Anxious and Alone (Solo Female Vanlife)

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @karenb1627
    @karenb1627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A good reminder to love ourselves a little extra sometimes. Enjoy your holidaze.

  • @careygoss742
    @careygoss742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think your style and your jewelry is amazing! Keep up the good work. It's ok to be alone and go soul searching somtimes:)

  • @0621unknownfelon
    @0621unknownfelon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Ms. Yak ur never alone. You have a community behind you. How is Torrie handling being away? Honestly you probably don't want to hear this but you need this time to remind you how strong and independent you are. Hugs to you!!!

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you! This week did remind me how strong and independent I am 💪

    • @0621unknownfelon
      @0621unknownfelon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sarahyak_ your my idol 😘

  • @CEOkiller
    @CEOkiller 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Enjoy your time alone and stay safe!

  • @marciasearle4552
    @marciasearle4552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sarah thank you for being so raw and open.

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Marcia 💓

  • @joespencer8902
    @joespencer8902 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’ll fall right in the groove Sarah…you will see!

  • @barbcosgrove64
    @barbcosgrove64 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awe Sara, you're never alone 😃😃. You're doing great 👍👍..

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks! 😌

  • @brianarnoldsmeiring7225
    @brianarnoldsmeiring7225 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this wonderful and inspiring video. I love your ideas and lifestyle. Regards from Cape Town.

  • @JS_Kush
    @JS_Kush 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    U make my day everyday, the fact that i only want to watch your video everyday🤩🤩🤩😍😘😘

  • @vickysays
    @vickysays 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Aw Sarah, having watched you for so long I 'm really suprised to see you anxious being alone because I am so used to watching you be alone in earlier videos. I always felt like I could never do what you do and I think it really helps to see that you struggle with the same fears.I think you are so brave because you always strive to overcome them. It's also inspiring to see you proritise your wellbeing. I always think I eat healthy and don't feel better, even your thought on that sometimes happening toyou was good to see because you're right it's about consistency and little steps that add up. Anyway, I appreciate you!

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Aww Vicky, thank you for saying this! I did notice myself feeling more anxious than usual. Maybe because it’s been a while since I’ve been alone, and also a mixture of seasonal depression & being in a big city. But I’m glad that opening up about it helps you feel less alone 🫶🏽 that was the goal

  • @MeaningSeekerPod
    @MeaningSeekerPod 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great stuff. I appreciate your candidness. The anxiety will continue to alleviate. 👏

  • @AnaBeatrizPessoaMesquita
    @AnaBeatrizPessoaMesquita 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's a bit funny to see you right now with all the anxiety about being alone, cause I remember so clearly (maybe cause I spoke to me so much) you saying that you were worried about leaving with Tori bc it's such a small space and you value your 'me time'. And even before when you used to explain you and Tori dated long distance because you didn't wanna live in the same van. How life changes... and how love prevails as the right choice, the right place to be, always ❤❤❤❤

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So true! Tori and I were talking about this. We were so worried about being in a small space together but now we’ve gotten so used to it and comfortable with eachother 🥺

  • @keciahayes6443
    @keciahayes6443 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You totally inspire me❤

  • @loupelizzo2399
    @loupelizzo2399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this video and loved the animal sanctuary and thank you so much for letting us see this video

  • @joannaazar7396
    @joannaazar7396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Sarah!! I’m wishing you Happy Holidays 🎄🎉✨

  • @JessicaisRandom
    @JessicaisRandom 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you’re still in the bay try heading to Sebastopol, Marin and Napa, those are my fave places out in the bay

  • @annas8524
    @annas8524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    love your videos sarah!❤

  • @hugoweaving6275
    @hugoweaving6275 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sarah remember, you started alone. You're going to be fine. Merry Christmas. Take care.

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Merry Christmas! Thank you for the encouraging words 🥹

  • @digitaldirtnap1
    @digitaldirtnap1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please stay safe beautiful girl!

  • @JoannA-sweetly
    @JoannA-sweetly 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oakland, you need to keep it moving….💯🙂

  • @jinwoo723
    @jinwoo723 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pretty interesting to see visitor’s perspective. Martinez is nearby.

  • @kenthedl
    @kenthedl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i just bought from your shop! i love your content and you have helped me feel more comfortable with being a lesbian and knowing that i can live the life i want! thank you for all you have done for me by just being yourself!

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww thank you Kendall! I appreciate the support 😌

  • @AntonioGarcia-wj7lb
    @AntonioGarcia-wj7lb 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hiii Sarah! I just came across with your channel and I easily fell in love with the vibe. Thanks for inspiring all in this community! Good vibes from Mexico City. 🤙🌊

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww hi antonio! Glad you like my channel 😌🫶🏽

  • @paperpensetc4580
    @paperpensetc4580 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💯 re: Oakland/Bay Area. I’m local and smash & grabs are so common unfortunately 😣

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s so scary 😅

  • @G.L.A.S.S.615
    @G.L.A.S.S.615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awww. Cute little goats!

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They’re so sweet 🥺

  • @NoOverhead
    @NoOverhead 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ugh that solo anxiety is no joke. Great video, friend!

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 😌

  • @elombetv6429
    @elombetv6429 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Sara can you make a video about your security system and which brand to go for please for us who wanting to be a van lifer

  • @mrrichardson3043
    @mrrichardson3043 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Merry Christmas

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same to you! 🎄

  • @starseedj
    @starseedj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love your videos so much♥️♥️♥️

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you love them 💓🥺

    • @starseedj
      @starseedj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sarahyak_ you inspire me so much, i am so glad i found your channel!!! i recently watched the documentary dominion and i’ve been vegan for about 4 months. i sent it to all my peers & nobody watched it. it makes me so angry how ignorant people choose to be. do you get angry/upset at others and if so how do you deal with it?

  • @markmorris3579
    @markmorris3579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Since you love goats,check out the TH-cam channel Sunflower Farm here in Maine.They can sometimes have as many as 60 baby goats in the spring.

  • @gutchiespencer1227
    @gutchiespencer1227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Relax! You really don't wanna attract the very thing you don't want, that's how the mind works......✌🏽

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! :)

  • @harryshigeura3892
    @harryshigeura3892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You doing good Sarah, solitude is always nourishing ... LOL wait til you interact with some baby goats (kids) LOL, you will want to take one along as a traveling pet, if legal ... I used to raise pigs and goats and goats are so extremely trusting ...

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know! Oh I would LOVE to meet a baby goat! I already know my heart would melt

  • @SunflowerUnited
    @SunflowerUnited 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your jewelry is so beautiful. Can you please tell me you sites name please??

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      www.sarahyak.art 💓

  • @yahboikaiii7625
    @yahboikaiii7625 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What’s the songs name ? 🥰 I loved it

  • @jamesfischer6809
    @jamesfischer6809 ปีที่แล้ว

    hash browns and ramen noodles have High salt content, becareful Sarah your never alone.and your one tough woman 🤛

  • @michaelsoliman7761
    @michaelsoliman7761 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    song name @ 1:10 😅

  • @marielnaifesoriano4046
    @marielnaifesoriano4046 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How can I purchase your jewelry?

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      On my website www.sarahyak.art

  • @Shelty6
    @Shelty6 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just wondering what they do with the chicken eggs from all those chickens. Do they just let them hatch?

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They don’t modify the lighting in the chicken coops (like most backyard egg hatcheries do) which tricks the chicken’s bodies into thinking they should lay eggs all year round. The eggs they do lay are fed back to the chickens. Egg laying hens are bred to lay significantly more eggs than they naturally would and they lose a lot of vital nutrients in this process. (Eggs are not fertile, they are basically like a period for humans. And imagine if someone modified a women’s body to have a period every day instead of once a month.) It takes a lot of energy and nutrients, so feeding the eggs back to them allows them to be stronger, healthier and happier 💓

    • @Shelty6
      @Shelty6 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sarahyak_ Wow, interesting. I didn't know that. Thanks for that. Learned something new!

  • @yobeaubaby
    @yobeaubaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💚

  • @vantravelingwithlaydeemae5167
    @vantravelingwithlaydeemae5167 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😊❤

  • @sandrawalters1396
    @sandrawalters1396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤👍👍👍👍😀😀😀

  • @careygoss742
    @careygoss742 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love being alone! Would love to hang out with you also? :)

  • @Daniel-wish442
    @Daniel-wish442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How much did you pay for your van and everything in it if you can estimate about how much you put into it I'll be very nice if you can get back to me let me know in the comment section thank you

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Almost $40k for the van and build

  • @williamgutierrez7377
    @williamgutierrez7377 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💟☮️✝️ 👁️

  • @beebee68
    @beebee68 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Could you adopt a dog?

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I travel too much internationally to do this 😭

  • @GaiusPompay
    @GaiusPompay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always get real sentimental when it comes to animals. I can start crying at any moment when I come across any animal, except a lion, bear, shark, snake you get the point. I still love those animals but respect them enough to stay away from them.

  • @yourbeamofsunshine
    @yourbeamofsunshine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Have you become codependent in your relationship?

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi hazel! I wouldn’t have surprised Tori if I didn’t know she would be excited about it. And we both have family in Austin so we can still take as much time apart as we need. 🫶🏽

  • @wephotogal
    @wephotogal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The world needs to go vegan. Thank you for sharing.

    • @mentalmadness5402
      @mentalmadness5402 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Veganism doesn't work for everyone. I was vegan for 6 months and completely messed up my blood sugar! I ended up in the hospital. It took WEEKS before my blood sugar was stable again. My doctor explained to me that NOT everyone can be vegan. It depends on your body. Something everyone CAN do is pay attention to their food sources. Eat quality and sustainable whether you eat meat or not.

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Absolutely! Factory farming causes so many problems - for the animals, the planet and humans. It’s time for this cruel industry to end.

    • @stephengallagher2209
      @stephengallagher2209 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Up yours, nerd.

    • @nyla298
      @nyla298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love meat ♥️

    • @stephengallagher2209
      @stephengallagher2209 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nyla298 💓💞💕💌

  • @sandrawalters1396
    @sandrawalters1396 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have you and Tori split ? I hope not coz that would be a terrible shame. If not when is she coming back? Xxx

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She’s home for the holidays visiting family!

  • @زنكي
    @زنكي 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Traveling alone is never a good idea..

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’ve done it for years! It’s a great idea 😃

  • @ManCityCL
    @ManCityCL 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl , just a quick observation on your videos
    You talk a lot about mental health and healthy food choices . Don't be so SURE that
    vegan is the way to go . Check out
    " STEAK AND BUTTER GAL " story she was vegan . Don't dismiss it immediately !!!
    Give it a try listen to her and your mental / physical health might just take a 360 degree turn. Wish you all the best 😃

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I talk about mental health because I think the internet can use more transparency. I don’t believe I’ll ever get to a state where I don’t have some bad days, but I’m generally a very happy and healthy person (both mentally and physically.)
      Im not interested in ex-vegan stories because I don’t believe anyone who has seen the cruelty of animal agriculture & made the connection can start supporting the industry again. Most likely, this girl was probably plant based for health and not connected to the animal abuse behind the industry. That’s her journey and she has every right to speak her truth - but I have been to slaughterhouses and seen so much undercover footage that I know I will be vegan for the rest of my life.
      If I felt like my diet was negatively affecting my mental or physical health, I would change my diet but still be vegan.
      Hope this adds some clarity to my thought process behind this 😌 merry Christmas and happy holidays!

  • @frankiethebull8269
    @frankiethebull8269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're TOO DEPENDENT on her. It's not healthy. When you create scenarios and dread because your partner is away, temporarily that's called Relationship Dependency and it's not normal. Most people just have trust in their partner rather than become anxious creating scenarios in their head.

    • @sarahyak_
      @sarahyak_  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m not anxious because I don’t trust tori or I’m worried what she’s doing. I’m anxious because I’m alone in a big city where there are a lot of break ins and it’s been 7+ months since I traveled solo.
      It was a difficult transition to feel safe sleeping alone and traveling on my own this week. Maybe its not the healthiest thing, but this was my reality and I chose to be vulnerable about it online because I don’t want to contribute to over-glamorizing my life and not being honest about my experience.
      I did not share my feelings to get unsolicited opinions from strangers online though.