Supernanny, Parenting & Generational Healing | Jo Frost | The Higher Self #92
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 มิ.ย. 2024
- If you're like me, you either grew up or spent your early adult years watching the hit TV show, Supernanny!
In this week's episode, we're excited to welcome the original Supernanny herself: global parenting expert Jo Frost. She joins the show to discuss the importance of conscious parenting, breaking free from generational trauma, and healing from the issues that have been passed onto us.
This episode goes deep, so be sure to watch until the end and share this episode with someone who needs to listen!
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Jo Frost:
Jo Frost is a Global Parenting Expert and universally recognized household TV personality. She has a legacy of over 30 years of experience in her genre. She is also a New York Times best-selling author, global thought leader in the parenting arena, in-demand speaker, and consultant as well as the go-to expert for media outlets around the world. Jo is a highly experienced executive producer best known for her international award-winning show 'Supernanny'. Her production company 'Nanny Jo Productions' has produced several of her hit TV Shows such as 'Nanny on Tour' & 'Family Matters’. Each show within the Jo Frost stable achieved extremely successful international distribution.
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Thank you so much for this podcast. Jo Frost is a very experienced and empathetic woman whose, insightful teaching and, at times, tough feedback for parents, has changed the lives of millions of families.There has to be a global award, if not a Nobel Prize, for her work. Can we do this viewers?
Nobel prizes go to outstanding research, not TV shows..
@kifi672 Her morally right teaching is definitely outstanding. The most important thing is that if the parents apply her techniques, the kids are not abused and traumatized, and there are a lot of other good things as well. Some of her brilliant techniques are created by herself.
@@ems.master I agree she is doing an amazing job. Yet, her job does not enter the categories Nobel prizes are meant for.
Jo should have a school for nannies to help parents like she does. We need more help.
there is only one supernanny. They tried to do the show in French with a French Nany, she was not half as good as Jo.
Jo Frost is amazing, I remember watching her shows as a teenager, and now as a mom I've rewatched some of her shows on TH-cam!
Me too. Her parenting tips have changed my family & life
Me three!!! Jo Frost has helped me sooo much. I still watch old repeats on YT sometimes more than once!
I love Jo! Watched her religiously 😆 would love a show that’s a follow up with some of those families! 🙏🏻 curious where they are now, and how the kids turned out 😆 love you Jojo xxx
Seriously people - we need a follow up episode please to unpack parenting in all its forms pleaseee!!
Absolutely beautiful. She took some seriously authoritarian parents and showed them alternatives, all the while doing it with empathy & connecting to the families. Was everything always perfect in every episode? No, but I never saw a family that was in a worse spot after she stepped in. Thanks for a lovely interview.
I love her! Can we please have her come back?? Can she speak on coparenting please?❤
The inner children in me are screaming with joy!!!!!
Authoritarian was how I was raised, with a very loving but submissive mother. I'm 30yrs old and I'm trying to rewire things, I've always been the quiet one unless one to one and that's due to walking on eggshells and growing up with an unpredictable dad. I've been with my husband for 11yrs and have 2 beautiful boys but I'm aware enough to know I have unresolved trauma. Which is great okay I'm aware... I'm making sure the generational cycle ends with me but how do I fix me?
Loved this episode so much! I grew up in a household where we all lived in fear of my father including my mom. We never knew when the switch was going to flip and what would set him off and he would hit one of us (usually not me since I was the youngest). I saw the damage it did to both my older sister and brother it broke their soul! It made them feel unlovable and unvalued and for my brother it led him to a life of drugs and hating himself. Your parents are your first example of how you should be treated and if your own parents abuse you you tend to grow up feeling you deserve that. Hurt people end up hurting people and the cycle never ends. It’s heartbreaking to watch and see the damage that is so deep in one’s soul 😢
So well stated, I had that cruel father that just brought chaos and violence into the home - my mother was no match for him, constant battles. SHE did her best under the circumstances❤😊
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My oh my..You just described me! ❤ Ty for showing me I was not the only one who was damaged..broken..Thx to the LORD for never leaving me and protecting me thru all my bad decisions in life 😊 I am now 57 , and STILL HEALING FROM THE TENDER AGE OF TEN YRS OLD. GOD BLESS U AND YOUR WISE WORDS..THX AGAIN !❤😊
@@tinamorey6348 May God keep blessing you with peace and continued healing in your life 🙏those childhood memories and trauma are so ingrained in us and it takes a long time to unravel it all and allow it to surface so we can heal… one layer at a time.
I'll bet A LOT of us had similar experiences - my father was a useless tyrant, he bullied and beat my mom. She had 5 kids (!), and he walked away when 4 were still in school - and never paid 1 cent child support. My mother moved, but she was so paranoid that he would show up and continue the abuse. WOMEN DO NOT TOLERATE PHYSICAL OR VERBAL ABUSE - find a way and LEAVE!!!
I Started Watching her shows at the age of 12 years old but almost 13 years old as a teenager I really like the Supernanny Show I remember when I first started watching her for the First time ever I Started Watching Supernanny in 2018 Jo Frost Is The Best Supernanny in The World 🌎 For All That matter I Hope We all see a Supernanny Season 9 the Brand New Season Upcoming 🔜 Jo's is so good with working with Families Around The World she made this world a better place for children 😀 I am ready for a Season 9 in the future
I have really waited for a parental show. Thank you Danny and Supernanny ❤
Thank you Super Nanny. I'm from Sri Lanka and watch your videos on TH-cam. I'm now a Grandmother & have been able to use your techniques on my grandkids and have experienced a big difference in their behavious.
“The rod is there to guide.” She just opened my spiritual eyes ❤.
The rod is mentioned another time by David: “Thy rod and they staff they comfort me” If God uses his rod as source of comfort then that is what is for. People confuse discipline and punishment for the same definition and that is problem. This can be solved, break the cycle and discipline your children with learning new habits and skills when they misbehave.
I never realised she was so spiritual . That doesn't really come across in the Super Nanny programme.
Jo frost is best❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am 67, and my youngest son and spouse is due with 1st baby! I had a rough time parenting, and still managed to raise 2 amazing, warm, smart sons. I hope to share some of these videos with my kids. I loved seeing Jo sharing her thoughts & beliefs - she has been awesome guiding parents!! Thank you for this😊❤.
Jo is absolutely correct in saying that organs or the body stores stress and negative emotions.. anyone who doubts this or wants to learn more should read the book, The Body Keeps The Score by Dr. Bessel Van Der Kolkata, M.D.. I got a chuckle when Jo used the expression “pull your socks up.” 🤣😂. Such great insight from Jo. She’s a rock star!! I was in a marriage with someone who acted like, once he had me, he didn’t think he had to work at it anymore. I felt like a bowling trophy that he put on the shelf and just took it down to dust it off and admire it periodically 😢
I love this woman,❤️❤️❤️
You are a wonderful woman. God bless you
Hi hi Jo Jo …You are the greatest nanny I ever did see in my whole 57 yrs...❤😊🎉 frfr ! Still one of my favorite human beings ever !❤🎉😊
This Is A Wonderful Show ❤️ Thank you So Much Danny and Jo
Jo, what you said in podcast so far makes sense because my dad does tries to control me, I'm 29 years old
I love jo! I will watch or listen to anything with her in it❤
It’s so crazy this comes up cause a few weeks ago I was talking with my father he was asking me about my interest in psychology and he brought up the fact that some therapists and stuff get really liberal about the topic of hitting children when they misbehave and I haven’t told him yet when I am gonna say that I’m not gonna do that he may have done it to me and my brother and him and my mom may have been spanked and stuff but I’m not gonna do it nor will I allow them to do it I’m not gonna risk hurting my child or risk leaving any negative affect on them ik it has on me though I received less physical punishment than my brother just one time can change everything I love Jo frost she has taught me so much about what kind of parent I want to be in the future
I adore this woman.
LOVE THIS!!! GREAT INTERVIEW!! Thank you(:
I love Jo Frost.
Very intelligent and interesting interview. You both taught me something. And I thought I couldn’t learn anymore from Jo!
And yes to plant medicine! I take lion’s mane everyday(:
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I don’t feel my true self when I am around my family. It started with my father verbal abuse and continues to this day. It was normal not feel normal around him. I am 36 year old I still can’t be normal. Its not just my father. My whole family is broken. I use to be close with some of them, but not anymore. Too much trauma and conflicts it made it impossible to have any kind of affection with them. I moved to another city and I only see them on holidays. It is painful to be with them. Most of the year I am by myself I don’t have friends and the idea of family repulse me.
In that part about Danny confronted his acknowledgement of his faults and his wife did not contribute her own part and faults. Seems like in that situation there may have been some manipulation to say whose fault it was and who wasn’t. Typically it’s always the man’s fault and the woman never plays any part in anything. And that was pretty powerful for Jo to recognize that for him.
I do agree with jo. Honestly I do, however many people don't have the tools to raise a child without being physical. I feel like if parents had more tools in their arsenal or if they were taught how to even deescalate children because let's be honest a two year olds meltdown can bring a parent to their knees in a grocery store. I think there would be a lot more people choosing the path of non violence
That's why those parents should watch some Supernanny episodes to learn new ways to discipline that actually have a success record you can chart with science.
God bless you Jo! With my full consent and knowledge my first husband had an “affair” with my best friend. She and I are still best friends and believe me, there is nothing unhealthy in our friendship. With my current husband I told him over and over again that I could accept an affair so long as he was honest about it. (The nature of his work encouraged intimacy and healing.) When it happened he discovered that I meant what I said. We have been happily married for 25 years and he has been entirely faithful other than that one time. I am not going to say that I did not suffer and also worried that I was “not good enough”, but my willingness to trust in our honest communication and his willingness to communicate took us through and past that experience.
I have been wanting to see Jo interviewed ! ❤️❤️
wondering if a family in need can hire her for a shit load of money. no cameras, just teaching.
I love Jo Frost, she is an amazing woman.. I watched super nanny growing up & I always found truth in her teachings. I would always tell myself I wanted to be like her as a mother. 🥹🙂
surprised she has no children
@@kirstieb8025 I sort of think she had (and has) many children - all the ones she cared for over the years. I couldn't be dealing with all them little (cute) beasts😂
Omg, I remember watching this show!
I thought I heard something about a new follow-up series looking at how families have ended up after she left. Anyone know if happening?
The More Authoritarian conversation stands out to me. A lot of parents are like "because i said so"
Wowwwww, this was by far my favorite podcast 😊thank you to both… soooo much great wisdom discussed and actions steps provided. So raw. So real. The level of honesty exchanged was absolutely priceless ❤
Love this ❤️❤️
❤beautiful podcast
'Frustration is the mother of development'. Like the baby wanting to go places and to get things - and starts the work to stand up and to walk instead of crawling. The saying is "Frustration är utvecklingens moder" in Swedish, the translation is mine and might lack.
Spare the rod and spoil the child is NOT in Scripture. It is from Hudibras, a 17th C satirical poerm about the English civil war. The quote is in reference to "amorous" feelings/behaviour in adults.
She is a psychotherapist in the UK.
Jo's grammar is still London dialect, but pronunciation us a bit posher than it was on
Supernanny programmes.
Blessings on this man. To suggest drugs to Jo is astonishing! I have had the extraordinary healing experience of MDMA and the drug which he first suggested, and I HAVE healed!
I’m from a belt whoppin family and generation , yes I’m scarred, don’t deny it
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Can somebody tell me which episode is that Danny had a chat with his exwife?
What I am writing is a long history. But I believe that it is a story that will eventually grant hope and trust to those who take the time to read it.
I am a bisexual 74 year old American woman who has been happily married to a Swedish man for 25 years.
Both of my parents grew up in horribly dysfunctional families during the 1930’s Great Depression. From behavior and those memories my father shared, I am convinced that he was sexually abused as a child. His mother was alcoholic and supported her addiction in those hard times by “welcoming” strange men into her bed. My father spoke of sleeping in the coat closet “because it was warmer”, but I am convinced that he did this to protect himself. He had two older brothers who were already in prison for theft when he was five years old. His father was a Methodist minister who had immigrated from Kent, England with his family when he was thirteen. At some point he hired a “nurse” to take care of his “ailing” wife, my father’s mother. And then this “man of God” completely abandoned his wife and three sons and moved away with his mistress. My father’s mother died when he was thirteen. At that time his older brothers were in prison. He recalled sitting at the kitchen table after her funeral wondering what next, when this complete stranger suddenly appears and tells him, “I’m your father. The courts tell me that I must take care of you.” Tragically, as in honored step-mother horror stories, his step-mother abused him violently. She threw him down a flight of steps and once broke both of his arms. My father spent a great deal of the rest of his life trying to convince his long dead father that he was worthy of his father’s love and respect. When my sister and I were five and six years old, he would take us out into our garden to listen to the screams and cries of the children across the street being beaten by their father while this man roared out deprecations and threats to his sobbing children. I can’t fathom what my father thought he was teaching us - he never made any comments. My mother’s family was quite simply violent. They were five surviving children and her elder sister would likely be diagnosed with ADHD these days. The good Lord only knows that this behavior was a result of her attempts to protect herself. When my mother was about seven years old, she witnessed her eldest brother and a GANG of his friends raping her older sister. Although my mother didn’t really understand what was happening, she did understand that violence was being committed. She ran back to the school house and begged the teacher for help, which was denied. During my mother’s teen years her sister became enraged about something and began to beat my mother viciously. The men in the family observing, her father and older brothers, stood around laughing and placing bets on who would “win”. The untreated injuries my mother received that day contributed to her death. A nightmare history. I know the history about my mother because in my teens during her most destructive alcoholism, my father required us to sit by her bed while she clutched our hands drunkenly repeating over and over again all of the incidents which had damaged her.
Oh yeah. Also my father sexually abused me from the time I was two until I was five. He spent his life DESPERATELY denying that he was the abuser because he never wanted to be as damaging as his adult “role models” had been. So I became the scapegoat for anything non-functional in my family.
This was the nightmare.
The other side.
When my parents married, they vowed - as many others do - NOT to be like their parents.
In this they were remarkably successful, until my early teens. (I am the eldest of three.)
What I remember from my childhood were car trips (Sigh…in the days when gas was dirt cheep.) out into the countryside around San Diego, California where I grew up. On those trips my parents would teach us silly songs from the 1940’s. But we always began these excursions with a song that goes, “We’re on our way. We’ve packed our grip. We’re gonna take a little trip. (Sung loudly and energetically), We don’t have a dime, but we’re gonna have a happy, happy, happy time!”
And we did.
My mother always packed a loaf of bread, jars of p-nut butter and jelly, fruit and potato chips and we would have spontaneous picnics wherever something caught our attention.
Both of my parents could notice some marvel of nature and stop the car so we could appreciate it. These marvels could be some magnificent stone or some tiny leafy glade. The point was to grant us the time and perspective for acknowledging the “ordinary” wonders surrounding us.
Christmas, Easter, Thanksgiving and birthdays were times of joyful anticipation and delight and included our entire family participating in decorating cookies or decorating the Christmas tree or enjoying my father grandly preparing stuffing for our Thanksgiving turkey.
When a picnic had been planned but it rained horribly, my father would build a fire in our living room fireplace, my mother would set out our picnic blanket in front of the fireplace and we would sit there on the floor thoroughly enjoying and missing nothing.
Despite my father’s fear that I would accuse him, I never once doubted that he loved me. But also, I frequently told people, “My father loves me, but he doesn’t like me very much.”
The most tragic result of my youth was that I vowed that I would never have children until I could trust that I would never abuse them. So I never had children, also due to many other reasons…. But I would have been a terrific parent!
When I was 19 I married a man five years older who was also the eldest of his seven siblings.
It was the first time in my life that I experienced unconditional love.
Not from him, but from his mother.
Everyone who has been blessed to know her, including her seven children, will affirm that she was extraordinary.
Passionate, committed, hilarious, intelligent, spontaneous, fiery and compassionate.
Lord how I loved her!! As she loved me.
Because of her, the entire family remains close.
And even though her eldest son and I divorced, I remain a cherished family member to this day.
Oh, just to make this history more unbelievable:
Days after our divorce became official, my former husband married my best friend since we were eight years old. I was her matron of honor. They were happily married for 35 years until his death.
This past summer, their son and his family took my husband and I on a vacation to Greece.
Of course there are so many significant details I have not written about, but this space is not intended to be a book!
The point of this rambling narrative is that by challenging bitterness, anger and fear and by assuming responsibility, embracing forgiveness, trust within yourself that you are as worthy of love as those you love and essential trust in fellow human beings, you will will grant yourself a magnificent life journey
After you laugh, it’s OK if you cry.
Enough.
To make a VERY long story shorter…
Since my first marriage when I was 19, my life has been blessed with extraordinary amounts of love, bitter learning challenges, sorrow and joy.
Just like any life.
Now, at 74 years old, I am delightfully content and I can only marvel about the adventure my life has been.
Pretty much like “Jumanji”. Ho, Ho!
In Norway its not alowed to spank children ( not alowed to hit anyone) - the childcare with come in your home and look at your parenting - and you woud get jailtime. Thank god for that - and there is a pressure on Norway childcare because other country with more patcriarcy - children are parents possesions
I love Jo but would love to see her on a better podcast. This guys literally just “me me me” the whole time. Shhh we’re trying to listen to Jo, you’re a interviewer.
And he's grifter-adjacent.
I noticed how he asked Jo questions just so he can answer the question himself after. He didn't really listen to what Jo had to say.
When he asked her what lead her to the spiritual path and she answered with such a heartbreaking story, he didn't even aknowledge her feelings! Just started talking about himself right away. I noticed how Jo did aknowledge his pain when he told his story. Smells like a narc to me.
Kinda funny how around 34:00 she complimented him on him admitting he has narcissistic traits. And his smug face during it. I love Jo but she should be interviewed by someone better. I found this creepy
Host is a narc
Thank you, I believe this episode was equally for parents and non parents as well. 🩵🩷🧡💚
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