Any type of rejection is not personal. When my twin flame goes into isolation he appears to be rejecting himself more than he is me. And yes he’s been my greatest teacher. Definitely has helped my soul grow the most. I can’t understand or relate to not wanting to be w my TF. He’s the person I have the most fun with. Everyone’s story is different and I agree labels don’t matter. And I also think if you truly love your TF and they bring you joy , they are worth whatever work it takes to bring you together. As long as you’re loving and respecting yourself in the process. These are not traditional relationships!
@@rachelross5829 no. Nothing ever worked out properly. I got myself into therapy and absolutely don’t believe in this anymore. The twin flame theory can be explained by attachment theory or also the Anxious/avoidant cycle. One person is emotionally unavailable (the runner) and the other person is the chaser (codependent empath etc). You can heal yourself. It’s all rooted in childhood trauma
I think the reality is there is no literally a twin flame. Period! We are so caught up with this idea, but maybe we’re just implicating this in our heads but in really this is just the key for us to grow as a person, to learned to love, to felt the hard rejection, to feel deep emotions, to learn lessons. For us to awaken to “OUR” own whole self “our true being as an individual”. To realised and to learn,-to transition to our wholeness within just our selves. Us is enough! That theirs literally no other half but it is just “yourself” from the beginning, that is somehow incomplete at the moment, but once you found someone, that someone that your brain, intuition is saying your twin flame but actually in reality, that person is just “a key” for you to open up your other half that is already existing “yet still sleeping” but living naturally within yourself! 💖💖💖 All love and gratitude to everyone.
I never felt I was not whole and I don't believe twin flames are a half of us, so this concept as you are putting it was never in my consciousness and it does not resonate with me. My twin flames (we are 7) and I all share a soul. We are each whole and complete. I was never caught up with this idea, but I did meet my twins and nothing can really compare to meeting other soul aspects of yourself. I think other people do romanticize the concept of it and I try to set people straight in my videos, but not everyone has fallen for the false teachings of twin flames.
Thank you so much for sharing, Stephanie. I had a TF session with you a few months ago, and this echoes what we went over in my session. My biggest thing is about feeling lonely. It’s about being surrounded by people, and still feeling lonely. I fear loneliness. I want my twin to fill in that space. To help me feel like I’m not alone, that I’m not crazy for the ideas I have. Over time, he started treating me exactly like my parents and family did, claiming I don’t know how to deal with emotions, saying I’m too sensitive. the pattern is still there. It’s about drawing boundaries and being there for myself, yet I still fear loneliness as I move forward.
I haven't been in contact with any twinflames since august. I hate to say this but you truly are your own twinflame. Looking for an external source to fill in that for you is only going to lead to eternal sadness. Then again separation is an illusion as you are bound to reunite inevitably. Many blessings to you Stephanie Kaft.
I am crying , non-stop with this video. I am forever grateful to have come across it. This is exactly what I needed to hear today, more than any day. I think this was the missing piece , final piece to my healing.
Thank you Thank you i felt the same way this was the worst man to have as a twin flame because our lifestyles were so different, but because he was my true flame and he took me to heights I had never been , i actually believed we were destined to be together. He actually brought me back to life. But you have shown me that maybe he served his purpose and now that is why hes gone his own way. I felt absolutely devastated at first. But after hearing you i understand so much more. He will always hold a special place in my heart. But i can let him go now with a smile on my face.
Thank you for posting this. It is very strange that I came across this video tonight. My TF experience started in August 2019. I have been holding on to my TF, though I've become stronger each day. I decided to tell my TF (just 2 hours ago), "I am letting go. You can breathe now". It felt like I was talking to myself, experiencing oneness, but telling myself that I can let go and breathe. Then watching your video, I had a huge realization as you were explaining your realization. OH MY GOSH! Light bulb! Thank you a million! Thank you for your honesty too. There ARE so many videos indicating TF were/are to be together, ect. Just let go. Let go.
Thank you so much. This is the first youtube video about TF rejection that I feel connected with. I've been rejected by my twin and at first I was very shocked and then for a while I got incredibly depressed and then angry. I wasted so much time trying to understand why he did that. But now I think there is no reason to look up why or what or how he is but rather I just need to forget him and accept the fact that its never going to happen and face the logical reality rather than stay in a hope that stunts my freedom. And its been INCREDIBLY hard for me. I'm still not 100% over it and its already been one year since it happened. Thanks for talking about this in the way you did!!!
I got chills and I cried ! Thank you I needed this video, I am living this rejection right now and I didn’t understand it but I knew there was something to learn from this experience.
I just faced a similar rejection, thankfully only after a year - we are still friends, and a little more, but I am not convinced this is a twin flame, as apaprently over a year of no contact I was mostly out of sight, out of mind, unlike me who had him in mind EVERY day. I expressed my state of mind and total love and he sweetly and honestly let me know it wasn't reciprocated, but that my honesty was most respected. However...he said maybe some day, and that there is no denying we have so many synchronicities and commonalities. I feel very much ok with this just not being the thing I thought it was and that we cannot fullfill eachothers needs for now. I am still ruminating all night long without much sleep, but I also know with some peace I will be better than fine soon. I was ready for this.
Thank you so much. There are no words. You have put all the little pieces together for me that I’ve worked on and been stuck in for years. Drew the dotted lines. Life changing.
My twin and I mutually rejected one another. Yes it’s quite liberating to face this. I do still listen to twin flame videos but my twin isn’t coming back anytime soon or ever. And that’s beautiful ❤️🥰🙏
What a beautiful woman ! Thanks so much for sharing !! I 100% agree with this , it all trauma from childhood , a lot of us don’t really want our 3d twin , but it is the aspect of us that cries out for love and we attach it to our twin thinking the twin will love us , but god showed me we need to love us first to then have the love from our twin reflected back to us , all pain and fear is an illusion , once you heal the pain , you heal the illusion your seeing 💜♥️
Great concept for a video, thank you. For me it took my twin rejecting me to begin my spiritual transformation and remember that I came here to be of service and help raise the vibration of the planet. And to do so first it means healing myself. I'm extremely grateful to my twin to inspire me to dig deeper and start me on this amazing spiritual journey.
Wow so inightful! Exactly how I would explain the process ...it's like we are desperately avoiding the pain of rejection but once we deal w it we feel so much better!!!
8 years and love its there but diferent continents culture..laws..age..made it so hard..but we are working on self growth and sharing love and light..with every one suroinding as..we are not talking but comunicatin with music
Dear Stephanie 🙏🏼 I‘ve discovered you through the interview with Alex, and listening to you on the interview and what you‘ve said here on this video, I‘ve noticed a great deal of parallel experiences, perception, insights and results. So so similar. It‘s wonderful, my friend. ♥️ Love from Switzerland, j.
Rejection, healing, learning and growth take place in almost everyone's lives and in many kinds of relationships at some point. Many are not even twins. Twins are catalysts for growth, but so are other soul types that the majority of us have already encountered, (Karmic Soulmate, etc.) that also chose to be catalysts that have hurt us to holy hell as well. So once again, there is really not much difference in terms of purpose/roles as we can once again disregard labels for good. I wish you the best moving forward and appreciated you sharing your story. You are a beautiful girl and have so much to offer. Don't sell yourself short and let life pass you by! XOXO
Yes, this is my story too. This just happened to me & it's awesome. Also awesome confirmation that Spirit told me to watch you and I laughed when I saw the title. Healing the final pieces of the rejection wounds from childhood 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤
Beautiful message of truth. I am going to play this over a few times. I lived with my uncle and his wife. She was a narcissist and hurt me like in that movie Cybil. People do not realise that good therapy is not provided by the state or low paying jobs. I have a masters degree but could never live up to my potential because of mental illness.I just did 10.00 an hour jobs for 30 years. I have been trying to get well for 38 years. I am 57. What an adventure. I just blocked the twin yesterday. We were not fb friends but he was keeping track of me. I had to do that to face that the twin is not coming back. He is a priest. He keeps taking leaves of absences and I would think he was coming for me. He never answered my letters. He only liked me for a month 5 years ago. He does not want me. I do not think he is celibate but I am not even sure he likes women. I might just have been the twin. What denial. When I faced he was not coming back, I got better. Rejection is not such a big deal when you love yourself. I finally do at 57. Finally I do not want to watch the readings or instruction videos of how to get twin back. He is not coming back. I was so in love with him: he was the most beautiful man that I ever saw. We had the same vibrations: the sound of his voice was like a key to me. I don't want him any more though, either. He is a narcissist like that woman who raised me. He would always be keeping me at a distance and rejecting me. Freedom. You are awesome and authentic: how refreshing!!!!
Jeanette O'Neil If you feel that your survival, security or wellbeing has to be provided by someone else, you will be highly susceptible to the narcissist’s false promises of being the provider of those things for you. The core wound making you susceptible is the survival and security fears which you took on from your childhood, and / or if you had “controlling” caretakers who did not allow you to develop into your own power to create your own life. If you are carrying the beliefs of “having to earn approval in order to feel worthy” you will be suffering lack of self-love and self-worthiness, and you will be very susceptible to going back to “words” of love, no matter how empty they are. The core wound causing you to be vulnerable, is having absorbed beliefs of “conditional love” in childhood regarding being worthy only for what you achieved, rather than being loved and accepted for who you are.
The thing is, I never wanted this. My anger comes from the fact that I never wanted to meet this person in the first place and I dont see why it was necessary
This was what happened with me but it wasn’t as fast but over a few months of deep suffering. I’ve accepted rejection consciously and don’t entertain those comforting fantasies - but I still have difficulty moving forward in my life and feel like it’s on hold and I can’t move on with someone else. . Even though I don’t want to be with him as I see more of the personality on top of his essence - it still feels unresolved because I know if he ever fulfills his vow to prove himself to me I would leave whomever I’m with and that feels wrong. I suspect there is still some subconscious attachment and if I’m honest I feel like it’s that I can’t accept the reality is that on a soul level I want to be alone, just me and god.. and that feels terrifying on a deep level. Wow thanks for the video - it’s pointing to that deep level you speak about.
Thank you for this video Stephanie. I when I first began this twin flame union when I met my twin flame, I called you for a personal session which was very helpful that was maybe two years ago. And I’m planning on giving you another call to set up another appointment.
Thank you stephanie! Thank you for sharing your story. It totally resonates with me. I always questioned myself, denied all the signs . Im so grateful for this video . I met this guy half a year ago. First sight i liked him but i had the gut feeling that when i get envolved with him my life would change completly. So I ignored him. But we found us anyways and it was so intense. I felt that he is me and im him just in different bodies. But he also rejected me. Not because of me but because of his Trauma from narcisstic abuse. He told me so and i was Not that broken. Instead im going since through a spiritual awakening. I thought i could let him go. But that was not the case. I was tested many times and finally i also wrote a letter. He did not say i dont love you but i knew just as you he does not want to be together. We are in no communication and i went crazy i desparetly wanted to be with him rescue him. But i know now its my own childhood Trauma im constantly repeating. And actually i still love him but its not that desperate its more beeing grateful that he invited me to look deep inside myself. I still feel we are connected but the pain got better and today was the first day i was not feeling so lonely and desperate.
This is the most beautiful truth I've ever heard expressed about twin flames, Stephanie. Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing your story. I'm crying writing this because even though I'm in separation from my twin and haven't gotten a rejection (I also haven't tried to reunite either because I'm working on healing issues in my own life) my heart knows I must accept the fact that we may never be in Union in this lifetime and be okay with that because, ultimately, I choose myself. I've seen past lives with him & even channelled images and glimpses of parallel universes where we are together with two children. I've accepted that I have the ability to channel that information but it DOES NOT mean I have to live for his acceptance or live for him choosing a future/lifetime with me because...I choose myself. I'm the twin flame I was seeking all along. You're describing the process of waking up from the illusion that you and your twin flame are separate, the illusion that we were EVER rejected by anyone - such a hard illusion to overcome and I applaud you. You chose yourself. I think sharing your story may help a lot of folks heal. Thank you and namaste. 🙏
Thank you so much! Interestingly enough, from the beginning, I knew we were one. I had lots of spiritually transformative experiences with him before we met and after we met that were oneness experiences with him and his soul aspect. So, I have actually never had the illusion that we were separate.
Thank you for sharing the truth... As a spiritual person and trained therapist I didnt even believe in Twin Flame phenomona because I thought it just as you said " a way to cope" Until I recently had an experience that felt like whats described by so many. I came across your videos and I knew immediately this is the truth and the way I need to view this experience. The growth from whatever is happening/triggering is always about me!
The thing that is most upsetting when you are going through it is that many go silent and no contact. We keep wondering if they are going on the journey also and ever cared for us. They don't have to- if we have the journey and have the transformation, they were the twin flame.
My twin flame and I were friends since childhood. So, She is family to me. We were in a relationship for seven years. We had a tower moment and were separated for 20 years! We talked on and off and meet up a few times. Then in June 2019, I started to have this strong connection. My heart Chakra open up due to her. Long story short, She Rejected me. I still don't know what I've done.
I would want my twin flame to to tell me outright that he does t want me, but he doesn’t. When I let him go, he feels this and makes fake profiles and checks on me! I’d rather he tell me “ I don’t want you” but he refuses to do so. He just ignores me then tricks me with fake profiles. I want to get out of this cycle!
Wow! What a powerful message! I can relate to it all. Thank ypu for sharing and putting your experience out there about the twin flame saga for others to be reminded the truth behind the illusion and the whole purpose of having a twin flame here in this realm. I almost fell back into the trap illusion again lately. We are love. We are light. We are God love. Peace snd love my soul sister. ✌❤
Thank you for sharing, I immediately started to synch with your words. My last video just irritated me. I just still feel outcasted. Despite all my work, all my synchronicities, all the echos of her. I only feel like the same person that started 5 years ago.
Mine wanted me, led me on and flirted with me for months, asked me out, asked me if I wanted a relationship and then when I was ready to move forward with him, he friend-zoned me and told me he was seeing someone. I removed myself from the situation and deleted his number that day. It's been nearly 6 months but I'm starting to feel like I might be ok one day. To this day, I still think it's one of the cruelest things that someone has done. Why bother playing me like that? What did he get from that? Power? An ego boost? It's just sad. I was so in love with him.
Stephanie I 100% agree our TF helps us reach our deepest wounds to heal. I also have this theory & approach, which has helped me a lot, that we set the pain up in this lifetime in order to heal & clear our ancient soul imprints, especially original pain patterning & 'karma' we formed with our TF.
So funny. I got into a fight with my father one night in the car and poof the want for my twin flame was gone. Turns out I didn’t want my twin I wanted my dads love. I’m 21 and it finally hit me my dad is never going to change and it’s not really his fault. And it’s not me being unloveable… it just is what it is. So crazy we have similar stories. I think abt my twin now and I’m like oh- I still want him but it’s more the idea of what I wanted rather than what is. Still can’t over the rejection fully tho. My ego can’t take it.
Okay, I'm going to explain my story. my twin flame denies their feelings for me a lot. they are probably mirroring me. First, they say "I'm in love with you" then later they say "I don't like you". And BOOM they block me due to an stupid argument.. Hes even talked to me through music about his feelings about me the lyric said: "I'm still into you!" And then the next day, he talked to me through music again. The lyric said how he was exactly feeling, I was listening to music when me and my twin flame were texting at night. The lyrics said: "I'm high, she says she loves me, but we are just more than friends." He texted me and said he doesn't like me that way, and then I got mad at him and I was crying. I felt sooo rejected. because he keeps running away from me. Then he eventually blocked me on social media on my main account. I have an alt account, and me and my twin flame are still in contact through my alt account. I'm happy and glad that my twin flame still talks to me through other peoples sentences. (Twin Flame Telepathy) I had a dream about my runner apologizing to me, he said that he was really sorry for running away and he will eventually break up with his girlfriend because he found out our twin flame connection. Me and my twin flame were crying with eachother, and apologizing after an argument because of him rejecting me. We just clashed because we are polar opposites and our differences. He says he loves me through telepathy and the 5D, but he says he doesn't love me in the 3D. I'm like: What is this? Usually, when I doubt this connection. The number 11:11 attacks me big time, and it will make me doubt even more because I seen my twin flame FRIENDS name on 11:11... My twin flame says he has trouble understanding feelings for other people.... He is currently in a relationship right now, and I even seen him talking to his girlfriend. I don't know why my twin is like this, maybe it's a divine challenge? he can be just plain cold to me and block me or say "I'm going to block you!" Twin flame runners can be the pain in the ass for us chasers! They are so confusing to understand.. I think my twin is just confused... You see, my twin flame said that he doesn't love people online romantically. I completely understand that, because he has a lots of exes on the internet. I think he just gives up on online dating, me too actually! We met online on a social media platform. I'm going to travel by my twin flames state sooner or later.. that's a good sign! this is a possibility though. We are planning to meet eachother in real life... this journey is so difficult yet it is challenging me to have faith. I am, I have a lot of faith in this journey.. but it can be so emotinal. It leads to me in emotinal shock. My twin flame triggers me emotionally and spiritually. My twin flame does care for me, he has said it to me. The rejection from your twin flame can be 100% painful. I'm in the crisis stage all over again!! My twin flame put me back in the crisis stage. I don't know why but this is just a random thing I have to say lol: when I think of my twin flame. He texts me, or he goes online.. I could feel him thinking of me and when hes going to text me.
I don't know how to put my story into words, but I can relate to everything you are talking about. Everytime, when I'm more rational and aware, I always asked myself, "Do I really want to be with him? What is so great about him?? Then, why do I put so much effort to prove to him that I love him? Can't he see it already? How much more effort should I put to make everything work? And why should I be the one who give my power away? Why am I letting him do this to me? Do I really want to settle with him???" Deep down since long ago, even before we started dating, I already knew we had no future together. It's impossible. Me and him, is definitely impossible. And I can't imagine how can we both get married, build a family and live together forever. That's impossible. Totally impossible. And like you said, I don't want to be with him, but I want him to love me. All this time, before watching your video, I thought I have some mental issue, perhaps. Because in my opinion, that kind of thinking is so selfish and distorted. I really want to find the way out from all this drama. And without me realising it, his rejection this time is my ultimate liberation. Because since the past few days, I keep on telling myself, this rejection is my way out. This is my freedom. And I must grab this golden chance to break free, once and for all. This is the God's way of helping me out. And I don't know why am I telling myself this. I don't hve that one moment kind of realization like you. It takes me few days to get all this thought but I'm still not making sense of everything yet. However, your video, this video has truly help me a lot. And I feel so much better knowing that I'm not a freak or mental to hve all this kind of thinking. And I can relate when you said that, once I got to that moments of truth and realization, I don't want to be near him or his energy, precisely. I don't even want to keep his phone number😅 I go deep within myself, just to make sure I'm not doing it because of hatred or jealousy or any sort of negative feeling. And surprisingly, I'm actually feeling better having no contact with him. Like you said, his existence became so unimportant. Anyway, thank you again.. I feel like I can't thank you enough😊
Definitely, I relate with you, my same story growing up with my parents and now, the same thing, my TF has expressed he loves me, but he has not expressed he wants to be with me. When we get together is the most beautiful time of my life always, but when we are apart I really don't know how to handle the separation. Love you, Stephanie.
Thank you for your beautiful soulful sharing! After 4 years of waiting around for my TF, I finally made peace with my self worth and knew I had to say goodbye. thru 2 healing ceremonies I have let him go and I feel a certain (sad) freedom for it. Funny thing tho, I woke up from a dream last night and in that ether fringe I realized I was with my TF. It was an odd sensation and I’m still trying to figure it out. 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Omg, you're tf explanation eerily feels like how I feel. I would want mine, but not 24/7, but he is not available in that respect. I'm not looking for him to fill me up. I have to do that. He's in contact daily, I rarely, if ever, in 2 years, have contacted him. He just doesn't go away. I expressed my feelings, as best I could to him one day without actually using th using the L word. And for me, that is very hard. He didn't reject what I said. He was quiet listening. Stephanie, I had the same type parents. Narcissist mother, totally unavailable father. I am so past blaming them and I don't feel this is my healing lesson in totality with this person, but I believe you have a point in your explanation. No matter what I do or how I try to push him away, he hasn't gone. I almost wish he would reject me. I feel at this point, I 'm better prepared to deal with it. But I dig this guy like no other. Ugh...It is getting better. Thank you for this video.
Yes, I am way past blaming my parents for anything, BUT there was still something inside me I needed to release and it took my TF to help me in this way..... I suppose... In any case, the freedom, joy, and peace are wonderful. Wishing you the best.... I know it's not an easy path.
It was just this week I realized my watching all the videos was my way to “cope,” as you say, or “keep my brain from breaking,” which is the closest way I can come to describing it (ie pathological hoping). So what if he’s my TF or loves me? He’s 1000 miles away and showing no signs of wanting to be w me. Like you say, “I feel so stupid.” Yes, I completely see the parallels w my parents, and figuring that out only exacerbates TF’s rejection. So much pain .....
It shifts, since we are not static beings; we are dynamic. But at this time in my life, the answer is yes, I do feel all of that. The shift regarding my twin flame that occurred that day has remained.
I agree to some degree with what you are saying, but what about those twins that do get together? You are right to say everyone has a different experience, yours is one to take into account but I’ve heard others who had a very different experience. Also, you didn’t want this man you admit you knew that, how different that is pain wise to someone who does want to be with their twin? Acceptance is very hard especially when you can’t get them out of your mind and your heart. I think letting them go is the secret to whatever your destiny is but the end result is not going to be the same for everyone.
People will have different stories for sure. A lot of my viewers and clients share similarities with my story and some share only certain aspects of it in some cases, and still some share none at all. There are people whose twin is not as bad as mine; they think highly of their twin and those are harder to let go of.... They still need to face reality and let go though. Some twins do get together and this video is obviously not for those twins. They are most likely not watching a video with a title such as this one.
Stephanie Kraft yes and no, aren’t all twins supposed to trigger and challenge you even those who end up together? There is also no way to know who will end up together and who won’t, your response is not realistic, everyone who is on the twin path is struggling at some point and we are all looking for help everywhere and anywhere we can find it. I accept your story but it is disheartening as an the only option and the only outcome possible is being rejected. I DO want my twin and the point I think should be to focus on yourself no matter what the result is, not that the result will be rejection.
@@laverdaderayo Lots of points to cover here. Yes, twins do trigger each other and some still do end up together. This video is for twins whose twins have rejected them. And even for the twins who may still come together, isn't this healing (how I've explained it) the absolute best way to end up with your twin? Coming together from a healed place, without need, without fear, with total self-love, with detachment and no co-dependency, not projecting all their needs onto the other.... this is the ultimate way to attract your twin from the most healed place, having let go, and being in authenticity and balance. Coming together before any of this is done usually does not happen and if it does, those twins have so much work to do and still have times of separation and deep struggle. I know twins who are together and they would not be watching this video. It's geared toward the people for whom it resonates. If you are trying to fit yourself into a box to make this video make sense for you and it doesn't, then I don't think it's for you. That is only for you to decide. Perhaps one day it will resonate and perhaps it never will. I never lump all twins together and say "all twins" anything..... And I never say that rejection the way for all twins. This video is clearly for twins who've been rejected. It's for twins whose twin has gone no contact with them for years, or extremely low contact, and they have been stuck in a place of false hope or longing for their twin for years. They do need help in releasing themselves from this unhealthy, dysfunctional attachment that is causing them suffering and when they refuse to admit the truth of what is going on.
@@StephanieKraft I disagree whole heartily. Can you explain the reason why paranormal things occuring the separation that hammers you about this connection?
@@DominikSobolewski You disagree wholeheartedly with what exactly? The higher self makes a lot of contact during separation and always (even when there is normal contact) just to say hello, I'm here, we are one, we have a connection, etc....this is on-going. This always happens with twins, it's part of the connection of being one soul.
I am having the feeling with you had. I don't really that eagerly want him, but I can't accept his fully rejection. In fact, it has been always I rejected him and he asked for reunion until he was finally fed up and completely gave up. Then, consequently it is me now feeling trigger and painful and wanna him to communicate with me. However, if thinking deeply, do I wanna reunion? Probably also no. I am doing a lot of research about twin flame and seek an answer why my heart always suddenly felt extremely pain since he completely rejected me. I am very confused if the pain from deep of myself or from him. I told him to stop thinking of me and let me heal my pain, but he replied me that he didn't think of me at all since this separation. His answer let me feel so embarrassed to be so over confident and finally decide to surrender the journey. I thought he was suffering in pain because of losing me, but the fact is he is more than fine without me! What can I say? Accept and surrender😂 Thank you for your videos to let me understand more about twin flame
We were friends for a long time. TFs are not for coming together in the long-run. My videos explain the purpose of TFs. It's almost never for physical union and staying together.
My twin has himself and another woman or his sister on Facebook picture. I saw his sister but she was very pregnant and is short. 70 lb loss of weight and a different hairdo makes someone look different. I am not friends with him and have been in separation for 4 years 8 months. He just ignores my letters and treats me like I am dead or nothing. I have been working on my core wounds so I will be okay. I am back feeling the rejection. How can he be my twin if he is so mean?
Are you in contact or friends with your Twin since April? I thought, maybe mistakenly, that in a video you stated that your Twin had said no matter what he wants to be in your life
Thank you for your honest and powerful testimonial! With this magnificent experience of yours, and with the words you chose to describe the feelings and the intensity, did you suddenly raise your God consciousness to a higher place as described by Dr. David Hawkins with his map of energy levels? Did you ascend to 500 or even up to enlightenment at 700? You used the words love, joy, peace, and "hard to describe," which I translate into ineffable. Again, a tremendous thanks for sharing as it was truly beneficial for me to listen to.
The whole twin flame encounters thing is not coming from the same place, we're individual twin flame cases, which have to get together to exchange energy/info sometimes a conversation is all that is needed not a lifetime relation.
Yes, I wish more people understood this. Even just a passing glance in one lifetime can sometimes happen between twin flames. They are catalysts for us.
Not sure if the person rejecting you is twin soul and feels nothing about it while you are devasted sensing the twin around you 24/7 for months. Worse still when you already are in happy loving relationship with spouse. Just confusing. Perhaps best not to look for any reassurance or validation and continue with the gruelling endless journey. Only time can tell.
Facing the rejection as the ultimate liberation… I don’t agree. It keeps you in 3D There is no separation. Understanding the union of everything is the liberation. Because that shows you understand the 5D reality behind it all and that is the whole point of the TF journey: the awakening to the spiritual truth of your life.
30:04 Wow this is really killing me how you can get on to TH-cam and spread this with so much confidence this whole TF universe is f** up agree. But this video is part of it sorry girl
Any type of rejection is not personal. When my twin flame goes into isolation he appears to be rejecting himself more than he is me. And yes he’s been my greatest teacher. Definitely has helped my soul grow the most. I can’t understand or relate to not wanting to be w my TF. He’s the person I have the most fun with. Everyone’s story is different and I agree labels don’t matter. And I also think if you truly love your TF and they bring you joy , they are worth whatever work it takes to bring you together. As long as you’re loving and respecting yourself in the process. These are not traditional relationships!
My twin story sounds similar to yours. Mine literally told me: “I love you, but I don’t want you.” I must have cried for months after ...
Are you still together?
@@rachelross5829 no. Nothing ever worked out properly. I got myself into therapy and absolutely don’t believe in this anymore. The twin flame theory can be explained by attachment theory or also the Anxious/avoidant cycle. One person is emotionally unavailable (the runner) and the other person is the chaser (codependent empath etc). You can heal yourself. It’s all rooted in childhood trauma
@@SK-no2pp thank you for that feedback. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. Not split in 2❤️
THIS IS THE MOST AMAZING GIFT YOU'VE GIVEN US STEPHANIE💚🙌💚 THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you!! You are welcome!
I think the reality is there is no literally a twin flame. Period! We are so caught up with this idea, but maybe we’re just implicating this in our heads but in really this is just the key for us to grow as a person, to learned to love, to felt the hard rejection, to feel deep emotions, to learn lessons. For us to awaken to “OUR” own whole self “our true being as an individual”. To realised and to learn,-to transition to our wholeness within just our selves. Us is enough! That theirs literally no other half but it is just “yourself” from the beginning, that is somehow incomplete at the moment, but once you found someone, that someone that your brain, intuition is saying your twin flame but actually in reality, that person is just “a key” for you to open up your other half that is already existing “yet still sleeping” but living naturally within yourself! 💖💖💖 All love and gratitude to everyone.
I never felt I was not whole and I don't believe twin flames are a half of us, so this concept as you are putting it was never in my consciousness and it does not resonate with me. My twin flames (we are 7) and I all share a soul. We are each whole and complete. I was never caught up with this idea, but I did meet my twins and nothing can really compare to meeting other soul aspects of yourself. I think other people do romanticize the concept of it and I try to set people straight in my videos, but not everyone has fallen for the false teachings of twin flames.
Thank you so much for sharing, Stephanie. I had a TF session with you a few months ago, and this echoes what we went over in my session.
My biggest thing is about feeling lonely. It’s about being surrounded by people, and still feeling lonely. I fear loneliness. I want my twin to fill in that space. To help me feel like I’m not alone, that I’m not crazy for the ideas I have.
Over time, he started treating me exactly like my parents and family did, claiming I don’t know how to deal with emotions, saying I’m too sensitive. the pattern is still there. It’s about drawing boundaries and being there for myself, yet I still fear loneliness as I move forward.
Are you an INFJ?
@@Coneman3 I test frequently as infj or infp
I haven't been in contact with any twinflames since august. I hate to say this but you truly are your own twinflame. Looking for an external source to fill in that for you is only going to lead to eternal sadness. Then again separation is an illusion as you are bound to reunite inevitably. Many blessings to you Stephanie Kaft.
I say basically the same thing in this video.
I am crying , non-stop with this video. I am forever grateful to have come across it. This is exactly what I needed to hear today, more than any day. I think this was the missing piece , final piece to my healing.
It’s a karmic contract she’s talking about not a TF
Thank you Thank you i felt the same way this was the worst man to have as a twin flame because our lifestyles were so different, but because he was my true flame and he took me to heights I had never been , i actually believed we were destined to be together. He actually brought me back to life. But you have shown me that maybe he served his purpose and now that is why hes gone his own way. I felt absolutely devastated at first. But after hearing you i understand so much more. He will always hold a special place in my heart. But i can let him go now with a smile on my face.
I'm proud of you! I know it's not easy.
Thank you for posting this. It is very strange that I came across this video tonight. My TF experience started in August 2019. I have been holding on to my TF, though I've become stronger each day. I decided to tell my TF (just 2 hours ago), "I am letting go. You can breathe now". It felt like I was talking to myself, experiencing oneness, but telling myself that I can let go and breathe. Then watching your video, I had a huge realization as you were explaining your realization. OH MY GOSH! Light bulb! Thank you a million! Thank you for your honesty too. There ARE so many videos indicating TF were/are to be together, ect. Just let go. Let go.
Wow, amazing. Thanks for sharing that and you're welcome!
I’ve watched countless videos. Your video has made the most sense out of all the videos I’ve watched. Thank you so much for this
Thank you so much. This is the first youtube video about TF rejection that I feel connected with. I've been rejected by my twin and at first I was very shocked and then for a while I got incredibly depressed and then angry. I wasted so much time trying to understand why he did that. But now I think there is no reason to look up why or what or how he is but rather I just need to forget him and accept the fact that its never going to happen and face the logical reality rather than stay in a hope that stunts my freedom. And its been INCREDIBLY hard for me. I'm still not 100% over it and its already been one year since it happened. Thanks for talking about this in the way you did!!!
You're welcome. I know it can be hard to get over your twin, but I know you can do it. Good luck.
Can relate a lot as an INFJ. It feels like your heart has been ripped out.
I got chills and I cried ! Thank you I needed this video, I am living this rejection right now and I didn’t understand it but I knew there was something to learn from this experience.
Needed this to change my perspective 🙏🏽 my soulmate is rejecting me and I am ready to let go
This is the best explanation I’ve heard! Thank you.
Thank you so much.
No, thank you again! You hit it! I will watch this video over and over!
She’s wrong
I just faced a similar rejection, thankfully only after a year - we are still friends, and a little more, but I am not convinced this is a twin flame, as apaprently over a year of no contact I was mostly out of sight, out of mind, unlike me who had him in mind EVERY day. I expressed my state of mind and total love and he sweetly and honestly let me know it wasn't reciprocated, but that my honesty was most respected. However...he said maybe some day, and that there is no denying we have so many synchronicities and commonalities. I feel very much ok with this just not being the thing I thought it was and that we cannot fullfill eachothers needs for now. I am still ruminating all night long without much sleep, but I also know with some peace I will be better than fine soon. I was ready for this.
Yes! Yes! Yes! Awakened Wisdom. So helpful to help us let go and move on!
This is literally my story. Word for word (I wrote a letter too, he said thanks, thats it lol) Great broadcast, thank you.
@@meredith9229 awwww.... I hope you're better now!
Thank you so much. There are no words. You have put all the little pieces together for me that I’ve worked on and been stuck in for years. Drew the dotted lines.
Life changing.
Whoa!! This hit. Hard. Ahha and it all makes sense now. Bittersweet. Thank you for this enlightenment 🙏🏼
My twin and I mutually rejected one another. Yes it’s quite liberating to face this. I do still listen to twin flame videos but my twin isn’t coming back anytime soon or ever. And that’s beautiful ❤️🥰🙏
I was rejected by my Dad and mom to an extent and my tf mirrored this. So deep and healing.
What a beautiful woman ! Thanks so much for sharing !! I 100% agree with this , it all trauma from childhood , a lot of us don’t really want our 3d twin , but it is the aspect of us that cries out for love and we attach it to our twin thinking the twin will love us , but god showed me we need to love us first to then have the love from our twin reflected back to us , all pain and fear is an illusion , once you heal the pain , you heal the illusion your seeing 💜♥️
Beautiful. Yes and thank you!
Great concept for a video, thank you. For me it took my twin rejecting me to begin my spiritual transformation and remember that I came here to be of service and help raise the vibration of the planet. And to do so first it means healing myself. I'm extremely grateful to my twin to inspire me to dig deeper and start me on this amazing spiritual journey.
Beautiful!
Wow so inightful! Exactly how I would explain the process ...it's like we are desperately avoiding the pain of rejection but once we deal w it we feel so much better!!!
8 years and love its there but diferent continents culture..laws..age..made it so hard..but we are working on self growth and sharing love and light..with every one suroinding as..we are not talking but comunicatin with music
Very important and helpful video. Thank tou so much.
You are welcome!
Dear Stephanie 🙏🏼 I‘ve discovered you through the interview with Alex, and listening to you on the interview and what you‘ve said here on this video, I‘ve noticed a great deal of parallel experiences, perception, insights and results. So so similar. It‘s wonderful, my friend. ♥️ Love from Switzerland, j.
That's really amazing. Thank you for sharing that.
Beautiful and so moving
Thank you.
That was affirming I had a very similar experience. Many thanks 🙏
You're welcome.
Stephanie, thanks for sharing your experience, for opening your hard, i felt identified with your life story
You are so welcome!
Rejection, healing, learning and growth take place in almost everyone's lives and in many kinds of relationships at some point. Many are not even twins. Twins are catalysts for growth, but so are other soul types that the majority of us have already encountered, (Karmic Soulmate, etc.) that also chose to be catalysts that have hurt us to holy hell as well. So once again, there is really not much difference in terms of purpose/roles as we can once again disregard labels for good. I wish you the best moving forward and appreciated you sharing your story. You are a beautiful girl and have so much to offer. Don't sell yourself short and let life pass you by! XOXO
Thank you so much.
Yes, this is my story too. This just happened to me & it's awesome. Also awesome confirmation that Spirit told me to watch you and I laughed when I saw the title. Healing the final pieces of the rejection wounds from childhood 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤
I love it!!
Beautiful message of truth. I am going to play this over a few times. I lived with my uncle and his wife. She was a narcissist and hurt me like in that movie Cybil. People do not realise that good therapy is not provided by the state or low paying jobs. I have a masters degree but could never live up to my potential because of mental illness.I just did 10.00 an hour jobs for 30 years. I have been trying to get well for 38 years. I am 57. What an adventure. I just blocked the twin yesterday. We were not fb friends but he was keeping track of me. I had to do that to face that the twin is not coming back. He is a priest. He keeps taking leaves of absences and I would think he was coming for me. He never answered my letters. He only liked me for a month 5 years ago. He does not want me. I do not think he is celibate but I am not even sure he likes women. I might just have been the twin. What denial. When I faced he was not coming back, I got better. Rejection is not such a big deal when you love yourself. I finally do at 57. Finally I do not want to watch the readings or instruction videos of how to get twin back. He is not coming back. I was so in love with him: he was the most beautiful man that I ever saw. We had the same vibrations: the sound of his voice was like a key to me. I don't want him any more though, either. He is a narcissist like that woman who raised me. He would always be keeping me at a distance and rejecting me. Freedom. You are awesome and authentic: how refreshing!!!!
Jeanette O'Neil If you feel that your survival, security or wellbeing has to be provided by someone else, you will be highly susceptible to the narcissist’s false promises of being the provider of those things for you.
The core wound making you susceptible is the survival and security fears which you took on from your childhood, and / or if you had “controlling” caretakers who did not allow you to develop into your own power to create your own life.
If you are carrying the beliefs of “having to earn approval in order to feel worthy” you will be suffering lack of self-love and self-worthiness, and you will be very susceptible to going back to “words” of love, no matter how empty they are.
The core wound causing you to be vulnerable, is having absorbed beliefs of “conditional love” in childhood regarding being worthy only for what you achieved, rather than being loved and accepted for who you are.
Wow. Yes, good for you. You've come through this and onto the other side. Phew. I am happy for you.
S K So True. I still have work to do.
The thing is, I never wanted this. My anger comes from the fact that I never wanted to meet this person in the first place and I dont see why it was necessary
None of us wanted this.
This was what happened with me but it wasn’t as fast but over a few months of deep suffering. I’ve accepted rejection consciously and don’t entertain those comforting fantasies - but I still have difficulty moving forward in my life and feel like it’s on hold and I can’t move on with someone else. . Even though I don’t want to be with him as I see more of the personality on top of his essence - it still feels unresolved because I know if he ever fulfills his vow to prove himself to me I would leave whomever I’m with and that feels wrong. I suspect there is still some subconscious attachment and if I’m honest I feel like it’s that I can’t accept the reality is that on a soul level I want to be alone, just me and god.. and that feels terrifying on a deep level. Wow thanks for the video - it’s pointing to that deep level you speak about.
This is so on point, trank you for this truth
You're welcome.
Thank you for this video Stephanie. I when I first began this twin flame union when I met my twin flame, I called you for a personal session which was very helpful that was maybe two years ago. And I’m planning on giving you another call to set up another appointment.
Wonderful!
Thank you stephanie! Thank you for sharing your story. It totally resonates with me. I always questioned myself, denied all the signs . Im so grateful for this video . I met this guy half a year ago. First sight i liked him but i had the gut feeling that when i get envolved with him my life would change completly. So I ignored him. But we found us anyways and it was so intense. I felt that he is me and im him just in different bodies. But he also rejected me. Not because of me but because of his Trauma from narcisstic abuse. He told me so and i was Not that broken. Instead im going since through a spiritual awakening. I thought i could let him go. But that was not the case. I was tested many times and finally i also wrote a letter. He did not say i dont love you but i knew just as you he does not want to be together. We are in no communication and i went crazy i desparetly wanted to be with him rescue him. But i know now its my own childhood Trauma im constantly repeating. And actually i still love him but its not that desperate its more beeing grateful that he invited me to look deep inside myself. I still feel we are connected but the pain got better and today was the first day i was not feeling so lonely and desperate.
🔥🔥🔥 this is so deep! Thank you. Healing is coming. 🙏
Thank you. Bless you on your healing journey!
Next level stuff.. I am exactly going through this liberation.
This is the most beautiful truth I've ever heard expressed about twin flames, Stephanie. Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing your story. I'm crying writing this because even though I'm in separation from my twin and haven't gotten a rejection (I also haven't tried to reunite either because I'm working on healing issues in my own life) my heart knows I must accept the fact that we may never be in Union in this lifetime and be okay with that because, ultimately, I choose myself.
I've seen past lives with him & even channelled images and glimpses of parallel universes where we are together with two children. I've accepted that I have the ability to channel that information but it DOES NOT mean I have to live for his acceptance or live for him choosing a future/lifetime with me because...I choose myself. I'm the twin flame I was seeking all along.
You're describing the process of waking up from the illusion that you and your twin flame are separate, the illusion that we were EVER rejected by anyone - such a hard illusion to overcome and I applaud you. You chose yourself. I think sharing your story may help a lot of folks heal. Thank you and namaste. 🙏
Thank you so much! Interestingly enough, from the beginning, I knew we were one. I had lots of spiritually transformative experiences with him before we met and after we met that were oneness experiences with him and his soul aspect. So, I have actually never had the illusion that we were separate.
Thank you for sharing the truth... As a spiritual person and trained therapist I didnt even believe in Twin Flame phenomona because I thought it just as you said " a way to cope" Until I recently had an experience that felt like whats described by so many. I came across your videos and I knew immediately this is the truth and the way I need to view this experience. The growth from whatever is happening/triggering is always about me!
I'm so glad you have a deeper understanding now.
I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your experience
Thank you so much for this comment. It can be scary being vulnerable, but if it helps someone, I am glad.
Aaaaahhh I cannot put into words how much this video helped me. Thank you. Thank you.
Thank you for this video ❤️
You're welcome.
The thing that is most upsetting when you are going through it is that many go silent and no contact. We keep wondering if they are going on the journey also and ever cared for us. They don't have to- if we have the journey and have the transformation, they were the twin flame.
Love you and your stuff Stephanie!
Thank you!
My twin flame and I were friends since childhood. So, She is family to me. We were in a relationship for seven years. We had a tower moment and were separated for 20 years! We talked on and off and meet up a few times. Then in June 2019, I started to have this strong connection. My heart Chakra open up due to her. Long story short, She Rejected me. I still don't know what I've done.
I'm so sorry. I know it can be hard!
I would want my twin flame to to tell me outright that he does t want me, but he doesn’t. When I let him go, he feels this and makes fake profiles and checks on me! I’d rather he tell me
“ I don’t want you” but he refuses to do so. He just ignores me then tricks me with fake profiles. I want to get out of this cycle!
Wow! What a powerful message! I can relate to it all. Thank ypu for sharing and putting your experience out there about the twin flame saga for others to be reminded the truth behind the illusion and the whole purpose of having a twin flame here in this realm. I almost fell back into the trap illusion again lately. We are love. We are light. We are God love. Peace snd love my soul sister. ✌❤
Thank you so much.
Thank you for sharing, I immediately started to synch with your words. My last video just irritated me. I just still feel outcasted. Despite all my work, all my synchronicities, all the echos of her. I only feel like the same person that started 5 years ago.
Mine wanted me, led me on and flirted with me for months, asked me out, asked me if I wanted a relationship and then when I was ready to move forward with him, he friend-zoned me and told me he was seeing someone. I removed myself from the situation and deleted his number that day. It's been nearly 6 months but I'm starting to feel like I might be ok one day. To this day, I still think it's one of the cruelest things that someone has done. Why bother playing me like that? What did he get from that? Power? An ego boost? It's just sad. I was so in love with him.
@sierraG333 I'm so sorry. That's terrible. I wish you a complete healing.
Stephanie I 100% agree our TF helps us reach our deepest wounds to heal. I also have this theory & approach, which has helped me a lot, that we set the pain up in this lifetime in order to heal & clear our ancient soul imprints, especially original pain patterning & 'karma' we formed with our TF.
Yes!
So funny. I got into a fight with my father one night in the car and poof the want for my twin flame was gone. Turns out I didn’t want my twin I wanted my dads love. I’m 21 and it finally hit me my dad is never going to change and it’s not really his fault. And it’s not me being unloveable… it just is what it is.
So crazy we have similar stories.
I think abt my twin now and I’m like oh-
I still want him but it’s more the idea of what I wanted rather than what is.
Still can’t over the rejection fully tho.
My ego can’t take it.
Okay, I'm going to explain my story.
my twin flame denies their feelings for me a lot. they are probably mirroring me. First, they say "I'm in love with you" then later they say "I don't like you". And BOOM they block me due to an stupid argument..
Hes even talked to me through music about his feelings about me the lyric said:
"I'm still into you!"
And then the next day, he talked to me through music again. The lyric said how he was exactly feeling, I was listening to music when me and my twin flame were texting at night. The lyrics said:
"I'm high, she says she loves me, but we are just more than friends."
He texted me and said he doesn't like me that way, and then I got mad at him and I was crying. I felt sooo rejected. because he keeps running away from me. Then he eventually blocked me on social media on my main account. I have an alt account, and me and my twin flame are still in contact through my alt account.
I'm happy and glad that my twin flame still talks to me through other peoples sentences. (Twin Flame Telepathy)
I had a dream about my runner apologizing to me, he said that he was really sorry for running away and he will eventually break up with his girlfriend because he found out our twin flame connection.
Me and my twin flame were crying with eachother, and apologizing after an argument because of him rejecting me. We just clashed because we are polar opposites and our differences.
He says he loves me through telepathy and the 5D, but he says he doesn't love me in the 3D. I'm like: What is this?
Usually, when I doubt this connection. The number 11:11 attacks me big time, and it will make me doubt even more because I seen my twin flame FRIENDS name on 11:11...
My twin flame says he has trouble understanding feelings for other people....
He is currently in a relationship right now, and I even seen him talking to his girlfriend.
I don't know why my twin is like this, maybe it's a divine challenge? he can be just plain cold to me and block me or say "I'm going to block you!" Twin flame runners can be the pain in the ass for us chasers! They are so confusing to understand.. I think my twin is just confused...
You see, my twin flame said that he doesn't love people online romantically. I completely understand that, because he has a lots of exes on the internet. I think he just gives up on online dating, me too actually! We met online on a social media platform. I'm going to travel by my twin flames state sooner or later.. that's a good sign! this is a possibility though. We are planning to meet eachother in real life... this journey is so difficult yet it is challenging me to have faith. I am, I have a lot of faith in this journey.. but it can be so emotinal. It leads to me in emotinal shock. My twin flame triggers me emotionally and spiritually. My twin flame does care for me, he has said it to me.
The rejection from your twin flame can be 100% painful.
I'm in the crisis stage all over again!! My twin flame put me back in the crisis stage.
I don't know why but this is just a random thing I have to say lol:
when I think of my twin flame. He texts me, or he goes online.. I could feel him thinking of me and when hes going to text me.
Thank you
You're welcome.
I don't know how to put my story into words, but I can relate to everything you are talking about. Everytime, when I'm more rational and aware, I always asked myself, "Do I really want to be with him? What is so great about him?? Then, why do I put so much effort to prove to him that I love him? Can't he see it already? How much more effort should I put to make everything work? And why should I be the one who give my power away? Why am I letting him do this to me? Do I really want to settle with him???"
Deep down since long ago, even before we started dating, I already knew we had no future together. It's impossible. Me and him, is definitely impossible. And I can't imagine how can we both get married, build a family and live together forever. That's impossible. Totally impossible.
And like you said, I don't want to be with him, but I want him to love me. All this time, before watching your video, I thought I have some mental issue, perhaps. Because in my opinion, that kind of thinking is so selfish and distorted. I really want to find the way out from all this drama. And without me realising it, his rejection this time is my ultimate liberation.
Because since the past few days, I keep on telling myself, this rejection is my way out. This is my freedom. And I must grab this golden chance to break free, once and for all. This is the God's way of helping me out. And I don't know why am I telling myself this. I don't hve that one moment kind of realization like you. It takes me few days to get all this thought but I'm still not making sense of everything yet. However, your video, this video has truly help me a lot. And I feel so much better knowing that I'm not a freak or mental to hve all this kind of thinking.
And I can relate when you said that, once I got to that moments of truth and realization, I don't want to be near him or his energy, precisely. I don't even want to keep his phone number😅 I go deep within myself, just to make sure I'm not doing it because of hatred or jealousy or any sort of negative feeling. And surprisingly, I'm actually feeling better having no contact with him. Like you said, his existence became so unimportant.
Anyway, thank you again.. I feel like I can't thank you enough😊
Wow. I love your message SO MUCH. I'm so happy for you. THANK YOU!! And, good for you!!
Definitely, I relate with you, my same story growing up with my parents and now, the same thing, my TF has expressed he loves me, but he has not expressed he wants to be with me. When we get together is the most beautiful time of my life always, but when we are apart I really don't know how to handle the separation. Love you, Stephanie.
Thank you!
Thank you for your beautiful soulful sharing! After 4 years of waiting around for my TF, I finally made peace with my self worth and knew I had to say goodbye. thru 2 healing ceremonies I have let him go and I feel a certain (sad) freedom for it. Funny thing tho, I woke up from a dream last night and in that ether fringe I realized I was with my TF. It was an odd sensation and I’m still trying to figure it out. 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Well, you are one, so that is normal. The oneness doesn't end even though you let go. It's eternal :)
Thank you🙏 I needed this!
Omg, you're tf explanation eerily feels like how I feel.
I would want mine, but not 24/7, but he is not available in that respect. I'm not looking for him to fill me up. I have to do that. He's in contact daily, I rarely, if ever, in 2 years, have contacted him. He just doesn't go away. I expressed my feelings, as best I could to him one day without actually using th using the L word. And for me, that is very hard. He didn't reject what I said. He was quiet listening. Stephanie, I had the same type parents. Narcissist mother, totally unavailable father. I am so past blaming them and I don't feel this is my healing lesson in totality with this person, but I believe you have a point in your explanation. No matter what I do or how I try to push him away, he hasn't gone. I almost wish he would reject me. I feel at this point, I 'm better prepared to deal with it. But I dig this guy like no other. Ugh...It is getting better. Thank you for this video.
Yes, I am way past blaming my parents for anything, BUT there was still something inside me I needed to release and it took my TF to help me in this way..... I suppose... In any case, the freedom, joy, and peace are wonderful. Wishing you the best.... I know it's not an easy path.
Thank you Stephanie x
It was just this week I realized my watching all the videos was my way to “cope,” as you say, or “keep my brain from breaking,” which is the closest way I can come to describing it (ie pathological hoping). So what if he’s my TF or loves me? He’s 1000 miles away and showing no signs of wanting to be w me. Like you say, “I feel so stupid.” Yes, I completely see the parallels w my parents, and figuring that out only exacerbates TF’s rejection. So much pain .....
Hi Steohanie, Do you still feel all the love, peace and happiness four years since the release you had by facing the rejection?
It shifts, since we are not static beings; we are dynamic. But at this time in my life, the answer is yes, I do feel all of that. The shift regarding my twin flame that occurred that day has remained.
You can not treat it like a romantic connection. They are your mirror. They can only love you when you love yourself. You can't project it onto them
I love how you don’t edit and kept the water scene in haha #authentic
Ha ha ha!!
I agree to some degree with what you are saying, but what about those twins that do get together? You are right to say everyone has a different experience, yours is one to take into account but I’ve heard others who had a very different experience. Also, you didn’t want this man you admit you knew that, how different that is pain wise to someone who does want to be with their twin? Acceptance is very hard especially when you can’t get them out of your mind and your heart. I think letting them go is the secret to whatever your destiny is but the end result is not going to be the same for everyone.
People will have different stories for sure. A lot of my viewers and clients share similarities with my story and some share only certain aspects of it in some cases, and still some share none at all. There are people whose twin is not as bad as mine; they think highly of their twin and those are harder to let go of.... They still need to face reality and let go though. Some twins do get together and this video is obviously not for those twins. They are most likely not watching a video with a title such as this one.
Stephanie Kraft yes and no, aren’t all twins supposed to trigger and challenge you even those who end up together? There is also no way to know who will end up together and who won’t, your response is not realistic, everyone who is on the twin path is struggling at some point and we are all looking for help everywhere and anywhere we can find it. I accept your story but it is disheartening as an the only option and the only outcome possible is being rejected. I DO want my twin and the point I think should be to focus on yourself no matter what the result is, not that the result will be rejection.
@@laverdaderayo Lots of points to cover here. Yes, twins do trigger each other and some still do end up together. This video is for twins whose twins have rejected them. And even for the twins who may still come together, isn't this healing (how I've explained it) the absolute best way to end up with your twin? Coming together from a healed place, without need, without fear, with total self-love, with detachment and no co-dependency, not projecting all their needs onto the other.... this is the ultimate way to attract your twin from the most healed place, having let go, and being in authenticity and balance. Coming together before any of this is done usually does not happen and if it does, those twins have so much work to do and still have times of separation and deep struggle. I know twins who are together and they would not be watching this video. It's geared toward the people for whom it resonates. If you are trying to fit yourself into a box to make this video make sense for you and it doesn't, then I don't think it's for you. That is only for you to decide. Perhaps one day it will resonate and perhaps it never will. I never lump all twins together and say "all twins" anything..... And I never say that rejection the way for all twins. This video is clearly for twins who've been rejected. It's for twins whose twin has gone no contact with them for years, or extremely low contact, and they have been stuck in a place of false hope or longing for their twin for years. They do need help in releasing themselves from this unhealthy, dysfunctional attachment that is causing them suffering and when they refuse to admit the truth of what is going on.
@@StephanieKraft I disagree whole heartily. Can you explain the reason why paranormal things occuring the separation that hammers you about this connection?
@@DominikSobolewski You disagree wholeheartedly with what exactly?
The higher self makes a lot of contact during separation and always (even when there is normal contact) just to say hello, I'm here, we are one, we have a connection, etc....this is on-going. This always happens with twins, it's part of the connection of being one soul.
Yes I had fear of abandonment and it caused me to reject hym after I chased hym to death it was like hell so much damn pain put min in the hospital
I am so sorry.
Can there be a considerable age difference between TF's
There can and they can also be the same age. There are no rules.
Anyone was dealing with narcissists prior to meeting their twin flame? Is this common?
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I send you love and affection ! I had almost the same childhood than you! 💖💖💖💖 🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷
Oh wow. Thank you!!
I am having the feeling with you had. I don't really that eagerly want him, but I can't accept his fully rejection. In fact, it has been always I rejected him and he asked for reunion until he was finally fed up and completely gave up. Then, consequently it is me now feeling trigger and painful and wanna him to communicate with me. However, if thinking deeply, do I wanna reunion? Probably also no. I am doing a lot of research about twin flame and seek an answer why my heart always suddenly felt extremely pain since he completely rejected me. I am very confused if the pain from deep of myself or from him. I told him to stop thinking of me and let me heal my pain, but he replied me that he didn't think of me at all since this separation. His answer let me feel so embarrassed to be so over confident and finally decide to surrender the journey. I thought he was suffering in pain because of losing me, but the fact is he is more than fine without me! What can I say? Accept and surrender😂 Thank you for your videos to let me understand more about twin flame
So you never end up in the physical union, even when you surrendered like that? 4 years passed, did he ever reach out after all?
We were friends for a long time. TFs are not for coming together in the long-run. My videos explain the purpose of TFs. It's almost never for physical union and staying together.
@@StephanieKraft what with all those that managed it by focusing all the energy back to themselfes?unity consiousness and all the stuff?
My twin has himself and another woman or his sister on Facebook picture. I saw his sister but she was very pregnant and is short. 70 lb loss of weight and a different hairdo makes someone look different. I am not friends with him and have been in separation for 4 years 8 months. He just ignores my letters and treats me like I am dead or nothing. I have been working on my core wounds so I will be okay. I am back feeling the rejection. How can he be my twin if he is so mean?
Are you in contact or friends with your Twin since April? I thought, maybe mistakenly, that in a video you stated that your Twin had said no matter what he wants to be in your life
Been there. 😭💜🙌
Thank you for your honest and powerful testimonial! With this magnificent experience of yours, and with the words you chose to describe the feelings and the intensity, did you suddenly raise your God consciousness to a higher place as described by Dr. David Hawkins with his map of energy levels? Did you ascend to 500 or even up to enlightenment at 700? You used the words love, joy, peace, and "hard to describe," which I translate into ineffable. Again, a tremendous thanks for sharing as it was truly beneficial for me to listen to.
Thank you!
Was the “membrane” the crossing out of the third dimension?
I'm going to have to watch the video again to know what membrane you are referring to. Sorry, I don't remember the details of what I said.
Yes, it was leaving this dimension.
😮 this is me
The whole twin flame encounters thing is not coming from the same place, we're individual twin flame cases, which have to get together to exchange energy/info sometimes a conversation is all that is needed not a lifetime relation.
Yes, I wish more people understood this. Even just a passing glance in one lifetime can sometimes happen between twin flames. They are catalysts for us.
U COULD BE RIGHT!
ITS TOO CONFUSING TO ME,
I'LL 💦👁👁💦 LET YOU KNOW WHEN & IF I EVER GET THERE! aha
HOWEVER, I DO BELIEVE IN SOUL MATES!!!
Not sure if the person rejecting you is twin soul and feels nothing about it while you are devasted sensing the twin around you 24/7 for months. Worse still when you already are in happy loving relationship with spouse. Just confusing. Perhaps best not to look for any reassurance or validation and continue with the gruelling endless journey. Only time can tell.
Facing the rejection as the ultimate liberation… I don’t agree. It keeps you in 3D There is no separation. Understanding the union of everything is the liberation. Because that shows you understand the 5D reality behind it all and that is the whole point of the TF journey: the awakening to the spiritual truth of your life.
Ok you’re saying you can’t and shouldn’t cut cords but you might never going to be with your twin flame? How should that not make one desperate ?
Moving beyond desperation will be a gift. One is not meant to stay in desperation. This is a journey of enlightenment and not an easy one.
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This is a karmic soul contract not a mirror
He’s not your Twinflame sorry. It’s also called trauma bond
Even more when he then left your life. Typical karmic contract
24:30 sister everything you say describes a karmic. Who told you it’s your TF
30:04 Wow this is really killing me how you can get on to TH-cam and spread this with so much confidence this whole TF universe is f** up agree. But this video is part of it sorry girl
There is just no such thing as a Twin flame, okay?