I know it's hurting way more than you thought. "hurt them back the way they hurted you" - but we were taught to be nice and that's what we are , don't change for someone. We'll never unlove the people we have loved but if its hurting just be nice and leave them . It may hurt a little longer but that's the best. I'm leaving this comment to the people who have lost the people which you thought will stay forever.
Someone said this to me the other week, i no longer listenin to their trash talk so they said i used to be nice. Maybe i was or maybe not, not my concern 😂
@@fluffycat2728 Well, "you used to be nice" is something that _can_ be said by a manipulative narcissist who wants to put you back in line. The fact that it's something that can be said in earnest by someone you've genuinely hurt is what makes it such a powerful tool for emotional blackmail. You never know. I hope you never run into someone who would do that to you, but they are out there.
@@SPACYtunes the issue isn't the use of the term, the issue is the refusal to acknowledge the potential that you are being the jerk here from the original comment The way this is framed and how little context it gives, it comes across as self righteous. "I don't care how I come across to others anymore, it's not my problem. They need to just live with it." You see how scummy that sounds?
I'm not sure you're OK. Do... you want... to talk about it? I know some people who plaster smiles on their faces, trying to their horrible past. I'm one of them, though I don't have a horrible past. Or maybe I'm just delving too deep into things and you actually don't care 😅.
@@SPACYtunes as someone with npd, "manipulative narcissist" is such a wild fucking way to describe an abusive person lmao 💀 do all you people think we just love hurting everyone? 🫠
“I miss the old you..” “you were so kind a caring” “why are you acting like this now you never acted like this before..” I don’t even understand anymore honestly BTW THE VIDEO IS GREAT KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!
I understand why. People change. No one will remain the same forever. People either become worse or become better no one is going to be the same person their entire life
dis deadass how I been feelin l8ly all my friends been switchin up bru they started making fun of me and I got home holding back tears thinking why they act like this now, and then thought about it and realized that they were always like this. they were NEVER good people they always used me, used me for money, a ride home, they never wanted to talk to me for me. We could not talk for a week and all of a sudden they hmu again because they need sum cash. Im too shy to say shit to them but I dont wanna let them keep using me like this. idk tf to do
No one is promised anything, and opinions change. I sympathize with the broken-hearted, as I am one, but respecting everyone's journey will help you on your own and bring those who are supposed to be in it for the next while. Keep your head up, lost soul. You are loved, you are strong, you will be where you ought to.
this hurts so much right now.. i just had someone ive known for 10 fucking years cut me off without even doing it himself. 10 years. at least 7 was spent in a relationship. i poured my heart and soul into the latter half of it, and got dumped for it. now he completely cut me off on every platform. 10 years. gone. because i got into his ass about not communicating with me. i used to love this man with my entire heart. he used to be nice. i used to think he loved me. he doesn't. he stopped a long time ago. (edit) thank you for the heart, it genuinely makes me feel slightly better to at least be acknowledged and recognized that i've been hurt and that others know how it feels. (edit2) cool it removes the heart if i make an edit awesome :')
My mom and my family in general tells me "you used to be a happy little boy, what happened", bringing out photo albums and old stuff i used to wear. It breaks my heart to see them sad for me. I wish i was happy, but i guess its not meant to be. At least not right now
This hurts cause this guy said he liked me, that hr basically loved me. And now he says he doesnt. That were nothing serious. And that he only likes me as a friend. "You do like me." "i don't" "You liked me yesterday" "oh yeah, did i?" "I thought you did."
I thought I was a good person, but I guess not. I hurt and abused somebody and I didnt even know it. I didnt mean to be a bad person, I dont want to be a bad person. All of my friends have left me now that they know what I did, im trying to make amends. I dont know if im a good or bad person anymore, I really want to be good though
There isn't any use crying over spilt milk. Just keep calm and carry on. I feel you. And, I trust that you can go through this, no matter the obstacles. All you need is love.
@sadiqjan1634 Im doing that now, ive calmed down and moved on and my friends were actually willing to work with me to get closer again. Im doing fine now, it was just a big and painful change to get used to, but im chillin now and can think clearly again. Thank you for your reply
What's painful is how people who gave others good memories became memories.
😢😢😢
Im stuck with just memories
Its so sad
So sad
I know it's hurting way more than you thought. "hurt them back the way they hurted you" - but we were taught to be nice and that's what we are , don't change for someone. We'll never unlove the people we have loved but if its hurting just be nice and leave them . It may hurt a little longer but that's the best.
I'm leaving this comment to the people who have lost the people which you thought will stay forever.
this reminded me of someone saying "this is just more proof that hate is something we're taught, not what we were born with" or something like that
@@jamiethecringequeen tier 7 pfp mate
Someone said this to me the other week, i no longer listenin to their trash talk so they said i used to be nice. Maybe i was or maybe not, not my concern 😂
I never want to meet you. Horrible mindset
@@fluffycat2728 Well, "you used to be nice" is something that _can_ be said by a manipulative narcissist who wants to put you back in line. The fact that it's something that can be said in earnest by someone you've genuinely hurt is what makes it such a powerful tool for emotional blackmail. You never know. I hope you never run into someone who would do that to you, but they are out there.
@@SPACYtunes the issue isn't the use of the term, the issue is the refusal to acknowledge the potential that you are being the jerk here from the original comment
The way this is framed and how little context it gives, it comes across as self righteous.
"I don't care how I come across to others anymore, it's not my problem. They need to just live with it."
You see how scummy that sounds?
I'm not sure you're OK. Do... you want... to talk about it? I know some people who plaster smiles on their faces, trying to their horrible past. I'm one of them, though I don't have a horrible past.
Or maybe I'm just delving too deep into things and you actually don't care 😅.
@@SPACYtunes as someone with npd, "manipulative narcissist" is such a wild fucking way to describe an abusive person lmao 💀 do all you people think we just love hurting everyone? 🫠
“I miss the old you..” “you were so kind a caring” “why are you acting like this now you never acted like this before..” I don’t even understand anymore honestly
BTW THE VIDEO IS GREAT KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!
I understand why. People change. No one will remain the same forever. People either become worse or become better no one is going to be the same person their entire life
Is nobody gonna notice how creative their pfp is
bro this is so smooth!
dis deadass how I been feelin l8ly all my friends been switchin up bru they started making fun of me and I got home holding back tears thinking why they act like this now, and then thought about it and realized that they were always like this. they were NEVER good people they always used me, used me for money, a ride home, they never wanted to talk to me for me. We could not talk for a week and all of a sudden they hmu again because they need sum cash. Im too shy to say shit to them but I dont wanna let them keep using me like this. idk tf to do
damn that sounds horrible :( I’m sorry this is happening to you, they really don’t deserve you.
No one is promised anything, and opinions change. I sympathize with the broken-hearted, as I am one, but respecting everyone's journey will help you on your own and bring those who are supposed to be in it for the next while. Keep your head up, lost soul. You are loved, you are strong, you will be where you ought to.
For anyone wondering, this is from the movie ‘banshees of inisherin”. Amazing, emotional movie
this hurts so much right now..
i just had someone ive known for 10 fucking years cut me off without even doing it himself. 10 years. at least 7 was spent in a relationship. i poured my heart and soul into the latter half of it, and got dumped for it.
now he completely cut me off on every platform. 10 years. gone. because i got into his ass about not communicating with me.
i used to love this man with my entire heart.
he used to be nice. i used to think he loved me.
he doesn't.
he stopped a long time ago.
(edit) thank you for the heart, it genuinely makes me feel slightly better to at least be acknowledged and recognized that i've been hurt and that others know how it feels.
(edit2) cool it removes the heart if i make an edit awesome :')
this is just pure beauty
This was a punch in the gut, but in a good way. Great animation!!! It's amazing!!!
My mom and my family in general tells me "you used to be a happy little boy, what happened", bringing out photo albums and old stuff i used to wear. It breaks my heart to see them sad for me. I wish i was happy, but i guess its not meant to be. At least not right now
TGIS IS SO UNDERATTED WHAT THE HAAELE
THIS IS SO UNDERRATED
Liked, saved, subscribed, commented (in that order)
NEW SUB OMFG THIS IS SO COOL❤❤
This hurts cause this guy said he liked me, that hr basically loved me. And now he says he doesnt. That were nothing serious. And that he only likes me as a friend.
"You do like me."
"i don't"
"You liked me yesterday"
"oh yeah, did i?"
"I thought you did."
YOUR ARTSTYLE IS SO CUTE 😭😭 GENUINELY (Can I get inspired by this. Saying no is okay!!)
yeah sure why not :)
@@Lily_Vid thank you!! I’ll make sure to credit you and all
THIS IS SO COOL BUT SO SAD
Off topic but cute art!
owwwwwwwww jsdjajgfjjajfha painnnnn but omg i love your art style its so expressive
*I d o n ' t .*
This is so good keep up the good work! Subbed!
stop asking why they keep doing it and start asking why you keep allowing it..
“You used to be nice” - every kid I cyber bully
me talking to myself in the mirror:
This is me.
you okay?
@@Lily_Vidhope so :D
thanks for asking
can’t tell if this is friend issues or family issues but I guessed friend
400th sub!! Keep it up! :DD
like number 1000 ^^
I thought I was a good person, but I guess not. I hurt and abused somebody and I didnt even know it. I didnt mean to be a bad person, I dont want to be a bad person. All of my friends have left me now that they know what I did, im trying to make amends. I dont know if im a good or bad person anymore, I really want to be good though
There isn't any use crying over spilt milk. Just keep calm and carry on. I feel you. And, I trust that you can go through this, no matter the obstacles. All you need is love.
@sadiqjan1634 Im doing that now, ive calmed down and moved on and my friends were actually willing to work with me to get closer again. Im doing fine now, it was just a big and painful change to get used to, but im chillin now and can think clearly again.
Thank you for your reply
im just trying to figure out what are their names
i never named them lol, haven’t gotten to it
dang
just remind me if you did though
@@Coolgamer120real mk
@@Lily_Vidgot the names yet
Can someone comment the lyrics
??????? If you mean where it’s from, it’s from the movie “banshees of inisherin”. Great movie btw, should definitely watch it