Please... we women have to learn how to love ourself ! When a man told you in different ways that he didn't love you anymore, learn to stop loving him and move on. Life is short ! Your futur is in your hands ! Either you move on and find happiness or stay where you are and keep crying. You are stronger than that !
She is not stupid but she is weak and doesn't know her worth. I were in her shoes few years ago and I know that the hardest thing before you move on is to take the decision to let go of your past. But it was the best decision I've taken in all my lifetime. Let go all the bad things and you will see the sun shine again.
Txhob tu siab os tus me niam hluas hlub koj tus kheej nawb mog koj tus txiv yeej yuav mus tsis txog twg li os muaj ib hnub nws yeej yuav los pe koj xwb heev neeg yeej muaj heev neej tsim xwb os koj kov tsij mus ua neej rau nws ntxhia kom nws tuag kiag xwb mas
You love your husband too much that’s why he doesn’t love you in return. When you learned how to love yourself then your man will love you unconditionally.
Ua li koj ces yog lawm ua ib siab thiaj tsis raug tsim lawm peb txhua tus cov tsis kam mus yuav tus tshiab yog li koj xav lawm txhawb koj lub zog nyob ib leeg ua neej tab sis hlub yus tus kheej ua niam rau tej me nyuam yog qhov zoo
So hard to listen to the lives of devoted, servile Hmong women who get abandoned by some egocentric pa tha, babe hounding husband. These women don't know that when you serve a man like a slave, he starts to treat you like a slave. Look at how he runs back to a B who treats him like a dog. Never make the mistake of being a servile wife, Hmong women! Always put you first and love you first. Once you lose your identity to become just a slave to a man, he will use you to wipe his feet. Learn to set boundaries and say no. Serving the man and his clan as a slave is a guarantee that it will backfire on you. Being a good nyab doesn't pay in this age.
You too the words out of my mouth. Many hmoob women haven’t gotten that into their brain. They still see themselves as nothing without men, regardless of how many years they have gone to school or money they have worked to earn for themselves. They still see self values when they slave away for men.
I can't stand listening to these stories. It makes me want to puke🤮 and I'm a man. These women are such a servitude that's why this happened. I'm not even mad at the men. I'm mad at the women.
Pab hlub koj kawg os niam laus... peb cov txiv hmoob no mas tsis pom peb pojniam koob hmoob thiab nuj nqis. Your best life is yet to come and he isn't worthy to enjoy with you. When you are done grieving the death of your relationship... you will be reborn again... worthy of you! Love yourself.
Story like this one hurts my head. Get the point, it doesn’t matter how you love him, he does not love you anymore… if he does, he would left his girlfriend comes back to you already like he left you for her. Love and have respect for yourself.
Be ready when the txiv-dev wants to return. Don’t allow him back unless you want to be miserable. Go find a man that will appreciate and love you. Yolo
This is what happen when you love someone more than you love yourself. Not a bad thing to have a good heart but you should never put someone else above yourself.
Hiya tus mi niam tsev aws kuv laj laj mloog koj zaj neej neeg kom tag li vim koj muab koj tus txiv hlub dhau lawm. Tu siab tias nws tsis hlub koj lawm los thov pab hlub koj tus kheej thiab cov menyuam xwb yog qhov zoo tshaj lawm os. Luag tws tsis hlub yus lawm es yus pheej yuav ua dev lem rau luag ua dabtsi na. Ua ib siab tau lawm cov txiv neej li koj tus kom ces yeej tsis txog twg li os mog. Nws tws tau kev npam los ntawm nws tus poj niam tshiab lawm txiv neej tsis sawm zoo os mog.
Women never learn. #1 RULE NEVER trust your husband 100%. And why so desperate for their love when they don't love you anymore. Move on and let him rot in his own desire.
Tsis tsim nyog li os. Tu siab nrho hnov qab mus kiag, nws yeej tsis hlub koj lawm nws tsuav nyiam qhov koj tiam nws xwb os mog. Peb puas muaj cov pab thas es ua tag li tseem sib hlub mus txog hnub tuag os. Los yog peb hmoob ces yeej txeev siab tom kawg li no txuas tus. Cas zaj pab tha twg los pib muaj meej mov ces pib txeev siab xwb.
mi niam tsev aw koj ua zoo thiab koj hlub koj uv koj tus txiv koj tus txiv thiaj saib tsis taus koj ua tau phem rau koj saib koj yog ib tug tsiaj xwb ne
Nws twb lam los dag kom koj txhob muaj lub neej lawm xwb nws hlub tus tov tshaj koj 💯 lawm nws thiaj tsis los thiab tsis xaiv koj thov txhob ruam es raug lawv dag laus tos tsis zoo lawm ok
Niam ntsuab teev yog ua tus niam tsev es tus txiv tsem nws tsis tau tsauv kuv mloog nws mas tseem tshuav txim ntawv nws tus txiv ntau heev li nws cia nws tus rov qab los tsem zaum ob ntxiv thiab tus niam hais tau meem txom heev
I don't understand these woman. If your daughter is in college and doing well let her be. Provider her with birth control...and guide her...no need to control her. This is the time where you need to enjoy your empty nest days with your husband not chasing your grown adult kids around.
Me viv ncaus aw puas yog tiam no nej thiab kuv los yuav yuam kev txiv xwb os los yog peb tshuav lawv cov txiv neej nqi es peb thiaj raug raug lawv tsim peb siab ntsws khaub hlab tag mus li xwb nawb mog
Zaj neej neeg no ma ploog tau ntshav siab kawg ca nej tseem saib pab tha muaj nqis vim cov 2niag pab tha hauv peb zos no es yog 2niag liam tshaj plaw khub noj khub haus khuj teb khuj chaw xwb as
Pab tha life is not fruitful. It corrupts the most humble men. The name is a superficial cover for partying, drinking, and extra marital affairs. Not much good comes out of it.
U can b gorgeous/rich/talented/intelligent/powerful, etc, but when a cheating spouse cheats, s/he will find any reason to justify their cheating (e.g., Beyoncé & jay z, will smith & jada Pinkett smith, etc.). She only needs to take care of herself for herself. Her husband turned out to b a POS person.
Neeg tsis sawm zoo dev tsis sawm tsau os txiv neej ces thaum luag raug tau ib tug dab poj laib lawm ceshu huab tais nqis nroos saum ntuj Los los luag rov pob tw los mloog xwb os lawv cia kom heev neeg musj heev neeg tsim thiaj paub os lawv....😭😭😭😭
Blah blah blah. This is why men think it’s okay to cheat & did their wives wrong and can still walk all over their wives after a failed relationship, it’s because these weak women allowed it again & again. Move on already! Even if he comes back to you, your marriage is like a broken mirror that cannot be put back together perfectly. This is why lub npe, lub meej mom and patha life is all BS to me.
Usual for patha's lives, usual for women who over love and over do for her husbands; vice-versa. Let him go sister; seek for happiness for yourself; otherwise, you will be ill.
Yes ask yourself is it worth being a patha. What's the benefit, their is no benefit haha, theirs only cheat, if your husband doesn't cheat then your wife will .true facts
No wonder your husband took advantage of you... If it doesn't work one way then try another way. Some men deserve the hard way and this is your husband
Nkauj hmoob koj hais tau zoo heev thiab koj zoo ntxim hlub tiag li yog tau hlub yuav siab tiag li
Please... we women have to learn how to love ourself ! When a man told you in different ways that he didn't love you anymore, learn to stop loving him and move on. Life is short ! Your futur is in your hands ! Either you move on and find happiness or stay where you are and keep crying. You are stronger than that !
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I agree with you. I hate to say it but some woman are just plain stupid 😢. She’s allowing him to treat her like that.
Mmmm still looking for love… you are stupid! Wake up. Only love available is love from you to you!!!
She is not stupid but she is weak and doesn't know her worth. I were in her shoes few years ago and I know that the hardest thing before you move on is to take the decision to let go of your past. But it was the best decision I've taken in all my lifetime. Let go all the bad things and you will see the sun shine again.
@@nkaujsaiszimwang6990 agree
Stop waiting for him and love yourself sister. He doesn't deserve you.
Love youself lady. Value yourself
Don’t ever beg someone for their love! Time to love yourself. He does not deserve your love.
Our Hmong women need to be strong.
But yet, they also fight among themselves between wives and divorcee. Let them each handle their own business.
I can't listen anymore to this story some woman never respect them self
Cov txiv neej zoo li no tsis sawm zoo thiab tsis tsim nyog hlub. Hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej zoo dua.
Txhob tu siab os tus me niam hluas hlub koj tus kheej nawb mog koj tus txiv yeej yuav mus tsis txog twg li os muaj ib hnub nws yeej yuav los pe koj xwb heev neeg yeej muaj heev neej tsim xwb os koj kov tsij mus ua neej rau nws ntxhia kom nws tuag kiag xwb mas
You love your husband too much that’s why he doesn’t love you in return. When you learned how to love yourself then your man will love you unconditionally.
Ua li koj ces yog lawm ua ib siab thiaj tsis raug tsim lawm peb txhua tus cov tsis kam mus yuav tus tshiab yog li koj xav lawm txhawb koj lub zog nyob ib leeg ua neej tab sis hlub yus tus kheej ua niam rau tej me nyuam yog qhov zoo
Peb pojniam ua ntsuas ntshaw txiv neej txoj niag dev kev hlub thiab lau!!!
Txoj hauj lwm ntawm txiv pab tha thiab niam pab tha yog los hlub yus haiv neeg hmoob, pab hmoob, thiab kho hmoob. Tab tsis ua ntej yuav hlub yus haiv neeg hmoob yus yuav tsum hlub yus tsev neeg ua ntej...tsis li ntawv ces yeej tsis ua hauj lwm. Ib feem yeej muaj zoo tswv yim zoo pab haiv neeg hmoob...feem ntau tsuas yog ua pab tha Kom tau noj ntau, haus ntau..tau kev plees kev yee thiab khuj teb khuj Chaw xwb. Thanks for sharing!
Nyiam koj hais neejneeg heev mloog txhua zaj
So hard to listen to the lives of devoted, servile Hmong women who get abandoned by some egocentric pa tha, babe hounding husband. These women don't know that when you serve a man like a slave, he starts to treat you like a slave. Look at how he runs back to a B who treats him like a dog. Never make the mistake of being a servile wife, Hmong women! Always put you first and love you first. Once you lose your identity to become just a slave to a man, he will use you to wipe his feet. Learn to set boundaries and say no. Serving the man and his clan as a slave is a guarantee that it will backfire on you. Being a good nyab doesn't pay in this age.
You too the words out of my mouth.
Many hmoob women haven’t gotten that into their brain.
They still see themselves as nothing without men, regardless of how many years they have gone to school or money they have worked to earn for themselves. They still see self values when they slave away for men.
@@ThePrincessWorrior It's a behavior passed down from OGs. It's engrained in their brain and makes it hard for these women to change their thinking.
Well said it
Xyoo no Ntsuab Teev laus kiag lawm thiab nplaub hau dawb paug lawm nawb.
Nco ntsoov hlub peb tus kheej luag thiaj saib peb muaj nqis. Vim koj saib nws 1 leeg muaj nqis tshaj koj thiab tag nrho 1 tsoom txivneej nyob qab ntuj no. Nws thiaj tsuj koj tuag nthi tsis hmov tshua nej cov niam tub.
Self love sister
Poj niam muaj txiv cia li tham hluas nraug los yog khiav caum hluas nraug lawm muaj good reason heev rau nws ua li ntawv. Tib yam nkaus li no rau txiv neej muaj poj niam thiab. Ntawv tsis muaj leej twg yuav paub txog except nkawv ob niam txiv nkaus thiab paub nkawv xwb.
Vim hlub l a wonderful dhau thaum kawg thiaj poob kua muag. Hlub tus kheej xwb maj yom
I can't stand listening to these stories. It makes me want to puke🤮 and I'm a man. These women are such a servitude that's why this happened. I'm not even mad at the men. I'm mad at the women.
Nej pheej hlub tej niag Txiv neej no heev dau lawm nws thiaj ua siab pem tau neej
Tus Poj niam zoo li no poob rau peb tes kawg neej zoo.
Tu siab hv li os😭
Hmong woman just don't know when to let go and move on..
Thov ghuad neb daim duab sib hlub kawg nkaus
hhhhhhh niam ntsua teev neb ma sib hlub tau tsim nyog kawg lau
Vivncaus aws, tsis txhob tos thiab khuv xim tus neeg zoo li ko os. Tus zoo thiab siab nkaj tseem muaj os
Cas nyias niam muaj nyias kev taug tiag2 li es tsis txhob tu2 siab hos tus niam tsev.
Love yourself woman.
It's a lesson to learn.
My hmoob woman, once she gave you her heart, it’s forever till death do us part.
Pab hlub koj kawg os niam laus... peb cov txiv hmoob no mas tsis pom peb pojniam koob hmoob thiab nuj nqis. Your best life is yet to come and he isn't worthy to enjoy with you. When you are done grieving the death of your relationship... you will be reborn again... worthy of you! Love yourself.
Story like this one hurts my head. Get the point, it doesn’t matter how you love him, he does not love you anymore… if he does, he would left his girlfriend comes back to you already like he left you for her. Love and have respect for yourself.
Wow zaj neej neeg no tu siab kawg kiag li os
Kuv thov kom koj muaj siab muaj ntsws thiab nawb tus me viv ncaus niam pab tha aw tam sim no koj kav tsij tig rov mus hlub koj tswj koj lub siab kom ruaj khov kho tsis txhob quav ntsej txog ib tug txiv neej siab phem lim hiam npaum li ntawv lawm koj kav tsij saib koj kom koj muaj nuj nqis xwb muaj ib hnub twg nws thiaj yuav khuv xim koj npaum li cas los koj yeej tsis txais nws rov qab los tsim koj dua lawm no mas koj thiaj li yuav yog ib tug neeg tseem ceeb rau nws khuv xim koj mus tag ib sim neej tsis muaj hnub koj yuav txais tus neeg ntxeev siab ntawv rov los lawm no pob
This story so sad and heartbreaking 💔 😢
Tus niam tsev, if he truly loves you why do you feel the need to beg for his love?
Be ready when the txiv-dev wants to return. Don’t allow him back unless you want to be miserable. Go find a man that will appreciate and love you. Yolo
This is what happen when you love someone more than you love yourself. Not a bad thing to have a good heart but you should never put someone else above yourself.
Hiya tus mi niam tsev aws kuv laj laj mloog koj zaj neej neeg kom tag li vim koj muab koj tus txiv hlub dhau lawm. Tu siab tias nws tsis hlub koj lawm los thov pab hlub koj tus kheej thiab cov menyuam xwb yog qhov zoo tshaj lawm os. Luag tws tsis hlub yus lawm es yus pheej yuav ua dev lem rau luag ua dabtsi na. Ua ib siab tau lawm cov txiv neej li koj tus kom ces yeej tsis txog twg li os mog. Nws tws tau kev npam los ntawm nws tus poj niam tshiab lawm txiv neej tsis sawm zoo os mog.
Wow! May, niam ntsuab teev, u have a beautiful!!! Smile. Continue Smile this wide.
Yog tuag mas thiaj tu siab pob.
Txoj kev sib hlub ua cas yuav tsis ncaj mares li. Pab koj tu siab os sister.
Wow koj yog tus niam tsev siab zoo tiag2 li os.
No only stupid
Peb hmoob cov coj noj coj ua thiab cov pab tha ces yeej muaj ib leeg ib tug poj nrauj li no ntag nawb lawv aw...
Women never learn. #1 RULE NEVER trust your husband 100%. And why so desperate for their love when they don't love you anymore. Move on and let him rot in his own desire.
Muaj li thiab
Treat someone like a god then that is what will happen eventually. Get look down upon. Smh
Skipping this story based on the comments. Can’t listen to stories like this anymore.
zoo heev li os tug me muam hmoob zoo kuv tuaj pab nag caum kj lawm os phooj ywg es thov tuaj pab nag tig tag đam ký rau kuv thiab os phooj ywg
Love yourself sis. Stop waiting for a cheater. What's done can't be undone.
Cov poj niam ruam2 li no mas mob hlwb kawg tos koj tus txiv saib tsis taus koj thiab tsis hlub koj los vim koj twb tsis hlub koj.
Tsis tsim nyog li os. Tu siab nrho hnov qab mus kiag, nws yeej tsis hlub koj lawm nws tsuav nyiam qhov koj tiam nws xwb os mog.
Peb puas muaj cov pab thas es ua tag li tseem sib hlub mus txog hnub tuag os. Los yog peb hmoob ces yeej txeev siab tom kawg li no txuas tus. Cas zaj pab tha twg los pib muaj meej mov ces pib txeev siab xwb.
mi niam tsev aw koj ua zoo thiab koj hlub koj uv koj tus txiv koj tus txiv thiaj saib tsis taus koj ua tau phem rau koj saib koj yog ib tug tsiaj xwb ne
Nws twb lam los dag kom koj txhob muaj lub neej lawm xwb nws hlub tus tov tshaj koj 💯 lawm nws thiaj tsis los thiab tsis xaiv koj thov txhob ruam es raug lawv dag laus tos tsis zoo lawm ok
I always invest myself first before anyone including my spouse and kids.
What a devastating story. I hope all works for you. It's sad that your entire life you've only known one man. Hope you find your peace.
Niam ntsuab teev yog ua tus niam tsev es tus txiv tsem nws tsis tau tsauv kuv mloog nws mas tseem tshuav txim ntawv nws tus txiv ntau heev li nws cia nws tus rov qab los tsem zaum ob ntxiv thiab tus niam hais tau meem txom heev
I don't understand these woman. If your daughter is in college and doing well let her be. Provider her with birth control...and guide her...no need to control her. This is the time where you need to enjoy your empty nest days with your husband not chasing your grown adult kids around.
Hlub Koj kawg li os tus mi Niam tsev thov kom Koj tus txiv rov qab los sai sai mog 😢
Me viv ncaus aw puas yog tiam no nej thiab kuv los yuav yuam kev txiv xwb os los yog peb tshuav lawv cov txiv neej nqi es peb thiaj raug raug lawv tsim peb siab ntsws khaub hlab tag mus li xwb nawb mog
Ntsuab thiab niam Ntsuab Teev aw… neb mas thiaj li yog ntuj tso los ua txij nkawm tiag li os… neb ntxim2 hlub sib phim tshaj li los mas. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Zaj neej neeg no ma ploog tau ntshav siab kawg ca nej tseem saib pab tha muaj nqis vim cov 2niag pab tha hauv peb zos no es yog 2niag liam tshaj plaw khub noj khub haus khuj teb khuj chaw xwb as
You’re too soft lady! I wouldn’t even pull him back up and wait for him. Value and love your women!!!
Stop begging someone to stay if they no longer want to stay.. move on..
nyob zoo os ua cas kuv hu tau koj os
Peb cov poj niam hmoob muaj ib txia ua cas tsis txawj hlub yus tus kheej li es pheej yuav mus hlub tus neeg uas luag twb tsis hlub yus tsis txob poob yus lub kua muag rau tus neeg uas luag tsis hlub yus mog tus me viv ncaus !!
Haub yau niam tais es Hmoog koj zaj no mas ua Kuv npau taws heev os. Txhob tos2 thiab hlub2 niag txiv lim hiam ko os. Koj tsis ruam tabsi koj tsis tau taub txog txoj kev hlub li os. Luag tsis hlub koj li nawd
Pab tha life is not fruitful. It corrupts the most humble men. The name is a superficial cover for partying, drinking, and extra marital affairs. Not much good comes out of it.
Sister, you're too busy taking care of your husband and you forgot to take care of yourself for him, that why he cheated on you.
U can b gorgeous/rich/talented/intelligent/powerful, etc, but when a cheating spouse cheats, s/he will find any reason to justify their cheating (e.g., Beyoncé & jay z, will smith & jada Pinkett smith, etc.).
She only needs to take care of herself for herself. Her husband turned out to b a POS person.
Tus niam laus aw txiv neej tas lawm los
Neeg tsis sawm zoo dev tsis sawm tsau os txiv neej ces thaum luag raug tau ib tug dab poj laib lawm ceshu huab tais nqis nroos saum ntuj Los los luag rov pob tw los mloog xwb os lawv cia kom heev neeg musj heev neeg tsim thiaj paub os lawv....😭😭😭😭
Peb cov poj Niam ces yeej tau lub kua muag ev tas li xwb os xuj 2 nawb ❤
Dev Tsi sawm tsau neeg Tsi sawm zoo ces yog li no mas
Hnub tsis khwv yog hnub puag tes taw pw! Hnub ntawv ces plam plaws txoj kev khwv
Sister-let him go. Ur worth for him is no longer valid! 😢
Love yourself. He doesn't love you or want you anymore. Stop living in the past, and move on.
If i had a wife like that... Life would be so Great and she would be My Queen
No
Yeap, and 20-30 yrs down the road, you can abandon her just like same
Let him suffer. It’s a life he chose. He can come back anytime, but he doesn’t want to. He’s happy with her to endure such torture!
Blah blah blah. This is why men think it’s okay to cheat & did their wives wrong and can still walk all over their wives after a failed relationship, it’s because these weak women allowed it again & again. Move on already! Even if he comes back to you, your marriage is like a broken mirror that cannot be put back together perfectly. This is why lub npe, lub meej mom and patha life is all BS to me.
It's ok this Hmong person desert...
Nws nco koj thaum lawv tsis hlub nws xwb koj tag nqi rau nws lawm koj npam es koj thiaj tseem nyob tos nws cov lus dag
Niam pab thas ces yog niam kaws pob txha xwb.
Peb hmoob cov pab tha ces yog pab tha tham hluas nkauj xwb tsis tag li koj tus txiv ces hmoov tag lawm
Dang lady the love died a long time ago, but you're just refusing to let go...
He will only come back to you when his wife don't want to bury him, so please don't wait for him and move on.
koj niam aw niag txiv neej tsw tseem ceeb li kom.tsw muaj log zoo thiab mas. koj ua nwg whev txaum2 lawm os.tseem ntxheev siab rau koj thiab. tug tseem ceeb tsw yog koj niag txiv yog koj xwb.tsw yuav koj log zoo kab nrab xwb.hlub koj tug kheej
Niam qhev, niam tsev tiamsis tsis yog niam dev ces nws tus txiv thiaj nrhiav niam dev. Txiv neej nyiam niam dev xwb lawv tsis nyiam niam qhev thiab niam tsev tiam 21 now.
Tso nws mus os.. hlub koj Tus kheej xwb os Tus ntawv Yog Txiv dev xwb
Pojniam Hmoob thiaj khwv ua tshua yam rau tus txiv xwb; lazy tshaj ces yog 1cov txivneej Hmoob.
Nws dag xwb yog nws nco koj npaum ko nws yeej los lawm os
As
Yog kawg os Tus viv ncaus aw vim tias yog peb cov poj niam ntshim peb xwb os lawv aw vim lwm Tus poj niam ntshim peb xwb os mog
Kuv tsis tau hlub ib tug txiv neej zoo lis tus viv ncau no nws hlub nws tus txiv heev thiab kuv tsis nyob nws chaws ces kuv tsis paub. Yog ib tug txiv neej saib kuv tsis muaj nuj nqe zoo lis no ces, kuv yuav tsum hlub Kuv tus kheej thiab saib tias kuv muaj nqe npaum lis cas.
Usual for patha's lives, usual for women who over love and over do for her husbands; vice-versa. Let him go sister; seek for happiness for yourself; otherwise, you will be ill.
Yes ask yourself is it worth being a patha. What's the benefit, their is no benefit haha, theirs only cheat, if your husband doesn't cheat then your wife will .true facts
This is the nature of sin. Yam peb tsim nyog ua, peb tsis ua. Yam peb tsis tsim nyog ua, peb ho ua.
Some men like to be treated like dev. Vice-versa 🤷🏽♀️
No wonder your husband took advantage of you... If it doesn't work one way then try another way. Some men deserve the hard way and this is your husband
Ouch witch... Hurts a lot! 30 yrs of love and sweats with only one man!
Niam tais - move on. You have done everything for him. You deserve better love
It’s because she has never tasted anything bigger and better that’s why she’s clinging on to his
Pog vwm,tos quav dev