Meredith tells her Kids Derek is Dead Scene Grey's Anatomy 13x08

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  • @alexroldan45
    @alexroldan45 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8056

    "Then you should go in there and fix him" 💔 the way Mer said "Zola..." after that, i can feel her heart breaking. Ellen deserves an emmy!!

    • @AnriSeanScott
      @AnriSeanScott 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Alex Roldan i knoooooooow, im crying

    • @adrianaavila8853
      @adrianaavila8853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Same!! I love all her breathy gasps and that defeated whisper. It’s so painful.

    • @Baked-Physics
      @Baked-Physics 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😭😭😭

    • @rlynn8249
      @rlynn8249 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Yepajw bruh you’re missing the point shut up 😂

    • @itsbecky1287
      @itsbecky1287 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I knowwww 😭😭🥺🥺

  • @aavalos7611
    @aavalos7611 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12901

    Why am I choosing to relive this?

    • @holli_bells7048
      @holli_bells7048 7 ปีที่แล้ว +187

      Same like why am I laying here at 1am crying

    • @michaelstop553
      @michaelstop553 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Holli Boyd ME I'm doing that rnnnn

    • @Bella-jd9li
      @Bella-jd9li 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Holli Boyd SAME

    • @angeleepdejesus
      @angeleepdejesus 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly what I'm doing rn

    • @jaylamarie5884
      @jaylamarie5884 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amaris Avalos CASTiellllll

  • @kt0028
    @kt0028 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11199

    This was more sad than Derek's actual death.

    • @bellab3352
      @bellab3352 6 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      loser kaitt AGREED IM
      CRYING MY EYES OUT

    • @amberkaleda7305
      @amberkaleda7305 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Kait The Great WAIT HE IS DEAD IN REAL LIFE🤯🤯🤯🤯

    • @vrqay8025
      @vrqay8025 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Amber D no she means this scene

    • @youarebeautiful7434
      @youarebeautiful7434 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      i disagree

    • @lilyhughes8939
      @lilyhughes8939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@amberkaleda7305 No

  • @giangho4549
    @giangho4549 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5126

    As a surgeon, Mer knew she had to break the bad news in the most direct way possible, so that the patient's families do not have the false impression that there is still hope. She didn't say "Daddy is in heaven" or sth like that. She said it very clear "Daddy died". The pain in Mer's eyes when she said those words was unimaginable, but the kids needed to know the truth.

    • @kaylamercer9791
      @kaylamercer9791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Giang Hồ so you say no heaven you say no hell where will you go are you saying there is no where to go so I will NEVER see my dog or Dad again

    • @maybeaneagle6798
      @maybeaneagle6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@kaylamercer9791 There is heaven and you'll see them again.

    • @kayleebenoit9765
      @kayleebenoit9765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Giang Hồ everyone is saying how this is heaven and such but I want to become a surgeon and I 100% agree with what u said

    • @cheaman4625
      @cheaman4625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Kayla Mercer it’s what you believe. Believing in heaven is perfectly okay. I believe that after you die, there is nothing. you will have no consciousness. As much as I hate it and don’t want it to be true, I also think it’s the natural order of things. that’s why we should enjoy life while we’re still living it.

    • @user-si2wi4sk2u
      @user-si2wi4sk2u 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Nah these are not only kids but they are her own kids, she could have been a little less harsh

  • @janelleperez9466
    @janelleperez9466 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4168

    so sad zolas face when merdith told her the news was so sad

    • @stacie7766
      @stacie7766 7 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Sartorius Riggs
      Yes... Great acting for a child that young.

    • @stacie7766
      @stacie7766 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      DEFINITELY!!!!

    • @daniellecollins6199
      @daniellecollins6199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So sad and so well acted. Just llike going through my own father's death.

    • @DMomsFan1
      @DMomsFan1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shes an amazing actress omgg

  • @ellat8385
    @ellat8385 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3839

    Show of hands if you cried🖐🏼🖐🏼🖐🏼🖐🏼

    • @caitlinniheara383
      @caitlinniheara383 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ella 🖐🏻🖐🏻🖐🏻

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      @xxmysterii7626 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

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      @aniyyadent2949 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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      @madison5906 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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      @reaganipock2517 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @izievalo6319
    @izievalo6319 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8885

    give ellen an emmy already
    Edit: so happy for the number of likes in this comment..so glad that we all acknowledge a great performance. Love to ya all 🙏

    • @queen.b7751
      @queen.b7751 7 ปีที่แล้ว +185

      Izie Valo YES Ellen Pompeo deserves every award because she's just amazing ❤

    • @victorclier8095
      @victorclier8095 6 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      I agree. Her acting is almost perfect. I just don't understand why Meredith was basically only looking at Zola while her other (younger) child just stood there looking sad. Meredith seemed to care about Zola's reaction only. That took me out of the scene completely, despite how great the acting was.

    • @niyatiarun
      @niyatiarun 6 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Victor Clier that's cause her son is too young to understand

    • @izievalo6319
      @izievalo6319 6 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Victor Clier bailey is too young and poor zola who adored her daddy had questions... :(

    • @grung3princ3ss_46
      @grung3princ3ss_46 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Izie Valo yea she deserves one more than Katherine Heigl did

  • @Lilyrn_
    @Lilyrn_ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2950

    I do not understand why Ellen still has not won the Emmy. She is brilliant 👏

    • @DeeDeeFatmLoverWanab
      @DeeDeeFatmLoverWanab 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      She has already won emmys lmao

    • @greysanatomy105
      @greysanatomy105 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ik

    • @Luke-zv5bk
      @Luke-zv5bk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@DeeDeeFatmLoverWanab No she hasn't.

    • @enzomartinez8083
      @enzomartinez8083 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Luke-zv5bk really? I thought she has

    • @Luke-zv5bk
      @Luke-zv5bk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@enzomartinez8083 nope hasn't even been nominated

  • @alamoja
    @alamoja 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6077

    It's 2017 and I'm still pissed off about his death. 😡

    • @queeniemarigold
      @queeniemarigold 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      alamoja me too😡😭

    • @poolygaray
      @poolygaray 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      alamoja fuck Patrick dempsey, he wanted to get out of the serie... You basically start de serie just to get to the point when they are finally and totally happy, but certainly, it never comes.....

    • @sydneyredgem6953
      @sydneyredgem6953 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      alamoja Im extremely pissed off as well BECAUSE THEY NEED TO START GREYS ANATOMY AGAIN ON Netflix I'm really starting to miss all watching new episodes and they need to put some more episodes on Netflix so I can watch Netflix and chill and I'm really upset about Derek's death shouldn't have happened I really wish you didn't PS sorry This comment is so long.

    • @alexandriacanaan8165
      @alexandriacanaan8165 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      alamoja I will forever be pissed, I’m still pissed about Denny, Lexie, and Mark I hate this show so much but I love it, I hate Shonda HATE HER

    • @winterbonnie_8
      @winterbonnie_8 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      2018 and I'm pissed off about all the characters killed off

  • @maliatatehill894
    @maliatatehill894 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2522

    girl: "Is he hurt?"
    me: " Not anymore sweetie."

    • @linglingsviolin3454
      @linglingsviolin3454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      i hate you for this😭😂

    • @luna6731
      @luna6731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Okay, demon 💔😂😂😂

    • @getbruhd6087
      @getbruhd6087 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why are y’all hating on her, She’s saying he’s not hurting anymore because he’s in heaven

    • @5minutes999
      @5minutes999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@getbruhd6087 I think it's a quote from a different death scene, so now they're reminded of that one too lol

  • @cutekeona1
    @cutekeona1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +551

    Zola has it rough so many of her “uncles” and “aunts” have died or gotten sick or just picked up and left . At this point she’s going to have attachment issues. I HOPE years later they make her life story 🙏

    • @BellesView
      @BellesView 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Right?! I’m rooting for that little girl all day.

    • @juliamiller5120
      @juliamiller5120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      They show that she’s wise beyond her years. There was one scene that I love where Zola asks Meredith “Why don’t you want to date?” and Meredith says “Because I’ve already had one great love in my life. And I don’t want to be greedy.” And Zola responds “I don’t think it’s like eating candy. I don’t think you can fill up on it, or have too much of it.”

  • @maxgibson4674
    @maxgibson4674 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1474

    I can't see the comments because my eyes are so full of tears!

  • @amayahelen610
    @amayahelen610 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1824

    *Meredith- No one can fix him Zola daddy died*
    Me- *crying me eyes out*
    My brother- ARE YOU REALLY CRYING BECAUSE OF A SHOW
    Me- YES YOU TRY WATCHING AN ATTACHING SHOW WHERE EVERYONE DIES

    • @stacie7766
      @stacie7766 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Amaya Helen
      My fiancee said the same thing the other day. I was watching the episodes after the plane crash.
      When Lexie, and Mark died.
      My fiancee: Are you seriously crying over a TV show???
      Me:. When you watch these shows for so long you grow attached to the characters asshole. ( While crying)

    • @MrFredoMty
      @MrFredoMty 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stop watching it. Stop cry!!! Shut up and enjoy it dude or girl... who cares!!!

    • @tommy25185
      @tommy25185 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amaya Helen I burst into tears when the plane crash happened

    • @raymesummers2021
      @raymesummers2021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Do you mean crying my eyes out instead of crying me eyes out?

    • @thanishatharik4323
      @thanishatharik4323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I remember my mum introduced me to the show so she watched the scene b4 me and I remember calling her up cause I was gonna ask something and she’s crying me clueless and worried am like are you ok? What happened? And she crying her eyes out and is like Derek died (p.s she loves Derek) and standing there like ??? I now understand

  • @AsToldByAutumn
    @AsToldByAutumn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +854

    I will never in my life forgive Shonda for the death of Derek Damn Shepherd.

    • @Netalula0707
      @Netalula0707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Apparently workingg with Dempsey was hell, and he was a horrible person on set. People say he is a total diva and extremely entitled. Same with why Burke's actor left - he was extremely rude, was super homophobic, and outed Geroge's actor as gay (reason why he left, after being fed up with Burke's actor's behavior). Katherine Heigl left apparently because she was also extremely difficult to work with, in addition to the fact that she became super busy during those years due to multiple movie roles. Don't remember why Sandra Oh left, though.

    • @lializ7494
      @lializ7494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@Netalula0707 I think it was actually the other way round. The thing with burkes actor is true but the others left because they didn't get along with the director because she was super difficult to work with. At least that's what I've heard.

    • @Netalula0707
      @Netalula0707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lializ7494 you could be right but i know I'm not wrong.

    • @mckennacrawford1041
      @mckennacrawford1041 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Neta Li Bar-Sadeh she left cuz she wanted to let yang go

    • @rina.1799
      @rina.1799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Autumn Nicaleh Patrick wanted to leave.
      It was the only way he could leave without a break up between derek and Meredith. I like this way more then a break up between them.
      I watched yesterday these episodes of his dead and it’s soo horrible

  • @tanishachander
    @tanishachander 4 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    The pain and anger in Meredith’s voice is heartbreaking, she lost the person who she loved most in this world. What’s worse is that she had to tell her children that no one could save Derek and that he’s dead. Meredith was so broken that everything she ever fought for and loved had just been taken away from her, the light in her eyes has disappeared and the smile that she had is no longer there. She will never get that back because the person who made her feel that way is gone forever. They deserved a better ending. I don’t know why I chose to relive this moment. 😭😢

    • @hello-vx6kw
      @hello-vx6kw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      we know it's hurt her when she acted like that, even when everyone died she still can say the word they died without hestitating in this one she paused so many times to say it and that's when we knew how much his death affected her 💔

  • @theartistdrunkonart
    @theartistdrunkonart 6 ปีที่แล้ว +498

    "Daddy died." Man, that got got to me. That really sucks!

  • @caprisestalling105
    @caprisestalling105 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6319

    I'm in tears and I'm only on season 4 😂

    • @tombblood3575
      @tombblood3575 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Caprise Stalling I'm on season 12

    • @isabellekay5057
      @isabellekay5057 7 ปีที่แล้ว +159

      am i the only who noticed that Bailey(her son) was a baby the episode that Derek died but in this flash back he is much older?

    • @ramyaathreya8328
      @ramyaathreya8328 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I just finished season 8 and I'm gonna stop

    • @isabellekay5057
      @isabellekay5057 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Spiler alert- When he Derek died he was then she went of to9 months to give birth to elis

    • @isabellekay5057
      @isabellekay5057 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sarah Hall sure he was, go back to the original episode and you can see him in his stroller, dont forget the next episode was 9 months after the death

  • @hh0neyy
    @hh0neyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +589

    Zola: Where's daddy? Is he here?
    Mer: Remember daddy, he was driving in his car.
    Zola: Yeah! Is he coming home soon?
    Mer: No, he was in an accident.
    Zola: Oh... Well, is he hurt?
    Mer: He was.
    Zola: Are the doctors fixing him? Is he going to surgery?
    Mer: No, they can't fix him.
    Zola: Then you should go in there and fix him.
    Mer: Zola..
    Zola: You fix everyone!
    Mer: Zola, I can't fix him.
    Zola: Why??
    Mer: I can't fix him, because- because no one can fix him. Because he's dead, Zola. Daddy died.
    I'm just going to my bedroom corner and cry.

  • @JordyJordyMan
    @JordyJordyMan 7 ปีที่แล้ว +833

    Wow, I've never watch Grey's Anatomy, but it's sending chill through my spine.

    • @JordyJordyMan
      @JordyJordyMan 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yeah I think I'm gonna start soon

    • @kimberleymorris8052
      @kimberleymorris8052 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jay I'm rewatching it now although I have to buy seasons 10,11 and 12

    • @jordanfreeman1306
      @jordanfreeman1306 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If you do please prepare to cry it's ally of sad scenes :'(

    • @cabbie9727
      @cabbie9727 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kim Morris 10,11,& 12 r on Netflix

    • @doglicks1934
      @doglicks1934 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Josephine Hanes-Dean a TV show shouldn't be deciding your career

  • @morgyn_m
    @morgyn_m 6 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    “You try and fix him! You can fix everyone!!!” That got me 😭😭😭😭 I also love how Zola hugs Meredith first

  • @eirabautista9882
    @eirabautista9882 6 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    I remembered the first time derek carried zola. It was precious. I feel sad for zola and im sobbing 😭

    • @marlindaabad1620
      @marlindaabad1620 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Zola is a Daddy's girl. It was Derek who saw her first and that day he immediately decided that they would adopt her. He could not let go of her when the social worker gave them a minute to say goodbye, when Zola was taken away from them (temporarily). He's been kissing her and hugged her so tight.

  • @marigoldgreen5006
    @marigoldgreen5006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I personally loved how simple and drama-free this episode was. I don’t understand how people felt this was boring. It was a nice break from everything going on with the 500 other characters and took this show back it’s roots.

  • @kaylapuppyss
    @kaylapuppyss 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I cried during this scene, Meredith is trying to hold her shit together for her babies when all she wants to do is break down..... She lost so many people that it’s just devastating

  • @JordansLife
    @JordansLife 6 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    The moment Grey’s Anatomy changed forever...

    • @vijiviji5977
      @vijiviji5977 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly .....already changes occur...this one was totally confirmed...😢

    • @enzomartinez8083
      @enzomartinez8083 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It changed when George died..

    • @jacobplays6917
      @jacobplays6917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No that was when George died

    • @j-id2zt
      @j-id2zt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Should've ended when Derek died

    • @j-id2zt
      @j-id2zt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or when the plane crash happened

  • @aarickaandrews6290
    @aarickaandrews6290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    As someone who lost her dad when she was around Zola’s age, my heart broke for her.
    “Daddy died”💔😭

  • @marykate2225
    @marykate2225 7 ปีที่แล้ว +430

    Who put this bowl of onions here?

    • @loveinspired7
      @loveinspired7 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mary Kate 🤣🤣😢😢

    • @OlEvilEye97
      @OlEvilEye97 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh my bad 😂😂😭😭

    • @zaleahpalmer5452
      @zaleahpalmer5452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shonda (the creator😂

  • @brynburbank2670
    @brynburbank2670 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1006

    NO I'm on my period, I'm on the bathroom floor sobbing! Frickin emotional over here.

  • @Lunarayz.photos
    @Lunarayz.photos 7 ปีที่แล้ว +325

    I have never seen an episode of the show but wow this killed me

    • @MostlyAnimatedSketches
      @MostlyAnimatedSketches 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nicki S ugh same

    • @danad3838
      @danad3838 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SAMEEE

    • @TheCarolyncmstewart
      @TheCarolyncmstewart 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U need to start

    • @JJuliaSmile
      @JJuliaSmile 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Now imagine having watched every damn episode💔😭😭😭

    • @gracel1814
      @gracel1814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's even worse when you know the character...he was the best. You should watch it but I reccomend stopping after season 10

  • @morganmason5356
    @morganmason5356 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    No young child should ever have to hear the words “Daddy died”...they don’t belong together...they’re so sad. Honestly this scene was sadder than Derrick’s actual death to me ...I’m going to go hug my dad. And curse shonda rhymes for making this show so sad and tragic! Bravo to the actors! This scene was so well done!

  • @mid2584
    @mid2584 7 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    Daddy didn't have to die

    • @loveinspired7
      @loveinspired7 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Claire Fairbanks There was no other way to explain Derek's absence from the show...he never would've simply left or abandon his wife and children. When Patrick Dempsey decided to leave the show, they HAD to kill off his character. No other explanation would've made sense.

    • @leonahudgins1899
      @leonahudgins1899 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      loveinspired7 SPOILER IF HAVENT SEEN SEASON 14 he could've left like April left could've just decide to do something elsr

    • @goodkatze1567
      @goodkatze1567 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well logically for the actor yes he had to die... but considering he was looking for his ringing phone in the middle of the road, in a curve, it was definitely Derek's fault he got hit.

    • @gracel1814
      @gracel1814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      IF HE HAD GOTTEN A HEAD CT

  • @edmary21
    @edmary21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    As a doctor, it is particularly painful for me when Zola says: "you fix everyone" because it is true, we have been able to fix so many people and sometimes we cannot fix the people we love the most and we must let them go. This scene is the real life of a doctor.

  • @jonina9283
    @jonina9283 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    A lot of people said Meredith showed more emotions when Derek died in her dream, But that’s not the case. When Derek actually died, for real. Meredith was in SO much pain, it was like she went numb right then and there. The agony was a lot. We didn’t physically see Meredith, but when she left Seattle you knew she was torn apart from the inside out. But she had to be strong for her babies, and I bet when Ellis came into the mix, it gave her a little sense of peace. As the show continues we see more and more into what she had and is going through all the time. Meredith is one of my favorites, her character development is truly amazing!🥺❤️

    • @marlindaabad1620
      @marlindaabad1620 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      After giving birth to Ellis, the first thing Meredith said "she saw Derek in her. She's beautiful."

    • @DelishaPowell
      @DelishaPowell 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She literally passed out when she told everyone at the hospital

  • @mickalfaromangahis4255
    @mickalfaromangahis4255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Zola: “you should go in there and fix him!”
    Meredith: “Zola...”
    Zola: “you fix everyone!”
    The gravity of that exchange...

  • @May-pr3th
    @May-pr3th 6 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    "Daddy died"
    I CAN'T STOP MY TEARS

  • @christielozada9352
    @christielozada9352 7 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    Im done this show is nothing to me anymore with without Geroge or Izzy or Christina and Mark, Derek, Lexie, see that its evrey one no one is left

    • @jaquiemaclean9581
      @jaquiemaclean9581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      those were the best caracters

    • @jazzlenee
      @jazzlenee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Christie Lozada only ugly deluca smh

    • @mckennacrawford1041
      @mckennacrawford1041 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea they had to go they wanted to go and the thing is I think it’s sad to see them go but as well but then new people come in with new story lines and we love them I am a die hard and if you think greys anatomy got bad your not a true fan

    • @comizzy
      @comizzy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      And ALEX LEFT TO NOW UGH

  • @jultinki6805
    @jultinki6805 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i can’t even see Merediths face anymore bc always when i loook at her i have to cry she had to go through so much she don’t deserve that like let her be happy and don’t break her again writers

  • @katjoy9260
    @katjoy9260 7 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    I feel bad for zo zo

  • @amayahelen610
    @amayahelen610 7 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Wtf would I put myself through this pain again at one in the morning😭😭

  • @tiffanypark9029
    @tiffanypark9029 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    THE WAY SHE SAYS 'ZOLA' AT 1:11 IS SO HEARTBREAKING

  • @user-zr6oq2zy6z
    @user-zr6oq2zy6z 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    "i'm just a girl in a bar"

  • @baka9684
    @baka9684 6 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    “then you should go in there and fix him. you fix everyone.” my heart is GONE. dEAD.

  • @Redmerlegirl
    @Redmerlegirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    the fact that this scene still makes me sob every time is proof that ellen's an incredibly talented actress. you can hear the heartbreak in her voice, it's almost as if she's lost the love of her life in real life as well. most actresses would not be able to fake that emotion so well, it's truly impressive

  • @juliana.gallegos
    @juliana.gallegos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It’s been years and I will never stop sobbing over this scene. This scene broke my heart. No parent should ever have to tell their kids that they father has died.

    • @jasminebritting4310
      @jasminebritting4310 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you know why they cut this scene from the show?? It wasn’t there when I watched it on Netflix

    • @Alexxxxxxxxxx3577
      @Alexxxxxxxxxx3577 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jasminebritting4310they didn’t cut it. This specific scene happened in a later episode when the doctors are remembering personal losses while performing surgery. It didn’t happen in the episode where Derek died

  • @fafaescalante2057
    @fafaescalante2057 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I cant get over this scene 😭 gets me everytime

  • @meredithkelly9575
    @meredithkelly9575 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I’m on season 2, but I don’t care. I sobbed. Derek is perfect.

  • @BooksInTheVoid
    @BooksInTheVoid 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The look in Zola's eyes seeing her mom about to cry, and comforting her first. What a great scene.

  • @justasockonhere
    @justasockonhere 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    These are the moments where you can see the writing that made Grey's Anatomy such a powerful show

  • @simply.shanny3012
    @simply.shanny3012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2020 and I am still not over Dereks death. It was so nice to see him in a few episodes of season 17 but....this show will never be the same.

  • @amberkaleda7305
    @amberkaleda7305 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I feel like it’s so amazing that her kids comfort her before they even get emotional

  • @katiepengelly3432
    @katiepengelly3432 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    2020 and I’m still heartbroken this happened

  • @katiel3968
    @katiel3968 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Pretty sure I cried at his death more than Meredith and Amelia throughout the whole show ;((

  • @madisonlounds7652
    @madisonlounds7652 7 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Why did I do this to myself

    • @MadiIgnacia
      @MadiIgnacia 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      TikiTopaz same here

    • @chiasamenpudding147
      @chiasamenpudding147 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      same, I didn‘t handle it well the first time I saw this, and I still didn‘t recover from this

  • @nebulaofemily
    @nebulaofemily 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I'm only on season 9 and omg his scrub cap on her head 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @bigtime7724
    @bigtime7724 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This is so sad am hurting right how I have no clue why I'm watching this. I just lost my cousin and her friend in a car accident this year January 2 2016 she was my bestfriend I use to hate when I would you for walks with my grand dad and she use to come now I just want her back i need her she was my angle I love her she use to allways have a smile on her face I just want her back this is our first chrismas without her

    • @xplayerheartx9343
      @xplayerheartx9343 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m sorry for your lost! Stay strong! ♥️

  • @carlyshay514
    @carlyshay514 7 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I AM LITERALLY BAWLING. NOT CRYING, BAWLING

  • @traviieza94
    @traviieza94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When she hugged them, I remembered when derek said he wanted a baby bc if anything were to happen to him he didn't want mer to be alone 😭

  • @ffestivelizzie
    @ffestivelizzie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Zola’s heartbroken face just gifted me so badly. Is it wrong that I want to sob with them? I know how hard it is to loose someone, so I just want to be there with them, hugging them tightly. But the only difference is I didn’t get to say goodbye or even attend their funeral. I think that’s why the Grey’s Anatomy deaths hurt even more than other people... 😭💔

  • @Eguzzisme
    @Eguzzisme 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That little girl was so convincing. It broke my heart. I’ll never forget when my husband collapsed, and they tried to revive him. Right in our bedroom. Our two kids witnessed the whole thing. It was the worst day of my life.

  • @alexisbailey8359
    @alexisbailey8359 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love the music to this. So haunting.

  • @Proj3ctX1
    @Proj3ctX1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Derek dying was the first and only time where I legit felt numb from a fictional characters death.

  • @luanameira5795
    @luanameira5795 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I lost my dad when I was a kid and I remember how my mom told me... this scene was so real

  • @Torib.24_
    @Torib.24_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is the most underrated sad scene in greys ever

  • @ruanmelina
    @ruanmelina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When you decide to finally watch grey's anatomy and youtube shows you this scene. Well damn

    • @jasminebritting4310
      @jasminebritting4310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You have to watch it. It’s so good. I knew he was going to die throughout the whole show and I still cried my eyes out lol

  • @reingrace9040
    @reingrace9040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    ellen's acting here is just so phenomenal to the point that it feels real for everyone watching

    • @Winchester1589
      @Winchester1589 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It was that way when I watched Derek’s death scene. I never stop thinking about it after I saw it. It felt personal. It felt real. That kinda acting deserve more recognition

  • @brynnhill8342
    @brynnhill8342 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    R.I.P. Derek Christopher Shepherd. 💔

  • @taniaaaa.y
    @taniaaaa.y 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    this made me cry

  • @delpicsla65
    @delpicsla65 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    What’s so sad is that I think Meredith was pregnant with Derek’s child here and he didn’t even know. He died thinking he was a father of two, not a father to be. He will never meet his other child and he didn’t even know Meredith was pregnant.

    • @snowmansparkles
      @snowmansparkles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That could be true because Ellis was conceived the day before the accident.

  • @mermaidgirl0075
    @mermaidgirl0075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When your being told someone died even if it’s not someone you know it HURTS it is the WORST PAIN EVER and this This brings back memorys

  • @TERREN65
    @TERREN65 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    My Heart. 💔

  • @halleschart4495
    @halleschart4495 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    i'm not crying you are😭

  • @amberlee.nycole.perrine8150
    @amberlee.nycole.perrine8150 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This scene broke me. I can't imagine telling my children someone they loved is dead. My son LOVES his great grandmother, she is almost in her 70's, i can already tell that we would both be crying and I would be broken trying to tell him.

  • @m0sthated80
    @m0sthated80 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You can feel their pain through the screen . Good acting

  • @madelinegarber7860
    @madelinegarber7860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg this hurts! I’m all emotional now. And Zola just hugging her broke my heart. I felt like she was saying that Derik was dead was to drive it home for herself as well as her kids.

  • @g00glesucksatprivacy60
    @g00glesucksatprivacy60 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is the most heartbreaking moment of Grey’s

  • @ronnyraves
    @ronnyraves 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How this show has grown. From season one to now. It has been such an emotional roller coaster

  • @addisonrutter5004
    @addisonrutter5004 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    why do i keep watching this again? It makes me sob every single time

  • @livsaph6
    @livsaph6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    she ignored bailey this whole scene like she was straight talking to zola only💀

    • @abidanielson2747
      @abidanielson2747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      my guy bailey didn’t know his dad he’s 2 ... zola knew derek had a longer relationship with her dad

    • @otakub3atz2397
      @otakub3atz2397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He's a child actor, the emotions can only go so far. Zola's actor is struggling too

  • @samriddhivikrant6238
    @samriddhivikrant6238 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It's 2020 and I am still sad about his death

  • @cashthedash8104
    @cashthedash8104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dude, when Meredith said “ Daddy died” that hurt

  • @Itsella687
    @Itsella687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Never seen the show but I’m still crying 😞 I can’t imagine loosing my dad the thought kills my soul
    “Daddy died” I can just hear my mom saying that and I know I would break down in tears I just don’t want to grow up😖 I want to be daddy’s little princess again

  • @lorabeehler9392
    @lorabeehler9392 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    it made me cry he was my favorite

  • @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327
    @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The innocence and confusion in Zola’s voice kills me. I don’t even watch this show and I’m struggling to hold it together.

  • @hollyvlogs8949
    @hollyvlogs8949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Zola broke my heart when she asked “are the doctors fixing him” I’m ligit crying 😢

  • @bridgetteswebb
    @bridgetteswebb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It’s 2019 I’m still hurt 😩😭😭🤦🏿‍♀️

    • @sofiaagha-khan2559
      @sofiaagha-khan2559 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bridgette Webb ikr 😭

    • @jaz4165
      @jaz4165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bridgette Webb same😭😭😭

  • @kiwocolate5103
    @kiwocolate5103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i always think i can manage to watch it without crying until zola says "you fix everyone!"

  • @weepingwillows21
    @weepingwillows21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh. poor Meredith. Despite how hard she tries, this is a wound that may never heal fully. I feel so bad for the kids too.

  • @babyyyvero
    @babyyyvero 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “Daddy died” i held myself together till i heard that 💔

  • @makayla1933
    @makayla1933 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I cry every time I watch this scene, this is why I just re-watch all the episodes before season 11 and if I watch past season 11 it’s boring. So yeah.

  • @lauraavasquezz
    @lauraavasquezz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've seen this episode so many times but man this always fucks me up

    • @rillomami2123
      @rillomami2123 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Laura Vasquez which episode is this

  • @liliyafayek9330
    @liliyafayek9330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I hate how I have already watched this in the actual show but I still cry everyone I watch it again I just keep imagining what kind of life they could have had if Derek survived and got to meet his daughter Eliss.

  • @chloebreagan5193
    @chloebreagan5193 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    mark’s death and when she said “daddy died” really got to me

  • @hayden2336
    @hayden2336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This one of the saddest moments in Grey’s Anatomy. 😭

  • @lololol4357
    @lololol4357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She is so strong❤️🥺

  • @Magicae_Maximus24
    @Magicae_Maximus24 ปีที่แล้ว

    My dad just started at a job. He’s a construction worker or driver, I forget. I don’t want to ever have a day where I hear the words “daddy died.” I love my old man so much!

  • @drbeuls4u
    @drbeuls4u 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The fact that everyone's FAv character Derek dies n the emoting skills of Meredith makes it so real... If only yang was around....

  • @leticiamcviana
    @leticiamcviana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    tbh i didn’t even cry when he died but i cried my eyes out in this scene

  • @emmacloud4739
    @emmacloud4739 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    MY EYES ARE SWEATING

  • @jinxesncurses
    @jinxesncurses 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t know why I am watching this again. I had almost forgotten how how heartbroken I was.

  • @user-vdjxbwkskbc
    @user-vdjxbwkskbc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve never really watched greys anatomy I’ve just watched clips but I’m literally sat here balling my eyes out to this scene

  • @caipijana2216
    @caipijana2216 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This scene broke my heart😭