Ladies I just turned 55 last week and I also was this kid. 16, no car and a "best friend who I was desperately in love with. If needed me, I was on my way (in daddy's car) to his house. We would play around and usually ended up making love. He was the ONLY guy who actually made love ❤️ to me. He was gentle and caring and I will always love him for the way he treated me when we were together. But he always went back to the girl he was dating at the time. Until they hurt him. Then he would be calling me and I was on my way to his arms again.
@@alexandrakaymusic yes ma'am thank you for such an amazing song. But then again all your songs are therapeutic and a voice of an angel. Thank you for being you💙💚💙
Alexandria gives me all of the ladies of the 90s voice mixed together. I hear martina, Sara, faith, jodi, shania and soo many more in her unique voice.
I can definitely hear a little Dolly & Alison Krauss specifically, maybe even a little Shania, but there's no question @Alexandrakaymusic is forging her own path
WHY IS THIS NOT NUMBER ONE AROUND THE WORLD AND WHY DOES THIS NOT HAVE 100 MILLION VIEWS??? Share her!!! She’s been great for years, but THIS?? THIS IS TOP OF THE POP AND COUNTRY CHARTS EXCELLENT! If this doesn’t get a Grammy the academy is STUPID
How is this girl not all over the radio ? No disrespect to other artists but there are some on the radio right now that can’t hold this girls water bottle….. she’s absolutely amazing
This is the song about the bad boy that was good for ALL the wrong reasons... and then the self-realization of the damage it's doing to your self-esteem... the brief encounter of lust leaves such an empty feeling after. SUCH A GOOD SONG! We need more real-talk songs like this. ❤️
Think this song was written and sang just for me and I promise to GOD IT WAS A HELLUVA LOT MORE THAN LUST MY FRIENDS 😮😮😮 AND OH SORRY I FORGOT THAT I REALLY DON'T HAVE ANY FRIENDS SINCE YOU BECAUSE I DAMN SHORE DON'T HAVE ANY FRIENDS SINCE YOU BECAUSE I DAMN SURE DON'T LOVE MYSELF ALONE BUT IT DAMN SURE KINDA HATE THE MYSELF I'VE BECAME WITHOUT YOU AND I HAVE JUST KINDA WISHING THAT YOU'D GIVE ME AND YOU ONE MORE CHANCE BECAUSE I HAVE NEVER EVER THOUGHT OF US BEING JUST LUST ❤️🔥❤ I'VE ALWAYS THOUGHT OF US I THOUGHT OF US BEING A PERFECT LOVE AND I HAD SOMETHING VERY VERY PERFECT IN MY EYES 👀 I GUESS I REALLY KNOW WHERE YOU WAS PUTTING US AND THAT SH×× REALLY REALLY HURTS LIKE HELL AND BUT IT'S MADE LOOK AND SEE WHAT EVERYONE ELSE PUTS ME AND EVEN OVER HALF OF MY FUGGIN FAMILY IS HATING ME AND THAT HURTS VERY VERY LITTLE COMPARED TO SEEING THAT'S ALL I WAS TO YOU WAS LUST EVEN SEEING THAT DOESN'T MAKE ME LOVE YOU ANY LESS JUST WANTED TO BE LOVED BY YOU LIKE I WAS LOVING YOU AND AND IT HURTS LIKE HELL TO NO I'LL ALWAYS LOVE YOU AS MUCH AS I DID BACK THEN I WILL NEVER EVER WANT NOTHING BUT 1 MORE SHOT TO HAVE THAT SHOT BUT HEY IF YOUR NOT GOING TO GIVE ME THAT SHOT LET ME KNOW AND I WILL GO ELSEWHERE TO TRY AND FIND A PERFECT LOVE ONCE AGAIN 😢😢😢
Girrrl, this should have been my theme song yrs ago... I remember driving those backroads til 3-4 in the morning..not knowing where to go, but knowing he didn't actually care..that I was drunk on love that didn't exist in his heart..at least not for me.. Thank God I realized what I deserved yrs ago..and my child didn't deserve the same treatment he started showing before I even went into labor. God is my ride or die...no one else, never again 🙏💯
Foreal I thought a found my love but I found that she wasn't for lying to me and I let her go and I thought I found one but I'm still waiting for the right woman to come to me and we get to be a family and more
When your 31 and still haven’t had an actual relationship to even know personally how this song feels, but it still feels so good to shout the lyrics out!
Im 44 never had a actual relationship but I now how this song feels personally. This can be about friends or people you really care about that say they care but there action show something different.
I'm 35!!! Happily😅married ❤!!! I (WE) have 3 teenage boys (17-14)! It's always hard to let go!😢 It's never easy, but I was hard for me!!! I also have a stepson that is a handful! His ans I wish him the best in life!
This was me in my early 20's. I dated a bad boy for 2 years. Even after we split up anytime he texted me and said, "come over" I would immediately leave my house and go over there. I did this so many times and for so many years until I finally sat down and thought to myself what am I doing? I'm only hurting myself and I went cold turkey. Stopped responding to him and I was so much happier after I did that. Now I'm in my early 40's and happily married. This song really resonated with me. It should be #1 on the charts! Her voice is amazing!
So many nights driving home speeding down from North Carolina on the highway with the windows down, music cranked, screaming into the night as a teenager. It’s hard to let go! Love this song. New favorite!
"Back road therapy" helped me hide and helped me dig out of the isolating hole he had thrown me in. I ran back home to the mountains that watched me grow up. I bet when you recorded this song you wouldn't imagine this song hitting deep inside recovering abuse victims. We needed this. Thank you. 💕 #7/7/21OurFreedomDay ❤️🩹
Good for you for getting out of the abusive situation and getting somewhere safe. I know how that can feel when you finally are able to get “free” from the toxic situation. I’ve been in your shoes before except I wasn’t living with him and wasn’t married. I kept breaking up with him and didn’t really know why until I went out of state and was able to think about things.
Anytime I get out I sing this at the top of my lungs. It's been so therapeutic. ❤️ Every day I'm getting stronger and stronger. Thanks for the backroad therapy. 🥰
This is a good song. It reminds all of us that we all need to get off our phones and Detach. It is something that We all need to do. It is the truth. It is something. To Him Be The Glory. "St Ignatius Of Loyala. Thanks, Alexandra Kay.
Many many ladies needed this song from AK. SHES TRULY ONE TALENTED YOUNG LADY THATS CERTAIN HERE I AM 39 YEARS OLD AND LOVING THIS SONG MAKES ME THINK OF A PAST RELATIONSHIP ❤😢 GO GIRLY YOUR ONE OF MY FAV ARTISTS 💯💯💯💯💯💖
This song was my life for 13 years. Except I went to meet him. After 13 years I pushed my foot on the gas pedal. I actually moved states. This song is spot on. Thanks so much for this.
I just discovered you, through TH-cam shorts, and I love this song and best ex ever! Girl you’re amazing! I love your voice and your lyrics. Literally star material!! ❤❤❤
These lyrics have a strong emotional theme and convey a sense of longing and empowerment. The imagery of driving and using music as therapy adds depth to the storytelling. The repetition of certain phrases, like screaming a name at the windshield and unleashing tears on the wheel, creates a powerful and cathartic effect. Overall, the lyrics capture the struggle of trying to move on from a toxic relationship and finding solace in the freedom of the open road.
My friends and I always talked about how therapeutic it was to take a drive on those back roads you know so well screaming heart break songs at the top of your lungs and ugly crying to the steering wheel. I'm almost 40 and still need to sometimes. This song makes my almost 40 year old heart happy and speaks to the fragile 20 something I used to be that was looking for love in all the wrong places.
Love, Love, Love this girl... I knew when I first heard Jolene.. Mrs.Kay is the REAL DEAL!!!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU FOR BEING ON THE GRAND OLE OPRY!!
Alexandra Kay this is my anthem right now and I cant even begin to tell you how badly I needed this! It might actually give me the strength to quit being blind to the truth I know but I was too scared to admit. Thank you.
I have this on repeat.. I'm a guy and absolutely do not care if anyone judges it (cuz it's happened to me for listening). These words resonate so deeply. A dirt road, the afternoon sun through the trees, me, myself, my feels and memories... It's a perfect snapshot of humanity. It doesn't matter who you are.. backroad therapy is sooooo good to the soul!!
Love this song Alexandra all us Girls needed this song ! This is my now new favorite song ! We love you sooo much ! Keep that blessing journey going that you have. You’re a super star and just love you ! 💕💕💕💕
Best female country artist of this generation. I'm 33 and I hold her next to the GOATs like Shania, Faith, Reba, Martina. That old school tone and grit she has... love it and love her :)
She hasn’t bowed to the music gods yet…Hopefully she never does and we need to keep sharing her music and making more people aware of her golden voice and story telling…!
I was in a toxic situation like this for around 6 years, but finally, with God's help and becoming a Christian, I got out! Now it's going on 14 years later! God is good! I truly can empathize with other men and women that find themselves in these toxic situations.
My 4 year old daughter ,just said she wants to be just like you....thank you so much for what you do. What an inspiration. I hope your carried by angeles from heaven in life..just seeing my little ones jam out to your songs is worth every minute on this earth...thanks "she's only 4 years old ,but when my wife and I play your songs,she's uplifted...thank you.❤🙂
OMG, I love this song and unfortunately, I can so relate to every single word of this song. Thank you for every single song you put out there. I have not heard one that I didn’t just love. Your music is outstanding and I believe everyone can relate in one way or another. I have listened to this song 100+ times today just to remind me to STOP looking in the rear view mirror and I can’t wait to blast it as I am driving down the road!!!
Already got this repeat on Spotify,TH-cam,Facebook,Instagram,Twitter and Tick Tock. Love this song as I do all of ur songs. Can't wait till the video comes out. U've got this Alexandra! Way to go,another hit song but always knew ur career would take off once Tim McGraw took u on his tour(2022) this past summer......
Hello 👋 Kaarina. How are you doing? Hope you are fine, I'm Zack Hudson and am from Denver Colorado. Where are you from? You seem like a real country girl
I'm 35 years old almost 36 and I love this song and when I was working at a mill I would scream this song at work when I'm listening to it and I know how it feels to be in a relationship with someone and especially when they hurt u so many times and promise u that they would come home to u and they don't and I'm still listening to it I have it on my laptop on repeat Alexandra Kay has an amazing voice and when u listen to her u can feel her pain in her lyrics and her songs u helped me out in my complicated relationship AK
Hello Tonya 👋 Simple music can make you sing, a simple hug can make you feel better, simple things can make you happy, I hope my simple hello will make you smile.
Alexandra Kay, Kylie Frey, Ella Langley, Presley Tennant, Charly Reynolds, Gabby Barrett, MacKenzie Carpenter, MacKenzie Porter, Carly Pearce, Kelsea Ballerini, Lauren Alaina, Kacey Musgraves, Megan Moroney, Madeline Merlo, Madeline Edwards, Erin Kinsey, Carter Faith, Callista Clark, ... and on and on and ON!! Has there EVER before been a time when there were so many young, TALENTED, drop-dead GORGEOUS female country singers? WOW!!! ❤ 🥰 😍
Hello 👋 Marie. How are you doing? Hope you are fine, I'm Zack Hudson and am from Denver Colorado. Where are you from? You seem like a real country girl
oh I miss the golden age of this kind of music about a decade ago, glad to see someone keeping it alive! nothing like a bit of top down dirt road summer sunset country, yes please!
Ok so I saw her video giving a sneak peek of the song in the TH-cam shorts so I haven’t seen this yet. I hit the like button before evening watching because those 15-30 secs of the TH-cam shorts was enough this song is Aaammmmmmaaazzzinnnngggg ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
i screamed this song at the top of my lungs at her concert, AFTER i met her. let’s just say my voice was basically gone, my legs were sore, and my heart was filled with amazement and joy.
I can see plenty of people cranking up this song as they take to the open road, Alexandra! Coincidentally, you and Lainey Wilson both incorporated nods to Jo Dee Messina in lyrics I've heard today.
Backroad Therapy/Lyrics It's 1:08 wide awake when I hear that Special ring stomach sinks 'cause you know I'm already pullin' out the drive I'm up and I'll be there in five I'm turnin' right at a light when it hits me You feed me lies to put your hands on my body I'm helpless in the morning light Knowin' I fell for it a hundred times Finally put my foot down on the gas Speeding past your place on my left I swear it's like a drug when you're holding me But I got the remedy I know exactly what I need I'm gonna scream your name at the windshield Tell the rain how stupid I feel Unleash every tear on the wheel, crank the radio Every old country song about letting go Keeping my eyes on the road and off the rearview My mind between the lines and nowhere near you 'Cause driving this car right back into your arms ain't what's gonna fix me I just need a little backroad therapy It's 2:00 on the dot and you text me "Where you at?" You don't know I'm already Thirty miles out of town And I don't think I'm turnin' around 'Cause Jo Dee's singin' "Bye bye, catch ya later" Keep that lead foot on the accelerator But I still hear your voice echo in my head So I turn it up to ten And drive until I'm over it I'm gonna scream your name at the windshield Tell the rain how stupid I feel Unleash every tear on the wheel, crank the radio Every old country song about letting go Keepin' my eyes on the road and off the rearview My mind between the lines and nowhere near you 'Cause driving this car right back into your arms ain't what's gonna fix me I just need a little backroad therapy I'm not changin' my mind or my direction Let this dashboard hear my confession I'm gonna scream your name at the windshield Tell the rain how stupid I feel Unleash every tear on the wheel, crank the radio Every old country song about letting you go Keepin' my eyes on the road and off the rearview My mind between the lines and nowhere near you Driving this car right back into your arms ain't what's gonna fix me I just need a little backroad therapy (A little backroad, a little backroad) Need a little backroad therapy, yeah (A little backroad, a little backroad therapy) 'Cause I need a little backroad therapy
Alexandra, I'm so very proud and excited to see you shinning as the Star you are and have always been!!! Sing it Girl!!! This song is the anthem to my bad decisions! Can't wait to come see you tour in PA one day!
This is going to be your year! This song and your other songs are fabulous! It’s time for country radio and the charts to show everybody just how fantastic you are! ❤
We woman needed this!!! Open your eyes is being accessible for this below bare minimum is why dating in this generation sucks. These boys will never grow up if we just let them have what they want with nothing in return!! ❤️
Been there many times. Best way to get over someone. Back roads, music blasting, tears of frustration running down my face, singing at the top of my lungs - best therapy ever
Alexandra I've been waiting for this ever since you teased the demo. It was definitely worth the wait. I love it. Still can't wait to see you in concert and actually get to meet you. Keep doing what you do. Been here since the Jolene video that went viral on fb. I'll be here supporting you till the end.
I hardly ever get chills when listening to a singer or song but, this one really did it for me. Actual goosebumps throughout the entire songs. All of the lyrics hit really hard for me and the voice is beautiful
Coming from a abusive marriage.... I relate to this ..bthen after 4 years my high school sweetheart came back into my life ... Only to play my heart....and on my weakness... To kill time til he found his next victim. Men can be so evil
You are literally my FAVORITE country singer! I have been watching you sing since you were doing old country covers in your yellow kitchen while making iced coffee. I told myself “that girl is going somewhere big” I am obsessed with your music! You are so talented. I love the feel of your songs and how they are the perfect mix of 90’s and new country. Perfectly done!
This is the best song I’ve ever heard. My mom and I always listen to it together. I stumbled across this thinking it was gonna be horrible till I heard your voice and had to send this to my mom! I love ittt!
This song is a hit, it’s one of the songs you scream at the top of your lungs. It’s amazing
I love this song this song hits different
So true! it's its own therapy. I've been that moron who actually goes at 108 a.m. so I'm screaming at the windshield when I'm alone.
so true i ,love the song 🤩❤💥💯🤟🤙🤘🤟👏👏
Definitely truth behind this one
Totally agree! Sad she wont be coming to wisconsin!
17 year old me needed this song ❤ 🎶But here I am almost 30 happily married and still loving every second of it!!
I'm 33 and the 17 year old me lived this song.
Ladies I just turned 55 last week and I also was this kid. 16, no car and a "best friend who I was desperately in love with. If needed me, I was on my way (in daddy's car) to his house. We would play around and usually ended up making love. He was the ONLY guy who actually made love ❤️ to me. He was gentle and caring and I will always love him for the way he treated me when we were together. But he always went back to the girl he was dating at the time. Until they hurt him. Then he would be calling me and I was on my way to his arms again.
@Privatealexandra Kayyou are a fake 😤 leave me alone
Same!! But my 19 year old self needed to hear
Yeeesssss!!❤❤❤
This song should be on the air and topping the charts
Yes agreed
We all feel this
It'll be. Mark my words she going top 10 with this 1
agreed 💯💯💯💯
I agree love this song !!!!
Giiiirl... this hits different... ladies how many of us have done this?!!?!
Meee
We all have a story... or two 🚗💨
@@alexandrakaymusic yes ma'am thank you for such an amazing song. But then again all your songs are therapeutic and a voice of an angel. Thank you for being you💙💚💙
Guys to, at least this guy. I miss my country roads
Me
Alexandria gives me all of the ladies of the 90s voice mixed together. I hear martina, Sara, faith, jodi, shania and soo many more in her unique voice.
Agreed
Yesss!!!!!!!!
😂❣️ smart one...for a reason.
I can definitely hear a little Dolly & Alison Krauss specifically, maybe even a little Shania, but there's no question @Alexandrakaymusic is forging her own path
@jonathanplace9122 I was thinking the same. Dolly.
WHY IS THIS NOT NUMBER ONE AROUND THE WORLD AND WHY DOES THIS NOT HAVE 100 MILLION VIEWS??? Share her!!! She’s been great for years, but THIS?? THIS IS TOP OF THE POP AND COUNTRY CHARTS EXCELLENT! If this doesn’t get a Grammy the academy is STUPID
How is this girl not all over the radio ? No disrespect to other artists but there are some on the radio right now that can’t hold this girls water bottle….. she’s absolutely amazing
Not what the media controllers want--she wrote this song I believe.
Country radio is, unfortunately, controlled by Neanderthals who play songs by female artists about as often as Chris Christie skips a meal.
Her songs would have women leaving dysfunctional relationships in DROVES!!! Can’t have that! 😡
This is the song about the bad boy that was good for ALL the wrong reasons... and then the self-realization of the damage it's doing to your self-esteem... the brief encounter of lust leaves such an empty feeling after. SUCH A GOOD SONG! We need more real-talk songs like this. ❤️
Well said. Agreed
You said it perfectly.
Yeah definitely for bad boys high school memories
Think this song was written and sang just for me and I promise to GOD IT WAS A HELLUVA LOT MORE THAN LUST MY FRIENDS 😮😮😮 AND OH SORRY I FORGOT THAT I REALLY DON'T HAVE ANY FRIENDS SINCE YOU BECAUSE I DAMN SHORE DON'T HAVE ANY FRIENDS SINCE YOU BECAUSE I DAMN SURE DON'T LOVE MYSELF ALONE BUT IT DAMN SURE KINDA HATE THE MYSELF I'VE BECAME WITHOUT YOU AND I HAVE JUST KINDA WISHING THAT YOU'D GIVE ME AND YOU ONE MORE CHANCE BECAUSE I HAVE NEVER EVER THOUGHT OF US BEING JUST LUST ❤️🔥❤ I'VE ALWAYS THOUGHT OF US I THOUGHT OF US BEING A PERFECT LOVE AND I HAD SOMETHING VERY VERY PERFECT IN MY EYES 👀 I GUESS I REALLY KNOW WHERE YOU WAS PUTTING US AND THAT SH×× REALLY REALLY HURTS LIKE HELL AND BUT IT'S MADE LOOK AND SEE WHAT EVERYONE ELSE PUTS ME AND EVEN OVER HALF OF MY FUGGIN FAMILY IS HATING ME AND THAT HURTS VERY VERY LITTLE COMPARED TO SEEING THAT'S ALL I WAS TO YOU WAS LUST EVEN SEEING THAT DOESN'T MAKE ME LOVE YOU ANY LESS JUST WANTED TO BE LOVED BY YOU LIKE I WAS LOVING YOU AND AND IT HURTS LIKE HELL TO NO I'LL ALWAYS LOVE YOU AS MUCH AS I DID BACK THEN I WILL NEVER EVER WANT NOTHING BUT 1 MORE SHOT TO HAVE THAT SHOT BUT HEY IF YOUR NOT GOING TO GIVE ME THAT SHOT LET ME KNOW AND I WILL GO ELSEWHERE TO TRY AND FIND A PERFECT LOVE ONCE AGAIN 😢😢😢
All of this. And that empty feeling after is no joke. 😢😢
Girrrl, this should have been my theme song yrs ago... I remember driving those backroads til 3-4 in the morning..not knowing where to go, but knowing he didn't actually care..that I was drunk on love that didn't exist in his heart..at least not for me.. Thank God I realized what I deserved yrs ago..and my child didn't deserve the same treatment he started showing before I even went into labor. God is my ride or die...no one else, never again 🙏💯
Oh how this reminds me of those high school days when you think your in love and realize it wasn't what you thought. Love this one ❤️ 💕
LOL!! What about us dudes. We experience it too. We don't show it. This is probably her best so far!!! 🤗
@@textaylor1751 very true. Men are held to a standard of being strong, not fair. Back road therapy is good for everyone 😌
Right i agree
Foreal I thought a found my love but I found that she wasn't for lying to me and I let her go and I thought I found one but I'm still waiting for the right woman to come to me and we get to be a family and more
When your 31 and still haven’t had an actual relationship to even know personally how this song feels, but it still feels so good to shout the lyrics out!
Im 44 never had a actual relationship but I now how this song feels personally. This can be about friends or people you really care about that say they care but there action show something different.
I've dated many times and in the past 5 years I've been along as a single parent of 2 kids but I feel it will happen when I least expect it to happen.
Great things come to those who wait.
@@stephanieredden8861 oh I love love love being single. I plan on being single the rest of my life!
I'm 35!!! Happily😅married ❤!!! I (WE) have 3 teenage boys (17-14)! It's always hard to let go!😢 It's never easy, but I was hard for me!!! I also have a stepson that is a handful! His ans I wish him the best in life!
1966 Ford Mustang Fast Back 289 V8 is a piece of art!
I’m 67 just found your music, is so …… I don’t have the words, that’s why your a poet and I’m not - wishing you huge success 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
This was me in my early 20's. I dated a bad boy for 2 years. Even after we split up anytime he texted me and said, "come over" I would immediately leave my house and go over there. I did this so many times and for so many years until I finally sat down and thought to myself what am I doing? I'm only hurting myself and I went cold turkey. Stopped responding to him and I was so much happier after I did that. Now I'm in my early 40's and happily married. This song really resonated with me. It should be #1 on the charts! Her voice is amazing!
This will rise the charts to the #1 top Country song.
So many nights driving home speeding down from North Carolina on the highway with the windows down, music cranked, screaming into the night as a teenager. It’s hard to let go! Love this song. New favorite!
How r u now? Have u found your Special person?
@@thaomeelao2101 Yes :) Being a teenager is hard haha. Don’t miss it one bit!
"Back road therapy" helped me hide and helped me dig out of the isolating hole he had thrown me in. I ran back home to the mountains that watched me grow up.
I bet when you recorded this song you wouldn't imagine this song hitting deep inside recovering abuse victims. We needed this. Thank you. 💕
#7/7/21OurFreedomDay ❤️🩹
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@@jordangann7438much l💜ve
Good for you for getting out of the abusive situation and getting somewhere safe. I know how that can feel when you finally are able to get “free” from the toxic situation. I’ve been in your shoes before except I wasn’t living with him and wasn’t married. I kept breaking up with him and didn’t really know why until I went out of state and was able to think about things.
Agreed 💯
I am currently on the road back to my mountains, away from my abuser, and seeing the community in the comments here is amazing
Anytime I get out I sing this at the top of my lungs. It's been so therapeutic. ❤️ Every day I'm getting stronger and stronger. Thanks for the backroad therapy. 🥰
I love this song so much no boyfriend yet! I play this song all the time.
This is a good song. It reminds all of us that we all need to get off our phones and Detach. It is something that We all need to do. It is the truth. It is something. To Him Be The Glory. "St Ignatius Of Loyala. Thanks, Alexandra Kay.
This song is amazing Alexandra Kay is the best artist I've seen in a long time she's gonna be a huge star
Many many ladies needed this song from AK. SHES TRULY ONE TALENTED YOUNG LADY THATS CERTAIN
HERE I AM 39 YEARS OLD AND LOVING THIS SONG MAKES ME THINK OF A PAST RELATIONSHIP ❤😢
GO GIRLY YOUR ONE OF MY FAV ARTISTS
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This song was my life for 13 years. Except I went to meet him. After 13 years I pushed my foot on the gas pedal. I actually moved states. This song is spot on. Thanks so much for this.
I just discovered you, through TH-cam shorts, and I love this song and best ex ever! Girl you’re amazing! I love your voice and your lyrics. Literally star material!! ❤❤❤
These lyrics have a strong emotional theme and convey a sense of longing and empowerment. The imagery of driving and using music as therapy adds depth to the storytelling. The repetition of certain phrases, like screaming a name at the windshield and unleashing tears on the wheel, creates a powerful and cathartic effect. Overall, the lyrics capture the struggle of trying to move on from a toxic relationship and finding solace in the freedom of the open road.
My friends and I always talked about how therapeutic it was to take a drive on those back roads you know so well screaming heart break songs at the top of your lungs and ugly crying to the steering wheel. I'm almost 40 and still need to sometimes. This song makes my almost 40 year old heart happy and speaks to the fragile 20 something I used to be that was looking for love in all the wrong places.
Hello 👋 Jana. How are you doing? Hope you are fine, I'm Zack Hudson and am from Denver Colorado. Where are you from? You seem like a real country girl
Just discovered her music. I’ve never really listened to country, but this is so good! Such a talented artist! I’m a fan
I SCREAM THIS SONG SINGING🥰
I think it is time for you to be the next Highway Find! Can't wait to hear it on the radio
That would be awesome!
Love, Love, Love this girl...
I knew when I first heard Jolene..
Mrs.Kay is the REAL DEAL!!!!!!!
CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU FOR BEING ON THE GRAND OLE OPRY!!
Alexandra Kay this is my anthem right now and I cant even begin to tell you how badly I needed this! It might actually give me the strength to quit being blind to the truth I know but I was too scared to admit. Thank you.
Got goosebumps during the chorus 😍
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I freaking looovvee her she's beautiful but her voice is beyond this world true meaning of God given gift!!!! I can't get enough of her!!!
I have this on repeat.. I'm a guy and absolutely do not care if anyone judges it (cuz it's happened to me for listening). These words resonate so deeply. A dirt road, the afternoon sun through the trees, me, myself, my feels and memories... It's a perfect snapshot of humanity. It doesn't matter who you are.. backroad therapy is sooooo good to the soul!!
I agree
Love this song Alexandra all us Girls needed this song ! This is my now new favorite song ! We love you sooo much ! Keep that blessing journey going that you have. You’re a super star and just love you ! 💕💕💕💕
Hello 👋 Debbie. How are you doing? Hope you are fine
OH MY GDD AK…
I JUST GOOGLED TOP FEMALE COUNTRY SINGERS 2023….BACKROAD THERAPY IS ON THE LIST!!
YOU DID IT! 👏👏👏👏👏👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👍👍👍🤍🇨🇦
Best female country artist of this generation. I'm 33 and I hold her next to the GOATs like Shania, Faith, Reba, Martina. That old school tone and grit she has... love it and love her :)
This girls voice is a gift straight from God why is she not dominating top country radio she is way better then what’s out now
She hasn’t bowed to the music gods yet…Hopefully she never does and we need to keep sharing her music and making more people aware of her golden voice and story telling…!
@@gunlocker3643came here to say just this!! She makes her own music and sell out stadiums! Stay free of that demon pit!! Vipers would eat her alive!
Because country radio likes female artists about as much as I like liver and beets.
I was in a toxic situation like this for around 6 years, but finally, with God's help and becoming a Christian, I got out! Now it's going on 14 years later! God is good! I truly can empathize with other men and women that find themselves in these toxic situations.
My absolute favorite thing to do....44 yrs old and still do it about everything in life that's rough! ❤️ keep it up lady your nailing it.
We need this on the radio!!!! I love love love it!!! I have been in this space so much and this song fits the feelings perfectly 🥰
I've listened to this song at least 10 times today! Thanks for writing what so many women needed to hear!!
Hello, how are you doing today? Thanks for your love and support❤️
Beautiful song🎼
Beautiful voice🎤
Beautiful Lady 🤩
Beautiful video 🎦
Thanks for sharing ❣️
So happy that I found this woman, I've listened to every song that she's put out and she hasn't made a bad song yet. She has such a beautiful voice.
Yet another platinum song! You are living your best life!!
My 4 year old daughter ,just said she wants to be just like you....thank you so much for what you do. What an inspiration. I hope your carried by angeles from heaven in life..just seeing my little ones jam out to your songs is worth every minute on this earth...thanks "she's only 4 years old ,but when my wife and I play your songs,she's uplifted...thank you.❤🙂
OMG, I love this song and unfortunately, I can so relate to every single word of this song. Thank you for every single song you put out there. I have not heard one that I didn’t just love. Your music is outstanding and I believe everyone can relate in one way or another. I have listened to this song 100+ times today just to remind me to STOP looking in the rear view mirror and I can’t wait to blast it as I am driving down the road!!!
Me too. I can relate to this song. I love this song.
Wow what a whole hearted song towards a hero’s arms :) may thy lord give us guidance and joy as we re marry and carry on
Why is this not on the radio!?! LOVE THIS
She is so beautiful! Lord have mercy🥰
Already got this repeat on Spotify,TH-cam,Facebook,Instagram,Twitter and Tick Tock. Love this song as I do all of ur songs. Can't wait till the video comes out. U've got this Alexandra! Way to go,another hit song but always knew ur career would take off once Tim McGraw took u on his tour(2022) this past summer......
Hello 👋 Kaarina. How are you doing? Hope you are fine, I'm Zack Hudson and am from Denver Colorado. Where are you from? You seem like a real country girl
Alexandra Kay, you have written an instant classic! You have the voice of an angel & I love that name check Jo Dee Messina 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
OK youtube ..... WE NEED THIS ON THE RADIO !!!! Even my boyfriend likes this song !!!!
I'm 35 years old almost 36 and I love this song and when I was working at a mill I would scream this song at work when I'm listening to it and I know how it feels to be in a relationship with someone and especially when they hurt u so many times and promise u that they would come home to u and they don't and I'm still listening to it I have it on my laptop on repeat Alexandra Kay has an amazing voice and when u listen to her u can feel her pain in her lyrics and her songs u helped me out in my complicated relationship AK
❤❤❤ don’t understand how this song ain’t blew up!!! I just left a 7 year relationship!! OMG I love and feel every word of it!!
Hello Tonya 👋 Simple music can make you sing, a simple hug can make you feel better, simple things can make you happy, I hope my simple hello will make you smile.
Alexandra Kay, Kylie Frey, Ella Langley, Presley Tennant, Charly Reynolds, Gabby Barrett, MacKenzie Carpenter, MacKenzie Porter, Carly Pearce, Kelsea Ballerini, Lauren Alaina, Kacey Musgraves, Megan Moroney, Madeline Merlo, Madeline Edwards, Erin Kinsey, Carter Faith, Callista Clark, ... and on and on and ON!! Has there EVER before been a time when there were so many young, TALENTED, drop-dead GORGEOUS female country singers? WOW!!! ❤ 🥰 😍
Add Emily Ann Roberts, Lauren Watkins, Lainey Wilson, Ashley Cooke, Kassi Ashton and the duo Tigerlily Gold to that list
@@stevendudley5687and Shania Twain Faith Hill Martina McBride and Carrie Underwood as well too.😊
Love this song!! I've always found my peace driving the back roads or in the woods with the radio blasting ❤️❤️
Hello 👋 Marie. How are you doing? Hope you are fine, I'm Zack Hudson and am from Denver Colorado. Where are you from? You seem like a real country girl
I need some backroad therapy. Right now!!
LOL......ME TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!....TIMELESS MUSIC......T.W.1758...
WE NEED AN ALBUM!!!! with all these songs on it, pls soon ❤️
oh I miss the golden age of this kind of music about a decade ago, glad to see someone keeping it alive! nothing like a bit of top down dirt road summer sunset country, yes please!
I’ve been screaming this song the past few days ❤️❤️ it’s the perfect song after a nasty breakup
Me too girl screaming and crying at the same time!
Ok so I saw her video giving a sneak peek of the song in the TH-cam shorts so I haven’t seen this yet. I hit the like button before evening watching because those 15-30 secs of the TH-cam shorts was enough this song is Aaammmmmmaaazzzinnnngggg ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Oh yes! Love your talented voice and music 🎵🎼🎶💖
i screamed this song at the top of my lungs at her concert, AFTER i met her. let’s just say my voice was basically gone, my legs were sore, and my heart was filled with amazement and joy.
I can see plenty of people cranking up this song as they take to the open road, Alexandra! Coincidentally, you and Lainey Wilson both incorporated nods to Jo Dee Messina in lyrics I've heard today.
I love this song!
Backroad Therapy/Lyrics
It's 1:08 wide awake when I hear that
Special ring stomach sinks 'cause you know
I'm already pullin' out the drive
I'm up and I'll be there in five
I'm turnin' right at a light when it hits me
You feed me lies to put your hands on my body
I'm helpless in the morning light
Knowin' I fell for it a hundred times
Finally put my foot down on the gas
Speeding past your place on my left
I swear it's like a drug when you're holding me
But I got the remedy
I know exactly what I need
I'm gonna scream your name at the windshield
Tell the rain how stupid I feel
Unleash every tear on the wheel, crank the radio
Every old country song about letting go
Keeping my eyes on the road and off the rearview
My mind between the lines and nowhere near you
'Cause driving this car right back into your arms ain't what's gonna fix me
I just need a little backroad therapy
It's 2:00 on the dot and you text me
"Where you at?" You don't know I'm already
Thirty miles out of town
And I don't think I'm turnin' around
'Cause Jo Dee's singin' "Bye bye, catch ya later"
Keep that lead foot on the accelerator
But I still hear your voice echo in my head
So I turn it up to ten
And drive until I'm over it
I'm gonna scream your name at the windshield
Tell the rain how stupid I feel
Unleash every tear on the wheel, crank the radio
Every old country song about letting go
Keepin' my eyes on the road and off the rearview
My mind between the lines and nowhere near you
'Cause driving this car right back into your arms ain't what's gonna fix me
I just need a little backroad therapy
I'm not changin' my mind or my direction
Let this dashboard hear my confession
I'm gonna scream your name at the windshield
Tell the rain how stupid I feel
Unleash every tear on the wheel, crank the radio
Every old country song about letting you go
Keepin' my eyes on the road and off the rearview
My mind between the lines and nowhere near you
Driving this car right back into your arms ain't what's gonna fix me
I just need a little backroad therapy
(A little backroad, a little backroad)
Need a little backroad therapy, yeah
(A little backroad, a little backroad therapy)
'Cause I need a little backroad therapy
Omgosssh yes❣️
Keep writing and singing. Great talent. 🎉
Can't stop myself from listening, i play it many times in a day, everyday. "fave".
Damn this took me back to one person in particular. So relatable ❤️
Hello, how are you doing today? Thanks for your love and support🤟❤
Love you!
This is amazing. Im sure so many people can relate to it. U have an amazing voice. This song is on repeat ❤❤❤
Excellent, Alexandra Kay.
Girl this is the song I didn't know I needed at the moment, listening on repeat!!! Absolutely amazing girl!
Same here girl.
Alexandra, I'm so very proud and excited to see you shinning as the Star you are and have always been!!! Sing it Girl!!! This song is the anthem to my bad decisions! Can't wait to come see you tour in PA one day!
This is going to be your year! This song and your other songs are fabulous! It’s time for country radio and the charts to show everybody just how fantastic you are! ❤
Love it’s so excellent
This needs to be on the radio! You are absolutely amazing ❤
We woman needed this!!! Open your eyes is being accessible for this below bare minimum is why dating in this generation sucks. These boys will never grow up if we just let them have what they want with nothing in return!! ❤️
Another amazing hit!!!! You’re already becoming a legend girl!!! ❤❤❤
Been there many times. Best way to get over someone. Back roads, music blasting, tears of frustration running down my face, singing at the top of my lungs - best therapy ever
Obsessed with this song!!! It’s been on repeat. This one definitely hits a little different. ❤❤❤❤ thank you for this!
My Lord Girl! Where was this song 20 years ago? But it still tracks. It brings me back to all of those BIG feelings. SO MANY BACKROADS!!!
Alexandra I've been waiting for this ever since you teased the demo. It was definitely worth the wait. I love it. Still can't wait to see you in concert and actually get to meet you. Keep doing what you do. Been here since the Jolene video that went viral on fb. I'll be here supporting you till the end.
I hope thst CMA and the Music industry gives her a Music Award for this beautiful Gem of a Person and the Voice and lyrics
This is REALLY amazing quality! You’re going places ma’am! ❤
Thank you so much!!
@@alexandrakaymusic-This song is Solid Gold! You are Absolutely Amazing! I wish you all the Best!
May God Bless You in all your future endeavors.
Alexandra words could never describe how simply amazing you are. Your songs get me in my feels every time. Love love love you!
Now can Jo Dee sing with this like she did with Cole Swindell?!?!
I hardly ever get chills when listening to a singer or song but, this one really did it for me. Actual goosebumps throughout the entire songs. All of the lyrics hit really hard for me and the voice is beautiful
Coming from a abusive marriage.... I relate to this ..bthen after 4 years my high school sweetheart came back into my life ... Only to play my heart....and on my weakness... To kill time til he found his next victim. Men can be so evil
DANG GIRLLLLL IM IN LOVE WITH THIS SONG 💞💞💞
I heard this song playing a few weeks back when I was out shopping. I was like, "Yeahhh she is making it big time!!" So proud of you!! :)
You are literally my FAVORITE country singer! I have been watching you sing since you were doing old country covers in your yellow kitchen while making iced coffee. I told myself “that girl is going somewhere big” I am obsessed with your music! You are so talented. I love the feel of your songs and how they are the perfect mix of 90’s and new country. Perfectly done!
SHOUT OUT TO THE LEAD FOOT!!!!!!!! MUCH LUV A.K.........TIMELESS MUSIC........CLASSIC...
Girl Back road therapy is the best!! 🙌❤️
Just found out u r playing London in a few weeks.. I can't wait.. U r amazing.
To say my jaw hit the floor would be an understatement. Got me blaring this in my dorm and craving a drive! Way to freaking go!!!
This is the best song I’ve ever heard. My mom and I always listen to it together. I stumbled across this thinking it was gonna be horrible till I heard your voice and had to send this to my mom! I love ittt!
This is a hit Alexandra Kay
Very good song. Love the title. I grew up in a small town. Nothing is more therapeutic than driving on back roads. Nothing.