Dealing with a Woman Who Rejected You in the Past

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  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +100

    Rejection truly is protection

  • @assedio3631
    @assedio3631 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +132

    The revenge thing fuels you for a while, then you have to let it go for your own sake.

    • @reborngreatnesss5712
      @reborngreatnesss5712 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

      Soooo facts use that rage revenge fuel to hit the gym wake that beast inside you grow that confidence and do what you want to do. 💯

    • @narobigaines5072
      @narobigaines5072 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      True

    • @alsimmons1650
      @alsimmons1650 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly, it's simply dead weight living rent-free.

    • @ayoitskryptic
      @ayoitskryptic 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      yup exactly

  • @derekkinder2427
    @derekkinder2427 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +93

    Remember it’s not about how you feel about her, but how she makes YOU feel. Don’t play the game if she’s sending mixed signals

    • @garthyahudahandrews8504
      @garthyahudahandrews8504 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

      facts the ones sending mixed signals are the ones who usually have several men for different things and she entertains you when she is bored or to kill time when her real boo deals with her lol its all good i have no time for that honestly

  • @chopinDC
    @chopinDC วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I stopped caring about yourself as motivation when a woman rejects you. Any improvement would mainly benefit her. The best advice is to just keep it moving. Over time she will fade into irrelevance.
    a chick rejected me in HS and I saw her picture recently and she is overweight. All the career and financial success I had since HS would have gone towards a woman I'm not even attracted to anymore.

  • @anthonywilliams9415
    @anthonywilliams9415 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    Nothing but 📠 in this video. Happened to me and I decided to give her a shot. Turned out to be the best relationship of my life. I would have married her too. However, a week after my 40th birthday, she died of cancer. Been 3 years since that happened, but overall, I'm glad I took a chance on the relationship. The best thing that made that relationship work was that we both worked on our character and being better people before we got together. May she rest in peace.

  • @warrengomez67
    @warrengomez67 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    I always say, keep it friendly whenever you bump into them.

    • @vell4263
      @vell4263 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Exactly

    • @LonnieJolly-z6n
      @LonnieJolly-z6n 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Ignore her

    • @duckyh9712
      @duckyh9712 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Ignoring them hurts and raises their attraction as well. But you can’t ignore them seeming butt hurt but ignore them cause you just don’t care and they feel if.

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +77

    The best thing to do is keep it moving

  • @EseShad0w316
    @EseShad0w316 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +43

    The best revenge would be to maximize yourself through self-improvement and forgetting about her. If she decides to come crawling back you reject her with a smile.

  • @elevated_engineering6515
    @elevated_engineering6515 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    Success is the best revenge. She did you a favor, and moved out of the way for the right one.

    • @redpill6131
      @redpill6131 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I couldn't agree more.

  • @Different_out_look
    @Different_out_look 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    I was reject by a girl I was feeling for a while back in school..that motivated me grind & I thought I would throw it in her face..but she has 2 kids & I wish her all the best she's a good women.

    • @almosthelpless9374
      @almosthelpless9374 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      Holding onto that negativity would've blown up in your face so it's good you've moved on.

    • @dsetgetatme
      @dsetgetatme 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      That's growth right there brotha! Great attitude to have

  • @haychgas1447
    @haychgas1447 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    Rejection hurts women more according to uncle rom

    • @dastokene30og
      @dastokene30og 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      yes. theres girls who i was just a little hesitant about and they were crazy about me. i may have gave it a fee seconds too many and she WILL NOT give me the time of day lol

  • @askmartinez6409
    @askmartinez6409 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    The real revenge is when you have improved yourself. Let them look. But keep it moving

  • @dcuthbertson5778
    @dcuthbertson5778 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    It’s probably best not to do it. A lot of dudes are gonna dog em out. It’s gonna be a lot of hostility or other ish. That revenge ish creates bad karma. So just smile and take the compliment and move on in life.

    • @casillasangel
      @casillasangel 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Amen

    • @almosthelpless9374
      @almosthelpless9374 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I agree. I bet it won't make you feel any better to hurt someone who didn't have malice towards you to begin with.

    • @jaimesmith2266
      @jaimesmith2266 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Absolutely excellent truthful comment.

    • @dcuthbertson5778
      @dcuthbertson5778 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@almosthelpless9374 Exactly. It’s a million reasons why a person rejected you that has nothing to do with money. If a person comes back to you; it’s because they truly believe you’re a good person. Prove em right and just walk away.

    • @dcuthbertson5778
      @dcuthbertson5778 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@casillasangel yeahhh. A lot of dudes mess up their reputation dogging chicks out and trying to get revenge. If she comes back to you; it’s because she saw something good in you and you just ruined that. Thanks but no thanks is the best response. I had to learn to do that myself, and what I’ve found out is that people will always think the world of you.

  • @ccrg109
    @ccrg109 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    I got into the revenge mode after this girl rejected me. I took her out to date and she tells me she doesn't date coworkers... Irked me that she agreed to go out if that was the case from the beginning.
    Done a lot of growth over the past year, actually grateful for that because my desire to become a better man came from my revenge desire.

    • @BlackBoyKingTV
      @BlackBoyKingTV 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Dont crap where you eat

  • @danqfrank44
    @danqfrank44 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    There was a lot of compassion in this video.

  • @kenetik13
    @kenetik13 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Remember fellas, if you could pull her then you can certainly pull someone even better 💯

  • @Norbizzle
    @Norbizzle วันที่ผ่านมา

    I already knew the right answer even before I watched the video all the way through it. We strictly DON'T deal with women who rejected us in the past UNLESS they've changed but even then we gotta take our time to find out what they're really about and we can't be quick to get into anything with them. And if we are being revengeful and we being on our grind and bossing up because of them only then it means they got in our head. I feel like your videos impacted me a lot just as the whole Game Kings. Respect Uncle Rom!

  • @kvon_rashad
    @kvon_rashad 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    It all comes down to preparation or preference at times.
    Either way, my show don’t stop. Great video uncle rom🤝🏾

  • @HEFLINMANIA
    @HEFLINMANIA 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    remember.. to "get" someone requires a different skill set than to "keep" someone

  • @LuFromThe041
    @LuFromThe041 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    "If she didn't want you when you were building, then she don't deserve you when you have built". Uncle Rom cooked here!!!

  • @JamalAmerson
    @JamalAmerson 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I remember a girl i wanted in high school did this now fast forward to us being in our 20s she has time to talk but now has 2 kids and Rom Wills crossed my mind about how women use men to be clean up men

  • @KidsLearnHTML
    @KidsLearnHTML 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I call it "Multiplying by Zero". It's impossible to deal with a women who you've totally multiplied by zero straight out of your mind, and existence. (Keisha who? Cheryl who?)

  • @LDubzz86
    @LDubzz86 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I just wouldn't deal with them and tell them to have a nice day. I don't wanna go backwards because im moving forward. What was done in the past is in the past.

  • @ryanrennicks1980
    @ryanrennicks1980 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    All respect due OG! I don’t double back on any woman that rejected me.

  • @imsofocused4678
    @imsofocused4678 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    When I get rejected or feel like a woman is playing games, I keep it pushing. I'm cordial and speak only when necessary. And when I do speak, I speak without being mad or bitter, but not all nice and fawning over them either. When you're mad and bitter, women know that they have control over your emotions more than you do.

  • @therealmicmountain
    @therealmicmountain 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    100% Facts

  • @AJChaka
    @AJChaka 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Ooooweeee Unc cooking on this one 💯

  • @moonguy30
    @moonguy30 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Got rejected a few weeks ago by ghosting despite all the choosing signals and approach by this woman. My handling would be saying hi if I run into this woman and being cool just like I was before she approached me. I also pretend like it never happened. It’s all about being cool. Peace and blessings, Uncle Rom!

  • @Duddamac
    @Duddamac 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    The revenge thing is so hard because our ego and the teen is still in us wanting the get back because we still want to conquer the woman and her body because we couldn’t in the past. If that’s makes sense.

  • @jamesa108
    @jamesa108 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Salute Rom and keep dropping jewels 💯

  • @Blxckheartxoxo
    @Blxckheartxoxo 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Once you reject me that’s it , it’s over with. Humiliate me once shame on you but twice shame on me. Nothing is more unattractive to me then a girl who don’t know what she wants. I’m not nobodies 2nd option .

  • @KristopherStidd
    @KristopherStidd 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you for the video Ron ❤ 👍🏿 Spot on.

  • @Playyaa
    @Playyaa 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I don't understand these girls that come back after they reject you

    • @marlboropike.D
      @marlboropike.D 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Too many options often times leads to bad decisions & then reflection.. that’s why they circle back… the little things you did for her to make her day better matters more when the F boy they’re laying with won’t make much of an effort regardless how much sex they give him.

    • @garthyahudahandrews8504
      @garthyahudahandrews8504 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@marlboropike.D exactly i realize how i have that effect i even took time to greet her in her language and make her laugh without trying much so that taught me to cherish that about my self instead of being bitter it wasnt reciprocated or if it was taken advantage of

    • @marlboropike.D
      @marlboropike.D 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@garthyahudahandrews8504 as a man I’ve made the same mistake with women… can’t be mad or a victim all the time… I’ve definitely had some try to circle back though… although it feels like you’re vindicated when they try and circle back, it’s not worth dealing with them… just gotta let em go… I don’t need any participation trophies lol!

  • @iamtheprogression
    @iamtheprogression 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Its good to see you looking strong and healthy

  • @markevansmongo
    @markevansmongo 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Exactly, good advice bruh!

  • @tyree9834
    @tyree9834 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    i'm jet fly at 1600 mph she will never find me because i'm always in the sky .

    • @aben8192
      @aben8192 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Haha I’m glad for you brother!! This sentence reminds me of my struggle! I was a hot shot USMC vet with multiple tours overseas and got out and went back to my hometown. I started falling for this woman. She rejected me rudely but I don’t blame her because I was dealing with PTSD, alcoholism & homelessness.
      Years later I’m sober, bought a Harley and a travel van and started using my government scholarship to pay for pilot school…. Guess who shows up to all my holiday parties now?!! 😂

  • @Larry-qz3es
    @Larry-qz3es 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The best revenge for being rejected...
    Moving on while living life peacefully on your terms.

  • @duckyh9712
    @duckyh9712 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Looking fresh rom. your advice always makes me feel good.

  • @project0077
    @project0077 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    If she rejects you, walk away and be cool about it. She most likely will come back at some point out of curiosity. I've had this happen on more than one occasion. You know the old saying about the cat and curiosity...if you're picking up what I'm laying down👊🏾

  • @Tysowavy24
    @Tysowavy24 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    perfect timing for real

  • @casillasangel
    @casillasangel 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Good stuff Don Rom, a girl was feeling me but I had to put her in check for some disrespect and then she ghosted me found out she is a convert narcissist

  • @albertszaniszlo1402
    @albertszaniszlo1402 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video Mr. Rom! thanks

  • @LivinItupwne
    @LivinItupwne 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for the clear insight and wisdom on this one! 🙏🏽 ❤

  • @dustinquinton
    @dustinquinton 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Be nice. Say hi, then say bye and move on.

  • @rellconnects4695
    @rellconnects4695 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    #RomTalk 🐺💚 #RW 🎬✅ #SitDown #CouchVideo #LifeGame #Rejection #ManGetsWomen #Thursday #ManGetsWoman #MoveOn #SelfImprovement #Changes

  • @EmperorAJ93
    @EmperorAJ93 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Younger dude here, my method is to create a illusion opportunity for them, I like seeing how far a person is willing to go for the chance(for kicks), I let them do all the work because they’re the only one who wants the job, I ignore everything they got going on and live my life, if I’m doing better then why would I want you 😂😂😂😂😂😂 it isn’t so much revenge I just be bored honestly 🤣🤣🤣

  • @joel3792
    @joel3792 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Im trying to do better Rom. 😅 Option 2.5 , I take the 2nd route, but NEVER forget the rejection. No matter what she does, she will be capped/limited in terms of a relationship. But i dont be hostile or nothing like that.

  • @armonbrown213
    @armonbrown213 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💯 thank you maine ima take the the to make it right and keep it pushing nd keep my distance

  • @beatbyknobodye1581
    @beatbyknobodye1581 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Weight loss and focusing on building your self you will incur this very often.
    Along with “I always thought you were but [insert illogical reasoning for rejecting you the first time].
    I’ve dealt with women who have changed once they’ve gotten older and all that chasing the clubs & streets wore off. Usually that’s a result of Father Time and wisdom playing a hand.

    • @LuFromThe041
      @LuFromThe041 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Older women tend to be easier to deal with it, especially when she's still single & not married. They lower their standards & now all of a sudden they make themselves an easier target for the very same men that they would have turned down in their youth.

  • @showme6842
    @showme6842 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    If she rejected me because she was in a relationship and it just so happens that relationship didn't work out that's different too.

  • @calder6623
    @calder6623 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    God’s redirection is a good thing. We move forward and do the right thing 🙏🏾

  • @armonbrown213
    @armonbrown213 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Perfect timing . But man tired of going thru it

  • @c05.63
    @c05.63 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I had the opossite problem, I Fumbled two 10/10 when i was young, what is to do in those cases?.

    • @modz8500
      @modz8500 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I fumbled one last week i was insecure about her being younger then me 🥹

  • @jaimesmith2266
    @jaimesmith2266 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    When a woman rejects me i simply move on im not dwelling on that because thats wasted time and energy i mean why would i stress myself out it makes no senses lol.

  • @tokyo9766
    @tokyo9766 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Been waiting for this one. Honestly, i can't really go against my morals. Mainly because i don't slow down or hold back for anyone.
    That includes people from the past. If you wanna come with me, cool. If you don't believe in me, cool.
    I did have to get over the revenge thing, not fully over it since my sense of justice is very high, so it's kinda hard trying to make stand within their proximity, let alone talk to them. I've gotten more used to rejection though, and i'm happy i did.

  • @mkr1445
    @mkr1445 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This sounds like a Patreon exclusives..🔥🔥🔥

  • @ChoclateThunda50
    @ChoclateThunda50 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    After you done all the work, and then realize the chick that is a baddie aint got alot goin for her beyond her looks.

  • @almosthelpless9374
    @almosthelpless9374 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I got rejected a few months ago at my gym and didn't handle it well. I avoided her and refused to make eye contact. I'm planing to apologize for that when I get the chance. I got rejected a couple days ago by another woman at my gym but I'm taking it much better this time. I plan on keeping an open line of communication. I'm working on healing my avoidant nature.

    • @MarBarkins
      @MarBarkins 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Bro, mine was the exact opposite😂
      This girl rejected me and refused to make eye contact with me. It blew my mind. I should be the one ignoring her, and since I didn't plan on doing so, everything should have been "normal".
      But then she started ignoring me. The situation was so funny, bro. And it's not like I became way better or anything that she grew shy of me.

    • @Playyaa
      @Playyaa 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      don't apologize keep ignoring her

    • @mralphacreates
      @mralphacreates 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Don’t apologize bro, just move on.

    • @MarBarkins
      @MarBarkins 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Playyaa oh I definitely won't, thanks. I will call her out on it if I see her again. I think it'll be fun to see her reaction

    • @Playyaa
      @Playyaa 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@MarBarkins dont do it. I have been igoring one girl now she chase me I focus on other girls

  • @rileyfreeman9070
    @rileyfreeman9070 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What do you think about the girls that will reject you, then try to make you their best friend, then get mad when you not feeling the buddy buddy shit? You dont like me, thats fine but im definitely not about to be your lap dog.

  • @busyrand
    @busyrand 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Never accept the ReachBack... The main reason is you might be mean or heavy handed... I could see if she's different though. I've known one young lady who genuinely changed, but she didn't reject me... I simply didn't see her that way, and she worked on herself...

  • @enlightlos
    @enlightlos 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    SHE DID ME A FAVOR 😤

  • @llpp202
    @llpp202 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Whenever I have been rejected, the women always linger around me for a couple of weeks. Is this their ego at play or are they gauging how I react to being rejected? I always keep it cool, acknowledge them and keep it professional/friendly after being rejected.

    • @Playyaa
      @Playyaa 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      they just want attention

  • @SupremegreenlawncareLLC
    @SupremegreenlawncareLLC 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @stephanthadon
    @stephanthadon 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just block her you'll be at peace

  • @internetgangsta4543
    @internetgangsta4543 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I just told my ex that her rejection was God's protection.. she looked dumbfounded

    • @chad7694
      @chad7694 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Bamboozled infact she was quite flabbergasted

  • @killuminatimaccabee811
    @killuminatimaccabee811 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I see you spitting the facts Unk. 💯