Glad your taking the break you need .. the pressures put on ppl in their 20’s is ridiculous.. enjoy the fruits of your labor .. rejuvenate and march forward with balance 💕💕💕
I appreciate you Tara 💕💓 never be sorry for taking care of yourself! You're great and I love your content. Renew your spirit and come back succeeding doing what you LOVE❤
She definitely needs a break. Self care is very important! That said, the life of an entrepreneur is not easy... no matter your age! Problem with people in their 20's today is that most don't have more than a high-school diploma, if that. Higher education is no longer necessary in the eye's of young adults today. They also don't have any business skills; and hope that youtube or instagram will take off for them. They watch a few tutorials and say to themselves, "I can do that, who needs college". Not knowing all the work it's going to entail to actually produce a product, promote it, and eventually sell it. Everyday they hope that this video, or that photo will be the one that makes them successful. When reality hits of all the business aspects that goes on with posting content , whether its videos, photos, or selling a product... they crash and burn, with years of hoping and waiting to see the fruits of their labor. There's recording, editing, finding sponsors and promoting them. Not to mention promoting yourself, on-top of creating and selling a product; and if you're selling a product, you now have to learn about purchasing wholesale, finding those vendors, taking inventory, being your own bookkeeper and accountant. If you're lucky you get an hour to just sit back and relax, your lucky! That's alot for anyone! My advice is for people to have a plan, and seek higher education for whatever your passion is. It doesn't have to be college. Take some business courses online. In anything that you'd like to become that entails money, learn everything you need to know about it; and get a friend you trust to help you on your journey.. no one makes it to the top alone!
Not going to lie, I was almost going to cry when I saw your shop closed, since all I use now is your rose face wash and glycolic toner, and I'm almost out. I totally understand that when you run your own business it takes over your life, but it is also your business, and the income is unlimited. The first couple of years are the hardest, because you have to put the most in. It's definitely important not to let yourself get burnt out. Maybe your business has grown to the point that you need some help. Like hiring someone to do the tasks that you don't want to deal with in your etsy shop (filling bottles, packing up orders and mailing them out, accounting, those sort of things), then you can focus on creating the products and the things that really bring you joy to do. Even having someone edit videos for you, because I know how much time editing takes up. The most successful people start off doing everything themselves, but eventually hire help, because our time is worth money. Paying people to do the tasks that don't need to be done by you, can free up more time for you to focus on those things you really want to be doing. Glad you are taking time for yourself, I have my etsy email notification on so that I know when you reopen 😊👍.
❤I understand where you're coming from in this video. As someone who also went through a few mental breakdowns related to business, this video came at the perfect time. I also decided to close my physical business and switch my direction because of losing passion. It's refreshing to see a video like this coming from you; a video that speaks to the average joes lol All these tik tok blow ups will have us all thinking we're behind. Thank you
This really hit home for me Tara❤️❤️ I recently stopped my business as well because of these reasons. I totally understand where your coming from! You have taught me so much about the business take your time we will be here ❤️❤️❤️
I can understand this wholeheartedly and I haven't even told anyone I make products, the gardening and videos is hard enough... I'm happy you're feeling better 💕 get well soon
this is soooo real. Especially for us business owners. We put everything into our work, live and breathe it and forget to actually make time for connection , play and adventure. We just completely exhaust ourselves. Finding that balance is hard but you have done the right thing by taking a step back and allowing yourself some breathing room to realign and re-energize. We could all learn a thing or two from you Tara. Thank you for being so vulnerable with us and sharing the REAL struggles of what lifes like behind the scenes . Would love to hear the full version aswell :D xx
I completely understand you Tara. As an ER doctor myself and also formulating my own skin care, it can be hectic and it is mandatory to take breaks and just step away from work. You have to find an outlet or else it will truly affect you in a negative way. Enjoy your growth and be proud of how far you have come. I've been following you for quite some time and I actually got some of my lab equipment because of your suggestions
Thank you! It's so refreshing to see the truth of success and the tolls it takes on us. A big squeezy hug from a complete stranger that understands; and remember, each new day heralds a new beginning x
Enjoy your well deserved break Tara, I totally understand where you’re coming from and hope you find the balance you’re looking for! Do what makes you happy, at the end of the day that’s all that matters 💕
I love the way soap makers manage their shops, closing their shops after each soap release, allowing them time in between for whatever they need. Tara, it's ok to put yourself first. I pray you find a way to get back to the enjoyment of creating for your brand without it taking over your life. And, yes, this video has provided useful information for when I launch. Thank you!
Thank you for all you do. Your not screwing us over. We rather you feel good and healthy. You teach us so much. I know the feeling about packaging packages and being anger. Keep up all the work that you do
Yes!!! I just went through this exact thing: realizing I was doing too much, going through a move, and took a giant break. We definitely need to be kinder to ourselves. I’ve restricted wholesale customers to a minimum because I felt exactly as you did. Thank you for sharing Tara and showing the reality of success. It’s not all sunshine and rainbows: it’s a TON of work. Good luck with your move! My mentals improved immensely once I separated my workspace from my living space ❤️
I hope you get the break you need. Owning a business is really hard work and when you’re the only person doing it, it consumes you. Been there. Take your time and heal, and I hope you feel better soon and get your head & heart where you want & need it ❤️ I’ve battled depression and anxiety my whole life, and own a business, and have a family to take care of, so from someone a few (11) years older than you, my unsolicited advice is to enjoy your youth. I spent the entirety of my 20s grinding and burned out so badly I crashed and burned hard, and it still affects me. Take time to enjoy your life and youth, your boyfriend and the joy of owning a home, and reconnect with your friends! Friend/girl time always boost your serotonin levels, and it sounds like you could really use some of that. People will get over you taking a reprieve. There’s no Taralee Skincare without Tara, so take good care of yourself and do things that bring you joy ❤️ sending love and healing vibes ✌️
Hello Tara, thank you for sharing this real honest video. Just wanted to say I have been following you for over a year. I started my own cosmetic business at the age of 38! (end of 2020) after 15 years in Financial career. I still work, but believe it or not I actually get inspired a lot by your journey and videos on TH-cam. You are doing incredible and all I can see the only for you is go up. I wish you all the success and congratulations with the new house!. P.S I started my own channel too called Ziver Organiques ( your influence lol) 😁🙌🏻🌸
Thank you so much for sharing! This is very real! I’ve been there multiple times over the 10 years I’ve been in business. So many different things happened and it is overwhelming. But a strong person knows when to stop. I’m proud of you. Take all the time you need and we’ll be here when you’re ready 💜💜
@@TaraLeee oh dear girl!! Please-please read something on importance of a balanced energy giving and taking. It is so important to not get burnt down by ANYTHING - so go slow and smart and love yourself. Maybe it’s time to manage an extended business model?
Oh girl, I feel your pain. The most important thing you can do is take care of yourself. Take the time you need to rest and reenergize yourself. Your customers and clients will understand. Good luck!
So proud of you for listening to your wise inner voice that’s telling you it’s time to tend to yourself. It’s absolutely important to give yourself rest. Let your mind, body and spirit heal. Please make sure you’re prioritizing sleep, eating, and stress management because women are so susceptible to taxing their adrenals and hormones when living in stress. Hustle culture is so toxic and I applaud you for not being afraid of dropping the hustle for your well being. 💚
Tara you take all the time you need to love on yourself and get healthy. When you do reopen set boundaries for yourself, and plenty of time to have fun, and relax.
Thank u so much 4 being so transparent😍. Influencers make being a youtuber seem so easy like running water when I too am devoted 2 my business so I SO UNDERSTAND where u r coming from. As an entrepreneur we 2 need a break 2 breathe
Thank you Tara not just for your posts but for this brave honesty. I'm weirdly relating to many followers-your posts also inspired me to start my own business. I've also worked myself sick and nothing is worth your health....and so I may be closing my business as well this year despite breaking through all those initial hurdles. So it's nice seeing that this message is out there for those that may be sacrificing too much. Business ownership is no joke esp when you're the only one there to decide when to take a break! Be well, take your time to recover and congrats on all those other milestones!
I think you are absolutely an amazing person. I'm 64 years old, and I look up to you. I use many of your formulations, and I am thankful to you for that. I want to be you when I grow up. Keep reaching for the stars, bless you for all you do. Hugs
Hey beautiful! I am in my 50’s , I have watched you for some years. I love your drive, the courage to speak from the heart. You are amazing , and will continue to do wonderful things in your future. The TH-cam world and social media is DEADLY,ITS TOXIC, and very scary to watch the changes in humanity. YOU DID THE RIGHT THING! YOU ARE ALREADY SUCCESSFUL, you are loving YOU!!! May God bless you 💕
Yes, we all have depression episodes, and good for you recognizing yours and what you need to do. I wish you the best, you have a lot on your plate, but give yourself the time and you deserve this
Well I just crossed paths with your channel yesterday because I'm trying to add a personalized skin care product to my single mom of 3, esthetician journey while dealing with depression and anxiety so let me tell you that I admire your strength and good vibes not to mention that I already feel confident to order supplies and start creating 😊 ❤️ Thank you, Tara
just seen this - love your video's, full of good tips and clearly love what you do. Take it easy land look after yourself. Don't let it drive your life - have a life and you'll keep loving it!
Thank you Tara! for your transparency. Thanks to you and all the women commenting I don’t feel alone.. I felt like a failure because I took a break from my business. I know I’ll be back but I need to get me & my mental health back on track. Gods timing is always perfect! 💕💕😌
Thank you for being real and honest. Keep taking care of yourself. I'm one of the smaller people trying to start up and you really did help me see some things. I hope you feel better soon.
I acquired an autoimmune disease from job-related stress, so good for you for having the clarity to see how damaging your work had become to you before you faced any more issues. Thank you for sharing, which is difficult, and also, for your excellent videos, which I just discovered this week! Being your own boss is many peoples' dream, but becomes a nightmare without enough help. Living on social media is also very difficult, with trolls lying in wait everywhere. Concentrate on recovering your health before you launch into anything more, and good luck ignoring that inner voice that keeps giving you deadlines and sales projections.
This is definitely understandable! You have to do what’s best for you. The good thing about a business is that you can always close it and open it back up when you are 100% ready. At the end of the day you have to do what’s best for you. I am excited to see what new content you will post. Keep striving for greatness.
I just want to say this. I have been watching you off and on for quite some time now and I admire everything that you have accomplished...especially going back to the day that you made up your mind to do your own thing. We have many trials and tribulations in life...take it from a 74 year old who just started an ecommerce store on FB...I've been making personal skincare products like yourself. But, only since Dec. 2018, and I am nowhere near to what you have accomplished. I feel I still have a lot to learn. You give a lot of good information and it has certainly helped me. I am not a Formulator. I went to my favorite Mall one day and found out the store where I purchase my favorite body butter and soap was closing their doors on Dec. 24, 2018. I was mad and sad all at the same time. I left the store with no purchase and decided, I'm making my own stuff. So, here I am and I listen to you, young lady. You've got miles to go before you get to my age and I'm the one who admires you. You have a right to slow it down and it's a good thing that you did....you'll get it done. Be blessed.👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽😍
Hi Tara. I must commend you on speaking out your depression and even more so taking a break. Kudos to you 🤗 Best thing I've seen in a while where people get real and thank you for that. You really are such an inspiration to me with your user friendly expression of ingredients, recipes etc. Keep up the good work kiddo ( I have a kid older than you ☺️). This too will pass 🙏 stay blessed
Tara Dear, you have an awakening..... Do more of what you love, it's your life. You will come back strong and definitely you are a winner 🏆. Stay cheerful! ❤️
When your joy is missing from the thing that you love always take stock and figure out why. I have had to make adjustments over time when life happens. I love creating but without stress. Wholesaling is hard, and the hustle is real. It is easy to overwork yourself. I do what I have to do so I can do what I want to do, and sometimes it is really hard. It would be nice win the lottery and not have money worries, LOL. May you find the best way to find your joy again in creating. Relax and figure it all out. Thank you so much for all you have shared with us here. Love the channel Tara! I got the pH meter for Christmas and I LOVE it. Thanks for the recommendation.
Glad you are taken a break. My daughter suffered from depression also and she doesn't want to work ever. Take care yourself we will wait and understand . ❤❤
Hey,nothing is more important than your health.take care of yourself.you have thought me a lot with your videos and i even started my skincare business 3 months back ..it's good to take a break sometimes 💖💖
Thank you for the transparency, because I’ve discovered this myself just with social media. So I’m taking the time for me and not being overwhelmed with “business”. The point of it all is to have freedom of finances and Time, that is the battle and balance.❤️
You are doing great Tara. Pls always remember now and later in life, physical activity is the best remedy against depression. Take your pick - mine is yoga
Thank you so much for all your youtube channel Tara.. we love you and yes you should take a break, take a deep breath, take a vacation.. we will always wait for your youtube channel and your products… 🥰🥰🥰 sending lots of love, positive energies, and smile 😊
I started an etsy shop 2 years ago and I didn't know what I was doing. I found your videos while I was trying to learn the ropes. You really helped me out a million!! Really like your content and loved this video too :) Good luck with the YT focus!! You'll do amazing!!! Take care :)
No need to apologize. Self-care is so needed. Last month, I was down because I wasn't getting the sales that I wanted. But after taking a step back, I decided to focus on other things. Now after watching this, I'm kind of glad that I don't have crazy sales. Thank you for this video. I'm glad that you're taking care of self and visiting friends.
Your words ring true for so many, for myself your videos brought me out of a dark place during covid and inspired me to start my skincare line. You have given so much of yourself to so many of us🙏you do you and it will all fall into place, step one was recognizing the signs your body was sending you. I thank you again for all your hard work💜
You are adorable! I love and appreciate you and all the info you share with us. Glad you are taking a break! At some point would love to see a tour of your home if you don't mind sharing but mostly a tour of your new shop once you are done with the remodel
The way you are feeling about your business is the way I'm currently feeling about my full time job. I'm so ready to quit this job and start my own business. I don't like the business side as far as taxes and licenses and all that crap, but I love formulating and making the products and people's responses.
Hi Tara, Thank you so much for sharing this. I'm happy to hear that you are taking care of yourself; you made the right call. I admire that you are recognizing that you need to slow down, especially when you have put so much effort and time in your business. Feeling overwhelmed is not fun, and starting to not liking what you are doing is not where you want to be. Best of luck and wishing you a healthy and fun 2022!!! Big hug!
Super glad you posted this video Tara because it describes how I’ve been feeling lately. I do have social anxiety now too when it comes to interacting with people, plus covid lockdown has made me even more anti social and focused on my small business 😩 it’s just a lot to handle on your plate!
Thank you for making this video because this is something i am currently going through as a business owner. I am glad you are taking a break. I wish you lots of love
Hey Tara, I love you a lot as a creator, formulator and guide. It is great to see you taking care of yourself, wish you a lot of happiness in your life ❤ it is good to rest once in a while and don't forget there are people, family friends who are there to help you when in need, even with business too or please hire some help, it may reduce some pressure off of you..wish you the best, take care 😇 lots of love to you from India❤
This is normal you are burned out. You have to start your day off first with giving to yourself before you do anything. Your morning routine should be you first. I start my routine with meditation, reading, listening to something positive, exercise, affirmations, being grateful. You will see a big change in your mental health. I had to learn how to do this because I went to the same thing twice in my life. I have noticed a big change & if I miss a day I notice a difference immediately "stress". I do my best not to miss self care because I love the way I feel "peace & harmony ".🤗
Dear Tara… I’ve learn a lot from your channel. And honestly I’ve made something out of it. The best thing is I can sell it and survive during this pandemic 😷 for my family. Whatever is happening… just keep yourself to be happiest person. . You are one of my favourite channel and always looking forward to learn from you. Take care and stay healthy ❤️🌹
I watch your videos because I love making stuff and I make gifts with some of the simpler formulations. Your videos are a joy to watch. Thank you for your hard work. You deserve a break. Enjoy your life❤️
I feel you Tara, you are doing the right thing by taking a well deserved break! As self employed small business owners, we always forget to plan for breaks, self care and vacation time for ourselves. Sending love and hugs
I maybe 2 days late for this but I just want you to know, you deserve that break and enjoy that time for yourself. As someone who's also in 20's, I completely understand. We all have silent battles that we need to face. TAKE YOUR TIME AND WE'LL BE RIGHT HERE WHEN YOU GET BACK 😉🤗 Sending lots of loooove from PH💕💞💖❣🇵🇭
Good for u girl! I am about to launch but I live in canada in kelowna, and I am just gonna stay small at farmers markets, u definitely helped me make a decision to stay small...thank u for being honest. I love your channel so I will miss that . I learned alot. So thank u for that .
You’re absolutely amazing and courageous for opening up about all this. Please continue to take care of yourself and get that much needed break. And take this as an opportunity to set yourself new boundaries with your business. Maybe become very strict on days and times when you’re allowed to work and when you must be unplugged from it. Make it clear to your customers that orders will only be fulfilled Monday-Friday between 9-5 - or whatever works for you. … just saying basically set strict boundaries so your personal life can still flourish and you don’t get depressed. Love you so much Tara!! 🥰🥰
Thank you so much! I’ll definitely be spending my time during this break coming up with a better system for when I open back up. I really don’t want to over work myself anymore. & thanks so much for listening. I was worried about sharing this video, but I’m getting such positive feedback and it makes me so happy 😊
I don’t really do skin care but I like you. Your authentic! So I like listening to you. Can you not employ someone to help you? Could it be it’s time maybe you have grown? Again as I said I would not understand much on the aspect of business. That means your product are good
I saw your diy Retinol cream and I want to say you are amazingly resourceful! You will be highly successful one day. You're so young, yet so driven and focused. I would say You Deserve a Break! It doesn't have to be all cylinders or stopped. I think handmaking things is a Lot of work, and super hard to make a profit. You're probably gonna do much better with your TH-cam. It will only grow. Good luck! (I wish my daughter was as determined as you :)
I just fricken love you! I hope you love the house as much as we did! It's so beautiful out there. So relaxing and that's EXACTLY what you needed! Leave the business at the trailer! You are a beautiful person inside and out, and dont have time to cry and be depressed. Divert the energy✌🏼 🥰🥰
Tara u are such an awesome, lovely person inside and out. Thank you for being the kind, generous, helpful and genuine person that you are. You are a super woman and an amazing inspiration to us all. We are here to support you as you have been here helping us and supporting us over the past few years. May you be blessed and may the business you have worked on tirelessly and effortlessly succeed and continue to grow abundantly, even as you get the much needed rest you deserve. We love you very much!
Girl you gotta take care of you . Mentally and physically. I’m glad you took a break . You are young but don’t be killing your self so much with work. Is okay to take breaks and also live life .
I totally get this. I recently retired from the Sweet Treat World. Same way I felt. I did it for 13yrs and isolated from from friends and family. I've had no social life for qt least 10yrs bc I was working so much. It got to the point where I didn't enjoy it any longer. The thought of decorating cookies made me cringe. It was very difficult for me to create and it didn'tuse to be like that. So, now I'm getting into skincare which gives me a little downtime compared to cookie designing. I'm going to take this downtime to get my thoughts together and not rush into things. Take your time. Relax. Take a breather. We will be here.
My heart goes out to you! You've worked a lot at such young age. I can relate, as I started working at 18 so I can totally understand where you're coming from
I had liked the video and forgot to leave my comment lol. Wishing you all the best in your health Tara. I don't think a lot of sbo (small business owners) talk enough on this topic: how hard it is to run their own business and (I totally understand the meaning of not wanting to overshare on social media as well) but some not all make it seems glorious at times, but we must be honest, at some point I know this small business will take atoll on me if I am not careful with my health and happiness. Whenever I feel overwhelmed I remember my "WHY" then slow down and start over again. I owe social media nothing I always say, I can start over as many times I like, disappear and rebuild again. I salute you queen for staying strong but still going. Am just starting up...but I appreciate videos like these where I can sit at my 9-5 and learn from those who are ahead of me. All am saying is thank you ^_^. Love from the Caribbean.
Thank you for being so honest. I have a clothing store and I stopped it because I started to despise it. I was taking care of my grandmother and couldn't handle the stress. I felt so defeated and felt like a failure for pausing it.
Totally understandable. Entrepreneur burn out is definitely something many people experience. This is a time when considering expanding your business and building a team becomes helpful if at all possible.
You are such a beautiful young woman…it was when I tripped onto you on you tube I liked what I saw and began my journey. You don’t have to explain anything and here you are pretty much an open book. Congratulations on your new home! You deserve a billion breaks. Positive and healing energy your way. Cheers to you for acknowledging you need a break. I have learned and grown along with you and for that I say Thank You! I enjoy formulating and I will be formulating for older menopausal skin/body(never too old to find your way). Sincerely Sharin 🙂
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Glad your taking the break you need .. the pressures put on ppl in their 20’s is ridiculous.. enjoy the fruits of your labor .. rejuvenate and march forward with balance 💕💕💕
Thank you 💗
@@TaraLeee As a foreigner I've learned a lot from you. You inspired me to create a TH-cam channel
Cast your cares on Him⬆️,
for He cares for you. 💕.
I appreciate you Tara 💕💓 never be sorry for taking care of yourself! You're great and I love your content. Renew your spirit and come back succeeding doing what you LOVE❤
She definitely needs a break. Self care is very important! That said, the life of an entrepreneur is not easy... no matter your age! Problem with people in their 20's today is that most don't have more than a high-school diploma, if that. Higher education is no longer necessary in the eye's of young adults today. They also don't have any business skills; and hope that youtube or instagram will take off for them. They watch a few tutorials and say to themselves, "I can do that, who needs college". Not knowing all the work it's going to entail to actually produce a product, promote it, and eventually sell it. Everyday they hope that this video, or that photo will be the one that makes them successful. When reality hits of all the business aspects that goes on with posting content , whether its videos, photos, or selling a product... they crash and burn, with years of hoping and waiting to see the fruits of their labor. There's recording, editing, finding sponsors and promoting them. Not to mention promoting yourself, on-top of creating and selling a product; and if you're selling a product, you now have to learn about purchasing wholesale, finding those vendors, taking inventory, being your own bookkeeper and accountant. If you're lucky you get an hour to just sit back and relax, your lucky! That's alot for anyone! My advice is for people to have a plan, and seek higher education for whatever your passion is. It doesn't have to be college. Take some business courses online. In anything that you'd like to become that entails money, learn everything you need to know about it; and get a friend you trust to help you on your journey.. no one makes it to the top alone!
Not going to lie, I was almost going to cry when I saw your shop closed, since all I use now is your rose face wash and glycolic toner, and I'm almost out. I totally understand that when you run your own business it takes over your life, but it is also your business, and the income is unlimited. The first couple of years are the hardest, because you have to put the most in. It's definitely important not to let yourself get burnt out.
Maybe your business has grown to the point that you need some help. Like hiring someone to do the tasks that you don't want to deal with in your etsy shop (filling bottles, packing up orders and mailing them out, accounting, those sort of things), then you can focus on creating the products and the things that really bring you joy to do. Even having someone edit videos for you, because I know how much time editing takes up.
The most successful people start off doing everything themselves, but eventually hire help, because our time is worth money. Paying people to do the tasks that don't need to be done by you, can free up more time for you to focus on those things you really want to be doing.
Glad you are taking time for yourself, I have my etsy email notification on so that I know when you reopen 😊👍.
Yes, great advice. I think it’s hard to let go sometimes but it is necessary.
❤I understand where you're coming from in this video. As someone who also went through a few mental breakdowns related to business, this video came at the perfect time. I also decided to close my physical business and switch my direction because of losing passion. It's refreshing to see a video like this coming from you; a video that speaks to the average joes lol All these tik tok blow ups will have us all thinking we're behind. Thank you
Thank you so much! 💗
I’m sorry to hear you lost passion, but I’m glad you made the decision to change things up for your well being.
The most important thing is that you’re ok. Mentally, physically, etc. just take care of you. We stand behind you in support. Give yourself time. ♥️
This really hit home for me Tara❤️❤️ I recently stopped my business as well because of these reasons. I totally understand where your coming from! You have taught me so much about the business take your time we will be here ❤️❤️❤️
Sorry you also went through it. Hope you are doing better 💗
I can understand this wholeheartedly and I haven't even told anyone I make products, the gardening and videos is hard enough... I'm happy you're feeling better 💕 get well soon
Wishing you all the best!! 💗
& thanks so much for listening 😊
this is soooo real. Especially for us business owners. We put everything into our work, live and breathe it and forget to actually make time for connection , play and adventure. We just completely exhaust ourselves. Finding that balance is hard but you have done the right thing by taking a step back and allowing yourself some breathing room to realign and re-energize. We could all learn a thing or two from you Tara. Thank you for being so vulnerable with us and sharing the REAL struggles of what lifes like behind the scenes . Would love to hear the full version aswell :D xx
“Hustle culture is toxic”
On point, and inspiring. Thank you for this video, I relate to this SO SO much and I think I need to reevaluate my life.
I completely understand you Tara. As an ER doctor myself and also formulating my own skin care, it can be hectic and it is mandatory to take breaks and just step away from work. You have to find an outlet or else it will truly affect you in a negative way. Enjoy your growth and be proud of how far you have come. I've been following you for quite some time and I actually got some of my lab equipment because of your suggestions
Thank you! It's so refreshing to see the truth of success and the tolls it takes on us. A big squeezy hug from a complete stranger that understands; and remember, each new day heralds a new beginning x
Enjoy your well deserved break Tara, I totally understand where you’re coming from and hope you find the balance you’re looking for! Do what makes you happy, at the end of the day that’s all that matters 💕
I love the way soap makers manage their shops, closing their shops after each soap release, allowing them time in between for whatever they need.
Tara, it's ok to put yourself first. I pray you find a way to get back to the enjoyment of creating for your brand without it taking over your life. And, yes, this video has provided useful information for when I launch. Thank you!
Thank you for all you do. Your not screwing us over. We rather you feel good and healthy. You teach us so much. I know the feeling about packaging packages and being anger. Keep up all the work that you do
Yes!!! I just went through this exact thing: realizing I was doing too much, going through a move, and took a giant break. We definitely need to be kinder to ourselves. I’ve restricted wholesale customers to a minimum because I felt exactly as you did. Thank you for sharing Tara and showing the reality of success. It’s not all sunshine and rainbows: it’s a TON of work. Good luck with your move! My mentals improved immensely once I separated my workspace from my living space ❤️
I hope you get the break you need. Owning a business is really hard work and when you’re the only person doing it, it consumes you. Been there. Take your time and heal, and I hope you feel better soon and get your head & heart where you want & need it ❤️ I’ve battled depression and anxiety my whole life, and own a business, and have a family to take care of, so from someone a few (11) years older than you, my unsolicited advice is to enjoy your youth. I spent the entirety of my 20s grinding and burned out so badly I crashed and burned hard, and it still affects me. Take time to enjoy your life and youth, your boyfriend and the joy of owning a home, and reconnect with your friends! Friend/girl time always boost your serotonin levels, and it sounds like you could really use some of that. People will get over you taking a reprieve. There’s no Taralee Skincare without Tara, so take good care of yourself and do things that bring you joy ❤️ sending love and healing vibes ✌️
Hello Tara, thank you for sharing this real honest video. Just wanted to say I have been following you for over a year. I started my own cosmetic business at the age of 38! (end of 2020) after 15 years in Financial career. I still work, but believe it or not I actually get inspired a lot by your journey and videos on TH-cam. You are doing incredible and all I can see the only for you is go up. I wish you all the success and congratulations with the new house!. P.S I started my own channel too called Ziver Organiques ( your influence lol) 😁🙌🏻🌸
I’m so glad my content has been so inspiring for you 😊 thanks for all the love and support and thanks for listening 💗
Wishing you all the best as well
I hope you feel better. Take your time to heal. I follow your work from Chile since 2018. You are the best! I send you a hug
Thank you so much for sharing! This is very real! I’ve been there multiple times over the 10 years I’ve been in business. So many different things happened and it is overwhelming. But a strong person knows when to stop. I’m proud of you. Take all the time you need and we’ll be here when you’re ready 💜💜
Awwwwh thank you 💗
I hope you are doing well yourself
@@TaraLeee I am thank you💜
So happy you recognize you needed a break. Take time for yourself Tara!
Thank you 💗
I’m definitely trying to take it easy for a bit
@@TaraLeee oh dear girl!! Please-please read something on importance of a balanced energy giving and taking. It is so important to not get burnt down by ANYTHING - so go slow and smart and love yourself. Maybe it’s time to manage an extended business model?
Oh girl, I feel your pain. The most important thing you can do is take care of yourself. Take the time you need to rest and reenergize yourself. Your customers and clients will understand. Good luck!
So proud of you for listening to your wise inner voice that’s telling you it’s time to tend to yourself. It’s absolutely important to give yourself rest. Let your mind, body and spirit heal. Please make sure you’re prioritizing sleep, eating, and stress management because women are so susceptible to taxing their adrenals and hormones when living in stress.
Hustle culture is so toxic and I applaud you for not being afraid of dropping the hustle for your well being. 💚
Tara you take all the time you need to love on yourself and get healthy. When you do reopen set boundaries for yourself, and plenty of time to have fun, and relax.
Thank u so much 4 being so transparent😍. Influencers make being a youtuber seem so easy like running water when I too am devoted 2 my business so I SO UNDERSTAND where u r coming from. As an entrepreneur we 2 need a break 2 breathe
Thank you Tara not just for your posts but for this brave honesty. I'm weirdly relating to many followers-your posts also inspired me to start my own business. I've also worked myself sick and nothing is worth your health....and so I may be closing my business as well this year despite breaking through all those initial hurdles. So it's nice seeing that this message is out there for those that may be sacrificing too much. Business ownership is no joke esp when you're the only one there to decide when to take a break! Be well, take your time to recover and congrats on all those other milestones!
I think you are absolutely an amazing person. I'm 64 years old, and I look up to you. I use many of your formulations, and I am thankful to you for that. I want to be you when I grow up. Keep reaching for the stars, bless you for all you do. Hugs
Its just has been literally 2 days since i found you, and i m just amazed. Please take a rest. We love you
Awwwh thank you! 💗 love you!
Hey beautiful! I am in my 50’s , I have watched you for some years. I love your drive, the courage to speak from the heart. You are amazing , and will continue to do wonderful things in your future. The TH-cam world and social media is DEADLY,ITS TOXIC, and very scary to watch the changes in humanity. YOU DID THE RIGHT THING! YOU ARE ALREADY SUCCESSFUL, you are loving YOU!!! May God bless you 💕
Yes, we all have depression episodes, and good for you recognizing yours and what you need to do. I wish you the best, you have a lot on your plate, but give yourself the time and you deserve this
Thank you for being you and all that you do!! Sending you positive uplifting energy ❤
Well I just crossed paths with your channel yesterday because I'm trying to add a personalized skin care product to my single mom of 3, esthetician journey while dealing with depression and anxiety so let me tell you that I admire your strength and good vibes not to mention that I already feel confident to order supplies and start creating 😊 ❤️
Thank you, Tara
Self care is the move 🧖🏽♀️ peace and blessings.
just seen this - love your video's, full of good tips and clearly love what you do. Take it easy land look after yourself. Don't let it drive your life - have a life and you'll keep loving it!
Thank you Tara! for your transparency. Thanks to you and all the women commenting I don’t feel alone.. I felt like a failure because I took a break from my business. I know I’ll be back but I need to get me & my mental health back on track. Gods timing is always perfect! 💕💕😌
Thank you for being real and honest. Keep taking care of yourself. I'm one of the smaller people trying to start up and you really did help me see some things. I hope you feel better soon.
You’ll bounce back, with a better perspective. You have a professional vibe about you that I’d consider to be a commodity. Never forget that.
I felt every word you said .. just take some time do enjoyable things and come back to us we love you tara ❤️
I acquired an autoimmune disease from job-related stress, so good for you for having the clarity to see how damaging your work had become to you before you faced any more issues. Thank you for sharing, which is difficult, and also, for your excellent videos, which I just discovered this week! Being your own boss is many peoples' dream, but becomes a nightmare without enough help. Living on social media is also very difficult, with trolls lying in wait everywhere. Concentrate on recovering your health before you launch into anything more, and good luck ignoring that inner voice that keeps giving you deadlines and sales projections.
Good for you!
Self luv/care is not selfish, it’s necessary!!
If you don’t take of you, no one else will!
Take care of yourself girl 💓 your health is important both mentally and physically.
This is definitely understandable! You have to do what’s best for you. The good thing about a business is that you can always close it and open it back up when you are 100% ready. At the end of the day you have to do what’s best for you.
I am excited to see what new content you will post. Keep striving for greatness.
I can totally relate!!!! Stay strong my love we’ll all be here. Your health is wealth
Thank you so much 💗
I just want to say this. I have been watching you off and on for quite some time now and I admire everything that you have accomplished...especially going back to the day that you made up your mind to do your own thing. We have many trials and tribulations in life...take it from a 74 year old who just started an ecommerce store on FB...I've been making personal skincare products like yourself. But, only since Dec. 2018, and I am nowhere near to what you have accomplished. I feel I still have a lot to learn. You give a lot of good information and it has certainly helped me. I am not a Formulator. I went to my favorite Mall one day and found out the store where I purchase my favorite body butter and soap was closing their doors on Dec. 24, 2018. I was mad and sad all at the same time. I left the store with no purchase and decided, I'm making my own stuff. So, here I am and I listen to you, young lady. You've got miles to go before you get to my age and I'm the one who admires you. You have a right to slow it down and it's a good thing that you did....you'll get it done. Be blessed.👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽😍
Hi Tara. I must commend you on speaking out your depression and even more so taking a break. Kudos to you 🤗 Best thing I've seen in a while where people get real and thank you for that. You really are such an inspiration to me with your user friendly expression of ingredients, recipes etc. Keep up the good work kiddo ( I have a kid older than you ☺️). This too will pass 🙏 stay blessed
Tara Dear, you have an awakening..... Do more of what you love, it's your life. You will come back strong and definitely you are a winner 🏆. Stay cheerful! ❤️
When your joy is missing from the thing that you love always take stock and figure out why. I have had to make adjustments over time when life happens. I love creating but without stress. Wholesaling is hard, and the hustle is real. It is easy to overwork yourself. I do what I have to do so I can do what I want to do, and sometimes it is really hard. It would be nice win the lottery and not have money worries, LOL. May you find the best way to find your joy again in creating. Relax and figure it all out. Thank you so much for all you have shared with us here. Love the channel Tara! I got the pH meter for Christmas and I LOVE it. Thanks for the recommendation.
Take care Tara 🌻 your health is gold and no one but you can take care of you! 💜
Glad you are taken a break. My daughter suffered from depression also and she doesn't want to work ever. Take care yourself we will wait and understand . ❤❤
Hey,nothing is more important than your health.take care of yourself.you have thought me a lot with your videos and i even started my skincare business 3 months back ..it's good to take a break sometimes 💖💖
Thank you for the transparency, because I’ve discovered this myself just with social media. So I’m taking the time for me and not being overwhelmed with “business”. The point of it all is to have freedom of finances and Time, that is the battle and balance.❤️
Take care of yourself! You are awesome, talented, smart and special. Refocus your energy on you! Stay blessed and know that you are loved 🥰
I'm glad that you have a lot of courage to show this journey. Get well soon
I'm a big fan of you. I love how cozy, confident n free you are
You are doing great Tara. Pls always remember now and later in life, physical activity is the best remedy against depression. Take your pick - mine is yoga
Thank you so much for all your youtube channel Tara.. we love you and yes you should take a break, take a deep breath, take a vacation.. we will always wait for your youtube channel and your products… 🥰🥰🥰 sending lots of love, positive energies, and smile 😊
Take your time because mental health is really important and im glad you are taking your time❤️ Thank you for all your sincerity! 🙆🏻♀️❤️
I started an etsy shop 2 years ago and I didn't know what I was doing. I found your videos while I was trying to learn the ropes. You really helped me out a million!! Really like your content and loved this video too :) Good luck with the YT focus!! You'll do amazing!!! Take care :)
No need to apologize. Self-care is so needed. Last month, I was down because I wasn't getting the sales that I wanted. But after taking a step back, I decided to focus on other things. Now after watching this, I'm kind of glad that I don't have crazy sales. Thank you for this video. I'm glad that you're taking care of self and visiting friends.
We're all under pressure in our lives, but I hope you don't give up quickly. You're brave and you deserve everything beautiful.
Such an inspiration...we are human and sometimes you have to take a break and reflect!! you will be fine!
Your words ring true for so many, for myself your videos brought me out of a dark place during covid and inspired me to start my skincare line. You have given so much of yourself to so many of us🙏you do you and it will all fall into place, step one was recognizing the signs your body was sending you. I thank you again for all your hard work💜
You are adorable! I love and appreciate you and all the info you share with us.
Glad you are taking a break! At some point would love to see a tour of your home if you don't mind sharing but mostly a tour of your new shop once you are done with the remodel
The way you are feeling about your business is the way I'm currently feeling about my full time job. I'm so ready to quit this job and start my own business. I don't like the business side as far as taxes and licenses and all that crap, but I love formulating and making the products and people's responses.
Hi Tara, Thank you so much for sharing this. I'm happy to hear that you are taking care of yourself; you made the right call. I admire that you are recognizing that you need to slow down, especially when you have put so much effort and time in your business. Feeling overwhelmed is not fun, and starting to not liking what you are doing is not where you want to be. Best of luck and wishing you a healthy and fun 2022!!! Big hug!
Thank you so much Jennifer 😊
& best of luck to you as well 💗
Super glad you posted this video Tara because it describes how I’ve been feeling lately. I do have social anxiety now too when it comes to interacting with people, plus covid lockdown has made me even more anti social and focused on my small business 😩 it’s just a lot to handle on your plate!
Thank you for making this video because this is something i am currently going through as a business owner. I am glad you are taking a break. I wish you lots of love
Hey Tara, I love you a lot as a creator, formulator and guide. It is great to see you taking care of yourself, wish you a lot of happiness in your life ❤ it is good to rest once in a while and don't forget there are people, family friends who are there to help you when in need, even with business too or please hire some help, it may reduce some pressure off of you..wish you the best, take care 😇 lots of love to you from India❤
This is normal you are burned out. You have to start your day off first with giving to yourself before you do anything. Your morning routine should be you first. I start my routine with meditation, reading, listening to something positive, exercise, affirmations, being grateful. You will see a big change in your mental health. I had to learn how to do this because I went to the same thing twice in my life. I have noticed a big change & if I miss a day I notice a difference immediately "stress". I do my best not to miss self care because I love the way I feel "peace & harmony ".🤗
Agreed! My morning routine has changed how I view my life and how I run my business 😊
Thank you for all your videos through all these years. I hear you and absolutely support in taking a break.
Dear Tara…
I’ve learn a lot from your channel. And honestly I’ve made something out of it.
The best thing is I can sell it and survive during this pandemic 😷 for my family.
Whatever is happening… just keep yourself to be happiest person. . You are one of my favourite channel and always looking forward to learn from you.
Take care and stay healthy ❤️🌹
I can feel your pain sis. Pls take your time until you feel you are good to go. Cheers
I watch your videos because I love making stuff and I make gifts with some of the simpler formulations. Your videos are a joy to watch. Thank you for your hard work. You deserve a break. Enjoy your life❤️
I love you girl, please dont leave youtube, learning so much from you (just a beginner though) take care dear and thank you cazillions 💖💖
Love you! & don’t worry, I don’t plan on leaving youtube 🥰
I feel you Tara, you are doing the right thing by taking a well deserved break! As self employed small business owners, we always forget to plan for breaks, self care and vacation time for ourselves. Sending love and hugs
I maybe 2 days late for this but I just want you to know, you deserve that break and enjoy that time for yourself. As someone who's also in 20's, I completely understand. We all have silent battles that we need to face. TAKE YOUR TIME AND WE'LL BE RIGHT HERE WHEN YOU GET BACK 😉🤗 Sending lots of loooove from PH💕💞💖❣🇵🇭
Thank you for sharing 🤗
Wishing you a quick recovery. Take all the time you need to remodel and work on yourself. We'll be here cheering you on.
Good for u girl! I am about to launch but I live in canada in kelowna, and I am just gonna stay small at farmers markets, u definitely helped me make a decision to stay small...thank u for being honest. I love your channel so I will miss that . I learned alot. So thank u for that .
I just started following you and appreciate all of your content! You’re awesome and I’ll be praying for you! 🙏🏾
You’re absolutely amazing and courageous for opening up about all this. Please continue to take care of yourself and get that much needed break. And take this as an opportunity to set yourself new boundaries with your business. Maybe become very strict on days and times when you’re allowed to work and when you must be unplugged from it. Make it clear to your customers that orders will only be fulfilled Monday-Friday between 9-5 - or whatever works for you. … just saying basically set strict boundaries so your personal life can still flourish and you don’t get depressed. Love you so much Tara!! 🥰🥰
Thank you so much! I’ll definitely be spending my time during this break coming up with a better system for when I open back up. I really don’t want to over work myself anymore.
& thanks so much for listening. I was worried about sharing this video, but I’m getting such positive feedback and it makes me so happy 😊
I don’t really do skin care but I like you. Your authentic! So I like listening to you. Can you not employ someone to help you? Could it be it’s time maybe you have grown? Again as I said I would not understand much on the aspect of business. That means your product are good
Glad you are choosing YOU! All the best to you.
Thanks for sharing Tara. You go ahead and do whatever you have to do no matter how long. Your health is so important ❤🙏🏾
Awwwh thank you!💗💗
Sending you so much love💛 take all the time you need to take care of yourself
I saw your diy Retinol cream and I want to say you are amazingly resourceful! You will be highly successful one day. You're so young, yet so driven and focused. I would say You Deserve a Break! It doesn't have to be all cylinders or stopped. I think handmaking things is a Lot of work, and super hard to make a profit. You're probably gonna do much better with your TH-cam. It will only grow. Good luck! (I wish my daughter was as determined as you :)
I'm going though it from etsy and not enough experience yet. Your channel has helped so much!💚
I'm so happy for you. And you need that breather....love all your contents. Keep up the good work and relaxxxxxx.
I just fricken love you! I hope you love the house as much as we did! It's so beautiful out there. So relaxing and that's EXACTLY what you needed! Leave the business at the trailer! You are a beautiful person inside and out, and dont have time to cry and be depressed. Divert the energy✌🏼 🥰🥰
Love you!!! 💗
& thanks so much Amanda! Literally this house has helped my mental health so much.
Hope you guys are enjoying your new place too 🥰
Best of luck 💕 rest up, this is so exhausting
Good for you for being wise enough to take a break and care for yourself a bit. It will help you continue to love what you do. 😊
Im glad ur taking some time out for u . #selfcare all the way girl. 💪💜
Tara u are such an awesome, lovely person inside and out. Thank you for being the kind, generous, helpful and genuine person that you are. You are a super woman and an amazing inspiration to us all. We are here to support you as you have been here helping us and supporting us over the past few years. May you be blessed and may the business you have worked on tirelessly and effortlessly succeed and continue to grow abundantly, even as you get the much needed rest you deserve. We love you very much!
I hope you feel better soon. Take care of yourself! ♥️
Health is Wealth Tara, Look after you first there's really no rush Take care x Xx
Girl you gotta take care of you . Mentally and physically. I’m glad you took a break . You are young but don’t be killing your self so much with work. Is okay to take breaks and also live life .
I totally get this. I recently retired from the Sweet Treat World. Same way I felt. I did it for 13yrs and isolated from from friends and family. I've had no social life for qt least 10yrs bc I was working so much. It got to the point where I didn't enjoy it any longer. The thought of decorating cookies made me cringe. It was very difficult for me to create and it didn'tuse to be like that. So, now I'm getting into skincare which gives me a little downtime compared to cookie designing. I'm going to take this downtime to get my thoughts together and not rush into things. Take your time. Relax. Take a breather. We will be here.
My heart goes out to you! You've worked a lot at such young age. I can relate, as I started working at 18 so I can totally understand where you're coming from
I had liked the video and forgot to leave my comment lol. Wishing you all the best in your health Tara. I don't think a lot of sbo (small business owners) talk enough on this topic: how hard it is to run their own business and (I totally understand the meaning of not wanting to overshare on social media as well) but some not all make it seems glorious at times, but we must be honest, at some point I know this small business will take atoll on me if I am not careful with my health and happiness. Whenever I feel overwhelmed I remember my "WHY" then slow down and start over again. I owe social media nothing I always say, I can start over as many times I like, disappear and rebuild again. I salute you queen for staying strong but still going. Am just starting up...but I appreciate videos like these where I can sit at my 9-5 and learn from those who are ahead of me. All am saying is thank you ^_^. Love from the Caribbean.
Thank you for being so honest. I have a clothing store and I stopped it because I started to despise it. I was taking care of my grandmother and couldn't handle the stress. I felt so defeated and felt like a failure for pausing it.
Totally understandable. Entrepreneur burn out is definitely something many people experience. This is a time when considering expanding your business and building a team becomes helpful if at all possible.
My suitation now so relatable the break was well deserved dear
You are such a beautiful young woman…it was when I tripped onto you on you tube I liked what I saw and began my journey. You don’t have to explain anything and here you are pretty much an open book. Congratulations on your new home! You deserve a billion breaks. Positive and healing energy your way. Cheers to you for acknowledging you need a break. I have learned and grown along with you and for that I say Thank You!
I enjoy formulating and I will be formulating for older menopausal skin/body(never too old to find your way).
Sincerely Sharin 🙂
Thank you for sharing your experience, and I wish you all the best in your future career choices