In summary, being ‘dependent’ in the sense of providing nothing in exchange is not good, but as humans and other beings and the planet, we are all attached to each other.
*Some notes here* • *The Dependency Paradox* To be independent, find the right person to be dependent to • *Anxious, avoidant and secure attachment style* Secure individuals can date with both avoidants and anxious and help them overcome their limitations -as long as they stay secure-. Anxious become less anxious with secure partners indeed. Anxious with avoidants is one of the worst and it’s very common. Only secure people approach conflict openly. *My passion is to make summary. I started doing it on my channel* ✌️
*सिक्के हमेशा आवाज करते है,* *पर नोट खामोश रहते है,* *इसलिए जब आपकी कीमत बढे* *तो शांत रहिये,* *क्यूंकि हैसियत का शोर मचाने का* *जिम्मा आप से कम कीमत वालों का है !!💝💝🌹🌹🌻🌻👌👌🙏🙏🙏
Umm... I found myself ANXCIOUS. And yeah, I am currently going through the situation same as TAMAAIRA faced. But, THANKS to you brother. Now, I understood everything we should care before getting attatched to anyone. I'm feeling a bit better than before. THANKS A LOT
Bhai 1 dum correct.... you solve my problem broo i mean solve to mere ko he karne padege but apne nature ko jo explain kia h mtlb book se nakal ke jo hame bataya h 👍👍 i like it..
SeeKen, I am visiting your website after a long time, I used to watch your videos when you would never come on the screen but only provide a voiceover to the sketches on the screen. I now notice that in some of the videos you provide your learnings from more than one book. Those videos are actually unique content because we won’t find them in a single book. Additionally, even your summaries for individual books are useful. 👍
First break 💔 up mera hua . Mujhe laga iske liye mein zimedar hu galat hu but aj apke vedio se samjh aya ki I m also not wrong bus mera type alag tha . Thank you ❤️
I have anxious attachment style but my partner have avoidant attachment style. In early stages i become very upset from her but after sometime i changed my attachment style to secure attachment style and now i think that i can build more stable and happy relationship with my partner.
To change, first u need to know what's wrong, To know what's wrong, u need to spend time alone, and analyse all your emotional activities. Filter your thoughts, pinpoint on whats important. Focus on your goals, let go of useless people and stop wasting time. Hard to do but always effective Most important, know your priorities and take action accordingly. Select with your preference not with desire.
I used be the anxious maybe this is b'coz my childhood was too good later on may father behaviour changed towards me and also due my relationship where i was madly in love. But now I'm avoidant and i really don't like someone involve in me too much I'm not selfish but this is how I'm my gf is anxious i don't love her she loves me alot and she's handling our relationship like no one ever did. Healthiest and the longest relationship of mine. She is pure anxious and i always avoids her like i was never ever with anyone but due to my past experiences I'm avoidant personalty. This video is really good maybe I'm Narcissist but I'm wht I'm i can't tag a category on myself.
Your voice is sooo good sir. Jab maine apki video pehle bar deka toh apka voice sunkr mujhe lgta ap 15 16 years ke honge but jab apka face deka toh mujhe lga nahi yeh woh nahi hai ye koi aur hai
Bhai trust me, exact yahi anxious aur avoidant wala case hua hai apne sath. Lagbhag same story. Aur breakup ke baad ye video dekh ke kafi accha laga. I wish vo bhi ye video dekhti.
FROM THIS VIDEO , I'M DAMN SURE I HAVE BOTH JUST I NEED TO LEARN HOW TO USE IT WELL ANYWAY THANK YOU SIR I LEARN ALOT FROM YOUR VIDEO BUT THIS IS NOT ENOUGH !
Awesome Always Inspiring us, We r always wants to teacher likes you, This channel changed most of the peoples life.....And I m also glad to see u...🙏🙏🤗 Thanks for helping
Sir a Biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig Fan of yours 🌺🌼🌷🙏🏻 You and Your Videos have totally changed me in a good way👍🏻 Sir can you pls pls pls make a video on Good habits and teachings of bad people like Adolf Hitler,Harshad Mehta,Shakuni Mama etc Please Sir 🙏🏻👍🏻 Hope you will Make a video On this topic👍🏻🙏🏻😇
Introduction. 0:01
1 the dependency paradox. 3:06
2 Anxious attachment style 4:55
3 Avoidant attachment style 6:18
4 Secure attachment style 7:16
5 Mismatch is the problem 8:11
In summary, being ‘dependent’ in the sense of providing nothing in exchange is not good, but as humans and other beings and the planet, we are all attached to each other.
Choices bhale hi alag ho but sabko relationship m caring , loyal , trustworthy partner chahiye hi hota h..
Yaa you are right 🤔🤔
Wow
Galti dono ka hi hai qki pyar to bhagwan se karna chahiye or shadi k bad hi patni se pyar karna chahiye
I'm avoidant. And I have experienced ideal bonding with secure attachment style. This information is well structured!
Me too
"The more people you love, the weaker you are." - Cersei Lannister
You think like me
I agree.........
Yeahh
@KARAN TIWARI love have its own side effects and affects.
@KARAN TIWARI real love starts from within ownself
Anxious & Avoidance 😭😭😭😭...last few years I'm anxious attached but now I'm feel proud to say that I'm from avoidance personality in love😂..
😂😂
*Some notes here*
• *The Dependency Paradox*
To be independent, find the right person to be dependent to
• *Anxious, avoidant and secure attachment style*
Secure individuals can date with both avoidants and anxious and help them overcome their limitations -as long as they stay secure-. Anxious become less anxious with secure partners indeed.
Anxious with avoidants is one of the worst and it’s very common.
Only secure people approach conflict openly.
*My passion is to make summary. I started doing it on my channel* ✌️
Good 👍🏽❤️
@@pubggamers880 Bhai aap ache insan aap sub ko support karte ho mere channel ko subscribe kardo bro 🙂
@@Fun.57 okay
Bhai Bhai Bhai .....
Thank 🥳
Its been four year's and I transitioned to secure one, helped a lot thank You
*सिक्के हमेशा आवाज करते है,*
*पर नोट खामोश रहते है,*
*इसलिए जब आपकी कीमत बढे*
*तो शांत रहिये,*
*क्यूंकि हैसियत का शोर मचाने का*
*जिम्मा आप से कम कीमत वालों का है !!💝💝🌹🌹🌻🌻👌👌🙏🙏🙏
Wow 😻😻😻😻
Wahhhh
25 % avoident ,25% anxious, 50% secure
I think it's 50% anxious 👉👈
So true.
Same here 😊
Well last few years i was an anxious attachment person but now I'm avoidant attachment person😅😅
I'm also 😁😁😁😁😁😁
Breakup nahh?
Same
How did this happen.. ? This is too difficult, I'm also an anxious attachment person
@@simmi2831 I am totally different person I am confused attachment person
Excellent vedio , in today's world lots of people don't know this reality of psychology.
Singles give your attendance 😂😂😂
😅👨🔧
Present sir🤝💔😂
🤘
🖐🏻
🙂🤣
Our generation has majority has Anxious style. We are emotionally so weak that we need constant assurance.
Ideal style comes with age I guess.
I think feminine person is more anxious style.
Couldn't agree more
@@E-Sports007 exactly!
I am a girl and I have avoidant attachment style
Best video I’ve ever seen about relationship
Umm...
I found myself ANXCIOUS.
And yeah, I am currently going through the situation same as TAMAAIRA faced.
But,
THANKS to you brother.
Now, I understood everything we should care before getting attatched to anyone.
I'm feeling a bit better than before.
THANKS A LOT
same here but in different way 😞
Everybody is avoidant and everybody is anxious it depends upon who falls first and who plays well
Yeah .. I do think attachment style changes with the change in relationship.
Bhai 1 dum correct.... you solve my problem broo i mean solve to mere ko he karne padege but apne nature ko jo explain kia h mtlb book se nakal ke jo hame bataya h 👍👍 i like it..
The same thing happened with me brother........ Life is so unpredictable. I wish i could have watched your videos beforehand
Attachment style anxious??
Right now I am secure attachment person.
😇😇😇
For Secure attachment style i just remembered my mother ...😇😇😇😇
You helped me alot bro in my relationship ❤️❤️❤️
Singles😂! Give your attendance
Thank you for 1.4k likes❤️
🤣🤣
I'm absent
@@vsvhardik8408 😂😂 LoL
I am a single 😀
meee
Thank you so much for dis video....all videos of ur's are awesome, my day always starts with warm water n ur video.... ❣️❣️❣️❣️
Remembering our soldiers on Black day ♥️🇮🇳
Rip our soldiers🙏♥️
Salute to our soldiers..
No love no tension no problem happy breakup Day
🔥🤣🤣
Zeher 🤯🥳
Yup bro
Are Yarrr😁😁😁
Mera v aaj ho gya🤣🤣🤣 happy break up day
SeeKen, I am visiting your website after a long time, I used to watch your videos when you would never come on the screen but only provide a voiceover to the sketches on the screen.
I now notice that in some of the videos you provide your learnings from more than one book. Those videos are actually unique content because we won’t find them in a single book.
Additionally, even your summaries for individual books are useful. 👍
70% anxious , 20 % avoidant ,10% secure
First break 💔 up mera hua . Mujhe laga iske liye mein zimedar hu galat hu but aj apke vedio se samjh aya ki I m also not wrong bus mera type alag tha . Thank you ❤️
“Love’s greatest gift is its ability to make everything it touches sacred.”
Singal life is the best 🌹
I have anxious attachment style but my partner have avoidant attachment style. In early stages i become very upset from her but after sometime i changed my attachment style to secure attachment style and now i think that i can build more stable and happy relationship with my partner.
In my case -
I have avoident attachment style and my
Partner have anxious attachment style
Does it work?? Are you guys still together?
I was like greg, but i learned and changed myself to secure one.
How u realized what's wrong and how you charged that?
Yes Please tell
To change, first u need to know what's wrong,
To know what's wrong, u need to spend time alone, and analyse all your emotional activities.
Filter your thoughts, pinpoint on whats important. Focus on your goals, let go of useless people and stop wasting time.
Hard to do but always effective
Most important, know your priorities and take action accordingly. Select with your preference not with desire.
Anxious Attachment Style ✋
Perfectly relatable🤜🤛
"IF YOU WANT TO BE RICH AND HAPPY DON'T GO TO SCHOOL" "ROBERT KIYOSAKI"
PLZ MAKE A VIDEO ON THIS BOOK.
You're too late on this channel and This subject..he has made it almost 2 3 years ago..!!
Your are the great work bro ❤ make knowledgebal videos
Thank-you man I found my answer here that avoided nature is not exactly wrong.
I used be the anxious maybe this is b'coz my childhood was too good later on may father behaviour changed towards me and also due my relationship where i was madly in love.
But now I'm avoidant and i really don't like someone involve in me too much I'm not selfish but this is how I'm my gf is anxious i don't love her she loves me alot and she's handling our relationship like no one ever did. Healthiest and the longest relationship of mine.
She is pure anxious and i always avoids her like i was never ever with anyone but due to my past experiences I'm avoidant personalty.
This video is really good maybe I'm Narcissist but I'm wht I'm i can't tag a category on myself.
Lekin har baar hum hi secure attachments rakhe to self esteem ki bejjati hoti haii😅
I am in-between anxious and secure 😂😂😂
It Means... Avoidant 😁
Thank you for this awesome information ❤️
4 years ki relationship tha mera. But last me woh chod kar chali gayi. 😔
Love from assam 💚💚💚
My attachment style is secure!🙏
The best way to impress a girl is to ignore them it shows maturity 💯💯
The Like Switch by Jack Schafer is my favourite book. 📙📚
I'm have avoidant attachment style 🙂.
Thanks for helping me to know my attachment style.
I have anxious attachment style ....but I want to develop secure attachment style in me..
Thanks for the precious information....
Pulwama vir Shahido ke liye Shradhanjali 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
😞🙏
U are right
🙏🙏🙏🙏
I constantly trying to adopt my style as secure by training my brain but I’m half anxious
Me and my Koko both have secure attachment style.... and we are lucky to have each other...
I am avoidant but my girlfriend is anxious but i love her so much 💞
Your voice is sooo good sir. Jab maine apki video pehle bar deka toh apka voice sunkr mujhe lgta ap 15 16 years ke honge but jab apka face deka toh mujhe lga nahi yeh woh nahi hai ye koi aur hai
Mera to teno style hain
With father- avoidance style
With sister- secure style
With mother- anxious style
I think I am 50% anxious and 50% secure 👍
Bich me latke ho kya
@@godisfake6865 Shayad 😂
Mera Bhai aa gaya yaar aapkne or Gigl Wale Bhaiya ne mujhe bahut hope diya h or mai zaroor khudko Badal lunga.😀😀😀
Thank you bro i feel like i have understood myself better 👍
Bhai trust me, exact yahi anxious aur avoidant wala case hua hai apne sath. Lagbhag same story.
Aur breakup ke baad ye video dekh ke kafi accha laga.
I wish vo bhi ye video dekhti.
Bhai g jo chij Mai kaffi salo mai samaj paya iss video se samaj aa gya god bless you brother keep growing 👌
Everyone here watching this video is preparing themselves for next valentine's Day 😜😂😂😂😂
@@growithanuj hehe 😜😂
Sahi kaha 😂
📌 *_Thank you_* for this *helpful* & *informative* book summary video 💓
Bought youtube premier only to listen bai in background ❤️❤️❤️
M n kisi bhi video par first time comments kia ha.... well done bro
I'm Avoidment attachment style
Same here 🙂
First like and comment ..... Thank you bhaai
Yebooks or great life great Idea and your same day video Very happy 😊
Another one : Rewirs
Anxious Attachment style🙋
Thank you so much ❤️ bro
Best video ever on Seeken ...
Thank you so much for every single video.
FROM THIS VIDEO , I'M DAMN SURE I HAVE BOTH JUST I NEED TO LEARN HOW TO USE IT WELL
ANYWAY THANK YOU SIR
I LEARN ALOT FROM YOUR VIDEO BUT THIS IS NOT ENOUGH !
On Valentine's day watch all day animes
Pura dekho
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And rate kro
Anime ke aage Bollywood,tollywood sab 💩💩 hai
@@SS-te5gd yep you're right
Sir आप बहुत ही बढ़िया इनफार्मेशन देते है लेकिन थोड़ा फ़ास्ट स्पीकिंग करते हो।
-your faithfully
प्रदीप ठाकोर (गुजरात)
Bhai abhi toh crush h koi gf nhi bani ha par mera scene triangle wala me she likes my bestie he likes me and i like her 😅😅.
Wowwwww so beautiful video🎥 thanku so mach 🥰🥰😃
Awesome Always Inspiring us, We r always wants to teacher likes you, This channel changed most of the peoples life.....And I m also glad to see u...🙏🙏🤗
Thanks for helping
One of the best videos i came accross
sad but i had a anxious attachment style!
Bhahi from Pakistan Biggest Fan
Thank you ❤️
So nice video ❣️
Very useful 👍
Next video on investing please
Ye mujhe bahut pasand hai
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Fearful avoident attachment style
Secure ^_^ thank u for amazing content..god bless u
Try to attach
Hi
@@supportnepal2310 hi
Tell me something about you
@@ashwaqkhan3980 how are you
Be safe and believe your self. 😊
@@supportnepal2310 I am fine and
I am so pleased getting your reply
Most liked channel GIGL and seeken.👍👍
Sir a Biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig Fan of yours 🌺🌼🌷🙏🏻
You and Your Videos have totally changed me in a good way👍🏻
Sir can you pls pls pls make a video on Good habits and teachings of bad people like Adolf Hitler,Harshad Mehta,Shakuni Mama etc
Please Sir 🙏🏻👍🏻
Hope you will Make a video On this topic👍🏻🙏🏻😇
50 percent avoident 50 percent secure
Attachment is the enemy 🙄
Seriously bro , thankyou for this video
Now i know my style
Most relatable vedio I have even come across on TH-cam ❤️
"video" spelling is wrong
@@KamruOPLive 🤣🤣
पहली बार आपका विडीओ इतना कनफ़ीयसिंग लगा है😇😇😇
The good is avoidant attachment style
THANKYOU.
Secure type ❤️
Ham donon ek dusre se bahut pyar
Today is Black day for Indians♥️♥️
Rip our soldiers 🙏♥️
Manhusiyat failana band kar
@@anshagrawal3713 aye pagal😠😡
Respect our soldiers 🇮🇳🙏
Agar ye soldiers nahi hote to tu ghar me hifajat nahi rehta♥️
I am in the catarory of ' Avoid and Attachment ' style
I think my attachment style is avoidant attachment style. I need some advice on how to change it to secure attachment style.
Anyone anxious here...
Well I'm single since when i born, but in the field of any type of relationship. I have a avoid &... Type of attachment.
The contents are truly amazing