How do you know when your INTP really wants to understand you? | CS Joseph Responds

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  • @danielle3576
    @danielle3576 4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    As an INTP, Not caring about stuff sounds cool but sometimes it’s so hard not caring about things especially when people close to u care. Like no matter how hard I want to care I just don’t. I only do things cause people around me care and I care that they care but I don’t really care. You know.

    • @mukherjee.p
      @mukherjee.p 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Must be hard

    • @danielle3576
      @danielle3576 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yep

    • @lunaberrocal6488
      @lunaberrocal6488 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Care about what exactly? any example?

    • @tdfox4052
      @tdfox4052 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      bravo

    • @mbn5086
      @mbn5086 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Probably one of the best descriptions👌🏻

  • @camerontrompf5602
    @camerontrompf5602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I have always recommended asking the INTP about the last time you two caught up. If they have an almost photographic knowledge of what happened, they are interested in understanding you.

    • @Hawkido
      @Hawkido 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      My (now ex) Wife was always surprised that I always knew where her keys or phone was even if I hadn't been in the room when she last had them, because I mentally tracked her as she moved through the house, even while I was engrossed in whatever I was absorbed in at the time. She left me because she said I didn't pay enough attention to her.

    • @DoubleDoubleCoffee
      @DoubleDoubleCoffee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Seems correct to me... I likely don’t look attentive at all but I’m memory hoarding every second.

    • @Hawkido
      @Hawkido 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@genoblast5543 We remember everything except where we stored the information. I know I have memorized much information, but have lost the trigger (index) to retrieve the information, if we find the trigger (such as work our self back to the moment in our mind when we stored the info) the information will come back as if we are watching a private vr replay and dictate the result back to the requester, usually in the manner which WE consider most pertinent, however the requester usually thinks we divulged too much. But if we are not thorough we may omit something. We really aren't making up filler info, those are just the details that got stored.

    • @heatherbryant4197
      @heatherbryant4197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I often remember things that _aren't_ important to me though. Case in point: I have nearly every jingle from commercials I heard on TV as a kid in the early 90s and even late 80s memorized to this day, even though I haven't heard them in over 2 decades. When something is catchy, _and_ it's repeated over and over again, I can't get it out of my head. This is probably a small part of why I hate pop music. But it's a big part of why it's so frustrating when people repeat themselves and why it's so insulting when people insist I look at them while they're talking and insinuate I'm not listening if I'm not making eye contact. I can't help but listen and absorb. This is both a blessing and a curse. I couldn't NOT listen if I tried. It's really difficult to tune someone out when they're droning on and on. Even when the apathy switch is flipped and I'm totally nonresponsive bc I don't give a f*ck about what they're saying, I am still _hearing_ and processing what they're saying in my brain.

    • @camerontrompf5602
      @camerontrompf5602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@heatherbryant4197 yes, fair enough, but have your friends ever been surprised about how much you remember about them? Like details they don't remember telling you? That is what I'm talking about. We INTPs study the things we care about and that includes people.

  • @Hawkido
    @Hawkido 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    A colorblind INTP just might accidentally dress themselves in a way that could be mistaken for a bold fashion statement. No such mistakes are made about a normal INTP, we either dress the exact same way everyday or wear a combination of pajamas and comfortable sportswear that has never experienced this thing called "Sports"

    • @kertmesila4967
      @kertmesila4967 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can have a specific outfit for specific events, it's not that hard to figure out.

  • @jennahudson3420
    @jennahudson3420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    As an INTJ I have found that my INTP bf listens to me with his blanket over his head lol. He is very patient and is trying to open up. I know he hears everything I say. He often brings it up months or years later. I had a fun conversation with him, he admitted that us opening up is healthy just uncomfortable but he’s willing to. We have laid out some boundaries because I know how tough it is for him and it’s because he loves me that he tries. I’ve been following your advice on how to approach him through your videos. Thank you for your help. I’m sorry about what you’re going through. You had said your life is on fire at the moment. Hang in there... you are helping those that can see the gems 💎 in your videos. Forget the nay sayers.

    • @tsnevtbl
      @tsnevtbl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have this flipped experience as an INTP with an INTJ male partner. I tend to conclude (begrudgingly) that it is related to socialization and evolutionary psychology. We're both NTs... we'd bother rather not... when it comes to our own and each others emotions, but at the end of the day I, the female (sigh) end up being responsible for our emotional intimacy and "making space" for it.

    • @jennahudson3420
      @jennahudson3420 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MarkyMark2177 Haha. Although your comment is playful and somewhat serious, it evokes a true raw emotion in the sentiments of both types. My struggles with my bf is a lack of emotional IQ if you will. He’s a great guy but some of his decisions really confuse me. On a superficial level, he is thoughtful of my needs. He doesn’t get my deeper emotionally. Intellectually he is very fun to talk to.

    • @jennahudson3420
      @jennahudson3420 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tsnevtbl It’s interesting that some of the same behaviors are quite consistent with the typing. Talking our feelings is a big deal for me and yet I still do it.

  • @acewestover9093
    @acewestover9093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Could you do a video on dynamics between INTP-INFJ? The whole “golden pair” and the system behind why it works and doesn’t work

    • @itsher917
      @itsher917 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ohh please

    • @h6yv4h6h6vhj644h6v
      @h6yv4h6h6vhj644h6v 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes Please? I'm trying to analys what went wrong with my INTJ- INTP

    • @Amrrkevin
      @Amrrkevin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No they r not golden pair. Just watch social compatibility videos of cs joseph

    • @itsher917
      @itsher917 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Amrrkevin yess, they aren't. but in another 'typing system' i believe they are. i'm an infj magnet i need to know more about as lmao. -intp

  • @victoriamccrary50
    @victoriamccrary50 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Snap, this one hit like a brick. At first I thought I didn't look inattentive, but then I remembered my childhood and how my family scolded me alot for not looking like I was listening, and I always had to make a mental note to occasionally look a person in the eyes.
    Anyways, wonderful content as always, Chase! Loving the edits!

  • @javiervillar4644
    @javiervillar4644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    INTP here. I never ask questions. I observe -it's much better to know the answer.

    • @domintetarus7840
      @domintetarus7840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, because most times ppl lie to themselves and their actions are inconsistent with their words; also I had a boss that would blurt out his true meaning at first, and immediately correct with the politically correct version. He always meant the first thing.

    • @qasimimtiaz9668
      @qasimimtiaz9668 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I notice that ESFJs observe too.

    • @misscogito9865
      @misscogito9865 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@domintetarus7840but when you ask a question and compare the answer with your observation, you learn. About the person, weaknesses in your deduction skills or both.

    • @Hawkido
      @Hawkido ปีที่แล้ว

      @@misscogito9865 well, yes, but actually no. Make a statement and someone will try to correct you, if you can defend your statement then the idea survives till the next round. Fail to defend it, and the idea dies (either you haven't thought about it enough to defend it or you failed to consider it from another perspective).
      If you ask a question, people are generally to afraid to give a response, only the loud mouths will blather and you will learn nothing other than who the loudmouths are.
      Better to make a statement such that people want to tear it down (rightly or wrongly). You will learn more. People see it as antagonistic, but do you really care what people think, especially those who will only share information if it can bring someone else down. I regularly say things that are just off target, that way when they respond they elaborate into the area I was wanting information. Never aim at your target lest they protect it, aim to miss the target and they will destroy it for you in their counter attack.

    • @misscogito9865
      @misscogito9865 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Hawkido Thanks for taking the time to destroy my argument - advice very much needed. My approach still works with some people in person, but I'll admit, it's untenable on social media for the reasons you mentioned.
      Maybe it's time to change approach.
      If you've s there a book on psychology that you could recommend for me to read?

  • @moodymcsorley7691
    @moodymcsorley7691 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    "Corrupt affiliative people of the world stop thinking that just because they're seeking out to do the right thing that they end up being entitled to have authority. And doing the right thing and having authority have nothing to do with each other."
    This is probably one of my favorite things you've ever said.
    Sincerely, an INFP who tries their best to value truth over muhMood, muhStatus, muhTitles, and muhRepu-tay-shun.

    • @cherrymarriedindiscord1404
      @cherrymarriedindiscord1404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hello, I'm conducting a short survey for an internet debate, would you be interested in answering my question?

  • @dppool456
    @dppool456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I think part of the problem is we INTPs pay attention to different things then most people. Like, we can't even keep track of our car keys because we're already thinking about the destination. It's the same thing with people and relationships too. Our mind is just disconnected to the typical approach to thinking. It's because of Ne aux I think.

  • @anthonyfelix2972
    @anthonyfelix2972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I can say that the attention to details of those we care about is spot on but it can hurt us just as much as it can help us. For example I am an INTP and my father is an ESFJ, since childhood I have highly admired my father and made constant efforts of learning everything about him to be more like him.
    But in my efforts to copy him came with a lot of frustration and disappointment from myself and even more so from my dad because I behaved so different from what he expects that he told me I was weird and difficult. Because I paid so much attention to him I can recall numerous times he insulted, undermine, and belittle me that from an objective standpoint he was verbally, emotionally, and mentally abusing me. My situation goes much deeper so I'll stop here and just say just as we can remember so much to better please those we care about we also remember so much of the pain they caused us that can make moving forward with ourselves difficult.

  • @cherrymarriedindiscord1404
    @cherrymarriedindiscord1404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    If you value eye contact an INTP will do it. I learnt to look at people nearly the same way (for me it is just social ethicette and I'm affiliative so yeah)
    So INTPs can be physically attentive just don't suffocate them by demanding it right off the begining... Be slow and consistant at asking eye contact gradually then you'll reach a point where they'll keep looking at you when you speak

  • @Hawkido
    @Hawkido 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    ENTP - Tries to prevent Conflict where possible, and destroy it when it is not possible to prevent it. INTP - Tries to avoid Conflict when possible and dismantle it when it is not possible to avoid it.

  • @busyazn
    @busyazn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    2:50 total attention or apathy. If they give you attention but goes deeper.
    3:50 Their attention is outside of their normal pattern. They might invite the person to something.
    5:13 where are they focusing their attention? They go out of their typical pattern. Follow their intentions. 5:50
    7:45 They'll ask you what you value. They'll store that info so they may potentially use it. They may not look attentive. They'll keep track of your value. 9:05

  • @maiamaiamaiamai
    @maiamaiamaiamai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I like all the zooms and the sarcasm, Chase. This is hilariously informative lol.
    I’m not sure what my type is now (debating between INTP and INFP, used to think I was an ISFP but I was going through trauma and chronic stress for years so it’s hard to tell overall) but I do exhibit the “emotional package acceptance” and a general apathetic attitude towards my environment (things and people). I live in my head basically, so if I catch myself paying attention to someone, I definitely want to get to know them better (romantically or otherwise). Back when I was under chronic stress, however, I sometimes exhibit fake niceness and being helpful for the sake of being liked by people and getting them to possibly WANT to do nice things for me (manipulative I know, not my proudest moments), so I would make sure this person is not mentally unhealthy when they are paying attention to you, or else you’ll be with an emotionally anxious avoidant log. I did learn to be friendlier and not make insensitive jokes (too often at least) back when I was stretching myself thin with social interactions.
    Nowadays, someone I’m interested in becomes my new favorite subject for research purposes privately... until I figure them out and see how illogical and emotional people (and I) can be in general, I either lose interest altogether or take a step back, eventually return to living in my head full time again 😂
    My point is, if I am an INTP and I want to get to know you, usually you’d know by the attention I give you COMPARED to the attention I give to most things/people. It does take some time and attention (ironically haha) to know how much I’m paying attention to things though, so take your time with your INTP and good luck.

    • @Tubbysneederful
      @Tubbysneederful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol sounds like my INFP girlfriend. Fake niceness and doing nice things for them so that they’ll do nice things for you 😂😂.
      So funny I was just talking to her about this last night.

    • @jeffreystewart9809
      @jeffreystewart9809 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah yes, halfway between INTP and INFP. I'm INFP-A but I have a LOT of INTP traits as well and a girlfriend who's also likely INTP (havent tested her yet, but she checks all the boxes.)
      Videos like this help me understand both of us better.

    • @monikap8777
      @monikap8777 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you were an intp and under a lot of stress, you would get into your shadow mode which is an entj for intps, I believe

  • @catmansion
    @catmansion 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    As an INTP, watching these videos always make me feel like a sociopathic android. Not that it's entirely false but it feels like it should bug me. So it does, a little bit. And then I go read a medical journal and feel much better.

  • @emilysaso3290
    @emilysaso3290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The last part of your video...you couldn’t have said it better. Feels good for someone to acknowledge and be attentive to how attentive INTPs are!

  • @aishaadam7473
    @aishaadam7473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I gave up to be understood long time ago
    -intp

  • @boskonikolic8961
    @boskonikolic8961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Really good job on the test, Chase. Really, REALLY good job. I was planning on making a test based on the information you give me (for personal use of course), and this is EXACTLY how I envisioned it. Youre doing something very significant here, and you legitimately have a chance at changing the way people type themselves. Keep doing what youre doing, you brilliant bastard.
    -Sincerely, an INTP

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Much appreciated

  • @AdrianneChristineBooks
    @AdrianneChristineBooks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Watched with my INTJ and had a good laugh. He sometimes finds my attentiveness troubling- like why did I need to make a chart to track how he sleeps? Well obviously so I can study, then help him

    • @honsali
      @honsali 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This, This, oh this is THE INTP
      sublime INTPness

    • @kurodesuuuu
      @kurodesuuuu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      WOW, intps go that far?!
      Gotta find myself one lol

  • @Nicohakuu1
    @Nicohakuu1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I remember a lecture my ESTJ aunt gave me when I was around 14 (I am 25 now). It was exactly about making an eye contact when talking/listening to other people and also trying to give off "visible cues" I was being attentive. Before this moment I had a tendency not look in the eye, I didn't nod or make "mmm" sound or anything when someone was talking to me. And then what seemed like an awkward silence then I gave my long thought out response to every little thing the other person said.
    I had no idea it came off that way I seemed like I didn't care to listen which was the opposite of truth. But I tried to see her point. And I remember her mentioning that she *knew* I was always listening to her as she has been taking care of me over the years as I, was a kid and that I had this "odd pattern".
    Therefore we together came up with a "beheavioral system" I should try to follow in conversations. I tried to conciously focus looking at others faces or at least towards their direction even if I didn't exactly look in the eyes. Then I should try to make nods and reactive sounds like "aha" "yes" "I see" "Okay" so the other person knows I listen.
    Then as I have this issue that my thoughts tends to be really abstract. It's hard to explain but I know what I am thinking all the time but my thoughts are not often "regular sentences". So it takes me time to "convert or translate" my non-verbal thoughts into outspoken responses to other people in cohesive sentences that others can understand me. This thought "conversion process" is the reason I take such a long time before I respond. I explained this to my aunt and she sympathetically helped me to come up with "filler sentences" that can help to mask this pattern so the other person doesn't even notice I'm taking longer time thinking.

    • @scartdarcy
      @scartdarcy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is amazing in so many different ways. The most loveable thing I read in a while

    • @Nicohakuu1
      @Nicohakuu1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@scartdarcy Thanks. I really do hold her in high respect. (: Especially on how she uses her Se critic in very responsible manner. I used to find her attempts at reducing chaos and establishing rules a bit overbearing at times as kid. But she has taught me so many valuable lessons with her warnings and she was not going to enable me or her own kids being lazy or ignorant. And she is willing to listen countering opinions as long as you give her good logical arguments why you disagree with her. I find debating her much more pleasant than with my SFJ mother to be honest.
      STJs are pretty funny in a way that they are so affiliative themselves but they still kinda like and lowkey want other people to behave independently and be pragmatic sorta? That's just my experience.

    • @mintyfey7207
      @mintyfey7207 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm an INFP but appreciate you sharing these strategies! I often look somewhere else than in the eyes too though I'm taking in a lot of information (not only words, body language et cetera as well). I've noticed it can throw people off if they don't know me/happen to understand that kind of behaviour. Looking people I don't know in the eyes is distracting and answering instantly is impossible if I want to think through what I say so I'll look into the filler sentences.

    • @monikap8777
      @monikap8777 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm an intp who loves estjs a lot, too! I find them very funny and if we have some serious stuff to do, they can be the best. Direct, efficient, to the point

  • @losingobernables1829
    @losingobernables1829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Just because they look like their not paying attention doesn't mean they don't care. Also if they look like their not paying attention it means they don't care. lol what?

    • @PunkFiddler
      @PunkFiddler 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      All you have to do is ask, my friend. It will show.

    • @losingobernables1829
      @losingobernables1829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@PunkFiddler I had an intp that would never give me anything unless I confronted them face to face. Never asked her if she liked me, bc I knew she did. I just needed to be reassured what I was doing was working.

  • @stephaniebrown9687
    @stephaniebrown9687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Could you touch on the INTP ESFP relationship? I find that so odd.

    • @flyingguitarist7026
      @flyingguitarist7026 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Elon Musk x Grimes

    • @maja2393
      @maja2393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      FlyingGuitarist Grimes an enfp

    • @aonaohafa
      @aonaohafa 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@flyingguitarist7026 I thought Elon Musk is INTJ?

    • @flyingguitarist7026
      @flyingguitarist7026 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@aonaohafa nope he's not, might be using his ENTJ shadow sometimes, but he's clearly informative, responding and control
      + Pragmatic and abstract( look at those companies and projects he'd built)
      Definitely INTP
      Even chase has typed him as an InTp

  • @TheYangnyin
    @TheYangnyin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My INFJ ex actually did ask me for my analysis on a regular basis. Then he'd retreat into his shadows for a good long ponder lol

  • @Hawkido
    @Hawkido 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Is the Crowbar in the corner for getting inside people's heads?

  • @Istpmom
    @Istpmom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That zoom in though

  • @icaruswindrune7116
    @icaruswindrune7116 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Just your average INTP passing by and watching this video since it seems interesting and will help me understand myself a bit more (hopefully). For understanding others, yeah I ask about how they feel - look for their perspectives - highly attentive - and just really easy going and open minded as well as just open. As for not being interested, yeah I am off in my own world and I am completely cut off from my surroundings.

    • @Hawkido
      @Hawkido 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You must be a young INTP, the older you get the more you realize that no INTP is average. We are weirdos in almost every social context. We live at either the low digits or high digits of Bell Curve Street. The Middle of the street is too uncomfortable for us and we will move to the edges, where the neighbors are less likely to pop over to your house.

    • @icaruswindrune7116
      @icaruswindrune7116 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Hawkido It is a bit of an internet joke. But yeah, I am a young adult INTP. Also a very odd person who is not understood by anyone really (outside of an INTP/ENTP friend and an INFP friend I have). Also not exactly a social person nor someone who tends to be at parties. Also am more interested in computers, research, and science more so than humans.

    • @Hawkido
      @Hawkido 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@icaruswindrune7116 You fit right in at the extremes of Bell Curve Street. An Average among the unlikely.

    • @icaruswindrune7116
      @icaruswindrune7116 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Hawkido basically. We INTPs are the odd ones, after all.

    • @cyberneticbutterfly8506
      @cyberneticbutterfly8506 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@icaruswindrune7116 Fortunately physical reality favors some types more than others. It can't care about fairness for a random primate inhabiting a random planet after all. And I think we INTPs got objectively better cards dealt by nature in many ways than low Ti types.

  • @ashye5390
    @ashye5390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I very much enjoyed the editing on this video. Lol-ed at the CS Joseph voice bits. Thanks for the good experience. -an Intp

  • @chloesparkes8146
    @chloesparkes8146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My infj butt has been called out here.

  • @7733rk
    @7733rk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Intps are glorious

  • @dairdb
    @dairdb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Reason you really never see ENTJ and INTP golden pair relationships, ENTJs are too shallow to respect the INTPs

  • @Goldforever-vp8zq
    @Goldforever-vp8zq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    One of my longest friends is a ESFP a good party buddy and traveler. We aren’t best friends but close ish. I could literally call her for anything and she’ll come help or make time. it’s actually funny because she actually made a statement using the words that someone wasn’t loyal. They only time I would use that word is if I was married and the person was cheating. I don’t use the word loyal to describe friends. she doesn’t care too much for abstract conversations. My INFP friend that lives closer I can talk about Ne conversations for a long time but she is flakey. If I could combine a esfp + infp would make a perfect partner or friend.

  • @waldner5206
    @waldner5206 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    12:00 - 12:30. Preach it.

  • @mukherjee.p
    @mukherjee.p 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your editing skills are getting better everytime.. it's awesome 😂 it's funny. Continue with these CSJ

  • @Hadeel.414
    @Hadeel.414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    you feel guilty about not talking to your INTP friend for 2 weeks and you have reasons for not engaging ....i haven't even talked to anyone over 3 months and i have no reasons LOL with an exception for ESTJ close friend ...I ghosted her.. I pushed her away on purpose because i want to create a boundary with her.. She is great tbh but I don't want her to be close

  • @Goldforever-vp8zq
    @Goldforever-vp8zq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for this! I do sometimes get bitter when I think that most people do not try to stop and understand why I am the way I am. It took me a long time to realize that people don’t stop and isthink about me the way I do them. I do wonder if it’s because my life isn’t as busy or if it’s just a gift I have that can bring me closer to people. I find it odd that ESFPs would marry INTPs there’s more than enough ISFJs out there and they always find each other and marry. Isfjs and istjs are normally universally attractive woman to all types. Even entjs who are supposed to be our ideal match marry them.

  • @Hawkido
    @Hawkido 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Okay so I just watched about an hour of vids about people trying on the Enchroma Glasses to correct colorblindness, and so many people cried when experiencing colors for the first time, while others did not. I was wondering would that be Si or Fi being triggered? Or perhaps it is a combination of the two?

    • @Hawkido
      @Hawkido 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MarkyMark2177 Fe would explain the people surrounding the person crying, and would only explain the colorblind person crying if the other people were crying, but why would they be crying if he weren't as Fi people only cry when THEY feel something, and Fe only cry when someone they care about feel something. So no Fe wouldn't explain the person's tears.

  • @jesulobajohn8468
    @jesulobajohn8468 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That part about experimenting, completely true - an INTP

  • @mbn5086
    @mbn5086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Seriously, thank you for telling them that WE MAY CARE TOO :/
    ppl often misunderstand us , so true

  • @frozenfire2634
    @frozenfire2634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think its a very good that you cite your sources.

  • @CCinophile
    @CCinophile 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi again. The editing is really funny.

  • @pingz2454
    @pingz2454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love my INTP friend, i was surprised this week i learned he can be very vulgar at times lmao, wasn't expexting it from him

    • @joni-nv3el
      @joni-nv3el 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      dude tbh you can talk with us on anything just be sure you do it beause we would not do that beacues we dont not where the limit so we let other people we talk have the limlit

  • @charleyn71
    @charleyn71 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you ❣️ - an intp ☺️

  • @mtt4639
    @mtt4639 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi how are you i wanted to ask a question i think the pair of infj and intp would be very good because i think whom i wanted to be with it would be nice to be ni se user to push me forward and make me wear properly 😂 joke aside its kinda feels good to be around ni se users but actually sometimes i don't like fi te users not because they don't care or they don't put there attention on me actually i love that part about them but because in a long run i feel un appreciated by fi users on other hand high fe users annoys me because i want spot light on my partner but also i need sense of appreciation i think infj would be fit i would appreciate your opinion and thank you for your content i have been useing since almost 2 years ago it helped me so much

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They are benefactor relationship and decent

  • @Kasia_Luna
    @Kasia_Luna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm an INFJ and I asked my INTP friend exactly that question, "what have you learned so far about me" LOL in the middle of an extensive conversation trying to learn about him/pick his mind.

  • @Yunixes
    @Yunixes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is being famous a curse for an infj? That would be an interesting topic to discuss.
    I'm quite curious because pewdiepie (I used to watch him a lot but now not so much because he seems kinda weird nowadays"well he is weird all the time lol" but his vibe is off nowadays) is an infj and some of his old videos shows that he confessed of his tiredness of making youtube videos and express himself to being fake all the time) but now he is ok I guess because of his ni hero just jump right back into action for Idk how long.

  • @PunkFiddler
    @PunkFiddler 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    About your statement near the end of the video, yes, I really want to speak out to those people of the truth but I always hold back due to me fearing that they might not take it the way I pieced it up in my head and end up severing the relationship more than actually repairing it.
    It also hit me like a truck when you mentioned about going out of way just to understand someone. I did it to a literal fault that I was labeled as clingy or needy when in fact, I really am just trying to know more about the person and so I can use it later on to surprise or prepare something really good that will make them feel good of themselves. Heck I was even asked what my intentions were when that even didn't cross my mind nor was aware that it was the vibe I am giving.
    Oh and the part when you are about to connect with Angelo, please do. I have been ghosted several times. It triggers me and start to ask myself, "Is anything wrong? Did I do/say something wrong?".

  • @rp627
    @rp627 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    lolllll, the zoom moments are soooo goooood. ‘the authority / do good bit’... but the ‘don’t have people in their life’ bit 😥😥 that can hurt (depending on moment in life).

  • @cynthiapayne9906
    @cynthiapayne9906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Whoever is editing your videos is getting a lot more comfy with the software. It's looking good :)

  • @bassamalawi9816
    @bassamalawi9816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very interesting. There is someone who wants to know about us

  • @hamidousy5460
    @hamidousy5460 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    0:07 Preach it.

  • @Researcher9868
    @Researcher9868 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What do you think it would be like if a mother(INTJ) raises an ESFP and an ENFJ?

  • @lphoebe3634
    @lphoebe3634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Wait why are you wearing a swimming cap

    • @gomonkeyfly
      @gomonkeyfly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it's not, it's a cap backfacing.

    • @AFoxForThought
      @AFoxForThought 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He does likes to walk in the rain or maybe he just felt like it XD

  • @humanbeing1313
    @humanbeing1313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Quora is a INTPS best friend

  • @forkymental5154
    @forkymental5154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I checked out the new site and the test. They're great.

  • @no-jx9zi
    @no-jx9zi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hey chase, i just tried to actually use your type grid and it really messed around. it could be my device but i am actually not sure. it felt like the website didnt really work. however, it might be cool if you could check because i am reallllyyy interested in actually finding out my type... even though i am assuming that i am an enfp. anyway, thank you a lot for your videos, i literally binged them for a whole weekend and i learned a lot. seriously, thanks man!

  • @sylviaowega3839
    @sylviaowega3839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well I’m an INTP female whom has been married to an INTJ male for 18 years, and still doesn’t quite understand me.

  • @parsamajnouni4386
    @parsamajnouni4386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Super funny and great video hahaha! I also want to ask you how i can upgrade my membership on your website. I really want to have access to all the lectures. Keep up the amazing work!

    • @parsamajnouni4386
      @parsamajnouni4386 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ps: The Test is amazing. Thanks to it i was able to accurately type all the people who are close to me. Thanks!

  • @romain6063
    @romain6063 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Seems like you had fun editing the video. Or at least someone else had.

  • @cherrymarriedindiscord1404
    @cherrymarriedindiscord1404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Whatsup ? I didn't keep my promise of having a social life and read 11 books just in this period you weren't here (apart from Miley's typing session)
    And I feel prettier because I went back to my training routine since I'm more comfy alone ☺ life is about sacrifices
    Ah but the bro got diareahhh ew
    I cooked cupcakes...
    AND FINALLY THERE IS A RELEVANT NOTIF IN MY YTB OUF

  • @cherrymarriedindiscord1404
    @cherrymarriedindiscord1404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What if 4 sides of the mind were really 5 ? The 5th is the coordinator and doesn't work like cognition we established, it has a cognition of its own ? How to prove this ?

    • @cherrymarriedindiscord1404
      @cherrymarriedindiscord1404 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @aftonology101 hmmm interesting point 🤔
      But if I'm not wrong, that would be done by the Amygdale and we have way less conscious access to it so by definition it's the unconscious
      But tbh, recently I REALLY got into pedipsy and I learned an average bunch of info... Most of it showed that any cognitive model isn't more privileged than another... It's hard to separate parameters when studying the human psych and because of that I've become less interested in these theories so I apologise if I'll keep acting as though none of this exists, it's not entirely my intention, but I don't believe in it more than a possibility

    • @cherrymarriedindiscord1404
      @cherrymarriedindiscord1404 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @aftonology101
      🌚 I'm sorry what?

  • @hannah_marie97
    @hannah_marie97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please can you type the F.R.I.E.N.D.S characters?
    Great vid Chase, thank you 👍🏻

  • @sarahshanahan2222
    @sarahshanahan2222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes yes yes!!! Intp here... I hate small talk alot. My coworker loves smalltalk... She talks about her family... and all her social stuff.. My coworker would go on and on and I hated it at first. Now... she has grown on me. I engage in small talk now not as a genuine interest in what she has to say.. but I have learned to appreciate her and give her that time... because I care about her. Everyone else at work basically does not exist as a person to me! Ha.
    The sources comment...
    Haha Te is annoying to me.
    What about the golden pair? I am dating an infj... are. Intp and infj a great pair?

    • @aladdout9454
      @aladdout9454 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      your golden pair is entj.With infj its a benefactor relationship

    • @sarahshanahan2222
      @sarahshanahan2222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aladdout9454 I will say... it seems I need my infj more than he needs me for sure... ha

  • @miszczklasykuw3025
    @miszczklasykuw3025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    dat zooming in video und changing voice were nois, csj

  • @erinjk123
    @erinjk123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am not sure if he is an INTP, but I often have someone ask what time I get off at work. I say 11 PM. He makes small talk about the weather. Two introverts talking to each other lol.

  • @caymant8959
    @caymant8959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    tell ‘em, Chase! (@ introduction )

  • @fleebee4115
    @fleebee4115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How common do you think INFP/INTP romantic relationships are?

    • @joni-nv3el
      @joni-nv3el 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      dude who will move out of the house and talk/buy things 0_0 -intp

  • @romscar77
    @romscar77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ^---INTP *So, is there really such a thing as 'relational equity'? My previous 20 year relationship would say no. (Your mileage may vary)

    • @Hawkido
      @Hawkido 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Never seek equity, it is the point of lowest energy, seek Synergy. Find someone who will push when you pull and pull when you push, INTPs are low activity people and will resort to the comfort of low effort, but having a synergistic partner, makes the effort easier and thus makes actually doing things much more comfortable.

    • @romscar77
      @romscar77 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Hawkido I agree with that. Interestingly enough, that relationship was with an ESFP. So I smile every time Chase points out that perpensity. It wasn't so much as something that was saught, but was at a complete loss of comprehension at the ease in which she was (seemingly) able to toss away the family and move out. I've done A LOT of work recovering, learning, and coming back FROM and over The Abyss (IYKYK).

  • @yurizafurizaki5574
    @yurizafurizaki5574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your site typed me as an INTP. And i am officially typed as well. An INTP too. So i guess your site is accurate :)

  • @cherrymarriedindiscord1404
    @cherrymarriedindiscord1404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's not all good... It's all Nice.
    Because nice has Ni and Ni is fire

  • @princekabeya7961
    @princekabeya7961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice video ! Btw your new web site is cool af ! 😎

  • @SmiLey-cu1mz
    @SmiLey-cu1mz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi! I’ve recently gotten into mbti and I’ve binged watched tons of your videos and I’m glad I found your channel, you’re very informative. But there’s one function I don’t think you’ve explained it well in any of the videos I’ve seen so far and that’s Ti: Where does Ti come from? If you have explained it already, can you plz direct me to the content?

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Check playlists

  • @sunsetmist7
    @sunsetmist7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice job with the edit! ✌😁

  • @yurizafurizaki5574
    @yurizafurizaki5574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As for me, since MBTI is a framework (that i think is logical) that makes it easier to understand humans and I barely understand them, I want the person I want to understand to also read, explore MBTI, particularly his own type. My guy can tell you how much I talk about mbti with him lol he's sick of it (we argued about how much i talk about it but who cares lol) but how else do I understand him? I mean, i can't read people that well either.

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MBTI sucks though.

    • @yurizafurizaki5574
      @yurizafurizaki5574 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I call this whole thing mbti though, whether or not it is really mbti.. Lol :D

  • @fesnelybdis513
    @fesnelybdis513 ปีที่แล้ว

    My Te-Nemesis says "Yo! !@#$ your sources!" LMAO

  • @new123zxc
    @new123zxc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The test is a we awesome. I learned that I'm a crusader!

  • @duhpabo
    @duhpabo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Could you do a video about how interactions with your superego type usually go? If there is a correlation that is.
    I was just thinking about how there’s always a bunch of misunderstandings when I talk to this ISFP guy I know. We’re always just re-explaining what we actually meant. There’s also an ISFP girl and for some reason everything she does annoys me. I’m way more sure the guy is an ISFP than I am of the girl though.

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch season 15 playlist and Season 17 playlist

    • @duhpabo
      @duhpabo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      C.S. Joseph gotcha

  • @cherrymarriedindiscord1404
    @cherrymarriedindiscord1404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would have enjoyed the fake name... They are usually aestethic and I'd have enjoyed making an inside joke about it
    -which would probably be the only thing which pops in my mind and I don't comment it-

  • @Hadeel.414
    @Hadeel.414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1- you could put the suggested videos in the "info" button *at the minute* you talk about these videos
    2- you are wearing a cap back-facing, well it doesn't make you look good tbh and also wear the mask if you wear big hoodie not with shirts

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I move around a lot during the day, don’t have time

    • @DrajerDesigns
      @DrajerDesigns 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @hadeel eltogby Are you the fooking fashion police?

    • @Hadeel.414
      @Hadeel.414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DrajerDesigns I am helping him by giving an advice, he could take it or leave it :)

  • @jundy-9561
    @jundy-9561 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    answer : they act like you're a complex puzzle they want to resolve

  • @logicalperspectivekanki4190
    @logicalperspectivekanki4190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    good video as always

  • @dexmickbear7916
    @dexmickbear7916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You've said that ENTJ were extremely misunderstood before, but you didn't mention them among the most misunderstood in this video.
    Was that an oversight or are they just moderately misunderstood compared to those others?
    Thank you for your videos.

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Moderately because people understand ENTJ men but not women

  • @flyingguitarist7026
    @flyingguitarist7026 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    7:10
    Lol😂

  • @oOZanlanOo
    @oOZanlanOo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    10:00 So wheres the INTP ESFP video?
    The amount of INTP videos is utterly low, but still very high! More!

  • @cherrymarriedindiscord1404
    @cherrymarriedindiscord1404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ouch yea they are lonely... I forced a friendship with an INTP because he was just... Siigh... Let's say too much Ni critic and too little Fi to recieve
    I tried to find a sollution but he was too stuck in Si comfort plus I had exams too close to be bothered texting him often to make sure he is doing good
    I ended up... Se trickstering.......... Face palm.

  • @melissamouton9464
    @melissamouton9464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'll be honest. I cheated on you. Proverbially, of course. I went out looking for others to give me an INTP females perspective because I feel like I'm a bit different than the male representation. Well, I got bored about 1 min in to each video I pulled up so here I am begging for forgiveness and also begging that when you issue that forgiveness you also post a video about the female INTP. There is no video out there to explain quite how amazing we are. Gracias

  • @xandra6610
    @xandra6610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where did you get the info that INTPs marry ESFPs and with the most success? I'm INTP and most of what I have found online is that we are most compatible with ENTJs

    • @isaacchase564
      @isaacchase564 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      intp as a man who has seen both female peers and the males as friends their better off as friends to be honest or unless there mature enough for a relationship be cautious so you don't have to spend time with the wrong one for 6 months due to keeping them happy that would be the immature esfp

    • @jamesy2160
      @jamesy2160 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also believe that CSJ mentioned that this is one bronze pair he doesn’t see very often, unlike other types.

  • @flyingguitarist7026
    @flyingguitarist7026 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey chase , I've used your personality assessment test
    But what I have noticed is that I'm not 100%or >70% (except I know that I'm a Ti-fe user) sure to select the correct option which takes too much of time to select it, so my question is, if I am too indecisive to select these options does that mean I'm leaning more towards Outcome / control type than movement?(coz they take faster decisions) ?

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Select other questions then so the test picks that for you

  • @malcolmmacinnis247
    @malcolmmacinnis247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hmm can we infer the website is almost done? :D

  • @Emily.J.
    @Emily.J. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sorry, I cant help but be curious, but can someone explain whats wrong with using a fake name on the internet if its a platform like quora? I understand that on somewhere like fb or ig, it's more sketchy because you could be catfishing but it kinda makes sense that people would want to ask questions anonymously since people get embarrassed or insecure about asking questions. It seems harmless to me but maybe im just not understanding something?

  • @cherrymarriedindiscord1404
    @cherrymarriedindiscord1404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ain't no ENTP stopping me from searching for some good tittles from being a good person 😂
    But hearing "corrupt" and "right thing" in the same sentence is disturbing... ESPECIALLY WITH SOME SPICE FROM BRAON (my brain's name is Braon and pronounced to look like french croissant cuz why not ? )

  • @BM-hw7kp
    @BM-hw7kp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do personality types play a role in athleticism?

    • @qasimimtiaz9668
      @qasimimtiaz9668 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah. For example, intjs are great at strategic sports like fencing and cricket bowling.

  • @aparnadas359
    @aparnadas359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Infjs are most misunderstood type hands down. Don't u think so?

  • @smile2024-c7s
    @smile2024-c7s 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you

  • @chris132boss
    @chris132boss 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you have any info on the simean line and if it legit effects personality?

  • @BrunhildeHips
    @BrunhildeHips 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear Chaseman........what do you mean by "affiliate"when talking types

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch Season 15 playlist on this channel

    • @BrunhildeHips
      @BrunhildeHips 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CSJoseph Thanks Chaseman

  • @Punniz
    @Punniz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    There's editing O_O

  • @Hybe123
    @Hybe123 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you are making the website yourself, where do the members finances go?

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Software Development

  • @yurizafurizaki5574
    @yurizafurizaki5574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why is the site asking for a "survey password" now?

  • @stephank.9148
    @stephank.9148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why are infps misunderstood?

  • @tdfox4052
    @tdfox4052 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    8:51 damn straight :P