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  • @totalrevengeance3904
    @totalrevengeance3904 5 ปีที่แล้ว +483

    If I ever want kids, I’m 100% going to foster /adopt. There are already kids in the world who need love, and I would be so ready to love them

    • @siphokazileratomalinga2969
      @siphokazileratomalinga2969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Bless your good heart 💖❤️🥰😍

    • @FallacyAsPraxis
      @FallacyAsPraxis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you feel that way, you should definitely have you own. But foster or adopt anyway. :)

    • @totalrevengeance3904
      @totalrevengeance3904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@FallacyAsPraxis i’m a lesbian

    • @prestonmatthews725
      @prestonmatthews725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly. I am wrapping my degree to become a Social worker and I cannot wait to adopt some of the kids in the system especially those who are on verge of aging out of the system and never had that aspect of what it felt like to be in a home a good home

    • @totalrevengeance3904
      @totalrevengeance3904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Laura maple okay? and i still want to adopt... what about it

  • @tinkerbell6161
    @tinkerbell6161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +586

    He just keeps saying my son my daughter these men are angels hiding their wings they show us that love has no boundaries or color

    • @wertgtwert
      @wertgtwert 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No they are obsessed by sukkubus demons.

    • @alinakenzhegariyeva2760
      @alinakenzhegariyeva2760 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wertgtwert go get a life

    • @wertgtwert
      @wertgtwert 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alinakenzhegariyeva2760 I am sure I´ve got a better life than you. Leftist are always so alone and the right wing makes the biggest parties. There is no solidarity among leftist. But among the right wing it is.

  • @DallasLL
    @DallasLL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    My son calls me Dad #1 and my husband Dad #2, best feeling in the world, 10 years after his adoption at 13, he still calls me dad #1 and he is 23, I still smile every time! :)

    • @lucasandrade9997
      @lucasandrade9997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@lucyanderson329 Get out of here

    • @domimacetas5337
      @domimacetas5337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You are blessed.

    • @Simon1985_
      @Simon1985_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’d be a bit gutted at being numbered 2 though..

    • @connorho8115
      @connorho8115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dad #2 more like a tiger 🐅 dad...disciplined..hehhe

    • @susieusmaximus5330
      @susieusmaximus5330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wish there were a "love" reaction here, because that's so lovely. I'm so happy for you both.

  • @alyssajones4368
    @alyssajones4368 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1261

    Just parents adopting children who need a loving home. I see nothing wrong here.

    • @raefrater4172
      @raefrater4172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @@JPX7NGD Were you watching the same video? They clearly love and care for each other as any blood family would.

    • @JPX7NGD
      @JPX7NGD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@raefrater4172 they hate this child and want to use them as guinea pigs for their "normalization" and ritual abuse.

    • @raefrater4172
      @raefrater4172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@JPX7NGD Nope. Definitely not. They adopted them to give them love, support, and a better life than they would've had if they'd remained in foster care. They're not abusing them, or using them as bloody Guinea pigs. Ffs.

    • @JPX7NGD
      @JPX7NGD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@raefrater4172 how can you Love when your life is devoted to hated and brutality? they reject Good and therefore have no will, and therefore not only is there no Love but they are incapable of even recognizing it.

    • @raefrater4172
      @raefrater4172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@JPX7NGD There is no hatred or brutality here. You're so stuck in the mindset that this family and families like this are horrible and negative when they're clearly not. I really hope one day you'll stop living in such a hate-filled mindset and you'll see the love and acceptance that is clearly all around.

  • @ryn4710
    @ryn4710 6 ปีที่แล้ว +784

    These men are amazing.

    • @forgetmenot957
      @forgetmenot957 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Astrea Macgregor People. They’re just people aren’t they? Wonderful. 🥰🥰

    • @beverlykorte8581
      @beverlykorte8581 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree ✌🏼

    • @loreanjenkins3777
      @loreanjenkins3777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for loving your children.

    • @dianegibbs7311
      @dianegibbs7311 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😥 WOW ABSOLUTELY AWESOME 🤲

    • @vickiehadd4324
      @vickiehadd4324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These men are messed up themselves.

  • @rachaeleigh
    @rachaeleigh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    Listening to what he and his children went through makes me want to hurt people. Who would do that to children. I'm glad they found each other and are a family now.

    • @carolnorton2551
      @carolnorton2551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Listening to what he and his kids went through makes me want to love people.

    • @kattail1429
      @kattail1429 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@carolnorton2551 Thank you, the more we support each other, the less it will happen.

    • @TouchofShunshine
      @TouchofShunshine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@carolnorton2551 Right! I do too.

  • @freepalestine3966
    @freepalestine3966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    Who else cries watching this family? Damn I'm stuck in emotions

  • @HungoverInHighHeels
    @HungoverInHighHeels 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    It's those tiny little moments of affection that made me cry. The pat on the head, carrying a backpack, a look and smile. I swoon!

  • @lenan5913
    @lenan5913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This man has such a soothing voice. I want to watch a full 8 hour docu series about him just taking his kids to school No drama. No crying every episode. Just two dads raising their 4 kids with love.

  • @SavannahVu1985
    @SavannahVu1985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    My father was the most violent, abusive & vile man who made my life an absolute hell until I was 16. Watching this made me cry so much, this man is an absolute Angel. Those children are so very loved and he has no idea the impact he has on their lives, in the most profoundly beautiful way. God bless these two amazing fathers, they deserve pure happiness in abundance. Makes me smile & my heart so joyful watching this. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @miriamberman5581
      @miriamberman5581 ปีที่แล้ว

      my ex was abusive to me, my kids and animals

  • @kathe.o.
    @kathe.o. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Daddy has PTSD, DaDa has a kind spirt. Those are their kids of the heart. There is no reason for anyone to look at them wrongly - they ARE a family. GOD BLESS!

  • @ypy2516
    @ypy2516 5 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    I saw the first clip some time ago and I am so happy to see this new one where the kids are grown up and smiling!!! May you all be healthy to take care of them for a long time to come!!

  • @stellablevins6100
    @stellablevins6100 6 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Kids are faithful when u give chance ,love unconditional love ,,respect .

  • @googlereviewer1944
    @googlereviewer1944 5 ปีที่แล้ว +783

    I was initially VERY resistant to gay adoption but the more I watch of this family, the more it becomes clear that the most important thing is to love your kids and make them feel safe and secure with a self of self and self-esteem. If they can do that, they it doesn't matter that their gay. Huge credit and respect to them all. That's courage.

    • @janinelew2483
      @janinelew2483 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Google Reviewer I'm sitting here watching this and thinking the same thing.😢

    • @rondaallen7211
      @rondaallen7211 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      yup-it don't make a difference who makes you. it matters who raises you and loves you and teaches you to be a person in society.

    • @agricolaregs
      @agricolaregs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      I used to be against it, but it seems silly now to be against people loving children and providing stability. Two gay dads beats two straight losers who abuse kids any day. These dudes rock. And their family is precious.

    • @marenamoo
      @marenamoo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Google Reviewer huge credit to you having an mind open to changing. I have changed also.

    • @gabelogan5877
      @gabelogan5877 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Google Reviewer Yep. I had heterosexual parents. They’re were some of the most neglectful and abusive people I ever met. 100s of 1000s are children are in foster care due to straight abusive parents. Studies have shown that gay parents raise children on average that are more well adjusted than children with straight parents. In any case, children shouldn’t languish in foster care and sent out on the streets, if there’s loving families. One 17 foster kid in the news said he wanted parents and didn’t care if they were gay or straight. He just wanted someone to love him.

  • @MicahRion
    @MicahRion 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I appreciate Rob's openness to sharing about abuse. Traumas heal over time but never totally go away. He resists that urge to pretend it's all fine, he talks about the unpretty stuff, the suicide attempts. And I love that he sees his children as people, as his equals. Not as someone to save. They rely on each other, it's a partnership.

  • @gburahbondo2948
    @gburahbondo2948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I love this man and his family.
    He's a good man

  • @latashaadams2893
    @latashaadams2893 5 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    Bless you two for what you are doing for those children!

    • @wertgtwert
      @wertgtwert 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shame on them

    • @drewtube5031
      @drewtube5031 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@wertgtwert Get A Life!

  • @openmind9820
    @openmind9820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I'm praying for the souls of those who disliked this. Love truly does conquer all xxx

    • @rocker76m88
      @rocker76m88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with you. If there were more love than hate, what an awesome world this would be 🤗🥰❤

    • @vickiehadd4324
      @vickiehadd4324 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Read the Bible

    • @beccablaier5116
      @beccablaier5116 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vickiehadd4324 maybe you should reconsider how much of a true "christian" you are. get a life! you are part of the people that makes all christians look like terrible judgmental people.

  • @funnyanimalslifevideos6315
    @funnyanimalslifevideos6315 5 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    People like him are the reason I am not against gay people anymore. People like him are how I opened my eyes and realized gay people are just people.

    • @brianparent4882
      @brianparent4882 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      It took my parent sending me to conversion therapy and ultimately my suicide attempt at 17 for them to change their minds. I’m glad you expanded your mind and your heart.

    • @rainforme1850
      @rainforme1850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I was that way also until I realized the heart only sees the live. The kids get to have a family.

    • @dianegibbs7311
      @dianegibbs7311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I feel the LOVE coming from HIM I could look at this all day🤲

    • @Waynestock70
      @Waynestock70 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      that is right mate good and bad doesn't matter what your sexuality is

    • @nampijjanazifah6358
      @nampijjanazifah6358 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I might be against the act but i like the person. These are two different things

  • @shawnmariewalker7291
    @shawnmariewalker7291 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Rob, Thank you so much for opening up and being vulnerable in this video. I too aged out of care, and sometimes I still curl up and cry myself to sleep. Most of the time, I keep myself busy and can stay on top of the hurt and loneliness, but even after years of therapy, learning to deal with PTSD, it still catches me off guard at times. Thank you for sharing. Your strength in being vulnerable allows me to be vulnerable too, and that makes all the difference.

  • @Brissieskater1
    @Brissieskater1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm really proud of Rob Scheer - I don't know him personally but despite the rough start to his young life, he still knew right from wrong and most importantly, he is showing the adopted children a far better life.

  • @xraydelta100
    @xraydelta100 6 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Much respect and love to you both and your children.

  • @brendapaul5950
    @brendapaul5950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I thank you and your husband for loving your babies unconditionally and for.sharing your family and vulnerabilities with us. Thanks for your gift to the world - loving and understanding your chosen children and family. Blessings to you and your family.

  • @warriorwithin9310
    @warriorwithin9310 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    When you close your eyes, everyone's the same. Great story and just beautiful people.

    • @rocker76m88
      @rocker76m88 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said🙌🙌🙌❤

  • @brittstime3470
    @brittstime3470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is one of the most heart warming adoption stories I’ve ever had the pleasure of watching! Family is so much more than blood!

  • @GRHB-qg2ko
    @GRHB-qg2ko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He's so well spoken. I think he must be a great, loving, intelligent dad raising great kids

  • @lynettesmp
    @lynettesmp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Rob is so sweet. Thank you for loving these children

    • @JoJo-lz2yr
      @JoJo-lz2yr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Abusing the children

  • @jannaj2719
    @jannaj2719 6 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Much love to you all ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @suemadrecasillas4252
    @suemadrecasillas4252 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I don't know you , but I love u two dads- I wish you could adopt me & I'm 40- you are a real man regardless of your sexual preference ❤️💚💙 much love from rosarito- mexico

  • @rochellevanwey8487
    @rochellevanwey8487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My dad is also an abusive drunk alcoholic and in the future I am planning on adopting children who were also abused. I made my husband happy when I told him I wanted to adopt children like that.

  • @moonandstars4690
    @moonandstars4690 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The World Needs More People Like These Two 💞🎯

  • @catherinehollis8136
    @catherinehollis8136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    These children are so so blessed to have parents in their lives..we all need love adults, children, God bless them all🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @wertgtwert
      @wertgtwert 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Poor children are doomed.

    • @catherinehollis8136
      @catherinehollis8136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@wertgtwert What do you mean poor children are doomed, to me that is very racist comment

    • @wertgtwert
      @wertgtwert 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@catherinehollis8136 it's homophob not racist.

    • @catherinehollis8136
      @catherinehollis8136 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have issues BuddHaalien with mix race families...in my family have gay family members... different cultures within my family circles.. Children are blessings from God, so I'm glad there are good people in this world to nurture & make this evil world a better place to all Children.
      I'm going to be pray for you🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @wertgtwert
      @wertgtwert 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@catherinehollis8136 Yes do an exorzism please so the demons can leave your body. Thank you very much for the praying.

  • @serenblodwyn7914
    @serenblodwyn7914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I wish this wonderful family well. May they all be blessed with long, healthy, happy, loving and successful lives.

  • @tisaac8037
    @tisaac8037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This family is so inspiring. We need more families like this to be seen to show people what real families look like.

  • @pamelahomeyer748
    @pamelahomeyer748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God does not make mistakes. It is not our place to pigeonhole people into different roles. God has a complicated plan that is too much for us to understand. These people have met their proper destiny. Thank you both for stepping up and reaching out to parent these kids

  • @Chrstnrchrdsn
    @Chrstnrchrdsn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FATHERING/MOTHERING IS THE MOST IMPORTANT JOB IN THE WORLD. Nothing else matters. Because of your pain you are able to help these precious babies. Thank you for sharing

  • @junecurtis1409
    @junecurtis1409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The children look ever so happy. Bless you both.

    • @rocker76m88
      @rocker76m88 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know. Isn't that great?🥰

  • @wildwindownorway
    @wildwindownorway 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    a family made up with broken pieces, filled with love. i wish i had a dad like you when i was growing up. i had none. i wish i had a dad like you now. i am almost forty but in my head, i have never left childhood, and I've always longed for a dad. may you be blessed for changing the lives of these kids.

  • @eritreawoldu4848
    @eritreawoldu4848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG the words he use 'my daughter' ,'my son' ,our children his words made me cry may God bless him lots of love from Africa

  • @tristanvelez6628
    @tristanvelez6628 5 ปีที่แล้ว +443

    Those 19 dislikes are from kid *Abusers*

    • @boskee
      @boskee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Or homophobes

    • @JPX7NGD
      @JPX7NGD 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      projecting to try to absolve yourself.

    • @redmercury1159
      @redmercury1159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i think its probably the other way around

    • @JPX7NGD
      @JPX7NGD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@redmercury1159 Thank you so much for protesting evil incarnate.

    • @wertgtwert
      @wertgtwert 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's 80 now with me and i am not a Child abuser like you but a homophob. Greetings

  • @swethaparthasarthy2494
    @swethaparthasarthy2494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Sometimes we have to travel on Destructive and broken path to reach a beautiful destination...thats life

  • @Catlady77777
    @Catlady77777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for saving these kids! You two are solid gold.

  • @helenarossborough1151
    @helenarossborough1151 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you for opening your hearts to these beautiful children. Beautiful family.

  • @davidyeboah3662
    @davidyeboah3662 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know I'll have kids, but seeing this beautiful family makes me want to adopt someone who needs it

  • @Ednoxious1
    @Ednoxious1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    🙏🏾🙏🏾 this is so transparent and beautiful.

  • @freepalestine3966
    @freepalestine3966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    They should have their own reality TV show, I would watch it..... This is e beautiful family

    • @ThatBeeyatch
      @ThatBeeyatch 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Allah is my lord I would watch them over Kate plus 8 any day . This is do inspiring .

    • @TamiresCaron
      @TamiresCaron 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      The last thing this people need is to be around a lot of camera crews, triggered for drama, editing the footage to make things more dramatic and all the shit that comes with reality shows...

    • @bg5016
      @bg5016 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No

    • @f.h.4552
      @f.h.4552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hell no! All those shows do is tear apart families

    • @gigicornett4795
      @gigicornett4795 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@f.h.4552 I agree. So many couples break up after.

  • @patmccarthy9778
    @patmccarthy9778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I disagree; I think they ARE the perfect family, because they all love each other, support each other, and are honest with each other. That is everything one could hope for in a family

  • @cynthiatubbs4011
    @cynthiatubbs4011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    What amazing dads to wonderful children....I pray God's covering and blessings over your family...health and strength to each of you

  • @pearl1357
    @pearl1357 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    May you and your family be always blessed with happiness!

  • @sahra4091
    @sahra4091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's not only what you DO, but it's how you make people feel.Thank GOD, I have never experience abuse, but I'm crying. Some how I feel his pain, and share the love he has for his family. Thank you for sharing, and may God continue to bless you.

  • @sujatavarma1904
    @sujatavarma1904 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    What a heartwarming story. Thank you for posting it on TH-cam.

  • @standardflight3563
    @standardflight3563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This man made me cry. I have you too. Stay strong for your husband and kids. They love you forever

  • @Lilithofeden1
    @Lilithofeden1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you both and your four beautiful children. "For there is no greater love than a man who would lay down his life for another."

  • @rosemaryartzer1344
    @rosemaryartzer1344 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are amazing! Just keep on what you are doing. Child abuse is a scar that never heals but with enough love it doesn't hurt as much.

  • @jailit7653
    @jailit7653 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    They are such an amazing family

  • @jennyhauhnarastley874
    @jennyhauhnarastley874 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    May God blessings showers upon your family now & Forever Amen.

  • @AniWatX
    @AniWatX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    A great parent is someone who provides love, support and protection to their children. NOTHING else matters. I love this family. XXX

  • @khanivore313
    @khanivore313 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Kids are love, kids only grow with love.

  • @awhb5412
    @awhb5412 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love his couple so much. The dad has deep, genuine, unconditional love. Best parents. This is the kind of family we want in this world,a love oriented family

  • @luisramonmanzano
    @luisramonmanzano 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’m literally pouring out 😭😭😭 God bless you all omg so beautiful

  • @teresayeates3437
    @teresayeates3437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I once saw a woman with the most adorable little girl, 4 years old. I commented on how adorable her daughter was. She said she was her foster daughter daughter and had been with her since birth. She said, she is available for adoption, you should look into it. It bothered me so much. This was the only home this liitle one had known, just say thank you when someone comments on your "adorable" child. I gaurantee in the child's mind she is thrilled that people think they are family, that she has a real mum. To have this public reminder and worse, this woman telling people she is available to be taken from this, her only known home and family, so casually, will leave its mark. Wether meant as uncaring, it will feel that way.

  • @seff-g1e
    @seff-g1e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Beautiful family . All we need is unconditional love 💕

  • @zwinkyecstasy
    @zwinkyecstasy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The world needs more people like these two men, unfortunately not many people are of their quality.

  • @siriponrunkaputi2796
    @siriponrunkaputi2796 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for give the children a great loving home, these are the time, they will Treasure

  • @laptopsiepopsie
    @laptopsiepopsie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    These are the people that keep this world going! Lucky for humanity there always will be people who do care about others.

  • @FallacyAsPraxis
    @FallacyAsPraxis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Seriously, who is thumbing this down? How is it a bad thing to take a child out of the horrible foster care system and give them a home, a family, and hope for a future? These kids need love, and their biological parents failed them. If you have it in your heart and you have the means to help a child who has nothing and nowhere to go---that is one of the most amazing things that a person can do.

  • @jimtakahashi4638
    @jimtakahashi4638 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They all look so natural together. They are meant to be together. I'm extremely happy for them. Thank you for this heart-warmer.🥰

    • @fatimashah5311
      @fatimashah5311 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was about to say the same thing.. this is truly beautiful..

  • @karlenedennis
    @karlenedennis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cried all the way throughout this video what kind souls these men are, the love is so obvious, they are the childrens rock & the children are theirs❤❤❤🤗🤗

  • @noreenkhan113
    @noreenkhan113 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    God bless you for loving these children. You are a beautiful family.

  • @conpop6924
    @conpop6924 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    These seem like some pretty cool dads

  • @Ann-ct9ek
    @Ann-ct9ek 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    YOU ARE SO STRONG AND RESILIENT PERSON YOU ARE TRULY A HERO. IM SO PROUD OF YOU.❤️❤️❤️

  • @jiffylube2636
    @jiffylube2636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No one can truly understand the mental anguish of being abused and neglected besides those who were also abused and neglected.. These children needed someone who understands and they found him and he loves them and they love him ❤️

  • @marlenacharette4925
    @marlenacharette4925 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am listening to your story and find tears in my eyes. Adopting and fostering is so important. We can never erase our trauma but it’s okay. When we reveal our ourselves to those we love we grow. It’s that simple. You are a wonderful dad because you accept them and yourself.

  • @queenbee0129
    @queenbee0129 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome story, I adopted my biological neice when she was 2wks old. She is now 28 and is my pride and joy. She is my biggest accomplishment and I thank God everyday for giving her to me. She is the biggest Momma's baby you could every met. People who adopt have a huge capacity for love.

  • @declanfaith
    @declanfaith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I always taught or i should say expected parents to be man and women but watching these lovingly parents im ashamed of myself for ever thinking that way because they show that its all about the children and love is love ,god i feel so much better that children can have fantastic lives with loving parents.

  • @LibertyMadison
    @LibertyMadison 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’d like to be adopted by this family. How beautiful

  • @CCbeans
    @CCbeans 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so grateful he was so open. Sharing his personal story of abuse and depression... those dark moments seem unreal when the interview- ready side of self is present. But we all have dark moments. His story is beautiful and encouraging and practical. Some things can't be escaped, don't fear that... find what feels like the right ways to live with the tough stuff.

  • @calicokittenproductions591
    @calicokittenproductions591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    YES YOU ARE THE PERFECT FAMILY.
    You work together and support each other through all life's hiccups. That's the perfect family.

  • @cynthiahawkins2389
    @cynthiahawkins2389 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rob has written a book about his experiences, as a triumphant survivor of abuse. Better still, despite the pain and anguish, he has mined gold from the sadness of his former life, and now knows exactly what NOT to do, as an adopting parent!! I admire this wonderful man so much. And what a joy to see how well the children are doing. BTW they are beautiful kids, I mean handsome... and pretty. All comes from great parenting. Best from New Orleans and love to you all...

  • @kims2651
    @kims2651 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The most important thing that you can give to a foster child is lots of love and attention. I think that this couple is doing a great job!

  • @dorothysegedinac6979
    @dorothysegedinac6979 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cried the whole time I watched this. You two are amazing fathers and human beings. These children are adorable and fortunate to be a part of your family. God bless you for saving them and of course they saved you back.

  • @lorettaruiz4668
    @lorettaruiz4668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know first hand about your up and downs, I to was a foster child most of my adolesent life. I always knew I would Rise above my fear, doubts of love and really had a place in life. God bless you for loving and caring for those children.

  • @armcrescent
    @armcrescent 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow - what a survivor! I suffer from depression too, but I never went through what you went through. Amazing that you could find so much love in life anyway. Stay strong!

  • @celimar214
    @celimar214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so moving and beautiful. It’s what the power of love is all about.

  • @eleemosonaryredhead6001
    @eleemosonaryredhead6001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Handsome family;Amaya is so beautiful;she rocks it with her total look and she is smart. Good job dads,keep the daddy job up😊

  • @fordkd1
    @fordkd1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such an emotional story, had me in tears the whole time

  • @Oldmetal57
    @Oldmetal57 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Both of you are angels to these kids, and all of us need examples like yours. Love you both for what you have done. God had a plan for the both of you, might not be easy but you are doing it.

  • @mariondudek564
    @mariondudek564 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a loving, positive couple raising 4 great kids. Family is who loves you, protects and nourishes you.

  • @islandsunset
    @islandsunset 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Those children needed him and his husband as much as he needed the kids. Loved this story ❤️

  • @carminateran6076
    @carminateran6076 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am glad this dad and his kids are healing each other’s wounds with the one thing that matters when it comes to being a healthy, happy human being: LOVE.

  • @meghanmcneill5365
    @meghanmcneill5365 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a beautiful family inside and out. These children all look so happy and well loved.

  • @shellynoel5732
    @shellynoel5732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God bless this men and their kids..love how he says my kids made me tear up..

  • @debbiebramwell
    @debbiebramwell 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rob! I haven't been on social media and this is the first time I have seen you since. These men are Amazing! This family is beautiful. I pray that you don't let your childhood rob you of any more time. You deserve to be happy. Sending you love!

  • @deborahgharakhani710
    @deborahgharakhani710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was beautiful. Bless you and your lovely family

  • @kenyamahrei1627
    @kenyamahrei1627 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You can see how much he loves his family in his eyes... he is blessed and he is a blessing

  • @maryschwartz5500
    @maryschwartz5500 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your family’s story! It takes a strong individual to share a story like yours. You and your husband are amazing parents don’t let anyone tell you differently!

  • @hyenagametalk7293
    @hyenagametalk7293 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    this almost makes me cry man, im not adopted or anything but the way he speaks about the connections with his kids reminds me of me and my girlfriend and it absolutely touched my heart

  • @ROSEMARY1925
    @ROSEMARY1925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a sad, but also great life event, going forward and helping other innocent children walk into a bright and happy safe future. These is what brings our nation together...LOVE 💝

  • @mikehughes4664
    @mikehughes4664 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Moving, loving and caring. Your honesty is amazing, it makes you a better person. Thank goodness you have 5 rocks, each of you, to help you get through the sadness. Enjoy a richly satisfying life one and all!

  • @LorraineD2805
    @LorraineD2805 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are both great, giving these children a home and most important, love. so sorry you've had a very rough time growing up. I hope that you all live a beautiful and healthy live with eachother. 🥰♥️ Love from The Netherlands 🇱🇺