She definitely should’ve went on another platform not on his. she shouldn’t have been on that platform because that’s not a place for a woman for real. she need to be on the femininity channels They literally give the same advice and more that will actually work out for her benefit
Thats why viral clips can be so dangerous. The clip makes it seem like he’s calling her average when in reality she rated herself as average and he was just repeating her own words back to her
No he boxes them in and tells them they can't choose 8 or 9. So what's left? You do realize that's an abusive headgame right? Then he makes them go down to 7 or 6 with make up which leaves 5 without make up. That's the whole point. He put this woman's face out there to get a laugh so he can male $$$ off of men that enjoy bashing black women.
No. If she had said that she was a 10 he would have told her the same thing. He tells all women they're avg at best, on his other videos. He's problamatic.
Using money as a measurement for success isn’t inherently wrong. It becomes a problem when people view money as the ONLY measurement for success and potential.
EDIT: I get it now, you guys can stop blowing up my phone now lmao. kinda surprised by the fact that men actually don't care about a woman's financial situation. I honestly thought you guys wanted that stereotypical strong and independent woman, but anyways, thanks for clarifying I guess.
@@gd.5528 u just like the chick in the video. You didn’t read a thing I said did you? So according to you, rich abusive men must not be a real thing right?
One thing though: He never said she was ugly, he said she was average. Why do you guys or people in general conflate average with ugly? Ugly is ugly, average is average.
To be fair, most men aren't that honest with women. Can't really blame her for feeling uncomfortable when she got a dose of some real shit she ain't used to.
In terms of body language, her going on her phone in the middle of the interview was probably a form of escapism. She didn't like how reality was unfolding, so she turned to her phone to escape into that "reality" instead. Just a gander.
No slow coach. He didn't tell her he was showing her live on air and she was shocked because he lied that he was the only one seeing her. His twiced divorced, absentee father behind is getting sued by a few women because he has a habit of recording them without their consent, even in public.
@@kayade5305 She literally says within the first 2 minutes of the interview "this is the first time I'm catching you on Live". So, you're not only wrong, but also not too bright for believing that BS in the first place and running to the comment section "to set some men straight" without even watching the interview. Better luck next time, slow coach. Also, you can record people in public in most states, even majority of countries - no consent needed. Ever heard of paparazzi? Guess not. Guess there's no integrity in anything you've said. This is why nobody cares about your opinions
@@kayade5305 thank you and these comments that are praising this man is disgusting. I have never heard of another race of men cheering on men tearing their women down.
@@gtajunkie94 well what is she gonna change about her looks ? Plastic surgery ? Cuz he didn’t give any good criticism but her looks. If he gave her a good criticism and feedback on what she may be doing wrong I’ll get it but it’s just her looks... you can’t help with what you are born with... plus what’s wrong for her to want someone who earns the same amount as her ?
Its called a double pendulum i believe, you can get them for around 50 bucks here in the netherlands, dont know how expensive they are where you live. I believe they descibe a chaotic motion in physics. Though im no expert
Thanks for the new vocab! I am slightly annoyed because a “friend” just asked for my advice and turned around and did the exact opposite of what I said. I’ll avoid saying “I told you so” when she gets her rude awakening.
The worst is when you have a friend who constantly complains about something, and when you try to give them advice, they give you a million excuses as to why all of your suggestions haven’t worked or won’t work.
Im still that person, but to be fair: I be complaining about child trafficking, financial exploitation of the sick, and the overall rat race america is in. Not really something you can retort, but getting upset definitely won’t help the person.
I choose to only date girls who have jobs doesn't matter how much you earn just as long as you're not solely dependent on me and that when you do need me I know it's serious or an issue for both of us to handle
@PBEs It doesn't matter. The majority of Guys don't go in the relationship for money or financial support. The majority of women go in relationships for money and financial support and try to call it 'security' until you ask them to break what they mean by it. Men grow up to be providers. Women grow up to be the provided. One gives and the other takes.
@@YouLose clearly in your world marriage is a business transaction. But that’s not everyone’s reality. There is a balance, the in between that exists between the love and the transactions too. Good luck searching!
@@tarrahbul women are just as superficial. Mating is superficial. Was it not superficial for this woman to say she doesn’t want to date any man that is not making 6 figures? Instantly dismissing 80% of the population of men solely because of their salary?
@@Lhoyte1 no its not superficial. It's societal norms. Most women do not want to be with a man who makes less. Most men don't want to be with a woman who makes substantially more than them.
@@Michelle_McKenzie I agree with your comment; it's not superficial. Also, most men don't want to be with a W that can't speak eloquently, can't pronounce words, had a kid out of wedlock, and ...3/10 face.
He asked her what’s wrong with a regular guy, she sees herself as above a regular guy and that’s what made him finish her off. It’s ok for her to not want an average guy, but it’s not ok for a man to not want an average woman.
Never once did she say she did want a average LOOKING guy. She clearly stated she wanted a man that matches her finances what is wrong with that? Please do tell
Most women, at least after age 25, tend to want money and/or ambition in their mate. Because he can then better provide for her and their children, and even allow her to stay at home with them if she wants. Also, ambition is generally tied to success, which is generally tied to money. There are exceptions, but most women just don't want a guy who's lazy and unproductive. Which is understandable.
@@c4test idk maybe personality? How they make them feel etc. People like you only worry solely on the financial benefits of a relationship like that’s the only thing you need to worry about which is why shit won’t work out for u
@@c4test Falling in love with someone because they're wealthy isn't falling in love with a person, you're falling in love with their money, and how their success benefits you. That's not love, that's narcissistic.
"I don't want a man who comes up in my business and asks me how to help." "I want to help a rich man in his business." How do these girls have zero self awareness? This is comical.
how they have a business that still runs. I want your best stuff oh ya but I'm only gunna pay what I paid last supplier. If you wanna move up in the big leagues she gotta step her game up. We not changing difficulty. And the whole scrolling on her phone I get it shes awkward she needs more class. Honestly she needs to fail hard cuz she got everything backwards.
how can you she be so clueless and dumb and still be rich she must kf just been given a business. She certainly never worked in customer service. All uppity thats exactly how she gon be treated by men. Exactly like she some petulant child
I'm sorry, I don't understand how an average or below average man who has never run a business offering assistance and a successful business owner offering her assistance is the same thing. It may sound the same but we all know it's not.
@@Ash-fz9po You don't get it. It's the blatant hypocrisy. She doesn't see the irony of rejecting a man "beneath" her for the same reason that she seeks a man "above" her.
That's right women can't take accountability, of their own actions and will blame men for all their problems when in reality they're the ones that cause the problems in the first place. Like he said this lady is going to die alone she's going to be one of those old cat ladies that ain't going to never have nobody because she's a 3 at best!!. And that's what I rate her because of her attitude.
So we are told that physical sex differences should not be a thing these days, but so many women can't/won't respect a man that earns less, won't date a man that is not a few inches taller than them, is not a "real man" etc. And they have no problem very forthrightly telling men what their shortcomings are, but react extremely negatively to any objective input - including a whole bunch of shaming tactics. Men tend to be judged by success and women by genetics, this woman is judging herself the way that she would judge a man - a most basic mistake.
Meaning you shouldn’t judge someone for living life the way they want to live and expressing themselves how they see fit. However that doesn’t mean you need to intertwine your life with theirs.
Women in the West are put on a pedestal. They are assumed virtuous by nature and to dare think otherwise is misogynistic. Just look at your court system. - My two cents as someone who once lived the non-Western world.
@@user-pd9ju5dk5s I’ve been told numerous times that Judges in the UK court system open say “if you were a man, I would have sent you to jail” but she’s a woman and she gets a suspended sentence or community service. It’s all nonsense - they want equality in the better things but not everything.
1: Not everyone's an 'entrepreneur'. Not everyone has that mentality. Sometimes people watch youtube videos and get sold into a bill of goods that isn't realistic. 2: I dislike the term 'dating down'. It's arrogant and often lacks self reflection and humility.
Dating down isn't about "arrogance or issues with humility". Most people go out and hope for the best in job, education, living environment, and of course dating/mating selection. If you can tell the difference between the "hood" or a "ghetto" from an upper-middle-class neighborhood is it really because you're arrogant? No, it's because one environment feels unsafe/dangerous, filthy, desperate, despair where the other shows safety, hope, cleanliness, and opportunity. The same applies to people in the dating world based on (LMS)= Looks, Money, Status settings. Everything isn't a civil rights movement.
I know some great people who just wanna get away from all bullcrap and live in a village by choice. It’s not all about entrepreneurship and how much you make. Some very intelectual amazing people just wanna enjoy life instead of chasing the carrot on a stick.
@@mbloom2275 you live in a delusion. Some people just are happy living in a village without the bulls crap of city life and chasing money. And it doesn’t mean they have a lesser status or they are less they may even be intellectuals or scientists or novelists taking a break or pursuing a more meaningful way of life
She has to get honest with herself. Because its sounds like she dont even want herself, sometimes women think a man can make them feel better about themselves. When in actuality we have to be honest within ourselves and drop the script of" if I get the perfect guy that makes a lot of money then I will be happy" no man wants to be apart of that script. Especially with a kid, that's jail time.
In another interview she actually rates herself a ten. She said there was a part of the conversation missing where on the scale he rated Beyoncé an 8. She's quite confident but doesn't like confrontation.
@@rasins28 yeah but self worth doesn't come from saying what number you are, it comes from within. She came across as a person who is seeking validation from other people. If she somehow had this self confidence about herself. It wouldn't matter whether a guy makes six figures or not because at the end of the day it's not about the money. But she made it about the money. Thus this reaction.
@@rasins28 Confident unless theres confrontation. Yep. To paraphrase Mike Tyson - Everybody has a plan until they (metaphorically) get punched in the face.
I actually think she was trying to say she didn't want a guy who was just going to sponge off of her. She's not the best at communication, but I believe that was her intent.
Dude its not because you subscribe to aba and preach that you have to agree and like all their videos, idk if someone wanted to watch a different type of content or didn't like this content in particular. Dont be so mad lol
I can’t say I relate with her whole situation, but have felt “wth is wrong with me?” rut that we can tend to fall into. That’s when I learned I needed to be alone. Turned into being single for years, but that’s what I needed. Too many people looking for someone to complete them, when you need to be whole on your own
💜 YES! YOU GET IT ☺ WE ALL NEED TO LEARN TO LOVE OURSELVES BEFORE WE CAN FIND SOMEONE TO LOVE & FULFILL US. ALSO, PEOPLE NEED TO KNOW THAT IT'S OKAY TO BE ALONE. BETTER THAT THAN SETTLE. BE AT PEACE WITH YOURSELF ☺🙏💜💜💜
@@katymcginn4644 agreed!!! Self love is the best love. People have a hard time being alone and settle. Doing the inner work spiritually and being whole content alone before entering a healthy relationship first is best. No one completes you. You're whole on your own.
Well, ambition usually means career success. Unless you're somehow successfully changing the world in other ways. I think the problem is that many women are fixated on financial success. That makes men similarly focused.
@Rusty Howe me too. I have a very VERY low paying job for the impact it has. I will never have financial success. But I impact the world. However, my ambitions are to be a better scrapbooked. To be there for my friends. To be the type of person to not make others feel bad for their likes/dislikes/opinions. By definition ambition is just working hard towards something. Work will always be a necessity I have, something I’m forced to do. My happiness and ambitions lay elsewhere.
I have a job. My bills are paid and my kids are taken care of. I don’t have to work 50-70 hours a week to do that either. I’ve been approached many times to advance and I won’t do it because it’s not worth it. People have talked shit to me and I have no regrets.
There is a story about a guy who owned a boat in Thailand & rented it to give rides trhough a canal or something to tourists. When not working dude was usually seen layin down relaxin. One day a traveler who had seen him previously went to him & told him with all good intentions he could help him buy another boat & help him set up a bigger buisness wiht offices & employees so he could grow & have more boats & chill out with more money cause renting boats in Thailand was a very good business niche. He simply said,no thank you Im not intereseted , Im fine with having few clients & chillin out. That dude was happy with that & its perfectly fine & respectable but this american illimunati crap is brainwashing people's brains into getting super obsessed not only with money but with having a succesful career, of doind "something" & that is fucked up . What if you just wanna chill in the woods.
A millionaire will date an attractive server or cashier. Women don’t even look at men at the cash register or busboys. We want different things in general
@@Rocky-hr4pg so how is she wrong? Men are allowed to have their preferences but not women? Somehow their reasons are valid but she needs to know her place
OK but what if the woman is good looking but has a crappy attitude or is a b*tch. Would he consider a nice natured average looking woman over a good looking b*tch? Interested to hear men's perspective
I'm Dutch and it's often said we're Blunt, rude people. Honesty isn't always appreciated I guess, but I'd rather have that than people sugarcoting everything.
Im not a dutch but I am with you, I'd rather have people telling me the problems about myself in a manner that is direct to the point, cause not only is it time efficient but it's also honest and you know how bad the problems are, and to my friends that's the guy who I try to be, if theres a problem I say to their faces, it doesnt matter if their stronger, bigger or smarter, im still going to tell it to their faces, cause at the end of the day, what I want is for them to find solutions to their problems and improve as a human being.
@@rg1683 Good! It means you're actually sane. My generation (Millenials) think we're entitled to the best. Men & women but women specially thanks 2 social media. Evry1 thinks "I'm a 5 but my personality is 10 so I need to date a 10"
@@D3vious38 it all so depends...the women around me doesn’t even have social media and live irl...many men and women live in this imaginary bubble of social media but there is a lot more ppl who just live in reality and they don’t make a sound so you rarely hear of them!
Thats actually what average means... most people are average. If most people looked good, most people would be average. You would have to be a god to be good looking then
I watched that entire video and tbh I felt sorry for her at some points and at other points I started to question if she likes to be shamed because there is no way I would of even continued going after he pointed out that this is not what the segment is about. When she was persisting I remember him saying ok "let me make an example out of you". How are you going to hear words like that and not see that you are setting yourself up?
@@hawkeyemihawkgettingmoneylord no, she stayed because she felt entitled to help. She knows what the show is yet chose to take over a segment dedicated to something completely different. She claims she's a fan of his show, so she knows there's a time and place. He also advised her that the conversation would be better in a private session yet she continued to insists for advice. This wasn't some life or death situation. She should of realized she was already on thin ice and accept his offer for a private session and end the call, regardless of if she chose to follow through
@@0O0.0O0ycyfyxtcjbivtxt strange i don't agree with your first comment but somehow agree with everything you said in the your second one I think were on the same page you saying she felt entitled for help is a good way to put it.
@@heyyahhh655 I've not seen the whole original video but he should have pulled her up on it to bring awareness. Everyone deserves a second chance to be fair. 😅 If she did it again then I would hang up
She pulled out her phone because she was embarrassed and she didn't want to look like she was giving his words credibility, by paying attention to them. Talk about uncomfortable to watch lol 🥴
Thank you. She was not being disrespectful. She was embarrassed because he was being ruthless. He's horrible actually. He just wanted to prove a point.
Using your phone while someone is talking to you is down right disrespectful. There are no excuses for that it's just down right rude. She asked for his time, he gave it and if she did not like everything he said the women could have taking some aspects to reflect on.
@Gucci Pane PTSD? Bruh she called during a different segment to HIS SHOW & she redirected hiissss show because SHE wanted to talk about something different. Thats first... she set the precedent for rudeness especiallyyyy this man acquiesced to her request & she wasnt actively listening to what he had to say & was rudely looking at her phone. Fukk her. He wasnt even terrible to her he tried to help her & gave her straight forward advice. Advice that can help you will sometimes hurt your feelings but irs necessary for a desired outcome; otherwise stfu & do what you were gonna do in the first place.
@Gucci Pane you are entitled to your opinion but how you intake the life experience you have is your own business, not anyone elses. I cannot control how you internalize what i am telling you. He chose to speak to her in a way & thats his choice, how she interprets, internalizes & feels about it is her responsibility. The saying "be careful what you ask for" comes to mind; sometimes we want things without thinking about everything that comes with it.
@Gucci Pane i follow & subscribe to Kevin Samuels & he mirrors the energy he receives. He has had guests he doesnt agree with but the energy is adult-like & pleasant. Ive seen he absolutely eviscerate cringey males for not comprehending obvious facts & trying to dismiss facts into opinions. He is pretty straight forward, he says how he feels, & most ppl cannot handle honestly looking into the mirror. Also you are assuming this video had a negative impact on this young woman's life; what if because of this video, a man who was attracted to her & fit what she was looking for decided to pursue her? What if she got her happily ever after cuz of what Kevin Samuels said to her going viral? I will agree that ppl with platforms should be very mindful of their influence & act responsibly with respect to it, but your angle is very presumptuous.
These guys really are the kings of the reaction video genre. Rather than just pulling faces and pretending to be shocked or amused they give detailed input and honest, intelligent opinions and being up great questions.
How, her own hypocrisy is astounding.. "when I meet men like that they just want to get in on my business." ..and what do you bring to the table with a high earning man? "I can help him with his business." 🤔 😂 like what?
I mean, that was just the aftermath, at the beginning he did cheapen himself by allowing someone to intrude in his time and make it all about them free of charge.
To translate through all the boss babe bs, she might be trying to say she is tired of being used. So she wants someone to make the same so she will feel that they aren't with her for money.
Not used, it’s a social structure she feels this way because of society, there’s no bad in winning more then your partner just that for women to win more then a guy is socially and mentally wrong to them in a whole, the only women that I know that would date down would be sugar mamas having multiple guys young of age and attractive and just buy them stuff also calling them “Cubs” ... the world is fucked how it is until we actually view equality between personality and social standards
There is plenty of ways to say that, she says what she thinks. When she show that she respect money not person, don't deffend her, she is not evil she is dumb. My coworker is like this, and he love to show how much money he earn to pick up chick. Some day carma can hit her hard and she will find guy like him, and then he will show her how good it fell to be poorer in money focus relationship.
But she said one of the things she could bring to the table was to help grow their business and then she said she didn't like the men asking her to join her business or how they could get into it. I can understand her probably feeling used at times, but i don't think she's going to find alot of men around her age making as much money as she is asking for. For some people income might matter but i don't think it should be a deciding factor.
I get what she’s saying. It’s her experience that there is a correlation with guys making less money having insufficient ambition. It doesn’t mean all guys making less are like this, but it’s her experience.
She’s right. The only problem I see is her going to a person like him seeking validation. Nobody bats an eye when an average white woman sets those expectations and brings no financial security of her own to the table. For some reason black (especially dark skinned) women are viewed as setting the bar too high when it comes to this.
ViNita Long black women need to be hungry for what they want and do what it takes to eat. This female here shouldn’t settle for less than what she is looking for, but Kevin was just saying it’s going to be difficult (I wouldn’t have put it to her that way, but encouraged her to find a good church body to join). I personally agree with the American ideal “life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.”
People only hear the "harsh words", but when she said that she respects men for the amount of money they make... then everybody is deaf. Come on people, come on!
She said she wants a man who makes as much as her because she makes six figures and in the past the men she dated tried to take advantage of her... So idk what you’re hearing.
@@MayaParris How did the try to take advantage of her? Because they wanted to join in on her business? Isn’t that what she said she wants to do with other men who make six figures?
@@mangastar234 neither way is guaranteed, so possibly justifies both scenarios cause it's just was possible that she didn't, but she sure was looking into the camera several times during the interview as if she did know. When she didn't hear something, she would straighten up and lean on closer while viewing the screen. I could be wrong, but so could the original theory presented.
Isn't she a regular, but called on the wrong day? Asking for advice for free (which she could pay for..making 6 figs herself) got upset with the honest facts and started playing with her phone...but they only look at his tone with her...make it make sense?
He didn’t give any advice. He basically told her she wasn’t cute and to give up hope. Where’s the advice on what to do to remedy the situation? Nonexistent.
Yea it was something to distract her. I don’t think it was too rude. Her feelings were hurt. What would they have done if she lashed out at them instead?? Let her have the dang phone, she ain’t hurting nobody
The outrage directed at that man is rooted in the fact that women aren't treated like men. Women, as well as society, are not used to hear and see women being addressed very frankly. Meaning, it is socially accepted and 'standard procedure' to tell a man that he is not tall or rich enough for this or that women. You can see that around you in your daily lives, you will hear and will have heard it in shows were men told they are this or that, you will see it in movies etc. etc. I doubt that many women could take being a man because you do not get any privilege as a man, no sugar coating. Ppl will be very blunt and treat you like somebody that can 'take it'. Most women would have a crude awakening if they ever experienced that and the women that do experience it immediately cry in outrage. This is just another example of that.
This clip reminded me of that old bachelorette who said “How can you talk like a woman like that.” When the guy was like “it was concerning and immature to have guys do strip dodgeball. It was appalling and you need to set a better example if you a really want a good husband.”
@J. Porter I agree to a degree I think women’s are slightly more unrealistic as 80% of women seem to expect a six figure guy and about half of guys expect a 9 or 10 in looks for marrying. These are both unrealistic for 90% of the population.
Bruh totally agree! Although I am a women and have grown up with lots of guy friends, they do tease me the same and it's built in this resilience in me but it's not exact - I don't think I could ever handle exact 😂 And I have learnt my lesson time and time again, women get passive aggressive when you try that shit on them 😂
Exactly. Anyone who wanted to help her would have given her that advice. In my 20's I used to work in a concierge medical practice with middle-aged upper-class/rich men all day and they were married to or dated average/mildly attractive women near their age.
@@ahoneyman I'm on a dating site and I see so many men with kids who put in their profile that they would happily accept another woman's kids. Her options are limited, but she would do well with 40+ year old, divorced guys with kids who are in a similar tax bracket as her. I've seen it multiple times.
@@CiaoColeG exactly I think people are looking at the lenses of how they would take her. Obviously if your a 6 figure man with no kids why would marry a single mom? But now a divorced man with kids might consider her.
@JS Bennington well said dude. Why is it so hard for woman to understand. In their prime their going for too tier men. Those men left behind and not giving a chance focused on career and made something of theirselves. Now they get the younger hotter woman with no baggage that wants a top tier man. How is this hard to understand
Damn, rate yourself from 1-10 you cannot use 7. That’s possibly the most interesting thing I’ve heard today just because it forces you out of safe zones and demands that you either be brutally honest or blatantly lie. Theres no room for ambiguity or any grey areas.
@@c4test it wasn't about how men rate women. KS told her not to use 7, because a lot of women tell themselves 7, because they don't want to believe they're average, but they know they can't say 8-9-10. KS was basically getting her to admit to herself that she's average.
@@vasiliuu3461 5 is average but, i would say average is 4-6 but most people would want to be on the higher scale of average so they say 6, 5 is kinda insulting to people cuz 1-3 is unattractive, 7-9 is attractive (no ones a 10), but if i tell someone there anything but attractive (7 and above), even if ur using numbers, it kinda sounds like ur saying they are the opposite(unattractive), so anything other than 7 and above is insulting meaning 5 is no longer average, 6 and 7 are.
Idk....only because I ACTUALLY see myself as a 7, not as a "safe zone", but as a brutally honest assessment of myself. At my best, maybe a 7.5, at my worst, maybe a 6.5
@@naydd9459 I ask my s.o for advice and hes helped me out before when I had too much work he has no interest in being a part of my business hes got his own job. BUT I wouldnt look for someone above my income bracket and then suggest I could help him run his business that's his Edit: Also my best advice has come from more experienced male independent contractors
And are those type of guys 6 figure earners...no...so she doesn’t want 90% of the men in the world...only the 10 percent that make six figures...hell she didn’t even want a man that would invest in her ideas and expand her business...so she will die alone...🙄
@@symonemoore6147 Y’all don’t even make 6 figures or frequent circles of people who do... yet you insist on speaking for us why? Tell me, I’d luv to know 👀🍿
Honestly being almost 30 now I’ve noticed this for a long time that women love to be blunt towards men about there looks ESPECIALLY if they have any source of arrogance about them but cannot stand having the same done towards them. This is nothing new. In most modern women today it’s practically illegal for a man to say anything about a woman’s looks no matter how arrogant or obnoxious she is.
Notice women have so many expectations of what they want in a man. Men's expectations are minimal at best. Most men just want loyalty and intimacy to be satisfied.
Problem is here: She is more focus on the financial part of a man than the personal qualities of a man. She has to be honest with herself. She doesn't look for a man, she looks for financial security + a man with it. She puts more respect into the papers than what she can share with her future partner, to lift them up together.
The men she dated who made less than her probably grew to resent her and she probably got tired of being the breadwinner in order to maintain her lifestyle. It’s stressful for women to be the main provider! I definitely don’t want to be that. I personally want my man to be the leader of our household and for me to be able to be a supporter. So I can focus more on home life, family, my health and keeping myself up! I can’t imagine doing all of that AND feel like I’m supporting my man!!!??? Nah... no thanks.
People saying “oh she wasn’t being rude she was embarrassed “ because she had her phone . If that’s the case she should have ended the call because she was being rude . He’s talking to her and she’s not listening while on her phone . That’s rude asf
I set up rules with my friends for venting. They can tell me they're venting, but if that feels too awkward, this is how I operate. You say "I just feel..." or anything like that, I'll listen. I'll listen for hours, and have. You end something with a "?", and you get my opinion. Don't want to follow those guidelines? Don't vent at me. Cut down on time wasters, and lead to some real conversations with friends as they found themselves venting more effectively, because they weren't wondering if I was going to jump in or listen. They knew how I was going to act.
Wow! This is some high emotional intelligence and interpersonal skills right here. I love healthy boundaries. I’m going to be implementing this in my own relationships.
Notice when she’s dating a guy that makes less than her, she’s “dating down“. However, when she’s dating a guy that’s making more money than her, this is an equally beneficial relationship. Can someone make it make sense?
Yes women typically do more outside the financial realm so if the man doesn’t go out of his way to compensate it feels like you’re pulling most of the weight. When women are in ltrs or marriages with men that make less they still do the bulk of the childcare and home care if not all of it. If the man took this on then many women wouldn’t feel like they’re losing out in this situation. When the man makes more women no longer care because his finances make up for his lack of non financial contributions. Also this may sound harsh to say but men are a liability for women if you’re not careful. So you either need a guy who makes more money or one who puts in a lot of relationship work outside of finances. Since many men consider the latter to be “simping” these days women are left with the former.
Getting a woman who makes more isn't ever worth it because a) They are stingy as hell b) If they spend on you they don't do it out of the goodness of their heart, it's almost always a relationship bargaining tool. You know you gotta earn that money somehow. You've never seen anything more bitter than a woman who don't feel she got her money's worth. c) Be sure her friends do not respect you no matter how much of a "good" man you are. Only really worth it for the submissive type. Whereas a woman can be strong and dominant in a household even if she doesn't bring in any money, be sure there is absolutely no scenario at all where the reverse is true. I dated a well off woman once. At first she bought stuff for me and started giving orders around the house. I was like nah, we gon make decisions together. You can ask but you can't demand. Then she started trying to bargain using things she knew I wanted. "If you do this I'll buy you this." I was like nah. The good thing is I had my own little rinky dink company so I didn't need to ever ask for money. I just kept living within my means. Eventually I had to break it off because she couldn't understand I was in the relationship for her, not her money, and I wasn't going to budge to demands but rather to reasonable discussion. TLDR: If mutual respect is important to you, think real hard before dating a woman much wealthier than you.
Wasmt a relationship but a gay guy from California. Was nice to me and I got nothing against gay people so we became friends. He was one of those spoiled,rich,always gotta level up archetypes but I can do with some different personality types. Sadly he liked to do the same shit the women you described liked to do. Always asking if I can do this amd that despite saying no thousands of times and asked me to do questionable things with him bit he'll buy me a Tesla 😂😂😂. Basically what I'm saying is my theory about all these people thinking money matters the most is starting to look correct. They literally dont realize everyone isnt swayed to do whatever for some spending money. No matter how good the deals are
I think she just doesn't want a guy who wants to take her money or take her for a ride. Which i can understand. She seems like she wants to please. So maybe she's been taken advantage of. But can't articulate it very well
@@raphealh12 my suspicion is. Since she runs a business and has her own money. There's been some guys who look at her as a free ride. My sister has had a bunch of men leeching off her Because they were drop outs. And yeah. Its her fault for choosing to be with them. But you can't always assume just cos they're a women they are automatically wrong. Thats like saying because you're a man you automatically rape. Makes you as bed as them.
@J. Porter the "bottom shelf" think they're "top shelf" and that's where the problem lies from what I understand. Nobody should spend 2019 ferrari money on a 90's honda civic.🤷🏿♂️
@@KWillo I agree. Kevin Samuels is a 52 year old, twice divorced baby daddy with a short temper and a crass attitude. My sympathy falls short of her asking an unqualified person like KS for any advice to begin with.
@@notanotherone5564 Speaking if Kevin samuels, she really wasn't looking for advice from him.She was expecting a "pat on the back" for being a woman but got smacked in the face with some much needed "humble pie".🤷🏿♂️
I'm all for this, which is why women hate me. I called a woman out for traumatising her son and all the responses (from other women) were "how can you be so heartless?!!"
@@gd.5528 she literally said she’s a 5 and he said your average she said she wants a six figure man and he said your not gonna get one being a five how can a give expect to attract a top 5% earner please tell us men how y’all do it???
@@gd.5528 That average women expect the higher than average man based solely off of their own income, even though a woman's money isn't valuable to men on the sexual/relationship market.
People are so ill these days they put money, status over personality and a long happy life with them. And these women marry rich men just to divorce them for money
"Either you're slinging crack rock or gotta wicked jump shot." You notice the more men civilize the world for women so that they really can do any job a man can do the less an exploding percentage want to work for it? WNBA athletes are trying to figure out a way to use Title 9 against the NBA organization that employs them. Knowing their league doesn't bring in 40% of what the NBA does. A very large percentage of the NBA will only ever make the league minimum.
She thought she was going to hear something else, she wanted him to validate her feelings by asking for his "advice"... Right... it doesn't make sense.
One thing most women don't know is, guys don't really care that much about how much the woman makes, we care about the physical features first and don't let no one lie to you about this. Personality and abilities comes after that. You put a hot 35yr old baby mama on the left and 24yr old lady who still got those firm boobs alive on the right, every man including madmen would pursue the young hottie. Its basic biology
@@FCM3PO right, and so she need to keep working on herself and there’s always somebody for everybody. Trust. Cause she might’ve shut it down for someone who was willing to ride for her and support her in other ways. And her attitude just sucks. Like she was on the phone the whole time. I was annoyed
@@Nediahn26 I watched it before it became viral, and I was like "what the hell is she doing typing and laughing on her phone whiles someone is giving you their time". I saw her recent interview with another host and she clearly sounded to know she was on the wrong, and she even omitted that "6 figure" criteria when she was listing her preferences
see the issue is she's primarily placing the blame on why her relationships are not working out is salary and not the dudes themselves, she immediately thinks anyone who makes less than her is "dating down" which is the worst fucking reason to view dating down in that regard, dating down is when you know someone has problems either emotionally or isnt what you'd normally want in another person so you're settling to see if you might be wrong and there might be more to them than what you're seeing initially, you should never set an income standard for dating period and only set standards for what you actually want in a relationship with another person, not how much income they bring in, salary has nothing to do with people being shit heads its the fact that sadly a good amount of people are just shit heads is why theyre shit heads
@@none1232 that's true but in her case, a six figure man would rather choose a 5 who works at starbucks, is younger, without a kid and a sketchy baby daddy.
@@none1232 I agree with you. It's not wrong to have a income standard. A broke spouse/partner is a red flag and a deal breaker. But on the other hand, partners (Men and women) who is money wise and not a living liability expenses is definitely a good catch.
These types of women: "I want a man who works hard and makes a lot money" man works hard and makes a lot of money These types of women: "I cheated because your always working, you don't spend time with me"
My husband and I aren't "on the same level" financially, but we push each other to be better. When we first met, he was making 40k on commission while I was making 20k as a teacher. Now, he's making 60k a year and getting ready to open a design firm, and I make 6 figures after opening a bakery. Just because we made lower wages didn't mean we weren't ambitious, and my husband actually was a huge help in getting my business off the ground. She sounds like she wants to be a bit of a gold digger
@@SuperFreshKiss Not at all. Mariah Carey blew her engagement to an Australian billionaire by BEHAVING like a gold digger, even though she was worth $300 million herself. Being a gold digger isn’t solely the domain of broke women. Picking a man SOLELY for his money and expecting access to HIS money is something rich women do as well.
You really hit the nail on the head which is that a lot of people equate money with being a good person and it really fucks with how people evaluate others. Sometimes I feel like I'm in some kid's cartoon that is teaching a lesson about greed and materialism because too many people do essentially say that having money make you a good person with no shame.
@@devilsadvocate7059 he said "you can't use 7" not "you have to rate yourself lower than 7"...he says this to everyone She called him on a non advice day and basically tried to fleece him for a free session He told her twice to book a session ...she deserved what she got...he told her the truth.. just because you don't like it does mean it's not truth
@@devilsadvocate7059 wealthy men have options ...middle aged baby mommas aren't at the top of that list.. it's a fact ...men in general aren't rushing to be stepfathers to teenagers...forget her looks. ..this is a fact whether you like it or not ..good night Also...he chose to use it as a teaching moment...she could have called in on the right day too...let's give her accountability too ...not just him
@ she disrespected him first and he was very patient .... If a black woman was telling a black man no holds barred truths...would you have a problem with it? Or would the narrative be "a real man could handle the truth"? There is no reason why men shouldn't be able to tell women harsh truths....women have been telling them to men since the day before the beginning of time
66% of America makes less than 50k single house hold and married. That’s 220,000,000 million people. Women need to do the math if they want to have specific standards. Thank good I’m married me and my girl watched the original and had a discussion throughout the whole video. The new generation is gonna have a very hard time because of social media.
@@beasthaven1571 Lol that's probably not a good idea. The standards for men providing for the household was much higher before this generation. Society would make a real mockery of you.
The thing is when men marry someoone making less, they would never consider it as marrying down . @2:13 It is only women who see careers as attractive on men, and men would get the same attraction toward women with careers. Absolutely up to the person to live how they want but it is good to keep things in perspective.
No , good looks attracts women,yes a woman might marry down in terms of looks if the guy is rich but that woman will torture that guy and most probably cheat on him or at least not have children with him,there is something called natural selection,it is in every woman’s d.n.a to try to have children with the best looking guy she can find,some call it love at first sight,others call it chemistry,others call it the spark,but looks matters to women exactly as much as it matters to men .
Its always a few who like to try and make feeble attempts to justify what was said with what was meant. For the females that responded to this man's comment, can you justify marrying down, because like he already stated NO MAN HAS EVER SAID HE'S MARRYING DOWN, knock it off. Its a preference thing. Whether it be toxic, or entanglement, or whatever language women use to justify a means, MARRYING DOWN seems to be big on they greedy ass list. Not my thing, but the same ones saying they're marrying down, hate when a black man marries someone who isn't black. Appreciating the position and feeling deserving is two different things. Don't bedwench nor oprah me ever period
You’ve never dated a wealthy man I take it. Plenty do consider it dating down and they don’t respect their wives the way they do women who are their financial and status equal. Some of the meaner ones will throw the income disparity in their lower earning partners face. Men think the same, it’s just more socially acceptable because of the different temperaments men and women tend to have.
Everyone is below average to someone. But I'm sure she can get a 100k + man. All she needs to do is join some business associations and surround herself with high earners..
I worked with a Hispanic lady in a tech job. She had a degree, was a supervisor, smart... Her husband (also Hispanic) had a gardening/landscaping business. They had a great relationship, a far as I could tell.
There's a difference with how some races value each other in their cultures. I think for us black folk we're in need a soft reset because we're measuring each other off standards we ourselves don't even apply into.
@@ExeErdna that's unfair to state about "us black people". As a black woman who has lived in Asia myself they are very hung up on men being providers and high earning. Even in NY where I grew up they are the wealthiest here. They want partners with the best jobs and who went to the best schools. Also keep in mind that they have the longest lasting marriages in the country. Even their dating apps list income. Same can be said for west African Immigrants in the US, high earning and low divorce rates as well. She is literally measuring her future partner based on standards she already has for herself. What is wrong with that?
@@colorfulcodes Maybe he did. There's a 99% chance that he didn't have as much education as she did though, so maybe she "married up" financially and "down" on education. Or maybe he was working for somebody else and making less than her when they married. Or he had the business and she was a student. It's just an example of a successful relationship where the woman didn't insist on "up" in every sense.
@@devin4613 Not really...I don't date Jewish men successfully (as in dating that leads to something serious), often because I'm not Jewish. That doesn't mean, I necessarily "look down on them". Your assumption points to binary thinking honestly.
@@paulcarmi8130 "shut the hell up"?! Are you 10 years old because these videos aren't for kids...who goes there in one response? Lol. But my initial point exactly... There really is no point engaging men who can't even read the room, culture, ppl other than themselves obviously. So why even WASTE. YOUR. TIME.
..thing is, Aba and Preach, whenever I visit your channel I always get so glued, loving your honest opinions on stuff, with such brilliant perspectives.
Thanks for your input guys. Much appreciated.
"AVERAGE AT BEST"
haha lmao
Godfather you’re changing the game that’s what we needed.
No Kevin THANK YOU brother, for preaching the truth and being a help to brothers all over. Don't change and keep doing what you do.
@Tam Possible Point being, girl NOT average
@Bold & Beautiful would love to see that debate!
She doesn't want advice, she wants validation of her beliefs.
Or a phone number of a guy’s that’s makes 6 figures but Kevin would never do that to men
Agreed the call was unnecessary
She definitely should’ve went on another platform not on his. she shouldn’t have been on that platform because that’s not a place for a woman for real. she need to be on the femininity channels They literally give the same advice and more that will actually work out for her benefit
A wise man once said
*"Validation is a drug"*
reminder they dont ask, they expect 👀😏
She came into the show expecting a Steve Harvey experience.
😂😂😂😂
😂🤣😂
Smh😂😂😂😂
Ong
And left with a Ice Cube clap back...
Thats why viral clips can be so dangerous. The clip makes it seem like he’s calling her average when in reality she rated herself as average and he was just repeating her own words back to her
This comment needs to be higher up, because if true it changes the entire dynamic of the situation. Context is everything.
@Zuriel Pita which is true, her facial features are whack bro
No he boxes them in and tells them they can't choose 8 or 9. So what's left? You do realize that's an abusive headgame right? Then he makes them go down to 7 or 6 with make up which leaves 5 without make up. That's the whole point. He put this woman's face out there to get a laugh so he can male $$$ off of men that enjoy bashing black women.
No. If she had said that she was a 10 he would have told her the same thing. He tells all women they're avg at best, on his other videos. He's problamatic.
@@jamesonthemap1768 she can't change her facial features bro
I would rather have unpleasant truth than comforting lies.
Agreed
Oooh! Truth! Like that quote!
Exactly, stop pandering to women!
Guys it’s better to be kind ( truthfulness in a kind way) than to be right.
@@christineawuor1835 Thats a good one too!
Using money as a measurement for success isn’t inherently wrong. It becomes a problem when people view money as the ONLY measurement for success and potential.
EDIT:
I get it now, you guys can stop blowing up my phone now lmao.
kinda surprised by the fact that men actually don't care about a woman's financial situation. I honestly thought you guys wanted that stereotypical strong and independent woman, but anyways, thanks for clarifying I guess.
@@gd.5528 u just like the chick in the video. You didn’t read a thing I said did you? So according to you, rich abusive men must not be a real thing right?
@@lazerarray8037 She didn't read anything.
@@gd.5528 Did it go wrong because of money though?
Nice pfp
One thing though: He never said she was ugly, he said she was average. Why do you guys or people in general conflate average with ugly? Ugly is ugly, average is average.
Lol she rate herself as average
i think she is below average
He said average at best so really he thinks she's below average
@@bcount1 now your just trolling
She’s really below average, take off the makeup, the wig/weave, she’s back down to a 4-3
She pulled out her phone when she was hurt, embarrassed, or insecure.
Yeah hard not to feel bad for her.
@@robbierude9833 I was like that the first few times, but I've grown to ignore it. It hard to ignore if you're not in these situations constantly.
Young girl behaviour
She wanted to do this live instead of booking a session, should’ve been ready for the smoke 💨.
Yup.
I think her looking at her phone constantly was almost a reflex to avoid the awkwardness she felt while he was being honest.
Thats wha I was thinking too. I also thought she may have been looking at the comments in the live chat on her phone.
To be fair, most men aren't that honest with women. Can't really blame her for feeling uncomfortable when she got a dose of some real shit she ain't used to.
Yes I was just gonna comment that
Oh yea for sure, her body language screamed insecurity and discomfort
Obviously lmao. That's s common tactic for people with anxiety.
In terms of body language, her going on her phone in the middle of the interview was probably a form of escapism. She didn't like how reality was unfolding, so she turned to her phone to escape into that "reality" instead. Just a gander.
No slow coach. He didn't tell her he was showing her live on air and she was shocked because he lied that he was the only one seeing her. His twiced divorced, absentee father behind is getting sued by a few women because he has a habit of recording them without their consent, even in public.
@@kayade5305 "no slow coach"? Wtf are you even saying?
@@kayade5305 She literally says within the first 2 minutes of the interview "this is the first time I'm catching you on Live". So, you're not only wrong, but also not too bright for believing that BS in the first place and running to the comment section "to set some men straight" without even watching the interview.
Better luck next time, slow coach.
Also, you can record people in public in most states, even majority of countries - no consent needed. Ever heard of paparazzi? Guess not.
Guess there's no integrity in anything you've said.
This is why nobody cares about your opinions
@@kayade5305 thank you and these comments that are praising this man is disgusting. I have never heard of another race of men cheering on men tearing their women down.
@@lb6902 look at you making it a race thing cause you wrong. Funny how you did not see the comments above yours
I personally believe being brutally honest holds so much more value than passiveness & consistent agreement.
Honesty without grace is brutality.
Don't go around killing everyone.
@@gtajunkie94 well what is she gonna change about her looks ? Plastic surgery ? Cuz he didn’t give any good criticism but her looks. If he gave her a good criticism and feedback on what she may be doing wrong I’ll get it but it’s just her looks... you can’t help with what you are born with... plus what’s wrong for her to want someone who earns the same amount as her ?
Passive people are the one that actually envy and spread fake news and shit about you
@@malibuice650 I'll take honesty without grace over a well spoken liar any day.
@@lindacarrasco7679 The fact she cares how much they make shows she doesn't want a real relationship , she wants a financial boost.
Irrelevant but...was anyone else mesmerized by the spinning thing he had in the corner👀
Always!
I swear it's the only thing that deserves attention when it's in the frame.
Its called a double pendulum i believe, you can get them for around 50 bucks here in the netherlands, dont know how expensive they are where you live. I believe they descibe a chaotic motion in physics. Though im no expert
@@hannahcarter4106 hahaha goodluck 👍
@Abby Phoenix okay?
To be fair, he wanted a disagreement and he did get one.
More denial than anything
lmao he sure did didn't he?
@@HasanPikerIsADouche Are those mutually exclusive?
🤣🤣🤣 true
Lmaoo
"it's disagreement day"
And she was disagreeing that it's disagreement day😂😂
That's women in a nutshell.
Disagreementception
so they agree? she know shes average at best
Ikr 🤣🤣🤣
I would’ve liked this comment but it’s already at 420 likes
They're called 'askholes'.
People who constantly want advice but then never use the advice.
If you have one in your life - shake them, quick.
Yup had friends and colleagues like this smh
Thanks for the new vocab! I am slightly annoyed because a “friend” just asked for my advice and turned around and did the exact opposite of what I said. I’ll avoid saying “I told you so” when she gets her rude awakening.
@@PyongProductionsXXI Yeah, it's just folks using you for free therapy.
And they're always a 'never ending stream of problems of their own making'.
Learned that the hard way
Forgot this term lol
The worst is when you have a friend who constantly complains about something, and when you try to give them advice, they give you a million excuses as to why all of your suggestions haven’t worked or won’t work.
Yes.
Im still that person, but to be fair: I be complaining about child trafficking, financial exploitation of the sick, and the overall rat race america is in. Not really something you can retort, but getting upset definitely won’t help the person.
And then they come back a week later and whine to you about the *same doggone problem*
@@JadetheGoober you just wanted to sound smart didn’t you? Tsk tsk
@@sandilesibanyoni2244 we’ll see how you feel about what i said when you’re old and can’t afford your medical treatment 🚶🏽♀️
She brought this on her self. And yes, men don't care about how much money a woman makes because we get minimal benefit from that in most cases
Exactly
I choose to only date girls who have jobs doesn't matter how much you earn just as long as you're not solely dependent on me and that when you do need me I know it's serious or an issue for both of us to handle
I wouldnt care but I dont want a woman who wants a man to take care of her by treating her like a baby.
@PBEs It doesn't matter. The majority of Guys don't go in the relationship for money or financial support. The majority of women go in relationships for money and financial support and try to call it 'security' until you ask them to break what they mean by it. Men grow up to be providers. Women grow up to be the provided. One gives and the other takes.
@PBEs if a woman is in major debt, you marry her, her debt becomes your debt. Don't do it.
She's confusing business transactions with romantic relationships.
deserves more likes.
Marriage is a business transaction, so she has the right mindset. Love is only temporary.
@@YouLose not for everybody
@@jadiahavala4656 You are right, love is not for everyone.
@@YouLose clearly in your world marriage is a business transaction. But that’s not everyone’s reality. There is a balance, the in between that exists between the love and the transactions too. Good luck searching!
She really needed a reality check. Sadly, she still wasn't listening. Bless her heart.
I got the reality check men are superficial and get what they deserve I don't want or need one and I know I'm not the only.
@@tarrahbul women are just as superficial. Mating is superficial. Was it not superficial for this woman to say she doesn’t want to date any man that is not making 6 figures? Instantly dismissing 80% of the population of men solely because of their salary?
@@Lhoyte1 no its not superficial. It's societal norms. Most women do not want to be with a man who makes less. Most men don't want to be with a woman who makes substantially more than them.
@@Michelle_McKenzie I agree with your comment; it's not superficial. Also, most men don't want to be with a W that can't speak eloquently, can't pronounce words, had a kid out of wedlock, and ...3/10 face.
"When everyone lies, telling the truth isn't just rebellion. It's an act of revolution"
That's why this clip got viral
Bars
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Ooof...Volume please!
She doesn't want a guy she looks down on, but she wants a guy that probably looks down on her. Sad
At this point shes got the whole damn internet to choose from then 😂
@@puremaledark8305 you damn right, she aint shit
Thats for 95%the case
Ummm that’s what women desire. 🤔
Hypergamy... 🧐
Great way of putting it
He asked her what’s wrong with a regular guy, she sees herself as above a regular guy and that’s what made him finish her off. It’s ok for her to not want an average guy, but it’s not ok for a man to not want an average woman.
She also explained that she dated "average" guys and they was trying to be "business" partners with her, thus her wanting someone her equal or higher.
This is comedy, if she get with someone making more than her she states she could help with his business. Okkayyy
@@dchristian1021 bruh... lots of double standards with most women...
Never once did she say she did want a average LOOKING guy. She clearly stated she wanted a man that matches her finances what is wrong with that? Please do tell
She didn’t say she didn’t want a average looking guy
"Ambition and money are not necessarily linked." Amen. Music to my ears. Plus what does falling in love have to do with money or ambition.
Most women, at least after age 25, tend to want money and/or ambition in their mate. Because he can then better provide for her and their children, and even allow her to stay at home with them if she wants.
Also, ambition is generally tied to success, which is generally tied to money. There are exceptions, but most women just don't want a guy who's lazy and unproductive. Which is understandable.
Everything
Colleen anne, so according to you what's make you falling in love?, lust?
@@c4test idk maybe personality? How they make them feel etc. People like you only worry solely on the financial benefits of a relationship like that’s the only thing you need to worry about which is why shit won’t work out for u
@@c4test Falling in love with someone because they're wealthy isn't falling in love with a person, you're falling in love with their money, and how their success benefits you. That's not love, that's narcissistic.
"I don't want a man who comes up in my business and asks me how to help."
"I want to help a rich man in his business."
How do these girls have zero self awareness? This is comical.
how they have a business that still runs. I want your best stuff oh ya but I'm only gunna pay what I paid last supplier. If you wanna move up in the big leagues she gotta step her game up. We not changing difficulty. And the whole scrolling on her phone I get it shes awkward she needs more class. Honestly she needs to fail hard cuz she got everything backwards.
how can you she be so clueless and dumb and still be rich she must kf just been given a business. She certainly never worked in customer service. All uppity thats exactly how she gon be treated by men. Exactly like she some petulant child
They don't have self awareness. They have dollar signs flashing in front of their eyes.
I'm sorry, I don't understand how an average or below average man who has never run a business offering assistance and a successful business owner offering her assistance is the same thing. It may sound the same but we all know it's not.
@@Ash-fz9po You don't get it. It's the blatant hypocrisy. She doesn't see the irony of rejecting a man "beneath" her for the same reason that she seeks a man "above" her.
If the roles were reversed, everybody that got mad at KS would be like "damn he ain't no real man because he can't handle the truth"
Exactly
There was a clip of him telling a man that he is fat and doesn't have a big dick. That was wild and no one was mad.
@@leehalloway8787 of course not, they don't get mad when you tell men "the truth" but with women, you gotta tell pretty lies smh
@Carter Atwell right, "I know this isn't the right time but I'm special"
That's right women can't take accountability, of their own actions and will blame men for all their problems when in reality they're the ones that cause the problems in the first place. Like he said this lady is going to die alone she's going to be one of those old cat ladies that ain't going to never have nobody because she's a 3 at best!!. And that's what I rate her because of her attitude.
So we are told that physical sex differences should not be a thing these days, but so many women can't/won't respect a man that earns less, won't date a man that is not a few inches taller than them, is not a "real man" etc. And they have no problem very forthrightly telling men what their shortcomings are, but react extremely negatively to any objective input - including a whole bunch of shaming tactics. Men tend to be judged by success and women by genetics, this woman is judging herself the way that she would judge a man - a most basic mistake.
Meaning you shouldn’t judge someone for living life the way they want to live and expressing themselves how they see fit. However that doesn’t mean you need to intertwine your life with theirs.
@streetside121
Not black womens.
Cuz shes a femcel
Women in the West are put on a pedestal. They are assumed virtuous by nature and to dare think otherwise is misogynistic. Just look at your court system.
- My two cents as someone who once lived the non-Western world.
@@user-pd9ju5dk5s I’ve been told numerous times that Judges in the UK court system open say “if you were a man, I would have sent you to jail” but she’s a woman and she gets a suspended sentence or community service. It’s all nonsense - they want equality in the better things but not everything.
1: Not everyone's an 'entrepreneur'. Not everyone has that mentality. Sometimes people watch youtube videos and get sold into a bill of goods that isn't realistic.
2: I dislike the term 'dating down'. It's arrogant and often lacks self reflection and humility.
Dating down isn't about "arrogance or issues with humility". Most people go out and hope for the best in job, education, living environment, and of course dating/mating selection. If you can tell the difference between the "hood" or a "ghetto" from an upper-middle-class neighborhood is it really because you're arrogant? No, it's because one environment feels unsafe/dangerous, filthy, desperate, despair where the other shows safety, hope, cleanliness, and opportunity. The same applies to people in the dating world based on (LMS)= Looks, Money, Status settings. Everything isn't a civil rights movement.
A lot of Instagram entrepreneurs have a shitty profitless business that they are proud of and that aint even goals.
Well stated!
I know some great people who just wanna get away from all bullcrap and live in a village by choice. It’s not all about entrepreneurship and how much you make. Some very intelectual amazing people just wanna enjoy life instead of chasing the carrot on a stick.
@@mbloom2275 you live in a delusion. Some people just are happy living in a village without the bulls crap of city life and chasing money. And it doesn’t mean they have a lesser status or they are less they may even be intellectuals or scientists or novelists taking a break or pursuing a more meaningful way of life
She has to get honest with herself. Because its sounds like she dont even want herself, sometimes women think a man can make them feel better about themselves. When in actuality we have to be honest within ourselves and drop the script of" if I get the perfect guy that makes a lot of money then I will be happy" no man wants to be apart of that script. Especially with a kid, that's jail time.
In another interview she actually rates herself a ten. She said there was a part of the conversation missing where on the scale he rated Beyoncé an 8. She's quite confident but doesn't like confrontation.
@@rasins28 yeah but self worth doesn't come from saying what number you are, it comes from within. She came across as a person who is seeking validation from other people. If she somehow had this self confidence about herself. It wouldn't matter whether a guy makes six figures or not because at the end of the day it's not about the money. But she made it about the money. Thus this reaction.
@@Nathea13 i agree
@@rasins28
Confident unless theres confrontation. Yep. To paraphrase Mike Tyson - Everybody has a plan until they (metaphorically) get punched in the face.
I actually think she was trying to say she didn't want a guy who was just going to sponge off of her. She's not the best at communication, but I believe that was her intent.
People really have notifications on to dislike. Weirdos.
Right 🤦🏾♂️
One person 🤣
They're dedicated I'll give them that
😂😂😂 hate watching is real
Dude its not because you subscribe to aba and preach that you have to agree and like all their videos, idk if someone wanted to watch a different type of content or didn't like this content in particular. Dont be so mad lol
I can’t say I relate with her whole situation, but have felt “wth is wrong with me?” rut that we can tend to fall into. That’s when I learned I needed to be alone. Turned into being single for years, but that’s what I needed. Too many people looking for someone to complete them, when you need to be whole on your own
@Inkosi-Inathi Memani it’s honestly better late than never. Welcome to the club lol
💜 YES! YOU GET IT ☺ WE ALL NEED TO LEARN TO LOVE OURSELVES BEFORE WE CAN FIND SOMEONE TO LOVE & FULFILL US. ALSO, PEOPLE NEED TO KNOW THAT IT'S OKAY TO BE ALONE. BETTER THAT THAN SETTLE. BE AT PEACE WITH YOURSELF ☺🙏💜💜💜
@@katymcginn4644 agreed!!! Self love is the best love. People have a hard time being alone and settle. Doing the inner work spiritually and being whole content alone before entering a healthy relationship first is best. No one completes you. You're whole on your own.
If you're unhappy when you're single you will be miserable when married.
Yes, he has helped me to reevaluate myself.
It actually makes me sad that so many people equate ambition to career success. I swear the happiest people I know have job and not careers.
Well, ambition usually means career success. Unless you're somehow successfully changing the world in other ways.
I think the problem is that many women are fixated on financial success. That makes men similarly focused.
@Rusty Howe me too. I have a very VERY low paying job for the impact it has. I will never have financial success. But I impact the world.
However, my ambitions are to be a better scrapbooked. To be there for my friends. To be the type of person to not make others feel bad for their likes/dislikes/opinions. By definition ambition is just working hard towards something.
Work will always be a necessity I have, something I’m forced to do. My happiness and ambitions lay elsewhere.
I have a job. My bills are paid and my kids are taken care of. I don’t have to work 50-70 hours a week to do that either. I’ve been approached many times to advance and I won’t do it because it’s not worth it. People have talked shit to me and I have no regrets.
There is a story about a guy who owned a boat in Thailand & rented it to give rides trhough a canal or something to tourists. When not working dude was usually seen layin down relaxin.
One day a traveler who had seen him previously went to him & told him with all good intentions he could help him buy another boat & help him set up a bigger buisness wiht offices & employees so he could grow & have more boats & chill out with more money cause renting boats in Thailand was a very good business niche.
He simply said,no thank you Im not intereseted , Im fine with having few clients & chillin out.
That dude was happy with that & its perfectly fine & respectable but this american illimunati crap is brainwashing people's brains into getting super obsessed not only with money but with having a succesful career, of doind "something" & that is fucked up . What if you just wanna chill in the woods.
A millionaire will date an attractive server or cashier. Women don’t even look at men at the cash register or busboys. We want different things in general
Yes! And I'm tired of men and women arguing because of wanting different things. No one is right or wrong.
*See Tomi Lahren shitting on the barista and being shocked men don't care about her money or career in her famous "Value, value" video.
@@Rocky-hr4pg so how is she wrong? Men are allowed to have their preferences but not women? Somehow their reasons are valid but she needs to know her place
OK but what if the woman is good looking but has a crappy attitude or is a b*tch. Would he consider a nice natured average looking woman over a good looking b*tch? Interested to hear men's perspective
@@bg6358 he would skip em both and look for a hot girl.
Let me sum this up for y'all: Women get the man they can attract. Men get the women they can afford.
Bingo!!!!!
And she isn't very attractive honestly and she is wearing makeup. I seen her in another video where she looks worse and older...
@@ish562 Where your pic at?
@@none1232 what's your point he isnt wrong
@@none1232 yeah calling in his attractiveness doesn’t make his point wrong, especially after you just agreed with the initial premise.
When Aba wears the stripes it's going to be FIRE!
Looking like he ran out of Auschwitz
@@alexmason8557 😤😂
@@alexmason8557 dat boi in the striped pajamas
@@alexmason8557 😂😂😂
@@alexmason8557 nah he ran out of the gulag smh
I'm Dutch and it's often said we're Blunt, rude people. Honesty isn't always appreciated I guess, but I'd rather have that than people sugarcoting everything.
yes nederlands,ik woon ook in nl
Hey fellow dutchie :D
@@Tozzie50 dag waarde medelander 😉
Im not a dutch but I am with you, I'd rather have people telling me the problems about myself in a manner that is direct to the point, cause not only is it time efficient but it's also honest and you know how bad the problems are, and to my friends that's the guy who I try to be, if theres a problem I say to their faces, it doesnt matter if their stronger, bigger or smarter, im still going to tell it to their faces, cause at the end of the day, what I want is for them to find solutions to their problems and improve as a human being.
Sounds like I need to join the Dutch people
Never ask a question you don't want the answer to, end of story.
My number motto in life.
It's actually difficult to get an honest answer from someone generally.
Which kind of adds insult to injury
@@akasickform Not if you asking me, but yeah I know what you're saying.
@@QwyattStorm I Agree.
I'm the same.
Telling the truth no matter what would land a lot of people in jail and would cause a lot of pain that just wouldn't be good
there is nothing wrong being average....most ppl are average! just wanted to say that!
To women it's a huge insult.
@@D3vious38 I'm a woman and I didn't take it as an insult so when everybody made a big deal out of it...I was just confused!
@@rg1683 Good! It means you're actually sane. My generation (Millenials) think we're entitled to the best. Men & women but women specially thanks 2 social media. Evry1 thinks "I'm a 5 but my personality is 10 so I need to date a 10"
@@D3vious38 it all so depends...the women around me doesn’t even have social media and live irl...many men and women live in this imaginary bubble of social media but there is a lot more ppl who just live in reality and they don’t make a sound so you rarely hear of them!
Thats actually what average means... most people are average. If most people looked good, most people would be average. You would have to be a god to be good looking then
The phone thing was rude but I saw it as a defense mechanism because her ego was bruised and she look like she was going to cry half way.
I watched that entire video and tbh I felt sorry for her at some points and at other points I started to question if she likes to be shamed because there is no way I would of even continued going after he pointed out that this is not what the segment is about. When she was persisting I remember him saying ok "let me make an example out of you". How are you going to hear words like that and not see that you are setting yourself up?
@Marc Alexander dang chill I didn’t know
@@0O0.0O0ycyfyxtcjbivtxt she stayed because she wanted help. She knows how the show is.
@@hawkeyemihawkgettingmoneylord no, she stayed because she felt entitled to help. She knows what the show is yet chose to take over a segment dedicated to something completely different. She claims she's a fan of his show, so she knows there's a time and place. He also advised her that the conversation would be better in a private session yet she continued to insists for advice. This wasn't some life or death situation. She should of realized she was already on thin ice and accept his offer for a private session and end the call, regardless of if she chose to follow through
@@0O0.0O0ycyfyxtcjbivtxt strange i don't agree with your first comment but somehow agree with everything you said in the your second one I think were on the same page you saying she felt entitled for help is a good way to put it.
Everyone’s listening to what he’s saying... I’m just mesmerised by his spinny machine thing on the side.
Seriously, what is that thing? I need!!!
Dude fr. Everytime.
@@psychcjs I think it's driven by magnets. But it could also be meant to hypnotize the viewer.
Me to! It was a perpetual motion machine?
@@rationalthought9979 tf
Should have ended the call with her as soon as she started looking at her phone.
She was embarrassed af. I do that when I’m shy lol this was so hard to watch 😭
@@heyyahhh655 I've not seen the whole original video but he should have pulled her up on it to bring awareness. Everyone deserves a second chance to be fair. 😅 If she did it again then I would hang up
She pulled out her phone because she was embarrassed and she didn't want to look like she was giving his words credibility, by paying attention to them. Talk about uncomfortable to watch lol 🥴
Thank you. She was not being disrespectful. She was embarrassed because he was being ruthless. He's horrible actually. He just wanted to prove a point.
@@lungilezungu9843 he was being truthful and not horrible this will prolly help her in the in the long run
@@picklerickv2428 but, his tone was uncalled for
I hate when women excuse other women’s ignorance and behavior.
Using your phone while someone is talking to you is down right disrespectful. There are no excuses for that it's just down right rude. She asked for his time, he gave it and if she did not like everything he said the women could have taking some aspects to reflect on.
"only 60 grand a year"
Well I didn't plan on feeling good today anyway
"you can't say 7" is actually the wisest thing i've heard about the 10 point scale
He shut that shit down quick lmao 🤣
Too many people call themselves 7’s because it’s not ugly and not too beautiful. It’s like saying “I’m no model but I’m hot”
@Gucci Pane PTSD? Bruh she called during a different segment to HIS SHOW & she redirected hiissss show because SHE wanted to talk about something different. Thats first... she set the precedent for rudeness especiallyyyy this man acquiesced to her request & she wasnt actively listening to what he had to say & was rudely looking at her phone. Fukk her. He wasnt even terrible to her he tried to help her & gave her straight forward advice. Advice that can help you will sometimes hurt your feelings but irs necessary for a desired outcome; otherwise stfu & do what you were gonna do in the first place.
@Gucci Pane you are entitled to your opinion but how you intake the life experience you have is your own business, not anyone elses. I cannot control how you internalize what i am telling you. He chose to speak to her in a way & thats his choice, how she interprets, internalizes & feels about it is her responsibility. The saying "be careful what you ask for" comes to mind; sometimes we want things without thinking about everything that comes with it.
@Gucci Pane i follow & subscribe to Kevin Samuels & he mirrors the energy he receives. He has had guests he doesnt agree with but the energy is adult-like & pleasant. Ive seen he absolutely eviscerate cringey males for not comprehending obvious facts & trying to dismiss facts into opinions. He is pretty straight forward, he says how he feels, & most ppl cannot handle honestly looking into the mirror. Also you are assuming this video had a negative impact on this young woman's life; what if because of this video, a man who was attracted to her & fit what she was looking for decided to pursue her? What if she got her happily ever after cuz of what Kevin Samuels said to her going viral? I will agree that ppl with platforms should be very mindful of their influence & act responsibly with respect to it, but your angle is very presumptuous.
Just because you don’t eat a lion doesn’t mean the lion won’t eat you.
bro I love this saying! lol
Just cuz YOU won't cheat.....don't mean THEY won't haha amen!
I don't follow
Another great preach quote
@@xinpingdonohoe3978 I'm trying to connect it to the video as well
Edit: after watching it in its entirety, preach uses the saying to make a point.
These guys really are the kings of the reaction video genre. Rather than just pulling faces and pretending to be shocked or amused they give detailed input and honest, intelligent opinions and being up great questions.
LMAO exactly!!! Thank you
And I hate those type of reaction channels.
How, her own hypocrisy is astounding.. "when I meet men like that they just want to get in on my business." ..and what do you bring to the table with a high earning man? "I can help him with his business." 🤔 😂 like what?
I swear I was looking sideways when she said that. Lol!!!
She makes 6 figures so she wants a man who brings 6 figures to the table.
@@TheWhiteCloud2000 nothing wrong with that. But she still was a hypocrite.
@@deshadriancampbell7173 how?
@@TheWhiteCloud2000 because she wants to help someone with their business but doesn't want help with hers.
He didn't cheapen himself, because his channel blew up after this segment.
- True 🤷♂️🤣👍!
Yep. I didn't know him but even my wife agrees 100% with him.
I mean, that was just the aftermath, at the beginning he did cheapen himself by allowing someone to intrude in his time and make it all about them free of charge.
@@erickheredia8910 Same. I didn't know of him until this clip went viral
@@thelastmanstanding3369 I disagree, he stated at the beginning that he would use it as a teaching moment.
To translate through all the boss babe bs, she might be trying to say she is tired of being used. So she wants someone to make the same so she will feel that they aren't with her for money.
Exactly.
Not used, it’s a social structure she feels this way because of society, there’s no bad in winning more then your partner just that for women to win more then a guy is socially and mentally wrong to them in a whole, the only women that I know that would date down would be sugar mamas having multiple guys young of age and attractive and just buy them stuff also calling them “Cubs” ... the world is fucked how it is until we actually view equality between personality and social standards
@@johnochoa3577 👏👏👏.... the world will be so much better if we didn't care about this stuff...
There is plenty of ways to say that, she says what she thinks. When she show that she respect money not person, don't deffend her, she is not evil she is dumb. My coworker is like this, and he love to show how much money he earn to pick up chick. Some day carma can hit her hard and she will find guy like him, and then he will show her how good it fell to be poorer in money focus relationship.
But she said one of the things she could bring to the table was to help grow their business and then she said she didn't like the men asking her to join her business or how they could get into it. I can understand her probably feeling used at times, but i don't think she's going to find alot of men around her age making as much money as she is asking for. For some people income might matter but i don't think it should be a deciding factor.
I think there’s a lot of toxic mentality around the reasons why we choose our partners and then these kind of things happen. It’s weird.
Well it starts with "I'm dating down/up" mentality. How to you dating up or down if you both are looking for a partner?
@@Hitoshura9999 Very good point! I think that wording is offensive and it fuels why men come off as harsh to women who talk like that. 🤔
I get what she’s saying. It’s her experience that there is a correlation with guys making less money having insufficient ambition. It doesn’t mean all guys making less are like this, but it’s her experience.
"Search crap, find crap" you know the saying
She’s right. The only problem I see is her going to a person like him seeking validation. Nobody bats an eye when an average white woman sets those expectations and brings no financial security of her own to the table. For some reason black (especially dark skinned) women are viewed as setting the bar too high when it comes to this.
mrsushicut enlighten me 🧐
ViNita Long black women need to be hungry for what they want and do what it takes to eat. This female here shouldn’t settle for less than what she is looking for, but Kevin was just saying it’s going to be difficult (I wouldn’t have put it to her that way, but encouraged her to find a good church body to join). I personally agree with the American ideal “life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.”
@@kashfortheking beautifully said sir
I noticed the qualities she doesn't like in men, are the ones she considers good qualities in herself
People only hear the "harsh words", but when she said that she respects men for the amount of money they make... then everybody is deaf. Come on people, come on!
She said she wants a man who makes as much as her because she makes six figures and in the past the men she dated tried to take advantage of her... So idk what you’re hearing.
@@MayaParris How did the try to take advantage of her? Because they wanted to join in on her business? Isn’t that what she said she wants to do with other men who make six figures?
@@Dept-of-Agriculture Exactly 💯
@@MayaParris leave it to women like you to not see the double standard!
@@soundwavesuperior6761
I've never heard of that rule!!
Very RIDICULOUS RULE I must say .
SMH....
He tells all his callers that they need to be visible. Plus she was dressed, not casually, but dressed. She knew she was possibly in video
Possibly is not a guarantee
@@mangastar234 neither way is guaranteed, so possibly justifies both scenarios cause it's just was possible that she didn't, but she sure was looking into the camera several times during the interview as if she did know. When she didn't hear something, she would straighten up and lean on closer while viewing the screen. I could be wrong, but so could the original theory presented.
@@blaquejaque9702
She knew she was going to be video chatting him but that doesn’t mean she knew he would post it.
@WearYourNatural
She wasn’t
According to her, she did not know she was on camera. He never informed her there was an audience.
Isn't she a regular, but called on the wrong day?
Asking for advice for free (which she could pay for..making 6 figs herself) got upset with the honest facts and started playing with her phone...but they only look at his tone with her...make it make sense?
That's because most of these clowns didn't watch the whole video.
It's like everything else picking and choosing what they want to shout about next within a situation
Exactlyyyyy!!! 👏🏽👏🏽
He didn’t give any advice. He basically told her she wasn’t cute and to give up hope. Where’s the advice on what to do to remedy the situation? Nonexistent.
@@smartG1123 That's Liberal Media for ya and that's why all these idiots are up in arms foaming at the mouth
I think she pulled out her phone, so that she doesn’t cry. She pulled it out at every insult.
Even though that's still disrespectful for anybody.
Yea it was something to distract her. I don’t think it was too rude. Her feelings were hurt. What would they have done if she lashed out at them instead?? Let her have the dang phone, she ain’t hurting nobody
I think she is beautiful but that’s just my opinion
That one dislike is AVERAGE AT BEST.
this the one
Comment of the day😄😄😄
She labeled herself average lol
🤣👏🏾
Below average*
The outrage directed at that man is rooted in the fact that women aren't treated like men. Women, as well as society, are not used to hear and see women being addressed very frankly. Meaning, it is socially accepted and 'standard procedure' to tell a man that he is not tall or rich enough for this or that women. You can see that around you in your daily lives, you will hear and will have heard it in shows were men told they are this or that, you will see it in movies etc. etc. I doubt that many women could take being a man because you do not get any privilege as a man, no sugar coating. Ppl will be very blunt and treat you like somebody that can 'take it'. Most women would have a crude awakening if they ever experienced that and the women that do experience it immediately cry in outrage. This is just another example of that.
This clip reminded me of that old bachelorette who said “How can you talk like a woman like that.” When the guy was like “it was concerning and immature to have guys do strip dodgeball. It was appalling and you need to set a better example if you a really want a good husband.”
@J. Porter and women are salty because they all want top shelf but refuse to believe they aren’t top shelf in looks themself.
@J. Porter I agree to a degree I think women’s are slightly more unrealistic as 80% of women seem to expect a six figure guy and about half of guys expect a 9 or 10 in looks for marrying. These are both unrealistic for 90% of the population.
Bruh totally agree! Although I am a women and have grown up with lots of guy friends, they do tease me the same and it's built in this resilience in me but it's not exact - I don't think I could ever handle exact 😂 And I have learnt my lesson time and time again, women get passive aggressive when you try that shit on them 😂
🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 Everything you said 🙌🙌🙌
But she makes 6 figures why can’t she pay for a session.
Or the session would be useless As her attitude is terrible and Kevin is a no nonsense person so It is like trying to train a cat to do tricks
She's lying about her income
If you pay for a session with Kevin Samuels you’re a buffoon lol. It was dumb enough that she went on for free.
Exactly
Modern woman with her money but traditional woman with his money.
I'm a black woman who originally became emotional after seeing this clip. However I now realize that Kevin was right! She's ridiculous 🙄
Your profil pic and name is of a man 🤨
@@Astropeleki don’t ask questions you won’t get answers
@@Astropeleki Abel Tesfaye is The Weeknd
@@Astropeleki Do you know what fan accounts are?😂😂😂
@@Mxtiive 😂😂😂trollolololol
“Men always try to join my business”
*not even 5 seconds later*
“I can help him with his business”
Women like finish product
Not the same. One is a user trying to pimp a woman out the other is an equal trying to help out their equal.
@@mbloom2275 how do you know?
@@mbloom2275 get the fuck outta here 🤣
@@mbloom2275 you blew it...
She makes good coin, doesn't seem too crazy, and is average looking. A single dad with a roofing business could do worse.
Exactly. Anyone who wanted to help her would have given her that advice. In my 20's I used to work in a concierge medical practice with middle-aged upper-class/rich men all day and they were married to or dated average/mildly attractive women near their age.
@@CiaoColeG She has a kid. I'm not sure how many of them want to play stepdaddy.
@@ahoneyman I'm on a dating site and I see so many men with kids who put in their profile that they would happily accept another woman's kids. Her options are limited, but she would do well with 40+ year old, divorced guys with kids who are in a similar tax bracket as her. I've seen it multiple times.
@@CiaoColeG exactly I think people are looking at the lenses of how they would take her. Obviously if your a 6 figure man with no kids why would marry a single mom? But now a divorced man with kids might consider her.
@JS Bennington well said dude. Why is it so hard for woman to understand. In their prime their going for too tier men. Those men left behind and not giving a chance focused on career and made something of theirselves. Now they get the younger hotter woman with no baggage that wants a top tier man. How is this hard to understand
"Truth is treason in the empire of lies" Ron Paul
Ron Paul is awesome
@@soupisthebestrolemodel2070 yes he is.
His son isn't too bad either. Needs to fix the hair though.
@@danh5810 Rand is also very cool
Women: 'Dating down' with men is based on money.
Men: 'Dating down' with women is based on how many baby daddy's she got.
Bingo
🙂I rather dye alone than dating down to single mom. Kid you not. Nice comment bye the way
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@@bachataintimate3726 bruh, if she aint gonna listen to ya....
I'll meet ya at the bar 🤣👌🏻🍸
Damn, rate yourself from 1-10 you cannot use 7. That’s possibly the most interesting thing I’ve heard today just because it forces you out of safe zones and demands that you either be brutally honest or blatantly lie. Theres no room for ambiguity or any grey areas.
Just curious, why cant she use 7? I want to know from men perspective how men rate women. Imo, i think she looks fine
@@c4test it wasn't about how men rate women. KS told her not to use 7, because a lot of women tell themselves 7, because they don't want to believe they're average, but they know they can't say 8-9-10. KS was basically getting her to admit to herself that she's average.
@@AbcAbc-sp1od isn't the average 5? And the conventionally attractive people 6?
@@vasiliuu3461 5 is average but, i would say average is 4-6 but most people would want to be on the higher scale of average so they say 6, 5 is kinda insulting to people cuz 1-3 is unattractive, 7-9 is attractive (no ones a 10), but if i tell someone there anything but attractive (7 and above), even if ur using numbers, it kinda sounds like ur saying they are the opposite(unattractive), so anything other than 7 and above is insulting meaning 5 is no longer average, 6 and 7 are.
Idk....only because I ACTUALLY see myself as a 7, not as a "safe zone", but as a brutally honest assessment of myself. At my best, maybe a 7.5, at my worst, maybe a 6.5
I like how her biggest pet peeve is men wanting to get involved in her business but what she brings to a relationship is help with his business
You ma’am are one of the few that can point out some key illogical points. I hope you strive for greatness in life and obtain it.
You wouldn’t want some grown man wanting to help run your empire when you built it yourself. That’s more of a feminine thing.
@@naydd9459 I ask my s.o for advice and hes helped me out before when I had too much work he has no interest in being a part of my business hes got his own job. BUT I wouldnt look for someone above my income bracket and then suggest I could help him run his business that's his
Edit: Also my best advice has come from more experienced male independent contractors
@Just 2merky Her business is her ”empire”. That's what I’m referring to. You guys sound low key jealous. How the hell do you know about her business?
@@ashleigh9659 okay that’s you.
I wish people would stop forgetting the fact that she rated herself a "5"
Right lol🙄🤣
He said don't use 7 or 6 so thats not even fair for you to say
@@misshonda947 lol so why didn't she choose 8.
He's know that most girls choose 7, it's a safe number to choose.
miss honda She's a friggen 4. get a grip
@@berrymckockiner5883 most people dont think like that especially when theyre on the spot. I know i didnt think of it.
"You will die alone" dude even people in my 600 lb life have partners that was fucked up
Exactly. And their S/O literally hose their a$$ on the back porch if needed. KS is just bitter af😩
@@notanotherone5564 lmaooo right bitter ass lemon
And are those type of guys 6 figure earners...no...so she doesn’t want 90% of the men in the world...only the 10 percent that make six figures...hell she didn’t even want a man that would invest in her ideas and expand her business...so she will die alone...🙄
She not looking for someone in that category that's why he said she'll die alone if she dont change her mind set
@@symonemoore6147 Y’all don’t even make 6 figures or frequent circles of people who do... yet you insist on speaking for us why? Tell me, I’d luv to know 👀🍿
I must be average at best.
I'm comfortable with dying alone.
We all die alone.
Mmmm that hurts , but hey it's true right ?
If i dont die together with my so i be killing myself so we die together
@@mars9399 hope you're not thinking abt doing it , have a nice day !
@@sidewinder9258 dont worry, just my version of love.
@@mars9399 okay , cool ! Cheers anyway
Women ask your advice not to get advice. They want their opinion on a deeper voice.
🤯🤯🤯
Facts
In my personal experience, men are the same. I think if an individual truly doesn’t value their personal growth and truth then that’s the outcome
Hahaha. Yes.
😳 light but heavy
Honestly being almost 30 now I’ve noticed this for a long time that women love to be blunt towards men about there looks ESPECIALLY if they have any source of arrogance about them but cannot stand having the same done towards them. This is nothing new. In most modern women today it’s practically illegal for a man to say anything about a woman’s looks no matter how arrogant or obnoxious she is.
Ok, so how does that apply to her? She never brought up his looks.
@@gd.5528 I think OP was referring to the people bashing the guy in the clip over him repeating her words of "average at best"
Sssshhhhhhhhhhheeeeeeeeeit! They all want honesty til they get it unfiltered. Delusional is an understatement.
Notice women have so many expectations of what they want in a man. Men's expectations are minimal at best. Most men just want loyalty and intimacy to be satisfied.
@@gd.5528 actually watch the original video dummy.
Problem is here:
She is more focus on the financial part of a man than the personal qualities of a man.
She has to be honest with herself.
She doesn't look for a man, she looks for financial security + a man with it.
She puts more respect into the papers than what she can share with her future partner, to lift them up together.
That's majority of women these days sadly
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She’s dated men who made less. It still didn’t work out. What’s wrong with her wanting her equal
@@m.d594 so the problem is still the money?
The men she dated who made less than her probably grew to resent her and she probably got tired of being the breadwinner in order to maintain her lifestyle.
It’s stressful for women to be the main provider! I definitely don’t want to be that. I personally want my man to be the leader of our household and for me to be able to be a supporter. So I can focus more on home life, family, my health and keeping myself up! I can’t imagine doing all of that AND feel like I’m supporting my man!!!???
Nah... no thanks.
People saying “oh she wasn’t being rude she was embarrassed “ because she had her phone . If that’s the case she should have ended the call because she was being rude . He’s talking to her and she’s not listening while on her phone . That’s rude asf
U right...she cud have hung up
I heard her say she's writing notes from what I remember?
I set up rules with my friends for venting.
They can tell me they're venting, but if that feels too awkward, this is how I operate.
You say "I just feel..." or anything like that, I'll listen. I'll listen for hours, and have.
You end something with a "?", and you get my opinion.
Don't want to follow those guidelines? Don't vent at me.
Cut down on time wasters, and lead to some real conversations with friends as they found themselves venting more effectively, because they weren't wondering if I was going to jump in or listen. They knew how I was going to act.
You've unlocked 50% of human interactions right there my friend, well done.
Wow! This is some high emotional intelligence and interpersonal skills right here. I love healthy boundaries. I’m going to be implementing this in my own relationships.
Give me some tips on how to do this I want to try it so if they want us to talk they need to send a ? What if its in person?
Notice when she’s dating a guy that makes less than her, she’s “dating down“. However, when she’s dating a guy that’s making more money than her, this is an equally beneficial relationship.
Can someone make it make sense?
Yes women typically do more outside the financial realm so if the man doesn’t go out of his way to compensate it feels like you’re pulling most of the weight.
When women are in ltrs or marriages with men that make less they still do the bulk of the childcare and home care if not all of it. If the man took this on then many women wouldn’t feel like they’re losing out in this situation. When the man makes more women no longer care because his finances make up for his lack of non financial contributions.
Also this may sound harsh to say but men are a liability for women if you’re not careful. So you either need a guy who makes more money or one who puts in a lot of relationship work outside of finances. Since many men consider the latter to be “simping” these days women are left with the former.
Ask a woman
I'm still waiting on a comment, any answer will do. I'll wait.
She sees income as an attractive quality. Most men dont see a woman's income as a make or break deal.
@@mr.grimms4645
In 2020 they definitely do.
Getting a woman who makes more isn't ever worth it because
a) They are stingy as hell
b) If they spend on you they don't do it out of the goodness of their heart, it's almost always a relationship bargaining tool. You know you gotta earn that money somehow. You've never seen anything more bitter than a woman who don't feel she got her money's worth.
c) Be sure her friends do not respect you no matter how much of a "good" man you are.
Only really worth it for the submissive type. Whereas a woman can be strong and dominant in a household even if she doesn't bring in any money, be sure there is absolutely no scenario at all where the reverse is true.
I dated a well off woman once. At first she bought stuff for me and started giving orders around the house. I was like nah, we gon make decisions together. You can ask but you can't demand. Then she started trying to bargain using things she knew I wanted. "If you do this I'll buy you this." I was like nah. The good thing is I had my own little rinky dink company so I didn't need to ever ask for money. I just kept living within my means. Eventually I had to break it off because she couldn't understand I was in the relationship for her, not her money, and I wasn't going to budge to demands but rather to reasonable discussion.
TLDR: If mutual respect is important to you, think real hard before dating a woman much wealthier than you.
Yea seems reasonable to me. I dont care about money to that degree l. Alot of good can be done with it though.
Wasmt a relationship but a gay guy from California. Was nice to me and I got nothing against gay people so we became friends. He was one of those spoiled,rich,always gotta level up archetypes but I can do with some different personality types. Sadly he liked to do the same shit the women you described liked to do. Always asking if I can do this amd that despite saying no thousands of times and asked me to do questionable things with him bit he'll buy me a Tesla 😂😂😂. Basically what I'm saying is my theory about all these people thinking money matters the most is starting to look correct. They literally dont realize everyone isnt swayed to do whatever for some spending money. No matter how good the deals are
@@madmoonrabbit I’m glad that you’re in a happy marriage, it seems now a days that it’s almost impossible to find that in society.
Lol but everything you said about your ex wealthy woman is what wealthy men do when they marry women who are poor.
@@madmoonrabbit dude same, I was buffing floors at a hospital when I met my wife who was a RN. Our kid starts hs next year!
I think she just doesn't want a guy who wants to take her money or take her for a ride.
Which i can understand. She seems like she wants to please. So maybe she's been taken advantage of. But can't articulate it very well
Or she hasn’t been taken advantage of but has treated men as less then which is why she is single
@@raphealh12 my suspicion is. Since she runs a business and has her own money. There's been some guys who look at her as a free ride.
My sister has had a bunch of men leeching off her Because they were drop outs. And yeah. Its her fault for choosing to be with them.
But you can't always assume just cos they're a women they are automatically wrong.
Thats like saying because you're a man you automatically rape. Makes you as bed as them.
@@hupekyser so why don't she just say "I don't want leeches".... So simple
I was thinking the same thing. She needs to stop dating bums
A classic case of Twitter-Mob-Gets-Disproportionally-Offended-Over-Out-of-Context-Clip-ism. What a time to be alive.
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She only wants to hear good stuff. She doesn't want to hear the truth.
Like a typical woman.lol
@J. Porter the "bottom shelf" think they're "top shelf" and that's where the problem lies from what I understand. Nobody should spend 2019 ferrari money on a 90's honda civic.🤷🏿♂️
@J. Porter Even the bottom shelf ladies still demand the best.
@@KWillo I agree. Kevin Samuels is a 52 year old, twice divorced baby daddy with a short temper and a crass attitude. My sympathy falls short of her asking an unqualified person like KS for any advice to begin with.
@@notanotherone5564 Speaking if Kevin samuels, she really wasn't looking for advice from him.She was expecting a "pat on the back" for being a woman but got smacked in the face with some much needed "humble pie".🤷🏿♂️
When did honesty and holding someone accountable become negative females GOT THE GAME TWISTED
I'm all for this, which is why women hate me. I called a woman out for traumatising her son and all the responses (from other women) were "how can you be so heartless?!!"
Bro it needs to parts you cant just blame it on the woman. Because guys do it to cause its an easy way out to not hurt sombody.
What is honest about what he said?
@@gd.5528 she literally said she’s a 5 and he said your average she said she wants a six figure man and he said your not gonna get one being a five how can a give expect to attract a top 5% earner please tell us men how y’all do it???
@@gd.5528 That average women expect the higher than average man based solely off of their own income, even though a woman's money isn't valuable to men on the sexual/relationship market.
People are so ill these days they put money, status over personality and a long happy life with them. And these women marry rich men just to divorce them for money
they are highly correlational though
@@ricardokang448 ur one of them
@@midknight5194 Am I wrong? I said correlational not even causal
"Either you're slinging crack rock or gotta wicked jump shot." You notice the more men civilize the world for women so that they really can do any job a man can do the less an exploding percentage want to work for it?
WNBA athletes are trying to figure out a way to use Title 9 against the NBA organization that employs them. Knowing their league doesn't bring in 40% of what the NBA does. A very large percentage of the NBA will only ever make the league minimum.
@@rhyno8644 Why are you even bringing up the WNBA. They're trying to remove women's sports for good.
As always, the goats nailed it. Shout out for watching and breaking down the entire segment
BACK IN HEEEE
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Sssssmack!
What up TH-cam!
I love the smack at the beginning of your videos. I’ve got a pretty good smack myself 😎💪
She thought she was going to hear something else, she wanted him to validate her feelings by asking for his "advice"... Right... it doesn't make sense.
@ exactly 🙃
One thing most women don't know is, guys don't really care that much about how much the woman makes, we care about the physical features first and don't let no one lie to you about this. Personality and abilities comes after that.
You put a hot 35yr old baby mama on the left and 24yr old lady who still got those firm boobs alive on the right, every man including madmen would pursue the young hottie.
Its basic biology
@ I agree.
@@FCM3PO right, and so she need to keep working on herself and there’s always somebody for everybody. Trust. Cause she might’ve shut it down for someone who was willing to ride for her and support her in other ways. And her attitude just sucks. Like she was on the phone the whole time. I was annoyed
@@Nediahn26 I watched it before it became viral, and I was like "what the hell is she doing typing and laughing on her phone whiles someone is giving you their time". I saw her recent interview with another host and she clearly sounded to know she was on the wrong, and she even omitted that "6 figure" criteria when she was listing her preferences
DAMN I respect that man's honesty!!! Who cares what kind of advice people want, that's the advice people NEED!
No homo what your workout man I got the lower body fat bruh and TH-cam ain’t doing it
Rip Kevin he kept it so real in this session and his level of patience was impressive to say the least
Indeed. RIP Kevin. 🙏🏻
see the issue is she's primarily placing the blame on why her relationships are not working out is salary and not the dudes themselves, she immediately thinks anyone who makes less than her is "dating down" which is the worst fucking reason to view dating down in that regard, dating down is when you know someone has problems either emotionally or isnt what you'd normally want in another person so you're settling to see if you might be wrong and there might be more to them than what you're seeing initially, you should never set an income standard for dating period and only set standards for what you actually want in a relationship with another person, not how much income they bring in, salary has nothing to do with people being shit heads its the fact that sadly a good amount of people are just shit heads is why theyre shit heads
Feminine women need to be provided for, there will always be an income standard.
@@none1232 that's true but in her case, a six figure man would rather choose a 5 who works at starbucks, is younger, without a kid and a sketchy baby daddy.
Traditionally dating down is defined monetarily as is marrying up.
This is some new age ish of considering emotional and mental capacity
@@kgizzla Agreed. She should date outside her race. She'll do fine there 🤷🏾♀️
@@none1232 I agree with you. It's not wrong to have a income standard. A broke spouse/partner is a red flag and a deal breaker.
But on the other hand, partners (Men and women) who is money wise and not a living liability expenses is definitely a good catch.
These types of women: "I want a man who works hard and makes a lot money"
man works hard and makes a lot of money
These types of women: "I cheated because your always working, you don't spend time with me"
Not all women that want successful men act this way. Not all of them are brain dead.
1000000%
Been there.
My husband and I aren't "on the same level" financially, but we push each other to be better. When we first met, he was making 40k on commission while I was making 20k as a teacher. Now, he's making 60k a year and getting ready to open a design firm, and I make 6 figures after opening a bakery. Just because we made lower wages didn't mean we weren't ambitious, and my husband actually was a huge help in getting my business off the ground. She sounds like she wants to be a bit of a gold digger
A gold-digger who built and runs her own 6 figure business? That's new.
@@SuperFreshKiss such a thing is possible and has been possible.
@@SuperFreshKiss Not at all. Mariah Carey blew her engagement to an Australian billionaire by BEHAVING like a gold digger, even though she was worth $300 million herself. Being a gold digger isn’t solely the domain of broke women. Picking a man SOLELY for his money and expecting access to HIS money is something rich women do as well.
@@SuperFreshKiss Just because you’re a big fish doesn’t mean there aren’t bigger fish out there. What are you talking about
@Doppelganger D yeah, I do agree with you there. It also sounds like the equivalent of fat girls judging guys on their height.
Getting the full story of an issue is beyond crucial. When I saw the short video it made me mad but getting the full story just brought more clarity
All she was hoping for was that he would confirm that she's not the issue and it's the Men she dates...
You're the reflection of the people you date. So if you attract trash, most likely you're trash too.
@@Sarvagya4 Lol!😂
No I'm NOT! 🤣🤣🤣
She was looking for him to be a good consultant. & if that statement was the case he may have proved her right,tbh.
Woops
You really hit the nail on the head which is that a lot of people equate money with being a good person and it really fucks with how people evaluate others. Sometimes I feel like I'm in some kid's cartoon that is teaching a lesson about greed and materialism because too many people do essentially say that having money make you a good person with no shame.
I can’t get over the fact that the dude used a candle as his lighting 🤣
To hide his face. He ain't cute.
LOL that was funny
I thought it looked cozy 😅
@Maksud Mehraz wtf kind of question is that? chill
He has numerous videos in which you can clearly see his face in doors and outdoor. How does a candle lighting change what he said?
Personally, I wouldn't have called in. I have never called into his show and I never will. As a result, I'm happy and I'm not alone.
Do you agree with his advice? Personally I think he's too extreme
- Not trying to be funny but I fell like you “INDIRECTLY” saying I don’t wanna hear the “TRUTH” from somebody 🤷♂️. When you said what you said.
The show is not for post wall hitting women you're right you shouldn't call in
Do you agree with what he says or not?
@@QuanBrown27 I hate people who put words in my mouth. I actually automatically block (yes, I have a channel too) and mute them.
Women watching KS like: "This wasn't the honesty we were looking for"
She wanted placebos
@@devilsadvocate7059 he said "you can't use 7" not "you have to rate yourself lower than 7"...he says this to everyone
She called him on a non advice day and basically tried to fleece him for a free session
He told her twice to book a session ...she deserved what she got...he told her the truth.. just because you don't like it does mean it's not truth
Ever heard about "tact" , look it up
@@devilsadvocate7059 wealthy men have options ...middle aged baby mommas aren't at the top of that list.. it's a fact ...men in general aren't rushing to be stepfathers to teenagers...forget her looks. ..this is a fact whether you like it or not ..good night
Also...he chose to use it as a teaching moment...she could have called in on the right day too...let's give her accountability too ...not just him
@ she disrespected him first and he was very patient ....
If a black woman was telling a black man no holds barred truths...would you have a problem with it?
Or would the narrative be "a real man could handle the truth"?
There is no reason why men shouldn't be able to tell women harsh truths....women have been telling them to men since the day before the beginning of time
66% of America makes less than 50k single house hold and married. That’s 220,000,000 million people. Women need to do the math if they want to have specific standards. Thank good I’m married me and my girl watched the original and had a discussion throughout the whole video. The new generation is gonna have a very hard time because of social media.
Only 9% of USA populace makes over 100k/year
... . Want to swap generations so I can find a good woman?....
@@beasthaven1571 Lol that's probably not a good idea. The standards for men providing for the household was much higher before this generation. Society would make a real mockery of you.
I thought the average American Household brought in around 60k?
The thing is when men marry someoone making less, they would never consider it as marrying down . @2:13
It is only women who see careers as attractive on men, and men would get the same attraction toward women with careers.
Absolutely up to the person to live how they want but it is good to keep things in perspective.
@@zeeking6682 no one said that once again, and even most non gold digging women have a look threshold.
No , good looks attracts women,yes a woman might marry down in terms of looks if the guy is rich but that woman will torture that guy and most probably cheat on him or at least not have children with him,there is something called natural selection,it is in every woman’s d.n.a to try to have children with the best looking guy she can find,some call it love at first sight,others call it chemistry,others call it the spark,but looks matters to women exactly as much as it matters to men .
Its always a few who like to try and make feeble attempts to justify what was said with what was meant. For the females that responded to this man's comment, can you justify marrying down, because like he already stated NO MAN HAS EVER SAID HE'S MARRYING DOWN, knock it off. Its a preference thing. Whether it be toxic, or entanglement, or whatever language women use to justify a means, MARRYING DOWN seems to be big on they greedy ass list. Not my thing, but the same ones saying they're marrying down, hate when a black man marries someone who isn't black. Appreciating the position and feeling deserving is two different things. Don't bedwench nor oprah me ever period
You’ve never dated a wealthy man I take it. Plenty do consider it dating down and they don’t respect their wives the way they do women who are their financial and status equal. Some of the meaner ones will throw the income disparity in their lower earning partners face. Men think the same, it’s just more socially acceptable because of the different temperaments men and women tend to have.
@@SoenTharthar
Um have you not read this comment section?
She is BELOW AVERAGE with elite level standards. What a joke 😂.
Everyone is below average to someone. But I'm sure she can get a 100k + man. All she needs to do is join some business associations and surround herself with high earners..
I worked with a Hispanic lady in a tech job. She had a degree, was a supervisor, smart...
Her husband (also Hispanic) had a gardening/landscaping business. They had a great relationship, a far as I could tell.
There's a difference with how some races value each other in their cultures. I think for us black folk we're in need a soft reset because we're measuring each other off standards we ourselves don't even apply into.
@@ExeErdna that's unfair to state about "us black people". As a black woman who has lived in Asia myself they are very hung up on men being providers and high earning. Even in NY where I grew up they are the wealthiest here. They want partners with the best jobs and who went to the best schools. Also keep in mind that they have the longest lasting marriages in the country. Even their dating apps list income. Same can be said for west African Immigrants in the US, high earning and low divorce rates as well. She is literally measuring her future partner based on standards she already has for herself. What is wrong with that?
So he owned a business? Maybe he made more than her. Plenty of women could care less about a man with a degree.
@@colorfulcodes Maybe he did. There's a 99% chance that he didn't have as much education as she did though, so maybe she "married up" financially and "down" on education. Or maybe he was working for somebody else and making less than her when they married. Or he had the business and she was a student.
It's just an example of a successful relationship where the woman didn't insist on "up" in every sense.
@@briant7265 I have a friend that left I.T to become a landscaper. He makes good money and doesn't have to work 60 hrs a week.
She didn't say she looked down on men who makes less than her. She said it usually doesn't work out.
Because she considers them not her level which means she is looking down on them.
@@devin4613 She never said that.
@@devin4613 Not really...I don't date Jewish men successfully (as in dating that leads to something serious), often because I'm not Jewish. That doesn't mean, I necessarily "look down on them". Your assumption points to binary thinking honestly.
@@chinyelundubisi9985 why are you defending the undefendable? Shut the hell up lol
@@paulcarmi8130 "shut the hell up"?! Are you 10 years old because these videos aren't for kids...who goes there in one response? Lol. But my initial point exactly... There really is no point engaging men who can't even read the room, culture, ppl other than themselves obviously. So why even WASTE. YOUR. TIME.
2020: being sincere is being rude
2021: telling a woman something she doesn't want to hear -> prison
to be fair he did say it was Disagreement day lmao
..thing is, Aba and Preach, whenever I visit your channel I always get so glued, loving your honest opinions on stuff, with such brilliant perspectives.