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- Most kids dream of growing up and moving away from home, but what happens when your adult children still haven’t flown the coop? Dr. Phil gives family freeloaders a wake-up call. (From Dr. Phil Season 6)
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“ I’m an adult. I don’t need a curfew.” well then do what other adults do and move out so you don’t have to follow someone else’s rules.
Sell the couch, TV and video games. Run out of food. Keep nothing in the fridge to snack on. Drink tap water, no sodas ever. Let the dishes pile up. And STILL kick 'em out on Day 30!
Or just change the locks.
@choochoo9506 you can't. It's an illegal eviction. The cops can let him right back on. Even without a lease or rent. AND the kid could sue for illegal eviction. Better to do it the legal way
That means that the parents would suffer along with them .
She needs to find a job and daycare. She picked a man that was an underachiever or she needs to divorce! She’s not doing her job at home either if mom is taking care of the baby!
The fact that the mom say she loves him like one of her sons after they said he’s hit her! On top of being lazy! Wtf!
Parentel delinquentcy! Shame.
Spoil brats. Want everything easy. So why worry. It comes to them all they require. But survive on nothing...
Oh my God Greg is my ex-husband. I kept waiting for them to call his name, Joel!!! Because he is my ex-husband up one side and down the other, he had probably 70 jobs in the first couple years that we were married. He would get one job and keep it for a couple days and quit. Every time I got a job he would come around and get me fired!! by just hanging around my job. It was so embarrassing!!
You had a lucky escape! ❤
Congrats on him being your ex at least!! I’m sure it still stings knowing you were at one point in love with a mess…but you made the right move to free yourself! So I truly mean congratulations!
It’s scary when we can see our (current or past) family members on this show😅
I send too many episodes to my sister so we can take a deep breath knowing we aren’t alone😂
My husband has adhd, he got a job as an auto reconditioned. He’s been doing that job for over 30 years, we own our own home because of him working hard. When a person has adhd, they are super hyper. That kid is liar.
Not necessarily my son has adhd and he is the opposite
Add and adhd are two different things, fyi.
I'm trying to find that one brain cell floating around in his head it must be hiding 😂😂😂
Bet you didn't find it 😊
I feel bad for him. Wish Dr. Phil could have addressed his adhd…
Yes, in all the fog in his brain.
My mother treated me as an unpaid laundry service, cleaning service, yard service, cook, and bottle washer. I'm had to cook meals to be served at 6pm even if I had to be at work st 5pm. And there were four people in the house besides me. I could not wait to get out. And when I went back to visit my folks, my mother figured that if she delivered orders, I would carry them out. She learned how far that would get her the hard way.
Why is the baby in daycare if he's home all day? What a waste of money.
Because he's a lazy tool
Exactly, wtf
He is too lazy to watch his own baby that why 😭
@@Dark-cat420 his azz would be out the door!
The mother said she doesn’t trust him!!
I wouldn’t either 😢
Two losers make a baby. What can go wrong? 🤷♀️🙄
Bringing up a third loser.
@@marlenegreyling8620lmao 😂😂😂
The mom has to be able to say NO. Her son in law. Is a spoiled brat
Her daughter is aswell
The second guy gave me the ick. Completely useless father
Omg the son in law is so entitled and ungrateful
He works days, she works evenings. One is there to care for baby and do housework. My husband and I always did this, our kids were home except a sitter a few hrs a day when I left for 3 to 11 shift and he got home by 5 30. Some employers get incentive from the government to hire excons.
My husband and I did the exact same thing when our kids were little! It worked really well except we rarely got to see each other!
That's how my parents did it. Just sounds like they're both making excuses to not work.
Mike isn't an adult. His a little child in a man's body
He sure look like a baby too 😮
When McDonald's is hiring in Ohio for $15 an hour there's no excuse!!!
This is a very old episode, but still!
@@julieandrews1193 I see.
Hey I just wanna say thanks for saying Anchorage right...and I assure you we have cars in Alaska 😂
It’s called repect and they need to help around the apartment grandparents shouldn’t be raising the grandchildren
They both need a job. One at swing and one at day. Im a woman married over 50yrs.
Exactly! That's what my house hold does. That way, we never needed a sitter or daycare. Sometimes, we need to give a little bit in order to get a lot. These two are pathetic. And the parents aren't much better.
Look how heavy these two are! They aren’t missing meal or getting much exercise. This is so sad.
Science used to believe that the number one contribution to weight was basically this calorie counter. Those who eat too much junk food and don't exercise are overweight and those who eat right and exercise regularly are thin and look healthy. Science still believes that what we eat and how much we exercise is definitely a FACTOR in our weight, but actually the number one contributor to our weight is CORTISOL LEVELS. This becomes an extra problem because high cortisol levels can lead someone to shut down and crave junk food and also not want to exercise, so basically cortisol levels can contribute to the other two factors as well.
Why do I bring this up? Because the idea that someone who is overweight is "clearly not missing a meal or getting much exercise" is not true. It COULD be true, but it isn't guaranteed. In this case, we know the whole story, so it is likely true that they aren't missing any meals BECAUSE WE KNOW MOM IS PROVIDING THOSE MEALS. But there are plenty of people who are overweight who actually are missing meals. The few meals they can afford are extremely unhealthy because THEY CAN'T AFFORD HEALTHY FOOD. They also can't afford a gym membership or gym clothes, and if they are working two jobs to try to survive and are also say a singe mother trying to care for kids when not at work who is struggling to find childcare during work certainly is not going to be able to find childcare to exercise. Some would immediately respond to this with, "Well, she shouldn't have gotten pregnant outside of marriage." But what if she is a widow? What if, like one of my close friends, she is not only a widow, but both of her parents died over a decade ago, she has no siblings, and her in-laws didn't approve of the marriage and are now trying to take all of her possessions in court because they claim she brainwashed their son and they deserve all of his estate , and they are also trying to include all of the possessions SHE brought to the marriage in HIS estate? Or what if she married a guy she thought was a good guy, partly because she was under huge pressure from her religious parents to get married, and after she had a kid she finally understood that she was in a horribly abusive relationship and she ran from the relationship to save her own life and the life or her child?
Although this particular criticism MIGHT have some merit with this particular couple, I am sick and tired of judgmental people first of all perpetuating the myth that comes from old science that has actually been somewhat debunked as if it is still legitimate. Science found a correlation between exercise and eating and weight and assumed a causal relationship, but once again cortisol is actually the biggest cause, and technically science may even have the causal relationship on that reversed. In other words, fat people are more likely to eat junk food and not exercise because of the fat, which starts out by being caused by stress, rather than people who eat junk food and don't exercise are more likely to be fat because of what they eat and the lack of exercise.
Once again, there still is somewhat of a causal relationship both ways. And it's also true that it's a vicious cycle, because eating right and exercising can sometimes decrease cortisol levels, and not exercising and eating junk food can sometimes increase cortisol levels. And dopamine definitely plays a role in all of this as well. But the number of times I have seen a "skinny" or "healthy" person judging a "fat" or "unhealthy" person for their weight who have actually sat down and tracked what they eat only to find out that the "healthy" person was actually eating more than the "unhealthy" person has blown my mind. The number of times I have heard stories such as, "My sister is overweight. She sprained her ankle while RUNNING A MARATHON, and when she went to the doctor the doctor refused to treat her ankle and instead made her talk to a specialist about her weight who gave her a pamphlet about WALKING EVERY DAY," also blows my mind. I know several people who are overweight who regularly engage in extreme sports, but because many doctors still believe old myths about weight they never believe that the person eats right and exercises even when they are often in the doctor's office specifically because of injuries from their exercise.
Don't get me wrong, there's even more than just cortisol that contributes to weight. Genetics and metabolism play a HUGE part. And I have definitely known people who have weight problems because of a damaged thyroid or other health problems. If after controlling for genetics and metabolism and cortisol levels and health problems such as thyroid problems and brain damage and problems producing or retaining or processing neurotransmitters such as dopamine and serotonin a person is still overweight, it is possible that they are just choosing to be lazy and are not eating right and are not exercising. But those are a TON of factors to consider first, and even in the case of these two I don't believe these other possible contributing factors have been properly considered.
Hey buddy, who's house is it? It's not a hotel. Parents need to ask them to leave.
The husband is not all there.......but can work
The husband is a criminal. He took contraband (drugs) into a Correctional Facility. That's a Felony. He would be out of my house immediately.
I think he just smoked his brain away.
@@Classyslimes I know a lot of people who smoke weed. They all have jobs requiring a high level of responsibility. Not a single one would or has ever considered committing a Felony crime.
As a CO, I have no use for any CO who crosses that line.
I’m 27 and still live with my parents, but I still help around the house, work/finding a job, and clean up after myself. When I turned 18, my parents told me that I can stay as long as I need, all I needed to do was go to university or find a job. I went to University, and worked. It’s hard to find a job now and being Neurodivergent (I’m Autistic/ADHD) makes job finding much harder and they understand, but I still keep searching and applying, I even do Vocational Rehab.
I'm kind of in the same boat as you. I'm 30 and live with my mom and stepdad. I did go to college and get a bachelor's degree in animal science. I was planning on going onto vet school, but I had to quit because of my health. I have a very rare case of extremely severe asthma. Animals themselves don't bother it, but anything strenuous can, along with dust, cigarette smoke, strong smells like chemical cleaners and perfumes, air pollution, high humidity, extreme weather and temperature changes, etc. I've seen 3 specialists, and they've all said they've never seen a case as bad and severe as mine. I'm on 2 different injections. I recently switched pharmacies, and the pharmacist actually asked me if I'm taking both injections for the same condition or separate conditions. I said I'm taking both for severe asthma. Amd she said she's never seen another patient that needed more than one injection to control their symptoms...but then there's me 😂 I also take 3 inhalers and a pill every day. My injections are Dupixent every 2 weeks and Tezspire every 3 weeks. I was on both separately and they helped, but not enough. Together, it's been great. Anyways, I technically qualify for disability because of my asthma, but I chose to still work. My options are just limited. I'm currently a van/bus driver for a transportation company, and I take kids to and from school. It's something I can still do. So I do have a job, and I pay for the majority of my own food and necessities. I do all the dishes and help out around the house. I sometimes will go pick up my moms groceries along with my own. If my mom asks me to pick something up for her, i will never ask her to pay me back. I pay for any car repairs or maintenance my car needs. I give my mom money to cover my portion of utilities. My mom has never actually asked me to pay for anything, but I choose to do it out of respect for my parents and them allowing me to live in their home. To me, it's the right thing to do. My parents don't go places often, but when they do, I'm there to take care of their dogs. My mom has never once said that she doesn't want me there. I would be living in my car otherwise. Although I do work, there's no way I can afford to live anywhere by myself. I honestly don't know how anybody can right now. But it just amazes me that people think they can mooch off their parents just because it's their parents. As Dr phil said, even if you can't pay for anything, the least you could do is help out around the house with chores and stuff. I also don't have any children. I can barely afford myself. It would be irresponsible of me to bring a child into this world.
Oh No no no! Absolutely No freakin way!
For Pete's sake, parents, don't enable bad behavior in your children! If you enable them when they're young, they end up with one of these deadbeat personalities who wants to blame everyone else for their problems. One of Jordan Petersons 12 Rules for Life: Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them." In other words, start holding them to a standard of behavior when they're young so that one day they can stand on their own as productive adults.
JP spent most of his life on drugs and sleeping. Athletes get tested in competition for drugs, so should University students. JPs wife is verbally abusive to them. His daughter stayed in an abusive relationship because of his standards. He laughed at people making money online for him and doesn't acknowledge them, he is all about money. Shooting animals and leaving them screaming in pain until death, whilst young daughter in car crying due to the animals screaming in pain.
Good call Dr P this guy is sullen, lazy and ridiculous. Lives off his in-laws but has no gratitude
Scary this baby of man was a corrections officer.
and smuggled drugs into the prison, got a felony conviction. what a winner he is.
How did this guy motivate himself to have a child😂
I'm sure he just laid there and let her do all the work like he always does 😂
She’s using the baby as an excuse to not work! Gross!
The baby she neglects and ignores while Gramma takes care of him, cleans and cooks. 😊
The mom needs to work also. The grandma already takes care of the kids. She's just faking taking care of the house.
Do what you want people… but don’t have children if you can’t even support yourself!
I'm a truck driver and I got off the rust for a while. I didn't just sit around doing nothing. I got my butt a job at Pizza Hut and I am a manager there. I dint Mahe what I did as a driver, but I work. Dude needs to just get a job where he can. He messed up and got arrested. Now he is realizing the consequences of his actions.
Greg’s got morning problems,aww.
Don't we all
As a 23 yr Old who lives at home it's hard to afford a place on your own. I pay rent ect. Work 45 + hrs. There's a difference between being a mooch and the economy being terrible.
When that guy said that the grandfather wakes up every morning at 6 o’clock & he decides to do dishes while we’re sleeping in the living room. I mean, you could get up & wash dishes and then he wouldn’t have to wash them at six in the morning while you’re trying to sleep THEIR living room. 🤷🏼♀️
He keeps saying "I guess" after such obvious stamens it's infuriating 😂 "need to get a job....I guess...." yeah he's not on planet earth. He's high as a kite on laziness and entitlement.
The wife needs to get out of this. He is an abusive lover with no ambition. Show him the door!
THE MOTHER IS JUST AS BAD !!!!!
THAT FINE STEP FATHER NEEDS TO LEAVE ALLLLLLLL OF THEM AND FIND A REAL WOMAN !!!!!!!!
They need to move into *his* parents house. Let him disrespect his own mother.
i’m 21 and i work 10hr days 5am-3pm 4-5 days a week. these people just don’t want to work. this is where my taxes are going??
As a woman, I believe it is both parents 100% responsibility to take care of their family. It feels like everyone is expecting the father to carry more than the mother. The baby mother herself is lazy in this case. Both need to go out and live on the street if that is what they afford. The whole family sound weird and messed up.
Why putting all the blame on the husband and not motivate mother to work?
She has a child to care for and she actually has a job
@@pmc8119she hasn't started working yet. There was no excuse for her laziness the whole time. Pathetic moochers.
@@pmc8119Yes, but her huisband can take care of the child and her mother does in fact take care of het grandschild. It wolf be easier for her to get a job since die doesn't have a criminal record.
I’d give her some grace IF she actually took care of her baby while she’s on mat leave. If she she insists that her mom raises the baby, she should be working as well.
ADHD, my foot!
Oh that guy is something else. The pair of them are absolute ick
Or - she can get a job and let him take care of their new place to live and his child. Either way - they both need to step up. I feel bad for the child.
The parents have taught this girl how to act and live...
You expect and accept a liberty, you will always have to GIVE a liberty..
Wow Mike is so weird, smiling about getting a job because he doesn't want to
On the second case TROW AWAY that stupid game that makes him stupider 😅
Kick the 2nd guy out.......
I don’t know when this was filmed but due to the economy my 19 year old works close to full time and goes to school for nursing. She is trying to get a second job but there is no possible way she could afford to live on her own right now and I financially can’t help her get on her feet somewhere else. It makes more sense for her to live at home than to move out right now and it is sad. We need the economy to improve before she can spread her wings.
The only similarity between your situation, and this, is that you have a 19 year old living at home.
@@kiwigirlNZ I didn’t say anything about relating to this situation personally. I was just pointing out that the economy has changed so living dynamics and children are living back with parents is at an all time high. Again I don’t know when this was filmed but I guarantee this is more common now than ever as people can’t afford to live on their own. Just a thought I had while watching this video it’s not that deep
The parents didn't do a good job. It's their fault all along the way.
I feel sorry for Breanne. She has low self esteem, mostly because Greg treats her terribly. I 🙏 she gets her life together an has a happily ever after with her son!
Swimmers ear plugs are good for sound.We lived next door to a fire stn. that did a 4:30 am test run daily..Those ear plugs really help.
Sounds like my kids. Both 40+. Problem solved....I moved 3,000 miles away. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Buuhhhhaaaa🤣🤣🤣🤣
My disability is laziness, so I get disability payments and live off of federal housing, medicaid, snap benefits, and everything else so I can watch Dr. Phil all day.
Haha too many people already take advantage of the system by doing this, we need to cut back.
@@someoneoutthere2159they already have been.
Finally a TH-cam comment that isn't just "I'm better than that" when you know ½ the people that have time to comment... have the time to comment.
Gee, your life must be so fulfilling...
@@civwar054*sarcasm flies over civwar054’s head*
Adhd AND morning problems...protect this man at all costs 🙄🤯
(I have ADHD so I can say that😅- don't come for me)
Give them 8 months to get the help they need. Get jobs, and find an appropriate, safe place to live. If they don’t, petition for custody of the child.
8 months is wayyy too long. They would have 30 days tops. Time to grow up.
30 days
GET YOUR LUMP OF AN EXCUSE OF A DAUGHTER AND HER BIG BOY EXCUSE FOR A MAN OUT OF YOURRRRRR HOME !!!!!!!!!!!!
THEY DON'TTTTTT CARE ABOUT YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hold it, running out need to puke. "The sweetest guy"?? Really? He is double faced. He is a moocher.
To be "jealous" of another lady, you would envy them for what they have. Don't envy someone that has taken on your problem person. Bless them and let them go. The right emotion and thought process might be feeling sorry for the next woman he entangles with because he's proven what he has to offer and is willing to be for anyone. If his own child can't motivate him to love and support in a healthy manner, no one else will. He's just looking for his next victim or person to abuse and mooch off of. Let him go. He's costing resources out of your child's mouth and life.
It's 2024 and It's now a two income household, they are free loaders 😢
11:25 I think Grandma was just explaining, not making excuses. Phil gets stuff a little wrong every once in a while.
He has to make it dramatic and exciting. He often interrupts and throws in a stupid mantra or accuses someone of making excuses, lying, or avoiding the question
Baby can stay ! If she was to go on the journey with him, Hey plenty of rocks out there! Where is his family? He's not a man he's a little boy! Actually you have 2 kids!
Better alone than to have lazy partner
She says he should get a job so she can look after the baby and home, but she's not doing that now!
He’s sounds so immature. Child like behaviour. What are you doing young lady.
Night work.
Get shut of rubbish.
He wants a safe place to live. 🇬🇧
Those kids are losers. Fortunately, my son was not raised to disrespect me or my home. They should definitely be kicked out then they would be forced to find jobs.
Inevitably you disrespect the people who enable your bad behavior.
If people actually hired these days without laughing at the efforts homeless people make to have a life we would be more like Finland and Austria, where people are given jobs to do and cheap apartments to live in before they are kicked back out onto the streets again. Jobs AREN'T handed out in this country, and the propaganda that they are is linked back to military corruption. Benefits that cause world wars have devastating perks.
Bet his parents are proud of him
TheRealOne and IronPsyde are craving attention… negative attention is better than none at all.
Or it could be sarcasm…. But no way, not sarcasm 😶😂
For the love of god, if you’re going to wear a dress on national television, KEEP YOUR LEGS TOGETHER!🙄
The only thing going through those two losers heads is: how am I going to wiggle myself out of the "30 days notice" and make that a 90 days notice, that eventually turns to 6 months, then a year?
Just help the mother and her husband (the stepfather) to do whatever is necessary.
I raised two cents 20 years apart by myself. No child support guess what no welfare no food stamps I worked at one time I had as high as five jobs. One single lady I bought a house and a duplex always had a good truck and a vehicle and a good place to live because I WK Worked work work worked
Love this show❤
Why is she waiting on this guy to change?? Her kid needs to eat. Ugh...
Would love an update after all these years.
Dude but a lawn mower and get working
The generation today are so lazy they can't even get their grandma a third job.
kick him out ,prob solved
The only solution is Divorce
they are people who will work for that &8.00 a hour and not worry about it , it's a job.
I have a son who has a minimum wage job. He lives with his family and they need money all the time bc the minimum wage doesn’t pay enough. He is constantly asking me for money. It’s hard on me bc I’m on a fixed income bc I’m disabled. He has a hand that doesn’t function and works three jobs. One of the jobs is to clean up the complex he lives in for reduced rent. How or what can I do to help him have better income? He doesn’t have time for school with three jobs. He is in another state from me and it’s very painful for me when I tell him I don’t have money to help him as often as he needs. Who helps the working poor like my son who actually are willing to work very hard.
My yard guy makes $60 from me every two weeks. How many yards can you do in a week? I have a backyard nursery where I propagate and sell perennials. There's always something for someone who wants to support themselves.
Deadbeat should be in jail now selling drugs
I'm so thankful living in Germany 🇩🇪 8dollars is illegal here. Thank god
What happened in 30 days?
They won’t put them out.He won’t get a job,and she won’t stay at her new job.And I predict that they won’t stay together.He will find some other fool to live on.
Just found how to turn mine off. Trust me when in that bad, but I’ve turned mine off.
What is wrong with guy he thinks it’s all a joke????
why dont they live with his parents
“I don’t like mornings. I dislike working”
Well, you’re not like the rest of us. Everyone else should pay for you. Welcome to the Democrat party
Amen! Pathetic moochers
That stepdad/grandpa is good looking ☺️
Would love an update!
This episode was SO infuriating!!!😭😭😭
❤I'm finally living my nite.........Mare❤
Needs to get his lazy self out of bed and work. You don’t have a home, where you sleep is at your parents.
🇬🇧
I have no life so I watch Dr. Phil!
I am a drain on society, collect government assistance, park in handicap spots, pee on public toilet seats, and certainly don’t work.
I highly exaggerate my issues so I can claim to be disabled and my mom still pays my rent.
If you also do as little as possible, like my comment !
Edit: I wanted to add my apartment is also a mess
@@IronPsyde Need attention much buddy?
I am like Dr. Phil, I just do not get it. Why would this women's parents ever live like this. Two able bodies.... out, out!
Or save money to get apr
They have done the math and worked out they get to live for free, in luxury. They don’t care at all about the parents.
It’s ABUSIVE