I don't know who's behind the channel, but I am very grateful for these movies. They are a big help for young men and they help preserve good values like discipline, respect for parents, friendship, hard work and character. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
"Dave" is the kind of nut who will beat up a woman, the jealous posessive kind that tries to isolate her, she'll wind up in the hospital or worse- THIS is the age where all that crap starts, you could see by his actions on the sidewalk when he kicks his bike over and storms off. And then later he vandalizes the other guys car in a rage and gets caught! Dang, wish the film was long enough to see Dave get his punishment for vandalizing the car!
Like father like son. Round & round it goes . Kids are representations of their parents upbringing . It takes work & some parents don't bother & blame it on mental illness . Watch super nanny she doesn't teach the kids she teaches the parents what they are lacking . Structure , patience, guidance & communication.
You can't just conveniently blame awful behavior on the parents. Example: here is a family with 3 children. Two of the kids grow up to be happy, well adjusted, productive members of society. The other kid is a drug addicted jail bird who beats his wife. All 3 kids had the same upbringing. Could it be that the problem child just made his own bad decisions?
@@lynndupree1205 Ever heard of "functioning Alcoholic"? GOOGLED: [Yes, hero child, peacemaker child, scapegoat child, and clown child are all common roles in families: Hero child Also known as the "golden child" or "saint", this child is the family's favorite and is often the high achiever. They may be perfectionists who struggle with stress and control issues.] I was born into an abusive family and if it were not for Jesus, I doubt I would've lived past my 20s (still here in my late 60s). Drugs were pushed at my inner-city high school, but thank God the "Jesus People Movement" was in full swing too in the 1970s. Also, as awful as mom was, she liked the Reverend Dr. Billy Graham; I was the scapegoat and she played favorites.
@@alanlado1602 Yeah, I’m not agreeing to all that. It’s absolutely wrong to smoke cigarettes around children, but I realize that most people didn’t know just how bad cigarette smoke was at this time. Especially not secondhand smoke. They probably thought it was harmless.
The whole point of the movie, clearly from the framing of the story, is to portray Dave in a sympathetic light as an undeveloped youth with external sources of his developmental obstacles clearly portrayed. The opening scroll makes explicit that it is about the social pressures that cause problems. It is not a movie meant to shame teenagers or push on immature people the responsibility for correcting themselves. It is meant to make parents think more about what their children are going through and think twice about how you treat your children and what the consequences are. Instead most people react by joining in the chain of bullying by blaming the immature or pseudo-clinical namecalling trying to out bully the latest link even when it is a contrived fictional character used as a prop in a thought experiment, revealing their own emotional immaturity. The point of the creators was to ask the audience, What would YOU have done to help Dave to prevent this? Instead, the modern audience misses all the cues and projects their own intentions and just takes it as a horror show exhibit to dramatically exemplify bad behavior for the entertainment of morbid curiosity.
For one, Kindly make sure Dave is held accountable for his own behavior and his own decisions. The bike and tires were innocent victims. Next, anger management for Dave.
@@poetcomic1 lol, huge sarcasm. Why deny. His father reached that stage where he thinks his boy is a petty criminal. Actually this father is a disciplinarian but fails to give a role model for his son and fails to interact in a positive manner with him. Some father think they bring the money, and that's enough, it isn't for his boy.
I think the reason why Dave is immature is because his dad is immature. His mom mentioned that Dave looks up to his father and wants to be like him. Well, Dave is just like his father.
Exactly! Which is probably why the camera zooms on the father when the narrator asks the question ”what could have prevented dave’s immaturity?" Dave and his father get frustrated and can only come up with desperate and helpless solutions: grabbing the arm of your child in a threatening manner to make him mature up; slashing a tire to prevent a date lol. Dave is a perfect copy of his father. I wish they’d have shown how his dad should’ve acted instead...
His dad is as mature as any dad in the day. You have to remember, they lived through the Great Depression, WW II, and maybe his dad got knocked off in WW I and/or his mom died in the Spanish flu epidemic, or his sister died of polio .Impossible for you to even imagine, eh?
I don't think your idea holds water, his father was acting the best a father could. And for that day and age I think he was being quite patient and tolerant with his son, who at his age should already face up and show more maturity.
@@alanlado1602but that wasn’t how it was/is. His Dad did try to apologize to his son, I seen that the Dad also got angry when his son continued to be stubborn. How did you think the Dad could have done better in this situation?
It's hard to deal with rejection a lot of times, but being sore about it won't do anyone any good. It does take time to get over anyone or anything that upsets any individual. And yes, I see Richard from The Patty Duke Show(1963-66). 😁
Can we just applaud Canada for making emotional responsibility shows then and currently to this day . PBS kids shows I've noticed are filmed in Canada. At least they open a dialogue for mental health segments
These are so neat. You can really see that even though this kind of "emotional education" is progressive by today's standards, the 1958 mentality still comes through. Really wild to see the mother put up with being a full time mediator for both emotionally immature men. It really demonstrates the imbalance of emotional labor that was seen as acceptable back then. It's such a fascinating blend of progressive and regressive.
dave has borderline personality disorder. The rejection sensitivity dysphoria, impulsivity, unstable relationships, and keying his ex's new BF's car gave it away
No he didn’t lol he was just a rebellious angry broken hearted teen who maybe needed help regulating his teenage emotions teens goof up doesn’t mean he was mentally ill I think he needed compassion
What a brat Dave is. He'll spend his life blaming everyone else for everything that goes wrong. His Dad's a brat as well, but he has a point about the car, it's fair enough that he doesn't let his son drive it.
I disagree I think Dave was wrong for some of the stuff he did true but he just wanted the car to try to impress and win back his ex. He was broken hearted and felt like a failure over what happened on the football field. His dad was cold and unfeeling towards his son partly what made him how he was
Is there a video that discusses the solution to this set of conflicts? Especially regarding David’s emotional immaturity and his father’s emotional immaturity. It seems they both have a bunch of unresolved emotions or trauma. We see some of the stuff that David goes through but I believe the dad has gone through some stuff too to cause him to behave immaturely as well.
His father's emotional immaturity? Dave's father is the best character in the whole movie. He was honest and sincere in his desire to help him and was resolute to discipline his son because of his bad attitude, which is the best way to straighten up a man,
@@alanlado1602 I was thinking the father was emotionally immature as well because he seemed to try to get things done through pressure, intimidation, and coercion, rather than patience, kindness, and tolerance. An example of immaturity was when he got upset when the son didn't want to go to the game with him. If the son doesn't want to go, it is up to the son. It was not right for the father to get aggressive and angry over it and throw a sort of adult tantrum. The son has every right not to go to the game if he doesn't want to; a child is not a parent's servant or property and doesn’t have to obey their parents' every command. The scene reminded me of someone getting angry with another person when they don't forgive them. This shows a sense of entitlement because the person isn't entitled to the other person forgiving them; it is up to that person to decide if they want to forgive them or not. Overall, I thought the father seemed quick to anger and quick to snap. He tended to not be mindful of the thoughts and feelings of others, often overlooking them and what they might be going through emotionally and psychologically. I think one of the best ways to discipline others is to lead by example, through support, kindness, wisdom, and encouragement. The father did not demonstrate this type of behavior or attitude. Disciplining kids is hard work and being harsh and aggressive about it is not the best way to go about it. It is the easy, lazy, and immature way of going about it. The hard but right way of going about it is to do it with patience, kindness, and integrity. The immature person wants the quick and easy solution to something rather than putting the hard work in, but the mature person is willing to put the work in. Lastly, an emotionally immature person doesn't take into consideration how they might be affecting those around them. A combination of all of these points is why I found the father to be emotionally immature. The reply is long and lengthy but I hope you understand my viewpoint. May God bless us and guide us.
@@shaheer_ghaziI agree with your assessment. The father getting upset at the son not wanting to go to the game showed me you were right, and where Dave most likely got his rage from. These are really good skits to learn about what not to do.
@@shaheer_ghazi Indeed! We were told a number of times that part of the issue was "too high expectations". And even when he does confront his son, he treats him like a 5 year old, ironically. "Let's go to the game together!" instead of something that might build comradarie. Also, he was a boy himself once, and apparently Dave had been dating the girl for years, he should know some of the pain of what that is like and sympathize with his son. Instead they both push each other way, leading to the situation where it ends up.
I think the reason why Dave is so immature is that his parents were overprotective of him and not permissive enough. Their toxic parenting style is what stunted his growth. But, on the same token, I still think that this yelling and tire slashing is still unjustifiable. The dude is a criminal, and even I wouldn’t do that to anybody’s property, especially if I wouldn’t want somebody doing that to me. I’d be pretty upset if somebody punctured my tire!
@@needles1987 Wow! Sorry about your situation! You have my feels. I too was in the same predicament and still am. I turned into an age regressor because of that.
@@GeekNArtist They would tell me that they would start treating me like an adult when I start acting like one, but they would never follow through with it. They wouldn't let me make my own mistakes. To this very day, I have anger management issues because of how they raised me.
@@luisreyes1963 Women are more depressed today then they were back then. Women today want the luxuries men have with none of the downsides. Women today don't want to live like the peasant men back then did, even though that's what the majority were like. Besides, why do you think feminism took so long to happen? Women aren't on the draft today and aren't fighting to be a part of it, even though men are. Feminism took so long to happen because women didn't and still don't want to deal with the possibilities of war, so they found loopholes around it.
@Roswold Ferrugia The racism isn't what made the decade so great, and I wouldn't call everything sexism. I can show you what I mean about the sexism if you want, but isn't it more odd that etiquette started dying when racism started dying? I can't wrap my head around that one...
When that selfish Dave kicked the bike I felt so bad for it like what did that bike do the poor bike Dave should go to jail for that and the bike should sue
To me, born October 22, 1957, the very scene is at 0:15/19:45 is the most important! Depending on the exact time sequencing, I must have already reached 1 year of age, or somewhat before. At the very moment of egressing outside the school building, the SUN broke out of the covering Veil of Clouds to reflect SUNLIGHT on the Door's lower glass pane. These 2 seemed hurrying to get out to the parking lot beyond the steps down to pavement level. The young man is holding textbooks in both hands, either His own, or hers, or both. his Girl friend to his right has a MICKEY MOUSE like Bonnet on her tied up Hair. You don't see High Schoolers so dressed like that anymore, save at the prom. Who were these TWO? Are they still alive in 2022?
It bothers me that the film offers no solutions. Leaves you hangin'. I think the emotional insecurities of both the girl and the boy stem from their upbringings and family dynamics, and may be 'set' by this age. So is the boy destined for a life of crime?
I think they play this film & discuss the issues . Go Canada for making emotional responsible movies. Most PBS kids show that are about handling ur emotions are still made in Canada to this day.
Im totally the exact same way as dad about driving with my daughter. I was very selective with the use of my car because is she had an accident it would be the end of the world. 😂 my mom on the other hand was more like "here! Take the car! Just leave!" 😅😂 she would be 12 or 13 years old when this was made..🤣🤣🤣 this was made for her!😂
That looks like a grown-up version of Eddy monster.The dad should’ve been walking up the stairs with a belt, It would’ve been more of a reflection of the times and how they dealt with most everything and kids
In The ALBERT Chronicles, is this Door Scene at 0:15/19:45, showing these 2 EGRESSING OUT, the MALE Adolescent holding the Books in His clasping Hands, His GIRL Friend holding Her PURSE, the earliest Recorded Moment of Action, realized by the then Infant?
People here in the comment section are being so harsh on Dave. But I actually feel bad for him. He just wants to livet he life like everyone else, but his father always makes him feel depressed and immature. And absolutely noone is talking about how the girl had dumped Dave for a random guy instead of helping him out. This shows how lowly we have fallen as a society, where the depressed has no place at all to live normally
"How did Dave end up in this situation?" Well, not through 'emotional instability', that's for sure. His girlfriend left him for someone else without ever thinking to address her grievances with him before she set up a date with another guy behind his back. His so called friends are all gossiping about how he isn't any good at the one thing he's passionate about. His father is controlling and, seeing his son upset at the loss of his girlfriend, decided to throw his support to the kid that snatched his girlfriend out from under him. Dave is not the problem. "Why can't he just accept life as it is?" Why should he accept the people he cares about steamrolling him and kicking him while he's down? He shouldn't have slashed the tires, but if you tell someone they're selfish and unstable and good-for-nothing all the time, eventually they'll believe it and their behaviour will reflect it. Everyone in his life thought they could do him dirty and expected him to take it and were shocked when he retaliated. Then they brand him as crazy. It's classic gaslighting. Much more, Dave will end up in the doctor's office, looking down the sharp end of an ice pick and everyone'll say what a tragedy it was.
This video doesn't really give much of a resolution and leaves it on a difficult part. If we can just have it so that we see what the solution is, then it would be very helpful.
@@needles1987 The foundation of ‘Woke Culture’ is victimhood, whether real or feigned dearest one. Has nothing to do with awareness of social injustice, but everything to do with ego. Its promoted a culture where everyone wants to be a victim and when everyone wants to be a victim, a significant section of them will naturally invent crimes to suit their agenda. It’s a great injustice to actual victims who have very good reasons to feel victimized. They deserve every bit of our empathy and compassion. However, in Woke Culture, people who do not deserve it see the empathy and compassion that is accorded to victims as an incentive to pretend to be victims themselves. It’s narcissistic and immensely selfish. And I believe it will eventually lead to the ultimate end of the progressive supremacist movement that has held the reigns for so long. JMO.
Dave clearly has impulsive Borderline Personality disorder. The rejection sensitivity dysphoria, the unstable relationships, stabbing the tires of the guy who took out his ex's car, and his dad about to go spank him gave it away.
You know I thought Dave looked so good looking in the thumbnail. I surely hoped he was going to be the good guy.. I guess you cant have both all the time. But I can definitely see who he got that attitude from, and who empowered him... not so good duo of parents
Poor Dave! My heart goes out to him! No one understands him. That girl who dumped him was a superficial b××××. She even had Jim waiting around the corner as she was dumping him. Well, in my version of the ending, Dave's dad did go up to Dave's room and they fought and it was like Rebel without a cause and Dave stormed out of the house. He was caught and punished, but the next day at school that lovely sophomore girl approached Dave and they got super friendly. She had her own car so she drove Dave home and Dave announced he was in love. Much to the happiness of his parents, who excused his punishment! Dave and her started going together and he became the envy of all his friends. She encouraged him to try out for track which he excelled at over football and he became a track star! Everyone loved him! Meanwhile, the girl who dumped him got pregnant by Jim and they were both thrown out of their homes, became high school dropouts and were forced to live in the ghetto. Dave graduated with honors went on to college and became a high powered attorney and married that lovely sophomore. They became millionaires! Karma is a b×××× and I'm team Dave all the way! He's better looking than Jim anyway.
I can’t hear it… is it just my tablet? It’s so so quiet I can hardly tell what they’re saying I had to turn on subtitles. 😔 Well I watched it anyway. I think if he was smarter he would’ve stabbed the tire and then ran away. Forget about the dumb white wash rims a flat tire would’ve been enough to inconvenience him. He’s very jaded. She broke up with him in a real crappy way and she wasn’t sensitive to how he felt at all. And his father should’ve been more understanding about him losing his girl. At least I think so. He’s 16 he’s going to be upset. Without the right reaction and guidance he’s gonna do something stupid just like that. I knew he was going to get caught though.
These videos are really helping me get my life together
That’s kind of sad.
Not sad at all. Pretty cool actually!
Me too! I feel like I'm learning so much, and I'm intrigued by every aspect
@@dewilew2137 Sad? He put his ego aside so he could take a moment to learn and better himself. That's what I call emotional maturity.
@@dewilew2137not sad at all, this is all sorely needed information today, many people don’t even have a good example at home to start with.
I don't know who's behind the channel, but I am very grateful for these movies. They are a big help for young men and they help preserve good values like discipline, respect for parents, friendship, hard work and character. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Period
"Dave" is the kind of nut who will beat up a woman, the jealous posessive kind that tries to isolate her, she'll wind up in the hospital or worse- THIS is the age where all that crap starts, you could see by his actions on the sidewalk when he kicks his bike over and storms off.
And then later he vandalizes the other guys car in a rage and gets caught!
Dang, wish the film was long enough to see Dave get his punishment for vandalizing the car!
Yup. A wife beater in the making. I agree.
I agree. Discipline shapes character. Take away discipline and you take away character.
I needed a stethoscope to hear this!! 😕
😂
Since I can't lip read, this old educational flick was a pass...
Since I can't lip read, this old educational flick was a pass...
Use the closed captioning duh!
Oh thank god I thought I was going deaf suddenly.
Guys were still like this when I went to high school in the late 1980's. Some things never change.
They were the same in the 2000s too.
Boys will be boys 😂
If only these skirts weren't so hypergamous
or they had undiagnosed borderline PD
@@DZ302-Z28what does your comment mean?
I like to watch old films idk but its cool to watch them
Yeah.
I am addicted
Seriously, I think the best part of this movie is his father. A good father in the life of a kid, especially a boy is so important...
He is not an effectice parent at all, no patience, gives up on the first try and has a short fuse in general.
@@ragnakleinen2109 Yes, he's too critical.
Like father like son. Round & round it goes . Kids are representations of their parents upbringing . It takes work & some parents don't bother & blame it on mental illness . Watch super nanny she doesn't teach the kids she teaches the parents what they are lacking . Structure , patience, guidance & communication.
You can't just conveniently blame awful behavior on the parents. Example: here is a family with 3 children. Two of the kids grow up to be happy, well adjusted, productive members of society. The other kid is a drug addicted jail bird who beats his wife. All 3 kids had the same upbringing. Could it be that the problem child just made his own bad decisions?
@@lynndupree1205 Ever heard of "functioning Alcoholic"?
GOOGLED:
[Yes, hero child, peacemaker child, scapegoat child, and clown child are all common roles in families:
Hero child
Also known as the "golden child" or "saint", this child is the family's favorite and is often the high achiever. They may be perfectionists who struggle with stress and control issues.]
I was born into an abusive family and if it were not for Jesus, I doubt I would've lived past my 20s (still here in my late 60s).
Drugs were pushed at my inner-city high school, but thank God the "Jesus People Movement" was in full swing too in the 1970s. Also, as awful as mom was, she liked the Reverend Dr. Billy Graham; I was the scapegoat and she played favorites.
"He acts like a big baby" Oh so manchild has been around for a long time than 😂😂
Dave had a “no smoking” sign on the wall in his bedroom and his dad walks in smoking a cigarette!
His dad's an asshole.
😂
Well, Dave’s “non-smoking” room is in his father’s “smoking” house. 🤷🏽♀️
@@dewilew2137well said, a father can go anywhere in his home anyway, it is his home, and he is the authority
@@alanlado1602 Yeah, I’m not agreeing to all that. It’s absolutely wrong to smoke cigarettes around children, but I realize that most people didn’t know just how bad cigarette smoke was at this time. Especially not secondhand smoke. They probably thought it was harmless.
The whole point of the movie, clearly from the framing of the story, is to portray Dave in a sympathetic light as an undeveloped youth with external sources of his developmental obstacles clearly portrayed. The opening scroll makes explicit that it is about the social pressures that cause problems. It is not a movie meant to shame teenagers or push on immature people the responsibility for correcting themselves. It is meant to make parents think more about what their children are going through and think twice about how you treat your children and what the consequences are. Instead most people react by joining in the chain of bullying by blaming the immature or pseudo-clinical namecalling trying to out bully the latest link even when it is a contrived fictional character used as a prop in a thought experiment, revealing their own emotional immaturity. The point of the creators was to ask the audience, What would YOU have done to help Dave to prevent this? Instead, the modern audience misses all the cues and projects their own intentions and just takes it as a horror show exhibit to dramatically exemplify bad behavior for the entertainment of morbid curiosity.
Exquisite, how insightful !
Excellently said!
For one,
Kindly make sure Dave is held accountable for his own behavior and his own decisions.
The bike and tires were innocent victims.
Next, anger management for Dave.
These videos are gold.
thank you so much for posting these old films... they are amazing :) I am 24 yrs old and love them
You're 29 now! Time does fly doesn't it?
@@bigtony6 haha damnnnnnn I'm actually 30 🥺
I'm the 24 year old here now 😅
Have any life advices you learned?
I'm hooked!!
Dave just got swiped left, 1950s style!
Dave's father is going upstairs to make everything alright (sarcasm off).
@@poetcomic1 lol, huge sarcasm. Why deny. His father reached that stage where he thinks his boy is a petty criminal. Actually this father is a disciplinarian but fails to give a role model for his son and fails to interact in a positive manner with him. Some father think they bring the money, and that's enough, it isn't for his boy.
I mean to be fair, he was swiped left for Young Dawson.
Young Dawson!
Come on. Let’s get real here. 😂
yup, and he showed his rejection sensitivity dysphoria!
I think the reason why Dave is immature is because his dad is immature. His mom mentioned that Dave looks up to his father and wants to be like him. Well, Dave is just like his father.
Exactly! Which is probably why the camera zooms on the father when the narrator asks the question ”what could have prevented dave’s immaturity?" Dave and his father get frustrated and can only come up with desperate and helpless solutions: grabbing the arm of your child in a threatening manner to make him mature up; slashing a tire to prevent a date lol. Dave is a perfect copy of his father. I wish they’d have shown how his dad should’ve acted instead...
@@yasmiiineee Both Dave and his father throw tantrums when they don't get their way.
His dad is as mature as any dad in the day. You have to remember, they lived through the Great Depression, WW II, and maybe his dad got knocked off in WW I and/or his mom died in the Spanish flu epidemic, or his sister died of polio .Impossible for you to even imagine, eh?
I don't think your idea holds water, his father was acting the best a father could. And for that day and age I think he was being quite patient and tolerant with his son, who at his age should already face up and show more maturity.
@@alanlado1602but that wasn’t how it was/is. His Dad did try to apologize to his son, I seen that the Dad also got angry when his son continued to be stubborn. How did you think the Dad could have done better in this situation?
It's hard to deal with rejection a lot of times, but being sore about it won't do anyone any good. It does take time to get over anyone or anything that upsets any individual. And yes, I see Richard from The Patty Duke Show(1963-66). 😁
Richard is the new boyfriend, isn't he?
Just like when his dad didn't take the rejection of going to the game well... he got it from him.
His dad coming up the stairs at the end was scary! Poor Dave!
What I liked most about the father at the end, it wasn't a burning rage, but a fear within his own eyes, uncertain on what to do or how to respond.
If the Dad had been holding a belt, rolled-up magazine, or extension cord then it would've been scary! I've been there too. 😢
Love these!!🙌💜
This music makes me feel like I'm walking through a road covered with yellow leaves, peaceful and quiet. 🍂
Yeah with the volume level I heard a lot of peace and quiet.
I just love these videos
I love the fact that the parents in all these film appear to be in their late 60s
They lived through two World Wars, a deadly flu epidemic and the Great Depression. Things like that wrinkle your face.
Yes, because young people took life more serious back then… looking old as dirt when in reality they were barely 30 yo.
David kind of looks like a 1950’s Zack Morris!
Lmao!
Can we just applaud Canada for making emotional responsibility shows then and currently to this day . PBS kids shows I've noticed are filmed in Canada. At least they open a dialogue for mental health segments
Where's the rest? I want to see what happens to Mr Tire Slasher!!
Furby Gender, I wrote my own ending up above!! Lol
Thanks for the old movies, very nice
These are so neat. You can really see that even though this kind of "emotional education" is progressive by today's standards, the 1958 mentality still comes through. Really wild to see the mother put up with being a full time mediator for both emotionally immature men. It really demonstrates the imbalance of emotional labor that was seen as acceptable back then. It's such a fascinating blend of progressive and regressive.
Dave is insane. I had a dentist neighbor who was like Dave.
dave has borderline personality disorder. The rejection sensitivity dysphoria, impulsivity, unstable relationships, and keying his ex's new BF's car gave it away
Law biding just citizen of these United States
lmao!!
#sociopath Yep. Not normal angry aggression.
No he didn’t lol he was just a rebellious angry broken hearted teen who maybe needed help regulating his teenage emotions teens goof up doesn’t mean he was mentally ill I think he needed compassion
The scene where Dave and his father talk in his bedroom is just perfect.
11:08 "Mother hasn't had a hot meal for herself in 15 years" 😉😁
Dude...I wanted to see how Dad handled this....
Wasn't that in A Christmas Story?
Some things never change lol
Wait. What? I
reality came at dave fast
What a brat Dave is. He'll spend his life blaming everyone else for everything that goes wrong. His Dad's a brat as well, but he has a point about the car, it's fair enough that he doesn't let his son drive it.
I disagree I think Dave was wrong for some of the stuff he did true but he just wanted the car to try to impress and win back his ex. He was broken hearted and felt like a failure over what happened on the football field. His dad was cold and unfeeling towards his son partly what made him how he was
life sucks so much pain love money health mean people im tired of it these vids just bring back memories of b.s.
Is there a video that discusses the solution to this set of conflicts? Especially regarding David’s emotional immaturity and his father’s emotional immaturity. It seems they both have a bunch of unresolved emotions or trauma. We see some of the stuff that David goes through but I believe the dad has gone through some stuff too to cause him to behave immaturely as well.
His father's emotional immaturity? Dave's father is the best character in the whole movie. He was honest and sincere in his desire to help him and was resolute to discipline his son because of his bad attitude, which is the best way to straighten up a man,
@@alanlado1602 I was thinking the father was emotionally immature as well because he seemed to try to get things done through pressure, intimidation, and coercion, rather than patience, kindness, and tolerance.
An example of immaturity was when he got upset when the son didn't want to go to the game with him. If the son doesn't want to go, it is up to the son. It was not right for the father to get aggressive and angry over it and throw a sort of adult tantrum. The son has every right not to go to the game if he doesn't want to; a child is not a parent's servant or property and doesn’t have to obey their parents' every command.
The scene reminded me of someone getting angry with another person when they don't forgive them. This shows a sense of entitlement because the person isn't entitled to the other person forgiving them; it is up to that person to decide if they want to forgive them or not.
Overall, I thought the father seemed quick to anger and quick to snap. He tended to not be mindful of the thoughts and feelings of others, often overlooking them and what they might be going through emotionally and psychologically.
I think one of the best ways to discipline others is to lead by example, through support, kindness, wisdom, and encouragement. The father did not demonstrate this type of behavior or attitude. Disciplining kids is hard work and being harsh and aggressive about it is not the best way to go about it. It is the easy, lazy, and immature way of going about it. The hard but right way of going about it is to do it with patience, kindness, and integrity. The immature person wants the quick and easy solution to something rather than putting the hard work in, but the mature person is willing to put the work in.
Lastly, an emotionally immature person doesn't take into consideration how they might be affecting those around them.
A combination of all of these points is why I found the father to be emotionally immature. The reply is long and lengthy but I hope you understand my viewpoint. May God bless us and guide us.
@@shaheer_ghaziI agree with your assessment. The father getting upset at the son not wanting to go to the game showed me you were right, and where Dave most likely got his rage from. These are really good skits to learn about what not to do.
@@shaheer_ghazi Indeed! We were told a number of times that part of the issue was "too high expectations". And even when he does confront his son, he treats him like a 5 year old, ironically. "Let's go to the game together!" instead of something that might build comradarie. Also, he was a boy himself once, and apparently Dave had been dating the girl for years, he should know some of the pain of what that is like and sympathize with his son.
Instead they both push each other way, leading to the situation where it ends up.
I don't know
The father ain't anymore mature then the kid
That's why the kid is immature. Because his father is.
yup! this is probably why Dave has BPD
@@sheagaier7582I have bpd too what is it and how am I supposed to act I'm from Dubai
I want that dinning room table.
I think the reason why Dave is so immature is that his parents were overprotective of him and not permissive enough. Their toxic parenting style is what stunted his growth. But, on the same token, I still think that this yelling and tire slashing is still unjustifiable. The dude is a criminal, and even I wouldn’t do that to anybody’s property, especially if I wouldn’t want somebody doing that to me. I’d be pretty upset if somebody punctured my tire!
I had strict parents growing up and I think I was an immature teenager because of it. So I think you're correct.
@@needles1987 Wow! Sorry about your situation! You have my feels. I too was in the same predicament and still am. I turned into an age regressor because of that.
@@GeekNArtist They would tell me that they would start treating me like an adult when I start acting like one, but they would never follow through with it. They wouldn't let me make my own mistakes. To this very day, I have anger management issues because of how they raised me.
Act just the same as Dave. At least i know his feelings at the moment.
Thanks for the upload, it helped a bit to understand the situation:)
I certainly want to travel back during this decade and stay there.
Patricia the booke this was before civil rights & institutionalized racism was a thing. But ok...
Enjoy the entrenched sexism. 🙍
The 50s would be good, As long as your white
@@luisreyes1963 Women are more depressed today then they were back then. Women today want the luxuries men have with none of the downsides. Women today don't want to live like the peasant men back then did, even though that's what the majority were like. Besides, why do you think feminism took so long to happen? Women aren't on the draft today and aren't fighting to be a part of it, even though men are.
Feminism took so long to happen because women didn't and still don't want to deal with the possibilities of war, so they found loopholes around it.
@Roswold Ferrugia The racism isn't what made the decade so great, and I wouldn't call everything sexism. I can show you what I mean about the sexism if you want, but isn't it more odd that etiquette started dying when racism started dying? I can't wrap my head around that one...
Dave is depress. He is suffering a lot.
Turn up the sound!
It's patty dukes boy friend from the party Duke show.
When that selfish Dave kicked the bike I felt so bad for it like what did that bike do the poor bike Dave should go to jail for that and the bike should sue
I read this just as Dave let the air out of those tires.
He’s got a real grudge against anything with wheels, it would seem .
@@BeckBeckGo he needs to be locked up for abusing that bike
😀👍💓
Yeah. I lt was unfair. The bike was an innocent bystander. It was such a pretty bicycle…sad the way it was just laying there😔after he brutalized it😫😂
"SHES ONLY 14, YOU'D NEVER KNOW IT" ahem ... she looks 20 to me!
why is the volume SO LOW
To me, born October 22, 1957, the very scene is at 0:15/19:45 is the most important! Depending on the exact time sequencing, I must have already reached 1 year of age, or somewhat before. At the very moment of egressing outside the school building, the SUN broke out of the covering Veil of Clouds to reflect SUNLIGHT on the Door's lower glass pane. These 2 seemed hurrying to get out to the parking lot beyond the steps down to pavement level. The young man is holding textbooks in both hands, either His own, or hers, or both. his Girl friend to his right has a MICKEY MOUSE like Bonnet on her tied up Hair. You don't see High Schoolers so dressed like that anymore, save at the prom. Who were these TWO? Are they still alive in 2022?
Jimmy played on Patty Duke show
I knew I recognized him!! Thanks Jean Fogle for placing him for me!
It bothers me that the film offers no solutions. Leaves you hangin'. I think the emotional insecurities of both the girl and the boy stem from their upbringings and family dynamics, and may be 'set' by this age. So is the boy destined for a life of crime?
I think they play this film & discuss the issues . Go Canada for making emotional responsible movies. Most PBS kids show that are about handling ur emotions are still made in Canada to this day.
90% of the comments on this are unhinged I love it
Im totally the exact same way as dad about driving with my daughter. I was very selective with the use of my car because is she had an accident it would be the end of the world. 😂 my mom on the other hand was more like "here! Take the car! Just leave!" 😅😂 she would be 12 or 13 years old when this was made..🤣🤣🤣 this was made for her!😂
That looks like a grown-up version of Eddy monster.The dad should’ve been walking up the stairs with a belt, It would’ve been more of a reflection of the times and how they dealt with most everything and kids
You know, I’ve seen enough of these that I’m wondering how normative that was.
the kid clearly has borderline personality. the impulsivity, rejection sensitivity dysphoria and unstable relationships gave it all away
Eh. Not as common as you think.
Does anyone one know the title of the music at the very beginning?
In The ALBERT Chronicles, is this Door Scene at 0:15/19:45, showing these 2 EGRESSING OUT, the MALE Adolescent holding the Books in His clasping Hands, His GIRL Friend holding Her PURSE, the earliest Recorded Moment of Action, realized by the then Infant?
Shoot I can't believe it ended like that! What will happen to Dave?
oh ya Dave running is going to make your problems go away l.o.l
🤣🤣🤣he kicked over someone else's bicycle...🤣🤣🤣
The guy looks exactly like Austin Butler!!
That's Patricia Bruder who played "Ellen" on As The World Turns!!
I thought I recognized her! She has very distinctive features that didn’t change over the years.
6:38 Mary Wickes Jr. LOL
This is universal
People here in the comment section are being so harsh on Dave. But I actually feel bad for him. He just wants to livet he life like everyone else, but his father always makes him feel depressed and immature. And absolutely noone is talking about how the girl had dumped Dave for a random guy instead of helping him out. This shows how lowly we have fallen as a society, where the depressed has no place at all to live normally
Percy Kid Pester..the Dad used to be on CBC tv in Canada on a kids show and played a black capped villian.
That's Ed McNamara?
What's the actor's name that played Dave?
Nice 👌🙏🙏🙏
Volumes too.low. and yes I ve got my device turned up to maximum Volume
Let's bring back soda shops !
It's too bad you can't hear it. I'm sure I would've enjoyed it a lot better.
Is it me or is the volume is so low?!
"How did Dave end up in this situation?" Well, not through 'emotional instability', that's for sure. His girlfriend left him for someone else without ever thinking to address her grievances with him before she set up a date with another guy behind his back. His so called friends are all gossiping about how he isn't any good at the one thing he's passionate about. His father is controlling and, seeing his son upset at the loss of his girlfriend, decided to throw his support to the kid that snatched his girlfriend out from under him. Dave is not the problem. "Why can't he just accept life as it is?" Why should he accept the people he cares about steamrolling him and kicking him while he's down? He shouldn't have slashed the tires, but if you tell someone they're selfish and unstable and good-for-nothing all the time, eventually they'll believe it and their behaviour will reflect it. Everyone in his life thought they could do him dirty and expected him to take it and were shocked when he retaliated. Then they brand him as crazy. It's classic gaslighting. Much more, Dave will end up in the doctor's office, looking down the sharp end of an ice pick and everyone'll say what a tragedy it was.
Dave Dave you don't stick around to rip off the whitewall
Dave is cute but crazy as a roach.
That girl Jill is a homely dog. Her friend that shows up at the table at the diner last was gorgeous.
His father reminds me of the count on Sesame Street
Oh boy, that bicycle was innocent. 😫😂
Wait ... Betty broke up with Archie to date Reggie?
Emotional Maturity for kids these days
Anybody else think Dave looks like and talks like Anakin Skywalker (Hayden Christenson)?
This video doesn't really give much of a resolution and leaves it on a difficult part. If we can just have it so that we see what the solution is, then it would be very helpful.
The guy playing Dave is doing a great acting job. He typifies the ‘woke’ generation today. A childish miserable lot.
You saw these films when they were new, didn't you?
@@timothyhh No. Born in 1992
That's not what woke means.
@@larkatmic "Woke" means aware of social issues, such as racism and inequality.
@@needles1987 The foundation of ‘Woke Culture’ is victimhood, whether real or feigned dearest one. Has nothing to do with awareness of social injustice, but everything to do with ego. Its promoted a culture where everyone wants to be a victim and when everyone wants to be a victim, a significant section of them will naturally invent crimes to suit their agenda. It’s a great injustice to actual victims who have very good reasons to feel victimized. They deserve every bit of our empathy and compassion. However, in Woke Culture, people who do not deserve it see the empathy and compassion that is accorded to victims as an incentive to pretend to be victims themselves. It’s narcissistic and immensely selfish. And I believe it will eventually lead to the ultimate end of the progressive supremacist movement that has held the reigns for so long. JMO.
Dave clearly has impulsive Borderline Personality disorder. The rejection sensitivity dysphoria, the unstable relationships, stabbing the tires of the guy who took out his ex's car, and his dad about to go spank him gave it away.
You know I thought Dave looked so good looking in the thumbnail. I surely hoped he was going to be the good guy.. I guess you cant have both all the time. But I can definitely see who he got that attitude from, and who empowered him... not so good duo of parents
Poor Dave! My heart goes out to him! No one understands him. That girl who dumped him was a superficial b××××. She even had Jim waiting around the corner as she was dumping him. Well, in my version of the ending, Dave's dad did go up to Dave's room and they fought and it was like Rebel without a cause and Dave stormed out of the house. He was caught and punished, but the next day at school that lovely sophomore girl approached Dave and they got super friendly. She had her own car so she drove Dave home and Dave announced he was in love. Much to the happiness of his parents, who excused his punishment! Dave and her started going together and he became the envy of all his friends. She encouraged him to try out for track which he excelled at over football and he became a track star! Everyone loved him! Meanwhile, the girl who dumped him got pregnant by Jim and they were both thrown out of their homes, became high school dropouts and were forced to live in the ghetto. Dave graduated with honors went on to college and became a high powered attorney and married that lovely sophomore. They became millionaires! Karma is a b×××× and I'm team Dave all the way! He's better looking than Jim anyway.
Wow.
This actually made me feel better. Honestly, the little movie depressed me!
jesus christ lmfao
Glad it did yea the movie depressed me a little too and had me wondering what happened to Dave but I figured I’d tie up loose ends lol
lol 😂
So basically incel women-hating Reddit mods have always existed 💀
😫Reddit Mods🤣
Dave’s a nut job and stalker ....needs a good shrink lol
yup! he has untreated borderline personality disorder
Is there treatment for #sociopathy ?
Jill looks familiar to me, like I’ve seen her in a TV show.
She was in As the World Turns.
The boy is a walking 🚶♀️ red flag 🏃♂️💨
Three months at MCRD San Diego will set Dave straight !
At the end, is the dad going upstairs to whip his son or ream him a new one?
Then, his dad beats the shit out of him and he finally learns the lesson once and for all.
you can't beat out borderline personality disorder.
I think Dave's big hair is causing brain wave disturbances.
The hairline is off. Mum was the word back then on hormone blockers and such issues.
“She’s only 14” “..you’re telling me WOW” why’d your steady leave you? Cause you’re a creep or?…
This guy reminds me of Nate from Euphoria 😭
GeForce: can you do Doom 3 RTX?
BPD 😢
Was he going to go to boarding school?
Hormone blockers taking a toll on Dave.
Dave went on to become a serial killer and wound up in prison for life.
So she literally made plans to date another guy while she was still with her boyfriend and broke up with him when he asked her about it?
Closure instead of ghosting.
@@kbeautician more like cheating
I can’t hear it… is it just my tablet? It’s so so quiet I can hardly tell what they’re saying I had to turn on subtitles. 😔
Well I watched it anyway. I think if he was smarter he would’ve stabbed the tire and then ran away. Forget about the dumb white wash rims a flat tire would’ve been enough to inconvenience him.
He’s very jaded. She broke up with him in a real crappy way and she wasn’t sensitive to how he felt at all. And his father should’ve been more understanding about him losing his girl. At least I think so. He’s 16 he’s going to be upset. Without the right reaction and guidance he’s gonna do something stupid just like that. I knew he was going to get caught though.
His father went upstairs and what did he do? If he had a brain he would say I'll pay for the damage if you get some help.
Give credit where credit is due, not all 6-year-old boys know what impertinence means.