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  • Explaining why submissive men aren’t weak, what they go through, why I think they’re masculine and what we can do to help them.
    This video doesn’t have a monetization so your financial support would be valuable.
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  • @thepirate2337
    @thepirate2337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Honestly as a submissive guy I'm tired of the shit that we get from men and women from expressing our true sexuality. Its sad, your videos are really empowering

    • @anonymous-cx7ng
      @anonymous-cx7ng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why tho? Being a submissive man is the right thing and normal thing men are meant to help and serve women it’s their nature! a woman can’t help a man! and they don’t want to they need a man to take care of them! That’s the truth

    • @eleenarhodes1240
      @eleenarhodes1240 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      There’s strength in submission and don’t be scared to show the world who you’re .

    • @eleenarhodes1240
      @eleenarhodes1240 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message me on WhatsApp

    • @thepirate2337
      @thepirate2337 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@eleenarhodes1240 right! Finding a person that truly appreciates it it's bit hard, but I won't give up! The connection and trust that it creates is what I really love

    • @krmzelma5358
      @krmzelma5358 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is not empowering men. She feminise and making men weak. Dont be stupid.

  • @bigbadleche
    @bigbadleche 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    recently discovered i have a kink for submissive men, and have been exploring this side of myself non-stop. it's been very liberating. i agree with everything you said. love this!!!!

    • @TheLawnMowingMan
      @TheLawnMowingMan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Liberating until you realize a man is just LETTING you dominate him, he could easily pin you down if he wanted to but he chooses not to because he has twisted fucked up kinks💀

    • @EDUARDOHENRIQUE-bg5tw
      @EDUARDOHENRIQUE-bg5tw 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      posso te conhecer?

    • @AjedrElx
      @AjedrElx 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Congratulation!

  • @chrisbaldwin2717
    @chrisbaldwin2717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    A wise talk you gave. Your praise towards submissive men for having the courage to see a domina was refreshing to hear. Maybe if more men did this instead of trying to deny this part of themselves people overall would be healthier and there would be less violence in this world. Thanks for your words of truthfulness.

    • @iwannaletyouknow9947
      @iwannaletyouknow9947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Maybe MORE violence in the world

    • @q_u_i_c_k_chan
      @q_u_i_c_k_chan ปีที่แล้ว +3

      #endfemdom

    • @eleenarhodes1240
      @eleenarhodes1240 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’ve had bad experiences trying to talk to men who claim to be submissive, they seem to deny it and become violent and aggressive towards me . Chris do you by any chance have any ideas that might help me

    • @TheLawnMowingMan
      @TheLawnMowingMan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@q_u_i_c_k_chanspittin fax #endfemdom

    • @jermainechristmas7749
      @jermainechristmas7749 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@eleenarhodes1240not all subs are like that. Trust me

  • @anonymous-cx7ng
    @anonymous-cx7ng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Being submissive is not a feminine thing at all women want someone to care for them and serve them, I actually think men are more submissive it’s their nature they are meant to help women and listen to them

    • @MyDuckSaysFucc
      @MyDuckSaysFucc ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I wanted to say this is really heartwarming. I have a disability and I can’t imagine a relationship working without the man being extra supportive. Though I want to be as Independant as possible and support myself wherever I can.
      So many men seem to be low empathy in the world of modern dating. This is why I was drawn to submissive men. Many men actually ignore what a woman has to say. I’ve decided not to date someone like that again, it is really demoralizing. :( Sexism is real even though the men who don’t care about women want to make jokes about “crazy feminists”

    • @masculism1537
      @masculism1537 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Being a submissive is a feminine trait. A man should never be submissive. This woman is satan. Dont listen to this satan.

    • @ethosterros9430
      @ethosterros9430 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And this is why most femdoms are misandrist abusers

    • @TheLawnMowingMan
      @TheLawnMowingMan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No, that’s a woman’s role not a man’s, the roles have been completely twisted due to todays world and social media, as well as feminists and whatnot.

    • @ethosterros9430
      @ethosterros9430 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@TheLawnMowingMan ur gay

  • @h-k7804
    @h-k7804 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Submissive men are not weak men, some are very dominant in society and very strong masculine figures but like to submit to a beautiful women.

  • @maxgironrosado4668
    @maxgironrosado4668 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Again I feel it appropriate to leave a comment. Your videos are helping me a lot in what kind of sub I want to be! You have a very unique perspective that I felt was needed to match my fantasies with reality. As much as I wished my gf to be totally dominant and make all decisions she doesn't want to, as much as I wished she was stronger than me, she isn't. What she is, is divine. She doesn't need to be anything more than herself to be dominant, and I don't need to pretend to be weak to be a submissive. Thank you for your eye-opening videos!

  • @jeremyschwager7245
    @jeremyschwager7245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Thank you for making me feel heard and understood. For me, as a man, I love my woman, she is my goddess, pleasing her, and serving her is my greatest joy in life.

    • @TheLawnMowingMan
      @TheLawnMowingMan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And in return I bet your treated like a subhuman because women like that will take advantage of you

  • @shyguy9102
    @shyguy9102 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Thanks for making me feel like it's okay for me to be shy and submissive to women.

    • @TheLawnMowingMan
      @TheLawnMowingMan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bro you gotta develop a concept called “self respect” and learn that being submissive to a woman is wrong.

    • @LunarOverdrive
      @LunarOverdrive 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@TheLawnMowingMan Eh? It's not a lack of self-respect, it's having more respect for another person than yourself. You can still respect yourself and idolize other people.

    • @fbkkhfjlnbh
      @fbkkhfjlnbh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@TheLawnMowingManu cant change ppl bro let ppl be them selves i support both dom and sub men and u should too, leave them alone they dont have to be like u bcs they r not

    • @freziaplanet4198
      @freziaplanet4198 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TheLawnMowingMan buddy you are way out of your depth here.

    • @Handofcrom13
      @Handofcrom13 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@TheLawnMowingMan I think that guys who shame submissive men the most are closet submissives themselves and don't want to admit. It's okay to submit to a dominant woman, bro. Love yourself. Stop projecting your insecurities onto us.

  • @Stevetrevor360
    @Stevetrevor360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I have to say I was searching for such a video for a very long time... whenever I did any research about my true self as a submissive I could only get degrading results on TH-cam and unhealthy porn sites... You are clearly worthy of being called a goddess.... because only a real goddess knows how to appreciate a submissive man and nurture him instead of humiliating him like the rest of society... I could never express my true self because of the fear of being humiliated but through this lovely video You have given me the courage to express myself without being afraid of judgement...And I will always be in Your debt for this kindness...I wish I could be on my knees in Your divine presence and beg for the chance to receive Your loving dominance that I could never get in my entire life.. I always believed that Women are the Superior gender... And I am not worthy enough to ever hope of being equal to a Woman whose a lot stronger than me physically emotionally and intellectually... Thank You so much goddess for this lovely video...

    • @alla_mephistopheles
      @alla_mephistopheles  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you for this lovely comment 🖤

    • @Stevetrevor360
      @Stevetrevor360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@alla_mephistopheles goddess i am even more humbled by your kind words of mercy... even a 100 comments like these would not be enough to match your divine presence

  • @youzatoob
    @youzatoob ปีที่แล้ว +5

    These videos are like therapy for my, every now and then when I need to reset myself I come and watch this and other videos on the channel to feel OK again. Thank you for making these and for your words.

  • @abhinavpaul1193
    @abhinavpaul1193 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Every man should bow down to 3 women in their lifetime
    1. Mother (biological) purely out of respect.
    2. Goddess Durga (mother of the cosmos)
    3. And a woman of their choosing. (The better half).
    Queen and knight example was a real solid one. So simple yet so effective. You're really impressive because you believe what you preach. I wish if there were no kings and only queens as rulers and their knights as protectors maybe civilisation would have turned out differently. We as a species could have been more empathetic in general.

    • @alla_mephistopheles
      @alla_mephistopheles  ปีที่แล้ว

      I love this comment 🖤

    • @abhinavpaul1193
      @abhinavpaul1193 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alla_mephistopheles I loved this video. It was quite eye opening

    • @lagmistic1235
      @lagmistic1235 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@alla_mephistopheleswomen in power have been some of the most cruelest beings on earth.

  • @Whalesey
    @Whalesey 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    As a Woman im glade you're talking about this i absolutly Love submissive men!!

    • @james9269-8n
      @james9269-8n 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm learning how to be a Submissive man and it's not difficult at all. I have always preferred girls that let me be there friend and of course girlfriends I've been Married to a Dominant Wife. And she was our leader my daughter and I. I'm a widower. I met my Mistress on Facebook and I'm complete Vanilla and She has been patiently training me about Submission and role play. We have a Comfortable relationship she is in California and I'm in Florida. It's nice to see a Lady learning from Alla. I would like to share it with My Mistress. But she might take it the wrong way I don't want to offend her.

    • @EDUARDOHENRIQUE-bg5tw
      @EDUARDOHENRIQUE-bg5tw 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      quero te conhecer :)

    • @Whalesey
      @Whalesey 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@EDUARDOHENRIQUE-bg5tw Hahaha suuuree 😉

    • @deleteduser121
      @deleteduser121 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We worship you

  • @Zsadist14122
    @Zsadist14122 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for making this video, Ma'am! Its really helping me come to terms with my desires and not being ashamed from it.

  • @richardharrop9482
    @richardharrop9482 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m fascinated by FemDom and the desire to be submissive to a woman like yourself. I love the intelligent manner you discuss this very topical subject. All too often I’ve encountered a cold, money grabbing attitude from ladies’ that simply want my money. There’s the danger for a submissive? Like myself. By my very nature I’m becoming a target of a predatory dominatrix. As someone else texted often men do their best to indulge, and please the ladies in their lives. I would love to meet a lady as intelligent as yourself to share all my profoundest secrets with. Thank you for sharing! ❤

  • @abdelrhmanwaheed1691
    @abdelrhmanwaheed1691 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    you cant imagine how this video made me feel i feel proud of my submisvness for the first time ever

  • @CherryWaves1729
    @CherryWaves1729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hello, I found your channel a few days ago through your video about chastity amid researching the topic, then watched the rest of your videos and subscribed. I believe this is your best video yet. I wanted to leave a word of thanks because channels with content like yours have inspired me 1.5 months ago to find a dominatrix, and since then my life has improved exponentially, both materially and perhaps more importantly, spiritually.
    The point which you bring up in this video, that submissiveness shouldn't be perceived as a weakness but rather a strength, and therefore ought to be a trait which one can be proud of - even publicly - rather than ashamed of, is something I’d never considered before. This may have to do with me being Japanese, although I imagine it’s generally true everywhere else. Lately I’ve actually become slightly more open to my closest friends about my submissiveness…and this video makes me feel even more empowered and encouraged to come out of my shell.
    Thank you for sharing your thoughts, your experience laden articulation and honesty is always appreciated. Looking forward to your next video, and in the meantime, good luck in your continued endeavors as a dom!
    PS your Russian accent is charming ^^

    • @alla_mephistopheles
      @alla_mephistopheles  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you for your openness and kind words🖤 I also hope your journey as a submissive is successful and joyful ☺️

    • @user-ps2sy8yg8h
      @user-ps2sy8yg8h 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ma'am I'm not sub men but curious Do you like men dominant man?

  • @MarciMonzter
    @MarciMonzter ปีที่แล้ว +4

    as a submissive guy thank u for this video to me women are powerful sweet kind and deserve to be seen as such and anyone who doesn't I dont respect them.... especially those who say such misogynistic things it's so gross.

  • @EponymousRex
    @EponymousRex 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wish there was such a thing as a pro-sub man... I'm sure there are a few... But not enough to make it real for the 100 to 1 ratio. I love your content. It is therapy to me. You have taught me where these feelings come from.

  • @james9269-8n
    @james9269-8n 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm at a point with my Mistress and also listening to you, I care more about my Mistress then I do myself. I always am learning from you and sometimes I would like to share what you say with her but I'm not sure how she would react. We share videos and music. You were talking about men with autism and finding a Goddess and I told her how much it means to me that she accepts me as I am and I felt like If could express my devotion to her. You are a great teacher Alla thank you for helping me.All of us.

  • @aaronmatuszny8856
    @aaronmatuszny8856 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think the biggest hurdle for understanding this stuff is the thought that a power exchange dynamic *has* to be abusive..."power corrupts" being the assumption. If I felt that I had earned the love of a dominant woman, I think it would be miles easier seeing myself submit...you can only submit if you trust that you are in good hands. The other thing most don't get is that submission isn't a low effort state of being: a sub can be proud of what they do for their favorite person. At least that's my view as someone who is merely curious about this.

  • @alcor35
    @alcor35 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Most people are not going to watch this or some won't be able to understand despite them watching but you've put it lovely

  • @skincarehub
    @skincarehub 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You deserve Worshipping. Only a real Goddess can talk like this ❤️💚

  • @ashlynswiftie13
    @ashlynswiftie13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thanks for defending us subs , lucky has the sub who gets to serve such a divine entity

  • @godzillalover2
    @godzillalover2 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much. That encapsulates so well the submissive male life. I have been forced by fear of being found out to pretend ever since I was ten. I had to be careful what I said, what I looked at, how I act, and who I was around. I won't bore you with the same story you must have heard a thousand times, I just wanted to thank you.

  • @daves799
    @daves799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you for proving that real Dominatrixs are still out there. Who understand who and what we are.

  • @johnmurphy7674
    @johnmurphy7674 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thanks a lot. We used handcuffs and my chastity belt for the first time yesterday night and that was incredible.

  • @phizzer
    @phizzer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow... just 4 minutes into this and... I have so much respect! I just posted a comment on another video asking if you would do a video talking about what it seems like you are going to talk about here. This topic is so important. OK... now maybe I should watch the rest before commenting further, lol!
    [Edit: so now that I am through the video, it is not about the question I had on the other video, but it is such an important topic, and I really appreciate that you made this. Your thoughtful, caring, compassionate nature really shines through here. Thank you for this video.]

  • @MrTimthetoyman
    @MrTimthetoyman ปีที่แล้ว

    23 minutes in and you nailed it. Being submissive is not feminine. Being female is a privilege in itself and no man by being submissive can become a Woman. I love the analogy of the knight and his Queen. He is totally submitted to his Queen, but willing to fight to the death to defend Her. This is true proper masculinity.
    And as so many other people have already said. I love to listen to your thoughts. You are a true Goddess. ❤

  • @Platypus_Venom
    @Platypus_Venom 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I grew up playing in the woods, hunting and fishing, earned my eagle scout, played sports [well]. I joined the army after highschool and served as an infantryman. After my service, i went to work in the oil and gas industry, working everything from drilling rigs to refineries. In essence, I'm a pretty damn masculine man. And while i don't take 💩 from any other man, I exercise chivalry with every woman I cross paths with. When it comes to my wife, I whole heartedly serve and her as my queen and submit to every desire she has of me. I'm happily locked in chastity, which has caused me to fulfill any wish she has to bring her pleasure, amusement, excitement or any other form gratification. We haven't always had a FLR though. When I acted as the authority, we faced a great deal of turmoil in our marriage, which was often threatened by divorce. Since the change, our friends and even our kids, have commented on how happy we both look. We didnt mention it to anyone but the affects for obviously radiated outward from our intimate life to everyone around us. I couldn't imagine going back to being out of sorts, as an "alpha male". I can't speak for any other couple in if this would work for their relationship but I can say, without question, its definitely been life changing for my relationship with my queen.

  • @dyrL90
    @dyrL90 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this awesome video! I love your point of view, your honesty and trying to make everyone more open minded about that.

  • @jameschavez277
    @jameschavez277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've found this channel recently. And I've watched many videos till now. And ma'am I liked this one the most
    I want to share something
    Mostly, I'm a submissive man. I would say i can switch too but I like to be submissive and this video was helpful to be very honest.
    Cause I often feel this guilt when i get into my kinks. Also that lack of confidence I face after these. It's hard. And I've that only one female friend who knows about this and she likes these stuff too and also supported me.
    And for the first time I felt like someone finally understood me or submissive men genuinely. Thank you.

  • @jefferymccauley9548
    @jefferymccauley9548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The Queen and Knight was a perfect comparison!

    • @skincarehub
      @skincarehub 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes exactly. I was amazed by that example too. 👌🏻

  • @sirfizz6518
    @sirfizz6518 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I respect anyone's courage to explore kinks, regardless of gender, orientation and role. To approach it with any authenticity draws so much vulnerability and strength. I have equal reverence for the gifts of submission and domination, because power exchange entails exposing, and potentially discovering very unexpected, aspects of oneself.

  • @rolfmuller6721
    @rolfmuller6721 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    THAT'S IT! Thank You very much for this explanation of your kind of femdom!

  • @user-ss5jo1fs3h
    @user-ss5jo1fs3h 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It took me a long time to find me, and your video helped. My regret is that the woman I gave my life to never saw it in me and never wanted to see.

  • @tyhj4764
    @tyhj4764 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I tried to suppress my submissive side but I haven't enjoyed life as much as since I started enjoying my submissive side.

  • @daniellangston7172
    @daniellangston7172 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For me its simple the fact that making my goddess happy as much as i possibly can in any way shape or form is what makes me happy i couldnt explain the feeling in words because its out of this world😍🤯

  • @sex900
    @sex900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "if i was a submissive man i would be proud of it". Trust me as a sub male who learned that, i feel wayyy happier expressing myself. Even made a song abt it n ppl judge me a lot but i could honestly care less bcuz im jus attracting what i truly want. Im very happy your sharing this so a lot of other subs can learn that and apply it to their lives.

    • @anonymous-cx7ng
      @anonymous-cx7ng 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What’s the song

    • @sex900
      @sex900 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anonymous-cx7ng XUNKNOWN$TAR - ScreamSexy

    • @jamieschouten8162
      @jamieschouten8162 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen!! ❤I have also exposed myself to the world that I love to be submissive and be Dominated and being fucked by aswell Dominant Trans girls as Female Mistresses ❤❤❤ I am proud to be a Submissive Femboy ❤❤❤

  • @james9269-8n
    @james9269-8n 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im very Proud of my Mistress and I do go on about her But at the same time I cherish and protect her Privacy. Many times I tell her she is my primary Motivation.

  • @Audiatrix
    @Audiatrix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm just describing the perfect man .... For me, honestly well said. We are all different for a reason, and it's about time people saw it the same way.

  • @lhjlhj5544
    @lhjlhj5544 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Submissive as in a general life is a bad things it is an indication of extreme weakness which should not be rewarded in this case the man should be empowered to find his divine masculinity and surely it should not be ashamed but nevertheless should not be lift untreated, but being a submissive to your loved partner in a healthy way where there is an equal exchange of love is in my opinion OK in fact it is lovely and could be harmonious to a lot of men, especially if the woman knows truly how to be a loving and even a nurturing dom with her man

  • @CloudBoy_13
    @CloudBoy_13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for this heartwarming , beautiful video 🌷

  • @princip6656
    @princip6656 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are a wonderful lady, no one would punish you with such a heart and soul, but reward you with various types of enjoyments.
    Вы замечательная дама, никто вас с такой душой и сердцем не накажет, а наградит разного рода удовольствиями.

  • @grihanoldgaming3584
    @grihanoldgaming3584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Money is just a way to keep score, for the last five years I can’t understand why ordinary pieces of paper push people to bad deeds and some kind of financial domination! It’s so ridiculous for me now to watch people who talk every day about the need to look for money for existence and so on ...

  • @kiranmohan6859
    @kiranmohan6859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mam. Thank you very much for lifting up my confidence and to stay positive as i am already being in control by your motivation

  • @AlexToussiehChannel
    @AlexToussiehChannel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I thought Your channel was very bad until You clarified with this video today it's the best channel ever. i thought You didn't understand a thing about FemDom because You hated men, but no, You understand everything because You are full of love. You're a perfect Mistress. I apologize.

  • @andy-jn3qv
    @andy-jn3qv ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i would do anything for the opportunity to be totally submissive to somebody. Sure wish i could find some help in Wisconsin for my need to serve. i want nothing in return

  • @therealmccoy70
    @therealmccoy70 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s refreshing to hear this. Also, to hear a Dom who is sincere and not just drive by money

    • @sadisticgirl_
      @sadisticgirl_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      listen. I discovered I'm a dom not a long time ago and she is saying everything I'm thinking

    • @sadisticgirl_
      @sadisticgirl_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      bottoms are bottoms, male or female 🤷‍♀️

  • @jedidiahmorley7842
    @jedidiahmorley7842 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    5.55 in, had to comment; thank you once again.
    I'm hung enough... yet shy... Autistic too...! :)
    wonderful to hear you open up on such topics.

    • @eleenarhodes1240
      @eleenarhodes1240 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t be shy , express yourself . A submissive man should be free , it shouldn’t just be about humiliation and control from the dominant, it’s much more than that . I’m not as experienced as the mistress in the Video but I understand the lifestyle just like her

    • @jedidiahmorley7842
      @jedidiahmorley7842 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@eleenarhodes1240 thank you for saying :)
      I'm not really into [verbal] humiliation, more into the handing over of sexual control and initiative. As a male raised in an increasingly emasculated world, slipping into the role of submissive removes the societal pressure to define oneself as an individual, a remarkably liberating experience!

    • @eleenarhodes1240
      @eleenarhodes1240 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jedidiahmorley7842 Yes an experience that brings pleasure and happiness , people work so hard outside the lifestyle, they’re seen as alphas . The lifestyle bring relief , it brings satisfaction and it helps bring stability

    • @eleenarhodes1240
      @eleenarhodes1240 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jedidiahmorley7842 If you would love to have a proper conversation, tell me about it and we can talk on maybe WhatsApp , google chat , Facebook or we could even text ❤️❤️, I’m always happy to share my experiences in the lifestyle as a domme and I always want to find ways to teach submissives .

    • @eleenarhodes1240
      @eleenarhodes1240 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jedidiahmorley7842 My WhatsApp number is ⬇️

  • @ahmedhadi9176
    @ahmedhadi9176 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Although I'm a very submissive man, every woman around me tends to argue with me only to have their logic corrected for them of the situation they create 😉 ❤❤❤❤
    I just love women .......

  • @beppepeppe-p2q
    @beppepeppe-p2q 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Buongiorno, grazie per il video, è stato esaustivo.
    Nella vita reale o al lavoro devo essere l'uomo forte che prende sempre decisioni, soprattutto al lavoro. Avere sempre responsabilità è molto stancante, ti prosciuga molte energie soprattutto mentali. Sarebbe molto bello quando si è a casa e potersi sottomettere ad una donna. È bello lasciarsi andare è anche una questione di fiducia 😊

  • @imkarimkarim_fa
    @imkarimkarim_fa ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you for the informatino goddess i will try to be more open to people about my feelings...

  • @vaibhav_s8350
    @vaibhav_s8350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If lotz ppl listen to u we could built better world..keep posting plz

  • @danielmalack3714
    @danielmalack3714 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The women I know don’t tell you what they want. They keep you guessing! Their power over the man

    • @alla_mephistopheles
      @alla_mephistopheles  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sounds immature to me. It can be a part of the game but a woman who can’t verbalize what she wants wastes too much time.

  • @xdriverps4317
    @xdriverps4317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Miss so very much for this video and explanations your so good at this. Yes this video helps better to understand my self. I can imagine you are a very good mentor.

  • @davidellis5141
    @davidellis5141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank You for the video & sharing your thoughts & knowledge Mistress. I watched on my knees & am wishing I was your pet in chastity. To me , You are a Goddess. Thank You.

    • @alla_mephistopheles
      @alla_mephistopheles  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🖤

    • @wolfgang548
      @wolfgang548 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Have you ever worn a chastity device? I don't have a keyholder but like to keep myself locked and remove it for hygiene purposes. I can say when I put it back on after a little while out of it, the effect sometimes hits me within minutes. And it hits a man in 3 areas: Physically, emotionally and psychologically. I don't believe it's the chastity device itself, but the key a Domme holds that is her most powerful weapon she wields in keeping her submissive under her control, the way it should be. Every man in chastity should thank his loving Domme, Girlfriend or Wife after she locks him up.

  • @youknoweverything7643
    @youknoweverything7643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You hit the nail on the head with the hammer on this one. When I was 21 I was fully involved in a relationship with a 45 year old very beautiful amazing looking woman that I became friends with and we started being friends with benefits. One day she decided to text me saying " you tied up me in high heels and leather outfit and you trust me?" Keep in mind we had already been having a vanilla type relationship and friends with Benefits, I trusted her 100 percent and when I showed up to her house that Friday evening she had a beautiful 5 course dinner cooked like always with fine dining wear and plates and glasses and my favorite wine of all time caymous red wine, she was dressed in this very sexy but beautiful black tight fitting short dress with black and red lace and some very sexy black high heels like tall heel, after dinner and some wine she handed me this beautifuly wrote and worded paper that she had hand written in very beautiful calligraphy explaining what she was wanting to do and asking if I trust her and explaining what this is all about and what's fixing to happen may change my life for the better for ever. She had a room in the basement I never knew of that the entrance was literally a book shelf on the wall that had a spot where it was a door that blended in as part of the book shelf in the beautiful library behind that door was this massive beautiful dungeon/play room and I literally let her have full control of my body and never looked back from that day forward. So my point is women even though you are a sub and love it atleast try considering to switch at least once or twice if your boyfriend or husband into or fantasy of being a sub instead of the dom all the time cause how it feels for you feels the same for him and why hinder the one you love from experiencing the same pleasure you get that he creates for you. It's not weird or crazzy at all for a Dom straight male to like to give up full control once in a while and guess what if you argue atleast a few times a week with your boyfriend or husband and y'all switch it also helps eliminate almost all fighting between y'all cuse you get to let out some steam and frustration through the power of orgasm and on the recieving side of the pain helps relieve all of life's stresses as well. Ladies please consider switching once a week or month your man will love it and your relationship just might benefit from it as well. And this can go for both sides of it and genders even if pain is not your thing it's not the pain exactly that is the turn on it's the getting past the point of not feeling it anymore and every stroke and hit and whip doesn't sting but actually feels good when it stings and hurts cuse your in such a deep state of subspace it becomes pleasure

  • @pauljones2639
    @pauljones2639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A lovely post. It is always very subjective what people think "masculine" means. In my opinion the greatest show of strength a man can make is to kneel before a Lady and show respect to her femininity.

  • @mysteriousvictorious18
    @mysteriousvictorious18 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am very inferior and weak , because I am a male, I am a 26 year-old male , but I always wish that I was a woman, and i am a servant and slave of my Mom and my younger sister, because I know that they are the most Superior gender and I am the very inferior gender. I really hate being a male 😓😢

    • @Sanihya_t
      @Sanihya_t ปีที่แล้ว

      Really
      How ur mom and younger sister treats u do they take u for shopping
      Or they talk with u
      Do they share things with u

  • @jrmott2095
    @jrmott2095 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why wouldn't a sub who is 100 percent invested not be proud??...he has far more power than you think...more power than the average man. And the more dominance you bestow upon him...the more power he has...

  • @No-tc2bh
    @No-tc2bh ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm conflicted. Taboos are fun. The shame adds to the excitement. This is quite the conundrum.

  • @Tu_Dust
    @Tu_Dust 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you. Everything you say iv always believed! So nice to hear all you're views 😊

  • @nanipanini
    @nanipanini 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "being kinky is like being gay - it's more like a sexual orientation" interesting approach

    • @georgelaufrode2031
      @georgelaufrode2031 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is being kinky means being gay ?

  • @matthewselman4579
    @matthewselman4579 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video I definitely feel a lot more positive and I feel pride in my submissive nature to please protect and provide for my woman my Goddess thank you so much for making this video

  • @alikhair7940
    @alikhair7940 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your videos have helped me a lot. I really appreciate it!

    • @Sanihya_t
      @Sanihya_t ปีที่แล้ว

      That's nice

  • @andrejjosifovski9894
    @andrejjosifovski9894 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The queen

  • @jarijansma2207
    @jarijansma2207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Deep work youre doing. Thank you for giving men a chance to wake up.

  • @skincarehub
    @skincarehub 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Real Goddess right here: You are amazing! Yes exactly. Real submission need to deal with care and it's another level than the normal fetish.

  • @salomonhubert1459
    @salomonhubert1459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You re so smart, i love listen you

  • @cast0_FP
    @cast0_FP ปีที่แล้ว

    I am driving my car but I have to stop to say I made therapy for years but this vídeo has cured me ! Thanks I think I love you

  • @denisloukeris2523
    @denisloukeris2523 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A real man always put or atleast tries to put his wife's desires first in the rest of his life he is normal trying to succeed and take crap from employees or employer etc but if he melts for his wife that is beautiful

    • @jackmack2797
      @jackmack2797 ปีที่แล้ว

      You re putting the woman first while she’s sucking off the guy who puts himself first.

  • @joedaddy4714
    @joedaddy4714 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am the only person I know who openly talks and refuses to hide my submissive side

  • @are919
    @are919 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I embrace my submissiveness

  • @user-dw3jm5if7o
    @user-dw3jm5if7o 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Submissive is dominated😂😂😂😂he lost his MUSCULANITY 😂😂😂😂😂even after knowing he can retain it😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂stop dominating your value created in the perfect way
    Look at the title 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @theexplorer_31
    @theexplorer_31 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She talks about the relationship of Jorah Mormont and Daenarys Targeryen by Game of Thrones

  • @freziaplanet4198
    @freziaplanet4198 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed to hear it's okay to be me.

  • @TheGrunztiger
    @TheGrunztiger 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She wants your money!

  • @robertvanir7081
    @robertvanir7081 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The one true Goddess. First time that I feel so good for being a submissive man. I wish I could serve thee Goddess I will save money for that initial tribute since one cannot be in the presence of the Goddess empty-handed.

  • @badinside1051
    @badinside1051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Не согласен с Вам в части того что нужно публично заявить что ты подчиняешься женщине. Считаю что это личная жизнь и никто другой не может быть посвещен в нее. На то оно и личное. Если об этом все узнают то во многих социальных группах мужчина потеряет уважение и будет изгнан. Тем самым потеряет прибыль или вовсе останется без нее. Это особенно актуально в арабских странах и СНГ. В не которых случаях это стоит мужчине жизни.
    Женщине куда естественней быть слабой по отношению к мужчине. Если об этом узнают то для нее это скорее будет плюсом чем минусом. Максимум феминистки осудят. Она от этого ничего не потеряет.
    В остальном согласен с Вами. Вы великолепны :)

  • @aiverlynnelim809
    @aiverlynnelim809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Me who likes to watch submissive men asmr and films : 😀👍

  • @markleo6993
    @markleo6993 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can we stop lying to ourselves for a second 🙂 am into femdom and it's an addiction but please don't say being submissive is normal (it's not normal at all) yes men should respect woman and that's should go both ways it's not normal being humiliated, it's not normal being into findom and give our money to someone , it's not normal to worship someone and obey her and deeply we know it's just a person same as you so we need to understand that this is an addiction and it's not a good thing at all i have been into that for more than 10 years and my only wish in life is to quit this and be normal again

    • @savitakashyap340
      @savitakashyap340 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes bro, this is simple crap video here, am also into femdom addiction for many years, and it is utter garbage. Femdom is indeed a sexual deviation and uncommon. It does disrupt your sexuality and makes you feel low and humiliated. You'll not be able to love a women, have a nice family, children and so if one is in this shit. It's nature's law that has segregated men and women and it is unchangeable but femdom hooks you to that. It impacts you mentally. Calling it normal is nonsense, what these dommes know how it is destroying the lives of many guys out there like me. These girls are the worst. I too long to get rid of this addiction and be a normal guy that I was. Hoping to converse with you.

    • @Agent-tn8di
      @Agent-tn8di ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The most normal comment i've ever read here so far.

    • @markleo6993
      @markleo6993 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@savitakashyap340 sorry i just saw ur comment can u give me any of ur socials to be able to talk to you

    • @sinenkaari5477
      @sinenkaari5477 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@savitakashyap340It's just a toxic releationship, the devouring mother. I've been thinking about this that could there be a "healthy" releationship with this dynamic going on but i'm not sure at all... it leads to the on going war between women and men. Women have this untrustworthy nature about them that they change their opinions and feeling with the wind and when you try to trust that as a man it's just so un relieble. It leaves you emthy handed after everything. To find a healthy partner to be able to trust like this is a needle in the hay. These traits make you to attrack narsistic women into your life. And from the other side of the coin women want to get with the narsistic and most dominant men so the middle ground for a 50/50 peace, love and understanding releationship is really narrow if it is there at all. These women do not care for men, they want to be superior. There's no peace there to be found. The feminine side of men is always shamed or used. This is just reversing the inbalance, true balance is feminine and masculine coming together and melting into one. These women are shaming the masculine men but want to act like them that makes no sense. It's just the want to control men in that war way. It's not based on love it's all just war they think they win by engouraging men to show their weaknesses. In reality if you have the third eye open to see beond duality they are just hurting them selfs! Yin and yang go together you see

    • @Nikhil-im8ly
      @Nikhil-im8ly 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@markleo6993 @savitakashyap340 can I talk to you please for this?

  • @TheLuigivan
    @TheLuigivan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    U got something of Unique...U are Domme ..so real..so U..

    • @TheLuigivan
      @TheLuigivan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Following U till down hell...

  • @rbstuff3914
    @rbstuff3914 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for supporting my kink

  • @jrmott2095
    @jrmott2095 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cannot achieve any degree of sexual satisfaction until the woman that I'm with achieves total, 100 percent complete satisfaction...does that make me submissive??...or a man that invests a little more into his sexual relationships??

  • @denisloukeris2523
    @denisloukeris2523 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think I have the submissive nature because of my father treatment of my mother very respectful he taught me open doors all those public gestures that shows that a man loves his wife .His friends in the 60's made fun of him that my mother was the boss not true he did involve her decisions take her with anywhere,.When come from macho environment I am son greek immigrants so the way my father was is seen as normal today .

  • @adoptedbyangelinajolie
    @adoptedbyangelinajolie ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I wish i can get a submissive guy 😭

    • @lunawhite3335
      @lunawhite3335 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same girl

    • @Klaus-Schwab_Dictator
      @Klaus-Schwab_Dictator ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I want to be your sub

    • @adoptedbyangelinajolie
      @adoptedbyangelinajolie ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Klaus-Schwab_Dictator hahaha Klaus schwab was machst du hier

    • @GKadmon
      @GKadmon ปีที่แล้ว

      They're everywhere dude

    • @lunawhite3335
      @lunawhite3335 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GKadmon yeah submissive guys everywhere but respectfull nice submissive guy who want a serious relationship are pretty rare

  • @matthewstokrp5042
    @matthewstokrp5042 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just a awesome perfect video thank you I’ve lived the submissive beta lifestyle all my life it’s who I am

    • @eleenarhodes1240
      @eleenarhodes1240 ปีที่แล้ว

      How many mistresses have you had being a submissive in the lifestyle?

    • @matthewstokrp5042
      @matthewstokrp5042 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@eleenarhodes1240 thank you for the reply I’ve had 3 the last ended after 7 years in September

    • @eleenarhodes1240
      @eleenarhodes1240 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@matthewstokrp5042 Ended ? Care to share why it ended ?

    • @matthewstokrp5042
      @matthewstokrp5042 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@eleenarhodes1240 thank you for the reply sure her and her boyfriend moved out of the state and she ended it . After 7 years of her control and power over me it was very hard to handle

    • @eleenarhodes1240
      @eleenarhodes1240 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@matthewstokrp5042 I had such an experience two years ago , care to talk about it ? You can send me a message on Facebook or WhatsApp ?

  • @edwardaa8692
    @edwardaa8692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi goddess, I am a submissive for many years since I was a boy. I felt shamed about myself, at least I don’t know how do I speak this out to people around me, I guess I don’t have to because this is sexual preference and privacy. But I am wondering how do I become more open minded to accept myself and talk to women, or looking for goddess in my life. This video definitely helps me to be more comfortable with myself, but still wondering how do I talk to people I newly knew especially women that I am a submissive, wants to a slave of her. Hope goddess or someone can help

    • @christinemathebula7948
      @christinemathebula7948 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello Edward

    • @edwardaa8692
      @edwardaa8692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@christinemathebula7948 hi Christine

    • @eleenarhodes1240
      @eleenarhodes1240 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello there Edward , I’m a goddess and I understand the lifestyle a lot , I can help you gain confidence on yourself and lead you on the path which you seek . I’ll teach you the lifestyle and also help with my experience.

    • @williamgrant5864
      @williamgrant5864 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I LOVE BE DOG

    • @WROportunidadesMercadolo-ww2tw
      @WROportunidadesMercadolo-ww2tw ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@christinemathebula7948oi Cristine

  • @kalvinlabuik3366
    @kalvinlabuik3366 ปีที่แล้ว

    sorry got too much back ground noise going on I will have to revisit your video I do get and agree what you are saying catch ya later

  • @overnighthype155
    @overnighthype155 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you! Exactly

  • @ninasworld7991
    @ninasworld7991 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I fell in love with a man and he turned to be submissive I've never seen that or experience it tbh and i want to understand him more i tried at first to follow but i couldn't feel so comfortable or happy tbh i did not enjoy being the dominant and tbh it was because i didn't know a thing about hiw to do it like he was giving me instructions alll the time so does anyone know some steps to do for that ?

  • @hayleyandkilo
    @hayleyandkilo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    07:30 once again, the truth always comes out,
    dominant opressive male behavior is only considered toxic if a broke, or unattractive man does it.
    the old saying "its only creepy if the guy is ugly"

  • @davidt1621
    @davidt1621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Playing With Fire dating coach Alex "debated" with your subscriber, Mr. Slave. His "Mistress" had him leashed, and she said very little. It would be interesting to see your ideas shared with them on PWF. It cannot hurt your business.

  • @koreankid1011
    @koreankid1011 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If you make fun of me for being submissive, my mommas will come after you

  • @gregm3224
    @gregm3224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this Mz Mephistopheles

  • @ZINCO33
    @ZINCO33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very very interesting, thank You very much beautiful Goddess ❤️

  • @davidsheeran5144
    @davidsheeran5144 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is important that submission , obedent men to caring about Dominate, Dominatrix to caring about surrender control mental and high much pain the submission can take for Dominate, Dominatrix. Dominate, Dominatrix can control any submission man without BDSM Dungeon without bondage devises. That Dominate, Dominatrix wanting an submission man to loving, care about Dominate, Dominatrix to protect Dominate , Dominatrix person to love , caring , protecting Dominate, Dominatrix woman from harm.

  • @KingOfNewRoc914
    @KingOfNewRoc914 ปีที่แล้ว

    I lo e this... You make the best realistic videos on Femdom

  • @jamieschouten8162
    @jamieschouten8162 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am very submissive not only to Dominant woman also Shemales and everyone on my city knows it, I didt care what they think that I was after my devorce get crazy because I could finally be who I am amd I am proud yo br s submissive slave and really enyoing Fetishlifestyle and ste oroud on the Mistresses I know and the Shemales, I really fint care what people think about ore have w judge, I love being submissive it makes me more happy than anything else ❤❤❤

  • @proroster5154
    @proroster5154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What's wrong we are here to serve plz replay misstress I'd like to serve