Day 21 Viral Wisdom - Your state of mind

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  • Dr. Shefali is a NYT bestselling author of The Conscious Parent and The Awakened Family. She is also a clinical psychologist, an international speaker and a wisdom teacher, integrating Eastern philosophy with Western psychology.
    Learn more about her at: www.drshefali.com

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  • @anap1251
    @anap1251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is it... 15 years searching and learning, and now I understand... I can not ever express how much I owe you. Thank you profoundly!! Your service to the world is beyond measure!

  • @hildasegurabelmont3811
    @hildasegurabelmont3811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Declare to yourself and the Universe: "Today I will take charge of my state of mind"
    Thank you Dr Shefali for another great life lesson ❤️

  • @travellerg.8068
    @travellerg.8068 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh!mine I won’t get tired listening to you Dr.Shefali

  • @annakoyanna1898
    @annakoyanna1898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dr. Shefali you are awesome! Thank you!

  • @scriptedbysource8667
    @scriptedbysource8667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Here is the message I’ve just sent to my two teenage daughters with a link to your work...................’If you ever need outside advice from a beautiful wise soul, for anything you find yourself struggling with as a female growing up in the world. Listening to this woman will be able to help you find the answer.
    She’s like the Alicia Keys and Indie Arie of Spiritual life teachings.
    Love you guys and can’t wait to see you the weekend xxx’

  • @sandicadumitru7735
    @sandicadumitru7735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you very much!❤️🤗😇

  • @oliveo2013
    @oliveo2013 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much Dr Shifali for enlightening me today. I've been on this journey of self discovery for a long time and on the way have lost a couple of people who were very close to me emotionally but I never regarded that as the cost per se of my transformation. Now I finally see and can accept that I was unhealthily enmeshed even to the extent of narsisstic supply and co-dependency the latter being me. I also recently discovered that I'm an empath personality type, which explains a lot...I like me better now that I can stand in my own light. Thank you again.
    Kind regards

  • @AraceliQuiroz_
    @AraceliQuiroz_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are very right. Thank you for always being yourself 💛.

  • @Swetadas
    @Swetadas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for being a force of truth.

  • @learnholisticmedicine
    @learnholisticmedicine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a good one. Staying centered no matter what our kids are doing.

  • @fzuzka
    @fzuzka 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are always so spot on!! 💗

  • @monahooshan
    @monahooshan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cannot believe how BEAUTIFUL Dr. Shefali is! But listening so much to her I do believe that I am as beautiful as her.. because our essence is one :)

  • @shannonengelken4629
    @shannonengelken4629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for empowering us! Fortunately my parents never pressured me to choose a religion or get married. As an adult, I chose the Catholic faith and feel empowered and so much freedom by living in the 10 commandments. My children are a blessing and a gift from God and they are not mine, but His. 😇

  • @bongimbuli7853
    @bongimbuli7853 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing love from South Africa

  • @angelga8362
    @angelga8362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It hurt me to swallow this, it caused me pain and I am accepting it now... my ego is extremely big but I will definitely take charge of my life now.... My kids shouldn’t be living with my problems ....
    thank you so much 😢

  • @karolinawyrzykowska3574
    @karolinawyrzykowska3574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing. Thank you so much

  • @sirenemily
    @sirenemily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i LOVE this, I feel so EMPOWERED, I'm sucking this all up... THANK YOU

  • @cinderella407
    @cinderella407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    THANK YOU, SWEET AND KIND LADY ... 🙏🎼💗💕💐☕☕☕☕☕🎶💖🎵❤☕☕☕☕🌻💜😽

    • @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
      @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤🧸❤️🌠🧒🌠❤️🧸❤️
      FROM A SENSITIVE WOMAN'S HEART SPRINGS THE HAPPINESS OF MANKIND, AND FROM THE KINDNESS OF HER NOBLE SPIRIT COMES MANKIND'S AFFECTION.
      ~KAHLIL GIBRAN ... 🌈🦋💞💞💞🌻🧸❤️❤️❤️🌠🧒🌠🙏🌞🎈🥳🎊🎉🎊

  • @selinabatra7251
    @selinabatra7251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Once again bless you ,amazing truth coming out. Super women stay great

  • @annmullane9859
    @annmullane9859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome advice-powerful 💯👏❤️

  • @butchhayes2695
    @butchhayes2695 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love u DrShefali

  • @Deepa16
    @Deepa16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you.🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @GodsChild321
    @GodsChild321 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you

  • @MyOlenochka
    @MyOlenochka 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Namaste darling , love from UK

  • @learnholisticmedicine
    @learnholisticmedicine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Prob one of your best vids / concepts.

  • @annakoyanna1898
    @annakoyanna1898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    " if u cant blame anyone why live at all?" 🤣🤣🤣👌

  • @annakoyanna1898
    @annakoyanna1898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Was waiting for this sooo much❤

  • @staceea9082
    @staceea9082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @natalieahadji7839
    @natalieahadji7839 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's so true what you're saying!

  • @mitramalekzadeh9988
    @mitramalekzadeh9988 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't believe the SUFFERING part or the price to pay. I am willing to practice self love. Appreciate all I've done for myself and others. I'm willing to let go of the control over other's emotions. I'm in charge of mine. I have been in this journey for many years and many years to come. I have an 80 year old Mother and 37 year old son. I see how the changed me is helping my son for good and the resistance I see from my mom. Thanks from my heart from CANADA 😁

  • @annakoyanna1898
    @annakoyanna1898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    " waits for permission" - omg like you know my parents🤣 and what they did to me..

  • @annakoyanna1898
    @annakoyanna1898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤❤ thank.you

  • @dimplesharmalyngdoh628
    @dimplesharmalyngdoh628 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true

  • @user-hz1rb6wt5m
    @user-hz1rb6wt5m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm curious how you are thinking about our Healthcare system where it's all about the Dsm5 and searching for explanation. I'm also curious how you are thinking about the many kids nowadays who get diagnosed with adhd or ass, but also seem more like the 'newer' kids to get parents awake.
    Again a great talk, thanks shefali

    • @angelga8362
      @angelga8362 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      S 86 you should watch her from day #1 she explains in one of those videos 1,2 ,3,4,5 etc....

  • @user-hz1rb6wt5m
    @user-hz1rb6wt5m 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm also curious about this: the paradigm shift should be, that parents should raise themselves, al though in the current view psychology says: it's because of you are not normal kid, you are not average. Well, I'll share my opinion with you although the reality is there is a lot of depression, developmental disorders. Do you think with shifting the paradigm this will shift. The normal then isn't the normal today, as you are saying here, maby we are told to believe it and we are puppeteers. But we value a lot on what's normal and how can parents get the validation for raising there child. This is my struggle, I'm a child psychologist and also a mom.

  • @impartial2770
    @impartial2770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How a child can choose a school etc ??

  • @jeanshepherd7185
    @jeanshepherd7185 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was never broken by authority. ease of domesticity is an inherited trait.

  • @ladymary9296
    @ladymary9296 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    💚💚💚💚

  • @fzuzka
    @fzuzka 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would REALLY like you to talk to Jordan Peterson.
    I mean. I love and admire you both so much!!!
    I look up to you both as highly reasonable and spiritualy evolved people.
    The moment you mentioned women having a hard time to be them selves it clicked.
    Mr. Peterson is waisting his time arguing and trying to explain himself to stupid feminists around the world. (I am a woman but I do not agree with this silly and pittyful movement)
    I wish you two will meet one day in a mindful conversation.

    • @jeanshepherd7185
      @jeanshepherd7185 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      JP is a neo fascist. Dr. Shefali is progressive. She has no use for that troll

    • @fzuzka
      @fzuzka 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jeanshepherd7185
      🤷‍♀️

    • @jeanshepherd7185
      @jeanshepherd7185 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fzuzka it just is, what it is

    • @fzuzka
      @fzuzka 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jeanshepherd7185
      Yeap. 😊

    • @fzuzka
      @fzuzka 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/eMo_20J1J1Y/w-d-xo.html

  • @impartial2770
    @impartial2770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tell us how u raising your children??

    • @UK_WMB
      @UK_WMB 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She has 1 kid and she has written entire books telling you how. Do some research.

    • @impartial2770
      @impartial2770 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@UK_WMB she should tell on TH-cam.
      She must raise 4 kids daughters and sons.
      So she can lead by her personal example .
      One child easy to handle.

    • @dzihanahajdarpasicmisirlic5347
      @dzihanahajdarpasicmisirlic5347 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      some people say its easier with more childern than with one... Doctor Schafali is spiritual teacher and much more than therapist and parent... She is not claiming that she is perfect, she is only helpng all us expend our consciousness... She is a student as well not just an expert in psychology

    • @impartial2770
      @impartial2770 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dzihanahajdarpasicmisirlic5347 but I m rejecting her point of view what is she trying to help us all ..
      And my objections are with logic..
      All human being are dependent on each other during the different cycle of life..
      If someone have one daughter how that person can tell us how to raise a son ???

    • @dzihanahajdarpasicmisirlic5347
      @dzihanahajdarpasicmisirlic5347 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@impartial2770 she is not an absolute pwrfection in parenting just like non of us. She is offering some good views on how not to take in all the drama that society and culture imposes on parents of today....Of course take from her philosophy what resonates with u, and apply that ;) I also do not resonate with all, and I am mom of two, and not a single mom

  • @impartial2770
    @impartial2770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    21 vidoes and every time u were in diffrent dress why is that bcz u r controlled by fashion and tradition and culture.
    Every human being from first day till last day(breath) controlled by so many things.

    • @anasyrett2648
      @anasyrett2648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't get the message that Dr Shefali is saying she is free of conditioning herself though, she has never made that claim...she recognises that we are mired in culture but yet there is always freedom within. Or that's how I hear it anyway.

    • @tryintosleep
      @tryintosleep 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      impartial What should she dress like? Mother Theresa, or in a Jedi robe? She's still human like any person on earth. Were you paying more attention to her clothes in each of the 21 videos or the message?