Man Doesn't Allow His Wife to Go to Work | Social Experiment

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  • @TreeMan
    @TreeMan  4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

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    Every woman should have the right to choose her life.
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  • @et347
    @et347 4 ปีที่แล้ว +981

    I cracked when the old man on 0:45 said to the guy "whay dynasty are you from"😭 idk its just funny for me

  • @azijah3656
    @azijah3656 4 ปีที่แล้ว +521

    I love how one of the old men was basically like, “This perspective is expected from me, but you being younger. You should be more open minded.” (Before y’all come for me, I’m putting what he said in my own words) I think he is extremely self aware, and sees that certain ways are meant to be outgrown. Like women only being housewives now having lives outside of their families (not saying they didn’t before, but how it was only acceptable for woman to just stay home and care for the house/kids, while the husband went to get the bread for the family)

    • @avolovo
      @avolovo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I was going to comment the same thing! It’s wonderful that even older people are willing to change their perspectives.

    • @lczq6737
      @lczq6737 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      However there are cases where it's better for one parent tho stay at home, usually the wife. I could list some possibilities.

    • @rawtbith
      @rawtbith 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lczq6737 so will you or are you just saying you can?

    • @lczq6737
      @lczq6737 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rawtbith I can but it's too trouble some to(just realised my comment is an exaggeration so I fixed it) For example my own aunt decided she would not work to take care of her kids while my uncle works.

    • @lczq6737
      @lczq6737 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rawtbith my comment means no harm but if I offended anyone I'm sorry I didn't mean it. I just wanted to let people know that they should remember about some circumstances.

  • @sammie875
    @sammie875 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    “If he’s willing, he’s gonna give you money. If not, he’s gonna give you attitude”
    I don’t know why nobody is talking about that.

    • @suziebrown5740
      @suziebrown5740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I love that one

    • @Naganove69
      @Naganove69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too...I really love this word..cause it's so truth...I share my friend experience which is she being pursue to stay at home & he promise to give some allowance to his wife...n what the hell he only give RM50/Month to buy all groceries n kids stuff...yes man it's really like this...🤦🤦🤦

  • @seekarnsh
    @seekarnsh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    I'm just a high school student, but I really like their content. make my sense of caring more awakened.

    • @Wlfiecoco
      @Wlfiecoco 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I am still in middle school lmao

    • @rutomashi6427
      @rutomashi6427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      samee

    • @ayanacarson9745
      @ayanacarson9745 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Wlfiecoco same

    • @mxkaiii
      @mxkaiii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Wlfiecoco same XD

  • @sakurachristineito6428
    @sakurachristineito6428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    0:46 "what dynasty are you from?" omg that comment's so hilarious!!!! I laughed

  • @buffdaddddddddy
    @buffdaddddddddy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    loved the discussion between the three ladies on the bench. most ppl simplify such issues by painting it black and white, as if only being a worker or mother is good. but they had nuanced views and different desires but still support every woman's right to work (or not).

  • @spiderpooldevi243
    @spiderpooldevi243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +485

    0:45
    What Dynasty are you from?
    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @BTSARMY-hm7em
    @BTSARMY-hm7em 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    "what dynasty are you from" Wow! I thought older people are gonna support the man.. Tbh, now, Ifeel China has A LOT of kind hearted people

  • @hibranwar
    @hibranwar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    I joined the membership because of this kai xin sticker

  • @岩田唯史
    @岩田唯史 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    男女平等、女性の社会進出はもはや老若男女あたり前、年配の方々の言葉、説得力があってありがたい…

  • @komentatoryoutube1759
    @komentatoryoutube1759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    4:35
    I'm so happy that Grandma in green. She was excited to watch Treeman Channel.

  • @numbersandsports4206
    @numbersandsports4206 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    That last lady just risked her friendship with her colleagues just to give a stranger the right message. You could even see their body language start to move away because they didn't agree, you know they def talked behind her back That's pretty dope.

    • @mellyo9106
      @mellyo9106 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh shit... you right

    • @CptNemo-l3s
      @CptNemo-l3s 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You got it wrong, they simply let her do the teaching - because they were of the same mind. That's what you do, give space to others. At my age, I've seen this happen countless times with older folks. If they have something to add they would join in, but she nailed it just fine. No need to overwhelm the couple.

  • @rk.r2439
    @rk.r2439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    It's nice that you chose the elderly for this!!

  • @TheAngee330
    @TheAngee330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The best advice was "you can't impose your will on her" this right here is what we all should understand. People have autonomy and we need to respect that!

  • @aaronsuparto6062
    @aaronsuparto6062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The Elder: " What Dynasty Are you From"😂😂😂

  • @nikiedmonds6236
    @nikiedmonds6236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The older man who asked "what Dynasty are you from?" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @BM-qi9eq
    @BM-qi9eq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    This is a big problem in Mexican households. The wife is expected to stay home all day for the rest of her life just caring for the kids and cooking , cleaning for the husband. I understand as a man wanting to always being able to provide for our family but if our wife wants to work, she should be able to without being looked down at by others

    • @amal7105
      @amal7105 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      In india too

    • @kilapark9321
      @kilapark9321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same in Kazakhstan :) women often dont work they just sit at home and caring for children

    • @zuhasajid900
      @zuhasajid900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same in Pakistan people's perceptive are changing but it's gonna take a long time to change this expectation factor😐😐

    • @alisalimi3366
      @alisalimi3366 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And children are less than dogs.

    • @lucky_hurricane20
      @lucky_hurricane20 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      In the whole world

  • @ShinDaHana
    @ShinDaHana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is a really good topic and I hope that more people are willing to be open-minded just like the elderly in these videos.

  • @ms.chiefmanaged2858
    @ms.chiefmanaged2858 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The older man and women are so wise ❤️

  • @RoZaSims
    @RoZaSims 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It is equally okay to want to work or be a stay-at-home mum (which is work in its own right, that's for sure). The important thing is that it's the woman's own choice, no one else's. I love the elderly people they spoke to here. They grew up in an era (and even more so, their parents did) where it was common for women to be expected to cook, clean and look after the children, and they truly understand the value of being independent and being allowed to make your own way in life.

  • @Rebecca-lm2xf
    @Rebecca-lm2xf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Omg when that older gentleman asked him what dynasty he was from I laughed so hard. Lol so true though that mind set is for the birds if a lady wants to work let her some people are okay with being a stay at home mom/dad and that’s fine too! It’s all about communication!

  • @Nina-fc8ey
    @Nina-fc8ey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    "What dynasty are you from?" LOL XD

  • @boy-st3uv
    @boy-st3uv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    本当にこのチャンネル素敵。🥺

  • @nzcyclone
    @nzcyclone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Another really lovely video TreeMan and the team :). Was a good subject and I loved how the older generation all supported her in her goal of trying to get a job. These two look so great as husband and wife :) I know they are not just very good and close friends and it shows in how they interact even in this you can see not just the acting but the emotion in what they are saying... Well done to both of you. Look forward to the next wonderful vid. Take care and be safe everyone.

  • @bread4322
    @bread4322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I starting cracking up when the guy was like dynasty are you from

  • @نانانونة-ص3ه
    @نانانونة-ص3ه 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    من الجيد انا تعتمد المرأة على نفسها وتعمل بالخارج افضل من ان تبقى في بوكس المجتمع وتعتمد على الغير .
    الفكرة اكثر من رائعة👏👏👏👏👏👍👍👍👍👌👌👌

  • @yu-712
    @yu-712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    仕掛け人、うちの父と同じ事言ってる。これで両親は口論して母は泣いてた。
    父は子育てや家事は妻の役目だとを丸投げ。同居人の祖母も父の味方だった。幼心に母には働いて欲しいって思ったよ。父より母の方が社交的で学習能力あるし、テキパキしてるし、老若男女関係なく信頼されるし、昇進も早いと思ったんだよなぁ。父は頑固で融通効かないし、内弁慶で過保護育ちだから働くのは難しいって思ったねぇ。それに仕事が多忙すぎて、父は精神異常になって精神科通って会社休んでたからなぁ…まぁ、母が仕事行っても分担せずに母に家事や育児を全てやらせてたかもだけど。父は家事、育児やらせてもてんでダメな人だったから…今でも共働きの話題になると過去の事で激論交わして揉めてる。

  • @sally7600
    @sally7600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    ان يكون لدى المرأه راتب وعمل فضل من ان تكون اعتماديه على أي شخص 🙂
    فكره أكثر من رائع 👏 حقاً

  • @HardikPatel-qy3co
    @HardikPatel-qy3co 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We need more of these awesome videos. Love from India 🙏

    • @lachimolala1332
      @lachimolala1332 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aaarrrrrmmmmmmyyyyyyyy!! 💜💜💜💜🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

    • @HardikPatel-qy3co
      @HardikPatel-qy3co 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lachimolala1332 Yae Sis, it's the Army. Infact we are the Army!😺

    • @lachimolala1332
      @lachimolala1332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@HardikPatel-qy3co where r u from sissy?? 💜💜💜

    • @HardikPatel-qy3co
      @HardikPatel-qy3co 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lachimolala1332 First of all I'm Boy from Kerala 😁. How about you?

    • @lachimolala1332
      @lachimolala1332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@HardikPatel-qy3co I am From AP😊😊

  • @daliaj9163
    @daliaj9163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this channel

  • @mizyas5876
    @mizyas5876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just found your channel randomly.....now I'm so addicted to it....
    I love your content
    "What dynasty are you from"...I really enjoyed that 😂

  • @foodiewoodie5688
    @foodiewoodie5688 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Good mrng TREEMAN's frnds... Love frm INDIA ❤

  • @angelayanguwu1883
    @angelayanguwu1883 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My mother works and she's great! I inspire to be like her!! :)

  • @teohjohnny
    @teohjohnny 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes... nowadays almost all Chinese couple are working. Not only in China, in overseas too.

  • @zenaftrenjun8526
    @zenaftrenjun8526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I from Indonesian 🇮🇩🌼🇮🇩
    excited for the video

  • @hhgwells5298
    @hhgwells5298 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Love from india❤️

  • @kosalalysa8030
    @kosalalysa8030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    我媽媽喜歡看這個視頻剪輯😍😊

    • @TreeMan
      @TreeMan  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      謝謝妳媽媽的喜歡~

    • @kosalalysa8030
      @kosalalysa8030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TreeMan 哦, 是的, 😊

    • @扶风-d1h
      @扶风-d1h 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TreeMan 乍一看以为在说脏话23333

  • @jinmazarro3212
    @jinmazarro3212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love listening to their language.

  • @farbiebs1642
    @farbiebs1642 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "what dynasty are you from" HAHAHAHAHA

  • @mobianavines
    @mobianavines 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just like previous videos this melt my heart ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @virginiaperez8485
    @virginiaperez8485 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love TreeMan and friends your all amazing lovely individuals best of health blessings and wisdom and love to you all❤️🥰🥰🥰

  • @margaretfighter9748
    @margaretfighter9748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I hope have a good time every one.

  • @itsmesamyojana.1176
    @itsmesamyojana.1176 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very good!!!!

  • @j-hope6102
    @j-hope6102 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Love from india..❤️

  • @codyshi4743
    @codyshi4743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    China is sure changing fast.
    I like it.

  • @amandavang148
    @amandavang148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    18 sec team!❤

    • @amandavang148
      @amandavang148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shout me out pls lol 🤗

  • @butterbluejeans9394
    @butterbluejeans9394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yaaaaassss new TreeMan video!!!!!

  • @diyforeveryone3988
    @diyforeveryone3988 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    U guys are the best...

  • @amberxberyl1417
    @amberxberyl1417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    GREAT VIDEO let my mom see this to allow me work when i grow up

  • @georgia30fillo
    @georgia30fillo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    0:46 *respect*🤣😂😂

  • @vickys9512
    @vickys9512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you Kai Xin❤

  • @warrior6673
    @warrior6673 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    (yeah ik its a social experiment )
    we are not living on the 19th century humans . we are living on the 21st century . things changed , our minds changed and society changed.
    (i believe some people will understand me )

  • @sisiliahwang2129
    @sisiliahwang2129 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    my favorite couple in the experiment, in action.❤️

  • @zigeunerweisen5879
    @zigeunerweisen5879 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was a really interesting video. I have met many women who are full-time homemakers, who really regret not working. "A husband will buy or give you money to buy pretty clothes when you're young and pretty.... When they you're old they say you don't need money anymore and won't give you anything." That's just an example, and I've met so many women who wish they were financially independent. So many women trapped in marriages because of kids, or lack of ability to enter the job market at an advanced age bc they were homemakers.

  • @Burguesa.011
    @Burguesa.011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Amo seus vídeos 💜
    Segunda kkkkk eu sei que é chato mas não pude deixar essa passar 😗✌️

  • @Mackenziexx-xu2qw
    @Mackenziexx-xu2qw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    From Philippines ❤️❤️❤️

    • @TreeMan
      @TreeMan  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You first!

  • @meiko_adil
    @meiko_adil 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the woman in the green t-shirt is so cool👍🏽😍😎✌🏽

  • @Divspyl
    @Divspyl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    FROM TURKEYY 🇹🇷

  • @fernandasofiavazquezbe5049
    @fernandasofiavazquezbe5049 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hello tree man I love your videos I hope they are well I send my support I love your videos they are beautiful take care of yourself😀😀😷😷

  • @h.h9487
    @h.h9487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Watching this and I am going work *treeman you make my day *

  • @maí_mich7.2
    @maí_mich7.2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ah meu casal kkk brincadeira. Amo seus vídeos.
    Ps: Kai Xin diva

  • @KingLouie91
    @KingLouie91 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kai Xin 好漂亮😁

  • @yasmineopi6856
    @yasmineopi6856 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My favorit couple🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @traveluniver1
    @traveluniver1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg im the second view can I please get a notice? #Thank you so much for sharing youre time with us

  • @arifajanjua8633
    @arifajanjua8633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love from Pakistan 🙆🙆💗💗

  • @mansabdar8199
    @mansabdar8199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love from Pakistan ♥♥♥

    • @250-s3o
      @250-s3o 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love Pakistan brothers from China

  • @abdelfaissal583
    @abdelfaissal583 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Merci pour la vidéo continuez comme ça 😁

  • @dersimattack
    @dersimattack 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello everybody. I really love this channel and it's in my top 5 👍👍👍👍👍👍 . But I'm going to write my own opinion about this experiment. If the man thinks his wife should take care of their home, there is nothing wrong with it. It's an opinion also. When i see old people with old traditions they seem much happier than today's generation. Change of time doesn't always mean changing name of your society values to other and changing your own cultural values to so called modern times. Personally if my wife wants to work i would support her of course but every move we make we must make sure it's leading our society to somewhere good. Thank you for the videos again

  • @zuhasajid900
    @zuhasajid900 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg I feel bad for the actors for acting it out😂😂

  • @O栄策
    @O栄策 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    皆様温気持御言葉😌謝謝🙇

    • @周馳浩
      @周馳浩 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      君中国语本当上手。XD

    • @O栄策
      @O栄策 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@周馳浩 謝謝

  • @bigbosspower
    @bigbosspower 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Saudações aqui do Brasil, seus vídeos são sempre incríveis e instrutivos. ✌

  • @gfam6267
    @gfam6267 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Heart warming

  • @루루-e1r7s
    @루루-e1r7s 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    연기를 잘하시네요 ^^

  • @osamabeenchilling3125
    @osamabeenchilling3125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kaixin ❤️

  • @Angel-dg6mx
    @Angel-dg6mx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Women should stay home and not work is such a toxic mindset.
    It’s a free world. Only you have a right to decide for yourself, not anyone else.

  • @MrNmm6660
    @MrNmm6660 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    0:50 我愛你❤✨🥺

  • @black_bangtan5001
    @black_bangtan5001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am early ❤️❤️🥰

  • @unhingedd7075
    @unhingedd7075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If I show this to my dad...

  • @globalaquatech513
    @globalaquatech513 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love ur acting ❤️❤️

  • @mikethegamedev
    @mikethegamedev 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow this is amazing!

  • @fozackerman4629
    @fozackerman4629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    عجبني العجوز قال انت رؤيتك قديمه 😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭

  • @ayhieonyabrantes5871
    @ayhieonyabrantes5871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aww ❤

  • @Foodies171
    @Foodies171 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi sis lop u from nepal so amazing realy video

  • @Skshiiiii122
    @Skshiiiii122 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👍👍👍

  • @내꿈은훌륭하다
    @내꿈은훌륭하다 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Arabic guys need to see this video 😁

    • @nawadher8276
      @nawadher8276 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not all Arabic guys are the same tho

  • @christy.p
    @christy.p 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your video treeman

  • @rafanananana7125
    @rafanananana7125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Simplemente majestuoso jajaja saludos

  • @christy.p
    @christy.p 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's mean of him but the people are very kind

  • @inciya3887
    @inciya3887 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please someone make this mindset in india too

  • @JwSilva2046
    @JwSilva2046 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    開心化的面妝太蒼白了和頸的顏色對比很大…

  • @MarcoSimple1Videos
    @MarcoSimple1Videos 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice video

  • @edit_peytin127
    @edit_peytin127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    جميل

  • @arthurpereira8165
    @arthurpereira8165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    From Brazil

  • @امكيان-ص8ب8د
    @امكيان-ص8ب8د 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    اول🌝❤️

    • @LILY-ONTOP
      @LILY-ONTOP 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      متت😂🥢

    • @غلاالمطيري-ذ1ط
      @غلاالمطيري-ذ1ط 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LILY-ONTOP انتي هنا

    • @LILY-ONTOP
      @LILY-ONTOP 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@غلاالمطيري-ذ1ط
      يب 😭😂😂 أنا أحب هاذي القناة مرة 😭😂

    • @غلاالمطيري-ذ1ط
      @غلاالمطيري-ذ1ط 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LILY-ONTOP مثلي حتى مشتركة

    • @LILY-ONTOP
      @LILY-ONTOP 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@غلاالمطيري-ذ1ط
      وربي ميتو مشتركة 😂

  • @nt6398
    @nt6398 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Recently in Delhi a horrible incident happened.Husband killed his wife because she was going to work.He asked her not to go to work and stay at home.But she said she will continue to work .So he killed her in the street where huge number of people roam about . I don't know that guy should have not married if he wants a wife to be his slave. He is arrested. He doesn't deserve to live and he should be punished severely. A man who doesn't respect a life doesn't deserve to live. Only bad wins over good most of the times. Sometimes I feel like does God really exists.Should God take away a life of a person in this horrible manner just bcoz She loved to continue her job and bcoz she loved to earn her own living. Does she even deserve this. Then all these sayings failed " Good wins over bad " . Here I can see "Bad won".

  • @bremCZ
    @bremCZ 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where I come from we force them to go to work 😂

  • @denemehesap1451
    @denemehesap1451 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    04:50 thats got me

  • @dreamy-san637
    @dreamy-san637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    300th Like!

  • @dudueetho4310
    @dudueetho4310 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    قاعدين يمثلون الفكر الذكوري وانه شي الطبيعي حتى لو كانت تجربه اجتماعيه