Narcissist #2 FEAR (BEING ALONE !)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ต.ค. 2024
- The narcissist list of FEAR continues. This second fear they have is BEING ALONE. The narcissist needs people around them to keep them busy and fill them with a false sense of self. The narcissist is always looking to be busy moving around and changing friends like a healthy person changes clothes. The narcissist if alone needs to introspect and recognize they are a false person. That they aren’t perfect and they are human with human emotions and feelings including shame. They don’t like to be alone because they are forced to acknowledge their faults and misgivings. The narcissist is a coward and a fake. #narcissist #narcissism #alone #fraud #fake #coward #false #isolated
"If the narcissist is alone, who's going to tell them how great they are?" Excellent!!
Yep....they are cowards and fakes. They are also boring.....there is nothing you can speak with them about that has any depth to it. They lie compulsively , the lies make them Fakes, and being fake is boring.
You know? This is so true. They are VERY boring. I've never thought about that, but if they do offer anything to the conversation it's always some kind of a downer, which usually brings the conversation to a halt. They seem to be pleased with that.
100% agree.
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THIS!! So true!
The best thing for me was to finally be alone after my narcissistic experience. LOL!
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The Narc that I know she can’t be alone, always on dating site chatting multiple people to make her feels good.
They can’t be alone ever
Yup
They just jump from one relationship to another.
Do not judge her 🙏
This is 100 percent legit…
WOW!!! This journey is like a giant jigsaw puzzle...one piece at a time...and they all fit perfectly. Thank you, Andrew, for shining a light on our path.
Welcome Eloise 🙏🙌☀️❤️
Even the narc cannot stand themselves 😂
Thank you Andrew. This helps understand why 1 relative jumps from man to man "before" ending their current relationship. It's so wrong because they're disrespecting their own morals and integrity. Makes me really worry for this person.
I LOVE time to myself...I see it as valuable 'me time'...and my inner dialogue is far from that of a Narc's. Hallelujagh!!! I have never spent time plotting another's 'demise' ...it is utterly hateful and 'fear' on steroids. Imho to have a 'quiet' mind is a GIFT...an important one. Thanx again Andrew...most insightful...blessings to you and yours...
Amen!!! I am alone in my house too and omg, its such a relief just hanging out, playing nintendo wii, drawing, gardening, enjoying martial arts again,
Becoming myself and having no one elses insecurities and incessant bull$#it.
Two states away, in another time zone!
Yay! 😊
Narcs karma is coming, 🙌 HALLELUJAH
he's got all his flying monkeys 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I remember telling him "I'll never be afraid of being alone"
#1 fear- helps me to understand why I was devalued, but I can't help but feel like it was so weird there that something else was going on
A narsscasist recently told me that he and myself were both " lonely". After objecting to this, he gave me a list of laughable reasons why I was wrong and in response I told him that I am not so disconnected and never feel alone and the expression of confusion on the narsscasists face was priceless before he quickly changed the topic in an attempt to draw me on a list of subjects. Thank you and bless you for helping many people.
Welcome always Jean..💯🙌🙏
They non stop project onto others.
That's so interesting. A narcissist I dated once told me, after we broke up, that I would "never be happy." He's divorced. I met someone else, and we've been married for 23 years. I realize now.... over a quarter of a century later... the dude was PROJECTING on me. LOL!
Truth Contentment Peace
Yes 🙌
Very comfortable being alone, sitting on my couch watching Andrew, daily 😘😊
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I learn so much from you everyday !! Thank you Andrew!!
What I'm finding especially interesting is that for every thing I learn about the narcissist I also learn something about myself on the opposite side. It's like a "2 for 1"
You have brought to life how many ways I am actually healthy. Wonderful feeling to have. So many ah-ha moments.
I am eternally grateful. Instead of doubting myself and thinking I should be more like the narcissist I feel good about myself and my traits.
Thank you so much Andrew once again for shing a bright beautiful light in the dark.
Love and peace to you ❤🙏❤
Beautiful message Joanne 💯🙌🙏😊
NEVER GIVE AWAY WHAT YOU CAN NOT AFFORD TO LOSE
SELF WORTH
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Better To Be Alone , Than In The Company Of A Bully ..... x .
I like the phrase "groupies are interchangeable" . That pinpoints it. Thank you! So true as usual. 😎
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I love being alone!! I hate being pestered! I'm not a total island though. I love to be around my loved ones such as my mother and partner, and close select friends. I don't want to be voicemailed or called every day having to listen to stories about that person having a poo at 2pm today or "eating my lunch lol" and all that crap though! I'm like leave me the f*** alone!!!! Remember that bit in the Cable Guy with Jim Carrey when he left infuriating voicemails on Matthew Broderick's answer phone, one where he said "I was just blow drying my hair and I thought I heard the phone ring, that ever happen to you? Anyway call me, we will talk about it!" Ugh!!!! That is NOT the type of message one should have to feel obliged to respond to, that right there is an invasion of your space! Good film that. So relatable!
Thank you Pad Mac..🙌💯☀️
We are empathetic can and will be fine in our own skin..Could Never get her to admit anything!! 👍 Andrew God Speed
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I have always bloomed where I was planted. Good message Andrew.
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You’re videos are always on point! Thanks 😊 You Rock!
Thank you 🙏
I have lived alone since I walked away and I actually prefer it. You're right Andrew most of his family and friends turned their backs on him when I divorced him because they saw what he was
IMO they are fearful of being alone mainly bc that requires no supply
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My ex nark has 2 phone on them all day could never go for walks with me or gym just on them 2 phones allways locked I ask to look once she said what you not trust me ...she no friends that ever lasted only ones that was just like her omg. How you have helped me andrewp
Welcome Stephen 🙏💯🙌
Hi Andrew. Don't know how i missed this one, a couple yrs ago. I actually like being alone, but my ex narc didn't. He was BORED. He was always bored if things weren't going his way. What a character! I really loved him and so many times I asked him about planning our venue, sending invitations out, but he always said, "we will." Then he dropped the subject. This is all a part of my past, which will not be forgotten, but so easy to live with. So glad i never married a narcissist. GREAT TOPIC ANDREW. ❤❤
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I never had fear of being alone & I was a very assertive person - met narc., all that went out the door & windows, but the narc., made me have fear of being alone that I would get panic attacks all the time that the narc., would leave & leave me alone. He was always on social media & busy, busy like a bee & like a bee stinging me! Waoo! this is some experience that I will take with me to my grave as one of my most destructive experience! Regards to you Andrew & everyone here. G/B
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They fear being alone but they like to isolate people, hypocrites.
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I remember my Ex going crazy and doing crazy things whenever my son and I had to go away for a few days to spend with a friend. I personally love being alone and usually have tons of things to do. But he would drown himself in alcohol when he is by himself and cry and call up friends and relatives and once even got in to a car accident. He just doesn’t know how to spend his time by himself. The house was a mess when I got back and he was drinking and driving.
Thank you for sharing this 🙌💯🙏
I agree to a point. Time alone gives them time to figure out what scheme they will pull next.
This is so true.
I LOVE MY PEACE OF HEART, MIND AND SPIRIT…. WHILE I AM LMBO AT ALL MISERABLE NARCS😂😂😅😅
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I like my lone times. And I love your videos, Andrew. Your're helping a lot of people on this road to Recovery. I like reading the comments, as well. Bless You, Andrew.
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Your're a life savor, Andrew. In more ways than one! : )
Very educational video.Much awareness
I love this idea of listing in this way, Narcissist #1-10 Fear. Brilliant idea Andrew and insightful talks as usual. You have no idea how you may have saved so many people's lives posting these especially from the confusion and ruminating situation, Mine included.
Thank you Handi.. 🙌🙏☀️
Thank you 🙏🏼!!! God bless you!!!
Thank you! Continuing to educate! Me, myself and I, here! Namaste,🥰🙏💯🌠🌟
Namaste 🙏 🙌💯
This is exactly the case. Thank you.
Welcome 🙏
Great video. I just discovered your channel and I truly like it. Thank you for educating people on this topic🙏🏼
Welcome to the community Anita..🙏💯🙌
I would rather be alone forever than be in the company of a Narcissist..
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True...he had many ocupations, such as leading scouts, car races, texting ( once for three days texted me when I traveled without him ) and so on.
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I'm alone. And I'm ok with it. I watch your videos on my phone. Your right bout narcissist, they don't like being alone. I love ANDREW
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They will have to think about themselves
Can the narcissist ever get better? Can therapy help them or are they just too much in their own way to ever recover? My brain is so messed up by "my" narcissist. It's so hard...
IMO the narcissist is incapable of change..💯💯😉😉
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone You're more than likely right. 20 years, wasted in a sense.
Dr ramani says no.
Great strategy!! Never thought of that one, that is why they always need to be around a group of people 👍😳
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I love being alone. It is such as luxury.
Since I live alone and work from home, I only see people about 2 times a week because I have to go shopping for food or get my hair cut, post office, etc.
I was married to a grandiose (overt) narcissist and managed to escape secretly with my children and the cat (which he probably would of killed if I had left it there). I had the agreement of a Judge to secretly escape.
Stayed single for 8 years while raising my children.
8 years later, I met a covert narcissist who managed to come and live in my appartment. (My children were already adults.)
I managed to escape again with the help of my daughter.
I hear so much about people being "discarded". I never was. I did get devalued.
But both times I managed to escape.
Planned escapes. These narcissists can be very DANGEROUS. Be very secretive if you plan to escape.
I think narcissists are/feel LONELY when they are alone.
Your video gives great information about why that is.
True. I can testify from my experience my ex lost lots of friends, aparently that relations were interest based because never had the necesity to go and visit them nor invited them to our home. Maybe if they cant stand loneliness they commit suicide.
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they fear lonliness because it makes them aware of their true self that is,evil
The flying monkeys I like that thank you put your videos is helping me a lot and I am an empath study on narcissistic people from my last relationship I knew something was up but I didn't know the name to it thank you so much God bless
Welcome Lea.. thank you for being here 🙌🙏💯
Great video Andrew.
So so true.
They always have to be with a group of friends.
And looking for more.
I saw it with my own eyes.
They can never have enough
Thank you 🙏
I've learned to embrace being alone, to be honest I actually prefer it, I feel save that way, but with my situation here with this individual this environment had made me I'll now, so iam looking forward to actually going on my solo life to only focus on my healing
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I do not mind being alone but I really thought that me and my ex narc would somehow work it out but I know better now.....
I asked the universe to tell me in one hour how she was doing? I was having trouble finding a parking spot and had to park on the other side of a dumpster, there was one word painted on it "ALONE".
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He always taught me and offended our elders and our friends
as elders they said if he didn't stop it
that he'd be alone by himself someday
well I guess they are right and they didn't even know about it what was going through or I went through... he's only said he can find somebody else I was asking what he did to his relationships like this in the past
I knew it was going on something I didn't know what it was
your information on the subject is very informative and in the most compassionate
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Praise His Holy Name.
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🎉 im loving being alone the best thing that happen to me was the narc ghosted me for the hundred time the last time ever ❤🎉😂
She's not alone. She watches me 24/7
Oh my gosh. I just asked my narc a couple months ago if he ever lived alone and he never answered. Then at the end of the divorce he said i hope you find someone that makes you happy and i wish the same for me. Ibwas like people dont make people happy. And it was all a tactic for me to say oh please dont date anyone else. All to stroke ego. I see so much now in this person. I also asked him to get help. He literally told me hes a bad man. I called him out on so much garbage. He didnt like it for sure.
Thank you for sharing this 💪💯🙌
She, doesn't want to answer your question, w@s told once your not allowed to @sk questions, after leaving for three days, that was the beginning of the end, don't treat ? Y dog like that. How do they sleep?
Who’s gonna do their errands …
That’s odd the guy I know likes being alone. But he also has narcissistic traits. Confused.
Keep up the great contents and work .
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I finally got the strength to block him,
He still lives over me in my appartment.
But by blocking all his freedom I wierddy feel better!
Yes it's only a small step....,..
Yup
thank you
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So cool ❤
I know when they are alone when after years of no contact they try to find me again
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Kahlil gibran " the proper"
" There are those among you who seek the talkative through fear of being alone.
The silence of aloneness reveals to their eyes their naked selves and they would escape." 🙏🕷️🌞🌺🦊
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Very comfortable
I am comfortable being on my own 😙 but the Narc had to be on the go running off 🙆
I've always loved my
You can't make this stuff up lol: I was sitting on the couch about a year ago, at his place. He came inside and said "Go to the kitchen window and watch me talk to the neighbours". (like really?) - I went to the window and a couple of neighbours were talking to him at the fence....nothing special. Then he came in about 10 minutes later and said "did you see me talking to them?" - lol. I think he imagined me sitting at the window with a tub of popcorn, taking in his stardom. Puh-lease.
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I sacrificed my bond with my children, he literally needed every oz of my attention and energy, I was sooooooooo duped, living in fear. God this hits home 😭 this one brought tears. 😥 He was an aging narcissist that type is the most cruel ones to have to deal with😔 he stole so much. He died last year but the damage in my family is done.
So sorry to hear that but your right the older they get the worse they are.
Bob Marley Running away
they r people who do bad to othrs and fear ,their thoughts wont allow them to b alone
Hello Andrew, ha ha the "" Groupie's"" around them, sounds good. 😂 JA, sometimes more from them, 2 weeks with the blonde, two weeks with the brown etc etc OMG AND SOMETIMES ALONE AND THE DEPRESSION GET' STARTED 👋 NAMASTE
Namaste 🙏🙌😊
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Namaste 🙏🙏🙏
He bought 2022 Chevy truck..picked it up on my 59th birthday
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Toni Smith,You look gorgeous ❤,Hope you are not with a narcissist…
I was very lonely for years after divorce does that make me narc? I was afraid to date after what happened. But wanted to be hugged or date.
I doubt you're a narcissist.
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