I really loved how yeongsil lectured that grandma , the hosts couldnt even stop her from talking . She took every concern seriously and didnt go with the same bullshi* " you're still young what problems do you have " the hosts usually say . She did a great job👏🏼 truly the greatest guest
these are the kind of guests we want.. specially those 2 women omg.. i loved how they were actually concerned about every story and tried to give the best advice possible...people like em are suited for hello counselor not cao lu ... .
I completely agree with you! In every episode this show should have this types of guests were they listen carefully, take the concerns seriously but not that serious and most important give wise advice to the guests! Loved this episode so much!! ❤️❤️❤️👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
I watched Apink's Showtime and saw how Eunji treat's her little bro like a son so I'm not surprised how good she is on this show. Wise beyond her years, she always treats the concerned guests so well and gives them honest advice much like the two older women did here. It's refreshing because most of the time the celebrities that come on this show only speak up when it's time to decide on concern or no concern.
I think the grandma was so annoying, it just didn't seem like she really meant it when she said she loves her granddaughter, i don't think she's going to change.
able2smile when they pointed out about her doings, she always answered that she forgot and laugh it off so i don't think she's telling the truth about forgetting it and she doesn't look like she's gonna change anyway. i feel so bad at daeun having to deal with that grandmother everyday.
I just want to say how thankful I am I had a Grandmother that treated all of her grand kids special . But she did not discriminate and treated us with equal love !
All the concerns really annoyed me today. 1st concern- I'm honestly mad at them both. The husband had NO consideration for the wife. At the same time, the wife just put up with it. 2nd concern- we all know the Grandma treats her grandsons better. I was so annoyed with her smug face and the constant "I don't remember". I don't understand how women can treat girls like that. They know what it's like to be in that position, so how could you do that to someone else? And the 3rd concern- Please don't get married. Like, the girl is only in it for the dog. The girl looked a bit grossed out when he kissed her. How is a marriage going to make anything better?
Definitely the last couple shouldn't be together. It's so obvious that the girlfriend doesn't love the boyfriend at all so why bother. It's really depressing actually and if they get married and have a child, it'll be even harder to separate.
The concern with the grandmother got me crying loads even though they tried to ease the situation a bit. I really love that woman Yeongsil, she's strong minded and I really love how she tried to teach the grandma a lesson sternly, but unfortunately it seemed to me the grandma still wouldn't understand. Her responses were unsatisfactory to me..I really feel for the girl on this one.
I think I understand why Daeun was laugh so much while everyone was crying: she was probably really happy to see that other people seemed to care for this concern and how unfairly she was being treated. She probably thought she was alone on the concern and that no one else could help her but then she saw how many people were just as upset or even more and she was just so happy to see that. Idk just a hunch. I hope she gets amazing opportunities in life to make up for this cuz from the way I see it, that grandma isn't gonna change.
I never wanted to hit an old person so much in my whole life I felt so bad for the little girl the grandmas constant 'I don't remember' slowly pissed me off more and more, she treated this as a joke and wasn't serious during any of the important counselling trying to make jokes when the woman was relating her past by talking about her mother not treating her as well as her brother
+Neigh ? Same here.... No matter who that person is, I'll treat them the same way they treat others. I hate people who claim "they forget" what happened... That's because she does it all the time, while her grand-daughter ends up getting all of the blunt end of the negativity from the grandmother! Uuuuuuuuuuuugggggggghhhhh, I despise people like that grandmother.....
I fucking love Oh Yeongsil now. I'm watching The Promise and I hated her guts (her character's guts) but now I'm her biggest fan. She's a strong, bold woman. I fucking love her. I totally get her pain even though I can't directly relate. I can empathize and Oh Yeongsil appears to be one of the most empathetic women I've seen in a while.
nope. the last couple can't get married, can't he see she clearly only loves the dog, he needs to give her toro and go find someone that he can love and receive love from equally. it'll be a shame if he's stuck with her forever
This episode had the best guests. The women were so vocal and strong in their opinions. They took everything seriously and related to each concern. Better than the hosts.
2nd Concern: I don't understand how some parents/grandparents could favor one child while mistreating the other. Thats so fucked up. It doesn't take that much effort to be NICE to a person, especially a family member, so why be an asshole? Im glad that one lady actually stood up for the little girl and let that granny know.
Ikr my mom said that I act like shit once just cuz I didn't talk for a whole day and my face was expressionless😒and I'm the youngest and the only girl out of my siblings😑I hate my mom
It's fun when they have young guests, but it's really valuable to have old married experienced guests, they know ho to discuss, ask questions and give constrictive criticism. Most importantly, they know what's wright and wrong, what's important in our life.
The concerns in this episode, oh my god. They chose the proper guests to deal with these concerns as well! 1st concern: Are we really meant to do certain jobs such as "cleaning" because of the reproductive organs we were born with? Does my uterus help me clean?!?! I am sincerely confused by these gender roles! 2nd: When will the "males being superior to females" end!?! I am so sick and tired of it! From personal experiences to the experiences of others, listening to this concern just makes you angry and sad that she has to be going through this at such a young age. Why is it such a radical thought that males and females are equals and should be treated equally? And the worst part was that the Grandmother seemed to be another version of Hillary Clinton! She just happened to forgot things that would make her look bad! 3rd: This girlfriend is obsessing over the dog waayyy too much, it seems like she doesn't care about her boyfriend at all! You said you love him, but you aren't showing it at all!
Concern #1 9:12 She shouldn't have to ask you. You married her and had three kids. You own the house. Your money pays for a lot of the thing you have access too right now. Should I have to ask my job for my check each week? No, it's a give and take. Do you ask her to go to work each morning? And you don't care enough about your kids- their practically grown up. And when they do grow up and leave for college, friends, a job their going to visit their mother every year all the time and come see you out of sheer obligation. Not love. Concern #2 It's sad that she's so stuck in the past that she can't see how much the world has changed in their views towards gender roles. That little girl is so pretty, skinny and nice- their grandmother keeps feeding her bad words. She really is gonna stray if it isn't fixed. I hope her parents watched this and even if the grandmother doesn't change the parents tell her how special and wonderful she is more often- to get rid of the bad vibes. Concern #3 I love dogs but if I loved my boyfriend that much I'd at least TRY to make an effort. Not even most dog lovers go to such extremes for their dogs in place of their *loving* boyfriends. If they break up he should be spiteful and take the dog. She can go ahead and take her obsession to court but he bought it so it's his property.
But what's the thing between grandmas and their grandsons? It was the same in another episode. Grandmas adore their grandsons! It pisses me off. It's because of shit like this that we end up having men like the husband in the first concern. Smh
It's actually really annoying and so common on Asia. Im South Asian and my grandmother treats the grandsons better than the granddaughter. It was only my brother my sister and me (all the cousins are 10 years younger) and we knew we was treated differently. It really ticked me off and actually made me get panic attacks. Till this day I don't talk to her as much nor does my sister. This grandmother really needs to fix up
The thing that annoys me the most about concern #1 and concerns like it is that you are married. She shouldn't ask you to clean the house YOU also own or to help take care of the children YOU helped to make. Your wife is not a slave and stuff like this bugs me. And for both y'all have to have these discussions before marriage, not after. That things need to be 50/50 and you both work and then take care of the house or kids or pets together and equally
This is korean society which is influenced by cunfucianism. In Confucianism men are not considered equal but superior to women. That's why a lot of older people still have this mindset but it slowly changes for the better with each new generation
what I really hate most about first concern is that the kids act like they can't help out once in a while. my dosn't clean my room anymore or does my laundry. those kids are old enough to take care of themselves. or a least help around the house. I think everyone should help carry there own weight.
well its different in south korea, in s.korea education is main priority for kids especially in their age. even if they want to help they probably can't because they're drowning in school work. maybe in the weekends they could but most of the time they don't even have time to relax let alone help out.
I cried so much when the mother in the second concern said her daughter told her that she was happy eating store-bought kimbap, but then everyone started crying and I laughed out loud while crying uncontrollably. That was one of the most conflicted feelings I ever had in my life.
That grandma from the second problem is so fake. I tell you grandma, at the end of the day who will treat you well is your granddaughter. Boys will less likely to take care of you. Serve you right later in your older days for being bias towards your own granddaughter.
Last concern... Just don't get married. They're already unhappy, why would they trap each other in a marriage ? It seems that they're still a couple just because at their age, they have to quickly get married, in the eyes of the society. If the girl no longer wants to have skin touch with him, that says it all... You shouldn't be disgusted when your boyfriend tries to kiss you.
47:17 Many people may have laughed during this moment, but I saw the pain and sorrow in her eyes...it never left her. In that moment, she turned into that little girl who was confused, hurt, and felt unloved by her mom. To all parents/grandparents/guardians, please...try to love all your kids/grand-kids equally. Children are smarter than you think and understand when something is not fair. This type of favoritism leads to emotional wounds/scars to that child that will last a lifetime. In addition, this causes sibling rivalry and lifelong tension among the family/household. To those who have felt unloved by your parents/grandparents/guardians...know that you are not alone. May you be comforted by the fact that many share your story, pain, sorrow, and tears. Much love to all.
I honestly don't understand why the last couple is getting married... the man is a workaholic, barely talks about anything else to his girlfriend (it seems), the woman is obsessed with his dog and has no friends, she's crying at the thought of losing the dog NOT her boyfriend and takes him for granted. To me they lost their special connection so I don't see why they should stay together...
+funkylilmouse Was thinking the same thing. I believe this has something to do with korean culture, cause everyone even in the audience was also kinda chill about it. In our eyes it might be weird, but in korean they need to force it untill it works or something.. idk..
+nigelinoooo Yeah... I think part of it has to do with the "we've been dating for 4 years so we have to get married now, we're getting old and marriage is what we should do for stability sake". Like, after a certain age, you rush into marriage there... this and having your family and friends asking you why you're still not married. All the time.
Seems to me he is a slight workaholic but the girl is the bigger problem. It's fine that she gives attention and love to the dog since her bf is busy and cant pay as much attention but that has now devolved into their weird situation in which the bf has lost all form of importance to the gf and she cant see the severity of that.
@@nigelinoooo well it isn't culture difference.. It is a common sense to try to manage relationship if it doesn't work at all.. Then they would be easily seperated because they would have used 100% to manage.. In western.. Everyone knows that they are more run to break up or divorce than to try.. They don't have emotional stability at all.. Just being in develop country doesn't mean everything is right..
I really like it when the guests actually get involved and talk about the concern and say what they think. all of the concerns bothered me sigh..the grandmother in the second concern really bothered me.. I hope Daeun grows up to be stronger and won't hurt too much shes so young to be stressing about this :c p.s. she look like she could be mingyus little sis
I couldn't bear myself watching that first concern. One time on youtube on male domestic abuse a guy commented how housewives shouldn't expect their husbands to work all the time in office and stuff and saying they don't do ask much work as them and calling it an abuse. I ofc commented back housewives work just hard as men and then this moron replies housewives aren't bossed around or have to work under a person and how women are just in their house and should stop complaining about it. It pissed me off to the core considering how much work women has to do after her pregnancy and I hate men like him who underappreciate their wives or don't help them.
I really like the two older women. They took the concerns very seriously, which I wish the MCs would do as well, even if it's an entertainment program. Some of the concerns are pretty serious and are in need for serious conversations, not humor. I love this show, and I watch it a lot, but it never feels like anyone actually cares. I know it would probably be best for those people to talk it out or go somewhere else, like a counselor instead of a variety program, but still. Someone commented on another video saying that they should have an actual doctor or psychologist there with them as well and I totally agree. I think it would help (because I've seen concerns where someone most definitely has a mental illness but everyone takes it as something the person chooses to do).
you do know that this show is edited, alot of parts in their conversations will be removed so you don't actually know all the things they talked about. and the hosts keeps the program flowing, that's their job. if they talked as much as the two girls then they will have pointless discussions and a very long show wherein nothing will actually end.
Sorry but personally I just don't get how ppl can love an animal pet more than their boyfriend/girlfriend/close friends/family members etc. It dont make sense to me but then again there are lots of things in this world that dont make sense anyway...
+Hanna Bkgvu but human and animal is a different things. u cant just love one of them while ignore the other things... and you live and talk with people.. not a pet... u also have a family or people who love you but you just ignore them..
+kopxpert Logically she ended up caring more for the dog because the dog was actually there. She moved to Seoul ALONE for her boyfriend's sake and all he did was work, work, talk about work and do more work. She felt alone, so naturally - if he introduces a dog into their life - the dog will hold a special place with her, because it becomes her companion while he works. It makes complete sense to me that she'd drift away from her boyfriend, when he's hardly there anyway.
People treat their pets like their kids and they naturally love them like their kids. Pets always want you to be happy and will always welcome you home like you left for 2 weeks especially dogs. A great joke me teacher said to me was "If you took your significant other and your pet and locked them in a trunk for half an hour and then opened it who would still be happy to see you" and that's true haha. Dogs are loyal and give unconditional love.
Tei is such a low key sweet and considerate person. comforting the ladies without saying much .. just the type of person you would love to tell your concerns without worrying he will try to find some solutions for you. he just listens
the husband in the first concern seriously piss me off!!! he doesn't deserve her.. she is such a good person and he's selfish enough to not even care about her birthday or something more serious like her health.. just leave him so he can experience what is a life then!
Throughout the crying, I was happy to see Daeun laughing so loud. She definitely is a bright kid, but it's a shame she can't be comfortable with some of her family members
for the second concern, the host should'nt have made it comical because its a serious issue to be looked on. how can a grandmother as herself not feel guilty or remorse towards her own grandchild :-( . from someone to learn things and ways as you live life, I know that my grandma knows she loses respect from me :-( and to know what she did she laughs and states she doesn't remember is ridiculous.
This is rlly one of the most memorable eps for me ^^ This ep got awesome guests who gives great advices especially Oh Yeongsil 언니 and Hong Jinkyung 언니. They are srsly the best! 정말 사랑해요 ~ ♡ PS: Please invite them again if there would be another season of Hello Counselor 🥺 I can srsly watch and listen to the both of them for a whole century without getting tired/exhausted ❤️ PPS: They both have the most adorable laugh btw 😍 Just saying 😅
My grandmother had three daughters. My mother had two sons and me. My grandmother is very much like the grandmother in the 2nd concern. I remember when I took theater and I was asked to cry on queue I would just think about her and remind myself 'my grandmother hates me'.
oh my god...my tears suddenly come out while watching this poor wife. I keep thinking about the weeks before there were a few couples came to this show, had a problem of their spouse was too fond of them. I think the first housewife deserve a spouse that is too loving of her because I could feel that she is really kind. That guy is not just a bad husband but also a bad father. I bet he is also a bad son to his parents. I hate this kind of ungrateful man.
I don't understand why they kept telling the 1st lady its her fault because she didn't tell him anything WHEN THEY BOTH SAID SHE COMPLAINS TO HIM ALL THE TIME. Ugh, stop making excuses for careless people.
Chanwu should stop telling guests 'Stop crying. It's nothing to cry about.' This is a show about people's concern and if there are issues bothering them, they should be allowed to express sadness or annoyance, or whatever they are feeling.
the 2nd concern is actually very hurtful and has lasting impact. I grew up hating my mother because of her differential treatment toward me and my siblings. Then later on I found out that her grandma treated her pretty badly compared to her brothers as well. My mother actually think she treating her kids "equally" and in many ways she is much better than her grandma, but unconsciously she carry out a lot of the differential treatment she claimed to "hate" going up and thinking it's the norm. We had a huge fight and she slipped out saying that's how she grew up. It was hypocritical because she doing to me the exact same thing she used to hate not knowing it had ingrained in her so she could not see what she did wrong at all. When my great-grandma died, my mom didn't feel a thing. It ruined their relationship and it ruined the relationship between my mother and I as well. The worst thing is, the perpetrator (my mother and her grandma) isnt really awared of what they doing. I'm afraid I'm going to carry a lot of what they do to my kids unconsciously one day and end up distancing myself with my kid the same way my mother did with me and her grandma did with her.
The reason the dog is always trembling or seems sick is because you shave it. Pomeranians need their fur coats to keep them warm in winter and cool during the summer. It's sad that even many vets are ignorant to this.
Yeah once I saw the cut on the dog I was thinking of how short it is. I only ever get my dog a trim and only get him cut like 2-3 times a year. Plus dogs have super sensitive skin so if the cut is too short they could get sun burnt
Honestly, I think that girl in the last concern is selfish. She's lucky her boyfriend hasn't broken up with her yet. It's his dog and he can leave at anytime. I don't see why he doesn't leave though, she's ungrateful even after everything's he's done for her for 4 years. And how can you make your boyfriend wait 4+ months to kiss? If I were him, I'd take the puppy and breakup with her tbh. I get that he was busy, but he's trying and that doesn't mean she should just ignore him the way she does. And especially when she said she'll only be sad about being separated from Tor instead of her boyfriend when they breakup. That's just too messed up imo. Sorry but it's just my opinion.
+ahreum jae if i was a guy i would have left her. I don't care someone like her is so weird. She cried because of the dog but not the idea of her boyfriend leaving her :/
She complains about him always work and him being late and missing anniversaries and birthdays. But, doesn't he need to work to be able to *PAY* for the stupid vet visits that you always do. I honestly would of kicked her out and taken my dog out of spite
it's so depressing when the grandma said "i dont remember that" "i didnt see that" regarding situations that makes her granddaughter upset but she can explain clearly what the other grandsons situations (for example she said she gave the grandson more money bcs he need to buy something) and so on. she's just escaping to be blamed.
Ahhhh I remembered where I saw Oh Yeongsil before 🙌🏽 she was at Fight For My Way 😁 Other than juat some roles I think she has to be given the main roles I think she can be the strongest but sensitive inside character, that would be awesome 💯
I can so relate to the second concern, & although it doesn't seem that bad it can get worse. When I was small my brother and I went to live with my dad's mom (grandma,) and I noticed she favored my brother more than me. She was acting just like this grandma of the girl, giving more food, more freedom, more care but mine was worse, she made me clean, & punished me when I did "wrong" I was abused for 3 years both physically, mentally, emotionally while my brother was pampered & treated like a baby! (Note; we're one year apart ::() and now as the years gone by, my mom & me resent (hate) her so much for the harm she did to me & although I don't hate my brother, I still remember it & get angry. It took 3 years of therapy to get over that past but I'm so happy this little girl got support. I was younger than her, like 5yrs old.. Man this brought memories .. Haha xD
If anybody watches The Promise, you´ll understand the hate I had for Oh Yeongsil. lol but after what she said during the second concern... shes not that bad lol
When the grandma in the second concern gets older, and her lovely baby and puppy grow up and forget her, I would happily know if she can laugh like this any longer. I hope the girl won't give any fuck towards her later. Serves her right. If the grandma keep saying "I don't remember", then I wish their grandchildren would not remember about her too. An eye for an eye afterall.
Jung chanu always tells the guests not to cry and ask why they're crying and that it's not a reason to cry as if he's judging them... JUST LET THEM CRY WHY ARE YOU BEING SO JUDGMENTAL AND MAKING THEM FEEL LIKE SHT
I can't even be mad at the grandmother because she clearly doesn't realise what she is doing wrong, it's like someone asking you to apologise when you don't know what you did wrong, why apologise? This is the norm for her so she can't understand, my family is the same so i got emotional with the guests, i'm the oldest and a girl but unconsciously my mum treats me like i'm the youngest and my brothers are older, i can't even get mad so i just do what makes me happy...the last concern baffles me, like why would you want to marry someone who is only with you because they love your dog and don't want to leave your dog, i get he was neglecting her but at this point, she'll say yes to marriage because it means she gets to be with the dog. Its funny or ironic that he got it because he didn't want her to leave him...now she won't leave him but it's because she loves him. Humans!!
The 1st concern just made me so angry I mean ur wife is in pain and you dont even help her U jusr freaking staring at her when she was screaming and she drove to the hospital All by herself Yet ur excuse is "I cant close the store" my dad does that but you just drank and played pool with ur friends my dad Never does that eventhough its a long process
45:53~46:11 Eun-ji unnie LOL 🤣🤣🤣 I'm watched all episodes Eunji unnie in Hello Counselor because she is a good listener, good spokesperson and give good opinion!! Jjangg 👍👍👍
i hate when they ask why are u crying or they just laugh when the person is seriously hurt and emotional ...but i loved the guest on this ep !!! p,s the girlfriend from last concern is the worst i mean she cried because of the dog and not her boyfriend who love her a lot... sorry for the boyfriend i think he hates his dog sometimes because of her this is really sad
1st: Concern, she should have not married him or divorced him after the hand caught in the machine. Or even after he didn't show at the hospital. 2nd: Concern, I don't think the grandma will change. The grandma is in the wrong. 3rd: Concern, don't marry her. You'll just continue to have problems, considering she doesn't really love him that much. Wow video before this, I put none of them had deep problems.
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I really loved how yeongsil lectured that grandma , the hosts couldnt even stop her from talking . She took every concern seriously and didnt go with the same bullshi* " you're still young what problems do you have " the hosts usually say . She did a great job👏🏼 truly the greatest guest
these are the kind of guests we want.. specially those 2 women omg.. i loved how they were actually concerned about every story and tried to give the best advice possible...people like em are suited for hello counselor not cao lu ...
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+ninito bl 100% true
+ninito bl WHo are u talking about ? they were 3 women
+Pyriyanga Ramu ESPECIALLY those 2 women . means that she just like the 2 women .
I completely agree with you! In every episode this show should have this types of guests were they listen carefully, take the concerns seriously but not that serious and most important give wise advice to the guests! Loved this episode so much!! ❤️❤️❤️👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
especially those 2 women means she liked them the *most*
I watched Apink's Showtime and saw how Eunji treat's her little bro like a son so I'm not surprised how good she is on this show. Wise beyond her years, she always treats the concerned guests so well and gives them honest advice much like the two older women did here. It's refreshing because most of the time the celebrities that come on this show only speak up when it's time to decide on concern or no concern.
YASSSSS FINALLY SOME GOOD GUESTS I LOVE THE TWO WOMEN OMG AND WHEN THEY CRIED
Yeongsil's heartfelt comments during the second concern made me really sad :(( Her childhood must've been really difficult.
I think the grandma was so annoying, it just didn't seem like she really meant it when she said she loves her granddaughter, i don't think she's going to change.
+able2smile Yeah. it seemed like she didn't take anything seriously. especially when she kept saying that she didn't know or don't remember.
able2smile when they pointed out about her doings, she always answered that she forgot and laugh it off so i don't think she's telling the truth about forgetting it and she doesn't look like she's gonna change anyway. i feel so bad at daeun having to deal with that grandmother everyday.
People like that dont change, Very selfish and stubborn in their ways
Elderly in korean mostly like that
I just want to say how thankful I am I had a Grandmother that treated all of her grand kids special . But she did not discriminate and treated us with equal love !
+Tanya37red Same! Grandma was the one person I could count on to spoil me rotten!!
All the concerns really annoyed me today. 1st concern- I'm honestly mad at them both. The husband had NO consideration for the wife. At the same time, the wife just put up with it. 2nd concern- we all know the Grandma treats her grandsons better. I was so annoyed with her smug face and the constant "I don't remember". I don't understand how women can treat girls like that. They know what it's like to be in that position, so how could you do that to someone else? And the 3rd concern- Please don't get married. Like, the girl is only in it for the dog. The girl looked a bit grossed out when he kissed her. How is a marriage going to make anything better?
I don't think she was grossed out, I think she was just awkward in that situation.
Definitely the last couple shouldn't be together. It's so obvious that the girlfriend doesn't love the boyfriend at all so why bother. It's really depressing actually and if they get married and have a child, it'll be even harder to separate.
The concern with the grandmother got me crying loads even though they tried to ease the situation a bit. I really love that woman Yeongsil, she's strong minded and I really love how she tried to teach the grandma a lesson sternly, but unfortunately it seemed to me the grandma still wouldn't understand. Her responses were unsatisfactory to me..I really feel for the girl on this one.
I think I understand why Daeun was laugh so much while everyone was crying: she was probably really happy to see that other people seemed to care for this concern and how unfairly she was being treated. She probably thought she was alone on the concern and that no one else could help her but then she saw how many people were just as upset or even more and she was just so happy to see that. Idk just a hunch. I hope she gets amazing opportunities in life to make up for this cuz from the way I see it, that grandma isn't gonna change.
I never wanted to hit an old person so much in my whole life I felt so bad for the little girl the grandmas constant 'I don't remember' slowly pissed me off more and more, she treated this as a joke and wasn't serious during any of the important counselling trying to make jokes when the woman was relating her past by talking about her mother not treating her as well as her brother
+Neigh ? Same here.... No matter who that person is, I'll treat them the same way they treat others. I hate people who claim "they forget" what happened... That's because she does it all the time, while her grand-daughter ends up getting all of the blunt end of the negativity from the grandmother! Uuuuuuuuuuuugggggggghhhhh, I despise people like that grandmother.....
She was laughing every time she talked too. I wanted to duck tape her mouth shut.
If that grandmother was Pinocchio her nose could wrap around the earth twice.
I actually love all the guest this episode bcs the actually give their take on each of the concern . I love ittt !!! and ofcrs eunji 💙💖
I fucking love Oh Yeongsil now. I'm watching The Promise and I hated her guts (her character's guts) but now I'm her biggest fan. She's a strong, bold woman. I fucking love her. I totally get her pain even though I can't directly relate. I can empathize and Oh Yeongsil appears to be one of the most empathetic women I've seen in a while.
I also want to get to know her more!
nope. the last couple can't get married, can't he see she clearly only loves the dog, he needs to give her toro and go find someone that he can love and receive love from equally. it'll be a shame if he's stuck with her forever
This episode had the best guests. The women were so vocal and strong in their opinions. They took everything seriously and related to each concern. Better than the hosts.
that grandmother concern has me crying, it reminds me of my grandmother.
2nd Concern: I don't understand how some parents/grandparents could favor one child while mistreating the other. Thats so fucked up. It doesn't take that much effort to be NICE to a person, especially a family member, so why be an asshole? Im glad that one lady actually stood up for the little girl and let that granny know.
Ikr my mom said that I act like shit once just cuz I didn't talk for a whole day and my face was expressionless😒and I'm the youngest and the only girl out of my siblings😑I hate my mom
its like old traditions, son/grandson will give much luck than daughter/grandaughter.. thats so annoying same like me
Honestly speaking the couple in the third concern are only together because of the dog. If he's having doubts, they shouldn't get married.
It's fun when they have young guests, but it's really valuable to have old married experienced guests, they know ho to discuss, ask questions and give constrictive criticism.
Most importantly, they know what's wright and wrong, what's important in our life.
The concerns in this episode, oh my god. They chose the proper guests to deal with these concerns as well!
1st concern: Are we really meant to do certain jobs such as "cleaning" because of the reproductive organs we were born with? Does my uterus help me clean?!?! I am sincerely confused by these gender roles!
2nd: When will the "males being superior to females" end!?! I am so sick and tired of it! From personal experiences to the experiences of others, listening to this concern just makes you angry and sad that she has to be going through this at such a young age. Why is it such a radical thought that males and females are equals and should be treated equally? And the worst part was that the Grandmother seemed to be another version of Hillary Clinton! She just happened to forgot things that would make her look bad!
3rd: This girlfriend is obsessing over the dog waayyy too much, it seems like she doesn't care about her boyfriend at all! You said you love him, but you aren't showing it at all!
Concern #1 9:12 She shouldn't have to ask you. You married her and had three kids. You own the house. Your money pays for a lot of the thing you have access too right now. Should I have to ask my job for my check each week? No, it's a give and take. Do you ask her to go to work each morning? And you don't care enough about your kids- their practically grown up. And when they do grow up and leave for college, friends, a job their going to visit their mother every year all the time and come see you out of sheer obligation. Not love.
Concern #2 It's sad that she's so stuck in the past that she can't see how much the world has changed in their views towards gender roles. That little girl is so pretty, skinny and nice- their grandmother keeps feeding her bad words. She really is gonna stray if it isn't fixed. I hope her parents watched this and even if the grandmother doesn't change the parents tell her how special and wonderful she is more often- to get rid of the bad vibes.
Concern #3 I love dogs but if I loved my boyfriend that much I'd at least TRY to make an effort. Not even most dog lovers go to such extremes for their dogs in place of their *loving* boyfriends. If they break up he should be spiteful and take the dog. She can go ahead and take her obsession to court but he bought it so it's his property.
100% agree
But what's the thing between grandmas and their grandsons? It was the same in another episode. Grandmas adore their grandsons! It pisses me off. It's because of shit like this that we end up having men like the husband in the first concern. Smh
It's actually really annoying and so common on Asia. Im South Asian and my grandmother treats the grandsons better than the granddaughter. It was only my brother my sister and me (all the cousins are 10 years younger) and we knew we was treated differently. It really ticked me off and actually made me get panic attacks. Till this day I don't talk to her as much nor does my sister.
This grandmother really needs to fix up
just adore eunij's smile
The thing that annoys me the most about concern #1 and concerns like it is that you are married. She shouldn't ask you to clean the house YOU also own or to help take care of the children YOU helped to make. Your wife is not a slave and stuff like this bugs me. And for both y'all have to have these discussions before marriage, not after. That things need to be 50/50 and you both work and then take care of the house or kids or pets together and equally
This is korean society which is influenced by cunfucianism. In Confucianism men are not considered equal but superior to women. That's why a lot of older people still have this mindset but it slowly changes for the better with each new generation
Thank you, someone finally said it because I was thinking the same thing!
what I really hate most about first concern is that the kids act like they can't help out once in a while. my dosn't clean my room anymore or does my laundry. those kids are old enough to take care of themselves. or a least help around the house. I think everyone should help carry there own weight.
exactly
ikr
well its different in south korea, in s.korea education is main priority for kids especially in their age. even if they want to help they probably can't because they're drowning in school work. maybe in the weekends they could but most of the time they don't even have time to relax let alone help out.
thank you to all the great guests that didn't laugh every time the host's made a joke at a sad part.
Azyah C ikr, i love jokes and the mcs but sometimes they do jokes not at the right time
I cried so much when the mother in the second concern said her daughter told her that she was happy eating store-bought kimbap, but then everyone started crying and I laughed out loud while crying uncontrollably. That was one of the most conflicted feelings I ever had in my life.
That grandma from the second problem is so fake. I tell you grandma, at the end of the day who will treat you well is your granddaughter. Boys will less likely to take care of you. Serve you right later in your older days for being bias towards your own granddaughter.
Nini Helvetica ikr I think she wouldn’t change
Last concern... Just don't get married. They're already unhappy, why would they trap each other in a marriage ?
It seems that they're still a couple just because at their age, they have to quickly get married, in the eyes of the society.
If the girl no longer wants to have skin touch with him, that says it all... You shouldn't be disgusted when your boyfriend tries to kiss you.
came for eunji😍
47:17 Many people may have laughed during this moment, but I saw the pain and sorrow in her eyes...it never left her. In that moment, she turned into that little girl who was confused, hurt, and felt unloved by her mom. To all parents/grandparents/guardians, please...try to love all your kids/grand-kids equally. Children are smarter than you think and understand when something is not fair. This type of favoritism leads to emotional wounds/scars to that child that will last a lifetime. In addition, this causes sibling rivalry and lifelong tension among the family/household. To those who have felt unloved by your parents/grandparents/guardians...know that you are not alone. May you be comforted by the fact that many share your story, pain, sorrow, and tears. Much love to all.
i love eunji 😘
I honestly don't understand why the last couple is getting married... the man is a workaholic, barely talks about anything else to his girlfriend (it seems), the woman is obsessed with his dog and has no friends, she's crying at the thought of losing the dog NOT her boyfriend and takes him for granted. To me they lost their special connection so I don't see why they should stay together...
+funkylilmouse Was thinking the same thing. I believe this has something to do with korean culture, cause everyone even in the audience was also kinda chill about it. In our eyes it might be weird, but in korean they need to force it untill it works or something.. idk..
+nigelinoooo Yeah... I think part of it has to do with the "we've been dating for 4 years so we have to get married now, we're getting old and marriage is what we should do for stability sake". Like, after a certain age, you rush into marriage there... this and having your family and friends asking you why you're still not married. All the time.
funkylilmouse I really dislike that irrational type of thinking. It just doesn't seem logical to me lol..
Seems to me he is a slight workaholic but the girl is the bigger problem. It's fine that she gives attention and love to the dog since her bf is busy and cant pay as much attention but that has now devolved into their weird situation in which the bf has lost all form of importance to the gf and she cant see the severity of that.
@@nigelinoooo well it isn't culture difference.. It is a common sense to try to manage relationship if it doesn't work at all.. Then they would be easily seperated because they would have used 100% to manage.. In western.. Everyone knows that they are more run to break up or divorce than to try.. They don't have emotional stability at all.. Just being in develop country doesn't mean everything is right..
I really like it when the guests actually get involved and talk about the concern and say what they think. all of the concerns bothered me sigh..the grandmother in the second concern really bothered me.. I hope Daeun grows up to be stronger and won't hurt too much shes so young to be stressing about this :c
p.s. she look like she could be mingyus little sis
come here to see eunji 🙋
I couldn't bear myself watching that first concern. One time on youtube on male domestic abuse a guy commented how housewives shouldn't expect their husbands to work all the time in office and stuff and saying they don't do ask much work as them and calling it an abuse. I ofc commented back housewives work just hard as men and then this moron replies housewives aren't bossed around or have to work under a person and how women are just in their house and should stop complaining about it. It pissed me off to the core considering how much work women has to do after her pregnancy and I hate men like him who underappreciate their wives or don't help them.
I'm really pissed off to all concern today..
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Pathetic Men same especially the last one, they should break up besides the girl is not the prettiest girl
I really like the two older women. They took the concerns very seriously, which I wish the MCs would do as well, even if it's an entertainment program. Some of the concerns are pretty serious and are in need for serious conversations, not humor. I love this show, and I watch it a lot, but it never feels like anyone actually cares. I know it would probably be best for those people to talk it out or go somewhere else, like a counselor instead of a variety program, but still. Someone commented on another video saying that they should have an actual doctor or psychologist there with them as well and I totally agree. I think it would help (because I've seen concerns where someone most definitely has a mental illness but everyone takes it as something the person chooses to do).
you do know that this show is edited, alot of parts in their conversations will be removed so you don't actually know all the things they talked about. and the hosts keeps the program flowing, that's their job. if they talked as much as the two girls then they will have pointless discussions and a very long show wherein nothing will actually end.
Sorry but personally I just don't get how ppl can love an animal pet more than their boyfriend/girlfriend/close friends/family members etc. It dont make sense to me but then again there are lots of things in this world that dont make sense anyway...
+kopxpert yeah it's stupid to love a pet more.
+Hanna Bkgvu but human and animal is a different things. u cant just love one of them while ignore the other things... and you live and talk with people.. not a pet... u also have a family or people who love you but you just ignore them..
+kopxpert Logically she ended up caring more for the dog because the dog was actually there. She moved to Seoul ALONE for her boyfriend's sake and all he did was work, work, talk about work and do more work. She felt alone, so naturally - if he introduces a dog into their life - the dog will hold a special place with her, because it becomes her companion while he works. It makes complete sense to me that she'd drift away from her boyfriend, when he's hardly there anyway.
People treat their pets like their kids and they naturally love them like their kids. Pets always want you to be happy and will always welcome you home like you left for 2 weeks especially dogs.
A great joke me teacher said to me was "If you took your significant other and your pet and locked them in a trunk for half an hour and then opened it who would still be happy to see you" and that's true haha. Dogs are loyal and give unconditional love.
it's the same like some guys do love their car more than their wife/girlfriend
OMG the woman who told the grandma off is my hero haha for once, someone dares to speak seriously about a concern
Tei is such a low key sweet and considerate person. comforting the ladies without saying much .. just the type of person you would love to tell your concerns without worrying he will try to find some solutions for you. he just listens
영실님 공감 잘해주시는거같아요, 방송 초반에 혼자 의견만 주장할거면 혼자살았어야지! 이러는데 다른 엠씨들은 오바다 이런 반응인데, 5년후인 지금보면 참 맞는 말씀이에요. 그뒤로도 공감 반응 정말 잘해주시네요.
the husband in the first concern seriously piss me off!!! he doesn't deserve her.. she is such a good person and he's selfish enough to not even care about her birthday or something more serious like her health.. just leave him so he can experience what is a life then!
The second concern was soo funny and sad at the same time 😂😭💫
Sorry but I came here just because of Eunji unnie 😁❤️
The best guest ever. 🤗
Throughout the crying, I was happy to see Daeun laughing so loud. She definitely is a bright kid, but it's a shame she can't be comfortable with some of her family members
eunji unnie so pretty!!
for the second concern, the host should'nt have made it comical because its a serious issue to be looked on. how can a grandmother as herself not feel guilty or remorse towards her own grandchild :-( . from someone to learn things and ways as you live life, I know that my grandma knows she loses respect from me :-( and to know what she did she laughs and states she doesn't remember is ridiculous.
This is rlly one of the most memorable eps for me ^^ This ep got awesome guests who gives great advices especially Oh Yeongsil 언니 and Hong Jinkyung 언니. They are srsly the best! 정말 사랑해요 ~ ♡
PS: Please invite them again if there would be another season of Hello Counselor 🥺 I can srsly watch and listen to the both of them for a whole century without getting tired/exhausted ❤️
PPS: They both have the most adorable laugh btw 😍 Just saying 😅
Eunji
Awww eunji ah unnie
I love the women on the guest panel.
All the ladies that are addicted to Korean dramas should watch hello counselor. Big dose of reality 😂😂😂
Jung Eunji💞💞💞💞
Jung Eunji
Seriously, Oh Yeongsil is my new hero. What a great women!
omg my eunji baby
My grandmother had three daughters. My mother had two sons and me. My grandmother is very much like the grandmother in the 2nd concern. I remember when I took theater and I was asked to cry on queue I would just think about her and remind myself 'my grandmother hates me'.
oh my god...my tears suddenly come out while watching this poor wife. I keep thinking about the weeks before there were a few couples came to this show, had a problem of their spouse was too fond of them. I think the first housewife deserve a spouse that is too loving of her because I could feel that she is really kind. That guy is not just a bad husband but also a bad father. I bet he is also a bad son to his parents. I hate this kind of ungrateful man.
I don't understand why people just don't break up - people don't change!! Don't expect them to!!
Eunji😍
I don't understand why they kept telling the 1st lady its her fault because she didn't tell him anything WHEN THEY BOTH SAID SHE COMPLAINS TO HIM ALL THE TIME. Ugh, stop making excuses for careless people.
YESSSS EUNJI!!!
This is why I feel strongly about gender equality. Even though we've come a long way, we still have a long way to go.
Eunji 💕💕
eunji ya🙌🙌🙌
Oh Eunji don't cry ㅠㅠ
+hugo villar she was laughing, not crying. lol
Chanwu should stop telling guests 'Stop crying. It's nothing to cry about.' This is a show about people's concern and if there are issues bothering them, they should be allowed to express sadness or annoyance, or whatever they are feeling.
only here because of eunji
I am boiling with that grandmother..just laughing even caught lying in frint of many people??grrr!
the 2nd concern is actually very hurtful and has lasting impact. I grew up hating my mother because of her differential treatment toward me and my siblings. Then later on I found out that her grandma treated her pretty badly compared to her brothers as well. My mother actually think she treating her kids "equally" and in many ways she is much better than her grandma, but unconsciously she carry out a lot of the differential treatment she claimed to "hate" going up and thinking it's the norm. We had a huge fight and she slipped out saying that's how she grew up. It was hypocritical because she doing to me the exact same thing she used to hate not knowing it had ingrained in her so she could not see what she did wrong at all. When my great-grandma died, my mom didn't feel a thing. It ruined their relationship and it ruined the relationship between my mother and I as well. The worst thing is, the perpetrator (my mother and her grandma) isnt really awared of what they doing. I'm afraid I'm going to carry a lot of what they do to my kids unconsciously one day and end up distancing myself with my kid the same way my mother did with me and her grandma did with her.
Eunji is pretty
The reason the dog is always trembling or seems sick is because you shave it. Pomeranians need their fur coats to keep them warm in winter and cool during the summer. It's sad that even many vets are ignorant to this.
Yeah once I saw the cut on the dog I was thinking of how short it is. I only ever get my dog a trim and only get him cut like 2-3 times a year. Plus dogs have super sensitive skin so if the cut is too short they could get sun burnt
Honestly, I think that girl in the last concern is selfish. She's lucky her boyfriend hasn't broken up with her yet. It's his dog and he can leave at anytime. I don't see why he doesn't leave though, she's ungrateful even after everything's he's done for her for 4 years. And how can you make your boyfriend wait 4+ months to kiss? If I were him, I'd take the puppy and breakup with her tbh. I get that he was busy, but he's trying and that doesn't mean she should just ignore him the way she does. And especially when she said she'll only be sad about being separated from Tor instead of her boyfriend when they breakup. That's just too messed up imo. Sorry but it's just my opinion.
+ahreum jae if i was a guy i would have left her. I don't care someone like her is so weird. She cried because of the dog but not the idea of her boyfriend leaving her :/
She complains about him always work and him being late and missing anniversaries and birthdays. But, doesn't he need to work to be able to *PAY* for the stupid vet visits that you always do. I honestly would of kicked her out and taken my dog out of spite
this grandma is fake just can't. I am thankful my grandparents treated us all the same.
Eunji 😘😘😘
it's so depressing when the grandma said "i dont remember that" "i didnt see that" regarding situations that makes her granddaughter upset but she can explain clearly what the other grandsons situations (for example she said she gave the grandson more money bcs he need to buy something) and so on. she's just escaping to be blamed.
Ahhhh I remembered where I saw Oh Yeongsil before 🙌🏽 she was at Fight For My Way 😁
Other than juat some roles I think she has to be given the main roles I think she can be the strongest but sensitive inside character, that would be awesome 💯
I can so relate to the second concern, & although it doesn't seem that bad it can get worse. When I was small my brother and I went to live with my dad's mom (grandma,) and I noticed she favored my brother more than me. She was acting just like this grandma of the girl, giving more food, more freedom, more care but mine was worse, she made me clean, & punished me when I did "wrong" I was abused for 3 years both physically, mentally, emotionally while my brother was pampered & treated like a baby! (Note; we're one year apart ::() and now as the years gone by, my mom & me resent (hate) her so much for the harm she did to me & although I don't hate my brother, I still remember it & get angry. It took 3 years of therapy to get over that past but I'm so happy this little girl got support. I was younger than her, like 5yrs old.. Man this brought memories .. Haha xD
If anybody watches The Promise, you´ll understand the hate I had for Oh Yeongsil. lol but after what she said during the second concern... shes not that bad lol
Ikr 😂😂😂
When the grandma in the second concern gets older, and her lovely baby and puppy grow up and forget her, I would happily know if she can laugh like this any longer. I hope the girl won't give any fuck towards her later. Serves her right. If the grandma keep saying "I don't remember", then I wish their grandchildren would not remember about her too. An eye for an eye afterall.
around 45:42 it made me cry but also made me laugh because of his expression
eunji!!!!!!!
first concern was super upsetting T.T
Jung chanu always tells the guests not to cry and ask why they're crying and that it's not a reason to cry as if he's judging them... JUST LET THEM CRY WHY ARE YOU BEING SO JUDGMENTAL AND MAKING THEM FEEL LIKE SHT
Eunji :3
I can't even be mad at the grandmother because she clearly doesn't realise what she is doing wrong, it's like someone asking you to apologise when you don't know what you did wrong, why apologise? This is the norm for her so she can't understand, my family is the same so i got emotional with the guests, i'm the oldest and a girl but unconsciously my mum treats me like i'm the youngest and my brothers are older, i can't even get mad so i just do what makes me happy...the last concern baffles me, like why would you want to marry someone who is only with you because they love your dog and don't want to leave your dog, i get he was neglecting her but at this point, she'll say yes to marriage because it means she gets to be with the dog. Its funny or ironic that he got it because he didn't want her to leave him...now she won't leave him but it's because she loves him. Humans!!
Oh yeongsil literally play the role so good 😭
The 1st concern just made me so angry
I mean ur wife is in pain and you dont even help her
U jusr freaking staring at her when she was screaming and she drove to the hospital
All by herself
Yet ur excuse is
"I cant close the store" my dad does that but you just drank and played pool with ur friends my dad
Never does that eventhough its a long process
45:53~46:11 Eun-ji unnie LOL 🤣🤣🤣
I'm watched all episodes Eunji unnie in Hello Counselor because she is a good listener, good spokesperson and give good opinion!! Jjangg 👍👍👍
Omg the 2nd concern... could totally relate to it as I experience it a lot.. Asian culture just values men more than women...
i hate when they ask why are u crying or they just laugh when the person is seriously hurt and emotional ...but i loved the guest on this ep !!! p,s the girlfriend from last concern is the worst i mean she cried because of the dog and not her boyfriend who love her a lot... sorry for the boyfriend i think he hates his dog sometimes because of her this is really sad
1st: Concern, she should have not married him or divorced him after the hand caught in the machine. Or even after he didn't show at the hospital.
2nd: Concern, I don't think the grandma will change. The grandma is in the wrong.
3rd: Concern, don't marry her. You'll just continue to have problems, considering she doesn't really love him that much.
Wow video before this, I put none of them had deep problems.
he should break up and give tor as a breakup gift to her. their relationship is based on only that dog
Her loneliness became selfishness... She isnt even treating him as a person anymore... Her love map got warped.
Yeongsil is wrong saying it isnt a concern.. It is really big. Relationship devolved into something super unhealthy.
the 1st concern, the 2 older kids could help do chores around the house too. they're big enough especially the senior one.
I bet you the daughter has to help raise the baby because the deadbeat dad doesn't do shit.
This episode was the most saddest one