PREEEEEEACH!!! As a preschool teacher, I try really hard not to tell my students (or my son) you're OK. It's incredibly invalidating & unhealthy. My mom STILL tells me not to feel upset about situations. I now know I can tell her, "You don't get to tell me not to be mad/sad/etc." But I didn't know that as a kid. And I spent a LOT of years thinking there was something wrong with me. A LOT of years.
Right, treat kid's emotions wisely rather expecting things from a kid which is not comfortable in that environment. Holding emotions back is no way good approach, human touch is necessary. Unreasonable expectations are main cause of stress elements.
How can we learn more about zivakids? Can an adult take zivakids in order to learn, therefore using it with our loved ones? And by loved ones I don't mean specifically kids, I mean people that have that inner child, wanting and looking for a way to validate their feelings
I love what you're saying but please advise: I don't want to hear those bloody kids crying on the plane and disrupting my quiet time or my sleep (not meaning yours just before landing). I WANT the parent to shut them up! Help.
No one WANTS to listen to a kid cry. Especially their parents. However, many of us parents want to raise healthy humans, not robots that are pleasing to adults in any given situation.
PREEEEEEACH!!! As a preschool teacher, I try really hard not to tell my students (or my son) you're OK. It's incredibly invalidating & unhealthy. My mom STILL tells me not to feel upset about situations. I now know I can tell her, "You don't get to tell me not to be mad/sad/etc." But I didn't know that as a kid. And I spent a LOT of years thinking there was something wrong with me. A LOT of years.
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Right, treat kid's emotions wisely rather expecting things from a kid which is not comfortable in that environment. Holding emotions back is no way good approach, human touch is necessary. Unreasonable expectations are main cause of stress elements.
Situations can be tricky manytimes, but definitely good idea to try. Making comfortable to their feelings can settle things.
How can we learn more about zivakids?
Can an adult take zivakids in order to learn, therefore using it with our loved ones? And by loved ones I don't mean specifically kids, I mean people that have that inner child, wanting and looking for a way to validate their feelings
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I love what you're saying but please advise: I don't want to hear those bloody kids crying on the plane and disrupting my quiet time or my sleep (not meaning yours just before landing). I WANT the parent to shut them up! Help.
No one WANTS to listen to a kid cry. Especially their parents. However, many of us parents want to raise healthy humans, not robots that are pleasing to adults in any given situation.
Validating their feelings will quiet them quicker than gaslighting them.
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