Languages of Love | Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi | Family Night
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ก.พ. 2020
- East Plano Islamic Center Masjid
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Masha Allah sheikh Yasir may Allah bless you in jannah Inshallah 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕😥😥 Thank you so much , Khadija
The 5 Languages of Love
1- verbal expression
Telling your spouse you love them. Saying good things about them instead of bad.
2- time
Taking time out for your spouse that shows them their importance. Quality time.
3- Giving gifts
Gifts show the other that you were thinking of them. Women like frequent gifts over pricey gifts. Gifts don't have to be monetary.
4- Helping with chores
Duties typically performed by one should be voluntary performed by the other as means to show appreciation.
5A- Physical expression of love, the physical touches of love such as kisses, hugs, massage etc without the final act.
5B- the final act of intimacy.
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5B. 🤓
Thank you brother for your conclusion.
Hamza Sajid jazakhallahou khayr for writing them down
جزاكم الله خيراً
Allah Akbar
Shaykh Dr.Yasir Qadhi new haircut👍.
This needs to be captioned in Turkish and other languages. All men should be able to understand how important this is in a marriage
Yes, 100%
Salaam! I can’t share this enough. JzkAllah to the Shaykh for always having candid conversations with us. MA it’s so refreshing to hear these topics being discussed in the masjid. It’s funny and ironic that Islam in many parts of the world is portrayed as a rigid and difficult religion. But Wallahi, as the shaykh has so articulately shown, our way of life as evidenced by the Quran, sunnah and seerah of the Prophet SAW is based on love, mercy and compassion. Hadith upon Hadith that reflect the Prophet SAW’s romantic and kind-hearted spirit. I know a lot of sisters who read them and say awww. Allah’s rasool was all heart MA. It’s a beautiful thing.
Edit: And love EPIC masjid for fostering an atmosphere where many important topics can be discussed freely. MA I think a lot of masjids that are most impactful with the youth and community and foster a sense of belonging have this in common. Keep up the good work!
Alhamdulilla, Shayah Dr. Yasir Qadhi transforms this finding from a Christian marriage counselor into Muslim context rendering it understandable to those whom would likely not expect these consepts from a different faith.
JazākAllāh Khair, brother
Mashah Allah, me n my wife watched together, and feels more loved.
V Beneficial lecture
Jazak Allahu khairan
سلام عليكم و جذك الله خيرا..
Beautiful..
Masha’Allah, beautiful lecture ❤️ love you sheikh
What a lovely lecture ❤️❤️😍
Superb
Well said
Thanks for making this lovely video. May Allah bless us
Mashallah
Very knowledgeable and extremely beneficial.
Please share you be will be rewarded.
Mashaa Allah ❤️
This is my test, something I just can't seem to get reciprocated. Allah is enough for me.
I was waiting for this to be uploaded since 4th fab....JAK
Jazakallahu khair.. Let me listen.. First comment الحمدلله
Words of affirmation/love
Quality time
Giving gifts(women want more frequent. Men want expensive/ needed thing as a gift)
Acts of service (doing the general chores of the other spouse)
Physical touch(normal touch & sexual intimacy)
Women ignore sometimes: giving income to wife. (Acts of service).
Sexual intimacy.
Men ignore sometimes: house keeping activities oh wife. (Acts of service)
Women don’t ALWAYS expect gifts to maintain love!
All of what Shaikh said is fine, but I hope that he realizes that in terms of taking care of women financially, a lot of women work as well. Many wives are contributing equally to the finances, but are not getting equal contribution from their husbands when it comes to running the home or looking after the kids. This needs to be brought up.
This exact issue was addressed in the lecture and brought up at 1:01:36
Miriam H yes but he skirts around the issue a bit. I wish he had come out and said “hey she’s working and doing the housework, bros need to step it up.” Talking about the problem doesn’t really work because often a spouse refuses to acknowledge the problem
Salam alaykoom what you are saying needs to be addressed totally agree with you, but I think for the purpose of this lecture he only talked from the perspective of a classical traditional household where the man is the sole breadwinner and the woman is the housekeeper. He did not link this classical understanding of marriage with islam and that's the point. It is now up to us to reconstruct our couples and gender roles according to our realities. Women in many parts of the world are experiencing burnout from being breadwinners and housekeepers which is clearly not fair. I personally think before getting married each individual needs to define what they want and what they can or cannot compromise on.
@@nahmad9980 the solution is simple “Indeed in the Messenger of Allah Muhammad (Peace be upon him), you have a good example to follow.” [Quran 33:21], mentions the expression “good example”, i.e. someone whom people imitate and follow.
Db Cooper that’s not a practical solution at all. Are you or have you ever been married? Because if you have you’ll realize that there has to be a more practical solution than that
How about those who are in bad marriages and hard to break that marriage due to finances, children etc . Why they couldn’t find Sakinah ever...
What about those who don’t have a spouse or are divorced
Should my wife love me and value My words I must gain immense respect
and if she doesn't. respect yourself first.
Sheikh you trying to make us mens life more difficult 😫
He's teaching good points on how to have a loving marriage Alhumdulillaah. Knowledge is power :)
Watch the video again or don’t be married lol
fspec eh! Bit too late for that 😭
SouthFacedWindows it’s not that hard put some effort and you will see
It's never too late