COLLEGE ADVICE WE WISH WE HAD (w/ a college grad + current student!)

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  • @amberalexander
    @amberalexander 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1695

    GOOD LUCK EVERYONEEE I BELIEVE IN ALL OF U!!!!❤️❤️❤️ We are all in dis together & remember that pitbull has been there and done that

    • @pr0crastin8er15
      @pr0crastin8er15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      THANKS QUEEN

    • @S.w.b.0
      @S.w.b.0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🥺

    • @mickb2260
      @mickb2260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I LOVE PITBULL, LIKE BOTH THE HUMAN AND THE DOG ^^ all the best luvssss

    • @emarose106
      @emarose106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is random but
      ASHELY AND AMBER I HAVE A MOVIE RECOMMENDATION.
      1. Real women have curves- hbo max. This one because it made me feel good about my self and not alone
      2. Lady bird( if you haven’t seen it already)- Netflix . Tbh this is the best film I have watched in a while bruh, also really relatable

    • @isabiza
      @isabiza 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just started my first semester of college this video is so perfect thank you !

  • @venyayerredla9281
    @venyayerredla9281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +682

    Ashley: "btw love your sweater"
    Amber: "omg thx"
    Ashley: "sorry I touched your sweater without asking you if I could touch it."
    Amber: "Yeah, you have a beautiful face" *Proceeds to touch it*

  • @gwenythip
    @gwenythip 3 ปีที่แล้ว +580

    guys… Amber is wearing a strawberry necklace from my brand thesilverlock 😭😭 I’m crying tears of joy rn🥺🥺

    • @nikkispickies
      @nikkispickies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      ahhh so proud of you! i love the necklace, can you show me the website?

    • @adelinamemeti4075
      @adelinamemeti4075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      omg that’s awesome I’m so happy and proud of you 💜

    • @gwenythip
      @gwenythip 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@adelinamemeti4075 🥺🥺🥺 ty!!

    • @amberalexander
      @amberalexander 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      AW YAY I LOVE IT!!❤️❤️

    • @gwenythip
      @gwenythip 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@nikkispickies thesilverlock!!!

  • @lucyshaw1738
    @lucyshaw1738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +271

    British version of orientation is freshers week and everyone just goes to 1 university induction lecture then the rest of the week is house/flat parties and a week of going out to get drunk. But the way of introducing yourself to someone is exactllyyyy the saaaame

    • @LifeOfLiana
      @LifeOfLiana 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/Q9evO8E7W-g/w-d-xo.html im new !!

  • @Jinspurplewig
    @Jinspurplewig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    As an incoming college freshman I see y’all as the older sisters I never had😭 being the first college student in the family is difficult but this definitely helped!!

    • @jhopesnoseflute
      @jhopesnoseflute 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Your family must be counting on you. They're so proud of you. Go for it!! You got it!! 💜

    • @Jinspurplewig
      @Jinspurplewig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jhopesnoseflute yes thank you so much!!💜💜

    • @jhopesnoseflute
      @jhopesnoseflute 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Jinspurplewig 💜💜

  • @kasrin4918
    @kasrin4918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    As a freshman who just started college, THANK YOU

  • @shoyahtia1316
    @shoyahtia1316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    I needed to hear this because I literally have been staying in my dorm for a week straight and it's making me sad and anxious.

    • @prisca_d
      @prisca_d 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      same lmao

    • @LifeOfLiana
      @LifeOfLiana 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/Q9evO8E7W-g/w-d-xo.html ! Winter vlog

  • @meganmcreynolds2746
    @meganmcreynolds2746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    I’m the first in my family to go to college and I’m so confused on these college apps and the whole college thing, so thank you so much for the advice! It feels like you’re both my older sisters or something ❤️

    • @urmomashley
      @urmomashley  3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      u r killing it!!!!❤️❤️❤️ best of luck!!! I'm rooting for you 🥰🥰🥰

    • @meganmcreynolds2746
      @meganmcreynolds2746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@urmomashley thank you!!!

  • @sam3070
    @sam3070 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    hey guys, since you’re all here to hear college advice and experience, first of all, if you feel like you should take a gap year please do, for me i knew that i should’ve taken a gap year but i pushed myself and that lead me to drop out from my first college after literally one month of attending classes! i then got into another uni after a year and did amazing, moral of the story if your body and mind are telling you to stop you should really listen, i thought i should push myself because i’m a straight a’s student but look where that led me! secondly, it’s okay to take time!! you don’t have to finish college on time! you don’t have to finish college in just three years, take your time and fix your schedule the way that feels comfortable to you and that will suit your lifestyle best. finally, make friends and have fun a little, don’t take everything too seriously, the years yku spend in college will never comeback so just enjoy your time and stay away from drama and toxic people

  • @sydneybenitez
    @sydneybenitez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    i'm starting college TOMORROW so i really needed this lol

    • @yana6500
      @yana6500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me too lol

    • @sydneybenitez
      @sydneybenitez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@yana6500 ahh good luck!! i'm kinda nervous but also excited :)

    • @yana6500
      @yana6500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sydneybenitez ikr it feels like a new life. 😫💫 Good luck to u, too!

    • @cecilekakudji
      @cecilekakudji 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      OMG SAME YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW I EXCITED FOR THIS NEW CHAPTER OF MY LIFE❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

    • @sydneybenitez
      @sydneybenitez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@cecilekakudji SAMEEE!! it's gonna be insane!

  • @mok5203
    @mok5203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    BRO I WAS JUST LOOKIN FOR SOMETHING TO LISTEN TO WHILE I DO THE DISHES!! Also love the energy of the alexander fam

    • @kathlinncabanas6743
      @kathlinncabanas6743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I listened while i folded laundry 😌

    • @LifeOfLiana
      @LifeOfLiana 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/Q9evO8E7W-g/w-d-xo.html winter vlog :)

  • @theRMYdaily
    @theRMYdaily 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    *made it through my first week of college as a freshmen, hOW’d U BOTH KNOW I needed this* 😭🤚💕

    • @kathlinncabanas6743
      @kathlinncabanas6743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Literally SAME

    • @theRMYdaily
      @theRMYdaily 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kathlinncabanas6743 we in dis together like amber said..hope it went well💕

    • @kathlinncabanas6743
      @kathlinncabanas6743 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@theRMYdaily yes we are 😌 thank you! It did go well. We're doing online rn so yea 😌 Tiny class. 4 people in my major lmao. Hbu

    • @theRMYdaily
      @theRMYdaily 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kathlinncabanas6743 im on campus 3 days of the week , which is nice since im a commuter student and not dorming, so it gives me a break in the week. overall its going well!

  • @amouteru9153
    @amouteru9153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    i’m going to graduate this year, hopefully. this shall be helpful 😩

    • @LifeOfLiana
      @LifeOfLiana 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/Q9evO8E7W-g/w-d-xo.html winter vlog ;D

  • @Neeintje
    @Neeintje 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    This is PERFECT because I am literally going to my first day of college tomorrow :))

  • @ms.soapii
    @ms.soapii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    everyone in the comments are saying how they're starting college soon while im here as a sophomore in high school. i meannnn, head starts are always helpful

    • @britseidaterrazas649
      @britseidaterrazas649 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Brooo me too!!
      P.s. LOVE UR PROFILE PIC

    • @ms.soapii
      @ms.soapii 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@britseidaterrazas649 THANK YOUUU

    • @boojungkoo
      @boojungkoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SAME

    • @clarpabs5026
      @clarpabs5026 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I just wanna give some advice to really enjoy your days in HS. Time flew by so fast lmao I regret I didn't get to enjoy it to the fullest potential. Take every opportunity! I'm in 2nd year college rn and wish that I could go back to highschool where me and my friends were all together and the subjects were just math, science etc. 😆

    • @ms.soapii
      @ms.soapii 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@clarpabs5026 aww! tysm for the advice, i will take it into consideration

  • @thelilacgirl
    @thelilacgirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    hi, i just wanna say thank u so much , yesterday was my first day at college after a year gap between high school and uni, i was so nervous to go cuz i developed such a social anxiety in quarantine , and after i watched this video i felt comfortable , ur advice literally meant so much, thank you both so much , it was really helpful to me 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
    love u both so much

  • @daynasauur
    @daynasauur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    our favorite big sister duo giving the best advice (as per usual) 🥰

  • @isuh77
    @isuh77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    23:11 I’M YELLINGGGG literally the best college advice video omg i loved the podcast ep too!!!!

    • @joooy54
      @joooy54 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      and ashley's face at that moment ahaha

  • @mahimahayat4698
    @mahimahayat4698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm still in college and my experience was and still is an absolute rollercoaster. I wanted to graduate within 4 years but had so many complications with transferring, changing majors, and mental illness (which made me take a gap year before and is still a setback currently sometimes). I needed that gap year because I already had depression before but not knowing what I wanted out of school and fearing that I was wasting money was really screwing me over more. btw I also went from a semester at a 4-year to a community college and back to another 4-year and would say that my time at that community college was amazing!! cc's are definitely underappreciated. I "should have" graduated last year but am still in school. I find comfort in seeing other people my age or older in my sophomore and junior classes. I'm even open to younger friends ofc. I never truly made new friends, just people I've known from hs or work, but I'll be sure to use that roleplay in the coming future lol!! I still don't feel comfortable talking about all of this even in safe spaces, like I am very disappointed in myself, but yeah... lol.

  • @meron749
    @meron749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I mean I’m a sophomore in college who missed out on the whole orientation experience but I’ll use the advices for this year definitely ❤️❤️❤️

  • @rottingrice
    @rottingrice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I just transferred to a 4 year from a community college. Currently adjusting to a very different college environment and I also isolated myself (which is making me sad) 😩😩
    Thank you for this video guys, So helpful!!! Kiss on the cheek for both of y’all 😘😘

  • @preciousarabella8640
    @preciousarabella8640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is actually really helpful- I’m a senior now and I agree with everything they say. Even if the last two years of my college life is still with the whole pandemic, a lot of these tips I applied when I was a freshman. The whole friend thing really hit hard because my first group of friends and I don’t even talk anymore. Remember, it’s okay not to have a huge group of friends in college, just pick the people who will be good to you and who you could be good too. Always have someone you can go to when you’re having trouble or missing some homework, and help them too!! There are some people who just leech off others so you have to watch out for that.
    A tip for those who want to party and drink and stuff- start with small house parties and know what your limit is. Don’t get too drunk or don’t let yourself blackout because it’s dangerous. Always have a buddy or be in a group that you trust. I partied a lot as a freshman and sophomore and I was able to get really good grades because I figured out a system that helped me balance having fun and studying smart. Like they said, know your brain, figure out what works best for you so your grades and the commitments you’re in won’t get screwed up with partying.
    Good luck to everyone! This really is a whole new chapter in your life and let me tell you- it will come by quick and you won’t even notice. Take this opportunity to have fun and gain experience- oh and get on linked in!! If you’re a senior in high school- get on LinkedIn and build your online profile. I wish I did that sooner

  • @magdalene5014
    @magdalene5014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    the role-play had me in TEARS

  • @sophiacino4784
    @sophiacino4784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm going to college next year so this was perfect!! Hearing you guys and other ppl talk about their experiences helps a ton!✨✨

  • @ericarodriguez3325
    @ericarodriguez3325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I literally used your role play on how to make friends in my class a couple hours ago 😂 Thank you!!

  • @makaylapelayo1278
    @makaylapelayo1278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just graduated this year too and could've used this advice as a freshman haha these videos feel like we're all friends talking about our experiences i love it

  • @denissegelle
    @denissegelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i already listened to the podcast and when amber said they were gonna do role play in this vid i wasss so excited. when i heard the podcast i was like i wish i could see their face while role playing and now aaaa!! ❤️

  • @cu3864
    @cu3864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i'm already in uni, but i loved this so much haha. plus the tips about orientation and bonding over shared struggles is so truee

  • @syra1541
    @syra1541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    no bc it's literally crazy how much I remember when I actually pay attention in class

  • @artqover
    @artqover 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    we need more "influencers" like these two tbh

  • @ppjskh
    @ppjskh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m currently a senior in college but I decided last week that I’m gonna double major which I’m stoked about! Even though, I was supposed to graduate next year, I said “f3ck it” and decided to go for what I’m truly passionate about. You’re only in college once, so might as well go for your dreams. 🌌💜✨

  • @erink6810
    @erink6810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    ahhhh my orientation this year is fully virtual and overall not that interactive so thank you guys for basically providing me with the hashtag motivational stories and helpful college tips :)))

  • @asli64
    @asli64 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You guys gave us an amazing podcast and now a TH-cam video, it’s honestly so great :)

  • @soniathomass
    @soniathomass 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    i have heard the college advice podcast a million times just cause i love hearing them talk and its like really fun.. im a senior in college btw so i just hear they podcast for fun... they make me laugh and make my day!!!

  • @jinkz4944
    @jinkz4944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this video and your podcast talking about college advice really reassured me about all the things i was overthinking 🥺 so happy to feel better about attending college next year

  • @cassie3795
    @cassie3795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    literally first day of college i didn't know where one of my classes was, heard one of my classmates did so i introduced myself, asked for her number, we walked to class together and 3 years later she's one of my closest friends, i just spent the day with her after 2 months of not seeing each other 😁the most random spontaneous interactions usually bring the best people in your life 🙏 or at least they did for me 😂

  • @angelpapa1085
    @angelpapa1085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    NO JOKE I WAS LISTENING TO UR COLLEGE ADVICE POD W AMBER AS U POSTED WHATTTTTT

  • @syra1541
    @syra1541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    after the podcast this is exactly what I wanted

  • @mariacaba2053
    @mariacaba2053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Exactly what we needed!! Please do more back to school content 💛

  • @aunicorn3812
    @aunicorn3812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    THANK YOU SM !!!! i’m a sophomore but i never had that “welcome week” experience bc i go to a community college and i just didn’t know they had those ?? (i thought it was just unis) and i also already had a friend since i had been taking classes at that school in hs but i messed up and only talked to that ONE friend i made
    and we’ve been talking about making new friends but we’re both shy 😭 also everyone seems to be older than us (like legit, they have kids or are married meanwhile my friend and i are 19 and trying to have a good college experience 😭)
    anyway, i’m hoping i can still meet people since i’m a sophomore and i was nervous everyone will have friends already but i’m hoping for the best 🤞🏼and this video was SUPER helpful

  • @eleni7371
    @eleni7371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That was actually really helpful and funny at the same time! Sending lots of love thank you for being THE coolest people on the internet!

  • @esther8390
    @esther8390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    first the podcast and now this...ashley's really making sure we're prepared!!

  • @mailajoycantoja5033
    @mailajoycantoja5033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love the dynamics of Ashley and Amber eeyyy!!! 🔥

  • @seaweedjen
    @seaweedjen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i hella agree with taking different types of classes that don't pertain to your major! i took American Sign Language, Tagalog, Asian Americans in film and I wish i could have taken more. Especially the ones that fill up GE requirements, take things that are outside of yur major if you can do so / afford it.

  • @iceetas
    @iceetas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i started college at a liberal arts university, then went to community college, and now i'm going to graduate from a big public university next winter and i wanted to add some advice! start applications EARLY! in high school, i applied last minute to all my schools and only got into two private universities and didn't get into any of the state schools. i almost wish i took a gap year or started at community college, but i love the friends i met at my first school and i think orientation is the BEST way to make friends (reasons why i've been having trouble making friends at my new university) complimenting

  • @greencheese3288
    @greencheese3288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    it's sad that i never got to hear this advice when i started college but these are really helpful for me as i could use it for the next school years. thank u so much for this

  • @choiyerimsupremacy
    @choiyerimsupremacy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    2:16 literally agree that one was so fun and helpful at the same time

  • @preethipls4835
    @preethipls4835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ashley and amber’s sister relationship goals!!
    Love u guys!!

  • @gezellerodriguez5630
    @gezellerodriguez5630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    omgg im so happy you guys posted this here, ive already listened to this topic from your podcast and it honestly was so helpful and funny, esp since ive been having second thoughts with my major❤️❤️

  • @vincentdang7757
    @vincentdang7757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love yall so much loll much needed and bruh amber TT

  • @leylanada7402
    @leylanada7402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Omg this is perfect, I start college tomorrow !!! Thank youuu

  • @hellokotie5944
    @hellokotie5944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This was so helpful honestly bc I’m a senior in high school already applying to schools sadly I can’t take a gap year

  • @jorjaeffendi2568
    @jorjaeffendi2568 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    u guys dont know how much i love ur sitdown talking videos 💓💓

  • @MsAlison
    @MsAlison 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    i so badly wanted to do a gap year and, even tho i am actually in college now, i am still thinking abt taking one. also highkey wish i went to a cc.

  • @jennifermartinez6261
    @jennifermartinez6261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you guys are like the older sisters I always wanted

  • @anam03
    @anam03 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video was so helpful for me,this October I’m going to be a freshman in College and I’m actually scared 😭 Thank you for the advices Ashley snd Amber

  • @jasmines123
    @jasmines123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ty for this video! and omg congrats on hitting 1M subs ily

  • @bean9843
    @bean9843 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    tomorrow’s my first day (in-person) of college and i had to come back here
    thank you for the tips!! this made me kinda more relieved ❤️

  • @akankshasoren9030
    @akankshasoren9030 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not having an 8 am class is such a luxury like in my college my core subject lectures literally start at 8:30 or so, and I even have classes on Saturdays (can't say if that happens everywhere or not but still *sigh*). This video is so informative, nothing seems too overdone. everything is in the right amount. Love you both. :)

  • @damayanteemajumdar9786
    @damayanteemajumdar9786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video has been so helpful because I'll be starting college in a month now! I am so scared and excited, the roleplay thing was soo cool ✨

  • @riizeboyz_
    @riizeboyz_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ahh this was so helpful thank you! you guys give the best advice ever! i’m a second year at a community college and transferring next fall! :))

  • @justemily5781
    @justemily5781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    oh my god this just popped up!! i’m so excited to watch!!

  • @kassandra6836
    @kassandra6836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i will definitely be coming back to this video when it is my time :) & i love the little acting scenes lol ily

  • @cindyy2835
    @cindyy2835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate it so much Ashley and amber!! I love you’re videos! It’s my third week freshman year of college so this advice is helping so much♥️

  • @user-jv1do5vq4o
    @user-jv1do5vq4o 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m rewatching this video after a few months and it’s the most helpful college advice video on TH-cam. ESPPP THE ORIENTATION PART! I’m a junior in HS rn and I’m sooo nervous LOL

  • @jhopesnoseflute
    @jhopesnoseflute 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had a 7am class Mondays to Saturdays and I finish my classes Mondays to Fridays at 8pm and I have a huge break hours in between my schedule. So yeah, I had a terrible schedule. But I survived in those 4 years. I also took a Business Management course but on Human Resources major. To all the students here, you will all survive. Just enjoy everything you got this!! 💜

  • @mayamar3033
    @mayamar3033 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg just started college and was hoping for a video like this from Ashley & Amber!! Thanks guys!

  • @sofiachacon9130
    @sofiachacon9130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm barely in my first year of linguistic science for interpreters and translators and I'm losing my mind. This is actually so helpful.

  • @pikaboopikaboonal2099
    @pikaboopikaboonal2099 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woahhhh i never feel bored for even a second in your videos ... Cuz they are always helpful n entertaining! N yeah videos with 30 min of duration are really funnnnnnn mannnn!!!!

  • @howardbaxter2514
    @howardbaxter2514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Advice to any seniors in high school. When you enter college and you see an assignment due at midnight, 99 times out of 100, the assignment is due at 11:59PM. Make sure you ask your professor though, but midnight usually implies 11:59PM, not 12:00AM.

  • @madelinerindon
    @madelinerindon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this sibling relationship is the cutest omg 🥺💓

  • @jhaylhenprieto3601
    @jhaylhenprieto3601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    EARLYYY!! OML I WAS JUST ABT TO SLEEP (I LIVE IN THE PHILIPPINES) I LOVE U BOTH SO SOOO MUCHHHH!!! ALSO IM GOING TO COLLEGE NEXT YEAR! PLEASE WISH ME LUCK!!♡♡♡♡

  • @bethlillie7229
    @bethlillie7229 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I defo needed this video for the new school year thanks ash and amber 💗

  • @zoeyda9010
    @zoeyda9010 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    THE ROLE PLAYING HAD ME DYINGGGG but fr it was EXTREMELYYYYYYY HELPFUL thank you thank you thank you SO MUCH 😭

  • @katherinenj
    @katherinenj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the collage advice podcast with amber was one of the best podcasts I’ve listened 😂😂

  • @jana8977
    @jana8977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My dad is pressuring me to go to college this year and I’m literally 16😐
    I finished my igcses but I wanted a gap year to explore myself, it’s been 4 months & I’ve already done a lot of self reflection & exploring myself, but I still have so many things I want to do before college and I’m in no way shape or form mentally prepared for it. If you have the opportunity to take a gap year, take it!! 😩

  • @katherinenj
    @katherinenj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ashley looks so cute with glasses 🥺🥺

  • @jiul4907
    @jiul4907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My first year of uni was online and hopefully this 2nd year will be done in person and your advice is amazing!

  • @lauratruong986
    @lauratruong986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro I’m starting school tomorrow, incredible timing!! MERCI

  • @bored824
    @bored824 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    An advice for American unis: make groupchats for your smaller classes so everyone can share due dates/assignments/etc (my experience this groupchat can be really dry but at least someone will answer you when ur asking for the zoom link/class location). Also for me, we have multiple groupchats for our whole major (with like 200+ people) just so people can talk about more general assignments or help each other out before exams and give you information on applying for classes etc. In Europe people use WhatsApp but whatever chat app that's more popular locally also works. Hope this helps! (Also, I've always been a quiet follower but I think this can be useful)

  • @tallys.3119
    @tallys.3119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi!!🥰I really enjoyed your last college podcast and this vid as well! Would it be possible in the future to do a podcast about how to make friends outside of school /what you look for in a friend/how to be a good friend yourself? Anyways love your content, have a good day!!!

  • @aurorakarolyn
    @aurorakarolyn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i have been looking for these kinds of videos ALL MONTH thank you!!!!

  • @al-dp3zt
    @al-dp3zt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'll be starting college next week as a BSNursing student. Wish me luck!
    Btw, this video is sooo informative. I'm gonna apply your advice for sure! Thank you, Ashley and Amber! < 3

  • @usernotfound111
    @usernotfound111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m a senior in high school and I have no idea what to do next and I’m scared 🧍🏻‍♀️ so Thank youuuu < 3

  • @sara.lozano
    @sara.lozano 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank gosh for this video bc i just recently started college :')

  • @anemix6476
    @anemix6476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the relationship between Amber and Ashley you guys remember to my sister and me 🥺❤️

  • @thewanderer970
    @thewanderer970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “know that you need to be heard” and then an ad interrupts amber

  • @mikayladeguzman5225
    @mikayladeguzman5225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    where did u get ur glasses :0? also ty for the vid, im going to college in a few weeks & ill def keep those tips in mind

  • @veronikabecher7156
    @veronikabecher7156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ohhh thank you so much for this video. I'll be a freshman soon and thanks for the advices. Now I feel less stressed and nervous about it. 🥰💗

  • @supremedabwhipnaenae7057
    @supremedabwhipnaenae7057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i wasnt expecting much but this definitely helped a lot!!

  • @cornbreadlauren1568
    @cornbreadlauren1568 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    literally moving in in three days thank youuuu 😌❤️

  • @vml9892
    @vml9892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what did we do to deserve a 32 min video omg 😭😭

  • @christenlee3101
    @christenlee3101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    starting classes tmmrw lol thx for thissss y’all are big sisters to all of us 🥰

  • @abigailvalassis9490
    @abigailvalassis9490 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMGGG WHY DIDNT I SEE THIS VIDEO EARLIER 😭😭😭BUT AHH U BOTH LOOK SO PRETTY

  • @ohboketto
    @ohboketto 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    THIS WAS AN AMAZING VIDEO! This definitely relieved my nervousness for college 😭💕

  • @hannaharevalo3279
    @hannaharevalo3279 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i feel like the two of you are the older sisters i never had :( its crazy since im Australian but this gave me so much comfort!!

  • @sofiacalderoli1996
    @sofiacalderoli1996 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aaaaa omg I love these videos

  • @tdlamaaa
    @tdlamaaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I START TMR AAAH THANK U THANK U I LOVE YALL :')

  • @ayeyolizzo9291
    @ayeyolizzo9291 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    the complaining point is soooo true😭😭 me the first week i was always just saying “why was it so hard to find this class omg” and “i have no idea what’s going on”

  • @shreyaambade6688
    @shreyaambade6688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    To whoever is reading this; you are so beautiful, there are so many people you have to meet and moments yet to experience. Everything makes sense in due time; it’s okay if you don’t have anything figured out. Breathe; it’ll be okay ❤️