Never commit the mistake of marrying someone who wants to "stay single" in a marriage. Everything said and done, marriage is a whole other game. It is a world that needs to be built together while partners equally find time for friends and personal/combined passion. It is a journey of accommodation, which is often misconstrued as "compromise". Marry if you really want to be a wife. Marry if you really want to play the role of a husband. Time and age is of the essence...
Dilu, I feel Priya's best friend is you. That's why she loves spending time with you. I guess she would not have a friend who gave her this much freedom, comfort, support and care in her life. So can't blame her for not travelling alone or with another friend.
Hey Dilu ….. thanks for posting this video….. actually I wanted to convey something related to this for a long time ….. many times I have noticed you making fun of her in the videos …. Eg. About taking bath….my advice is do all that when only you both are alone… not even in front of your kid….I think she is very accommodating by nature …. But everyone has a limit…. Beyond that she might break out….. I honestly want to see you both as a happy family…. I am eagerly waiting to get a chance to visit your store just to meet you both …. Thanks
By the way forgot to mention, Dilu your energy outstanding… after all the days hard work, sitting in the night and doing the editing is very tough. Big salute to you.
Podcast was very interesting......marriage is a lifelong commitment to each other giving respect,sharing,understanding,patience ,understanding ... but now a days we can see even more love marriage ends at divorce...I think if the couple try to spend time with each other ,communicate their problems and keep aside their ego...Marriage will be successful
Marry only if you are ready & not when parents & society force you to marry. Also marry when you find your right partner, that is the partner who accept you with all your flaws & gives personal space & encourage each other in achieving dreams. It's of either marry the person with whom you can be yourself or not marry & enjoy single life but never marry a person where you need to act throughout your life to show that you are happy before the society just because our society values only a married person. And if it's a toxic & totally incompatible marriage, come out of it but never sacrifice entire life or end up your life to satisfy our society as our society still won't accept divorced people. Everyone deserves happiness...
rightly said mam im going through tough phase .I took a break 2 yrs still preparing for my dream.Once im settled only i will marry its my dream.But pressure from family and parents.Still looking for better job with dream.But no one can understand our situation
@@shrutimohan8908 Pursue your dream dear, marry only when you are ready, I knew that our parents & society will force as they still thinks marriage is the ultimate goal of a woman. Never sacrifice your dreams, get your dream career, gain financial independence & then marry the person who accepts you as you are & who is proud of your achievements. God bless you dear ❤️...
Supper ഞാൻ നന്നായി enjoy ചെയ്തു 🥰👍❤️ jeffrin പറ്റിയ കുട്ടി എവിടെങ്കിലും ഉണ്ടാകും സമയം ആകുമ്പോൾ കണ്ടുമുട്ടും എന്ന പ്രതീക്ഷയോടെ... All the best jeffrin & prince 👍👍👍
I enjoy being married and we give each other space. Our’s is a traditional arranged marriage and he’s the main bread winner. I follow my hobbies and enjoy our life together with lots of love. Ladies lets’s dance and party 😊🎉.. grown up men can take care of themselves 😅
adipoli podcast....so nice to see u all hv strong opinions and not afraid to share them💗💗💗 do not agree with dilu's view of the need of strong love as the basis of marriage....marriage as we all agree is an 'institution' aka contract. this institution could survive on various reasons-one of them is mutual love...the other strong components could be (mutual) respect, physical needs, children, convenience, practical reasons...if any of them are mutual, then that is the basis of a strong marriage as well
ദിലു ചേട്ടൻ നല്ല positive attitude ആണി always.... അത് ആൾടെ face ലു reflect ചെയുന്നുണ്ട്.... Pleasant.... Also main quality ഞൻ കണ്ടത്... "വിനയം, soft nature സംസാരത്തിൽ bodylanguage ലു എല്ലാം ഒണ്ട്... ജാഡ over showoff ഒന്നും ഇല്ല... നല്ല സ്നേഹം ഒണ്ട്....
If you can be best friends with your partner, I truly believe you can handle anything life throws your way-even marriage! At its heart, marriage is just two people saying, “Hey, I choose you-for life!” And when you’re best friends, there’s this unshakable trust, loads of laughs, and a sense of “we’re in this together” that makes it all so much easier. What makes it even better? There’s always space for you in this togetherness. Both of you understand the value of giving each other room to grow, dream, and just be. Doubts? Nah, they don’t stand a chance because you’re too busy being each other’s cheerleaders, partners-in-crime, late-night snack buddies-and still making time to nurture yourselves. It’s a beautiful, balanced adventure when love, friendship, and freedom all go hand in hand!
Long years back we met priyachechi in kochi with her mom very humble and sweet when we spoke that time she was very famous as a top actress in balganapathy serial Asianet my grandmother was a big fan of her acting
Myself I am 41 guy unmarried I stay like this because of not getting a stable job or income and plus looking after my parents so I’m like Jeffrey in a way
That young guy is talking more visely than being very predictive. May b can b called matured for his age. Jeffrin, better not to marry if u r so intuitive. No normal person in this world is even 90% compactible with anyone else. Its all abt understanding and giving respect to the other person. Most of the times, it happens over a prd of married life. Me being 17 yrs married, went through a rough patch after 10 yrs. I dnt know why i luv him so much. Because he is not at all like how i am... the initial spark i had after we met first seems to have some meaning. We are totally opposite in nature almost in all the ways. But he seems to satisfy me in one very jmportant thing which i have always given importance to from my childhood. Sincerity.. i never openly told abt it to him. But always have given importance to it. As i always think nature always have given me what i sincerely wished for.. and he is sincere.. and unusually ready to hear me and trying to do better so i will be happy. People say not to change, of course we cannot change our core self. But many other things we might have to change mostly unknowingly almost evry day .. and its beautiful when its for ur luved one..
Some points are relatable. My wife for eg, doesn’t like it if I had a good time without her 😂. From my perspective , I really feel happy if she goes out with her friends and has a good time leaving all other baggage behind . But she doesn’t do that often citing responsibility of work and household . We are may be 80 percent compatible , 20 percent is something that we work on . Pretty sure they can’t be 100 percent compatibility
@@gamingboysfanനമ്മക്ക് സ്നേഹം ഒള്ള ഒരാൾ അയാൾ ഹാപ്പി ആയിരിക്കുന്നത് നമ്മുടേം happiness അല്ലെ 🙄🙄🙄..... "സ്നേഹം " എന്നത് ന്റെ പ്രേത്യേകത അതാണ്... Freedom കൊടുക്കണം നമ്മുടെ partner അയാൾക്കു happy നൽകുന്ന കാര്യങ്ങൾ അയാൾ encaged ആവുന്നതിൽ..അത് നമുക്കും family കും Healthy ആണോന് മാത്രം നമ്മൾ നോക്കിയതി... അല്ലാണ്ട് ഇതൊക്കെ വളരെ childish attitude ആണ്... Be try to change...
One important point girls expectations of guys are also high the guy should be earning minimum 10lpa big car house today in IT field any day they can fire u 😅 and rising inflation which guy can marry 😅
Ee love ennaal lust and attraction and attachment ennaann Love marriage ill lust and attraction marriage nu munbe nadakkum attachment maathrame marriage inu shesham nadakkum Ennaal arranged marriage ill lust and attraction and attachment ellaam marriage inu shesham aann nadakkunnath
chelavar have the attitude of ivale valach kaanikam and then leave to satify their own ego..to pucham kaanikan to girl who according to them acter hard to get.. saddistic
We naturally become a bit more serious after marriage even if it is love marriage..its only because of responsibilities like how prince said. Our focus shifts once we have a baby, then work etc.
If you can be best friends with your partner, I truly believe you can handle anything life throws your way-even marriage! At its heart, marriage is just two people saying, “Hey, I choose you-for life!” And when you’re best friends, there’s this unshakable trust, loads of laughs, and a sense of “we’re in this together” that makes it all so much easier. What makes it even better? There’s always space for you in this togetherness. Both of you understand the value of giving each other room to grow, dream, and just be. Doubts? Nah, they don’t stand a chance because you’re too busy being each other’s cheerleaders, partners-in-crime, late-night snack buddies-and still making time to nurture yourselves. It’s a beautiful, balanced adventure when love, friendship, and freedom all go hand in hand!
Never commit the mistake of marrying someone who wants to "stay single" in a marriage. Everything said and done, marriage is a whole other game. It is a world that needs to be built together while partners equally find time for friends and personal/combined passion. It is a journey of accommodation, which is often misconstrued as "compromise".
Marry if you really want to be a wife. Marry if you really want to play the role of a husband.
Time and age is of the essence...
Very true. No point in staying single in a marriage. Better to not get married and stay single and be happy.
Very useful podcast for many to understand the reality n facts . It’s a big topic n endless to discuss too .
Dilu, I feel Priya's best friend is you. That's why she loves spending time with you. I guess she would not have a friend who gave her this much freedom, comfort, support and care in her life. So can't blame her for not travelling alone or with another friend.
Hey Dilu ….. thanks for posting this video….. actually I wanted to convey something related to this for a long time ….. many times I have noticed you making fun of her in the videos …. Eg. About taking bath….my advice is do all that when only you both are alone… not even in front of your kid….I think she is very accommodating by nature …. But everyone has a limit…. Beyond that she might break out….. I honestly want to see you both as a happy family…. I am eagerly waiting to get a chance to visit your store just to meet you both …. Thanks
By the way forgot to mention, Dilu your energy outstanding… after all the days hard work, sitting in the night and doing the editing is very tough. Big salute to you.
Infront of kid..couples must alert of words.. While speaking... Because they are very observer and catch everything and imitate and try to copy...😊
Podcast was very interesting......marriage is a lifelong commitment to each other giving respect,sharing,understanding,patience ,understanding ... but now a days we can see even more love marriage ends at divorce...I think if the couple try to spend time with each other ,communicate their problems and keep aside their ego...Marriage will be successful
Any relationship...unconditional love....nothing else works ❤❤❤
Marry only if you are ready & not when parents & society force you to marry.
Also marry when you find your right partner, that is the partner who accept you with all your flaws & gives personal space & encourage each other in achieving dreams.
It's of either marry the person with whom you can be yourself or not marry & enjoy single life but never marry a person where you need to act throughout your life to show that you are happy before the society just because our society values only a married person.
And if it's a toxic & totally incompatible marriage, come out of it but never sacrifice entire life or end up your life to satisfy our society as our society still won't accept divorced people.
Everyone deserves happiness...
rightly said mam im going through tough phase .I took a break 2 yrs still preparing for my dream.Once im settled only i will marry its my dream.But pressure from family and parents.Still looking for better job with dream.But no one can understand our situation
@@shrutimohan8908 Pursue your dream dear, marry only when you are ready, I knew that our parents & society will force as they still thinks marriage is the ultimate goal of a woman.
Never sacrifice your dreams, get your dream career, gain financial independence & then marry the person who accepts you as you are & who is proud of your achievements.
God bless you dear ❤️...
@susanjoseph7663 Thanks mam😊ur reply giving me confidence. Thanks lot mam❤️
@@shrutimohan8908 ❤️...
Supper ഞാൻ നന്നായി enjoy ചെയ്തു 🥰👍❤️ jeffrin പറ്റിയ കുട്ടി എവിടെങ്കിലും ഉണ്ടാകും സമയം ആകുമ്പോൾ കണ്ടുമുട്ടും എന്ന പ്രതീക്ഷയോടെ... All the best jeffrin & prince 👍👍👍
Give space, grow together, respect, love, & communicate marriage is all this & more
Proud of you prince
Family life vallatha oru feel aanu tto
I enjoy being married and we give each other space. Our’s is a traditional arranged marriage and he’s the main bread winner. I follow my hobbies and enjoy our life together with lots of love. Ladies lets’s dance and party 😊🎉.. grown up men can take care of themselves 😅
adipoli podcast....so nice to see u all hv strong opinions and not afraid to share them💗💗💗 do not agree with dilu's view of the need of strong love as the basis of marriage....marriage as we all agree is an 'institution' aka contract. this institution could survive on various reasons-one of them is mutual love...the other strong components could be (mutual) respect, physical needs, children, convenience, practical reasons...if any of them are mutual, then that is the basis of a strong marriage as well
അടിപൊളി, ഇതുപോലത്തെ podcast ഇനിയും പ്രതീക്ഷിക്കുന്നു, ദിലുവിന്റെ സംസാരം വളരെ ഇഷ്ട്ടമാണ്
ദിലു ചേട്ടൻ നല്ല positive attitude ആണി always.... അത് ആൾടെ face ലു reflect ചെയുന്നുണ്ട്.... Pleasant.... Also main quality ഞൻ കണ്ടത്... "വിനയം, soft nature സംസാരത്തിൽ bodylanguage ലു എല്ലാം ഒണ്ട്... ജാഡ over showoff ഒന്നും ഇല്ല... നല്ല സ്നേഹം ഒണ്ട്....
30 years ayite married akatha girls chill ayite life enjoi cheyumbo 35 yrs men desp deciding not or get married enoke....🤦♀️🤷♀️
What do you mean?
സത്യം പറയാലോ ഇത് അടിപൊളി ആയിരുന്നു വളരെ ഉപകാരം ഉള്ള വീഡിയോ super.
If you can be best friends with your partner, I truly believe you can handle anything life throws your way-even marriage! At its heart, marriage is just two people saying, “Hey, I choose you-for life!” And when you’re best friends, there’s this unshakable trust, loads of laughs, and a sense of “we’re in this together” that makes it all so much easier.
What makes it even better? There’s always space for you in this togetherness. Both of you understand the value of giving each other room to grow, dream, and just be. Doubts? Nah, they don’t stand a chance because you’re too busy being each other’s cheerleaders, partners-in-crime, late-night snack buddies-and still making time to nurture yourselves. It’s a beautiful, balanced adventure when love, friendship, and freedom all go hand in hand!
Dilu has really good sense of wat a marriage shud be..gud
Long years back we met priyachechi in kochi with her mom very humble and sweet when we spoke that time she was very famous as a top actress in balganapathy serial Asianet my grandmother was a big fan of her acting
Thank you for this podcast ❤
ദില്ലു നെ പോലെ ഒരു ചെക്കനെ കിട്ടാനും വേണം ഭാഗ്യം... ലെ
Myself I am 41 guy unmarried I stay like this because of not getting a stable job or income and plus looking after my parents so I’m like Jeffrey in a way
Elavarum oru frame il thane anekil kanan sukham ayirunu rather than switching to 2frames.
Married Or unmarried i have to be happy❤👍stay healthy stay happy❤👍
Prince spoke well
Expecting more podcasts ❤
Very useful video ❤
That young guy is talking more visely than being very predictive. May b can b called matured for his age. Jeffrin, better not to marry if u r so intuitive. No normal person in this world is even 90% compactible with anyone else. Its all abt understanding and giving respect to the other person. Most of the times, it happens over a prd of married life.
Me being 17 yrs married, went through a rough patch after 10 yrs. I dnt know why i luv him so much. Because he is not at all like how i am... the initial spark i had after we met first seems to have some meaning. We are totally opposite in nature almost in all the ways. But he seems to satisfy me in one very jmportant thing which i have always given importance to from my childhood. Sincerity.. i never openly told abt it to him. But always have given importance to it. As i always think nature always have given me what i sincerely wished for.. and he is sincere.. and unusually ready to hear me and trying to do better so i will be happy. People say not to change, of course we cannot change our core self. But many other things we might have to change mostly unknowingly almost evry day .. and its beautiful when its for ur luved one..
Good podcast but your seating arrangements feels a bit odd. Better lighting maybe 🤔
Nice podcast❤❤
I have felt many times that this channel has quality content❤️
Oru happy marriage =Happy family🧿🧿🧿
Some points are relatable. My wife for eg, doesn’t like it if I had a good time without her 😂. From my perspective , I really feel happy if she goes out with her friends and has a good time leaving all other baggage behind . But she doesn’t do that often citing responsibility of work and household . We are may be 80 percent compatible , 20 percent is something that we work on . Pretty sure they can’t be 100 percent compatibility
Me too.... I don't like my husband enjoying without me... I don't know y😢😢😢
@@gamingboysfanlol, if you change that , it can go a long way in making you a better partner !
@@ThatRandomGuy476 I am trying...
@@gamingboysfanനമ്മക്ക് സ്നേഹം ഒള്ള ഒരാൾ അയാൾ ഹാപ്പി ആയിരിക്കുന്നത് നമ്മുടേം happiness അല്ലെ 🙄🙄🙄..... "സ്നേഹം " എന്നത് ന്റെ പ്രേത്യേകത അതാണ്... Freedom കൊടുക്കണം നമ്മുടെ partner അയാൾക്കു happy നൽകുന്ന കാര്യങ്ങൾ അയാൾ encaged ആവുന്നതിൽ..അത് നമുക്കും family കും Healthy ആണോന് മാത്രം നമ്മൾ നോക്കിയതി... അല്ലാണ്ട് ഇതൊക്കെ വളരെ childish attitude ആണ്... Be try to change...
Nice talk❤❤
Enthayalum this Oru wonderful topic
Ammayuda food routine and natural remedies video edoo
Good topic
Very good video ❤
Jeffrey oru chronic bachelor ayya poyee😂
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20:36🎉correct
One important point girls expectations of guys are also high the guy should be earning minimum 10lpa big car house today in IT field any day they can fire u 😅 and rising inflation which guy can marry 😅
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The Best video🤍👍
Prince super
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jeffry chettan❤
Why not a divorcee in panel???
You are unintentionally making Jeffrey uncomfortable.
Ee love ennaal lust and attraction and attachment ennaann
Love marriage ill lust and attraction marriage nu munbe nadakkum attachment maathrame marriage inu shesham nadakkum
Ennaal arranged marriage ill lust and attraction and attachment ellaam marriage inu shesham aann nadakkunnath
chelavar have the attitude of ivale valach kaanikam and then leave to satify their own ego..to pucham kaanikan to girl who according to them acter hard to get..
saddistic
Deleted my comment. You did not give a thumbs up. I saw many messages got loved reaction from you except mine. Thank you
You must be fun at parties 😂
Who knows futureilla Jeffrey oru kodesswaran aayitu Dubai sheikhinda polla 4 5 bharyagyal endavum😂😂
Nice video
Kittiya ooty illenkil chatty😂
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Dillu is a greeeen forest
Talk❤
ലീവിങ് ബെറ്റർ
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Hi Dilu❤
It's a good topic for discussion.
Jefrin🎉
Priyachechide koode njan trip pokam😌😌😌
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Kids oke nokum enu vicharikaruth
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Lyf pArtner set anel lyf color ayirikkum,, athrelu
We naturally become a bit more serious after marriage even if it is love marriage..its only because of responsibilities like how prince said. Our focus shifts once we have a baby, then work etc.
Hi dilu, e episod 👍🏻. Enikku dilunode
E topicne kurichu detail ayi samamsarikkanamennud. Pls contact no.
If you can be best friends with your partner, I truly believe you can handle anything life throws your way-even marriage! At its heart, marriage is just two people saying, “Hey, I choose you-for life!” And when you’re best friends, there’s this unshakable trust, loads of laughs, and a sense of “we’re in this together” that makes it all so much easier.
What makes it even better? There’s always space for you in this togetherness. Both of you understand the value of giving each other room to grow, dream, and just be. Doubts? Nah, they don’t stand a chance because you’re too busy being each other’s cheerleaders, partners-in-crime, late-night snack buddies-and still making time to nurture yourselves. It’s a beautiful, balanced adventure when love, friendship, and freedom all go hand in hand!
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