I divorced my husband and married him again, signs you need to get out of your marriage | LNS
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ก.พ. 2022
- Signs your marriage is over, you need a divorce and why staying for your kids is a mistake
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Today's topic is so educating to anyone out there . I've learned a lot💯
i learnt alot from this. @lynn please am requesting you and shaz to talk about long distance relationship..the do's and donts, the deal breakers, how to solve conflicts and such staff. thanks
Well well very very Educative.
Though it could be painful to the marriages which have crambed. But such as life. We as parents should to digest our immotions and thing the future of Children coz these break up have effects on our kid.Through my experience of 27 years of marriage and most cases most women take all suffering and when look at our children. Congrats for the conversation. Be blessed women
I'm grateful about today's topic
This is so educative i felt she was talking to me
I think It's 1% of divorce cases that the couple can remarry the same partner they once divorced .
-Indifference
-Neglect
-Violence
-Contempt
Any or all of these kill a love relationship.
I have a sister who after a couple of times back and forth her marital home said enough is enough when the husband started threatening to kill her..She moved out in 2016 and never turned back..Her in laws came to try beg her to go back but she didn't.
Anyway,the good thing is her in laws are supporting the kids education..
This is God sent. She always speaks to me directly. She address every bit of the of the marriage/ relationship issues. No one understands until you are alone.
The financial issue is making many people stick to abusive relationships and marriages.
So true
@@life-tech-talks exactly💯
Very true
So very true
@@elizabethletsoso2558 💯💯
Benjamin Zulu fans here, you can relate this conversation with what Zulu talk about too. Difference ya Shazmeen na Zulu ni kwamba Zulu lazima atushoutie ndo tusikie😂🤣🤣
@Abigael plus the laughter after saying that's pre 25 madness🤣😂😂
@@Kasweetie_254 pre 25 madness 😂😂😂
These two are the best ( Zulu and Shazmeen).They are so relatable.
@@victoriamurugi6758 yassss
😂😂😂😂Kam akuna kushout atutasikia
The way Shazmeen explains n emphasises in her teaching makes one to want to listen to her topics more n more,not forgetting her beauty. Thanks Lynn we need more of her.
Ameen thank you. Humbleddd
Am gazing at the beauty and body ....she has done well
I love this life coach🙏 she talks from her own life experiences.She is helping others realize their mistakes and their worth.
High five thank you love
@@shazmeenbank1630 anytime🙏❤
True
As a mother to a son,I have picked my nuggets of wisdom!! Kaaaaiiiiii see wisdom dressed and looking so delicate.....I love you Shazmeen!
Shazeem is back😍Women leave mentally first before leaving physically.
Hi Lynn, thank you for having such an amazing lady, Shazmeen educating us. Lynn could she please return to speak on children of broken homes, maybe from abuse, choosing sides, coping with life and its challenges as a teenager , depression in teens, trusting no one. She is so calm in her demeanor, you can listen to her all day, in addition to her being a beautiful person. Lynn you look awesome, red becomes you.
Shazmeen again on the show😍😍😍 i can't get enough of listening to this woman❤
Msijifanye hamjaona designer wa Lynn amecheza kiyeye.Fashion on point,so elegant🔥👍❤👌 Luku imeweza.
Sana on top
@@mildredchemutai8860 Exactly💯👍
Yes, teaching theory & having the practical experience are 2 different things. I refused to stay in an abusive Marriage bearly 13months in it and with a 4months old baby. Wee! Sema stress even from family members eti nimeacha mzungu 🙈💔😰 Nkt! That child is soon turning 19 yrs. It's a high time pple STOP seeing marriage as an achievement in life BUT as an option in variety construction of a family lifestyle 💝🌻
Wah Mzungu ni mtu and anaeza kuwa mbaya
I hate when people idolise "Mzungu "not forgetting they are just humans like anyone else. You did well mama.
Well put. I call it a firm family unit
Kui you are a queen,thanks for choosing you and your sanity,your child comes first and you are a strong woman.Women should say no to abuse especially narssists mzungu or mhindi or African.always practice self love.enjoy motherhood with no trauma.
I really love watching and rewatching these stories especially when I'm distracted while watching at first time .I feel good when understanding section by section in any story.
We are really learning a lot before we decide to get married and to whom . This is knowledge given to us and knowledge is power💪
I will watch this clip every moment....it's such a source of all the information and knowledge that we need to survive and move on with our good people.
Even when you reach at a level of divorce. You can still weigh on what is a healthy relationship and what is unhealthy.
Healthy relationships with healthy minded people who can reason and understand well, take accountability of their mistakes, can salvage a marriage.
Unhealthy relationship, with one partner being toxic, mentally or physically, threatening to kill a spouse, needs not to be salvaged. A man/woman who abuses their partner, who doesn't want to compromise, who doesn't take accountability but wants to keep up their toxic traits,should be avoided. Please divorce or break that relationship ASAP
Shazmeen speaks from her heart, so calm and collected, so real. Thank you for this amazing coaching. Thank you Lynn for bringing her again and again.
Very interesting and insightful conversation. May many more women be impacted, please do not stay in an abusive marriage or relationship.
Lynn's pun with regard to Shazmeen Bank's name is witty. "Here on this show we can always bank on you."💯👍🏽😂
🤣🤣🤣Glad you caught this🙏
Every time l watch Lyn's show l learn alot and hopes that one day l will be strong enough to make that bold decision that l have been unable to make for over 5 years,Be able to heal and Forgive and most of all when l am well l be able to lend a voice to those that cannot speak or have no one to speak too be it a woman or a man. Mostly all is needed is hugs and someone to listen without judging.
We are hear to listen my love. No judgement.
I understand you
@@shazmeenbank1630 Thanks alot . How can l contact u? Maybe we can have a talk.
@@gloriandishambogoma thanks. Hope you are okay.
Sending you hugs mami.
No please don't make a mistake of going back to a narcissist!
Shazmeen ,you're helping me bring up my son to be a gentleman who realizes it's good and healthy for a man to breakdown when situations push him to the wall. Thank you ,I try a lot to tell my son how good he's and I love how he tells me " nikijiangalia kwa kioo me hujiona ndo handsome in the world "and we both smile.😂👏👏 his positivity nowadays makes me a proud mom.
Wow! thank you so much for encouraging us n great advice
This more than love that you show us
God bless you Lynn
Shazmeen again I can't get enough of this you both are great your conversation means alot to me. Iam always here with a pen and a book coz sometimes earth is hard but all in all we thank our God.
I real love this woman the way she puts things in the I understand' I think if possible Lynn continue to bring her' I wish if I can meet her to share my story
Thanks Lynn for always encouraging us through the stories
Lemie listen why I was torture mentally and physically in my marriage 💑, women goes alot in marriage,those still in marriage it's a sacrifice ad alot of prayers cz marriage not easy at all.THANX LYNN FOR THE STORY.
Weee. Me niligive up acha nilee watoto wangu
si rahisis hata kidogo..women are the Ones giving everything and the men like bosses
This education is at the right time. There is alot of us who are going silent with pain and no one's speak to us and yet we are all at disadvantage because we cannot accept what we are going through without giving ourselves chance. Thks so much Lynn.
This is a powerful conversation which is valuable to all...married or not.. A great learning lesson to all. Thank you Ms Banks and much appreciation to you Lynn. I'm in UK, and definitely would love to invite Ms Banks one day to join us in the conversation...
Inshallah my love
@@shazmeenbank1630
You dropped a lot of golden nuggets right there for anyone to pick-up and learn from it. Thank you so much...
Powerful show packet with information for both young and old generations. Blessings Lynn and Mrs Banks ❣️❣️
This has been enlightening.?I have learnt so much from this message. Thanks and be blessed
This lady speaks with her heart.....it's sweety to listen to her....apart his experience she's knowledgeable.....
Thank you Lynn for inviting her.. i keep going back to watching it.
Lynn am single, watching ur show frm Dubai, it has really helped me,thanks 4 bringing that lady, she is inspirations 2 many
Looking beautiful ladies thank you Lynn for bringing Shazmeen again i love her perspective . all the way from South Africa 🗺
Love u Lynn. Thanks for always bringing topics that impact lives. I have never missed any episode of urs from TUKo to ur show. Making me hard to follow Tuko though 🤔. Keep up ur hardworlk
SO SO EDUCATIVE, THANKS THIS HAS REALLY HELPED. WATCHING FROM ZAMBIA
Beautiful our Therapy and counselors Lynn Ngugi!
I never get enough of this pretty girl, she’s so eloquent and explains things so we’ll, Thankyou for helping us, listening to you over and over again have changed my life drastically I’ve really Groooown in relationship
Thank you for the advice much love 💞💞💞🙏
Shazmeen Bank our girl! You the best coach! In the beginning I was like this discussion is for couples ailing/i was wrong ....everyone needs to listen to this and to my opinion ths is why, Our lady Shazmeen touched on soo many nuggets where we take it lightly and get it all wrong. On relationship with grown up and raising up kids especially boys. Also an 'aha moment' for me was when she dissect the paradox of why people get defensive even if they are the cause of conflict and end up in a more worse state. Thanks Lynn for bringing Shazmeen on!
An amazing conversation there Lynn, thanks Shazmeen for sharing that very important information. I have really learnt alot.
Wow! this was good "for better for worse, but better stopped being better a long time ago.." this is several hundred dollars worth of counseling but we are supper lucky to be getting it for free at Lynn's show. I will rewatch it again. I loved it!
While my marriage didn't survive after 27yrs. Every single issue she mentioned I experienced in my marriage. This discussion help me see my mistakes and understand the things I dealt with during my marriage. Thank you speaking in such a realistic and practical manner 🙏
Mine is ending after 23 years
Gender issues has always been issues for a while. I'm happy that she's talking about the boychild experience and processing of pain.
total therapy, shazmeen you’re on this channel to stay I have followed you thanks Lyn and entire team for making this happen.
It's so nice to hear from her Ms Shazmeen Bank thnx doing great work.. Omg Mi cake.. really appreciate your time to counseling... God bless you always amen.. watching from Dubai UAE thnx madam.. Ngugi keep'n it up..
Wow!!. When she said it’s okay to be angry, “you are mourning a loss of something huge” that right there sends chills chills down my spine. I have been always guilty of being angry. I always suppress it. Thank you Shazmeen.
Very meaningful conversation on parenting. Thank you Lynn and Banks
Not in marriage but am learning alot lynn you are doing a good job❤
I could listen to Shaz all day long...Thank you for this conversation.👏👏👏
You have taught me alot and opened up my mind.
Mrs Banks thanks for this just here thinking am in the right track
Learned alot thanks en May our Good God continue blessing you 🙏
I love the topic......I have leant alot,
It's okey to feel angry,to involve our kids in everything....even divorce...etc
God bless bless you shazmeen. Lynn you have never disappointed..we need more of shazmeen
lynn can you please be bringing her at least ones in a month or so. because some of us really need such knowledge and we dont have the money for counselling sessions
There are free counseling options in Kenya.
@@JJKA360 where exactly dear
@@JJKA360 do they counsel like she does. Hers is more real
I have to watch this video a million times and taking key points,excellent relationship strategy. Kudos lynn
Thank you Felix.
Really appreciate🙏
Wonderful show, learned a lot
Divorced 3 Years ago, happily Single and enjoying Motherhood and Our Son is just turning 7 Years and He is the happiest Boy today...The Joy of watching this Boy grow to a Man and at the same time having His Dad presence in His life is great...
Proud of you anita
I love this dear lady,,, Dear Lynn and the entire team,,, please consider bringing her back on set,,,, I mean there's a lot left
Beautiful , thanks for the counsel in here.
Marriages are hard….
Very insightful
I see a different angle
Thanks lynn for your encouragement 🌹
..it is okay not to be okay!
..anger is good, let it not be toxic!
..be intentional about what you like..speak it!
..pick your day, don't be defensive.
..you are so flooded with emotions.. avoid flooding
..be supportive, and ask your spouse what you could do for them.
..in-laws..you have got to show even (your) parents not to put your spouse down.
..she left home to build a home with you.
..NOT EVERYTHING HAS TO END IN DIVORCE...
Let us share this video to help our brothers and sisters.
Gosh thank you my love for the summery
You are too sweet.so humbled and lots of knowledge.God bless you
Wauh wisdom incorporate from shazmeen thank you for banking on us
Aki I don't know why I always risk in this video's is Lynn I'm in gulf I alway put my phone in my panti then put earphone then put two caps then I wear a big sweater just to make sure waiguru ajaniona n simu but is only for Lynn video I can't miss this things coz the fact I passed many challenges I really like to hear stories from others thank you Lynn for bringing this
Dear Victoria, kindly send me your contact details on my email, lynnngugi4@gmail.com or lynnngugishow@gmail.com, would love to connect with you and send you a gift🙏
This has made really emotional🙏
Wow,what a true loving fan you are.👏👏
Ok thank you lynn
@@LynnNgugi aki Lynn I don't know how to write maybe in the Instagram I will sent you
Thanks Lyn can't thank you enough 🙏🙏🙏🤗❤️❤️
Pure wisdom. Learning from the best!
Very informative, thanks Lynn🤝
You made so many valid points!
Soooooo Good, just came across your channel by chance ;Love it- Brilliant 🙏🏾🙌🏾 Thank you ☺️ God bless you
Welcome home💛💛
Shaz has made me grow "inwards" I no longer keep quiet and die alone inside me i usually talk to my spouse and we solve the issue on spot and I see it working we are happy and am not yet there i need to hear from her again and again talking about different things as far as relationship/ marriage is concerned
Lyyn I must commend the good work .perfect sounds
Perfect videos crystal clear
Thankyou again Lyyn
Wonderful show how I wish one day I get the courage to make that big decision God help me.....thanks Lynn
Mercy, from all the coaching tools I have, the biggest one I have is... give it to god. He will guide you.
I truly feel you. 🤗🤗 🤗
Am separated with my hubby but wish to remarry him if he could change
Pray about it
I do love it all she has a way of getting into the bottom of it all.
I love this girl she is really amazing always love to listen to her..her explanation is the key
Thank you
Wow Wow what a nice lecture, will watch it again and again
Good teacher ,Thanks alot
..for better for worse!...Better left long ago, worse kept going... A big thank you to Lyn and Banks. I felt sad, that the show came to an end.
Our guest today as amazing as ever.Her voice is just therapeutic... The topics always on top.Even on Instagram,they are the best.
Thank you so much love
@@shazmeenbank1630 Anytime.Humbled by your reply
@@shazmeenbank1630 i just followed you on TH-cam, kindly r there more teachings? Thanks for this teachings, u spoke wat am going through, midst of divorce
A clarifying message/session ❤
Wow learnt alot i have learnt i should love and show my kids love
Very educative 🔥
Thanks for the show👏👏👂🤝🤝🤝
God bless you lynn your doing good job
Hello Lynn! Love what you doing. Been watching you since tukotalks. Am commenting right now even before I got to half of this video. I love what the woman is doing. Love the video from the start by at this point I feel like it's all stereo typing. Whatever she described men do is exactly what I do. In all my relationships I have always felt like I wasn't allowed to be vulnerable, have always been the care giver and my partner (The man) has always been vulnerable and actually excessively vulnerable that it was just annoying to me. I don't have groups and I don't have girlfriends. I don't trust anyone and I don't even go to alcohol or do all this things that men do when they don't wanna feel vulnerable. I burry myself in my room by myself and suffer by myself. I cry by myself. I have no one that I share my problems to and don't have an option of alcohol or sleeping around either because am trying to adhere to society norms. Women are judged harshly without committing any crime. And if them men are always judged for their mistakes I feel like that's kind of fare comparing it to how women are judged in society. I feel like the guest is excusing men for their mistakes and from paying for their mistakes. Maybe same thing she did with her husband I guess. Something that us women kind of always do to justify staying with toxic people. Also this is just my point of view
Thank you Jecie for the feedback🙏
God bless you Lynn
Very educative.
hello lynn ngugi I just voted please how many times a we voting is it very day until the competition end please tell
Lynn Ngugi Jaber nimefika twende
Our Leader s...much successful to society
This is interview should have millions views by now..alit to learn here🙌🏽
Very Important Topic 🙏🙏❤️
It's good to be angry but not toxic