Have You Run Back To Your Man After Being Cheated On?
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These women are staying in relationships longer than they should. At some point you’re not a victim your a volunteer.
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Slavery is choice
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Lol this was funny but true
*you're 🤷🏻♀️
Going back to a woman after you've been caught cheating is the worst thing you can do to yourself 😂
Going back to anyone after you've been caught cheating is the worst thing you can do to yourself. 😂
Torture chamber for real
Facts
Men are opportunistic. So if a woman is okay with getting back with a man after he has cheated, then she's the fool, not so much him.
Facts😂
so him having a baby wasnt enough but not feeling alligned was? smh lol
Lol
Exactly.
Right!!!!
There's definitely alot of women who been cheated on and went back...
All the Celebrity women do it🤔
Goes to show you. Women will talk and say there’s no good men but will rather stay in a mess of a relationship than to be with a good man. To each their own I guess
Cthagod looks like a villain with what he has on and burning that piece of wood 😂😂
He's a villain
This women is fine, talented, and from her commentary shows she is seeking marriage + kids. The problem is she spent 10+ years ignoring red flags:
- Dude already had 1 baby in HS
- Has a 2nd Baby on her post College
I'm sure there were others along the way. While ignoring these red flags she also likely ignored the `guy(s)` she should've been with in College and early post college days and said eligible man is now married. So it's definitely gonna be tougher for her now not impossible. It just shouldn't take 10+ years to figure out someone isn't equally yolked. Just feel like this is the common story for some of the folks saying it's hard to find a man.
Here's my cheat story. Sorry it's so long!!!
So I was in the military and he wasn't. About 8 years in and before I met him I brought a house in Texas because I knew when I got out that's where I wanted to be. When I brought the house I had a doorbell with a camera installed and also simplisafe cameras hidden inside the house because it made me feel more secure. My friend out there was tending to the house for me as I couldn't find new renters at the time. Anyways, during that period I met a guy and we dated for a year. We ended up getting engaged 4 months before I was supposed to deploy. I decided when I came back from this deployment I was going to get out so he was going move to Texas and live in the house I brought which was great because he was able to get a job transfer. Anyways, 2 months into my deployment he tells me he's going on a business trip so he probably won't be as available to talk to me so I ask my friend to stop by periodically and check the mail. When she went to check the mail she saw him on the porch entering my house with a girl and they looked too intimate for her liking so she emailed me to let me know. This is when I remembered my cameras backup video for like 30 days so I got the footage of inside the house and saw that he pretty much moved this girl in and they were playing house. I was so heartbroken and couldn't focus especially being in a whole other country while my world was falling apart. I tried to call him but he didn't answer so I had some friends in legal help me do a power of attorney so that my friend can get the locks changed. Also recorded a video giving her consent in case she ran into any trouble. So next time we skyped each other I told him he had 1 day to get his stuff and get out of my house because I know he's cheating and if he wasn't out in 24 hours I'd have the cops escort him out. He lied and tried to say I wasn't thinking straight because I was stressing but I told him I had video proof then he started apologizing and promising it wouldn't happen again. Cops did have to escort him then my friend got the locks changed. It was rough and very painful but as painful as it was I couldn't imagine staying with someone who didn't respect me, would cheat and lie. I knew the kind of love I wanted and the kind of love I give so I had to let him go. So happy I did too because I met my husband :).
Dang girl! I’m sorry that happened to you but glad you were smart enough to back up your house and have a trusted friend to help you.
He did you so wrong, but I am happy that you stood your ground and removed him from your life. He is a disgusting man.
This is crazy to me. I’m gone after a man cheats 1 time. Life is too short to waste my life with a liar.
Exactly, Me too. They would throw us right to the curb and call us every h0e in the book if we cheat. They wouldn’t stay with us. Im leaving, I would never look at him the same or trust him
again
Soon as a man have a baby on me it’s a done deal. No talking ! What the hell be wrong with some of these women smh 🤦🏾♀️ Any man that cheat on you and have a baby on you ain’t that amazing 😂 she’s a bird brain for sure
Many women allow the cheating and say an outside baby is the dealbreaker. But if u let him run around spreading D, it’s very possible a baby (or diseases) can come out of that. If we let them do whatever, they WILL do it. If a man cheats on me ONCE, I’m gone. They don’t stay with us if we cheat, so why should we? Women act so weak when it comes to these men. The only way I could stay with a cheater is if I don’t care about him at all & im definitely using him for something lol
These women know they guys are cheating and tell them to wrap it up?? Wtf. 🤦🏽♂️ shit sad bro
Her story telling is bothering me. Don’t call her up there no more. 😂
She's irritating
Facts I hate women that think like her
I don't want nothing back but my money, if you owe me.
It is difficult very difficult for some people to let go even when they are hurt by someone. You don’t even have talked about things you’ve done wrong to your wives yet they stayed stuck around they forgave.
Me myself and I’ve always said I would never be with someone who cheated on me, but I also know you should never say never. I’ve seen people truly regret cheating on the woman or the man. They love and worked hard to redeem themselves. I’ve also seen people lie straight to someone’s face. I’ll never do it again and did it the next damn day.
I will say this, we do have a lot of people who are very eager to be in relationships with others. I’ve seen people so eager to be in a relationship with someone else they will date someone who is married, knowing that the person is married. That worries me the most when people are so eager to be in a relationship they won’t push for exclusivity in a relationship.
Grow some balls & keep it stepping if you’re down hit the gym you’ll forget about everything
I understand it’s to hard grow up. Idc and the world doesn’t. I highly suggest u tell ur children the same for their sake
It’s disturbing how many woman are willing to be cheating on lied to and disrespected and take the same dude back and then wonder why we have so many woman beaters and egotistical men they pass that ego on to the next woman he gets with. We need to change the mentality of these ladies because this is ridiculous 😔😒
When I had low self esteem I stayed with a cheater, once I learned how to love myself I no longer tolerate any BS or disrespect in a relationship and I will cut off all communication immediately
She says she’s over it but I don’t believe her she sounded like she was about to cry when talking about it.
Definitely not. The thought of him getting married & pictures would send her in a frenzy.
These type of stories really make me irritated because when are we going to start respecting ourselves as women??!! Ain’t no D that damn good that got you dumb enough to allow a man to cheat on you with your friend or someone you know, have a baby, and you get on the radio saying how great of a husband and father he will be one day like he won’t ever do that shit again. And then you played stepmom for these kids that he had on you! SMH. Breakfast club please don’t have this lady on again. Idk who she is, but we need more strong-minded women who are going to promote respecting ourselves and being confident in our standards and not going to get caught up in a small piece of male flesh. We need women who know what they deserve and won’t settle for the bullshit because he knows how to slang it. Thanks!
Totally agree! Idk who she is but she is goofy and doesn't have complete self respect for herself. He literally used her as a trash receptacle by having unprotected s3x with other ppl and continuing to s3x her. Just nasty. I can't. 😑
I think her story should be on another platform or TBC follow up. The next issue, who will be the spokesperson of what is acceptable or not since we're in a "no judgment society of sensitive folks"? This type of behavior occurs more often than discussed. It seems like anything goes. The break babies, On & Offs, Break up to make ups, harems and other willy-nilliness are becoming normalcy. So we need to hear these topics and suggest better or healthy relationships.
That's because a man's value in a relationship isn't his sexual loyalty but his ability to provide
@@kadeemjoseph8138That depends on the woman & the relationship. Because to ME a man’s value is absolutely his loyalty (sexual and emotional), along with his ability to provide. If he can’t/won’t do that, I do not want nor need him.
@@AmberBrooklyn24 That'll make the chances of you getting with the man you want even slimmer
Ray ray, Pookie and Tyrone never lose.😅
Or Paris's
word to chad
I feel like we can work through anything but nope nope nope my man knows cheating is a deal breaker period... there's no back and forth, no conversation needed ✌🏽
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Hahaha RIGHT! I told my husband that SAME thing! He said its no reason he’ll ever divorce me && i said well i got 2 reasons why i would haha if you ever hit me or if you ever cheated. Im just not that type of woman. I would never have peace, constantly checking stuff. I would literally never get over it unless we ended our marriage. Chile, i aint that strong lol
@@ItsBrittany. 💯
Life is about choices if you chose to stay that is on YOU.
So she said the way Common did Tiffany hasn't or will happen to her but her dude can cheat, get her cousin bf pregnant lie to you and then talk you into coming back to play stepmom. But a man would never do u like Common did Tiffany Haddish...FOH. And she lied cus she said they was highschool sweet hearts heading into college but then said she didn't mind being a step mom cause he had a kid when they met🤔... C'mon Son
Maybe he was a teen parent
@@DontMindMee89 well if that's the case she should seen this coming between 9th -12th grade #1, #2 she should have been the one pregnant with his child if they was highschool sweet hearts #3 she said they dated for 5-6 yrs before he got her cousin friend knocked up, highschool is 4yrs and college depends on they major in is no longer than 4yrs that's 8 yrs right there. She said when they met he already had a child, but they highschool sweet hearts.
@CappolaJanitor-pe7kw you loud and wrong 🙄🙄🥴 But fine, she lied. She a big ol liar get the tomatoes
@@DontMindMee89 loud🤔... Didn't know you could hear me
@CappolaJanitor-pe7kw yea and wrong. But I can edit the loud out if you like, since that was the only word that you seem to not agree with
Low self esteem..love yourselves women
Turn her mic up is WILDDDD 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Charlamagne and that Palo Santo! He's gonna start a fire in the studio. I hope he has good personal liability insurance
Let’s start a petition to have envy stop saying “mama” 🙄🙄
It’s not the dick. It’s because women don’t want to be lonely, no one does. We want to be with someone of our opposite sex that we enjoy their presence. Hence why we have children
I rather hug a tree than deal with this lunacy.
Yeah I took him back because I was cheating too..😂😂
Playing high school games 😂
SOME woman gonna lie in these comments and say "hell no".
Spinning the block for over 2 decades is some stalker type ish, why tf don't y'all just tie the knot and call it a day? People weird asf nowadays...
The hardest part of holding on, is letting go.
No it ain't
High school sweet hearts? But he had a kid already? And you had boyfriends already? The timeline seems off LMAO
Charla is the biggest instigator, always, Facts 👏🏽
Who that girl on breakfast club she pissed me of mentioning barbz going down like how her horse hair weave know Charlemagne and dj envy don’t like Queen 👸 Nicki Minaj so why mention her on here yesterdays she don’t deal with them so her name is Charla they talk to much for me think they know everything
Should’ve asked all the callers if their father was present in their lives
How she say he’s gonna be a good husband after he cheated on you what makes you think he’s not gonna do it to the next chick lol 😂
Many times us as women blame other women’s instead of our mate and that contributes why we stay
Jess and TS was going back and forth all weekend and no report.
These caliber of men you guys let play you! Wrap it up?! Whew 😰 yal deal with whatever these men give 🙄
TH-cam guidelines say to keep the comments respectful but HOW are people supposed to when they hear stories like these? These women are just.... dumb
Ladies think they are dating other people the whole time they are getting ran through by new dude while going through an heart break 💔 sad!
Damn wasted all her 20s damn near on a dude with 2 kids, one of which he had while dating her lmao
There are some women who will experience a bad love life because they don’t have self respect.
She met him in high school and he had a kid already?
right thats what i said 😂
All them willing participants 😩 ladies let’s choose ourselves IF POSSIBLE ❤️
I forgave. 🙄😶🌫 I was young, dumb, each other's first and engaged. Other than a death, it was the only time I cried in a relationship... unchartered territory: emotions, forgiving, trust, vulnerability. Looking back, I was delusional with being faithful because he was just getting started. After the apologies and "reassurance" --- It's a no for me dawg. I'm glad.. clears the path for someone wonderful.
So y’all was high school sweethearts and he already had a baby? Smh
In a relationship for 6+ years and you aren’t married?! RED FLAG🚩
😳The 🚩was a teen dad. Although accepting, once one plays stepmom and/or realize there's another child in the picture? Deuces. 🏃♀💨
The moral of this segment is wait til your married to have sex so you can think clearly and not make irrational, emotional decisions because your caught up in your feelings about a man your just dating.
I love how TBC has become a safe space for women. Thank you Envy and Charlemagne.... also Envy has been on my okay side lately. That man gets under my skin 😅
One thing I learned from all of this is that too many Black women are addicted to toxicity, disfunction, cacophony, and choas in their personal relationships, under the guise of looking for excitement and sexual titillation --- I DIDN'T ANY PART OF THIS --- These are the type of women not suitable for mundane nature of longterm, relationships, marriage --- Hence, the very high Black women led divorce rate in the Black community ---
A lot of this begins with the "type" of guy most girls/women are attracted to. Don't dance with the Devil and then claim victim.
What a cool ass lady you are Loren, bro like nobody gives men with bms chances the way you sounded too and had the right mentality about bms (cordial, ain’t gotta be friends) wow yo you’re alright lady and I’m sure gonna have a good life
Sounds like Lauren was with her twin flame but that is still toxic af frfr 🤣
This shit was too hilarious I had to watch it twice 🤣🤣
Im confused. Am I the only one that heard they weren’t together for some time? She was doing her and he was doing him. He didn’t cheat
First of all... That's not how you deliver news to someone. People are some dumb.
Why do women ruin their friends momentum with this kind of news? Your friend is on tour needing to focus and you tell her this?
It was her cousin who called her. The cousins best friend was pregnant by the dude but i agree. Or maybe she didnt know she was on a tour
Women, learn to respect yourselves!
Is the Breakfast Club falling off? 🥺😢
Yep they hate on Nicki Minaj too much
They don't have Angela anymore to balance out the silliness
I mean I wouldnt say falling off but I am enjoying it less, these conversations sound very immature at times. The young lady sounds very ...idk lame
DJ E and Char shouldn't say nothing on this topic ....
Lmfao you petty for that
Exactly 😂
I went back because I didn't want to start over but after he got another pregnant it was done. Everyone has a straw that was mine at that time but now I have zero tolerance for cheating.
I be wondering the same thing. What do these dudes be saying to these women for them to stay? I never understood the finesse, but I’m jealous because I could never figure it out. ( I don’t feel bad for anyone going back to a perpetual cheater, that’s your fault 🤷🏽♂️)
8:07 congratulations 😂😂😂😂😂
_Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me - You can't get fooled again_ . -- W
Smh im the guy on the other side crazyyy
This is what I think most men need to see/hear. There are men who are chosen, who can do any and everything to and through women. Fellas, you don't have to try so hard, she already knows.
Women need to learn how to make decisions based on logic not emotion
the whole king/queen thing seems so obnoxious.
Enough with the damn cheating conversations we get it damn
It’s literally a segment about cheating don’t click on the video then lol
Interesting. So, sex is that important huh?
No they run back to their man when the other man don’t want to deal no more…probably talking to you about their man saying he ain’t this and that etc.
The way these women act your better off bein single
Say it again my boi! 😂😂
Unh?
Women never tell the entire story
I like the co host. Dope vibes!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I like Loren. She has an interesting personality
Hands down this channel has more hatred while at the same time complete ignorance than any spot on the internet I have unfortunately stumbled on.....
This guest host fire🔥love her honesty and humor
These callers are sad and embarassing.
i got this married women pregnant..whe kept the child and her husband think its his.... fellaz lets stop protecting cheating women because they sure dont do tge same for us
Wow. What outcome did you want from this?
Yup smh
Yo carla love these stories 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Because he sees himself in this, because he same person doing this.
She is a bird 🤦🏽♂️
I agree
REAL Communication is ‘Key’, it will prevent a lot of drama!! Reality is…most Women & Men…just can’t handle the truth! 😮
I just don't see why women don't go to the "lames" dudes who want them
Men won't stop cheating until women cheat just as much as them and get caught. Spread the hurt. Let hurt people hurt people. Maybe in a couple of generations we can get back to healthy relationships.
Shoutout.....
A women will stay with a foul man got years and dump a good guy for being good nice.
I just came to the comments to say BRING RAY J back either him or Jess Hilarious need to be full time co host
Fix the heading Breakfast Club wheres the editor
Hell nah!!! I would NEVER!!!! No 🥷🏼 will ever have me in a position where I will explaining why I stayed after this nonsense. I feel embarrassed for them.
On another note: Most times these situations aren’t surprising at all to us outsiders. Most women ignore the obvious signs until he actually pops up with a baby.
This all comes down to internal value and self-respect. As the folks used to say back in the day, “It ain’t that much love in the world!”
This whole segment sad tears only.
I definitely stayed to long never again
These women are stupid they stay and go back to toxic relationships but the good guy that wants to treat them like a queen and actually want to be with them they don’t give them a chance at all…..low key I don’t feel sorry for them they choose these messed up men plus this chick went back to a dude that got another woman pregnant but she is missing the big point her ex was having sex with no protection with another woman he could have gave her something smh
The D really holds you down
You guys lost my sub ! After that horror of a show with Viv and that creature that said she was a veteran a billion times ( am sure she was paid you don't do it for nothing) so racist and rude! Done with u all.
There are women out here who will willingly deal with a man who deals with multiple women as long as they are HONEST so they know what they gettin into. But thennu have the women who deal with bit that understanding even thoughbit wasnt communicated. What are u willing to deal with? Thats the question
Lauren is fire 🔥
Feels🙄
@ 2:56 Lil John appears.
She seems young & foolish. Lost young soul, not saying nothing really.