Kyle's Work Situation - Q&A - Stage 4 Cancer

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  • @stayinalivemedical790
    @stayinalivemedical790 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    That is so amazing co-workers that would give up their sick/pto time so you could be home with your wife. This is priceless!!

  • @fawn06
    @fawn06 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Thank you, Kyle, for showing all of us what a real man is. And doing it effortlessly.

    • @BurlixDoesntMiss
      @BurlixDoesntMiss ปีที่แล้ว +1

      no offense but why does she look so big and so different in this video? i mean that with the most respect and just geniune concern. i dont know much about it so thats why im asking.

    • @fawn06
      @fawn06 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@BurlixDoesntMiss Some cancer meds cause weight gain.

    • @wordswritteninred7171
      @wordswritteninred7171 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​​@BubbleBoyAlexander its from prednisone. It's called moon face. It's such a common side affect, that it it has a slang term for it. It's terrible. It's all just water retention. She hated prednisone

    • @BurlixDoesntMiss
      @BurlixDoesntMiss ปีที่แล้ว

      just heartbreaking. she was so stunning before all these problems! not that she still wasnt stunning though! @@wordswritteninred7171

    • @MossyMeadowsFarm
      @MossyMeadowsFarm ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen! 🙏

  • @Meganmama
    @Meganmama ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Watching this one year later as Jenny is preparing to say goodbye. Sending so much love and peace to your family. I’m sorry there wasn’t more time ❤️

  • @cathylodwick983
    @cathylodwick983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    I am so inspired by your messages. I am near the end stage of a 5yr journey with terminal ovarian cancer. I have done every chemo available and still never give up. Initially only given a few months. I am by myself but do have family and amazing grandchildren. I still get up and remain hopeful and joyful. I have faith that helps so much. Whenever I have a day of feeling down I watch your videos. So much love and light in your messages. Your love of each other and family is just so wonderful. I am very grateful you share this. Always helping others. Thank you so much🥰🙏

  • @suzannegill2512
    @suzannegill2512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    My husband is a teacher and he donates some of his sick time to their "sick time" bank every year. Kyle and all teachers are very special people!

    • @inferno2nite
      @inferno2nite ปีที่แล้ว +6

      How is it possible to donate sick time? I’m not from US. And what happens if the person donating gets sick?

    • @carla2012app
      @carla2012app ปีที่แล้ว +3

      For reals! Thank you to all teachers out there!

    • @fuzbcuz7613
      @fuzbcuz7613 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@inferno2nite most workplaces allow a certain number of days per employee per year and those employees, if they want, can "donate" any amount of their sick days to a group sick day account. I'd imagine if a donator gets sick and needs the time, they can just request a sick day from the account.

    • @inferno2nite
      @inferno2nite ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fuzbcuz7613 thanks for the answer!

    • @sweetkitty511
      @sweetkitty511 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's very nice of your husband and the other colleagues to donate leave by doing that your allowing him to have this special time with his wife. ❤

  • @fififirestone3787
    @fififirestone3787 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    It's so sad that Jenny's life is being cut short. It's such a blessing that she got to experience a great love with Kyle.

    • @hbennett5640
      @hbennett5640 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree❤❤not all have this special love.

    • @thetruthdatedr.4766
      @thetruthdatedr.4766 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ive never hated anything in this world as much as Cancer!!

  • @lynndinovo3500
    @lynndinovo3500 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Kyle's fellow teachers giving up their free days so Kyle can take care of his family restored my faith in people. That was an awesome act of kindness. Your family is loved by so many. ❤

    • @eveningstar1
      @eveningstar1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agree!

    • @CHELSEABuckhannon
      @CHELSEABuckhannon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes that was really nice😊❤❤❤

  • @mitsim
    @mitsim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    Made me cry when you talked about the donation of sick time and leave so you could be with Jenny during this time. What a wonderful group of people you work with, as well as your supportive family and friends!

    • @racerex340
      @racerex340 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      And what a horrible country we live in where we have to rely on the kindness of others giving up their vacation and personal time so you can stay home while your spouse battles stage 4 cancer.

    • @HanknNatty60-xc3yb
      @HanknNatty60-xc3yb ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@racerex340 I so agree with you 100%. I'm ashamed our country.

    • @angelinaamezcua520
      @angelinaamezcua520 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes and it says a lot about who you are as a fellow employee for your coworkers to offer you their sick and vacation time . Very happy for the both of you ! Keep your Love and faith in God , it’s gotten you both through so much and it’s very stressful but you got this you really do.

    • @teeeff8337
      @teeeff8337 ปีที่แล้ว

      ⁠​⁠that’s not entirely true. You can get medical leave for yourself or family- FMLA. No one has to give up anything for you to stay home with your sick loved ones. You just wont get paid for it. Our government is too busy giving tax payer dollars to drug addicts and lazy people who don’t want to work. Democrats love giving away more and more money to people that don’t deserve it. They also like giving billions to fund a war we aren’t involved in instead of taking care of their own first. Only way to change that is by voting them out.

  • @fridensfrojd3108
    @fridensfrojd3108 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I was very touched about your colleagues donating their sick time. Here in Sweden if someone close to you (could be a family member, a relative, a friend och even a neighbour) have a life threatening illness the state pays 80% of your regular salary so you can be a full-time care giver and a support to the sick person. The right to take leave of absence from your job without losing your job is protected by law. Nobody should be alone in times of sickness.

    • @sananselmospacescienceodys7308
      @sananselmospacescienceodys7308 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I live in California. Several years ago my mother passed away and I sold her house (my inheritance) for 3 million dollars. How much of that 3 million did I get to keep? I received every penny of it. Their was no capitol gain tax, and I do mean none at all. Had I been living in Sweden I'd have lost most of that 3 million to taxes but in return I'd have received free health insurance. Thanks but I prefer the situation here in the US.

    • @fridensfrojd3108
      @fridensfrojd3108 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sananselmospacescienceodys7308 Well for transparency you would have lost 22% of the capitol gain in tax. If your gain was 100 000 you would have lost 22 000. There is absolutely a price to pay. If I had a 3 million house in California to cover my retirement I might very well have felt the same as you haha. But since I don't I am very happy about our welfare system, very grateful to the people that been contrinuting to it before me, and I am very proud to be able to be contributing to it now.

    • @fridensfrojd3108
      @fridensfrojd3108 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@sananselmospacescienceodys7308 You pay 22% in capitol gain tax on the profit that you make selling the house. So if the profit is 100 000 you pay 22 000 in tax. There is for sure a price for pay for welfare, and if I had a 3 million dollar house in California to cover my retirement I might very well feel as you do haha. I however do not and I am very grateful for the previous generations contributing to the welfare system, and I am very proud to be able to contribute to it myself now.

    • @pennyroyalbleach
      @pennyroyalbleach 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      she was simply sharing how they do things in her country not making comparisons. But since we’re on the topic, it is without a doubt that many other countries such as Sweden treat their citizens like human beings, and life and family is priority over working to death. Women get a year off paid when they have a baby and fathers get the same! I can’t even begin to name all of the ways America sucks at basic human decency but health care being free is a lot more important than your tax situation, which means nothing if you aren’t alive and well to spend it. Only people who don’t have to worry about health care demean the importance of free health care. Yawn.

    • @sananselmospacescienceodys7308
      @sananselmospacescienceodys7308 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@pennyroyalbleach A government that's big enough to give everyone everything is big enough to take it all away.

  • @TheLastRide88
    @TheLastRide88 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I miss Jenny so much! These videos popping up on my feed. So much has changed in a year!
    Sending prayers and lots of hugs to Jenny’s family.

    • @christinelamb1167
      @christinelamb1167 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know, I keep coming back and watching older videos. I just like hearing her voice, and remembering her before she got so sick at the end. I miss her, too.
      Praying for all her family and loved ones.

  • @Juju-wk7yv
    @Juju-wk7yv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This retired teacher knows the generosity of the teaching profession. Kyle, I love your coworkers. We get by with with a little help from our friends and family. Sending positive thoughts and support your way. You are such a strong family.

  • @lorisanchez395
    @lorisanchez395 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Can't believe she's gone.

  • @ChoochooseU
    @ChoochooseU 2 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    My husband and I met as teenagers as well- Oct 18th was 30 years married, together got 33 years.
    4 kiddos and 3 greats this far.
    Kyle: I wanted to speak to your demeanour.
    You demonstrate the most respect and love I’ve seen with your wife. This is what I mean. You don’t manspalin over or behind her. You let her talk without interrupting and actually LISTEN- rather than wait for a chance to say what’s on your mind. You don’t have to have the last word or correct her.
    It’s obvious to me how special she is to you.
    I know it’s hard to believe, but you really are doing a superheroes work. Loving someone and caring for them during illness is H A R D. You are being so incredibly selfless.

    • @BeverleyMiller_
      @BeverleyMiller_ ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because Kyle truly loves Jenny 🥰 💯%
      I pray for them on their journey

    • @lisabaltzer4190
      @lisabaltzer4190 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My late husband and I were friends since he was 10 and I was 8. I have pictures of us together as children. We were married for 40 years. I really miss him.

    • @sarahrupert5320
      @sarahrupert5320 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are spot-on. Jenny has had an awful, painful journey so far with this cancer, and Kyle just seems to be nothing BUT caring & supportive, 100% of the time. As horrific as cancer is, the caregiver goes through a lot too & so it has to be exhausting for them both. My heart goes out to their whole family. This has to be incredibly tough.

    • @tamianderson123
      @tamianderson123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lisabaltzer4190 I'm so sorry for your loss. ❤

    • @bernice4599
      @bernice4599 ปีที่แล้ว

      👏🏼

  • @sandraderr2067
    @sandraderr2067 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’m a 81 year old lady and just watching your story I j want to say I’ve never been so inspired with your family..just your kindness and the way you’ve raised your kids with so much love..I lost my mom in 1980 to ovarian cancer and know the struggles and shock I faced with a operation that was supposed to be a prolapsed uterus only… your family is so so inspiring just know that and Kyle what a blessing he is..
    Keep up the fight Jen your loved by so many….❤❤❤❤

  • @lindseyhavniear4548
    @lindseyhavniear4548 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I’m so upset by the loss of beautiful jenny. I watched both my parents die from cancer. I’m praying for you Kyle and your kids and all who loved jenny. ❤

  • @ksk881
    @ksk881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Cancer sucks, but your life together, and with your babies, is blessed because of what you send out into the world. I would not have believed how invested I could become in the life of a family that I've never actually met. Like a lot of people, I first watched your channel because it popped up in my feed. I have said before that I don't believe in accidents, so it is by God's design that I began watching and then praying for you. Enjoy each day as they come...as I watch you live your lives with such grace and love, I learn how to better live my life as well. God bless you and all of the people who have been touched by your story and your lives. I do believe in miracles!

  • @MistyHolland-kf4gy
    @MistyHolland-kf4gy ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I'm so sorry for your loss Kyle. Your family is in my prayers, your wife was so happy, even through all that she went through, she kept her head high. She beat cancer! God bless. M.G

  • @christinedavis5813
    @christinedavis5813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Thank You To All of Carl's Workmates That Brought Tears to my eyes from the UK

    • @christinedavis5813
      @christinedavis5813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sorry I Spelt Kyle Wrong

    • @marjoriemaluca1396
      @marjoriemaluca1396 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You spelled Kyle's last name wrong

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@christinedavis5813 auto correct often flips words we do not want flipped.

    • @papawnanasaveslovesnlife9530
      @papawnanasaveslovesnlife9530 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@davisholman8149so true 😮, it happens 🚫 worry about it sincere ppl. Know❤❣️

  • @luckypenny4263
    @luckypenny4263 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Can’t believe she’s gone way too soon 🙏🏻❤️

  • @morganwhite2176
    @morganwhite2176 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Amazing co-workers. Mine would do the opposite, they would go complain and get me fired, so I am so glad you are surrounded by love. You are an inspirational husband and an amazing human being. Also ignore the comment below, the children WILL remember all the memories. The person below is just speaking from their own pain, thats all. You both did an AMAZING job and you’ll see Jenny again at the finish line whenever your angels come to get you.❤

  • @jimmiepatrum
    @jimmiepatrum 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    It speaks well of how loved you are by your co-workers that they would unselfishly give their time for him to stay at home with Jenny. What a beautiful blessing.

    • @rosegallus4048
      @rosegallus4048 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry, I'm interested to know how does that "giving their sick time" work or mean?
      I didn't capture/ comprehend when Kyle was explaining this point.

  • @twinzzplusonecanada5499
    @twinzzplusonecanada5499 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I am in awe of the generosity of Kyle's colleagues donating their days off. You're both patient, kind and warm hearted people and it shows in your two amazing children. I, too, left working for a number of years to raise my kids....its much harder work than anyone could imagine....but so worthwhile.

  • @kategriffith4359
    @kategriffith4359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer in April. Telling my daughters was literally the hardest and scariest thing I ever had to do, and I’m 48. Stay strong and keep fighting! ♥️ love from Michigan.

    • @karenandrews6625
      @karenandrews6625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God Bless you Kate !!!
      Hang in there !!!

    • @deborahkrahn5201
      @deborahkrahn5201 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can do this! So days are harder than others..hang in there! Prayers! 🙏

    • @countrygirl366
      @countrygirl366 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏💞🙏💕🙏💞🙏💕🙏💕🙏

    • @loyaldogpublishingllc915
      @loyaldogpublishingllc915 ปีที่แล้ว

      Praying for you in michigan🙏❤

    • @pamelah9807
      @pamelah9807 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm hoping your doing ok

  • @Csalas101
    @Csalas101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I’ve never commented before, but hearing that Kyles co workers donated their sick days to him made me cry. I’m a former teacher, now sahm mom, but I am also a cancer survivor. I was diagnosed when I was 4 with Leukemia and I’m now 36 and have been in remission ever since. So hearing that hit me on many levels. I continue to pray for y’all! 🙏

  • @sherribrawn3757
    @sherribrawn3757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    A teacher!! That makes perfect sense as to why Kyle is so good at explaining things to us... Those teaching skills rock! ❤️🇨🇦 Prayers from New Brunswick Canada!

  • @sherylvalentiner6115
    @sherylvalentiner6115 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I’ll just say, I’m so empathetic. The world is full of basically very kind people. You’re deserving of every single kindness. I believe in miracles. 💜

  • @cindr78
    @cindr78 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Today I binged watch your TH-cam videos. I learned so much about you, especially the love you have for each other and your children. Prayers for comfort and peace.
    💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @TransparentlyReal7777
    @TransparentlyReal7777 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She is one of the most orecious people i truly have ever known. She has a genuine Soul .

  • @debbiepinks5531
    @debbiepinks5531 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am in awe of the love you 2 have for each other

  • @StephSancia
    @StephSancia ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Happy Friday Jenny, miss you lovely Lady, praying you are at peace and watching over us all, Blessings ❤ 24/11/23

  • @janemmafernandez7842
    @janemmafernandez7842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    What incredible colleagues to do that. There are so many good people ople in this world. I'm glad you've been able to be together through this xx

  • @louern123
    @louern123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    i’m not a cryer and i cried three times already and i’m half way through. thank you for sharing all of this, it gives me hope

  • @marycarbery6416
    @marycarbery6416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    You are such beautiful and humbling people. You deserve every blessing that has come your way. I love how you live each day to its fullest and your love story is beautiful. Your children are so precious. You are an amazing mom Jenny. ❤ and prayers. I have faith you will be here awhile longer. We are all only here a little while. None of us are promised tomorrow. You have a strong United marriage and amazing support from family, friends, and lots of people on here. My sister survived Inflammatory Breast Cancer with a 7% survival rate. That was 15 years ago. You’ve got this! You’ve got a lot of strength and fight left. Just take each moment as it comes and leave everything else up to the good Lord.

  • @motherofthreeb6337
    @motherofthreeb6337 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I rushed! I KNEW I had cancer DESPITE a clean mammogram in June! I bugged my surgical oncologist for an MRI (which I normally got in December) and through the MRI and biopsies, it was confirmed. I knew by the end of August. Imagine had I watched until December and my follow up in January and then all the test.... we're talking about March/April of the next year had I listened to them! By the beginning of November, my cancer surgery was done! Image how much the cancer would have grown had I not been persistent! You have to be your own advocate! No one knows your body like you do!

    • @hbennett5640
      @hbennett5640 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How did you know you had cancer if you don't mind me asking, what stood out and was different?

    • @la-km_3828
      @la-km_3828 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hbennett5640
      I’m interested in this answer as well.

  • @pianolady726
    @pianolady726 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    You two are wonderful people, and deserve all of the happiness and outpouring of love that you receive ❤️ I was a sophomore in high school, when my dad passed away after a brief battle with colon cancer. We had the wonderful support of our family, friends, and neighbors( not financially, but in terms of a meal train, help with taking my dad to and from his appointments, and just being present for us in our time of need) Back in the 80's, there was no social media or go fund me's, so we did what we could to make memories and enjoy our time taking drives down to the beach, or little stay-cations. It was one of the most difficult times of our lives, yet, I often look back at those very simple memories and cherish them❤️❤️

  • @lorrainepavlicko
    @lorrainepavlicko 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    There are so many kind, generous people in this world. Your teacher co-workers actually made me cry due to their wonderful deed! Bless them and both of you!

  • @sandrahenry8621
    @sandrahenry8621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It's such a blessing to see you and your family and friends supporting you in making your journey. God has blessed me with Cancer three-time in less than five years. Each time they returned Cancer, two different types would appear. One was aggressive, and the other would be less aggressive when the Radiologist confirmed the Cancer. Tears started😅 to roll down my face, and there was controllable crying. He and his assistant stepped out of the room for me to be alone for as long as needed. I remember hearing my mother's voice yelling my name several times. Sandra, Sandra, I got you, I got you!
    The voice sounded just like a mother(the only thing was that my lives about two hours away). I remember answering her, and I heard the voice again (it was so comforting ). I stopped crying and sat there and started singing hymns; I don't remember them. As I was leaving, assist meet me in the hallway and asked if I was going to be okay. I said yes because I have Jesus. We both smiled at each other, and I went on my way. My last Cancer diagnosis and treatment was in 2015👏🏾🙏🏾 God has missions for us on this earth so that we can Glorify him for a reason. In the early years of my Journey, I would cry, and even put a pillow over my face and scream as often as I liked ( l was alone at the time). I felt a significant relief come over me. I have done that for years, but it helped me. Continue to pray and ask God to guide you. You are such a beautiful and positive person despite your Diagnosis. God knows what you are going through, and you are taking those blows like a Heavy Weight Champion, and your husband is your Coach. What a team! I love you and your family.
    👍🏾❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹🙏🏾

  • @truthsetsufree
    @truthsetsufree ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What awesome group of people donating their time, says a lot about them and you ❤❤

  • @kimberlyjoyce2025
    @kimberlyjoyce2025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am not surprised that Kyle is a teacher!!! I was a teacher for a while before I had to leave work. I was also a hairdresser for 14 years. You guys are very lucky to have such a great support system!!!! I have nobody I mean nobody who cares what happens to me. My daughter became famous singer and doesn't want anything to do with me at all. Not even if I get cancer. Which I have it. I have a noggel on my thyroid. You guys are the sweetest!!!! I hope some day I find someone close to the kind of man Kyle is. I can't ever see Kyle with anyone ever again, he will forever be your best cheerleader forever!!!! You guys are the best. Awwww sweet!!!!

    • @susano7587
      @susano7587 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kimberleyjoyce2025, I have 3 nodules in my thyroid. They have been there for at least 2 years. They “look” at them every 6 months to make sure they aren’t growing rapidly. So far they have not done a biopsy on them. They appeared during my breast cancer treatment. Was your nodule biopsied? Was it cancer? Did they remove only the nodule, or did they remove the entire thyroid? Are you doing chemotherapy? Thank you for the information.

    • @sarahrupert5320
      @sarahrupert5320 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope you both are doing ok. I have thyroid nodules as well that are (so far) a watch & wait kind of thing, but having 3 of them (like you do) freaks me out.
      Regardless-I hope this finds you both healthy & happy! Cancer is obviously awful and having some kind of support system is paramount. I pray that you sweet ladies do. 🙏🏼

  • @sonshinetres4541
    @sonshinetres4541 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are blessed with so much love and support.

  • @rockk973
    @rockk973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've been watching and I pray for all of us. My wife is battling and luckily I work for a small family own business for 25 years. I have taken off for everything for my wife with pay. They have been so good to us at the moment. God bless you both.

  • @gregelek8047
    @gregelek8047 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Just say this video for first time and it makes sense now for me with you Kyle how patient you are that your a teacher explains alot now. My thoughts and prayers go out to you Kyle and kiddos it will take long time but i know you will get through this❤❤

  • @psrwhite
    @psrwhite 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    That is wonderful, all the support you are getting. Also Kyle you may be eligible for FMLA, Family Medical Leave Act, which allows you time off to care for your loved one, and maybe a continuing paycheck (depending on your employer's policy). Love you both. Thank you for sharing your journey.

    • @donnabaardsen5372
      @donnabaardsen5372 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ...and that's the problem in America. Leave of any kind is no good without full pay. That kind of leave just lay's a heavier burden on families than they're already burdened with. I lived in Norway for years. No such worries there, along with most of Europe. Where I worked, we had our own doctor and nurse as well. Along with quiet rest areas for those not feeling well, or with chronic health challenges. This was accepted and encouraged. Also, one cannot be fired, lose their job due to health and/or family issues. America is woefully inadequate accordingly, and that's putting it politely. Kyle is truly blessed to have colleagues giving him their paid days, along with financial help from family and friends as well. Otherwise, they'd really have financial challenges, and he would quite possibly lose his job.

    • @kristimartinez7528
      @kristimartinez7528 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@donnabaardsen5372 Well said 👏

    • @swimgirl24
      @swimgirl24 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@donnabaardsen5372I know you’re trying to be nice but they get hundreds or thousands of comments like this. They get exhausting and annoying after awhile. Americans know what other countries have. It doesn’t change what we have. Unless you understand the politics here, it won’t make sense to you. It also varies by state. They live in California which gave them full pay during their leave…

  • @MickiD255
    @MickiD255 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved hearing how you two meant and fell in love. Kyle you stood by Jenny's side from day one and tell the day Jenny beat cancer. I'm so sorry for you and the kids loss.

  • @mandybradley3079
    @mandybradley3079 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful family. I’m sad she is gone. Thank GOD your blessed by listening to this video.

  • @rebeccaziebarth178
    @rebeccaziebarth178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Have only stumbled across your channel a few weeks ago. You and your family are in my prayers daily. Asking God for a full body restoration and that "cancer free" will be 2 words you hear soon.

  • @michelles9897
    @michelles9897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You two are the bestest couple and so cute together. Can’t wait for the love story video. 💕💞💕 I really do think you both were meant for each other 😊

  • @Marymary999-h8s
    @Marymary999-h8s 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I absolutely adore you both. Jenny you brought tears to my eyes when you expressed your gratitude for your treatment - something I've never heard other youtubers actually say out loud. There is one youtuber who can't bear to be in the hospital and says so. Nobody likes it but you are grateful to the medical team and its nice to hear. I've had treatment myself and it helped me heal mentally by being utterly grateful for what was done for me. Your love is dazzling and as a couple you are the complete epitome of love and how it should be. You have raised two magnificent little people. Thank you for always being so candid, open and honest about your feelings. Love to you all from the UK🙏❤🧡💛💚💙💜💜

  • @susanmacatangay4209
    @susanmacatangay4209 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think Jenny and Kyle are simply special, kind people.

  • @joanbeach644
    @joanbeach644 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Miss you Jenny. You both had such a great relationship. ❤️🙏🏻

  • @amandamiller7926
    @amandamiller7926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I live vicariously through you in a way!😅 I am terminal with out chance of survival and I'm doing it alone. I don't have family so I LOVE to see such kind and loving people!😘

    • @annemartin7802
      @annemartin7802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @gaynortaylor4224
      @gaynortaylor4224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😘😘

    • @BethaneyLilly
      @BethaneyLilly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ❤ your way….

    • @lj9524
      @lj9524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @theriddlerUSA
      @theriddlerUSA ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi Amanda. How are you doing? Prayers to you from Texas.

  • @stephaniely1187
    @stephaniely1187 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    U guys r so lucky...u have a lot of help AND support....alot of people don't 😢......they r alone,when they r sick....both of u r very lovely...I wish u r cancer free...throw the cancer cells out of the windows.....I love to go to disneylane with my husband and 2 sons,but it is so expensive ...I wish disneylane make it cheap for everyone to go....kyle. Thank you FOR being a teacher, thank you...

  • @ourcorrectopinions6824
    @ourcorrectopinions6824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Best apples in the orchard, you two.

  • @pattiday431
    @pattiday431 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is the first time I saw what Kiehl's work situation was. God bless those many people who came together with their gifts of money, time, and talent.

  • @janjiguere638
    @janjiguere638 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Jenny you're an inspiration to all. I recently started following you. So happy I did. Cancer is so hard and it can be the worst thing in life. Well it is. I want you to know when I was many years "younger". My husband had cancer. He was so brave. He's my Hero. I love and miss him daily. They didn't have all the things they do now. I am so glad you're getting the best treatment there is. I think of you and your family often. You have a very strong support group. That's so important. Jenny my Prayers for you is to beat this. Live along beautiful life. You both love each other so. You can see it and feel it. Thank you for sharing yours and your families lives with us. What a truly wonderful husband you have but you already know this. Your children are adorable. They seem to be doing well. I hope you have a blessed and beautiful weekend ❤️🙏 God bless you Jenny and family ❤️🙏🙏

  • @michaelaguayo3872
    @michaelaguayo3872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I have met people like us that have been going with stage 4 for 4-5 & 8 years. I know it’s scary honey but you got this ✌🏼& ❤️

  • @bonniehardeman7986
    @bonniehardeman7986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    After losing my daughter to breast cancer at 38 years old with two small children I look back and wish she had spent more of her time resting to help her body heal herself than making memories for her children that today they don't remember. The longer your life with your children they will be able to remember. You can't fight cancer it demands center stage. I say trick it and rest to heal and eat a great healing diet and I am counting on you Jenny to survive this for all the mom's who have lost their daughters.

    • @louern123
      @louern123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💔💔💔💔💔

    • @debbiemartinez8989
      @debbiemartinez8989 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I have been making photo books of where we visit, so the kids remember. I told my older daughter to remember the good times when we are smiling and laughing when she feels sad.

    • @ruthutter1968
      @ruthutter1968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow! What a wonderful gift for you Kyle!

    • @cathytauscher6760
      @cathytauscher6760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      As an oncology nurse making memories was what your daughter needed to feel valued. Rest does not cure cancer. My daughter has been battling grade 4 brain cancer for ten years. 8 surgeries later against all odds she’s still here and making memories is SO important to her. She had 4 young children under the age of 10. 18 months after her diagnosis her husband died of stage 4 esophageal cancer.

    • @c.c.6930
      @c.c.6930 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

  • @sunshiicattara6410
    @sunshiicattara6410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love you guys, keep making those memories. My son in law has stage 4 lung cancer, also spread to brain and hip. We make memories where we can get them. Sometimes it’s not going places as he is not well, and we stay broke. Today my granddaughter, his daughter turns 10, so it’s party time. Today he’s feeling pretty good. I am glad you guys have a great support team.

    • @enigma_-_79
      @enigma_-_79 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m sorry. Prayers and best wishes to your son in law.

    • @sunshiicattara6410
      @sunshiicattara6410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@enigma_-_79 thank you 🙏

    • @enigma_-_79
      @enigma_-_79 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sunshiicattara6410
      Everyone feels so helpless when the monster strikes. I have survivor guilt for only having Stage 2 breast cancer while people like Jenny and your son are so young with small children to love and raise. My girls are in their 40s now and flew the coop many years ago.
      My heart goes out to you and yours, truly it does. I’ll keep everything crossed and pray for miracles.
      All best. 🙏

  • @brendamichel7486
    @brendamichel7486 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I know this is way after you posted this video, but it has given me comfort watching this now. I was diagnosed about a month after you were, Jenny, with ovarian cancer Stage 4. I am much older than you and I'm told I have beaten the statistics, so I'm lucky to still be alive. I had chemo and surgery, and on maintenance drugs for over a year and a half, but it stopped working so I'm heading into chemo again next week. Thank you so much for your positive attitude! It's so hard to balance being realistic about my chances, with being hopeful and positive. Love to you both and your beautiful kiddos!

    • @papawnanasaveslovesnlife9530
      @papawnanasaveslovesnlife9530 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'll 🙏 for you, 💗 I been very worried n getting the guts to finally do the tests, n all the things they want me to 😮😢, Im so scared as my Ma jus passed on August 5th, 😢😇❣️... I wanna put my family thru this 😢 but now the pain in my ribs is always there or gets worse 😟😔❣️... I have to go for my grandchildren n I'm dreading all this 😢😭🙏❣️

  • @annward4149
    @annward4149 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kyle that is a special thing about your co-workers have done for you and Jenny. They must think a lot of you as a person . It's sweet of both sides of the family to step in and help.

  • @nancisailormoy9135
    @nancisailormoy9135 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your co-workers think the world of you to donate all their time. Kyle is also a great husband and supporter. Loved hearing all about your lives but didn't hear what Kyle teaches. Prayers that good results are right around the corner. Stay positive and keep those smiles on your faces.

  • @lynnsmith2648
    @lynnsmith2648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Amazing co workers God bless each and every one of them.

  • @miss__atomic__bomb
    @miss__atomic__bomb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I’m crying. I love you guys so much. You deserve it all. All of it. ❤

  • @deloracomfort8960
    @deloracomfort8960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Loved it when your beautiful cat appeared and you didn’t make it down! Good people you are!!!

  • @suemoo22
    @suemoo22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    What a wonderful gift your co-workers gave you, and you both deserve it so much. I’m keeping your family in my prayers. Make some amazing memories. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

  • @oneseeker2
    @oneseeker2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I see nothing less than pure "goodness" in you two! Individually and together.

  • @charleneevans96
    @charleneevans96 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You both have taught me so much and it wasn’t cancer but how to livd daily.

  • @melissapuppe4104
    @melissapuppe4104 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow that is so amazing that they did that for you at your job.

  • @jeaniewalters4709
    @jeaniewalters4709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Your story gives me more strength. I’ve had some really tough times in my life and I survived them. I thought I was broken but your story gives me the strength to move past the brokenness and find joy again.

  • @minnesotagal507
    @minnesotagal507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Finishing up my treatment with 6 weeks of radiation, 5 to go. Found out I had breast cancer in June. Surgeon said stage 3 , oncologist says stage 1, very confusing. Doing everything they say and praying . God bless all who suffer.

  • @jacquelynnjones1372
    @jacquelynnjones1372 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    my dad passed away in dec 2019 from lung cancer and he smoked since he was a teenager. I have been watching your videos and literally just realized that’s how I can relate to you. so weird. I know you have non smoking lung cancer. I am also a sahm and watching you all go through this trial is helping me to cherish life and my children and husband so much more. 💗💗💗

    • @amyb2646
      @amyb2646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m so sorry about your Dad. I lost my Dad in December 2019 as well. He had grade 4 glioblastoma brain cancer. He was my best friend. I miss him so much. God bless you and your family 🙏🏼❤️

    • @Deavotionth
      @Deavotionth 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My dad passed away a few weeks ago from stage 4 lung cancer. He was a heavy smoker for most of his life and went fast after diagnosis. Today it hurt so badly and these videos give me comfort. I also am amazed about true love and silent strength that shines through in every video. I learned a lot.

  • @aygennegya
    @aygennegya ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What Kyle's colleagues did is amazing. In my company (and probably country) it is not possible to give away annual leave to someone else. I am glad this was available to Kyle. This is actuve help then just words. Amazing

  • @3wishes777
    @3wishes777 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Missing Jenny at 14:00 broke my heart because she is gone now! Kyle was amazing to Jenny❤❤❤

  • @tinaschill7104
    @tinaschill7104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Never ever give up darling. You’ve got this and your super strong. I was suggested your channel just not long ago but for some reason I was drawn to your channel and hearing your story. I truly think and believe you will be healed completely. Keep your faith, keep your positivity, keep thanking God that hes brought you this far because he will take you all the way thru this journey and heal you all the way so that you can be here for many many many years to come. At the end of the day God has the final say not the doctors.

  • @ThePlayBockMansion
    @ThePlayBockMansion ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had a teacher in the 9th grade (I'm 26 now) his wife was diagnosed with breast cancer and he was missing a lot of work. His demeanor changed entirely towards the end of the school year and it was really sad to see him go from happy and excited to teach to just irritable and exhausted all the time. Idk what ever happened to his wife after that year but I really do appreciate Kyle for loving you and being so stupid strong (at least for these videos) for you. Everyone deserves love like this. I've been binge watching this channel for probably 2 weeks now and y'all are great. I hope and pray nothing but the best for both of y'all and your kids.

  • @Murrrrrrp
    @Murrrrrrp ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omgoodness. The thing about your co-workers donating their sick time to you has absolutely made my heart smile while simultaneously giving me eye puddles lol. 💙💙
    The generosity has just restored some of my faults in humanity.

  • @melb6862
    @melb6862 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Brilliant chat, I know from experience this journey isn't easy, sending big hugs from the UK xx

  • @lisaMN858
    @lisaMN858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    What a lovely Q&A session, thank you so much! You're an amazing family, going through such an awful thing, yet still smile and joke. Your love for each other is obviously total and the support is SO heartwarming. I wish you and your family all the very best , you deserve it. ❤️

  • @vdeniceeckert3494
    @vdeniceeckert3494 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Friends for 5 years first absolutely love that , it's amazing

  • @patriciahagedorn5694
    @patriciahagedorn5694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I think your last video you were really in bad shape after the 5K. I was so worried about you. So glad to see you today looking much better. I love your positive attitude. You seem to smile no matter the situation. I love your relationship with Kyle and how you two love and care for each other. I am so glad he is there for you. He is so strong and does such a great job taking care of you and the family. He is so good at talking you off the edge. You too are so strong during this difficult time. I am just amazed at how you manage things. Every doctor appointment, lab test, chemo appt., or scan I feel anxious for you. Sending my love and keeping you in my prayers.

  • @toniwood5679
    @toniwood5679 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am so glad you have each other. You both are so kind and sweet.
    I wish I had friends like you.
    Love you 🙏

  • @laurafleming7408
    @laurafleming7408 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "We're a team, always."

    • @papawnanasaveslovesnlife9530
      @papawnanasaveslovesnlife9530 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for all ya do for anyone 🙏❤️, n especially Kyle n Jenny Sweet friend 💞❣️

  • @frokengron
    @frokengron 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Jenny and Kyle; you are the ultimate strong and loving couple in both good and bad times.Sending hugs and blessings to your beautiful family.Can't wait to watch your love story!

  • @hopehall-sanchez1913
    @hopehall-sanchez1913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Jenny you should so write a child’s book on kids dealing with cancer. 💙

  • @thara21
    @thara21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You guys are so cute !!! I love you two together!❤❤ if anyone can beat this, you guys can! Kick cancer’s butt!

  • @EmyUrban
    @EmyUrban 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Statistics are difficult to read but I think they are a bit better for young people and women too … I already told you but I know someone who had lung cancer and brain tumours stage 4 and it was 12 years ago and she is fine! So there is hope !!!

  • @joevlogs1279
    @joevlogs1279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good morning beautiful family! Have a blessed day.

  • @nancypatterson374
    @nancypatterson374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was a stay at home mom for my 2 boys too. Then I baby set my 4 grandkids and yes it’s a real job Jenny. We live in South Carolina in the country and grew a large garden and I spent summers freezing and canning most of our fruits and vegetables. I too cherish the memories even though it was not easy and my husband was gone a lot because he was in the Army. You are both so wonderful with each other and your children, God Bless 🙏❤️

  • @lyndamcleod2242
    @lyndamcleod2242 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Unbelievable Jenny and Kyle,everyone is helping you ,because you are the most AMAZING couple!!! My Bonny Jenny keep your chin up,miracles DO happen and we pray every day for you !!! Love from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 x x

  • @beverlymccarthy5981
    @beverlymccarthy5981 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are truly a beautiful couple. Kyle is such a loving husband and Jenny is fortunate to have the love and support of so many people. Keep doing all you can to nurture the love you share. God bless you both.

  • @wanda4573
    @wanda4573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    That is soooo amazing of your co workers. I wondered how you did it. Your lucky having that support from family as well.

  • @lizzynunez4906
    @lizzynunez4906 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    God bless all your coworkers Kyle for donating their sick leave to help your family during this challenging time.🙏. As well as your family and friends to helping out and donating the vacations you have been able to take as you make memories. You are truly blessed❣️.......BTW You two are the most loving couple I have ever seen!💕👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨

  • @Kathleensailorgirl
    @Kathleensailorgirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love and prayers continue daily 🙏💕💕🙏

  • @Bombabingbong66
    @Bombabingbong66 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The financial burden of sickness is terrible at the worst possible time. Its something that most people don't realise. Hugs to a most beautiful couple. Xxxxxxx

  • @kimcollins2050
    @kimcollins2050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Jenny & Kyle you two are adorable together the ♥️ shines, Ellis & Winnie are so lucky to have you as parents jenny you always smile know matter what pain you are going through you are amazing gorgeous mummy and wife love & gentle hug UK

  • @Fidz27013
    @Fidz27013 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The look Kyle gives you when he looks in your eyes is the way a man should always look at a woman he loves. Kyle every woman that watch’s this is in awe of the luv you have for your dear sweet Jenny..❤

  • @takeitorleaveit.6333
    @takeitorleaveit.6333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I would have loved you as a teacher! You two are an inspiration, especially to those who are going through the same thing.

  • @mama_keikei8081
    @mama_keikei8081 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Kyle is such an amazing man. Jenny deserved the most love and care and he did that. I hope the doctor who overlooked her symptoms watches all of her videos. An X-ray doesn’t take long or cost too much to save a life.

    • @tag8b_free
      @tag8b_free ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true

    • @andrewwest5344
      @andrewwest5344 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That upset me too that the doctor missed that critical xray right it the start. It may have made the difference.

  • @mamabearandcubs7701
    @mamabearandcubs7701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very humble, special couple. Prayers for your Family xx🇬🇧🙏🏼

  • @cyndimartinez524
    @cyndimartinez524 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just now finding your videos. I retired a few years ago from the public school system after 38 years as a speech/language pathologist. I would have donated all of my days to you guys (over 200 days) if I had been in your district. God Bless you all and your journey. May you feel Gods love daily. ❤