Emotional Maturity (1958)

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  • Emotional Maturity by Crawley Films, Ltd B&W
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  • @tailsntrails
    @tailsntrails 5 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    These videos are really helping me get my life together

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s kind of sad.

    • @zoesparrow-rk7se
      @zoesparrow-rk7se ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Not sad at all. Pretty cool actually!

    • @amouryong
      @amouryong 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Me too! I feel like I'm learning so much, and I'm intrigued by every aspect

    • @tamir8501
      @tamir8501 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@dewilew2137 Sad? He put his ego aside so he could take a moment to learn and better himself. That's what I call emotional maturity.

    • @fonso1030
      @fonso1030 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dewilew2137not sad at all, this is all sorely needed information today, many people don’t even have a good example at home to start with.

  • @alanlado1602
    @alanlado1602 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    I don't know who's behind the channel, but I am very grateful for these movies. They are a big help for young men and they help preserve good values like discipline, respect for parents, friendship, hard work and character. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

    • @mttknvlalp_
      @mttknvlalp_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Period

  • @cautionTosser
    @cautionTosser 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    that was a pretty shitty way to break up with him. She accepts a date with someone else first? and then, "oh yeah. guess we're broken." COLD

    • @BeckBeckGo
      @BeckBeckGo ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Right? I mean she has every right to break up with someone, but she didn’t really handle it that well.

    • @BeckBeckGo
      @BeckBeckGo ปีที่แล้ว +9

      … lol I’m so invested in the lives of these 50s after school special kids.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was a POS.

    • @mikezylstra7514
      @mikezylstra7514 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's gonna be a fattie. I can tell.

    • @garylarson4415
      @garylarson4415 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ha! ha! Will they turn out to be ok?@@BeckBeckGo

  • @wmalden
    @wmalden 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Dave had a “no smoking” sign on the wall in his bedroom and his dad walks in smoking a cigarette!

    • @needles1987
      @needles1987 ปีที่แล้ว

      His dad's an asshole.

    • @Angellady11
      @Angellady11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Well, Dave’s “non-smoking” room is in his father’s “smoking” house. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @alanlado1602
      @alanlado1602 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@dewilew2137well said, a father can go anywhere in his home anyway, it is his home, and he is the authority

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@alanlado1602 Yeah, I’m not agreeing to all that. It’s absolutely wrong to smoke cigarettes around children, but I realize that most people didn’t know just how bad cigarette smoke was at this time. Especially not secondhand smoke. They probably thought it was harmless.

  • @alanlado1602
    @alanlado1602 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Seriously, I think the best part of this movie is his father. A good father in the life of a kid, especially a boy is so important...

  • @jessicascott6413
    @jessicascott6413 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Like father like son. Round & round it goes . Kids are representations of their parents upbringing . It takes work & some parents don't bother & blame it on mental illness . Watch super nanny she doesn't teach the kids she teaches the parents what they are lacking . Structure , patience, guidance & communication.

    • @lynndupree1205
      @lynndupree1205 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You can't just conveniently blame awful behavior on the parents. Example: here is a family with 3 children. Two of the kids grow up to be happy, well adjusted, productive members of society. The other kid is a drug addicted jail bird who beats his wife. All 3 kids had the same upbringing. Could it be that the problem child just made his own bad decisions?

  • @pinedrone2550
    @pinedrone2550 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    The whole point of the movie, clearly from the framing of the story, is to portray Dave in a sympathetic light as an undeveloped youth with external sources of his developmental obstacles clearly portrayed. The opening scroll makes explicit that it is about the social pressures that cause problems. It is not a movie meant to shame teenagers or push on immature people the responsibility for correcting themselves. It is meant to make parents think more about what their children are going through and think twice about how you treat your children and what the consequences are. Instead most people react by joining in the chain of bullying by blaming the immature or pseudo-clinical namecalling trying to out bully the latest link even when it is a contrived fictional character used as a prop in a thought experiment, revealing their own emotional immaturity. The point of the creators was to ask the audience, What would YOU have done to help Dave to prevent this? Instead, the modern audience misses all the cues and projects their own intentions and just takes it as a horror show exhibit to dramatically exemplify bad behavior for the entertainment of morbid curiosity.

    • @talasaleh7284
      @talasaleh7284 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exquisite, how insightful !

    • @jah-marii8230
      @jah-marii8230 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Excellently said!

  • @hollywood5199
    @hollywood5199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Guys were still like this when I went to high school in the late 1980's. Some things never change.

    • @BeckBeckGo
      @BeckBeckGo ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They were the same in the 2000s too.

    • @KreulWorld
      @KreulWorld ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Boys will be boys 😂

    • @DZ302-Z28
      @DZ302-Z28 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If only these skirts weren't so hypergamous

    • @sheagaier7582
      @sheagaier7582 ปีที่แล้ว

      or they had undiagnosed borderline PD

    • @midorimashintaro2092
      @midorimashintaro2092 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@DZ302-Z28what does your comment mean?

  • @HobbyOrganist
    @HobbyOrganist ปีที่แล้ว +37

    "Dave" is the kind of nut who will beat up a woman, the jealous posessive kind that tries to isolate her, she'll wind up in the hospital or worse- THIS is the age where all that crap starts, you could see by his actions on the sidewalk when he kicks his bike over and storms off.
    And then later he vandalizes the other guys car in a rage and gets caught!
    Dang, wish the film was long enough to see Dave get his punishment for vandalizing the car!

    • @mikezylstra7514
      @mikezylstra7514 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup. A wife beater in the making. I agree.

    • @alanlado1602
      @alanlado1602 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I agree. Discipline shapes character. Take away discipline and you take away character.

  • @botticellichick6393
    @botticellichick6393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I needed a stethoscope to hear this!! 😕

    • @archaicamusement3871
      @archaicamusement3871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      😂

    • @Radio_Jingles_55
      @Radio_Jingles_55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Since I can't lip read, this old educational flick was a pass...

    • @Radio_Jingles_55
      @Radio_Jingles_55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Since I can't lip read, this old educational flick was a pass...

    • @davenone7312
      @davenone7312 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Use the closed captioning duh!

    • @BeckBeckGo
      @BeckBeckGo ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh thank god I thought I was going deaf suddenly.

  • @kevinawarner1005
    @kevinawarner1005 8 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I like to watch old films idk but its cool to watch them

    • @asielmilian38
      @asielmilian38 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah.

    • @nipin790
      @nipin790 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am addicted

  • @needles1987
    @needles1987 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I think the reason why Dave is immature is because his dad is immature. His mom mentioned that Dave looks up to his father and wants to be like him. Well, Dave is just like his father.

    • @yasmiiineee
      @yasmiiineee ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Exactly! Which is probably why the camera zooms on the father when the narrator asks the question ”what could have prevented dave’s immaturity?" Dave and his father get frustrated and can only come up with desperate and helpless solutions: grabbing the arm of your child in a threatening manner to make him mature up; slashing a tire to prevent a date lol. Dave is a perfect copy of his father. I wish they’d have shown how his dad should’ve acted instead...

    • @needles1987
      @needles1987 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@yasmiiineee Both Dave and his father throw tantrums when they don't get their way.

    • @mikezylstra7514
      @mikezylstra7514 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      His dad is as mature as any dad in the day. You have to remember, they lived through the Great Depression, WW II, and maybe his dad got knocked off in WW I and/or his mom died in the Spanish flu epidemic, or his sister died of polio .Impossible for you to even imagine, eh?

    • @alanlado1602
      @alanlado1602 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I don't think your idea holds water, his father was acting the best a father could. And for that day and age I think he was being quite patient and tolerant with his son, who at his age should already face up and show more maturity.

    • @jah-marii8230
      @jah-marii8230 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@alanlado1602but that wasn’t how it was/is. His Dad did try to apologize to his son, I seen that the Dad also got angry when his son continued to be stubborn. How did you think the Dad could have done better in this situation?

  • @PureVikingPowers
    @PureVikingPowers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    "He acts like a big baby" Oh so manchild has been around for a long time than 😂😂

  • @3boxop633
    @3boxop633 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Dave just got swiped left, 1950s style!

    • @poetcomic1
      @poetcomic1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dave's father is going upstairs to make everything alright (sarcasm off).

    • @ericastier1646
      @ericastier1646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@poetcomic1 lol, huge sarcasm. Why deny. His father reached that stage where he thinks his boy is a petty criminal. Actually this father is a disciplinarian but fails to give a role model for his son and fails to interact in a positive manner with him. Some father think they bring the money, and that's enough, it isn't for his boy.

    • @BeckBeckGo
      @BeckBeckGo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I mean to be fair, he was swiped left for Young Dawson.
      Young Dawson!
      Come on. Let’s get real here. 😂

    • @sheagaier7582
      @sheagaier7582 ปีที่แล้ว

      yup, and he showed his rejection sensitivity dysphoria!

  • @richardhoward4645
    @richardhoward4645 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love the fact that the parents in all these film appear to be in their late 60s

    • @mikezylstra7514
      @mikezylstra7514 ปีที่แล้ว

      They lived through two World Wars, a deadly flu epidemic and the Great Depression. Things like that wrinkle your face.

  • @Clm0323
    @Clm0323 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    David kind of looks like a 1950’s Zack Morris!

  • @dariowiter3078
    @dariowiter3078 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    It's hard to deal with rejection a lot of times, but being sore about it won't do anyone any good. It does take time to get over anyone or anything that upsets any individual. And yes, I see Richard from The Patty Duke Show(1963-66). 😁

    • @needles1987
      @needles1987 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Richard is the new boyfriend, isn't he?

    • @antithoughtpolice7497
      @antithoughtpolice7497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just like when his dad didn't take the rejection of going to the game well... he got it from him.

  • @susiethomas6909
    @susiethomas6909 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    His dad coming up the stairs at the end was scary! Poor Dave!

    • @HighPriestFuneral
      @HighPriestFuneral 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      What I liked most about the father at the end, it wasn't a burning rage, but a fear within his own eyes, uncertain on what to do or how to respond.

    • @edwardgaines6561
      @edwardgaines6561 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If the Dad had been holding a belt, rolled-up magazine, or extension cord then it would've been scary! I've been there too. 😢

  • @gsnowakowski
    @gsnowakowski 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    These videos are gold.

  • @jessicascott6413
    @jessicascott6413 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Can we just applaud Canada for making emotional responsibility shows then and currently to this day . PBS kids shows I've noticed are filmed in Canada. At least they open a dialogue for mental health segments

  • @cybersee9966
    @cybersee9966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Dave is insane. I had a dentist neighbor who was like Dave.

    • @sheagaier7582
      @sheagaier7582 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      dave has borderline personality disorder. The rejection sensitivity dysphoria, impulsivity, unstable relationships, and keying his ex's new BF's car gave it away

    • @ParanoidLeadBuzz
      @ParanoidLeadBuzz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Law biding just citizen of these United States

    • @thepapermuse
      @thepapermuse หลายเดือนก่อน

      lmao!!

  • @alanlado1602
    @alanlado1602 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The scene where Dave and his father talk in his bedroom is just perfect.

  • @TapirusT
    @TapirusT 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    thank you so much for posting these old films... they are amazing :) I am 24 yrs old and love them

    • @bigtony6
      @bigtony6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're 29 now! Time does fly doesn't it?

    • @TapirusT
      @TapirusT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bigtony6 haha damnnnnnn I'm actually 30 🥺

    • @MrCruz-iq3sc
      @MrCruz-iq3sc 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm the 24 year old here now 😅
      Have any life advices you learned?

  • @evelynwilson1566
    @evelynwilson1566 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    What a brat Dave is. He'll spend his life blaming everyone else for everything that goes wrong. His Dad's a brat as well, but he has a point about the car, it's fair enough that he doesn't let his son drive it.

  • @estrellacasias
    @estrellacasias ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The father ain't anymore mature then the kid

    • @needles1987
      @needles1987 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That's why the kid is immature. Because his father is.

    • @sheagaier7582
      @sheagaier7582 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yup! this is probably why Dave has BPD

    • @suscrieforsubscribing1146
      @suscrieforsubscribing1146 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@sheagaier7582I have bpd too what is it and how am I supposed to act I'm from Dubai

  • @flo.driizzle729
    @flo.driizzle729 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Love these!!🙌💜

  • @javi__...
    @javi__... 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    reality came at dave fast

  • @johnnycash578
    @johnnycash578 หลายเดือนก่อน

    life sucks so much pain love money health mean people im tired of it these vids just bring back memories of b.s.

  • @StacyL.
    @StacyL. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    11:08 "Mother hasn't had a hot meal for herself in 15 years" 😉😁

    • @StacyL.
      @StacyL. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dude...I wanted to see how Dad handled this....

    • @needles1987
      @needles1987 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wasn't that in A Christmas Story?

    • @BeckBeckGo
      @BeckBeckGo ปีที่แล้ว

      Some things never change lol

  • @miriamatukunda20
    @miriamatukunda20 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the old movies, very nice

  • @archaicamusement3871
    @archaicamusement3871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Dave is depress. He is suffering a lot.

  • @brightclouds98
    @brightclouds98 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This video doesn't really give much of a resolution and leaves it on a difficult part. If we can just have it so that we see what the solution is, then it would be very helpful.

  • @firstpeter31822
    @firstpeter31822 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I think the reason why Dave is so immature is that his parents were overprotective of him and not permissive enough. Their toxic parenting style is what stunted his growth. But, on the same token, I still think that this yelling and tire slashing is still unjustifiable. The dude is a criminal, and even I wouldn’t do that to anybody’s property, especially if I wouldn’t want somebody doing that to me. I’d be pretty upset if somebody punctured my tire!

    • @needles1987
      @needles1987 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I had strict parents growing up and I think I was an immature teenager because of it. So I think you're correct.

    • @firstpeter31822
      @firstpeter31822 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@needles1987 Wow! Sorry about your situation! You have my feels. I too was in the same predicament and still am. I turned into an age regressor because of that.

    • @needles1987
      @needles1987 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@firstpeter31822 They would tell me that they would start treating me like an adult when I start acting like one, but they would never follow through with it. They wouldn't let me make my own mistakes. To this very day, I have anger management issues because of how they raised me.

  • @sophiadavenport3959
    @sophiadavenport3959 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I certainly want to travel back during this decade and stay there.

    • @PolloMaster1996
      @PolloMaster1996 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Patricia the booke this was before civil rights & institutionalized racism was a thing. But ok...

    • @luisreyes1963
      @luisreyes1963 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Enjoy the entrenched sexism. 🙍

    • @aclown36
      @aclown36 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The 50s would be good, As long as your white

    • @antithoughtpolice7497
      @antithoughtpolice7497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@luisreyes1963 Women are more depressed today then they were back then. Women today want the luxuries men have with none of the downsides. Women today don't want to live like the peasant men back then did, even though that's what the majority were like. Besides, why do you think feminism took so long to happen? Women aren't on the draft today and aren't fighting to be a part of it, even though men are.
      Feminism took so long to happen because women didn't and still don't want to deal with the possibilities of war, so they found loopholes around it.

    • @antithoughtpolice7497
      @antithoughtpolice7497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Roswold Ferrugia The racism isn't what made the decade so great, and I wouldn't call everything sexism. I can show you what I mean about the sexism if you want, but isn't it more odd that etiquette started dying when racism started dying? I can't wrap my head around that one...

  • @Shogun-qs6sv
    @Shogun-qs6sv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This reminded me of my older brother growing up. He was complete doooch and pick on me until I got older I gave him a taste of his own medicine and talk back to him whenever he tried to screw with me. But he would explode like a day later or week like a crazy person. He's still that way 50 years later a big bark but no bite.

  • @Shasta31487
    @Shasta31487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I want that dinning room table.

  • @thomasbinninger1355
    @thomasbinninger1355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's patty dukes boy friend from the party Duke show.

  • @ceasarsoldier5107
    @ceasarsoldier5107 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Act just the same as Dave. At least i know his feelings at the moment.
    Thanks for the upload, it helped a bit to understand the situation:)

  • @JunaidWolf3
    @JunaidWolf3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    When that selfish Dave kicked the bike I felt so bad for it like what did that bike do the poor bike Dave should go to jail for that and the bike should sue

    • @BeckBeckGo
      @BeckBeckGo ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I read this just as Dave let the air out of those tires.
      He’s got a real grudge against anything with wheels, it would seem .

    • @JunaidWolf3
      @JunaidWolf3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BeckBeckGo he needs to be locked up for abusing that bike

    • @onecoolcat2478
      @onecoolcat2478 ปีที่แล้ว

      😀👍💓

  • @thepapermuse
    @thepapermuse หลายเดือนก่อน

    90% of the comments on this are unhinged I love it

  • @FurbyGender
    @FurbyGender 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Where's the rest? I want to see what happens to Mr Tire Slasher!!

    • @fembotprincess1
      @fembotprincess1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Furby Gender, I wrote my own ending up above!! Lol

  • @jeanfogle7283
    @jeanfogle7283 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jimmy played on Patty Duke show

    • @prettypeggy98
      @prettypeggy98 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I knew I recognized him!! Thanks Jean Fogle for placing him for me!

  • @chetyoubetya8565
    @chetyoubetya8565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That looks like a grown-up version of Eddy monster.The dad should’ve been walking up the stairs with a belt, It would’ve been more of a reflection of the times and how they dealt with most everything and kids

    • @BeckBeckGo
      @BeckBeckGo ปีที่แล้ว

      You know, I’ve seen enough of these that I’m wondering how normative that was.

    • @sheagaier7582
      @sheagaier7582 ปีที่แล้ว

      the kid clearly has borderline personality. the impulsivity, rejection sensitivity dysphoria and unstable relationships gave it all away

    • @zoesparrow-rk7se
      @zoesparrow-rk7se ปีที่แล้ว

      Eh. Not as common as you think.

  • @julietstar95
    @julietstar95 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The guy looks exactly like Austin Butler!!

  • @KreulWorld
    @KreulWorld ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im totally the exact same way as dad about driving with my daughter. I was very selective with the use of my car because is she had an accident it would be the end of the world. 😂 my mom on the other hand was more like "here! Take the car! Just leave!" 😅😂 she would be 12 or 13 years old when this was made..🤣🤣🤣 this was made for her!😂

  • @hiddendragon1359
    @hiddendragon1359 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is universal

  • @netoscollectibles
    @netoscollectibles 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    oh ya Dave running is going to make your problems go away l.o.l

  • @OfficerLarryNMSE
    @OfficerLarryNMSE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    🤣🤣🤣he kicked over someone else's bicycle...🤣🤣🤣

  • @jaminova_1969
    @jaminova_1969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Turn up the sound!

  • @BhanuPartap-zl3eg
    @BhanuPartap-zl3eg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice 👌🙏🙏🙏

  • @albertkundrat2129
    @albertkundrat2129 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    To me, born October 22, 1957, the very scene is at 0:15/19:45 is the most important! Depending on the exact time sequencing, I must have already reached 1 year of age, or somewhat before. At the very moment of egressing outside the school building, the SUN broke out of the covering Veil of Clouds to reflect SUNLIGHT on the Door's lower glass pane. These 2 seemed hurrying to get out to the parking lot beyond the steps down to pavement level. The young man is holding textbooks in both hands, either His own, or hers, or both. his Girl friend to his right has a MICKEY MOUSE like Bonnet on her tied up Hair. You don't see High Schoolers so dressed like that anymore, save at the prom. Who were these TWO? Are they still alive in 2022?

  • @gregoryagogo
    @gregoryagogo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It bothers me that the film offers no solutions. Leaves you hangin'. I think the emotional insecurities of both the girl and the boy stem from their upbringings and family dynamics, and may be 'set' by this age. So is the boy destined for a life of crime?

    • @jessicascott6413
      @jessicascott6413 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think they play this film & discuss the issues . Go Canada for making emotional responsible movies. Most PBS kids show that are about handling ur emotions are still made in Canada to this day.

  • @shaheer_ghazi
    @shaheer_ghazi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Is there a video that discusses the solution to this set of conflicts? Especially regarding David’s emotional immaturity and his father’s emotional immaturity. It seems they both have a bunch of unresolved emotions or trauma. We see some of the stuff that David goes through but I believe the dad has gone through some stuff too to cause him to behave immaturely as well.

    • @alanlado1602
      @alanlado1602 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      His father's emotional immaturity? Dave's father is the best character in the whole movie. He was honest and sincere in his desire to help him and was resolute to discipline his son because of his bad attitude, which is the best way to straighten up a man,

    • @shaheer_ghazi
      @shaheer_ghazi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@alanlado1602 I was thinking the father was emotionally immature as well because he seemed to try to get things done through pressure, intimidation, and coercion, rather than patience, kindness, and tolerance.
      An example of immaturity was when he got upset when the son didn't want to go to the game with him. If the son doesn't want to go, it is up to the son. It was not right for the father to get aggressive and angry over it and throw a sort of adult tantrum. The son has every right not to go to the game if he doesn't want to; a child is not a parent's servant or property and doesn’t have to obey their parents' every command.
      The scene reminded me of someone getting angry with another person when they don't forgive them. This shows a sense of entitlement because the person isn't entitled to the other person forgiving them; it is up to that person to decide if they want to forgive them or not.
      Overall, I thought the father seemed quick to anger and quick to snap. He tended to not be mindful of the thoughts and feelings of others, often overlooking them and what they might be going through emotionally and psychologically.
      I think one of the best ways to discipline others is to lead by example, through support, kindness, wisdom, and encouragement. The father did not demonstrate this type of behavior or attitude. Disciplining kids is hard work and being harsh and aggressive about it is not the best way to go about it. It is the easy, lazy, and immature way of going about it. The hard but right way of going about it is to do it with patience, kindness, and integrity. The immature person wants the quick and easy solution to something rather than putting the hard work in, but the mature person is willing to put the work in.
      Lastly, an emotionally immature person doesn't take into consideration how they might be affecting those around them.
      A combination of all of these points is why I found the father to be emotionally immature. The reply is long and lengthy but I hope you understand my viewpoint. May God bless us and guide us.

    • @Ana-rb7ws
      @Ana-rb7ws 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@shaheer_ghaziI agree with your assessment. The father getting upset at the son not wanting to go to the game showed me you were right, and where Dave most likely got his rage from. These are really good skits to learn about what not to do.

    • @HighPriestFuneral
      @HighPriestFuneral 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@shaheer_ghazi Indeed! We were told a number of times that part of the issue was "too high expectations". And even when he does confront his son, he treats him like a 5 year old, ironically. "Let's go to the game together!" instead of something that might build comradarie. Also, he was a boy himself once, and apparently Dave had been dating the girl for years, he should know some of the pain of what that is like and sympathize with his son.
      Instead they both push each other way, leading to the situation where it ends up.

    • @suscrieforsubscribing1146
      @suscrieforsubscribing1146 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't know

  • @baitandchicks9799
    @baitandchicks9799 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    People here in the comment section are being so harsh on Dave. But I actually feel bad for him. He just wants to livet he life like everyone else, but his father always makes him feel depressed and immature. And absolutely noone is talking about how the girl had dumped Dave for a random guy instead of helping him out. This shows how lowly we have fallen as a society, where the depressed has no place at all to live normally

  • @gorgeouss79
    @gorgeouss79 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    why is the volume SO LOW

  • @kathyabeauty
    @kathyabeauty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    "SHES ONLY 14, YOU'D NEVER KNOW IT" ahem ... she looks 20 to me!

  • @mikehudson8884
    @mikehudson8884 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Does anyone one know the title of the music at the very beginning?

  • @annrae1597
    @annrae1597 ปีที่แล้ว

    Percy Kid Pester..the Dad used to be on CBC tv in Canada on a kids show and played a black capped villian.

    • @needles1987
      @needles1987 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's Ed McNamara?

  • @gregoryagogo
    @gregoryagogo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    6:38 Mary Wickes Jr. LOL

  • @hollywood5199
    @hollywood5199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dave is cute but crazy as a roach.

  • @loki6253
    @loki6253 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dave Dave you don't stick around to rip off the whitewall

  • @mttknvlalp_
    @mttknvlalp_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The boy is a walking 🚶‍♀️ red flag 🏃‍♂️💨

  • @poe250
    @poe250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That girl Jill is a homely dog. Her friend that shows up at the table at the diner last was gorgeous.

  • @KreulWorld
    @KreulWorld ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's too bad you can't hear it. I'm sure I would've enjoyed it a lot better.

  • @beepbopboop1873
    @beepbopboop1873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So basically incel women-hating Reddit mods have always existed 💀

  • @jillsauder8340
    @jillsauder8340 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Anybody else think Dave looks like and talks like Anakin Skywalker (Hayden Christenson)?

  • @albertkundrat1734
    @albertkundrat1734 ปีที่แล้ว

    In The ALBERT Chronicles, is this Door Scene at 0:15/19:45, showing these 2 EGRESSING OUT, the MALE Adolescent holding the Books in His clasping Hands, His GIRL Friend holding Her PURSE, the earliest Recorded Moment of Action, realized by the then Infant?

  • @poetcomic1
    @poetcomic1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think Dave's big hair is causing brain wave disturbances.

  • @Random_Wierdo.
    @Random_Wierdo. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So she literally made plans to date another guy while she was still with her boyfriend and broke up with him when he asked her about it?

  • @Ctrl-XYZ
    @Ctrl-XYZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Posted in the wrong aspect ratio -- all stretched out sideways. Should be 4:3, not 16:9

  • @amouryong
    @amouryong 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You know I thought Dave looked so good looking in the thumbnail. I surely hoped he was going to be the good guy.. I guess you cant have both all the time. But I can definitely see who he got that attitude from, and who empowered him... not so good duo of parents

  • @joannej_Youtube
    @joannej_Youtube 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wait ... Betty broke up with Archie to date Reggie?

  • @The3GMom
    @The3GMom ปีที่แล้ว

    Jill looks familiar to me, like I’ve seen her in a TV show.

    • @needles1987
      @needles1987 ปีที่แล้ว

      She was in As the World Turns.

  • @khatzeye
    @khatzeye 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    BPD 😢

  • @yourfavorite7518
    @yourfavorite7518 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This guy reminds me of Nate from Euphoria 😭

  • @fingerprint5511
    @fingerprint5511 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Emotional Maturity for kids these days

  • @charlesyoung9980
    @charlesyoung9980 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Give credit where credit is due, not all 6-year-old boys know what impertinence means.

  • @jessicaboyd3539
    @jessicaboyd3539 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “She’s only 14” “..you’re telling me WOW” why’d your steady leave you? Cause you’re a creep or?…

  • @jadedavis822
    @jadedavis822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dave’s a nut job and stalker ....needs a good shrink lol

    • @sheagaier7582
      @sheagaier7582 ปีที่แล้ว

      yup! he has untreated borderline personality disorder

  • @hisserenehighness5930
    @hisserenehighness5930 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "How did Dave end up in this situation?" Well, not through 'emotional instability', that's for sure. His girlfriend left him for someone else without ever thinking to address her grievances with him before she set up a date with another guy behind his back. His so called friends are all gossiping about how he isn't any good at the one thing he's passionate about. His father is controlling and, seeing his son upset at the loss of his girlfriend, decided to throw his support to the kid that snatched his girlfriend out from under him. Dave is not the problem. "Why can't he just accept life as it is?" Why should he accept the people he cares about steamrolling him and kicking him while he's down? He shouldn't have slashed the tires, but if you tell someone they're selfish and unstable and good-for-nothing all the time, eventually they'll believe it and their behaviour will reflect it. Everyone in his life thought they could do him dirty and expected him to take it and were shocked when he retaliated. Then they brand him as crazy. It's classic gaslighting. Much more, Dave will end up in the doctor's office, looking down the sharp end of an ice pick and everyone'll say what a tragedy it was.

  • @sl4983
    @sl4983 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Was he going to go to boarding school?

  • @tailsntrails
    @tailsntrails 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Poor Dave.

  • @Lisa59
    @Lisa59 ปีที่แล้ว

    At the end, is the dad going upstairs to whip his son or ream him a new one?

  • @GGehlker
    @GGehlker ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude needs to run away and join a commune.

  • @larkatmic
    @larkatmic ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The guy playing Dave is doing a great acting job. He typifies the ‘woke’ generation today. A childish miserable lot.

    • @timothyhh
      @timothyhh ปีที่แล้ว

      You saw these films when they were new, didn't you?

    • @larkatmic
      @larkatmic ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@timothyhh No. Born in 1992

    • @needles1987
      @needles1987 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's not what woke means.

    • @needles1987
      @needles1987 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@larkatmic "Woke" means aware of social issues, such as racism and inequality.

    • @larkatmic
      @larkatmic ปีที่แล้ว

      @@needles1987 The foundation of ‘Woke Culture’ is victimhood, whether real or feigned dearest one. Has nothing to do with awareness of social injustice, but everything to do with ego. Its promoted a culture where everyone wants to be a victim and when everyone wants to be a victim, a significant section of them will naturally invent crimes to suit their agenda. It’s a great injustice to actual victims who have very good reasons to feel victimized. They deserve every bit of our empathy and compassion. However, in Woke Culture, people who do not deserve it see the empathy and compassion that is accorded to victims as an incentive to pretend to be victims themselves. It’s narcissistic and immensely selfish. And I believe it will eventually lead to the ultimate end of the progressive supremacist movement that has held the reigns for so long. JMO.

  • @fembotprincess1
    @fembotprincess1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Poor Dave! My heart goes out to him! No one understands him. That girl who dumped him was a superficial b××××. She even had Jim waiting around the corner as she was dumping him. Well, in my version of the ending, Dave's dad did go up to Dave's room and they fought and it was like Rebel without a cause and Dave stormed out of the house. He was caught and punished, but the next day at school that lovely sophomore girl approached Dave and they got super friendly. She had her own car so she drove Dave home and Dave announced he was in love. Much to the happiness of his parents, who excused his punishment! Dave and her started going together and he became the envy of all his friends. She encouraged him to try out for track which he excelled at over football and he became a track star! Everyone loved him! Meanwhile, the girl who dumped him got pregnant by Jim and they were both thrown out of their homes, became high school dropouts and were forced to live in the ghetto. Dave graduated with honors went on to college and became a high powered attorney and married that lovely sophomore. They became millionaires! Karma is a b×××× and I'm team Dave all the way! He's better looking than Jim anyway.

    • @asielmilian38
      @asielmilian38 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow.

    • @DoggmaticProductions
      @DoggmaticProductions ปีที่แล้ว

      This actually made me feel better. Honestly, the little movie depressed me!

    • @thepapermuse
      @thepapermuse หลายเดือนก่อน

      jesus christ lmfao

  • @mikezylstra7514
    @mikezylstra7514 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dave has bad stars. Afflicted 5th, and 11th houses. I 'm thinking Saturn and Venus and maybe Uranus involved. This is long term stuff. Dad's better off laying off of him for a few years. Mental age 11. That chick dodged a bullet.

    • @sheagaier7582
      @sheagaier7582 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dave obviously has borderline personality disorder. He's extremely impulsive, has rejection sensitivity dysphoria, and slashed the tires of his ex's new boyfriend's car. His relationships at home also seem unstable

    • @mikezylstra7514
      @mikezylstra7514 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sheagaier7582 Yes those things are ruled by 4th, 5th, and 11th houses.

  • @Gkin2222
    @Gkin2222 ปีที่แล้ว

    Then, his dad beats the shit out of him and he finally learns the lesson once and for all.

    • @sheagaier7582
      @sheagaier7582 ปีที่แล้ว

      you can't beat out borderline personality disorder.

  • @sheagaier7582
    @sheagaier7582 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dave clearly has impulsive Borderline Personality disorder. The rejection sensitivity dysphoria, the unstable relationships, stabbing the tires of the guy who took out his ex's car, and his dad about to go spank him gave it away.

  • @ursulasmith6402
    @ursulasmith6402 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good theories, people in the 50s didn't behave like this. Girls didn't break up.

  • @debbieharriman9044
    @debbieharriman9044 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    that girl is mean

    • @adamv4951
      @adamv4951 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ugly too.

    • @gregoryagogo
      @gregoryagogo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think both are "emotionally immature", which they ARE kids...

    • @fembotprincess1
      @fembotprincess1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed! Dave is so cute and she wasn't even good looking. Why was he broken hearted over her? He probably ended up doing better..like in my version of the ending lol.

    • @poe250
      @poe250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's such a dog. Not even remotely attractive! The only pretty girl was the friend at the diner that showed up late.

    • @ericastier1646
      @ericastier1646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@poe250 Do you realize these people are actors ? you are judging an actor over the character she is playing, do you realize that is immature ?

  • @jamesmcmccray8255
    @jamesmcmccray8255 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That’s called hypergamy

  • @pratibhaverma1822
    @pratibhaverma1822 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    He desperately needs two things
    Jesus Christ
    And a professional therapist

    • @stardust6830
      @stardust6830 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly! Nobody is going to love you as much as Jesus Christ, and nobody is going to be able to help you like a professional doctor!
      This poor kid needs help to get right back on track!

    • @melindahall5062
      @melindahall5062 ปีที่แล้ว

      The sad thing is he already has Jesus Christ…..no doubt in my mind….and he’s still the way he is.

    • @sheagaier7582
      @sheagaier7582 ปีที่แล้ว

      yup! he def has borderline personality so he def needs DBT

    • @sheagaier7582
      @sheagaier7582 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@melindahall5062 thats borderline personality for you!

  • @jupitergonewild
    @jupitergonewild 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Arse whupping is what comes next

  • @wendyj.3858
    @wendyj.3858 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stuff like this, makes me glad I decided not to have children.

  • @packtray6569
    @packtray6569 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i think the high waist on Dave's pants was the root cause

  • @ruxrox
    @ruxrox 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man! You are better off! For the rest of your life you'd be explaining your wife isn't a mongaloid.

  • @ericastier1646
    @ericastier1646 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These are the baby boomers that the smartphone glue generation love to despise.

    • @comfyoldchair3771
      @comfyoldchair3771 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Actually, they are more Silent Generation people.

    • @ericastier1646
      @ericastier1646 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@comfyoldchair3771 Silent now, mayhem later.

    • @sheagaier7582
      @sheagaier7582 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@comfyoldchair3771 correct! they're about my grandma's age. She was born in 1935

    • @sheagaier7582
      @sheagaier7582 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ericastier1646 you're not wrong. the silent generation blindly agreed with the previous generation

  • @SadhguruSir
    @SadhguruSir 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The girl is the main source of the problem. Shw should have been tagged as a crazy girl.

    • @rainsara2795
      @rainsara2795 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      For breaking up? Let her live jeez

  • @leonardalcalaii9277
    @leonardalcalaii9277 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    @OldTimeTv Another great movie to learn from & to appreciate... What a great choice of movie topics you choose ✌😇🎟