Keep your candle protected, humble in success of anything. Keep your views thoughtful of others who are not as fortunate as self in achieved success. Costs nothing to be guiding and encouraging others who could not see possibilities (for better life under own steam.)
In the MBTI my type of personality has the cognitive function of Thinking Extrovert as the auxiliar function. The extrovert thinking thinks out loud. To not repress a natural function of yours try to give trainings and talk a lot this way. It decompresses your need to express yourself verbally.
Sometimes silence is the best way you can be and ask God to reveal the hearts of those for you and those against keeping prayer and keep moving the needle forward ask God to direct you to the right people spiritually and in business. don’t compare just keep in your own lane God will make a way where there is no way. God is faithful 🙏🏻
11 things to delete: -Narcissist "friends" and "family". -Social media. -The news, media and newspapers. Only for direct dangers or calamities in the neighbourhood or in town. -Political conversations. Everybody has a right to have their own opinion. Everybody also have a right to remain silent about it. There are better things to talk about. -Drugs and alcohol. -Hoarding and clutter. -Negative self talk. -Junkfood. -Too much coffee and sugar. -Road rage. -Using a phone outside and in traffic; leave it at home. Turn it off. Nobody is important.
True …. God put everything in the garden it was perfect our food our shelter our medicine if need be . Man made all these materialistic world we don’t need . Nature in it self is healing. Sunlight heals depression. Rain heals insomnia…… we don’t need there drugs.
I agree whole heartedly. If we all could learn these concepts at an early age as a foundation for life this could have very profound effects on the whole human race. We all need this wisdom to break free of the negativity holding us back from our true potential. The way we currently live is not leading us to a good future. The example we show our children isnt teaching them anything useful in life. Our society is broken. I feel this way of thinking is a good place to start. Then when enough people get it maybe we can start evolving again twards what we are meant to be....
As a grown up I realize that some of today's children do not listen or take advices from older people seriously and it breaks my heart bcos they regret it only when parents are gone and have to face their lives alone and now they are adults who have messed up their lives.Some do not also really fear God as they do what they like.
It took a minute to understand my thoughts and ways that I handled things under stress: But! With the prayers and faith in believing in my father Yahweh he Delivered me and I am so thankful because if I knew what I know now it would have never happened, but I think my father Yahweh for seeing me through it for me walking in faith
I am so excited for changing my life and being able to make a difference in this world and God is my best friend to do so much for me 😍💕 In Christ Jesus name Amen! 😍❤️
I follow three rules: 1] go to work 2] dont hurt anybody 3]silence is golden Considering i like to sing all day whilst i think about my problems because id rather not bother spreadin issues and rather deal with my own bs, this video definitely helped
I don’t understand why god is suddenly being mentioned in these videos. The first 20 I watched made no mention of religion. Then I start seeing references to god or the creator sprinkled in. Unfortunate
The stoic lectures have helped me to deal with my emotional vulnerability and my anger. I remind myself to focus on how I respond to events, so empowering. Thankyou
Practicing empathy and cultivating the circle of people to journey with has been the toughest challenge. Likely those walking away from me have acted out of self-preservation. Learning life lessons at this stage is a series of challenges I pray to be able to complete. Thank you for the reminder. And thank God for everything else.
Yes, I welcome change, in fact I believe I can count on it. ❤ I love this kind of challenge, versus what needed change. It’s not any person I don’t like, it can be their behavior, which I can remove myself from their mean or selfish and abusive behaviors, then be thankful for it.
I have been taught this subject several times over a few months. I was hearing I talk too much. Reinforcement is helping me in a significant character builder.
I agree with eliminating toxic people in your life but when a serious issue has been brought up concerning your family members it’s important to address with your family involved what allegation was 6:59 said in order to clear the incorrect assumption. I also think you sometimes need clarity from a trusted person on a situation when you have been manipulated and gaslight your perspective can put you in doubt
Your insight on handling toxic situations, especially within family dynamics, @user-ok8mr6qz7h, is invaluable. Addressing serious issues and seeking clarity to overcome manipulation is indeed crucial. How do you navigate these conversations to ensure understanding and healing, while also protecting your mental well-being?
I have a woman in my life who is full of hate and anger. I'm leaving her behind, because nobody is amune to that. It's a matter of time when it becomes your turn.
When you share you believe the person may have solutions. Sometimes they do. Sometimes they don't. Realize hurt is caused by you caring about the person who is hurting you. Only after realizing the hurting you are feeling is not part of a relationship you may think it is. The relationship is all one sided. Remove this person from your life even if the person is family. Be true to yourself.
I really needed to hear these wise words today. I am an over thinker and an over sharer. I am going to try hard to follow this wise advice. Thank you very much.❤
When remain silent when facing obvious tyranny we bring harm to the family we love. My daughter was told don’t discuss politics or religion in the workplace.
I am always avoiding media walls that publish negative content and am exposing myself all the time to growth driven material like your book i am listening to right now
Media in majority, of any kind ride on profits. Money directs its' plans in orogramming with profit margin in focus. Afterall, how much of which news will effect an individual's daily life? News saturation is such that they are climbing on top of each other, now even individuals are collecting news singularly and get so many 'hits'.
I appreciate stoic philosophy. Yet silence can also be used to ice people out, to sulk, to be unwilling to learn or risk open and honest discussion that provides clarity to a situation and complete relationships respectfully.
I don't participate in other people's gossip or their relationship woes as it's none of my concern and that I look at them when they're forcing the issue and simply state " if you can't leave drama at the door, then please don't speak to me or leave" and this usually accomplishes exactly what I want ...their exit out of my life and that nipping it in the bud has always saved me a lot of grief
This video is incredibly powerful! It provides valuable insights on the things we should quietly eliminate from our lives for better peace and happiness. Truly inspiring! 👌🌈😊
I wish I had started watching these videos a long time ago. It would have saved my relationship with my son and my 6 grandchildren that I cherish so much. I still suffer from my loss and wish I could take back my harmful words and behavior😢. As I watch these videos the more I can see how immature and self centered I am. The positive thing is that I did come across you videos and I am now using them as tools to self growth. It is never to late to change and break bad habits. Thank you for sharing!
Thankyou so much for the enlightening message well said. I pray for our entire society to be surrounded by positive thoughts and actions. Yeeall are awesome. I'm delighted. I appreciate yeeall so much. Bravo
Thank you very much friend. What you have released contains many pieces of wisdom that strongly help everyone. I am captivated by those and would like to incorporate them into my life from now on
This gives me lessons in life. Praise to you Lord! There are teachings like these to straighten our paths. Keep up the good works! Lots of people listening to your good thoughts! ♥️♥️♥️
Your enthusiasm for self-discovery and improvement is truly infectious, @octaviasmith3068 It's wonderful to see such positivity towards growth and living better Which of these powerful suggestions resonated with you the most, and how do you plan to incorporate them into your journey toward a better self?
Thank you for sharing. I'm at that stage in my life where lm quietly eliminating myself from negative people, situations and thoughts.lm at the stage where lam opening up a new chapter in my life.A chapter full of achieved goals,healed health and pronged happiness our Lord ,the creator being our leader.Amen
When we base our actions and decions on the quest for approval we drift away from who we truly are and what we genuinely desire Its like constantly trying to wear an outfit that doesnt fit just to please others This really get me into being myself
Absolutely! It's liberating when we prioritize authenticity over seeking approval. It's like shedding the ill-fitting layers and embracing our true selves. Keep being genuine; that's where true fulfillment lies.
Really appreciate the opportunity that has helped out with me all over there for a moment in a lifetime I had been able to find nowhere in a way that makes me feel like I am getting better thanks for giving me a chance to get better 😅
1:00pm It's a reality that is too extraordinary to negate; I was feeling like I'm all that and a bag of chips after telling my creepy landlord things I've held inside for over a DECADE! I just got off the soapbox and was made to watch this video. Now I know how I only lowered myself to his level of awfulness. I realize now that I too am just as capable of having the assholeness of which I shall never ever ever want to be. It's those rare occasions when I think I'm so right; but I'm so wrong 😔
Som zo Slovenska, anglický rozumiem, no nehovorím v nej bez chýb. Kto bude chcieť vedieť, čo vyjadrujem, zadá možnosť preložiť do jazyka . . . Celým srdcom ďakujem. Život = dlhá cesta poznania a učenia sa. 🌞🙂🔥❤️
I quietly walked away from a toxic relative; never 'explained or complained'; one of the better decisions I have made.
👍
Resonates
Great accion ❤
That’s what I’m going to have to do….and STAY gone.
The hardest thing I’ve had to do but also the best thing I’ve done.
Yes I been silently leaving people alone one by one
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤
Good ❤❤
Hahaha! Me, too! I feel great now!
No one can argue with your silence. Be slow to speak and quick to listen.
Thank you for these wise words I appreciate you r counsel thanks alot
Silence is golden.❤
The stoic life is 😂 and I enjoy the changes that have been occuring in my life ❤
Jesus was silent when he was accused of many things ( Mat.27:12)
My biggest disappointment and grief is my daughter. But I can not do anything but to still support her and protect her. silently
There but for the grace of God go I. Yes God makes us do certain things for our children, no matter what.
I have a similar situation!
Yes, me too. Question? When dealing with our children in these matters, do you think the same principles apply?
😢
Understand this.
Thank you. I made many mistakes by trusting peope so much
I think of the trust I've found in myself by trusting ,even quietly 😊
Same here, blindly trusted others and finally learnt it the hard way.
It’s best to maintain. Boundaries. &. Keep. Quiet. Be thankful &. Love self🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Keep your candle protected, humble in success of anything. Keep your views thoughtful of others who are not as fortunate as self in achieved success. Costs nothing to be guiding and encouraging others who could not see possibilities (for better life under own steam.)
I was always taught that sharing everything was noble. Many years and many heartbreaks later, I now know better
As a child I was taught that it is tasteless, and unrefined to discuss personal matters with anyone who is not a family member.
It's never too late, but when you discover that you don't have to share, you will find out that nobody else shares with you. Don't give anything.
I know it. I certainly listened to them. Not anymore. Because I have no one I want around me to talk to or listen to, but God & my cats🌹😁
@@PertNearFedUp-bj1tx now you’re talking, God and cats are as good as it gets if I do say so myself. ;-)
I do want to change. I need to learn to be quiet. I am surrounded by narcissists. I need to trust the Lord fully.
In the MBTI my type of personality has the cognitive function of Thinking Extrovert as the auxiliar function. The extrovert thinking thinks out loud.
To not repress a natural function of yours try to give trainings and talk a lot this way. It decompresses your need to express yourself verbally.
Yes, what they say to you, about you, has nothing to do with you. ❤
You and me both Staying focused on my goals helps
Good plan. Keep quiet & pray. Let us know how that goes for ya.
Well said! I hope you doing your best! Much love!
I express my gratitude for what I have every morning and make me feel wonderful.
We must ensure that our goals and decisions are according to God's will and Word
God's will is not of put up with bully, disrespect and abuse.... it's so simple...
We cannot control everything, but we can control our own will😍
But our prisons say otherwise.
Perhaps this confirms the point made about choice or will badly applied@@davidbuckwitz5408
Leaving toxic environments silently without voicing complaints, drama, and faults of others. I like this wisdom.
Sometimes silence is the best way you can be and ask God to reveal the hearts of those for you and those against keeping prayer and keep moving the needle forward ask God to direct you to the right people spiritually and in business. don’t compare just keep in your own lane God will make a way where there is no way. God is faithful 🙏🏻
I talk to God
@@bcog-cv5el i played in a rock band with him ,,,,
There is no need to explain your self to others... Period.
Something I need to apply to myself thank you for this
No,if your actions impact them,you are:)
@@MsAnpiHello.. 👋
@@Discipleovtruth23 hi 🙂👋
@@MsAnpi You're gorgeous! 👌🏾🔥
11 things to delete:
-Narcissist "friends" and "family".
-Social media.
-The news, media and newspapers. Only for direct dangers or calamities in the neighbourhood or in town.
-Political conversations. Everybody has a right to have their own opinion. Everybody also have a right to remain silent about it. There are better things to talk about.
-Drugs and alcohol.
-Hoarding and clutter.
-Negative self talk.
-Junkfood.
-Too much coffee and sugar.
-Road rage.
-Using a phone outside and in traffic; leave it at home. Turn it off. Nobody is important.
Confirmation!😊
thanks!
Confirming
Thank you!
True …. God put everything in the garden it was perfect our food our shelter our medicine if need be . Man made all these materialistic world we don’t need . Nature in it self is healing. Sunlight heals depression. Rain heals insomnia…… we don’t need there drugs.
"Do not judge a person's life by the success he's achieved, judge it by the hardships he's endured." - Marcus Aurelius
SALUTE 🫡
@@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-LExcellent
💯
I love this, so factual
Great quote❤
Im learning to be silent in most situations im in. And this lets me know im on the right path..many thanks
I THANK God that I Moved from a toxic relationship another state so healing my self 🙏
Put the focus on yourself rather than others. Find out what you love in life, and create that life for yourself. You are stronger than you think.
I need a change because I have been on a descutive path and I’m grateful for the opportunity to have a good life despite my circumstances
Truely enlightening l wish these values were drummed into us from our youth, though it’s not too late to start now !😊
I agree whole heartedly. If we all could learn these concepts at an early age as a foundation for life this could have very profound effects on the whole human race. We all need this wisdom to break free of the negativity holding us back from our true potential. The way we currently live is not leading us to a good future. The example we show our children isnt teaching them anything useful in life. Our society is broken. I feel this way of thinking is a good place to start. Then when enough people get it maybe we can start evolving again twards what we are meant to be....
As a grown up I realize that some of today's children do not listen or take advices from older people seriously and it breaks my heart bcos they regret it only when parents are gone and have to face their lives alone and now they are adults who have messed up their lives.Some do not also really fear God as they do what they like.
Taking a better path and fighting odds i have met daily through prayer
It took a minute to understand my thoughts and ways that I handled things under stress: But! With the prayers and faith in believing in my father Yahweh he Delivered me and I am so thankful because if I knew what I know now it would have never happened, but I think my father Yahweh for seeing me through it for me walking in faith
The only change I've ever experienced is through God
I agree 100%
Amen
Amen
"Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears." - Marcus Aurelius
Amen on that one.
I am so excited for changing my life and being able to make a difference in this world and God is my best friend to do so much for me 😍💕 In Christ Jesus name Amen! 😍❤️
I follow three rules:
1] go to work
2] dont hurt anybody
3]silence is golden
Considering i like to sing all day whilst i think about my problems because id rather not bother spreadin issues and rather deal with my own bs, this video definitely helped
You are nothing without God. Everything is grounded in love and Grace. With God
Who is god?
I don’t understand why god is suddenly being mentioned in these videos. The first 20 I watched made no mention of religion. Then I start seeing references to god or the creator sprinkled in. Unfortunate
Without God, I have nothing!
@@deberson54 keep it to your self , don't tell eny one again ,,,,
Perfect. Be yourself and be discrete
I am truly looking for a change in my life.
This enlightenment has come at a crucial time in my life,which is helping me deal with a difficult situation, thankyou
TRULY LIFE LESSONS THANK YOU* FOR THE WISDOM
The stoic lectures have helped me to deal with my emotional vulnerability and my anger.
I remind myself to focus on how I respond to events, so empowering. Thankyou
Am ready for a change thank you this information I was doing it all wrong. Amen God be with me.
Im always seeking positive change in my life & for those who are no longer in my life , This is a rewarding journey .
Practicing empathy and cultivating the circle of people to journey with has been the toughest challenge. Likely those walking away from me have acted out of self-preservation. Learning life lessons at this stage is a series of challenges I pray to be able to complete. Thank you for the reminder. And thank God for everything else.
Yes, I welcome change, in fact I believe I can count on it. ❤ I love this kind of challenge, versus what needed change.
It’s not any person I don’t like, it can be their behavior, which I can remove myself from their mean or selfish and abusive behaviors, then be thankful for it.
Your heart is just like a delicate egg once you drop it it’s hard to put back together💕
This is so true !!😕
I have been taught this subject several times over a few months. I was hearing I talk too much. Reinforcement is helping me in a significant character builder.
I agree with eliminating toxic people in your life but when a serious issue has been brought up concerning your family members it’s important to address with your family involved what allegation was 6:59 said in order to clear the incorrect assumption. I also think you sometimes need clarity from a trusted person on a situation when you have been manipulated and gaslight your perspective can put you in doubt
Your insight on handling toxic situations, especially within family dynamics, @user-ok8mr6qz7h, is invaluable.
Addressing serious issues and seeking clarity to overcome manipulation is indeed crucial.
How do you navigate these conversations to ensure understanding and healing, while also protecting your mental well-being?
Ready to continue
I'm hearing just what I need at the moment. Thank you 🙏🏾
Thanks for listening
I have a woman in my life who is full of hate and anger. I'm leaving her behind, because nobody is amune to that. It's a matter of time when it becomes your turn.
Leave and do not turn around to even look.
Disconnect, so u can connect with another more suited to yr life.
Love conquers sin. Pray for God to bring the right people in our path of life. And discard the wrong people.
🍃 Make a plan according to what is presented here.
Because..... announcing could cause road-blocks to getting away. 🙏🏼❤️🙌🏼
When you share you believe the person may have solutions.
Sometimes they do. Sometimes they don't.
Realize hurt is caused by you caring about the person who is hurting you.
Only after realizing the hurting you are feeling is not part of a relationship you may think it is. The relationship is all one sided.
Remove this person from your life even if the person is family. Be true to yourself.
Shalom,Shalom 🕊️
I really needed to hear these wise words today. I am an over thinker and an over sharer. I am going to try hard to follow this wise advice. Thank you very much.❤
Marcus Aurelius was completely right 👍 silence is golden they say its true warriors say nothing' thank you for this❤
When remain silent when facing obvious tyranny we bring harm to the family we love. My daughter was told don’t discuss politics or religion in the workplace.
SO LET BE. I AM SO GRATEFUL FOR THESE LESSONS. 🎉
New year new mindset I'm ready now 2024❤🙏🙌
I am always avoiding media walls that publish negative content and am exposing myself all the time to growth driven material like your book i am listening to right now
Media in majority, of any kind ride on profits. Money directs its' plans in orogramming with profit margin in focus. Afterall, how much of which news will effect an individual's daily life?
News saturation is such that they are climbing on top of each other, now even individuals are collecting news singularly and get so many 'hits'.
I am learning and the more I learn the more I grow thank you.
I appreciate stoic philosophy.
Yet silence can also be used to ice people out, to sulk, to be unwilling to learn or risk open and honest discussion that provides clarity to a situation and complete relationships respectfully.
Omg this was an eye opener for me and realized how I need to make changes in my life!
I agree and needed to hear the first point!
Great advice, thank you so much 💯
THANK YOU FOR THESE WORDS OF TRUTH & WISDOM💯💜💙🩷
Thank you for helping my brother Ivan?please get him to trust you GOD,both Ivan and Gavin need to change their life style.amen
Actions speak louder then words. No pain no gain. Impossible to reach perfection. We learn forever ⏱️🥰☘️💐🍀🍁🈵🍵🏳️
I am most definitely looking for a change
I choose peace over drama and working on myself
I love your series. It is helping me with talking negatively about myself to myself. I am glad I found you. Thanks.
Solid Gold! Bravo 👏🏼
Great video. A honest reminder of how to enjoy my journey!
Thanks I find some things mentioned, do but I have fallen short also and I need to truly stay mindful and incorporate my thoughts
I absolutely love this channel. I learn so much. Thank you ❤
Thank you for sharing this lifetime wisdoms which we can truly apply in our daily lives..
Yes, am looking forward to change.❤
Thank you. There are so many suggestions to be considered and so much upon which to personally reflect
Thank you for the powerful clip ...it's like I needed to hear
I don't participate in other people's gossip or their relationship woes as it's none of my concern and that I look at them when they're forcing the issue and simply state " if you can't leave drama at the door, then please don't speak to me or leave" and this usually accomplishes exactly what I want ...their exit out of my life and that nipping it in the bud has always saved me a lot of grief
I accept the lesson and accept he change required. In me ❤😊❤
Thank you so much, how I wish I encountered this wisdom earlier, however it is not too late to learn🙏🙏
This video is incredibly powerful! It provides valuable insights on the things we should quietly eliminate from our lives for better peace and happiness. Truly inspiring! 👌🌈😊
I wish I had started watching these videos a long time ago. It would have saved my relationship with my son and my 6 grandchildren that I cherish so much. I still suffer from my loss and wish I could take back my harmful words and behavior😢. As I watch these videos the more I can see how immature and self centered I am. The positive thing is that I did come across you videos and I am now using them as tools to self growth. It is never to late to change and break bad habits. Thank you for sharing!
I needed to hear this! I will try an be more diplomatic in my interactions. Thank you for this.
Thankyou so much for the enlightening message well said. I pray for our entire society to be surrounded by positive thoughts and actions. Yeeall are awesome. I'm delighted. I appreciate yeeall so much. Bravo
Enjoying this! Very helpful lessons in life. Thank you!
Thank you very much friend. What you have released contains many pieces of wisdom that strongly help everyone. I am captivated by those and would like to incorporate them into my life from now on
This gives me lessons in life. Praise to you Lord! There are teachings like these to straighten our paths. Keep up the good works! Lots of people listening to your good thoughts! ♥️♥️♥️
I love all these powerful suggestions of self discovery and living better!!
Your enthusiasm for self-discovery and improvement is truly infectious, @octaviasmith3068
It's wonderful to see such positivity towards growth and living better
Which of these powerful suggestions resonated with you the most, and how do you plan to incorporate them into your journey toward a better self?
Excellent advice
I really need to change for betterment of my self. Thanks for wisdom 🙏
Tqvm. Indeed great video. Just subscribed & shared.
Truly empowering…. I’m inspired now for positive changes 🤗
Thank you Stoic
Thank you for sharing. I'm at that stage in my life where lm quietly eliminating myself from negative people, situations and thoughts.lm at the stage where lam opening up a new chapter in my life.A chapter full of achieved goals,healed health and pronged happiness our Lord ,the creator being our leader.Amen
When we base our actions and decions on the quest for approval we drift away from who we truly are and what we genuinely desire
Its like constantly trying to wear an outfit that doesnt fit just to please others
This really get me into being myself
Absolutely! It's liberating when we prioritize authenticity over seeking approval. It's like shedding the ill-fitting layers and embracing our true selves. Keep being genuine; that's where true fulfillment lies.
I find all o[f these quotes best for me to share many times when a problem arises in other people’s life
Really appreciate the opportunity that has helped out with me all over there for a moment in a lifetime I had been able to find nowhere in a way that makes me feel like I am getting better thanks for giving me a chance to get better 😅
I’m am ready for positive change in my life
1:00pm It's a reality that is too extraordinary to negate; I was feeling like I'm all that and a bag of chips after telling my creepy landlord things I've held inside for over a DECADE! I just got off the soapbox and was made to watch this video. Now I know how I only lowered myself to his level of awfulness. I realize now that I too am just as capable of having the assholeness of which I shall never ever ever want to be. It's those rare occasions when I think I'm so right; but I'm so wrong 😔
Thank you enjoyed listening to this advice of wisdom..🙏
You are so welcome
Indeed your teaching has worked to improve on my weak areas. Thanks
Well said!!! all so true. Knowing who you are, where are you heading and what's your purpose of life. Amazing!!! LOVE THIS ❤❤❤
Som zo Slovenska,
anglický rozumiem, no nehovorím v nej bez chýb.
Kto bude chcieť vedieť, čo vyjadrujem, zadá možnosť preložiť do jazyka . . .
Celým srdcom ďakujem.
Život = dlhá cesta poznania a učenia sa.
🌞🙂🔥❤️
GRATEFUL
everything is CHANGE
This information was very insightful & useful. I do enjoy the videos & wisdom shared on each video that is shared! Thank you 🙏🏾
You are so welcome
I really need more Abt this situation it's tormenting me
This was helpful, thank you!
GOOD ONE KERP CALM
This is absolutely amazing. I am subbed. Good life lessons to lock in my brain!