Good Guy Gone Bad- Nick Ndeda

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  • @eyeshotbydonchibole1652
    @eyeshotbydonchibole1652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    When he said being in media you can't be nice but he's nice. I got a chance of working with Nick and he's so so down to earth, very kind humble, helpful oh and he kept mentioning his wife 😊

  • @mercymwangi6219
    @mercymwangi6219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Here after the separation.

  • @thegodlyprincess_kenya
    @thegodlyprincess_kenya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Nice. This answers the questions on my head.
    -Explains why Muthoni always trash men and sounds negative in her conversations. It's her heartbreak and mistrust spilling on her conversations.
    -Also explains why Nick went out of his way to make Muthoni happy and allow her express herself the way she wants.
    That must have been a toxic environment.
    Poleni sana!🙏

    • @shiruwangai8022
      @shiruwangai8022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My thoughts exactly.

    • @preciouskadzo8352
      @preciouskadzo8352 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also here to reflect on and understand their past relationship

  • @jamesndungu7678
    @jamesndungu7678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I relate alot to this it took me a while for me to accept my introvert and quiet nature, it has not only boosted my self esteem it has molded my personality.

  • @BeeGees2012
    @BeeGees2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    This here is a Muthoni Gitau Tribute. Nick Sema ukweli. I relate. I am loved just as Muthoni loves you. I wonder everyday why he stayed! I didn't cheat on him per say but I pushed him away so many times. Him saying me hurt his ego so bad. But he stayed! Honestly I never envisioned myself with him we are so different. Polar opposites. But what is love?! Heh! Two babies in and a lifetime of bliss I swear I woulf die for this guy. He is my heart ♥. My soul. My personal person. God I love him!!!

    • @loisewanjiku3739
      @loisewanjiku3739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is so beautiful Gladys. To more years of love and abundance for your family.

    • @RadBunny2269
      @RadBunny2269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🔥

    • @josphinemacharia6045
      @josphinemacharia6045 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow, to many more years. To be loved this way is a blessing

    • @BeeGees2012
      @BeeGees2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@josphinemacharia6045 🙏

    • @BeeGees2012
      @BeeGees2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@loisewanjiku3739 🙏

  • @mwangobree2372
    @mwangobree2372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Story I can relate to. Staying on again and again, till it was enough! Thank you for being vulnerable and telling your story!!

  • @polycarpize
    @polycarpize 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Well..Well..Well...It ended in premium tears!!

  • @TheKimieD
    @TheKimieD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you! Keep living your life & choosing her every day for rest of it. ♥

  • @ListaAbutto
    @ListaAbutto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    For some reason, I am so glad I heard this part of your journey from Nick. #JustDoingLife

  • @wil570
    @wil570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Watching after the breakup

  • @ladyru2616
    @ladyru2616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Our goals are now different

  • @RadBunny2269
    @RadBunny2269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dang, MG. I’ve gained mew respect for you here 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽.

  • @odiwaopar4859
    @odiwaopar4859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your best outfit is always your authentic personality......amazing story Nick 👍🏼

  • @annkamau1704
    @annkamau1704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love this true genuine honest we need more of this conversations

  • @juliusmwangangi8808
    @juliusmwangangi8808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I always love Nick from when i knew him,,nice listening to your story

  • @margaretkariuki1378
    @margaretkariuki1378 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow Nick, great presentation!!!! Keep it up. Proud of you!

  • @anneojowi7774
    @anneojowi7774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    She stayed to strategize how to leave...to leave when she's completely over you. That is what some women do ...

  • @gathigiawahome4316
    @gathigiawahome4316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a beautiful real story

  • @muthoningei2270
    @muthoningei2270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    OMG! This is a love story from a man (loving and accepting you and yours), Nick yani nilikuskiza XFM ulikuwa 22 wau! I'm Muthoni's fan sana these just made me love you guys more! I want ENGAGE ya Muthoni please guys?!

  • @agaltoto8506
    @agaltoto8506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I watched “Higher Learning”. Nick was my crush in high school.

  • @misarochweya
    @misarochweya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Amazing talk, it’s really hard to find nice people in Nairobi, I wish they tell us who they are , I’m

  • @stellawambui1305
    @stellawambui1305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Nick you are a nice person and muthoni also but personally I don't give second chance to a person who cheat despite how nice you are.That me and my love for myself is 200% unapologetic.All the best in your new phase of life.

  • @zulfabuoga2121
    @zulfabuoga2121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful story

  • @sheilaotieno254
    @sheilaotieno254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ...now it all makes sense

  • @tashaalice6868
    @tashaalice6868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I needed to hear this thankyou❤

  • @gilbertwaiguchu749
    @gilbertwaiguchu749 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nobody can be you but you, I miss that song.

  • @kuiwanjiru
    @kuiwanjiru 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Separation video got comments blocked so folks have moved their opinions here.

  • @marivilleable
    @marivilleable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I am at that point. I've always been nice. Still am. But men just like taking advantage when you're nice. It's made me lose faith completely in love, relationships and marriage because i don't wanna be someone I'm not just to keep or have a guy.

    • @kingdavidthegreatest6465
      @kingdavidthegreatest6465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Be nice. Don't change. The Lord will very soon bless you with the one. Be who you are. You'll never regret it. Glory to God

    • @tabbiegracekenya
      @tabbiegracekenya 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel you

  • @nairobikenya_
    @nairobikenya_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    African women and struggle love aiiiii.

    • @snm2222
      @snm2222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @nduta kenya, yaani I don't gerrit! Why??!!!

    • @achiengcaroline5920
      @achiengcaroline5920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @ nduta we have to completely change our mindsets... The African man wants you to fight his battles.. While rides off in the sunset with another woman!

    • @BlackPanther-lt7wr
      @BlackPanther-lt7wr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Aki ! Who got inspired by this story ??? "She kept staying" 😳🙄

    • @snm2222
      @snm2222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@BlackPanther-lt7wr Hata sielewi!! Why do colourful women allow this kind of treatment? Flip the characters and then ask, "would he have stayed?" I bet you a resounding 'hell hell no!'

    • @barbiechyqa9192
      @barbiechyqa9192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@snm2222 she left!! Didn't know the background and thought he was a great guy but good on her for finally putting herself first!!

  • @yourstrulyKe
    @yourstrulyKe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    #JDL fam where you at?!🙌♥

  • @msmaina5036
    @msmaina5036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Acknowledging error is not only mature but the step in the right direction.

  • @tinaachieng9931
    @tinaachieng9931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Always been your fan....❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @CrisBlyth
    @CrisBlyth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great stuff !

  • @doctrine_ridge_Ke
    @doctrine_ridge_Ke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    punk rocker, noice!! 🙌

  • @winnernaisula
    @winnernaisula 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    5 months later muthoni left hee Earth is Hard purely hard

  • @vickymor3963
    @vickymor3963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This was so awkward....

  • @Simplyjulia785
    @Simplyjulia785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I never comment but this one here Nike is amazing your truly a an amazing person

    • @Divambi
      @Divambi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nothing amazing about a dead beat dad

  • @josephatbarakachai8411
    @josephatbarakachai8411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    ....."she would have left, but she didnt...." Well now she did, Nick!

    • @carniarrow
      @carniarrow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      .....And she will regret it many years to come........he is a gem.

    • @barbiechyqa9192
      @barbiechyqa9192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@carniarrow how did you manage to make his bad behavior, that she's probably endured for 7 years, her fault?

    • @theafrinado
      @theafrinado 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@carniarrow Relationships end, normalise not punishing either person for amicably choosing what is best for them. May they both prosper.

    • @gracenyaboke8483
      @gracenyaboke8483 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Some things a better left unsaid huh?

    • @bettynthembwa760
      @bettynthembwa760 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂Be nice

  • @Arungakate
    @Arungakate ปีที่แล้ว

    if it is meant to be then you will be back together love conquers all

  • @julietcotosman3377
    @julietcotosman3377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Soo thrilled to find u Nick here..food for thought for mee from a different aspect ,....the part that killed me "y u soo extra around ppl😅"..my name is Muthoni and am a rocker too (for real. ..haha)

  • @emem6935
    @emem6935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    no wonder muthoni is so prickly

  • @starluzenja9861
    @starluzenja9861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    5 months later....

  • @cookingwithnimoh
    @cookingwithnimoh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    @9:22 Deep 💯💯

  • @auntiepiarants2238
    @auntiepiarants2238 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Heart broken guy. Here after Lynn ngugi.

  • @josephbillochieng7495
    @josephbillochieng7495 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why do I feel like he's talking about me
    I'm super nice😅

  • @carolinegatere5582
    @carolinegatere5582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Really? You dated a woman big & strong enough to dangle you from your balcony?
    This story enthralled me from beginning to end.

  • @livenationke
    @livenationke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm a natural good nice person and unapologetic about it, been dumped numerous time for being "Nice Naïve" but I don't care
    I've always want to keep my real authentic me the sigma INFJ personality type.
    one thing I'm aware of is there's a slot for me in someone
    meanwhile I've purposed on my careers and investments

    • @simonkigo6569
      @simonkigo6569 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      sigma too buh so much on my staff ,time shall get us to our slots eventually

  • @susangitonga2873
    @susangitonga2873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Former XFM fans piga likes

  • @leonardgithinji9899
    @leonardgithinji9899 ปีที่แล้ว

    my idol at Xfm

  • @wanjirutravels
    @wanjirutravels 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice voice nick

  • @digitallocations1423
    @digitallocations1423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So if she left there would be no reason to be nice?
    I surely hope not.
    I love Muthoni btw. She is full of good energy.

    • @Divambi
      @Divambi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nope! She enables him to deny his child. She even insults an innocent child by calling her ugly who was conceived when she wasnt there. Btw the child is a replica of Nick!! Vile woman!

    • @christinenjogu
      @christinenjogu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Divambi mmmhh...tell us more please

    • @naomiee5820
      @naomiee5820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Divambi waaah si unajua yote...

    • @nita_9471
      @nita_9471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So Nick has a child?

    • @NellyMacharia
      @NellyMacharia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Divambi ati!!! Nick has a child???

  • @2010Bangie
    @2010Bangie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Watching this again after your very awkward break up video. One, many media personalities need to create another persona, it's like acting. Two, you don't have to be one and three, it is very wrong for a partner to call out their spouses on stage character. It is for this reason it isn't easy being the partner of an actor or jn stage media personality.
    Having known you from uni and been cheated on too, I can tell you that you are still a great person. Two, cheating won't kill a person. You seem to take on a lot here and in the next video which don't make sense. Walk away from relationships but not yourself.
    Trying to play saviour, and questing everything will destroy you. I don't understand why you've done this, but I hope you, or anyone else struggling in relationships walks away and knows they are not their mistakes. You can't make up for another insecurities, even if you did contribute to it.
    P.s: I'm not saying cheating did it but I'm very sad to see how this has played out and how it almost seemed she was trying to take whatever it is out on you in the video. You are still An amazing person!

    • @Divambi
      @Divambi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He is not an amazing person. Lies that he is childless but had a 7yr old daughter. His whole life is a performance.

  • @catherinewangari7201
    @catherinewangari7201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    eeeh, so this didn't age well...#ifyouknow

    • @wamaithagakere7222
      @wamaithagakere7222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yap. That last video was my first of theirs to watch and I was like naah...there's more to this. His body language, her digs and tone... Then I come across this and it makes sense. Karma!

    • @murieladhiambo
      @murieladhiambo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is the comment I was looking for 😂

    • @sarahnyambura1634
      @sarahnyambura1634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂 had to come back here too

    • @barbiechyqa9192
      @barbiechyqa9192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@wamaithagakere7222 hata mimi I was like 😳😳😳 na vile people on sosho media are hating on Muthoni. But that video of theirs made me feel like she was wronged. Ubaya she put herself out to dry with the 'hoe phase' thing peiple are saying she's pressured Nick. I feel so bad for her but she's awesome

    • @cshixx
      @cshixx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I came quick fast here. This was a serial cheater. In turn it made Muthoni too independent. Signs were there.

  • @jw8856
    @jw8856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This guy is a foo

  • @rebhoney6803
    @rebhoney6803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I don't know, I found this so bland. the point is to "Inform. Inspire. Influence" I didn't experience any any of that from this story. To me it was meh

  • @linusketter
    @linusketter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    How can you bring back Xfm?

    • @cmadegwa
      @cmadegwa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'd put my money to have XFM back

    • @dennismwai4887
      @dennismwai4887 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cmadegwa 💯

  • @brendarandiga3077
    @brendarandiga3077 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You're lucky she stayed and you changed. But, more often than not stories like these don't end up well for other couples and should not be encouraged

  • @alexm8837
    @alexm8837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sorry for getting you punished Nick. 😆

    • @Mainestify
      @Mainestify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂 Jitokeze

  • @zuracurie1749
    @zuracurie1749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💔💔💔💔,

  • @wangarikaruru1366
    @wangarikaruru1366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    nickkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

  • @OndiekiBwonyangore
    @OndiekiBwonyangore 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Here after the birthday party

  • @74bosire
    @74bosire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Noise

  • @stan9519
    @stan9519 ปีที่แล้ว

    bruh! 🙄

  • @OndiekiBwonyangore
    @OndiekiBwonyangore 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Simping on a new high level, do the same for Betty

  • @rebeccamuteti8400
    @rebeccamuteti8400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤣🤣 people actually believe this shit! Lols... anyways, when you own your own truth, you will be your authentic self.