You got to consider most of these examples are guys who found out cause the baby was the wrong race. Just imagine how many women get away with this every year because the baby daddies were just close enough she could pull it off.
@@selectidiot Not representative, dna test done when men have doubts. And not every time. Alot of man didnt know biology enough to have doubts. Some women could ensure men that it theirs.
@@gusjeazer Depends on socio-economic strata of the mother. Rates go from 30% for the poorest mothers to ~1% in the billionaires club. At least that is the result I remember from the most recent paper I read on the subject. In med school, they gave us the blanket 10%.
The gym teacher story, I remember reading on Reddit. The story ended with the gym teacher being fired and arrested on the same day. No clue what his sentence was, but I’m sure it was substantial.
I was a baby in this situation! My dad's Irish, with red hair and grey eyes. My mom's a Scandinavian/Irish mix with brown hair and blue eyes. Both white as snow. I was born kinda tan, thanks to jaundice, and with a full head of thick black hair and darkish eyes. My dad's friend told him to get a paternity test, but he decided not to. I eventually got a genetic test a lot later, and he was the dad. Obviously. Turns out, mom had an Indian great grandmother and recessive genes are a bitch 🤣🤣🤣 After a couple months, my jaundice went away leaving me really white, and my hair turned brown. I look exactly like my mom. Dad's friend had to apologize. All good.
Similar story with me but other way round. My mom is white, dad black, I was born with tan skin but blonde hair. When I was delivered medical staff thought I was jaundiced until my dad walked in. Colour explained - panic over! My hair eventually darkened to near black but took a couple of years, I gather. My siblings and I look like we're from different sides of the planet and a couple of places in between. Weird how all those hidden genes come out in the mix.
My youngest was born with platinum hair. Wife was born with blond hair and my youngest brother is blond. My mother however doesn't understand genetics and made an accusation, and inadvertently reveals my brother may not our dad's genetically.
The fact your Mom betrayed your father is disgusting. Jesus Christ, THIS is why DNA test MUST be mandatory at the time of Birth. Paternity Fraud has definitely risen through the years.
@@schizoidmeme5470 Sad thing is that it's on the lower end of the F'ed up things she did. Also, I wouldn't say paternity fraud has risen, just that we are more aware of it.
@@Cooldude-ko7ps She's done far worse than that. We are NC with her, and have been for a couple of years. Last I spoke to her was to tell her to leave my sibling alone.
@@greatgamingendavour First story about the child, the 12 year old? She didn't even know what sex WAS. She might not have even KNOWN that it was cheating and that sort of thing is done with a partner. Good god. Fuck that predatory teacher.
@@thecolordurple8435 But she did not thought it was odd that what they were doing yet she was a girlfriend of someone ? Now days everyone knows what it is from very young age , also is it not that girls get into sexual maturity before boys does . She is just a guilty as the teacher if not more , just because she is young don't think for a second she was innocent if she was she would have told her parents and others and her friends the moment she had chance . Now days internet is every where and even childrens r more clever and have knowledges of all around thing , I can honestly say that I have reason to belive the whole thing was started by the girl herself she was more guilty , she literaly made out with her boyfriend so it's logically to think she knew the concepts of what being in relation ship is more or less that includes physical , it's probably she was not physicaly attracted to her boyfriend but rather on the teacher himself . Kids that age r very impulsive and 95% times do not think of consequances thus most horrible crimes done by young ones r from around that age , including murder and sexual asults . So any one would be a real fool if they think the girl was innocent and only the teacher was criminal , the girl was just as criminal if not more . Peoples start to control their impulsiveness as they gain more age , thus young peoples from age 25 + gets more self controll than their past age self but there r some who have this groth late , they stay impulsive and does things with properly thinking of consequance example the teacher and guilty peoples like them .
@@greatgamingendavour the girl was 12-13 years old, she's a child, mind was still developing and obviously taken advantage of because she's so young. This was in the 1989, but even if it IS recent, this is still P3DOPHILIA and as stated in the video it IS* CHILD ABUSE and r@pe. it's so wrong wtf, this is victim blaming.
I'm a med student, practicing in a NICU. So me and bunch of other people helped this girl deliver her baby. It was smooth, smoothest delivery I've seen in my life. After wards we have to record her information for our report card, and I was tasked with it, whe I asked when she was born, she said 2008. This was in 2022 so she was 14 at the time. My heart dropped. I record all her info, and left. I checked outside later on at the family waiting bench and it was empty, no parents, no relatives, not even the dude who gave her this baby or even the cops. Girl literally went to give birth all on her own, and she was only 14.
I'm the result of an opposite story to these. My parents were childhood friends and got married very young. My dad was supposed to be sterile because of cancer treatment when he was a baby. Parents assumed they would have to adopt. Well about 1.5 years after they got married, they find out my mom is pregnant. 100% surprise. My dad never questioned it, he immediately jumped to the doctors were wrong especially because they had been wrong about everything else regarding his health (even told my grandparents he was dying and had the priest come to quickly Baptize him and give him last rites as an infant). So I'm born, and my mom and the midwife take one look at me and say "[Dad's name] that's your face." So there was no question about it, definitely belong to the man that is suppsoed to be sterile lol. My dad's mom still likes to say "I knew your mother well enough I didn't think anything funny was going on, but then I saw you and knew you were definitely ours." And sure enough I'm now a middle aged woman who still has her father and paternal grandfather's face. If anything I need a DNA test to see if I'm actually realted to my mom because I look NOTHING like her and her family 😄. I also have younger siblings and parents never had trouble getting pregnant. The doctors were just wrong about my dad.
Wow, what an amazing story of hope! That your dad defied all odds with all the medical challenges he was faced with is short of a miracle. You seem close to your family. Y'all sound wonderful. 😇
I have a friend that has a similar story. Her partner had had cancer treatments and the doctors thought he was sterile, but the woman didn’t know about that. When then went at the doctor he said something like « but he’s not the father ». The woman said EXCUSE ME. They have 4 children.
Worked with a fellow who came from a very old Mexican family from our area. Not uncommon with these families, he had an anglo grandparent who in his case was a German grandmother. Well he had 10 siblings, all looked Latino except one brother. His sibs called him "milkman" as a joke, but when I met him he looked identical to his siblings except for the light skin color.
Similair to my family For me I was always told I looked like my dad growing up a white southern american in the south. Well my mom a comes form a Italian family in New York. (My ancestors Darked skinn immigrant families) As I got older my skin went form white to dark. And my itltian features really became more prominate, I never noticed till people asked...in middle school btw "You tanned or something" I was really confused especially it being dead in the middle of Winter. Also happened with my brother but he was born with darker skinned some people thought he wasn't my dad my close realtives knew as if you look at my uncle one a really pale skin person the other extremely darked skinned you understand. Wasn't a big deal for me as what but crazy that people out their get offended by something natural or simply do not belive me.
My husband is a redhead, his maternal grandfather, Kelly, was a redhead, and our firstborn was also a redhead. When friends would laughingly ask Grandpa Kelly where our baby got her red hair, he always said - in his delightful Danish accent - *"I don't know - I haven't seen the milkman!" That joke will just **_NEVER_** go away!* THAT FIRST baby is now over 50 years old, & our others, only somewhat younger, are _ALSO_ redheads! The worst part about that joke is that shortly before #3 child was born, we signed up for home delivery of local milk. *You guessed it: **_THAT_** MILKMAN WAS **_ANOTHER_** REDHEAD!*
Yeah, I work in a genetics testing lab, testing for rare disorders of newborns, for which we generally need a DNA sample from the child and both parents. We have seen some ... interesting results, and I'm very glad I'm not the one that has to pass the results back. But one interesting case stands out, where a mum had just given birth to a baby that was really unwell, and told us that the father was one of two possible people. She didn't know which, and didn't want to find out, so we had to do paternity testing, then solve the case using the correct dad's DNA and then return a diagnosis. Ethical issues abound.
Opposite of this happened in the labor and delivery room. My wife and I have very brown eyes. Both our grandparents have very light eyes (grey/hazel). A very observant nurse got uncomfortable when he yawned and opened his eyes. She started stumbling questions about eye color. I laughed and told her about my grandpa and she calmed down. When my youngest two were born many years later I asked my wife, "Hey how come this one looks irish!?" Just to make her laugh. The nurses were uncomfortable until my wife started laughing.
Right, people forget that you can inherit until 5 generations back and sometimes kids don't look like their parents at all, while other times they almost look like clones.
@@maomi1852 "...you can inherit until 5 generations back". What?? No. You can only inherit from your parents. Your parents can only inherit from their parents. Genes you have, have been inherited for millions of years down the line of your ancestors to you.
Yeah, it’s upsetting that people this stupid are the ones reproducing. Like cheating… that’s stupid, obviously, but more of a morality issue. It’s stupid to not just break up, but it’s not stick-your-tongue-in-moving-blender level stupid. But cheating without protection? WHY?!? Is it the thrill? Do they not have ANY concept of contraception. Then there’s all these people who A) Cheat, B ) Cheat without protection, and C ) Cheat without protection with a partner of a different race. (Obviously not saying interracial couples are bad- I’m pointing out that it’s gonna be OBVIOUS the cheating happened)
8:57 Can we just talk about how in story 14 the wife of the man is not angry about the cheating but about her child being BORN AFTER THE OTHER GIRLS CHILD. Which is just insane.
I don't think you understood what happened there. She was very definitely mad about the cheating, that's why she got kind of petty about the mistress' child being born first. Imagine your husband cheats on you, has a child with another woman, and then that woman gives birth the same day you do and 10 minutes before, stealing the spotlight of the birth of _your_ child from _your_ husband.
I knew of couples where the husband was infertile for various reasons, but they wanted a kids. My kids are adopted, and some of these couples were open to adoption. Others had pursued obtaining sperm from a sperm bank to impregnate the wife. Kids need a stable home life regardless if they are biologically related or not. It's the dishonesty and deception, the taking advantage of minors that is the greatest issue I hear in these stories. So sad that children must start their lives with such chaos created by others who should know better.
I had a patient once, dark skinned from Mexico. Baby came out white as a ghost, pale eyes and yellow hair. Husband started yelling at her in Spanish, calling her a slew of profane names and demanding to know what white man she had cheated with. His mom was present and immediately liked at the baby and shouted "its an albino! Just like uncle ***!" The husband turned as white as the baby, immediately closed his mouth and left the room. He returned an hour later with the biggest bouquet of flowers, candy, a card, basically everything he could find in the hospital gift shop to apologize.
I have a aunt white as snow husband white as snow kids black as night husband left only to find out months later from DNA testing he was the father and his grate grate grate grandmother was black skin color doesn't mean anything
My grandparents on either side won't stop reminding me that they and the doctors think my mom cheated because I had white skin and straight hair, but my parents are convinced it's because they've got some white in them (they're black but lightskinned), and to this day I still haven't taken a DNA test because I'm not about to have my world be potentially shattered. I look a whole different breed but my dad will always be my dad and I'll always be his child no matter what my genes and my grandma say. Love him so much, and just as he's always been there for me, I'll always be there for him. 💙💙💙
Wow I feel so bad for both the husband and the baby of the last story! I can't even be mad at the dude, if my ex wife was to give birth to a baby that didn't look like me, I would leave too!
As you heard from one of the stories, twins can be both blond and black. Stay with the baby till the test results are in, if you don't trust it. If the child is not yours and want to leave, you can still leave later, but you can never get those first few weeks/months back.
@@annekekramer3835 Heteropaternal, hetero meaning different, heteropaternal superfecundation is the act of two different men impregnating two different eggs within a time period, resulting in twins. Yes, kids can take after different aspects of the parents, but you can only use that excuse so much.
Honestly, without knowing all the facts I wouldn't worry to much. The state is reluctant to take away parental rights. The fact that they did could mean that there were other factors at play that made him an unfit parent. But overall, yeah, just a messed up situation.
I young black man told the story of when his black wife had her baby. The baby came out white with red hair. Everyone in the delivery room went silent. His eife asked if he could see the baby and what did it looked like. He told her the baby look just like his uncle, who had pale skin and red hair. Sigh of relief.
My aunt and uncle are both white had a black baby turns out white people can and do have black babys he left he thinking the baby wasn't his DNA testing shows he was the father. genetics are weird and complicated
Was in the recovery room with my wife and our brand new third child. In comes this super upbeat and nice pediatrician, talking a bunch and all that, then she splurts out "His blood type is O+!"... I laugh and get all serious and say "he better be, or else I`m not his father"... her eyes bug out, like a deer caught in headlights, and she goes silent, and me and my wife burst out laughing... Lol... bet she changed her routine from that day on...
10:31 best think a man can do to a woman who does that to him. No point in getting emotional, no point in fighting, no point in paying for a kid that isn't yours. I have a lot of respect for that man for how he dealt with it. He dealt with it the only way a man should.
I heard that in France they either have a law or are trying to pass one making DNA tests illegal without the mother's consent to "protect the mother and child". As if France doesn't have enough problems they want state mandated cuckold protection too.
When I was born, I had really dark kinky hair. A lot of the family suspected that my dad’s cousin was my real dad. My hair eventually all fell out and came back in dark blonde like my dad’s. My great aunt (dad’s cousin’s mom) came to visit and see for herself if the rumors were true. First words out of her mouth were “That’s (my dad’s name) kid!” Years later at a family get together, I spoke to my dads cousin. I said “so you’re the one people said was my daddy huh?” Turns out he never heard the rumors. The look of shock on his face was priceless.
I have a credibility issue with these stories. I'm 'black' and my skin is quite dark. My wife is 'white'. Born in Plymouth, England. Straight hair. Cheeks go red when she's embarrassed or cold. White. White white. When our daughter was born, people were disappointed because her skin wasn't dark yet, and while her hair was jet black and thick, it wasn't until about 6 months to a year that her skin started to darken enough for people to see that she was mixed. Not "black". Mixed. These supposedly "black" babies are a pretty cartoonish portrayal of how mixed kids look at birth. It's not that obvious. Maybe on My Name is Earl it is, but not in real life.
Also, biracial kids can come out a dozen way because genes relating to skin and other pigmentation are too many to just think it's like mixing paint. Some mixed kids can be pale white with blonde hair and blue eyes while having 100 african parent all because the genes of the other parent was much more influencial in the physical appearance
My brother is white as me, his wife is Indian (dots not feathers). You'd think my nephew has a different mum because he's white with blue eyes and hadn't darkened in the past 1.5 years yet. If it were the other way around everybody would assume SIL cheated on my brother.
These stories are from the USA. Americans are obsessed wth 'black' and their definition of black is merely having a drop of African blood. Therefore most 'black' people are not black at all, they vary from snow white to actually black. A large amount of them are not darker than Europeans. Americans forget Europeans come in varying skin shades including brown and light black. I'm pure European and my skin is becoming increasing blacker as I age, just like my mother, despite the fact I stay indoors all the time. Kids in my family are born dark skinned, lighten down then get dark again as teenagers and keep getting darker. Our kids are born with dark eyes that then lighten to blue. There are no African people where we live so definitely no genes from them.
I think paternity tests should be mandatory. Not only it would protect men, but there are instances where the baby doesn’t look like the husband but is their biological child, and it’s better to quell doubts
If Proven that they are not the father, he should be allowed to be released from any and all obligations to both mother and child, provided he desires it. If married, along with the above, divorce should be immediately granted and marital assets, meaning those assets that can be proven to be joint assets, immediately granted to the husband. A worthy punishment for betrayal.
So no one gonna mention the 13 year old girl with the teacher? I don't understand how this went from a teacher giving a student "special treatment " to racism and religion but it did
Not only did he screw himself over , he ruined her life , the babys life probably , the BF who in this story seems like a kind hearted (probably not so kind hearted anymore after this stunt) , the family of the girl probably , and some more because he couldnt keep it in his fucking pants (honestly this guy deserves the death penalty)
I don’t know how this isn’t a crime. Leading someone to believe they are the father to someone else’s kid and have them sign papers to legally become their father seems like some criminal ass shit to me
Because its a betrayal only possible for women to pull on men. Thats why it isnt a crime. Remember, men are 8th class citizens as soon as a child is involved.
When my mother was pregnant with me, my dad's mom was convinced she had cheated on my dad. The two of them just didn't get along. For the first few weeks of my life (to the horror of my mom) I looked exactly like my paternal grandmother and then turned into a female version of my dad. 😇My grandmother got annoyed anytime someone remarked how much I look like my dad. Nowadays I don't look like anybody in my family, so I guess that was just a spite phase. 🤣
I'm a donor conceived person but my mom and dad picked out who was supposed to be the closest genetically to my dad. I look so much like my mom though it didn't really matter anyway 😂😂😂
The black baby thing is so sad though, because that could indeed be 100% your baby 😅 you just need 1 black ancestor in both of your anxestries, and considering America.... totally plausible.
I have a very soft tan and I work outdoors, black smooth hair, and brown eyes. My mom's pasty white, green eyes, and blond. She said the delivery nurse gave her the look as I was very dark ie black until she saw my dad, He has very tanned skin, curly black hair and brown eyes (fully European btw). I soon got much lighter skin, brown hair although back to black hair in my teens. I've always looked much more like my paternal grandparents, bits and pieces of both although my mentality has a lot more from my mom's side.
Imagine if the mom who said "btw the baby's not yours just leave me at the hospital" Lied so she could get sole custody. Idk I just cant make sense of someone doing what she did with no promting for no reason
Right? Because it makes little sense to just drop such information out of the blue, then and there. Your guess would make so much sense...! (Such horrible people there are in the world...)
I am atheist, but my moral values are pretty much christian and hindu at base. I don't belive in god but fr the western woman need god, ya'll woman are straight up 403s
The story about the baby being obviously the uncles could not be true. Later on in my teens and early twenties I look like a exact copy of my uncle. But my uncle died years before I was even conceived.
We found out my uncle isn't my cousin's father through an Ancestry test. My aunt and uncle revealed after the test that my aunt was pregnant with my cousin when her and my uncle got married. They never knew for certain who the father was (until Ancestry), but my uncle honestly didn't care. It did explain where this random red-headed child came from in a predominantly Hispanic family.
When I was born I didn't look like my mum at all. She has light brown hair and white skin. I looked Mongolian, dark yellow tone skin and loads of black hair. Luckily my father was right there, I looked exactly like him when he was born. I'm actually very pale, but as a baby I was sick thus the darker skin.
As a baby I had really light skin and my parents were always asked if I was their child😅😂 my father was the same as baby but in his case it was a shitstorm his grandmother who didn't like his mother took one look and said to his father that he was not his son,this became one of the many issues that they had when my father was growing up it wasn't until my father got older that they became closer
My dad is a rheumatologist and runs a lab. He told me that during a broad study that his lab was involved with researching the genetics of arthritis, a colleague at another lab told him that false paternity is around 1/30 kids with poorer neighborhoods being more like 1/10. For that reason I am 100% getting a DNA test on any kids I have. 1/30 isn't even that rare thats like a kid in every classroom roughly. He also told me that first and second cousin inbreeding is more common than people think in poorer communities and outrageously common in certain immigrant communities (he named the Pakistani community as being one of the worst for this)
I wonder how many people thought I wasn't my father's child 😅. I looked white as a baby (my parents are black). I got darker when I got older, and I got a DNA test
My mom was just like the religious mother. She loved to accuse me of things I never did. I did AncestryDNA in my late 60s because I thought I was adopted. I didn’t look like anyone on either side and everyone involved is now dead. I found out I was not related to my father. I did reconnect with a sister. I used to play with her until she moved at ten and I really missed her.
My youngest sister came out pretty dark, there were questions at first, but she just had the genetics for darker skin, she looks like someone from my stepdad's family. She has since lightened up.
Yeah. Skin color is based on over a dozen genes, so people can be light or dark next to the rest of their family, because when you get your parents genes, you get half of each, but that half could be split in innumerable ways.
This is why men should get a DNA test from the start women have the luxury of knowing it's theirs men have to go off faith and faith doesn't determine paternity don't let yourself be used and emotionally manipulated into raising a bastard
No child is a bastard. I think it's funny about how so many men complain like life isn't fair that they don't know for sure. Like biology screwed them. When in reality in order to produce a child he orgasms during sex. Most women really struggle to orgasm at all with their partners. They also have to go on faith if their partner will even stay for his own child. So cry me a river.
I expected there to be a number of emotions getting a wake-up call but not so soon, @ 2:46 I can not imagine how the guy must have felt when he was told that he was never able to be a father, even though he had been under the belief he was a father, it must have torn his world completely to shreds, not only was his wife unfaithful with multiple partners, he couldn’t be “his children’s” biological father, he couldn’t be a biological father ever and he probably just lost his wife and family because of being responsible and electing to get the “snip” “chop” “loaded with blanks” etc, I hope that, being a father,grandfather and great grandfather, he managed to somehow still be a father to “his” kids, you don’t always have to be the sperm donor to be a father, and if by some miracle he kept on being their dad and the children wanted him to be their dad That everything worked out for them……….except the mother who does not deserve anyone’s sympathy.
my husband and I have brown hair, 3 of the 4 of our kids have brown hair, and similar features. Our youngest has blonde hair and has her own look. I have literally had people ask me if she has a different father..um no! She literally is a combination of my mother's side of the family, and my mother in law
I guess I have a story. My grandpa barely knew his father and was adopted at age 10 by his mother's husband. Well since we didnt know much about his biological dads side of the family he got a DNA test. Turns out he has a brother and a deceased sister. Being 74 years old my grandpa reaches out to his half brother to get in contact. My family is scandinavian and my grandpa's brothers mom is mexican for some context. Well the brother because of my grandpa reaching out learned at the age of 64 that his "dad" who raised him isnt actually his biological father. His parents have passed unfortunately so he cant go ask what happened and I feel sorry that in our quest for awnsers we opened up so many questions for someone else. My grandpa keeps in touch with his brother at least and they are meeting soon. I hope they both can get some closure from this.
I watched that video of the nurses describing their ick. One was the father walking out and asking for a paternity test. Imagine if he didn't have to ask because it was part of the process! Obligatory testing would fix all of this.
That kind of happened with me I am my dad's son but I kind of look like my uncle but I am my dad's biological son. But another funny thing is a certain part of me is much darker than the rest of my body which made my dad question the nurse if they were sure I was his kid. They said oh yeah that happens sometimes it will go away after a few days here we are almost 25 years later and only got in Darker and spreading around my body kind of like Uncle Ruckus
My moms as a friend who used to have 5 kids with a girl well one day one of the kids got sick and needed and organ transplant Well he decide to do the transplant but they medics told him only the father can do it so he decide to do adn to prove it And not a single one of the kids where from this guy
As a medical student in 1980s I met a patient, a man with Klinefelter’s Syndrome. This involves XXY chromosomes and is associated with infertility, He had a lovely family. His physician told us that the man’s loving wife had conceived each child with his best friend and had never told him the children were not genetically his. They were not romantically involved but both wanted the man to have the children he so wanted. I have often thought of him and his family.
To know if you are really a father is an absolute right and it is severe abuse to withhold that information in any way. No child support should be paid untill couple of those test showed you are a father. (You can step up and pay regardless of the result, but it should be absolutely illegal to withhold this information if you are legally father.) I never understood why girls make a fuss out of it. Yes, I believe you , I chose you, but if we are legally binded mariage or potential child support, lets make a couple of test first. What is wrong with that unless you are regularly sleep with some random people, especially without protection? Very gross.
Child support only exists if you're not married (or no longer married). When you file a child support claim outside of divorce, there automatically is an order for a DNA test UNLESS the father signs an affidavit stating he doesn't need the test and takes the responsibility as the legal father. In other words, this law already exits in most if not all states and the ones not getting the test are by choice. Children within marriage is a different story because there are 2 main reasons marriage exists: property ownership rights and assumption of parentage. That is why husband is automatically assumed to be the legal father of children wife gives birth to during the marriage. BUT you're allowed to challenge that legal assumption and have your baby DNA tested and break the legal obligation if necessary. This just isn't needed in most marriages. And you don't automatically do DNA testing before you set child support/custody in a divorce because chances are kids aren't newborns when parents file divorce and thus dad loves them and has a relationship with them that DNA is unlikely to change. Newborn divorce, you are more likely to see a DNA test lol.
I dunno why I thought this would be amusing, I had me, myself and Irene in mind I now have the fires of Hell with red hot pitch forks dipped in superglue as I bend over waiting in my mind!! women will literally use you until the big day when they drag you to the hospital with everyone in your life and hers aware the baby is almost here, knowing that there and then in front of people there is a good chance you will be forced to face the worst experience of your life in front of a public audience followed by people contacting for updates of this blessed and beautiful defining moment, aware as you wait unknowingly of the unavoidable life shattering, psychologically scaring, inescapable humiliation ending if you can still feel anything in absolute heartbreak. All because telling you with words to be sparing you the limelight of betrayal is too difficult for them and it’s easier to get the entire 9 months of support and gamble the lie will remain unknown. Think how that man would protect her from harm, provide everything he has, work his ass off to pay for a family that credits the mother, focuses on the children and leaves him to deal with psychological and emotional oppression with no release in isolation with only distraction at his disposal to break up a drowning existence of manning up sinking down, a selfless thankless fixer of needs. Men are not disrespectful the way women are, they wouldn’t reveal they’ve cheated when everyone is awaiting news, they don’t expect to be treated, they don’t expect meaningful gifts that demonstrate appreciation and love, men ask for nothing but loyalty and faithfulness in the mother of their children and a friend of mutual status. Women have a selfishness born out an ignorant belief men need nothing but sex, which they think has the value of verbal abuse, emotional neglect, demands which are a double standard, demonstrations of a special nature to feel happiness that they aren’t aware they could gift the one they love. Women have entitlement in relationships, men just work to keep relationships. I don’t need a woman, because you end up with less and are knackered serving them as they give you a hard time. Their problems are yours and they don’t need to know yours. The delusional princess of entitled coldness generation, and the inheritance of blaming the shameful history that justifies no love and promotes disrespecting our men
The story # 21 maybe just maybe javier knows the kids aren’t his and doesn’t care cause he would be taken to the cleaners in divorce court depending on the state he lives in
Before I had my daughter with my husband. I told him my genetic history and his parents, so there is no surprises. It turns out their genetic history almost the same, except red hair. My side of my family has the ability to produce red hair and his doesn't. And my mother in law said that our daughter skin could darken like my sister in law in the future. My sister in law was very white with bleach blonde hair, my dad was the same growing up. My dad hair turned brunette when he got older. My sister in law skin turned dark brown and her skin went darker than any of us, but she is my father in law daughter. My mother in law has darker skin in her background. So we prepared for anything. When she finally came, she looked exactly like my sister at birth and my in laws showed me a picture of what my sister in law looked like as a baby my sister and my sister looked very similar in features (no we are not related in blood in anyway, they just happened to look similar that way). The only difference in my sister and sister in law is skin color and hair. Now my daughter.... she turned out to have brunette hair, fair skin, and dark brown eyes. Just like daddy and I. Months later when her features developed more, she basically looked like daddy. People ask if I am the mother because she looked all daddy. She is 5 years old now and now some of my features are coming in, but she still mostly looks like daddy. I don't get asked if I am the mother anymore. Thank God though. That got old so fast.
Couldn't help but notice the way the first story was delivered, like it totally downplayed the fact that a 12 year old girl was giving birth to her gym teachers kid. That kinda disgusted me.
My mom sued her boyfriend for child suport, DNA was negative, my real Dad was one of her friends, they have one night stand on a trip when she and boyfriend break up, take me 26 years for me tô meet my father
Ha! I knew a guy who had his wife and his girlfriend delivering at the same hospital, at the same time. The wife was still unaware until a few days later, and it ended with a divorce, and him having to support two single mothers.
dude, take a breath between stories... I seriously thought the second one was a continuation of the first, until I noticed the words Story #2 on the screen.
Ha 13 min story must be common. Although I am blonde and blue eyed (from my father's side), I am 40 Jewish by heritage, from mothers' side. My wife has dark hair and brown eyes, our first child a boy dark curly hair, lovely olive skin, dark almost black eyes.... Here comes our second a lovely Toe Head, bright blue eyed little girl, still loopy from the C section, after asking 8 times if she was alright, upon seeing her said that not my baby. Thinking she would have a darked haired girl.
My son was born with black hair, turned to fuzz, then blonde, now it's chestnut brown. Since both his Dad and I have dark hair, my FIL made the occasional joke... they were jokes. Though ngl, son looks just like daddy.
My sister-in-law gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. Problem was the father, her husband, is black (mother is white) and her baby boy was very pink.....and Asian. 😂🤣 She tried to lie saying the Asian "skips" a generation or so in the family - we're Polish 🤣😂😆
Lol. Yo I came out white when I was a baby they thought my mom cheated with a white man lol.... Knowing my dad is just really light skin but they did a DNA test lol... I belong to my light skin dad 😂😂😂
commenters, if you love your wife and she loves you, and you love your baby that is all that matters, stop trying to get out of parenthood with DNA tests, maybe she was board and had a bit of a thing on a girls night out. She chose you as a life partner, to give you the gift of sharing a baby with you , and if you have any extramarital babies out there who's mums you left to cope on their own, get over there and give her some support, mow the lawn, fix the leak, and get to know your baby. It's fun to have a male 'friend' to go out with, you can check out new 'mates' together if she moves on then wish her all the best - and stay in the baby's life, If you are good for them. You will be rich in what matters the love of a child, it's not their fault they were concieved by a couple that didn't now each other well enough or weren't in love any more
It's outrageous all these women not only have secret flings but they do it bareback and let the guy release inside. If you can't even spend $5 to $15 in order to keep from ruining your relationship how is it a fling that's worth having? Means you value your serious relationship less than the value of a pack of condoms.
Step cousin married this Karen of a woman….fast forward 10 years and he realizes she is shady as hell. He decides to get his 5 kids with her tested…turned out none of his kids were his at all. He dropped her then and there.
IDK about some of these stories. Most Black babies come out "white" too. My daughter was so pale as a newborn the doctor asked if that was normal. We told him our first child was born "white" as well. My husband and I are both Black. I have white friends with biracial children, all of them looked white as newborns.
No matter how much you trust and love her, ALWAYS get a paternity test before signing the papers. If she didn’t cheat she has nothing to worry about (and she won’t in 95% of cases), but her being a little mad that you didn’t take her word for it without getting undeniable proof is far preferable to raising a baby that isn’t yours and staying with a woman who betrayed you. “Trust, but verify.”
You can do it without telling her. They have these diy kits you can mail in, have the results sent to a mail drop or a secret email she doesn't know about. If you are the dad, no problem. If you're not, go see a lawyer first.
You got to consider most of these examples are guys who found out cause the baby was the wrong race. Just imagine how many women get away with this every year because the baby daddies were just close enough she could pull it off.
@@selectidiot Not representative, dna test done when men have doubts. And not every time. Alot of man didnt know biology enough to have doubts. Some women could ensure men that it theirs.
Mandatory dna testing
@@selectidiot no, more DNA tests are done when there is doubt in the first place. The real numbers are about 10%. Still high
ALWAYS DNA TEST.
@@gusjeazer Depends on socio-economic strata of the mother.
Rates go from 30% for the poorest mothers to ~1% in the billionaires club.
At least that is the result I remember from the most recent paper I read on the subject.
In med school, they gave us the blanket 10%.
The gym teacher story, I remember reading on Reddit. The story ended with the gym teacher being fired and arrested on the same day. No clue what his sentence was, but I’m sure it was substantial.
Wish the dad beat the shit out of the gym teacher.
This, warms my heart. Thank you
@@johnanderson3559 I’m glad. We can both take comfort knowing sex offenders that target children are given no mercy in court.
Feel bad for the friend too, they both genuinely thought he got her pregnant. Hope that "teacher" gets life for ruining the life of a young girl
How stupid can one be? If he hadn't visited her there would've been a chance that he'd gotten away with it.
I was a baby in this situation! My dad's Irish, with red hair and grey eyes. My mom's a Scandinavian/Irish mix with brown hair and blue eyes. Both white as snow.
I was born kinda tan, thanks to jaundice, and with a full head of thick black hair and darkish eyes. My dad's friend told him to get a paternity test, but he decided not to. I eventually got a genetic test a lot later, and he was the dad. Obviously.
Turns out, mom had an Indian great grandmother and recessive genes are a bitch 🤣🤣🤣 After a couple months, my jaundice went away leaving me really white, and my hair turned brown. I look exactly like my mom. Dad's friend had to apologize. All good.
Similar story with me but other way round. My mom is white, dad black, I was born with tan skin but blonde hair. When I was delivered medical staff thought I was jaundiced until my dad walked in. Colour explained - panic over! My hair eventually darkened to near black but took a couple of years, I gather.
My siblings and I look like we're from different sides of the planet and a couple of places in between. Weird how all those hidden genes come out in the mix.
My youngest was born with platinum hair. Wife was born with blond hair and my youngest brother is blond. My mother however doesn't understand genetics and made an accusation, and inadvertently reveals my brother may not our dad's genetically.
The fact your Mom betrayed your father is disgusting.
Jesus Christ, THIS is why DNA test MUST be mandatory at the time of Birth.
Paternity Fraud has definitely risen through the years.
@@schizoidmeme5470 Sad thing is that it's on the lower end of the F'ed up things she did.
Also, I wouldn't say paternity fraud has risen, just that we are more aware of it.
@@LegendStormcrow huh?
@@Cooldude-ko7ps She's done far worse than that. We are NC with her, and have been for a couple of years. Last I spoke to her was to tell her to leave my sibling alone.
is your dad still with her? if so then what a sad cuk
First story straight up broke my heart. I hope everyone in that story, minus the gym teacher, is okay now
You are acting like that cheating girl wasd innocent not guilty at all .
@@greatgamingendavour First story about the child, the 12 year old? She didn't even know what sex WAS. She might not have even KNOWN that it was cheating and that sort of thing is done with a partner. Good god. Fuck that predatory teacher.
@@thecolordurple8435 But she did not thought it was odd that what they were doing yet she was a girlfriend of someone ? Now days everyone knows what it is from very young age , also is it not that girls get into sexual maturity before boys does . She is just a guilty as the teacher if not more , just because she is young don't think for a second she was innocent if she was she would have told her parents and others and her friends the moment she had chance . Now days internet is every where and even childrens r more clever and have knowledges of all around thing , I can honestly say that I have reason to belive the whole thing was started by the girl herself she was more guilty , she literaly made out with her boyfriend so it's logically to think she knew the concepts of what being in relation ship is more or less that includes physical , it's probably she was not physicaly attracted to her boyfriend but rather on the teacher himself . Kids that age r very impulsive and 95% times do not think of consequances thus most horrible crimes done by young ones r from around that age , including murder and sexual asults . So any one would be a real fool if they think the girl was innocent and only the teacher was criminal , the girl was just as criminal if not more . Peoples start to control their impulsiveness as they gain more age , thus young peoples from age 25 + gets more self controll than their past age self but there r some who have this groth late , they stay impulsive and does things with properly thinking of consequance example the teacher and guilty peoples like them .
@@greatgamingendavour You're fucked up. Blaming a child for getting sexually exploited by her teacher. Seriously, wake up man.
@@greatgamingendavour the girl was 12-13 years old, she's a child, mind was still developing and obviously taken advantage of because she's so young. This was in the 1989, but even if it IS recent, this is still P3DOPHILIA and as stated in the video it IS* CHILD ABUSE and r@pe. it's so wrong wtf, this is victim blaming.
I'm a med student, practicing in a NICU. So me and bunch of other people helped this girl deliver her baby. It was smooth, smoothest delivery I've seen in my life.
After wards we have to record her information for our report card, and I was tasked with it, whe I asked when she was born, she said 2008. This was in 2022 so she was 14 at the time. My heart dropped. I record all her info, and left.
I checked outside later on at the family waiting bench and it was empty, no parents, no relatives, not even the dude who gave her this baby or even the cops. Girl literally went to give birth all on her own, and she was only 14.
Poor little girl.
Poor baby girl!
What a shame that someone so young had to face an adult situation alone, hopefully she became stronger because of it. God bless her.
That's just not right i mean seriously not even the baby's dad poor girl she's a 14 year old. A child
Christ, that poor girl… I hope she’s ok, as well as the baby. No one should have to face that kind of thing at that age, especially alone.
I'm the result of an opposite story to these. My parents were childhood friends and got married very young. My dad was supposed to be sterile because of cancer treatment when he was a baby. Parents assumed they would have to adopt. Well about 1.5 years after they got married, they find out my mom is pregnant. 100% surprise. My dad never questioned it, he immediately jumped to the doctors were wrong especially because they had been wrong about everything else regarding his health (even told my grandparents he was dying and had the priest come to quickly Baptize him and give him last rites as an infant). So I'm born, and my mom and the midwife take one look at me and say "[Dad's name] that's your face." So there was no question about it, definitely belong to the man that is suppsoed to be sterile lol. My dad's mom still likes to say "I knew your mother well enough I didn't think anything funny was going on, but then I saw you and knew you were definitely ours." And sure enough I'm now a middle aged woman who still has her father and paternal grandfather's face. If anything I need a DNA test to see if I'm actually realted to my mom because I look NOTHING like her and her family 😄. I also have younger siblings and parents never had trouble getting pregnant. The doctors were just wrong about my dad.
Wow, what an amazing story of hope! That your dad defied all odds with all the medical challenges he was faced with is short of a miracle. You seem close to your family. Y'all sound wonderful. 😇
nah bruh thats not your dad lmao
I have a friend that has a similar story. Her partner had had cancer treatments and the doctors thought he was sterile, but the woman didn’t know about that. When then went at the doctor he said something like « but he’s not the father ». The woman said EXCUSE ME.
They have 4 children.
Nobody cares
Worked with a fellow who came from a very old Mexican family from our area. Not uncommon with these families, he had an anglo grandparent who in his case was a German grandmother. Well he had 10 siblings, all looked Latino except one brother. His sibs called him "milkman" as a joke, but when I met him he looked identical to his siblings except for the light skin color.
Also in Argentina, we use the same joke, es el hijo del lechero.
Similair to my family
For me I was always told I looked like my dad growing up a white southern american in the south. Well my mom a comes form a Italian family in New York. (My ancestors Darked skinn immigrant families) As I got older my skin went form white to dark. And my itltian features really became more prominate, I never noticed till people asked...in middle school btw "You tanned or something" I was really confused especially it being dead in the middle of Winter.
Also happened with my brother but he was born with darker skinned some people thought he wasn't my dad my close realtives knew as if you look at my uncle one a really pale skin person the other extremely darked skinned you understand.
Wasn't a big deal for me as what but crazy that people out their get offended by something natural or simply do not belive me.
My husband is a redhead, his maternal grandfather, Kelly, was a redhead, and our firstborn was also a redhead. When friends would laughingly ask Grandpa Kelly where our baby got her red hair, he always said - in his delightful Danish accent - *"I don't know - I haven't seen the milkman!" That joke will just **_NEVER_** go away!*
THAT FIRST baby is now over 50 years old, & our others, only somewhat younger, are _ALSO_ redheads! The worst part about that joke is that shortly before #3 child was born, we signed up for home delivery of local milk. *You guessed it: **_THAT_** MILKMAN WAS **_ANOTHER_** REDHEAD!*
Yeah, I work in a genetics testing lab, testing for rare disorders of newborns, for which we generally need a DNA sample from the child and both parents. We have seen some ... interesting results, and I'm very glad I'm not the one that has to pass the results back. But one interesting case stands out, where a mum had just given birth to a baby that was really unwell, and told us that the father was one of two possible people. She didn't know which, and didn't want to find out, so we had to do paternity testing, then solve the case using the correct dad's DNA and then return a diagnosis. Ethical issues abound.
Opposite of this happened in the labor and delivery room. My wife and I have very brown eyes. Both our grandparents have very light eyes (grey/hazel). A very observant nurse got uncomfortable when he yawned and opened his eyes. She started stumbling questions about eye color. I laughed and told her about my grandpa and she calmed down.
When my youngest two were born many years later I asked my wife, "Hey how come this one looks irish!?" Just to make her laugh. The nurses were uncomfortable until my wife started laughing.
She was laughing because she knows for next 18 years, the joke is on you.
@@djocharablaikan8601 Bro...dark. Nah, the twins are mine.
Right, people forget that you can inherit until 5 generations back and sometimes kids don't look like their parents at all, while other times they almost look like clones.
@@maomi1852 "...you can inherit until 5 generations back". What?? No. You can only inherit from your parents. Your parents can only inherit from their parents. Genes you have, have been inherited for millions of years down the line of your ancestors to you.
Eyes genetics are fairly basic. Two brown eyes parents have a 25% chance of having a blue eyed baby if one of their parent have blue eyes.
Okay. Life lesson folks, DON'T GET PREGNANT WHEN YOU'RE CHEATING. In fact , DON'T CHEAT AT ALL
Yeah, it’s upsetting that people this stupid are the ones reproducing.
Like cheating… that’s stupid, obviously, but more of a morality issue. It’s stupid to not just break up, but it’s not stick-your-tongue-in-moving-blender level stupid.
But cheating without protection? WHY?!? Is it the thrill? Do they not have ANY concept of contraception.
Then there’s all these people who A) Cheat, B ) Cheat without protection, and C ) Cheat without protection with a partner of a different race. (Obviously not saying interracial couples are bad- I’m pointing out that it’s gonna be OBVIOUS the cheating happened)
ONLY BE A MAN MUCH EASIER ITS BECAUSE IT ISNT GENETICALLY POSSIBLE FOR A MAN TO BE PREGNANT
@PlaceHolder We can open the door on our own and we thank you for blocking us. You aren’t missed.
@PlaceHolder as a man, I can confirm not one singular person will miss you when you karmically die at a young age
No, the life lesson is if you are male don’t get married
8:57 Can we just talk about how in story 14 the wife of the man is not angry about the cheating but about her child being BORN AFTER THE OTHER GIRLS CHILD.
Which is just insane.
if you account for what happened throughout history, that reaction is more common than being angry about the cheating
I don't think you understood what happened there. She was very definitely mad about the cheating, that's why she got kind of petty about the mistress' child being born first. Imagine your husband cheats on you, has a child with another woman, and then that woman gives birth the same day you do and 10 minutes before, stealing the spotlight of the birth of _your_ child from _your_ husband.
Women get competitive with each other on the craziest shit.
@DennisNeijmeijer Unlike males who very logically get competitive over who can drive fastest, burp the loudest, and who has the biggest peepee. 🙄
I knew of couples where the husband was infertile for various reasons, but they wanted a kids. My kids are adopted, and some of these couples were open to adoption. Others had pursued obtaining sperm from a sperm bank to impregnate the wife. Kids need a stable home life regardless if they are biologically related or not. It's the dishonesty and deception, the taking advantage of minors that is the greatest issue I hear in these stories. So sad that children must start their lives with such chaos created by others who should know better.
I had a patient once, dark skinned from Mexico. Baby came out white as a ghost, pale eyes and yellow hair. Husband started yelling at her in Spanish, calling her a slew of profane names and demanding to know what white man she had cheated with. His mom was present and immediately liked at the baby and shouted "its an albino! Just like uncle ***!" The husband turned as white as the baby, immediately closed his mouth and left the room. He returned an hour later with the biggest bouquet of flowers, candy, a card, basically everything he could find in the hospital gift shop to apologize.
I have a aunt white as snow husband white as snow kids black as night husband left only to find out months later from DNA testing he was the father and his grate grate grate grandmother was black skin color doesn't mean anything
My grandparents on either side won't stop reminding me that they and the doctors think my mom cheated because I had white skin and straight hair, but my parents are convinced it's because they've got some white in them (they're black but lightskinned), and to this day I still haven't taken a DNA test because I'm not about to have my world be potentially shattered. I look a whole different breed but my dad will always be my dad and I'll always be his child no matter what my genes and my grandma say. Love him so much, and just as he's always been there for me, I'll always be there for him. 💙💙💙
Get a DNA test
Did you check the milkman?
Wow I feel so bad for both the husband and the baby of the last story!
I can't even be mad at the dude, if my ex wife was to give birth to a baby that didn't look like me, I would leave too!
As you heard from one of the stories, twins can be both blond and black. Stay with the baby till the test results are in, if you don't trust it. If the child is not yours and want to leave, you can still leave later, but you can never get those first few weeks/months back.
@@annekekramer3835 good luck even getting a paternity test for the father, before having his name forcefully signed on the birth certificate.
@@annekekramer3835 Heteropaternal, hetero meaning different, heteropaternal superfecundation is the act of two different men impregnating two different eggs within a time period, resulting in twins. Yes, kids can take after different aspects of the parents, but you can only use that excuse so much.
Honestly, without knowing all the facts I wouldn't worry to much.
The state is reluctant to take away parental rights.
The fact that they did could mean that there were other factors at play that made him an unfit parent.
But overall, yeah, just a messed up situation.
@@DefeatedElite If that's really the case, then the USA is even more messed up than I imagined...
I young black man told the story of when his black wife had her baby. The baby came out white with red hair. Everyone in the delivery room went silent.
His eife asked if he could see the baby and what did it looked like.
He told her the baby look just like his uncle, who had pale skin and red
hair. Sigh of relief.
My aunt and uncle are both white had a black baby turns out white people can and do have black babys he left he thinking the baby wasn't his DNA testing shows he was the father. genetics are weird and complicated
Was in the recovery room with my wife and our brand new third child. In comes this super upbeat and nice pediatrician, talking a bunch and all that, then she splurts out "His blood type is O+!"... I laugh and get all serious and say "he better be, or else I`m not his father"... her eyes bug out, like a deer caught in headlights, and she goes silent, and me and my wife burst out laughing... Lol... bet she changed her routine from that day on...
10:31 best think a man can do to a woman who does that to him. No point in getting emotional, no point in fighting, no point in paying for a kid that isn't yours. I have a lot of respect for that man for how he dealt with it. He dealt with it the only way a man should.
All these stories is exactly why DNA test MUST be MANDATORY by LAW for all babies born.
Legit, the amount of cheating is disgusting.
Amen brother
I heard that in France they either have a law or are trying to pass one making DNA tests illegal without the mother's consent to "protect the mother and child". As if France doesn't have enough problems they want state mandated cuckold protection too.
Trust is a gag, and privacy is a blind fold
Wait till you hear about France and Germany
@@selectidiot no
When I was born, I had really dark kinky hair. A lot of the family suspected that my dad’s cousin was my real dad. My hair eventually all fell out and came back in dark blonde like my dad’s. My great aunt (dad’s cousin’s mom) came to visit and see for herself if the rumors were true. First words out of her mouth were “That’s (my dad’s name) kid!” Years later at a family get together, I spoke to my dads cousin. I said “so you’re the one people said was my daddy huh?” Turns out he never heard the rumors. The look of shock on his face was priceless.
I have a credibility issue with these stories. I'm 'black' and my skin is quite dark. My wife is 'white'. Born in Plymouth, England. Straight hair. Cheeks go red when she's embarrassed or cold. White. White white.
When our daughter was born, people were disappointed because her skin wasn't dark yet, and while her hair was jet black and thick, it wasn't until about 6 months to a year that her skin started to darken enough for people to see that she was mixed. Not "black". Mixed.
These supposedly "black" babies are a pretty cartoonish portrayal of how mixed kids look at birth. It's not that obvious. Maybe on My Name is Earl it is, but not in real life.
Also, biracial kids can come out a dozen way because genes relating to skin and other pigmentation are too many to just think it's like mixing paint. Some mixed kids can be pale white with blonde hair and blue eyes while having 100 african parent all because the genes of the other parent was much more influencial in the physical appearance
My brother is white as me, his wife is Indian (dots not feathers). You'd think my nephew has a different mum because he's white with blue eyes and hadn't darkened in the past 1.5 years yet. If it were the other way around everybody would assume SIL cheated on my brother.
These stories are from the USA. Americans are obsessed wth 'black' and their definition of black is merely having a drop of African blood. Therefore most 'black' people are not black at all, they vary from snow white to actually black. A large amount of them are not darker than Europeans. Americans forget Europeans come in varying skin shades including brown and light black. I'm pure European and my skin is becoming increasing blacker as I age, just like my mother, despite the fact I stay indoors all the time. Kids in my family are born dark skinned, lighten down then get dark again as teenagers and keep getting darker. Our kids are born with dark eyes that then lighten to blue. There are no African people where we live so definitely no genes from them.
My aunt and uncle had a black baby both white DNA testing showed he was the father long story short genetics are weird and looks mean nothing
The story with Javier just made me think of Dale from King of the Hill, and the constant affair his wife had with John Redcorn
Got seriously mad when he wasn't called out on it.
I think paternity tests should be mandatory. Not only it would protect men, but there are instances where the baby doesn’t look like the husband but is their biological child, and it’s better to quell doubts
If Proven that they are not the father, he should be allowed to be released from any and all obligations to both mother and child, provided he desires it. If married, along with the above, divorce should be immediately granted and marital assets, meaning those assets that can be proven to be joint assets, immediately granted to the husband. A worthy punishment for betrayal.
@@factfiend1000 I think if a partner (male or female) works, they have a right to the product of their labor, even if they are assholes
@@ludmilamaiolini6811 Fair enough.
@@ludmilamaiolini6811 But I still would want the traitor punished as severely as humanly possible.
So no one gonna mention the 13 year old girl with the teacher?
I don't understand how this went from a teacher giving a student "special treatment " to racism and religion but it did
"She explained the teacher had been giving her special treatment" its so ducked up
Not only did he screw himself over , he ruined her life , the babys life probably , the BF who in this story seems like a kind hearted (probably not so kind hearted anymore after this stunt) , the family of the girl probably , and some more because he couldnt keep it in his fucking pants (honestly this guy deserves the death penalty)
Sounds religious
The xenophobia from whote america is more shocking in a unsurpising way
@@thatdude3977 huh?
The man's emotion controlling in the 19th story is absolutely top tier legendary
*perfect couple
*Butterfly
*Rainbows
Aka Insta couple, looks good for 3rd party but on the brinks of collapse.
"When dat baby gone pink up?"
Had me dying.
I am not sure why the teacher in first story wasn’t arrested if the mom was a 12 year old girl.
He might have. The person in the story contacted child services.
He was. The whole story was on reddit a while back.
I don’t know how this isn’t a crime. Leading someone to believe they are the father to someone else’s kid and have them sign papers to legally become their father seems like some criminal ass shit to me
Because its a betrayal only possible for women to pull on men. Thats why it isnt a crime. Remember, men are 8th class citizens as soon as a child is involved.
Steve's lunchbox took me out 💀 😆
Story 1. That teacher should be in jail like forever.
They should check for other victims, too.😈
He got fired and arrested same day I believe.
@@agravery223 source
When my mother was pregnant with me, my dad's mom was convinced she had cheated on my dad. The two of them just didn't get along. For the first few weeks of my life (to the horror of my mom) I looked exactly like my paternal grandmother and then turned into a female version of my dad. 😇My grandmother got annoyed anytime someone remarked how much I look like my dad. Nowadays I don't look like anybody in my family, so I guess that was just a spite phase. 🤣
I'm a donor conceived person but my mom and dad picked out who was supposed to be the closest genetically to my dad. I look so much like my mom though it didn't really matter anyway 😂😂😂
Omg hahaha 😂
The black baby thing is so sad though, because that could indeed be 100% your baby 😅 you just need 1 black ancestor in both of your anxestries, and considering America.... totally plausible.
I have a very soft tan and I work outdoors, black smooth hair, and brown eyes. My mom's pasty white, green eyes, and blond. She said the delivery nurse gave her the look as I was very dark ie black until she saw my dad, He has very tanned skin, curly black hair and brown eyes (fully European btw).
I soon got much lighter skin, brown hair although back to black hair in my teens. I've always looked much more like my paternal grandparents, bits and pieces of both although my mentality has a lot more from my mom's side.
Imagine if the mom who said
"btw the baby's not yours just leave me at the hospital"
Lied so she could get sole custody.
Idk I just cant make sense of someone doing what she did with no promting for no reason
Right? Because it makes little sense to just drop such information out of the blue, then and there.
Your guess would make so much sense...!
(Such horrible people there are in the world...)
Imagine having a cool twin when people don’t even see the coolness, but think it’s weird. Society just goes “ nah that weird.”
3:16, as a Christian, people like this piss me the hell off. Because of them, people think Christianity is cruel because of crap like this.
I’m atheist, but I’m not a fan of how y’all are being scapegoated by the media. We’re all just trying to figure things out
I am atheist, but my moral values are pretty much christian and hindu at base. I don't belive in god but fr the western woman need god, ya'll woman are straight up 403s
My mom worked as a unit clerk in Pre-Natal ICU for 37 years. I can only imagine the things she saw with that job.
The story about the baby being obviously the uncles could not be true. Later on in my teens and early twenties I look like a exact copy of my uncle. But my uncle died years before I was even conceived.
Did you miss the part where uncle was the uncle of the story teller and not the uncle of the baby? Uncle and purported father were not related.
We found out my uncle isn't my cousin's father through an Ancestry test. My aunt and uncle revealed after the test that my aunt was pregnant with my cousin when her and my uncle got married. They never knew for certain who the father was (until Ancestry), but my uncle honestly didn't care. It did explain where this random red-headed child came from in a predominantly Hispanic family.
So she got knocked up by someone else?
When I was born I didn't look like my mum at all. She has light brown hair and white skin. I looked Mongolian, dark yellow tone skin and loads of black hair. Luckily my father was right there, I looked exactly like him when he was born. I'm actually very pale, but as a baby I was sick thus the darker skin.
#2 is a little jarring as the pregnancy date is an estimate with an 8 week window of variance. Her staring in silence is the give away, not the dates.
I’m so sorry, I couldn’t stop laughing at
“When that baby goin pink up?”
As a baby I had really light skin and my parents were always asked if I was their child😅😂 my father was the same as baby but in his case it was a shitstorm his grandmother who didn't like his mother took one look and said to his father that he was not his son,this became one of the many issues that they had when my father was growing up it wasn't until my father got older that they became closer
My dad is a rheumatologist and runs a lab. He told me that during a broad study that his lab was involved with researching the genetics of arthritis, a colleague at another lab told him that false paternity is around 1/30 kids with poorer neighborhoods being more like 1/10. For that reason I am 100% getting a DNA test on any kids I have. 1/30 isn't even that rare thats like a kid in every classroom roughly.
He also told me that first and second cousin inbreeding is more common than people think in poorer communities and outrageously common in certain immigrant communities (he named the Pakistani community as being one of the worst for this)
That gym teacher was a real life Kamoshida.
I wonder how many people thought I wasn't my father's child 😅. I looked white as a baby (my parents are black). I got darker when I got older, and I got a DNA test
My mom was just like the religious mother. She loved to accuse me of things I never did. I did AncestryDNA in my late 60s because I thought I was adopted. I didn’t look like anyone on either side and everyone involved is now dead. I found out I was not related to my father. I did reconnect with a sister. I used to play with her until she moved at ten and I really missed her.
Story 26 which ends at 15:27 is a good example of why letting a bio parents leave can be better in the long run!
i always like to joke "I'm adopted" even though I literally look like my mom.
Only $52 a month for child support? Goddam woman got off easy. If it was a guy they'd tack a zero on the end of that number.
My youngest sister came out pretty dark, there were questions at first, but she just had the genetics for darker skin, she looks like someone from my stepdad's family. She has since lightened up.
Yeah. Skin color is based on over a dozen genes, so people can be light or dark next to the rest of their family, because when you get your parents genes, you get half of each, but that half could be split in innumerable ways.
This is why men should get a DNA test from the start women have the luxury of knowing it's theirs men have to go off faith and faith doesn't determine paternity don't let yourself be used and emotionally manipulated into raising a bastard
No child is a bastard. I think it's funny about how so many men complain like life isn't fair that they don't know for sure. Like biology screwed them.
When in reality in order to produce a child he orgasms during sex. Most women really struggle to orgasm at all with their partners. They also have to go on faith if their partner will even stay for his own child.
So cry me a river.
@@kellharris2491 or give you a DNA test since we have the technology you so no you cry me a river and fatherless children are bastards
"When that baby gone pink up?!" Took me out
I expected there to be a number of emotions getting a wake-up call but not so soon, @ 2:46 I can not imagine how the guy must have felt when he was told that he was never able to be a father, even though he had been under the belief he was a father, it must have torn his world completely to shreds, not only was his wife unfaithful with multiple partners, he couldn’t be “his children’s” biological father, he couldn’t be a biological father ever and he probably just lost his wife and family because of being responsible and electing to get the “snip” “chop” “loaded with blanks” etc, I hope that, being a father,grandfather and great grandfather, he managed to somehow still be a father to “his” kids, you don’t always have to be the sperm donor to be a father, and if by some miracle he kept on being their dad and the children wanted him to be their dad That everything worked out for them……….except the mother who does not deserve anyone’s sympathy.
Oof, that last one... Always get a paternity test, people.
my husband and I have brown hair, 3 of the 4 of our kids have brown hair, and similar features. Our youngest has blonde hair and has her own look. I have literally had people ask me if she has a different father..um no! She literally is a combination of my mother's side of the family, and my mother in law
I guess I have a story. My grandpa barely knew his father and was adopted at age 10 by his mother's husband. Well since we didnt know much about his biological dads side of the family he got a DNA test. Turns out he has a brother and a deceased sister. Being 74 years old my grandpa reaches out to his half brother to get in contact. My family is scandinavian and my grandpa's brothers mom is mexican for some context. Well the brother because of my grandpa reaching out learned at the age of 64 that his "dad" who raised him isnt actually his biological father. His parents have passed unfortunately so he cant go ask what happened and I feel sorry that in our quest for awnsers we opened up so many questions for someone else. My grandpa keeps in touch with his brother at least and they are meeting soon. I hope they both can get some closure from this.
Story 1... I hope that teacher got what was coming to him.
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As a former hospital operator, I concur that L&D does has a lot of drama. Ive done a lot of overhead pages for security.
I watched that video of the nurses describing their ick. One was the father walking out and asking for a paternity test. Imagine if he didn't have to ask because it was part of the process! Obligatory testing would fix all of this.
Being half Mexican myself I chuckled at the gringo filter.
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She caught that jungle fever from an early age in the first story lol rip for any man tryna satisfy her as she gets older
The aunt who cheated should be told next time she says something about gods plan is that it wasn't gods plan for her to cheat on her husband.
That kind of happened with me I am my dad's son but I kind of look like my uncle but I am my dad's biological son. But another funny thing is a certain part of me is much darker than the rest of my body which made my dad question the nurse if they were sure I was his kid. They said oh yeah that happens sometimes it will go away after a few days here we are almost 25 years later and only got in Darker and spreading around my body kind of like Uncle Ruckus
these OP's need to be on Maury
My moms as a friend who used to have 5 kids with a girl well one day one of the kids got sick and needed and organ transplant
Well he decide to do the transplant but they medics told him only the father can do it so he decide to do adn to prove it
And not a single one of the kids where from this guy
what a h*e
Don't you just love women.
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I had to stop watching this. it's heartbreaking!!!
30% of married men in america are UNKNOWINGLY raising a baby of another man.
As a medical student in 1980s I met a patient, a man with Klinefelter’s Syndrome. This involves XXY chromosomes and is associated with infertility, He had a lovely family. His physician told us that the man’s loving wife had conceived each child with his best friend and had never told him the children were not genetically his. They were not romantically involved but both wanted the man to have the children he so wanted.
I have often thought of him and his family.
To know if you are really a father is an absolute right and it is severe abuse to withhold that information in any way.
No child support should be paid untill couple of those test showed you are a father.
(You can step up and pay regardless of the result, but it should be absolutely illegal to withhold this information if you are legally father.)
I never understood why girls make a fuss out of it. Yes, I believe you , I chose you, but if we are legally binded mariage or potential child support, lets make a couple of test first.
What is wrong with that unless you are regularly sleep with some random people, especially without protection?
Very gross.
Because they want control. They want to have that option even if they don’t use it.
Child support only exists if you're not married (or no longer married). When you file a child support claim outside of divorce, there automatically is an order for a DNA test UNLESS the father signs an affidavit stating he doesn't need the test and takes the responsibility as the legal father. In other words, this law already exits in most if not all states and the ones not getting the test are by choice.
Children within marriage is a different story because there are 2 main reasons marriage exists: property ownership rights and assumption of parentage. That is why husband is automatically assumed to be the legal father of children wife gives birth to during the marriage. BUT you're allowed to challenge that legal assumption and have your baby DNA tested and break the legal obligation if necessary. This just isn't needed in most marriages. And you don't automatically do DNA testing before you set child support/custody in a divorce because chances are kids aren't newborns when parents file divorce and thus dad loves them and has a relationship with them that DNA is unlikely to change. Newborn divorce, you are more likely to see a DNA test lol.
I dunno why I thought this would be amusing, I had me, myself and Irene in mind I now have the fires of Hell with red hot pitch forks dipped in superglue as I bend over waiting in my mind!!
women will literally use you until the big day when they drag you to the hospital with everyone in your life and hers aware the baby is almost here, knowing that there and then in front of people there is a good chance you will be forced to face the worst experience of your life in front of a public audience followed by people contacting for updates of this blessed and beautiful defining moment, aware as you wait unknowingly of the unavoidable life shattering, psychologically scaring, inescapable humiliation ending if you can still feel anything in absolute heartbreak.
All because telling you with words to be sparing you the limelight of betrayal is too difficult for them and it’s easier to get the entire 9 months of support and gamble the lie will remain unknown.
Think how that man would protect her from harm, provide everything he has, work his ass off to pay for a family that credits the mother, focuses on the children and leaves him to deal with psychological and emotional oppression with no release in isolation with only distraction at his disposal to break up a drowning existence of manning up sinking down, a selfless thankless fixer of needs.
Men are not disrespectful the way women are, they wouldn’t reveal they’ve cheated when everyone is awaiting news, they don’t expect to be treated, they don’t expect meaningful gifts that demonstrate appreciation and love, men ask for nothing but loyalty and faithfulness in the mother of their children and a friend of mutual status.
Women have a selfishness born out an ignorant belief men need nothing but sex, which they think has the value of verbal abuse, emotional neglect, demands which are a double standard, demonstrations of a special nature to feel happiness that they aren’t aware they could gift the one they love.
Women have entitlement in relationships, men just work to keep relationships.
I don’t need a woman, because you end up with less and are knackered serving them as they give you a hard time. Their problems are yours and they don’t need to know yours.
The delusional princess of entitled coldness generation, and the inheritance of blaming the shameful history that justifies no love and promotes disrespecting our men
Guys always have Dna test , it's a wild world out there right now.🤣🤣
The story # 21 maybe just maybe javier knows the kids aren’t his and doesn’t care cause he would be taken to the cleaners in divorce court depending on the state he lives in
Before I had my daughter with my husband. I told him my genetic history and his parents, so there is no surprises. It turns out their genetic history almost the same, except red hair. My side of my family has the ability to produce red hair and his doesn't. And my mother in law said that our daughter skin could darken like my sister in law in the future. My sister in law was very white with bleach blonde hair, my dad was the same growing up. My dad hair turned brunette when he got older. My sister in law skin turned dark brown and her skin went darker than any of us, but she is my father in law daughter. My mother in law has darker skin in her background. So we prepared for anything. When she finally came, she looked exactly like my sister at birth and my in laws showed me a picture of what my sister in law looked like as a baby my sister and my sister looked very similar in features (no we are not related in blood in anyway, they just happened to look similar that way). The only difference in my sister and sister in law is skin color and hair. Now my daughter.... she turned out to have brunette hair, fair skin, and dark brown eyes. Just like daddy and I. Months later when her features developed more, she basically looked like daddy. People ask if I am the mother because she looked all daddy. She is 5 years old now and now some of my features are coming in, but she still mostly looks like daddy. I don't get asked if I am the mother anymore. Thank God though. That got old so fast.
It happens more than me you can imagine
Apparently the last baby really was one of those tricks baby…
Couldn't help but notice the way the first story was delivered, like it totally downplayed the fact that a 12 year old girl was giving birth to her gym teachers kid. That kinda disgusted me.
My mom sued her boyfriend for child suport, DNA was negative, my real Dad was one of her friends, they have one night stand on a trip when she and boyfriend break up, take me 26 years for me tô meet my father
52 dollars a month for child support? wtf...
Baby comes out whiter than the dad
The dad: oh yeah it’s mine.
Baby come out black
The dad: oh hell naw.
Jesus Christ, the first story was wild as fuuuuuuuuuck,
I am so glad to be child free!
Ha! I knew a guy who had his wife and his girlfriend delivering at the same hospital, at the same time. The wife was still unaware until a few days later, and it ended with a divorce, and him having to support two single mothers.
This is why u get a dna test
dude, take a breath between stories... I seriously thought the second one was a continuation of the first, until I noticed the words Story #2 on the screen.
Happens about 35% of the time apparently.
That’s only the ones that are caught. Now actually think about how much it happens.
@@Blackjesus327 3-5% of the population as a whole. It was 35% of babies whose father demanded DNA test.
Ha 13 min story must be common. Although I am blonde and blue eyed (from my father's side), I am 40 Jewish by heritage, from mothers' side. My wife has dark hair and brown eyes, our first child a boy dark curly hair, lovely olive skin, dark almost black eyes.... Here comes our second a lovely Toe Head, bright blue eyed little girl, still loopy from the C section, after asking 8 times if she was alright, upon seeing her said that not my baby. Thinking she would have a darked haired girl.
Honestly , story 12 i would said: NO! you don't .... "now go alone".
I would be a jerk but she will had to do it herself for been a scumbag.
My son was born with black hair, turned to fuzz, then blonde, now it's chestnut brown. Since both his Dad and I have dark hair, my FIL made the occasional joke... they were jokes.
Though ngl, son looks just like daddy.
lmao if Im the doctor here in this stories I would say "HOLY SHIT YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER" then laugh
My sister-in-law gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. Problem was the father, her husband, is black (mother is white) and her baby boy was very pink.....and Asian.
😂🤣 She tried to lie saying the Asian "skips" a generation or so in the family - we're Polish 🤣😂😆
So she cheated ??
It must have been a Mongolian warrior that raped a distant ancestor?🤔😋
@@i_am_funny ah yeah
@@ericlondon2663 🥺🥺poor man!
@@ericlondon2663 did they divorce?
In my baby photos I was light-skinned but now I am Honey Brown
Lol. Yo I came out white when I was a baby they thought my mom cheated with a white man lol.... Knowing my dad is just really light skin but they did a DNA test lol... I belong to my light skin dad 😂😂😂
commenters, if you love your wife and she loves you, and you love your baby that is all that matters, stop trying to get out of parenthood with DNA tests, maybe she was board and had a bit of a thing on a girls night out. She chose you as a life partner, to give you the gift of sharing a baby with you
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and if you have any extramarital babies out there who's mums you left to cope on their own, get over there and give her some support, mow the lawn, fix the leak, and get to know your baby.
It's fun to have a male 'friend' to go out with, you can check out new 'mates' together if she moves on then wish her all the best - and stay in the baby's life, If you are good for them. You will be rich in what matters the love of a child, it's not their fault they were concieved by a couple that didn't now each other well enough or weren't in love any more
It's outrageous all these women not only have secret flings but they do it bareback and let the guy release inside. If you can't even spend $5 to $15 in order to keep from ruining your relationship how is it a fling that's worth having? Means you value your serious relationship less than the value of a pack of condoms.
Step cousin married this Karen of a woman….fast forward 10 years and he realizes she is shady as hell. He decides to get his 5 kids with her tested…turned out none of his kids were his at all. He dropped her then and there.
IDK about some of these stories. Most Black babies come out "white" too. My daughter was so pale as a newborn the doctor asked if that was normal. We told him our first child was born "white" as well. My husband and I are both Black. I have white friends with biracial children, all of them looked white as newborns.
Damn. That was a whirlwind of drama.😁love it
No matter how much you trust and love her, ALWAYS get a paternity test before signing the papers. If she didn’t cheat she has nothing to worry about (and she won’t in 95% of cases), but her being a little mad that you didn’t take her word for it without getting undeniable proof is far preferable to raising a baby that isn’t yours and staying with a woman who betrayed you.
“Trust, but verify.”
You can do it without telling her. They have these diy kits you can mail in, have the results sent to a mail drop or a secret email she doesn't know about. If you are the dad, no problem. If you're not, go see a lawyer first.