I Set A Standard For My Daughter’s Boyfriend Before Accepting Him, Without Nkrataa, You Can’t Come….

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  • @ellenkonadu5476
    @ellenkonadu5476 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I support her 100%, the comfort and happiness of her children is her priority.

  • @yotsanta
    @yotsanta วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This program keep me not bore from 5am to 5.55am at the Gymn every morning in Toronto. With a bluetooth earpiece, I forget that Iam working out on the treadmill. Glad that everyday I get a new story. Good job DJ Nyame

  • @ernestkamkam5617
    @ernestkamkam5617 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Real talk: The rich marry the rich it's only in local movies that the rich want to marry the poor

    • @ebenezerdoku8579
      @ebenezerdoku8579 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ei this is harsh 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @akuaanima3291
    @akuaanima3291 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Very determined and resilient woman.
    Bless you ❤❤

  • @priscilla8832
    @priscilla8832 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You’ve planed your life and worked hard may the Lord grant your heart desires. You’ve set the standards high so why will you wish for less. I can understand where you’re coming from. Stay blessed sis 👏👏👏

  • @Kzam9376
    @Kzam9376 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Very intelligent and an accomplished woman. I really enjoyed this interview, and standards set by her. DJ, this woman is 100% right about her standards. As a man myself. How can you walk into a marriage with empty hand? Men cannot be GOLD DIGGERS. Because from what l have witnessed. Gold diggers men are mostly lazy and egoistic. I have learnt a lot from her and this interview.

  • @bernarddjimatey2168
    @bernarddjimatey2168 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    It makes me remember a determine young "Rawlings" who can't even afford y)) k3 gari ended up marrying a beautiful "Nana konadu" from a very rich family but little did we know that "Rawlings" will end up being a leader of our great nation..🤔 God bless all well to do families who accepts some underprivileged but determine young men into their homes..

  • @Frankagyare
    @Frankagyare หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    God bless you, mummy. I just learned a lot from this amazing interview.

  • @NATGOTFUTURE
    @NATGOTFUTURE หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Money goes to money, money does not go to poverty Eiiiiiiii😢😢😢😢 it's sad ooooh... Sometimes we can think like that in mind but I don't think it should be easier in saying it out!

    • @fjohn8985
      @fjohn8985 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Go ask Bezos, Gates etc for money LOL
      Their ex-wives are the ones being philanthropic...
      Marriage is transactional for the most part, a transfer of wealth.

    • @sweetpotato908
      @sweetpotato908 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's why you have to be careful with woman they never settle for less only man does

    • @kingsleyarhin6442
      @kingsleyarhin6442 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s bad mindset of her but well it’s her choice

    • @Tracey715
      @Tracey715 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly

  • @derrickObeng-u4o
    @derrickObeng-u4o หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I burst into laughter when DJ said ene3 match pass 😂😂

  • @Tracey715
    @Tracey715 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, almost 60 years old and you look so splendid. Thanks for sharing your story
    You’ve done a tremendous job educating yourself and pushing your kids

  • @MelvinaBilson
    @MelvinaBilson หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    How DJ Nyame does his face when his guests are talking cracks me up 😅😂

    • @ZEEpass
      @ZEEpass หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have been observing that looooong time and it's funny 😂😂😂

    • @wirekoebenezer
      @wirekoebenezer หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The ears alone go Dagbo movement you😂

  • @mokoshishi
    @mokoshishi หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The kind of woman i want to be for my kids❤

  • @bernardboakye9696
    @bernardboakye9696 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow!!!!!!!!!! Great interview from a well experienced woman. Wab) bra papa. Good one SVTV

  • @charityblessabra2465
    @charityblessabra2465 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dj pls bring her back again for interview on her field 😊

  • @ishmeallarkialatey5405
    @ishmeallarkialatey5405 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The woman 🚺 is talking fact..
    If money 💰 no dey, don't fall in love.. Else u will be a victim of heartbreak 💔..
    Ohia tiaa akono dɛa!

  • @kakeeku
    @kakeeku หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Here in the USA, you can buy a car from the dealership and even a mortgage without Nkrataa. I don’t know of the UK though. You either need a co-buyer or a co-signer. So, for her to say she bought her first home for £38,000 as if she worked so hard and paid upfront is deceptive. A co-buyer made it possible for her. Our politicians do buy houses here because some of them have already established credit here. You don’t need Nkrataa to establish credit. All you do is to register to get a SSN and open a bank account. Here in the USA, you can even be issued a Driver’s License without Nkrataa.
    I bought my first car (Auto Loan) in my own name after exactly 1 year in the USA without Nkrataa and with no co-buyer. Let’s not make it difficult for our people, making them overwhelmed, overworked and confused. 🤔

    • @ZEEpass
      @ZEEpass หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Aaaaaaaaw God bless you for being honest and also encourage some of us who don't have the krataa yet.

  • @InspireTv.1
    @InspireTv.1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I went to university and live in Essex and she’s right. Majority of the people that live there are mostly stock traders, accountants and business owners. People that own horses and if you know about England to have and maintain horses isn’t cheap. Good environment.

  • @ziemmercy8844
    @ziemmercy8844 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love the way you trained your children 🙏🥰

  • @PaulAidoo-lj1uu
    @PaulAidoo-lj1uu หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Madam, beautiful interview and encouraging, I hope the youth will learn a lesson from her.

  • @hisholiness2010
    @hisholiness2010 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The rich will always be rich and the poor wull remain same, that is her punchline.

    • @PaulAidoo-lj1uu
      @PaulAidoo-lj1uu หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      if so her punchline is bad

    • @kingsleyarhin6442
      @kingsleyarhin6442 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@PaulAidoo-lj1uu very bad

    • @wirekoebenezer
      @wirekoebenezer หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She's merciless now,forget am

    • @Sandyasare770
      @Sandyasare770 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you are born poor, it is not your fault but if you die poor then it's your fault, you have your life in your hands so manage it well.

    • @kingsleyarhin6442
      @kingsleyarhin6442 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Sandyasare770 no one wish to die poor dear wise up

  • @julielartey9352
    @julielartey9352 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Madam you are right you are role model. What that person coming into your life bringing to the table it's shouldn't be empty. God bless

  • @joyceaddy-lamptey8438
    @joyceaddy-lamptey8438 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love this interview. I wish there was a way to get her to mentor me. I'm learning a lot. Love how real and honest she is.

  • @damoahlydia1284
    @damoahlydia1284 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I set standard for my daughter's boyfriend before accepting him, without Nkrataa, you can't come.........I'm sorry, but don't you think this standard will delay your daughter's marriage?

    • @eddy-ed-armah
      @eddy-ed-armah หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      It wont delay ooo......i have come to understand that setting standards is key paaaaa......

    • @ErickGraham-sh3no
      @ErickGraham-sh3no หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@eddy-ed-armah😂😂😂

    • @kakeeku
      @kakeeku หลายเดือนก่อน

      Heerrrrr😮

    • @eddy-ed-armah
      @eddy-ed-armah หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Not only money matters but if u allow anyone just in your space, they sometimes abuse it......its all about monitoring who enters your space...koclx u can loose yourself with little unattentiveness

    • @xchjrt
      @xchjrt หลายเดือนก่อน

      Delay marriage s3n? She said her daughter and her boyfriend are travelling the world, you didn’t hear?

  • @BHOAT
    @BHOAT หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    many opportunities abroad, its up to you to work smart and hard to earn it. focused woman.

  • @Kasford
    @Kasford หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Money goes into money but remember you didn’t just get the money in a day. You struggled before arriving here.

  • @Candywine970
    @Candywine970 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    39:25 hahaha DJ nyame is very funny, what a punchline, match pass 😂😂😂

  • @boseman8227
    @boseman8227 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I don't blame her nowadays there are grown children( not all) looking for good women to marry. Just to distress them.

  • @patriciareindorf8380
    @patriciareindorf8380 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I applaud u ma'am.. Have a similar story

  • @kofikufuor7081
    @kofikufuor7081 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dj you tear 😂😂😂😂 match pass for where? 39:26

  • @stephenjabrah4390
    @stephenjabrah4390 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Money is not everything even though we all need it …hmmm she has forgotten she worked hard to get where she is …so why does she think someone can’t also work hard and build something good for himself and her daughter…the mindset isn’t the best for because your daughter has a mind of her own and your guidance is what is needed not discriminating between poor and rich …Rich can be bad and the poor too can be bad so we. All pray for the better

  • @georgekpodovia6517
    @georgekpodovia6517 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great interview. God bless you Mama

  • @mawunyokpogli
    @mawunyokpogli หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good interview thank you

  • @charityblessabra2465
    @charityblessabra2465 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "Riches does not go into poverty"😢 Yoo

  • @samuelbotchwey429
    @samuelbotchwey429 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This woman is real

  • @Abronoma2024
    @Abronoma2024 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I support her 100%❤

  • @boseman8227
    @boseman8227 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ghanaian marriages nowadays seem to be evolving. It's quite different from our parents. Nowadays, if you want to marry because you love the other person deeply, you will come out dry and disappointed. From what she's saying, if anyone wants to marry her daughters love comes second to status. She's probably talking from experience.

  • @samuelamoah9123
    @samuelamoah9123 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    DJ, she is right

  • @kakeeku
    @kakeeku หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    £38,000 pounds was not paid upfront.🤔Don’t be that deceptive. Without Nkrataa, you can buy a house and a car even in the USA.😅Your husband may have had Nkrataa and co-signed for you or your cousin did it for you or that both of you were authorized to work! With that, you can buy a house and a car but with higher interest rate (24.99%) Kindly, let’s not give unnecessary pressure to our fellow countrymen 😉

    • @Reindolf_gh
      @Reindolf_gh หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      bro thank you , i also leaves in uk , we need to be very
      careful with the kind of information we give

    • @innertee1885
      @innertee1885 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      That information didn't add up for me

    • @Reindolf_gh
      @Reindolf_gh หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Mazola2114 don’t say things you don’t know
      My problem is about the car, did you know what it takes to own a car in uk 🇬🇧
      I don’t have problem she buying it,
      I’m taking about owning it
      The car , Registration keeper , Road tax , Insurance and your DRIVER LICENSE and more ,

    • @Reindolf_gh
      @Reindolf_gh หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      All has to be in your name (someone from Ghana might think truly you can buy things in Uk without nkrataa
      Come and see how people struggle to get paid without nkrataa

    • @mastermind-oy7sj
      @mastermind-oy7sj หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Reindolf_ghI guess you were in the UK in the 90s

  • @jacksonkofi3196
    @jacksonkofi3196 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wooooow my sister it seems you are like me im also the same and I have told my two daughters should never go 🚶‍♂️ with Ghanaians man 👨 and I no some people be very angry or day will be upset but I really don't give a them and this days some of Ghanaians people do Ghanaians man and women treat each other bad that it is why I do not like it now my daughters are marriage white man and I'm absolutely very happy for them and day love each other that is very important for me right now and foreve so well done for my sister ❤ ❤️ 💙 ♥️ good spirit and good speech and may god bless you and your family

  • @princeboafo5906
    @princeboafo5906 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She is entitled to her stance!!! Period

  • @opinionist
    @opinionist หลายเดือนก่อน

    50:30 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    Oh Dj you craze waa!!!!

  • @gloriaodoom5634
    @gloriaodoom5634 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm proud of her ❤❤❤

  • @lydiaofori9686
    @lydiaofori9686 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Nice interview
    Life is like a cup of tea It's all about how you make it
    Well spoken my dear sister.
    Let's keep on sharing SVTV to the world and subscribe to join the channel Tuaaaaa ❤

  • @Bigkel-TV
    @Bigkel-TV หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Am sure this woman will marry her own daughter

  • @fredo.8113
    @fredo.8113 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great story

  • @kenasamoah8085
    @kenasamoah8085 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I thought DJ Nyaami will lock the comments section for this particular interview 😂😂😂. I thought a lot of people wouldn't agree with her.😅

  • @Fred.sokode
    @Fred.sokode หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    3ne3 match passs😂😂😂

  • @SolomonBotchway
    @SolomonBotchway หลายเดือนก่อน

    What does "mako gye aduro" means when the abroad people are talking on the interview

  • @dianatwum7493
    @dianatwum7493 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    this woamn is very brialliant🥰👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @Slimmtildeath
    @Slimmtildeath หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good standards but please don't change your rules when she hit 30+

  • @BrigetteBarimah
    @BrigetteBarimah หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Agree with the mother never help a man without documents

  • @BrigetteBarimah
    @BrigetteBarimah หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow that’s too sad with her siblings

  • @nyabinghi870
    @nyabinghi870 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can advise my daughter but can't set standards for her. If you're rich marry a rich man.

  • @gamenemoh3235
    @gamenemoh3235 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She wants to keep her daughter single. Single women keep women single.

    • @MsStefy01
      @MsStefy01 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She’s married n there’s nothing wrong to not want poverty if she has made it out of poverty

  • @Fred.sokode
    @Fred.sokode หลายเดือนก่อน

    53:22😂😂😂😂

  • @ritaboat2
    @ritaboat2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The slamm technology when you call them they don't pick up why.

  • @ransfordbaidoo2788
    @ransfordbaidoo2788 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Does it mean when your daughter's boyfriend at a point not "matching-up" with your daughter as you wish will you advise your daughter to move on ?

    • @boseman8227
      @boseman8227 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ransfordbaidoo2788 Good question. To her marriage is like running a corporation. It's what u bring on to the table. No love.

  • @opinionist
    @opinionist หลายเดือนก่อน

    49:31 Piaw!!! ✌️

  • @danielohene-mintah3063
    @danielohene-mintah3063 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This woman o guess she's Dangote's Sis

  • @gladysarthur1445
    @gladysarthur1445 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Heart ❤️ from me to u 💕 mummy

  • @NKB6984
    @NKB6984 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Obiaa ni deɛ ɔ pɛ!!

  • @mboumbou7582
    @mboumbou7582 หลายเดือนก่อน

    But you were living in the apartment before you buy a house

  • @Kasford
    @Kasford หลายเดือนก่อน

    So nkrataa is a determinant for marriage proposal acceptance? Boi3

  • @Sandyasare770
    @Sandyasare770 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Comment section ha ay3 d3 😅😅😅😅

  • @PaulAidoo-lj1uu
    @PaulAidoo-lj1uu หลายเดือนก่อน

    Planning and hard work you can make it, and real estate is the best investment one can make in overseas, it goes up and down but for a long term you will never lose.

  • @nanaadoma3141
    @nanaadoma3141 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nice interview but I couldn't help noticing the low self-esteem a lot of blacks have which can be seen by the way we say things like we are the only blacks at our job or that we live in a white neighbourhood lol. It is just so sad that our sense of respect is tied to our closeness to whiteness...

    • @Sandyasare770
      @Sandyasare770 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, you can say that though, but she is not living in Africa, so she has every right to say that since some whites don't allow we the black to do certain jobs on their land.

  • @coockie1859
    @coockie1859 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How did she earn the money to do all that?

    • @Sandyasare770
      @Sandyasare770 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Remember, she is a hard working lady with a supportive husband, and also from a rich home.

  • @frankduah
    @frankduah หลายเดือนก่อน

    This woman will do saaa,then fake person will come n marry her daughter n more treat her

    • @Sandyasare770
      @Sandyasare770 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If you maltreat a person,they will leave you for good. So if that happens, the daughter can also choose to leave the partner and life goes on.

  • @Sterllinx
    @Sterllinx หลายเดือนก่อน

    First person 😊

  • @BigbBrainsTech
    @BigbBrainsTech หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hmmmmm

  • @jacobowusu491
    @jacobowusu491 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Haha ghana women ,

    • @kingsleyarhin6442
      @kingsleyarhin6442 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol you see the mindset haha it’s funny

    • @wirekoebenezer
      @wirekoebenezer หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don't mind her shebi DB

  • @NayaBaah
    @NayaBaah หลายเดือนก่อน

    Boi😅

  • @mboumbou7582
    @mboumbou7582 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wicked woman

  • @mboumbou7582
    @mboumbou7582 หลายเดือนก่อน

    But you were living in the apartment before you buy a house