Enneagram Types Dating Their Own Type

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  • @AbbeyHowe
    @AbbeyHowe  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

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  • @castortroy4866
    @castortroy4866 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    The 2 nines being perfect for eachother. So sweet.🥹

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😊

  • @tonicarr3113
    @tonicarr3113 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    My husband and I are both 5s. It’s completely accurate except we insist on being in the same room at least 2/3 of the time. We have designated, agreed upon alone time (football and reading) and we do regular checking 😂
    But the rest of the time, we’re in exquisite parallel play or indulging together. He games, I watch tiktok but we’re listening to Critical Role. We watch Star Trek TNG or Law & Order to wind down for bed as we scroll our phones and discuss. Cuddling while scrolling is absolute heaven. WELL DONE 😂🥰

    • @tonicarr3113
      @tonicarr3113 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      He’s 5w4 and I’m 5w6. He gives me all the romance I crave but am to scared to ask for and I will happily listen to him nerd out for hours which makes him all fuzzy inside. We work so well together.

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I love your relationship sm

    • @Derpediem
      @Derpediem 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ...pretty sure i am 5w4(sx) and had 5w4 ex. We had this kinda thing too. Aaaah i crave for this, maybe someday. Happy for you🙌💫

  • @juliegolick
    @juliegolick 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    As a type 9, I would love to be in a poly triad with both those type 9s. We would have the COZIEST house. 🥰

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      THE COZIEST

  • @Melinda8384
    @Melinda8384 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I’m an 8 who dated an 8, it was volatile but the intensity is just so fun. Great video, laughed through all of it

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad you enjoyed it Melinda!

  • @reksonline
    @reksonline 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I know that there is going to be a lot of “opposites attract” posts in the comments but as someone who been there, done that, & wondered why I have zero in common with a partner 1 year later, I am all here for a date the same type as me, relationship.
    As a 9 that comes home from work hating life & COMPLETELY DRAINED, that other 9 was speaking my language!!!
    *side note* That 5 relationship is an interesting duo to watch. 👀🍿

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      just a sidenote -- this is obviously not a universal look at what these pairings might look like... just my silly imaginings! 😃

  • @nathanreedy4380
    @nathanreedy4380 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    😂😂😂 Abbey I think that this seriously was/is your best Enneagram skit video to date that I've seen. Heck, even the sponsor segment was skit oriented, incredible talent. I can see some of the other Enneagram types dating/being in a relationship with another of the same but my type, type 4w5, oh no, that would be a disaster 😂

    • @bertharuiz3765
      @bertharuiz3765 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Compleatly agree!!

    • @nathanreedy4380
      @nathanreedy4380 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-uo1ef9bu1x If I could love your comment, I would, it's so true. I wonder how many of us Four's remain forever single?

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      what a comment to get! I'm so glad you enjoyed it. And re: 4w5 dating. I want to do some interviews with actual couples who make it work!

    • @karissahammond4587
      @karissahammond4587 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Gotta agree with that, this one was great! It was accurate and hilarious, and it touched on a lot of type quirks I see in real life! 😃
      As for how two 4s could get together, Idk how it would work for two 4w5s. I'd be really curious to hear about that from a couple like that. Throw in a w3 in though, and I see how it's possible for two 4s to get together.

  • @Ribena-s9x
    @Ribena-s9x 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    5w4 here. Im glad you started with us first. Were always in the middle.

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Woohoo!!

  • @Avionne_Parris
    @Avionne_Parris 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Thank you for putting type 4 last, it was well worth the wait. Plus, you mentioned jasmine, one of my favourite scents! I feel so seen, Abs! Like a spring water dispenser on a hot summer day :-)

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      spring water on a hot summer day 😭 you are a beautiful 4, Avi

  • @robin_hatter
    @robin_hatter 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i really need that type6 show 😂

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      same

  • @dawnmarieandjeff
    @dawnmarieandjeff 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This was amazing!! You should do one of these at least twice a year. 😂😂 I was swooning over the 9.

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yay! so glad you liked it! ♥️

  • @archivist_of_dragonstone
    @archivist_of_dragonstone 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks for confirming my sneaking suspicion that I can only be truly happy with another 1 😅

  • @AbbeyHowe
    @AbbeyHowe  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What are some other Enneagram skit videos you would like to see?

    • @heritage.home.crochet
      @heritage.home.crochet 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      On a job interview, planning an out of the country trip, choosing a college

    • @JacqueArmijo
      @JacqueArmijo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      different types at the holiday work party,
      your boss as the different types,
      different types attending a wedding,
      each of the triads go shopping together -> maybe more skits in general where you have the three from each triad hanging out together, so we can see the differences and commonalities within each triad

    • @justiceforthemissing3690
      @justiceforthemissing3690 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Maybe when the same types are the boss and employee. My boss and I are both 8s. Sometimes we yell at each other and tell each other to try harder. It works well lol.

    • @sophia.ciocca
      @sophia.ciocca 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      more different types dating. my partner’s a 9 and i’m a 4 and i feel like so much conflict comes from this space!

  • @nooneneedstoknowmyname
    @nooneneedstoknowmyname 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Type 1, 6, 2, 4 - If I was one of these types and in a relationship with one of these types, it probably wouldn't work out. It's funny that none of these types are in my tri-type and are the types that seem to fit the least lol.
    Type 5, 9, 8, 7, 3 - If I was one of these types and in a relationship with one of these types, I'd probably work out great. The type 3 relationship was my favorite.

    • @nooneneedstoknowmyname
      @nooneneedstoknowmyname 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@user-uo1ef9bu1x My problem with 1s is that I'm like the exact opposite of them so we kinda clash, my problem with type 2s is that people who do everything for everyone else especially at the expense of their own well being kinda grate my nerves a little. Especially when the person they're dropping everything for doesn't even appreciate it and do the same for them. If it makes them happy then I guess it's cool, but I just think they need to have a little more self respect. They're worth so much more than they give themselves credit for, and I don't think anyone should dampen their spirit to please someone who isn't willing to try to understand them.
      That's a good point about type 6s, I wonder if counterphobic type 6s would be more willing to ask someone out though due to the fear of being alone forever if they don't? Heck, even a non-counter phobic type 6 might do that.
      Hey, any type 6s wanna chime in and share your thoughts on the matter?
      What's your type user-uo1ef9bu1x? Also, what's the story behind your username?

  • @coconutcat1280
    @coconutcat1280 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Type 6 is accurate of my friendship with another 6 😂

  • @hanae7385
    @hanae7385 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi, Abbey, I'm curious what you think about tritypes? Also this video was hilarious! Love the 7s optimistic thinking :)

  • @Ekkiert8
    @Ekkiert8 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lol INTJ’s are hilarious. I agree, that is my dream of interaction in a relationship but with long analytical conversations revising our theories and comparing information as well as creating new theories and forms of experimentation🌿🌸

  • @rachelrose8515
    @rachelrose8515 หลายเดือนก่อน

    LMAO 8s fighting over the bill YELL LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK yup

  • @jofromoz
    @jofromoz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Brilliant Abbey😂

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks 😅

  • @KindHarmony
    @KindHarmony 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤣 So great! Yebba!!!!!! So clever!!!!! This was so funny and hilarious to watch. 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @kendrixhavlik3051
    @kendrixhavlik3051 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would greatly enjoy all of these movies xD

  • @izy2302
    @izy2302 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Can you do an enneagrams on a solo date video next?

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Can you explain that a bit further? A little confused what that means!

    • @izy2302
      @izy2302 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AbbeyHowe oh boy I don't really know what solo dates are but I have another idea, you could do a video of enneagram types as married couples/married to their own type... also ty for replying

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@izy2302 good idea!

  • @Adriana.Gabriela
    @Adriana.Gabriela 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    8s are totally incorrect 😅 not only from my perspective, but I was actually with an 8, and totally not

  • @introvertednotsoyoutuber6126
    @introvertednotsoyoutuber6126 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am I first? Woah!

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hello!

  • @pungorma
    @pungorma 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    a 2:54 promotion in the middle of a 5:46 video, for a company repeatedly proven to be incredibly predatory, in front of 2k+ viewers and 51k subscribers. is the money good at least?

    • @pungorma
      @pungorma 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      promotion starts at 1:33 ,ends at 3:23
      i think i got my math a tad bit wrong there, but it was hard to get down exact seconds.

    • @pungorma
      @pungorma 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      this video is from a month ago, well after constant controversy with betterhelp has come out and revealed shady business practice one after another. it's hard to believe that someone, ESPECIALLY someone who studies personality tests which already fall under a sort of psychology has not heard of these things. unless she never searched them up. i guess it isn't my business to judge how someone does their job, but i think it could be a bit irresponsible to advertise to 51 thousand people, 2 thousand so far, a service which could cause them harm.

    • @pungorma
      @pungorma 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i hope at the very least the pay was good, considering the length of the promotion and the overall percentage of the video it takes up.