family and friends only and ex is neither, is they invite ex against others will they do it out of spite cut ties they are not family anymore 😂
My ex's family was like this but I politely cut ties out of respect for my ex who I already dumped. The least I can do is let him move on. He was a jerk but I'm not. I don't even stay friends with m exes because I tried that and found that it does stop people from moving on and/or distracts them from their current person. People are wild, I would be heartbroken if my family did this. (I don't know their specific situation/ I'm sure it's fine).
Most sane comment I've read so far. Since there's no context I assume the son must be ok with it. I just think it's kinda immature to film something like this but it's probably just rage bait fr.
I had a similar experience. He left me with 5 kids. My siblings said " he is still our friend." He stole one sister's car. Stole mechanic brother's tools. And totally disrespected the rest of my family. I WAS THEIR SISTER BEFORE HE WAS BORN. I was 2 months older than he was.
@@user-iq2ls1eg5g it says absolutely nothing about her because his actions are his and his only. You can’t blame the person who’s being put in these situations and forget there’s an actual root cause to the problems. It’s not always the victim who “brings it on themselves”. The remarks people like you make is why so many don’t speak up when being mentally, physically, emotionally, or verbally abused. Stop the nonsense. You didn’t have to come for her AND her kid.
Seriously. Like I don't even wonder why we never see him in these videos, he probably stays as far away from his family now as he can. Especially if he tries to get back into dating. Like holy fuck I would NOT want to be his new girlfriend, and if I was him I would never bring a girlfriend around my family ever again.
@@doxoxo779 if it's not that serious, where is the ex boyfriend 🤨 I mean if it really is just a big inside joke for this family, wouldn't we see the guy in these videos, playing along? Nah, we don't. Wild to me that a dude such as yourself is putting another man's mental well being on the back burner for some attention seeking woman's joke of a TH-cam channel.
That's what my ex son's father family told him when I left him for cheating on me. His sister and mother, and father told him the same thing😊. His sister and I are best friends to this day!!❤😊 #godsplan #family #inlaws
The only time this is problematic is if the ex is & was toxic and/or abusive towards them. You should never want anyone with or even near your kids, let alone in your house & in the space your children are meant to feel & BE the safest if that person/ex has ever threatened them, traumatized them and/or abused them! Or even if their relationship was extremely unhealthy/toxic for the both of them, as that would just be triggering for one of them or both of them! Idc if that person/ex can be "nice, funny, helpful" *and/or* if they have similar interests & hobbies as someone in the family.. If they were toxic, manipulative, harmful and/or abusive to your child, it's a no! Absolutely no exceptions, if's, and's or but's‼️ Smh - You'd think this would go without saying, but you'd be surprised at how many families/people in this world that will prioritize their own wants, desires over their children's *AND* even prioritize the toxic/abusive ex's "wants feelings & desires" BEFORE *and* OVER their own child/family member.. like.. 😐🙄😒🗑️ "But we like them, they are/were the best & nicest person you've dated!" All while they were *actually* & *truly* the most narcissistic & psychologically, emotionally, s^xually *and/or* physically abusive person you've ever dated *AND* met in your whole fkn life.. 🥱🙃😅🫠
@xhoney_beax my situation is different. My eldest son's father cheated on me, and that's why I left him. This means I had to learn to forgive him for cheating on me and put our son first, and that's what I did. I had more interaction with my exes, parents, and his sister than I did with my ex. Although I do agree with you that if there was domestic violence or anything else in the situation, you should not have any further interaction, but it was infidelity that broke us up. It was infidelity that tore our family apart, something I will never tolerate. And I put everything aside and forgive my son's father for cheating on me just to put our son first. And he even married the woman that he cheated on me with and they are still together to this day and yet I put our son first and had to bite my tongue and interact with this woman knowing that her and my ex were the cause of our relationship being broken up. Our son will be 32 in April of this year and when I tell you because I always put him first and his father put him first our son is a registered nurse an upstanding citizen has never gave us a moment's worry we've never had to worry about getting that call in the mild of the night.we never had to worry about him being out in the street selling drugs or joining a gang or anything else. I know I did the right thing by leaving his father because I would have never met my future husband and had 22 blissful years with this man and another son .we were together for 22 years, and I was married to my husband for 17 wonderful years of marriage before I lost my husband in April of 2022 of a stroke. God has shined on me in so many ways and even though it hasn't been always good I still look to him and thank God for being there for me in my life as I go through this journey in life.
I had this conversation with my mom recently. If I broke up with someone then the family needs to break up with them as well. That doesn't mean being mean to the person, but inviting them.over for lunch, dinner, family events??? Hell no. I see it as disrespectful to my new partner.
Don't date that fast where the old and new actually meet like that 😅 wait til the family is over the last one and lost touch naturally before you even think about making another mess of things.
@@momiji7789 1)who says he'll be rushing in another relationship 2)looking at the comments some people still talk to their ex's parents 5 years after the fact so losing touch naturally might not be an option 3) you don't know the situation ex gf could've cheated so he broke up
Me with my exs family but since i live literal states away now we just talk otp and they send me gifts for my bithday and Christmas still. I miss them so damn much 😭😭 literally perfect in every way and if the relationship wasnt so awful i would've stayed forever just for his family 🥲 i miss them so damn much it hurts 😭
I’ve had similar this happen. Girlfriends would break up with me, but still keep in touch and even have lunch with my mom. Ha. They might have been over me, but they still liked her, and she liked them. 😊
That's weird especially knowing that he already has a girlfriend, it is very disrespectful to the boyfriend and his partner. Hopefully bro stops coming over if this behavior persists
@@sodahey7517 If they stayed friends afterwards, then why wouldn't he want her there? Everyone's assuming that the breakup had to have been a messy one
@@nexaaaaaaaEven if they're on good terms, they'll likely be judging their son the entire time for no longer loving this girl in the case that he broke up with her/they broke up on good terms, or shaming him for not being a "better" person if she broke up with him. If it's the latter she's just clearly a pretty horrible person to consider going to their home Christmas despite breaking up with him.
My fam does the same but its understandable, hes so kind and fun and even cooks well. Only broke up with him cuz he was being sent to Australia by his parents to work but didn't want to leave my side. We say we're friends as of now but its more like a stubborn no label relationship😅 Edit: just for a bit more info he's graduating Engineering school and already has a job opportunity in Australia but he was going to reject it cuz he wanted to wait till I graduate Architecture school which is 3 more years for me at least. I'm not letting a smart, talented, and kind man reject blessings coming to his life for my self benefit (he's way too attached to me, I don't see anything wrong with it till he 1. Didn't want to go to a great Uni and just go to the Uni I'd be going to cuz I wasn't allowed by my parents to go to a city so far away from them and 2. He wanted to reject a job offer cuz he wanted to wait for me to graduate so we could go together) so we (mostly me) decided to remain friends till either he settles the job offer or I graduate. We broke up like 2 times already cuz he keeps doing stuff like these, I love him but NO WAY am I gonna let his attachment get the best of his future.
And any new guy with brains will run away from this situation. Most guys don’t even want you hanging with male friends let alone spending family holidays with your ex
Unpopular opinion: When you and your gf seperate it‘s a matter of respect to break contact with the rest of the family and to get out of your ex‘s life
No it's not. It's only a matter of respect to break contact with the ex, why can't you still be friends with the other family members ? It's not like you were dating the whole family ...
@@radhiadeedou8286 not if youre both healthy emotionally ?? cuz the only way you'll ever give a fuck about your family inviting someone over that happens to be your ex is if you still have feelings towards them, good or bad. If you're truly over your ex then they go back to being another random person in life that has no impact on you and your life. If my family were friends with my ex and I was fr fr over them, I wouldn't give a fuck bc they mean nothing to me. They're no longer "my ex", they're a "friend of my family members" lol
Maybe if your relationship was awful. Unless she did something wrong for the break up to happen, its childish to act like she now has to be treated as a pariah by people who genuinely like her.
Its the fact that the vid specifies this is her exes family home. Not her friends house or her mentors house or her second families house. Weird antics
At some point this topic came up and the way my brother refused to pick my side automatically if I ever break up wkth my boyfriend tells me he really is the one. Lil bro really said it will depend on who did what, cause he's his friend. This man has won all of us over
I'm still friends with my son's ex❤ She was and is my daughter. And my son is still friends with her mom. But no line is ever crossed. Just much love and respect.
Unless you were married or had children, there is absolutely no justifiable reason to be hanging out with your exes family… You’re going to STOP the second you get a new boyfriend so what exactly is the point of the in between?
Where to you I find it nothing to be wrong with it especially if I go in a relationship with your mama keep my relationship and if they don't like it they can keep it moving meaning my family members
I really don’t see what the problem is. I made friends with my brothers girlfriend only for him to cheat on her. I’m not going to stop hanging out with her and being her friend just because my brother fucked up. I’m convinced people who are upset about this are just childish.
Yeah my mom calling my exe saying we can still be friends made me so mad especially it was so hard for us to break up Then my mom not knowing my exe would manipulate her mood to get on her good side Felt like constant betrayal and really misunderstood
awwww sorry for that. she’s probably just trying to be a good person but doesn’t realize that you need her loyalty first. you should vocalize that and she’ll listen to you, because lots of things aren’t clear until vocalized.
lol though this was literally my family with one of my exes, what was funnier was having to explain to his new partners that we were all totally cool with him bringing them over to meet us XD.
This me with my girlfriends family. We broke up for a liitle minute and a year beforehand they told me if we ever broke up they're still keeping me. They we'rent lying because I was invited to Thanksgiving after we broke up and I couldn't have been happier to be there!
How? Just because she’s an ex doesn’t mean they broke up due to some horrible reason. I think the red flag is expecting your family to drop someone who didn’t do anything wrong just because YOU are no longer in a relationship.
@@kiamaria331 this is such an immature comment i cant even start to break it down...im tired asf so ill just say we have got little to NO CONTEXT yall will just jump on blaming the guy in this situation and automatically believing that "family is always right" bs huh?
@@Hitlur.my.buttlerExactly, NO CONTEXT. So don't just assume either, perhaps they're a completely healthy couple who broke up for completely normal and valid reasons. Also nobody is jumping on the guy and blaming him for shit
“i’m breaking up with my gf”
family:you are but we aren’t
😂
The family said you fucked up we didn’t
@@budsisterz5735 LMFAO 😭😭
@@budsisterz5735DAM FR THO 💀😂
pulled a lorelai gilmore
The definition of "it sucks to be the new girlfriend" 😂
😳 she'll be having a microwave on the sofa im thinking 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 do it
lol for real
Just what I was thinking
Cause we know the family invite her
whose brother fumbled this hard 😭🙏🏾
Real, the black girl was so gorgeous
@@ilovechunkycats3884what if she cheated
Fumbled? You haven’t heard her say one word😂
@@td7883 what are u yapping bout 😭🙏🏾
@@ilovechunkycats3884oh idk man maybe the brother a MAN finally DIDNT gice an f abt beauty and prolly cared for emotional connection yknow? That happens
Nah bro fumbled HARD
if i fumbled a woman that beautiful im killing myself theres no way
@@jayceq5281 lol exactly, heaven can have me at that point 😂
@@jayceq5281if a woman like that isn't gonna have you then you might as well offer yourswlf to God lmfaooo
Loves how yall are basically admitting u shouldn't fumble only if its a 10 bruh. Also ur a snowflake if u suiciding for THAT😂 😂like just jump off a building no need to wait lol
She's mid @@jayceq5281
Like how she gracefully walked in like yass bihh this still family
It’s not tho
@@theyfwgh0ulzwant
@@theyfwgh0ulzwhat*
That’s why her name is Grace
@@Abby_311 ik it matches her beautiful essences
This is some crazy family betrayal 💀
Fr
Tbh it matters on the situation/reason they broke up if it wasn't that bad and they decided to be friends then it'll be ok but if it was a big and messy break up then it'll be more complicated and then each person would feel different about the situation.
One of my relative family was like this and thats bcs it was their son who cheated but they liked his gf so much. It was satisfying to see them sitting happily with thr ex-gf and shoved all the food to her while their own son sitting in the corner abandoned, munching a single cookie. I dont think the ex-gf wanted to be with him anymore but that serves a lesson. He's a happily married man to another woman now.
@@Xinxola No. As hard as it is, you move on.
@@Nyabennah ppl can move on with out cutting connection with ppl? You know that two people don't have to hate each other after they break up, I've had one break up and I'm still friends with them and I'm in a relationship rn and my partner is ok with me hanging out with them.
When the ex is better than the brother 💀
I think this is the most likes I've gotten here's a duck eating pasta 🍝🦆
🤣🤣🤣
My family!
Duck eating just got you another like
The Dad's 👕 SAYS IT ALL🤣😁😂
The brother: who said she could come😑
The family: 💀🌚
I didn't even notice the brother 😂
@@oliviarogers9617😂😂
@@oliviarogers9617I think they have two brothers!
@@oliviarogers9617 lol the sisters faces though they looked dismayed or was one his current gf
@@rachaelk7866 😂
I was the NEW girlfriend at one point in time. Saw this kind of behavior, and we went our separate ways shortly after. They really invited BOTH of us over. I went along with it. Then found out they were encouraging them to hook back up. Found out about THEIR baby on MY birthday. This is cool and all until that person wants to move on and maybe even become serious with someone else. At that point, you can keep the friendship but be respectful to the new boo and keep it separate.
THIS!!!
Exactly. I do not condone this. This is so damaging since they’re thinking about themselves
Finally, a mature comment
And if your son/brother keep his baby a secret, tell the new girl about it yourself instead😳
Don't think they did what this girls ex's family doin cuz they just loved her, bet your ex's family did it all for the baby situation..
I’ve always been invited back to my exes family gatherings. Every family member builds a bond with me. But I’m also very respectful to the new boo thang. I think it’s hard to walk away from cool ppl just because your relationship didn’t work out. I’m still cool with every single one that’s alive today.
Mom’s wide open arms and the “ most beautiful surprise smile “ got me rolling 😂😂😂😂
The dad😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
She’s moving in on him 😂😂
@@DaughtersofOrion I wish I could laugh react that😂😂😂
Too funny Pops
She trying to seduce the dad now mom better watch out lmao!
shes like:IM BACKKKKKKK
blaaack
@@app-vn7nsthat is so racist
@@app-vn7ns🌚🌚🌚
@@app-vn7nsnaw💀💀
@@app-vn7ns🤣 boutta say that
The mom looks like welcome home daughter!! Too funny😂😂😂
Okay but like- she’s STUNNING 💗💗💗
Her feeding the dad and missing had me rollinggg 😂 ( Idk my humor is broken but frsss )
His eyes.😂😂😂😂
@@manqobashongwe1301YESSS! 😂😂
😂😂😂
No, your humor is spot on bc it was by far the best part of the video 😂
hAhAhA oMg ThAt Is So Me
Let’s talk about how’s shes absolutely stunning 😍
Looks only matter to strangers online if they’re shallow
@@Patic234 Calling her pretty didn’t make her shallow but you having a problem with it might be some kind of internal conflict
@@Patic234so people aren’t allowed to complement other people?? So ur just bitter and you feel the need to take any negative outlook u can, just to make others feel shitty about themselves?? I think ur the shallow one here…
Real
She really not
She walked in like it's still her house!
😂😂😂😂 The ex fully understands he messed up 😂😂😂😂😂
This is a level of betrayal i hope my family never reaches
Fr 😭 bc atp it’s me or them 😂💯
😂😂😂
REAL
😂
Not betrayal unless the person who's the ex did you dirty! It's maturity.
I love how the guy is standing behind the girls 😭
I did not notice that!!😂😂😂
Didn't even notice him till you mentioned it😂😂😂
I missed that, too! I was wondering where he was lol.
I just noticed it after reading your comment 😂😂
Lol I didn't even notice that lol
She had to be the most respectful & realistic female they're ever met. The love is in abundance ❤
Ain't no way😂😂😂😂 I think he got a disown his family now Time to be a orphan😂
Idk, I feel super lucky that my family didn't do this to me. They loved my ex but when we broke up they respected me enough to not keep bringing him by
it depends on the reason you broke up tbh. its not disrespectful in EVERY context imo
@@chancellorchandlerit’s literally disrespectful 😂😂 in any and every context 😂😂weird ass
@@chancellorchandlerif the context is the brother not okay with ex invited then that context is enough lol
@@chancellorchandlereven if they broke up in good terms why would you invite the ex over every dinner? Or even holiday dinners? How is the child gonna move on? And if they wanted to bring their new gf over they won’t because their ex is still buddy buddy with mom and are at the other end of the table gossiping 😂
@@chancellorchandler dude..no...ex gf/bf is an ex gf/bf for a reasons, dont you think? Doesnt have to be bad. But if you're Not wanting them in your life like that anymore then they shouldnt be. If the family still likes them, they should meet them separately out of respect to their own child.
someones brother fumbled so hard wtf💀🙏
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Nah who knows what happened, she might’ve been in the wrong
For real she’s stunning 🤩
@official_theo5671 Sometimes, no one is in the wrong, and they just aren't the right people for each other. It happens.
How can yall say that? That's make up and weave?
Okay but why she feeding Dad tho 😂😅😭💀
Yeah that’s a bit weird
She found a new way to be part of the family and mom is either clueless or don't care 😅
Because he is her dad now❤
It’s just a video, relax.
I’m sorry but my family gettin disowned this happen to me 😂
this plus the comments reminds me of my dad saying “if you break up with her, YOU’RE moving out” as a joke to my brother and his girlfriend at the time (she lived with us for a while)… they’re married and have two kids now 😂
Omg love it lol
Thats kinda toxic but if its a healthy relationship then alr who am i to say
@@Hitlur.my.buttlerits called a joke
@@Hitlur.my.buttler in my family we joke like this all the time… we know it’s only for funnies lol
@@Hitlur.my.buttlerthey said it was a joke
Id disown my family if they did this
Fr this shit plain weird
Ok?
@@2cool4thisyou saying okay like she said that specifically to you LMAOOO
You’d disown your family for still considering the girl you broke up with family? 😀
@@Lana25671that's not weird to you?
SHES FR STUNNING
Family betrayal 😂😂
Yes! 26 years later, and the family is still my 2nd family. Can go over there any day, and he doesn't live there. They love me and I love them!
That’s kind of toxic if your ex isn’t ok with it.
@@lydiarouse8241I don't live a toxic life. He has been fine with it all of these years
That's just weird.
@@cassidylang4344 You're just immature
@@koitsme I'm immature because I won't go over the my exs house and make it my whole personality online? Ok. Have a strange life hun.
My mom did this to me with my ex....its a sign of disrespect honestly....(especially since I had married someone else). Toxic family😂😂
Ι think your mom wanted him for herself. 😅
I hope my parents don’t do this😰😰
I’m sorry you had to go through that! My husband cut all ties with his family because of this. It really got that bad
True colors come out at unexpected times.
I could see if we were still cool with each other after breaking up but this is crazy
What a gorgeous family. Even the dad is handsome.
The end😭
My family did that to me I felt like they chose her over me. I moved away and never looked back.
And how did that relationship end lol
@@The_Sphinx-22did you not read the comment fully its only 21 words come on..
@@The_Sphinx-22I did it and now I’m married to her with a child 😂😂😂 disrespect is disrespect doesn’t matter where it comes from
i don't know you, i don't know your life, but i do know a family wouldn't do that if you were a decent person
@@ratrat9241disrespect is disrespect, holiday is for family and friends only and ex is neither, is they invite ex against others will they do it out of spite cut ties they are not family anymore 😂
That’s why people go no contact with their parents 😊
True shitttt 😢😢😢😢
Based on the fact they made a video about this I'd think they prolly broke up on good terms
@@juwairiyyahluqman4914but only the mom was happy to see her so I'm
Not so sure about that
@@rachaelk7866 they're all happy
Yep. And like clockwork, those parents are going to whine and cry and wonder why their son wants nothing to do with them.
Dawg some people just don't know what limits are.
pops missed the fork GAHAHABABABABAHHAHAHA
My ex's family was like this but I politely cut ties out of respect for my ex who I already dumped. The least I can do is let him move on. He was a jerk but I'm not.
I don't even stay friends with m exes because I tried that and found that it does stop people from moving on and/or distracts them from their current person.
People are wild, I would be heartbroken if my family did this. (I don't know their specific situation/ I'm sure it's fine).
Most sane comment I've read so far. Since there's no context I assume the son must be ok with it.
I just think it's kinda immature to film something like this but it's probably just rage bait fr.
@@ariyapaka2869not immature yall just sensitive. Don't bring people around your family unless yall engaged. You did this to yourself
Honestly spoke fax but it don't matter what situation it was, inviting your son's ex is pushing it
It's hilarious that people are actually lapping this story up.
Finally a sensible perspective. My family could never do this if I told them I was uncomfortable with it.
Period grace don't play wit ha😂❤❤❤
Nah bc the fam was like y’all mighta broken up but we haven’t😂😂
DAYUM SHE IS ABSOLUTELY STUNNING 😖😖😖
You ate that girl 😂❤
The dads beard ate for sure
@@kyanahatwood4179 was gonna say it too 😅😅😅
@@AshErin8304same
Period.
And did❤😂😂😂
I had a similar experience. He left me with 5 kids. My siblings said " he is still our friend." He stole one sister's car. Stole mechanic brother's tools. And totally disrespected the rest of my family. I WAS THEIR SISTER BEFORE HE WAS BORN. I was 2 months older than he was.
So what does that say, bout u...(An the DNA that was left)
@@user-iq2ls1eg5g it says absolutely nothing about her because his actions are his and his only. You can’t blame the person who’s being put in these situations and forget there’s an actual root cause to the problems. It’s not always the victim who “brings it on themselves”. The remarks people like you make is why so many don’t speak up when being mentally, physically, emotionally, or verbally abused. Stop the nonsense. You didn’t have to come for her AND her kid.
@@mzritedime_ Well said ,THANK YOU.
And you let him pie 5 kids into you. What were you thinking?
@@RevealedFilmsclearly this happened after the five kids. News flash shitty ppl don't advertise they're shitty
One of the best ways to prove to your child you don't really love them.
Seriously. Like I don't even wonder why we never see him in these videos, he probably stays as far away from his family now as he can.
Especially if he tries to get back into dating. Like holy fuck I would NOT want to be his new girlfriend, and if I was him I would never bring a girlfriend around my family ever again.
It’s not that serious
I was gonna say!! Ppl so serious @@doxoxo779
@@doxoxo779 if it's not that serious, where is the ex boyfriend 🤨 I mean if it really is just a big inside joke for this family, wouldn't we see the guy in these videos, playing along? Nah, we don't. Wild to me that a dude such as yourself is putting another man's mental well being on the back burner for some attention seeking woman's joke of a TH-cam channel.
This is legit every Christmas movie 😝
" You can break up with ur gf but we aren't"
- An amazing family
Edit: guys plz stop having a WW3 in my comments.it's just a comment calm down
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That's what my ex son's father family told him when I left him for cheating on me. His sister and mother, and father told him the same thing😊. His sister and I are best friends to this day!!❤😊
#godsplan
#family
#inlaws
The only time this is problematic is if the ex is & was toxic and/or abusive towards them.
You should never want anyone with or even near your kids, let alone in your house & in the space your children are meant to feel & BE the safest if that person/ex has ever threatened them, traumatized them and/or abused them!
Or even if their relationship was extremely unhealthy/toxic for the both of them, as that would just be triggering for one of them or both of them!
Idc if that person/ex can be "nice, funny, helpful" *and/or* if they have similar interests & hobbies as someone in the family..
If they were toxic, manipulative, harmful and/or abusive to your child, it's a no!
Absolutely no exceptions, if's, and's or but's‼️
Smh -
You'd think this would go without saying, but you'd be surprised at how many families/people in this world that will prioritize their own wants, desires over their children's *AND* even prioritize the toxic/abusive ex's "wants feelings & desires" BEFORE *and* OVER their own child/family member.. like.. 😐🙄😒🗑️
"But we like them, they are/were the best & nicest person you've dated!"
All while they were *actually* & *truly* the most narcissistic & psychologically, emotionally, s^xually *and/or* physically abusive person you've ever dated *AND* met in your whole fkn life.. 🥱🙃😅🫠
Cool she could do this. I've treated their families nice but this was not how they were with me after.
@xhoney_beax my situation is different. My eldest son's father cheated on me, and that's why I left him. This means I had to learn to forgive him for cheating on me and put our son first, and that's what I did. I had more interaction with my exes, parents, and his sister than I did with my ex. Although I do agree with you that if there was domestic violence or anything else in the situation, you should not have any further interaction, but it was infidelity that broke us up. It was infidelity that tore our family apart, something I will never tolerate. And I put everything aside and forgive my son's father for cheating on me just to put our son first. And he even married the woman that he cheated on me with and they are still together to this day and yet I put our son first and had to bite my tongue and interact with this woman knowing that her and my ex were the cause of our relationship being broken up. Our son will be 32 in April of this year and when I tell you because I always put him first and his father put him first our son is a registered nurse an upstanding citizen has never gave us a moment's worry we've never had to worry about getting that call in the mild of the night.we never had to worry about him being out in the street selling drugs or joining a gang or anything else. I know I did the right thing by leaving his father because I would have never met my future husband and had 22 blissful years with this man and another son .we were together for 22 years, and I was married to my husband for 17 wonderful years of marriage before I lost my husband in April of 2022 of a stroke. God has shined on me in so many ways and even though it hasn't been always good I still look to him and thank God for being there for me in my life as I go through this journey in life.
I had this conversation with my mom recently. If I broke up with someone then the family needs to break up with them as well. That doesn't mean being mean to the person, but inviting them.over for lunch, dinner, family events??? Hell no. I see it as disrespectful to my new partner.
Agreed
I agree
It always depends on what the new girlfriend’s preferences are
Don't date that fast where the old and new actually meet like that 😅 wait til the family is over the last one and lost touch naturally before you even think about making another mess of things.
@@momiji7789 1)who says he'll be rushing in another relationship 2)looking at the comments some people still talk to their ex's parents 5 years after the fact so losing touch naturally might not be an option 3) you don't know the situation ex gf could've cheated so he broke up
Me with my exs family but since i live literal states away now we just talk otp and they send me gifts for my bithday and Christmas still. I miss them so damn much 😭😭 literally perfect in every way and if the relationship wasnt so awful i would've stayed forever just for his family 🥲 i miss them so damn much it hurts 😭
Hilarious 😂 Dad at tha end though!!
Feeding the dad is crazy but yea 😭
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Yeah...super weird.
Uhm that wasn't the dad
@@lottabodi1it says “the dad 🤍” on top of the dudes head lol wym
This feels like a PSA about being careful who you let meet your family
I’ve had similar this happen. Girlfriends would break up with me, but still keep in touch and even have lunch with my mom. Ha. They might have been over me, but they still liked her, and she liked them. 😊
They react this way every day when I walk in to work. ✨️
That's weird especially knowing that he already has a girlfriend, it is very disrespectful to the boyfriend and his partner. Hopefully bro stops coming over if this behavior persists
maybe they ended on good terms and are now just friends. i dont think they'd just keep bringing the ex over if the guy didnt want her there haha.
@@jynx_1I don’t think the guy would want her there if he broke up with her
@@sodahey7517 If they stayed friends afterwards, then why wouldn't he want her there? Everyone's assuming that the breakup had to have been a messy one
@@raerohan4241 and you’re assuming they stayed friends
@@raerohan4241*If*
Imagine the brother just cuts off the family after marrying his new gf lmao
Wouldn’t be surprised if
Honestly I would hope to do that, unless someway the exes are on really good terms, this just feels weird
@@nexaaaaaaaEven if they're on good terms, they'll likely be judging their son the entire time for no longer loving this girl in the case that he broke up with her/they broke up on good terms, or shaming him for not being a "better" person if she broke up with him. If it's the latter she's just clearly a pretty horrible person to consider going to their home Christmas despite breaking up with him.
They wouldn’t care.
@@RECKLESS.DR1VERthen wtf is this family if they don’t care about their own son
This killed me, I'm dead!!!😅
The fathers sweater says what I was thinking lol
My fam does the same but its understandable, hes so kind and fun and even cooks well. Only broke up with him cuz he was being sent to Australia by his parents to work but didn't want to leave my side. We say we're friends as of now but its more like a stubborn no label relationship😅
Edit: just for a bit more info he's graduating Engineering school and already has a job opportunity in Australia but he was going to reject it cuz he wanted to wait till I graduate Architecture school which is 3 more years for me at least. I'm not letting a smart, talented, and kind man reject blessings coming to his life for my self benefit (he's way too attached to me, I don't see anything wrong with it till he 1. Didn't want to go to a great Uni and just go to the Uni I'd be going to cuz I wasn't allowed by my parents to go to a city so far away from them and 2. He wanted to reject a job offer cuz he wanted to wait for me to graduate so we could go together) so we (mostly me) decided to remain friends till either he settles the job offer or I graduate. We broke up like 2 times already cuz he keeps doing stuff like these, I love him but NO WAY am I gonna let his attachment get the best of his future.
So you're still smashing 😅
I would've kept that to myself
We would call that a "situationship" here in the philippines
That called friends with benefits
And any new guy with brains will run away from this situation. Most guys don’t even want you hanging with male friends let alone spending family holidays with your ex
I felt that mom's hug!!❤😊💯
Me tooo like itch where u been 🤣🤣😅😅😅😅🫶🏾
@@upanditsstuck8275 yaaaasssssss!😊!
Ikr🎉
I’ve been in this situation before … my bf ex was like a Nat that just wouldn’t go away
“You know, back in my da-“
Weirdo
She’s so pretty😮😮😮
Unpopular opinion: When you and your gf seperate it‘s a matter of respect to break contact with the rest of the family and to get out of your ex‘s life
No it's not. It's only a matter of respect to break contact with the ex, why can't you still be friends with the other family members ? It's not like you were dating the whole family ...
@@hadrian3874it's unhealthy and creates unnecessary complications in the new relationships
@@radhiadeedou8286 not if youre both healthy emotionally ?? cuz the only way you'll ever give a fuck about your family inviting someone over that happens to be your ex is if you still have feelings towards them, good or bad. If you're truly over your ex then they go back to being another random person in life that has no impact on you and your life. If my family were friends with my ex and I was fr fr over them, I wouldn't give a fuck bc they mean nothing to me. They're no longer "my ex", they're a "friend of my family members" lol
It matters how they broke up if they broke up on good terms and decided to be friends I think it would be ok.
Maybe if your relationship was awful. Unless she did something wrong for the break up to happen, its childish to act like she now has to be treated as a pariah by people who genuinely like her.
The end 😂
If I was dating a guy and saw that I’d be out LOL
Shiid I woulda had no more family if they treated my ex like this
Same here
Its the fact that the vid specifies this is her exes family home. Not her friends house or her mentors house or her second families house. Weird antics
You don't deserve them lol
@@DominantBtch so you’re saying it’s totally okay for your own family to side with someone who broke your heart and betrayed you?
I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy
... Sigh everyday we stray further@@BeautyforAshess
The dad 😂
At some point this topic came up and the way my brother refused to pick my side automatically if I ever break up wkth my boyfriend tells me he really is the one. Lil bro really said it will depend on who did what, cause he's his friend. This man has won all of us over
Making it your whole personality at this point🙂
I'm still friends with my son's ex❤ She was and is my daughter. And my son is still friends with her mom. But no line is ever crossed. Just much love and respect.
Dad’s shirt “ Bunch of Jerks” says it all!!! Lollll
That dude could have absorbed a running drop kick. That was like having a real life cheat code.
Unless you were married or had children, there is absolutely no justifiable reason to be hanging out with your exes family…
You’re going to STOP the second you get a new boyfriend so what exactly is the point of the in between?
Where to you I find it nothing to be wrong with it especially if I go in a relationship with your mama keep my relationship and if they don't like it they can keep it moving meaning my family members
I really don’t see what the problem is. I made friends with my brothers girlfriend only for him to cheat on her. I’m not going to stop hanging out with her and being her friend just because my brother fucked up. I’m convinced people who are upset about this are just childish.
Because the relationship that the person forms separately with family members is something else, they are not dating everyone xD
@@AraneaTempestatibusnothing like caring more about some random person than your family member learn some respect.
That is total opposite, ppl build connections... this is totally OK, I think. I am always loved & can come by but I don't
Her ex: 👁️ 👁️
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Wrong color 😂
The boy on the back when he figures out that his ex is here
WE HEAD OVER HEALS WITH THIS ONE🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🔥🔥
I think the dad may have been happiest to see Grace!!!!!😂😂😂
Is that why they broke up!?! lmao
Whenever my fam tries to do this, I politely decline the invitation and tell them I’ll go somewhere else for Christmas from now on.
The kind of family you can't trust when it matters the most
I still go to my ex family events 😂😂😂😂 I talk to the mom weekly lol
Yeah my mom calling my exe saying we can still be friends made me so mad especially it was so hard for us to break up
Then my mom not knowing my exe would manipulate her mood to get on her good side
Felt like constant betrayal and really misunderstood
Ew that's gross
awwww sorry for that. she’s probably just trying to be a good person but doesn’t realize that you need her loyalty first. you should vocalize that and she’ll listen to you, because lots of things aren’t clear until vocalized.
Embarrassing from both sides.
She…rolled the dice into the Cataan board.
lol though this was literally my family with one of my exes, what was funnier was having to explain to his new partners that we were all totally cool with him bringing them over to meet us XD.
If this were an ex boyfriend everyone here would be like STALKER!!
I agree 100 percent this shit just weird
It's stalker regardless to me
i know. theres gotta be some kind of ego-stroking going on for the woman and then some kind of betrayal or just feeding the drama from the family
Or maybe they had a mutual break up and remained on good terms with each other? Yall are weird for making assumptions about people you don't know.
Nah, not really. The family could consider him their son just like this family considers her their daughter.
The dad still waiting to get fed 😂
😅😅😅😅 The dad, OMG, 😂😂😂
How sweet such a viral, supportive family I’m sure the man can go over to her family and they will be just as excepting and loving…..
She is officially a stalker now
This me with my girlfriends family. We broke up for a liitle minute and a year beforehand they told me if we ever broke up they're still keeping me. They we'rent lying because I was invited to Thanksgiving after we broke up and I couldn't have been happier to be there!
Your comedic timing is spot on.
catan is such a good game
Leave that man family alone lol
how is this NOT a giant red flag? i wouldn’t speak to my family if they actually did this kind of thing tbh.
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How? Just because she’s an ex doesn’t mean they broke up due to some horrible reason. I think the red flag is expecting your family to drop someone who didn’t do anything wrong just because YOU are no longer in a relationship.
@@kiamaria331 this is such an immature comment i cant even start to break it down...im tired asf so ill just say we have got little to NO CONTEXT yall will just jump on blaming the guy in this situation and automatically believing that "family is always right" bs huh?
@@Hitlur.my.buttlerExactly, NO CONTEXT. So don't just assume either, perhaps they're a completely healthy couple who broke up for completely normal and valid reasons. Also nobody is jumping on the guy and blaming him for shit
Not every reason to break up is because of cheating or anything bad… becoming strangers or an opp to your ex because of the break up is immature😹!
The way the food goes into the dad beard
The accidents are scary but the reaction is oh so appropriate.