I am proud of the person reading this right now. Thank you for putting God first. Thank you for seeking God. Thank you for healing and choosing to not abandon yourself. Trust in Gods timing and continue to pour into you and continue to uplift you. God is a miracle worker, just continue to trust and have Faith in Him!!!
Whoo! They hit the nail on the head with this.reminds me of my last marriage😂neither one of us was healed we brought alot of emotional issues and other baggage
I'm not even 5 minutes in!! I was just speaking on this with a girl friend of mine!!! We have to stay in our lanes because God has control of this thing called life, and His will shall be done! Therefore, all you need to focus on is where God is leading you! Stay the course... Don't turn to the right or to left! Get your nose out of these folk business and put it in the Holy Book of The Word!!
I'm proud of anyone who is reading this. Keep your faith and keep shining on and if times are rough right now, just know that you are adored and loved and are not alone !
It’s the pause to take a pic for the gram that jumped out at me. The posing but truly being unhappy and having all the unhealed baggage and trauma. Yet, the pic showed a happy couple. It speaks to me of the admonishment to not compare. All that glitters ain’t gold. I’ll continue healing and wait on the Lord for direction and guidance. Thank you Jesus for bringing me to this point in my heart.
I had what I thought was a great boyfriend. I believed we'd marry & he adored me. He was a lukewarm believer though, with many unhealed wounds & deep trauma. Despite his love..it fell apart. He left. God told me he wasn't willing to consecrate himself and surrender. He was also too proud. I feel I dodged a bullet but it still hurt. Im incredibly glad i didn't get into a sexual relationship with him. I was tempted but I obeyed God.
I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus' name. When it comes to a Godly spouse. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you in that area in the way that HE intends. Oppose to doing it the way the world do it.
1. The lack of peace 2. Blocking or no fruit no growth 3 Through vessels Jeremiah 3:15 4. Close calls (almost moments) 5. Third party observations Proverbs 27:12
Hey, for anyone who came to this therapy Thursday I want yall to know from the bottom of my heart I’m proud of you and God is too keep up the good work. Have a blessed day I’m praying for yall!🤍✝️🙏🏾
We just have to choose to learn to be honest with ourselves and choose to see people and things for what they really are and stop trying to paint a different picture.
Last week I decided to go through with my divorce. At the age of 21 I got married believing the only thing I was missing was a man because I had everything else. The business, the money, the car, the apartment. So much identity in the world that I had no identity in the world. I got married to a man that had bold red flags, believing I could change him. Well I’m now 23….. and I want identity in God. I want God. I’m soul searching for my identity in Christ and I realized I no longer want to stay in this . I want God 🥹 so I’m moving on and I pray for him daily. But I want ME!
The skit HITS & touches on many broken pieces of unhealed individuals/relationships 😨 I’ve been on a healing journey for 3 1/2 years all while sleeping with a serpent - he’s not ready or willing to press towards the mark or for “heart rehab” so therefore I’m ready for the embarrassment
I’m proud of you! Similarly my eyes were recently opened to the truth of buried/hidden hurt of continuous infidelity in my marriage. Although Holy Spirit revealed before, I was too ashamed/weary/embarrassed/fearful to acknowledge and address. Yet, this time I thank God for His proven faithfulness and perfect peace in leading me through my individual journey of healing that’s allowed me to readily forgive/grant grace and mercy to the offenses/offenders and see the brokenness of all involved. By God’s grace and FIRM FAITH I’m believing for RESTORATION, BREAKTHROUGH, AND DELIVERANCE IN JESUS NAME AMEN.
i avoided this video for days knowing i needed to watch it. finally did & whewww the first steps to healing like this is accountability for the positions we place ourselves in when we ignore God for our own desires. so many times i’ve operated from a void that i didnt wait for God to heal & got myself into deeper, traumatizing, & heartbreaking experiences because I moved from a lack of wisdom. THIS WAS GOOD
This skit is convicting me. This skit is on point. God bless all the viewers. Bless there relationships, open there inner ear where they are able to hear the word. In Jesus name Amen
…are you “making the RIGHT DECISIONS, or trying to MAKE your DECISIONS, RIGHT?” 😯 THAT HIT ME HARD❣️. I’m into tarot… astrology, predictions, etc. my family keeps saying the Bible warns us about FORTUNE-telling… and prophets BUT I’m over here responding to my family with “No. I’m NOT using tarot to win the lottery nor do witchcraft. I just like the astrology part… the “loose” guidance as map for your life PART.” I didn’t realize this was me attempting repeatedly to MAKE MY DECISIONS RIGHT (i.e. justify my actions)? YOo 😮… Pastor Flowers just BLEW-UP my … I don’t even know the best way to articulate it. BUT today’s message JUST BLEW that RIGHT UP. How did I arrive here (to this video)? 2 nights ago, I complained to a family member that my day was so busy I didn’t get to enjoy tarot once today. This family member quietly laughed and suggested I look up Isaiah 47 verse 12 thru 13 NLT. I looked it up 😯😟 and was shocked 😧. The next night, I woke up still thinking about this verse. The night after that… still thinking about the suggested verse and now tonight… I’m on TH-cam revisiting Joyce Meyer messages and discovering more profound biblical teachings from pastor flowers (whom this same family member also introduced his biblical teachings to me). This family member may have changed my life by just that one suggested verse. I haven’t been to church in 10 years and now I’m here thinking about repenting. Please pray for me, all… 🙏🏾
I’m Proud of you…it may be a journey by it being such a big part but u got this🙌🏽🙌🏽 I literally just listened to tarot and follow this one lady on TikTok and I try to tell myself well it’s just a general reading for whatever energy and how it’s not directed toward me but when u just said that as a tarot reader yourself now I’m rethinking because tarot, astrology is something we shouldn’t do. I’m a work in progress. And although I may fail on my journey of being a better child of God I won’t give up and neither will you🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️
Tanisha has asked the question that most of us have asked, "where we ridin to and why I got ta die???" And her tone of voice when asking was🤌🏽PERFECTION!!!!
This video needs to be shown to every couple who wants to get married. There were some points it brought me to tears. This is the rawness in marriages that most people don't see. The baggage we all bring into it. Trust me, I know.
Wow! This was tough to watch. My mind went through a million feelings at once with every debate. My God you are truly doing something here Mr. Flowers. Never change. We have enough Versace suit wearing, short suit syrup pouring pastors to last us a lifetime(respectfully). You are one of the few that keep it real without disrespecting God and his Word. Thank you!
I hope that you open your eyes. Every time this man post his Thursday therapy, he takes a “foundation text” and twist it to make it sound like he wants. For example in this one he took Acts 16:6 to make it sounds like it’s talking on marriage. This is called eisegesis where people insert their own idea into the text thus completely misinterpreting the text. He does that most of the time. He uses the Word of God as illustration for his own ideas. This is bad.
It is so important in marriage to verbalize expectations. When we never tell our spouse what we really want it leads to infidelity. A clear line of communication is truly how we be naked . This is how we show up with God and be healed . Awesome I thank God for you being obedient to the will of God on your life .
Brother, the work that you guys are doing for God is priceless. Thank you all for allowing God to use you guys to change hearts and minds all around the world for the greater good. Much love and respect 🙏 Thank you guys, you all are appreciated 🙏
Mrs Flowers: Where are we riding to? 😂😂 and why do I have to die???😂😂 #rydordie. This message spoke volumes. Thank you so much for creating and sharing this PJ. The whole time... God loved us❤ and loves us still.
Thank you Mr. And Mrs. Flowers for doing this video so it can open my eyes and the eyes of many of what God doesn’t want us to be in a marriage. I’m proud of all of us who are working on getting our hearts rehab first, to break generational curses!
Oh my when she said control and I DONT WANNA HE ALONE I feel that so deep I almost threw my phone !!!!! I needed this this is my sign to go back to therapy
This ministry is my absolute favorite!! I'm so glad I found it last year while healing from a breakup. I've been so blessed by Pastor Jerry's teachings.
I’m PROUD OF ANYONE READING THIS!! You did it! You chose to heal, you chose God. Go you 💪🏾 That skit was on my toes, my neck and my forehead!! 😅 I told my boyfriend I think we need a break, but I believe I am self-sabotaging, again! I believe our relationship is God ordained, so many GREEN Flags, but certain things concern me and after seeing this I’m concerned I’m projecting past let downs into this relationship. Thank you Pastor & First Lady
This makes me cry this is exactly the cycle I keep getting stuck in 😢😢😢 ugh lord deliver me from this dysfunctional cycle with co-dependency and numerous child hood negative traits
Heart Therapy is the reason I follow The Flowers’s Ministry! Thank you for this reminder . This skit literally got me back walking with God. I resonated with Mrs. Flowers down to the last word . Thank you guys again. & thank you for reminding me why I need Jesus 😊‼️
Best marriage vows, this is how conversations should start up front. Usually we avoid to share our triggers, but the truth sets us free. Well done! This marriage video should be shared for pre marital counseling. Hopefully couples will see each other through eyes of grace with forgiveness and compassion.
Paster and first Lady this was so Amazing and forward thinking to demonstrate how our brokenness causes us to attract someone with the same broken issues or worse and expect to have a successful marriage in holy matrimony. This is painfully true and so necessary. God Bless you both for this 🙏🏼
As I type this I am in tears I’m 34 minutes in and this has hit me so very hard because I can identify with being this woman and having this man in my life twice now and I don’t know what to do….I feel like I am healing but in so much pain because this skit is making me breakdown these walls I’ve put up and I’m letting this little girl feel. I realize my people pleasing, identity issues, sadness, anger, and so much more needs to be cleaned up! So much was revealed to me about me in this how much work needs to be done inside of this soul of mine but thank you Pastor and First Lady Flowers for this wonderful amazing encouragement and This ok to look deep inside and release…I have so much more to say but the words aren’t here💖🙏🏾😢😔😊
Wow this wildly accurate. Are you able to deal with the shame of it not working out?? Are you able to deal with being left with kids . Are you able to deal with starting over with numerous children?? So many people deal with this type of situation. This was awesome 🎉
That skit was sooooo accurate👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. I used to ignore the red flags because I hated being alone but now I’ve learned to be alone and doesn’t give any and everybody access to me anymore and i refuse to be with a man who isn’t willing to stop the generational cycles and doesn’t care enough to heal so generational trauma wouldn’t be pass down to our kids. I turned 20 last month but regardless of my age ik God has someone out there for me I just continue to seek him everyday and heal till he sends him and don’t entertain counterfeits
The skit had me in TEARS hearing the same words, phrases and themes that have been in my relationship the whole time with my husband from the start to now. Knowing I white knuckles through the red flags. Prayed a prayer and then stuck my fingers in my ears because I didn’t really want the answer. We have a daughter now, and more than ever God I am listening. God heal the relationship or deliver us from it. I am not perfect, but I want your will.
This was GOOD! LIKE REALLY REALLY GOOD! I thank God for you and you wife and may he continue to bless you and your ministry. Whew Lord I needed this!!!
wow this is just what i needed to make peace with my breakup. He is a good man but as you’ve said, i haven’t been making the right decisions but I’ve been trying to make my decisions right. God will provide a man who will be equally yoked with me at His right time. i’m grateful for you pastor Jerry! 🩷
❤❤ This has blessed me! I’m proud 🥹 of anybody reading this because that means that you are in the same journey as me and looking for change! May the Peace of God be with 🙏🏽🙏🏽‼️‼️
So I started watching and was like okay, timely and relevant. Then.... the skit 😅. I see myself in her as a black woman so clearly and completely struggling with her self love, self acceptance, self worth and self esteem caused by familial and societal wounds, and my ex partners were black men raised in broken homes and guided by modelling of toxic masculinity. Thank you ❤. Thank you ❤. Thank you ❤.
I experience alot of childhood abuse from parents and later with partners. I'm Indian but does it matter my race? Anyway it was the Lord who taught me self love. He demonstrated over & overt that I was his beautiful daughter.
@@danilaroche1156 🫂. I see you, I hear you and acknowledge your experience. No race doesn't matter. Culture & socioeconomic factors unfortunately do. For some of us we were responsible far too early for ourselves and for others. We then repeat that cycle in adulthood. We repeat what we haven't repaired. We repeat circumstances (of the original wound) hoping for a different outcome (resolution of the original wound), only to sustain even more damage. I heard this saying recently regarding forgiveness, "I refuse to allow you to hide your pain in my body." You were worthy of more than what you unfortunately experienced. Stay blessed 🫶🏽
I’m proud of you for knowing where you are and acknowledging who you don’t want to be. I understand and had this same realization. We cannot love another to wholeness without breaking our own.
This is my second time watching this, because it is so good, and I never want to make it to the altar knowing that this person has these issues the amount of compassion in her voice speaks volumes. This speaks volumes, fatherless Holmes. I never want my son to be like this, because he only sees me. I’m going to teach him how to cook I’m going to teach him how to clean and remain abstinent until you are married. This was a good video more people did this before they reached the altar it wouldn’t be a lot of marriages and so much dysfunction in the world, people need to be open and honest about themselves from the beginning so people can make a clear judgment of what they’re getting themselves into.
Mmmmmmmaaaaaaaannnnnnn this message and that skit tho! Yow it resonated with my soul Pastor Jerry. Thank you for the Therapy Thursday Series. You are out here doing God's work. You and your team are out here putting words anf counsel to things and feelings no one has the courage to talk about. God bless you, your family, and your beautiful ministry! 🎉🎉🎉😊
😭😭 This was me for sure years ago, and I was talking about this same thing when I was asked how you are always so humble. That close call made me very humble up to this day!
I’m proud of everyone who’s here I love yall! You could’ve been anywhere else but you’re here in your healing bag and I’m here for it all!
Soo proud of you as well love!! We're in here getting healed!!
I am proud of you ❤❤
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Let’s do it ❤️
Good ppl do still exist! Thanks for the encouragement and sending well wishes to you all ❤️❤️❤️❤️
HOW WE KNOW IT'S NOT GOD'S WILL:
1. Uneasiness or lack of peace;
2. Blocking (no fruit);
3. Vessels;
4. Close calls;
5. Third-party observations;
I am Proud of you!!🎉
I am proud of the person reading this right now. Thank you for putting God first. Thank you for seeking God. Thank you for healing and choosing to not abandon yourself. Trust in Gods timing and continue to pour into you and continue to uplift you. God is a miracle worker, just continue to trust and have Faith in Him!!!
This is very well done! Turn this into a movie. This is what people need rather than 'Why Did I Get Married?"
The skit hits hard. These conversations need to be had before we say I Do
Whoo! They hit the nail on the head with this.reminds me of my last marriage😂neither one of us was healed we brought alot of emotional issues and other baggage
I'm proud of you!!
@dpharrison7 I'm proud of you and you are loved by the most amazing God
This skit DID hit hard….😥whewwwww!
I'm not even 5 minutes in!! I was just speaking on this with a girl friend of mine!!! We have to stay in our lanes because God has control of this thing called life, and His will shall be done! Therefore, all you need to focus on is where God is leading you! Stay the course... Don't turn to the right or to left! Get your nose out of these folk business and put it in the Holy Book of The Word!!
Sometimes were stressed out because we are out of the will of God.
I am proud of you!
@@gabykylee9993 I’m proud of you too.❤️
I am so proud of you! Stay blessed ❤
@@MariaCM2024Thank you.❤
i am proud of you ❤
I'm proud of anyone who is reading this. Keep your faith and keep shining on and if times are rough right now, just know that you are adored and loved and are not alone !
Proud of you too🎉
Thank you & im proud of you too ❤
I’m proud of you too ❤
Amen I’m proud of you!🙏🏾💙
It’s the pause to take a pic for the gram that jumped out at me. The posing but truly being unhappy and having all the unhealed baggage and trauma. Yet, the pic showed a happy couple. It speaks to me of the admonishment to not compare. All that glitters ain’t gold. I’ll continue healing and wait on the Lord for direction and guidance. Thank you Jesus for bringing me to this point in my heart.
Amen❤
I'm proud of you for being here
Yes, the potingues of the pucture spoke volumes to me. I see it I understand the value of healing and waiting on God's perfect plan.
I'm proud of you!
I am proud of you
I had what I thought was a great boyfriend. I believed we'd marry & he adored me. He was a lukewarm believer though, with many unhealed wounds & deep trauma. Despite his love..it fell apart. He left. God told me he wasn't willing to consecrate himself and surrender. He was also too proud. I feel I dodged a bullet but it still hurt. Im incredibly glad i didn't get into a sexual relationship with him. I was tempted but I obeyed God.
I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus' name. When it comes to a Godly spouse. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you in that area in the way that HE intends. Oppose to doing it the way the world do it.
Giiiiirl I am so proud of you and more so is the Father ❤
I'm proud of you. Stay strong God is not through with you.
That’s amazing! I didn’t obey and it’s the worst! Be glad you didn’t learn the hard way! I’m broken but God!
You’re not alone, I’m in the exact same position with the exact same story. We will make it to the other side❤
1. The lack of peace
2. Blocking or no fruit no growth
3 Through vessels Jeremiah 3:15
4. Close calls (almost moments)
5. Third party observations Proverbs 27:12
I’m proud of anybody intentionally seeking the Lord’s face! May you receive favor, peace, and healing. God bless you! I love you!
I’m proud of you 👏🏽
I'm proud of you!
I’m proud of you!!
Amen im proud of u
I'm proud of you!!!
Hey, for anyone who came to this therapy Thursday I want yall to know from the bottom of my heart I’m proud of you and God is too keep up the good work. Have a blessed day I’m praying for yall!🤍✝️🙏🏾
I'm proud of you! ❤
Thank you I am proud of you too
Whoever is reading this , Im proud of you. God got you forever and always. 💕
I'm proud of u
And he Got you too!
Man, when first Lady said,
"I just wanna be loved!"
Man, I felt that in my soul!!!!!
That part!
I’m proud of you
Yes! I know that same tiredness!! Wow
I'm proud of you!!
Why?
I WISH PEOPLE WERE THIS HONEST
im proud of you
We just have to choose to learn to be honest with ourselves and choose to see people and things for what they really are and stop trying to paint a different picture.
I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus' name. THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN.
I’m proud of you
Last week I decided to go through with my divorce. At the age of 21 I got married believing the only thing I was missing was a man because I had everything else. The business, the money, the car, the apartment. So much identity in the world that I had no identity in the world. I got married to a man that had bold red flags, believing I could change him. Well I’m now 23….. and I want identity in God. I want God. I’m soul searching for my identity in Christ and I realized I no longer want to stay in this . I want God 🥹 so I’m moving on and I pray for him daily. But I want ME!
*identity in the word
I’m proud of you🤗
The skit HITS & touches on many broken pieces of unhealed individuals/relationships 😨 I’ve been on a healing journey for 3 1/2 years all while sleeping with a serpent - he’s not ready or willing to press towards the mark or for “heart rehab” so therefore I’m ready for the embarrassment
I am so proud of you I love you my God keep healing you
I’m proud of you! Similarly my eyes were recently opened to the truth of buried/hidden hurt of continuous infidelity in my marriage. Although Holy Spirit revealed before, I was too ashamed/weary/embarrassed/fearful to acknowledge and address. Yet, this time I thank God for His proven faithfulness and perfect peace in leading me through my individual journey of healing that’s allowed me to readily forgive/grant grace and mercy to the offenses/offenders and see the brokenness of all involved. By God’s grace and FIRM FAITH I’m believing for RESTORATION, BREAKTHROUGH, AND DELIVERANCE IN JESUS NAME AMEN.
God is worth our embarrassment! THERE WILL BE GLORY IN AND AFTER THIS 🙌🏾🌧️💃🏾
Good job Sis! I’m proud of you for choosing yourself 🙌🏽
i avoided this video for days knowing i needed to watch it. finally did & whewww the first steps to healing like this is accountability for the positions we place ourselves in when we ignore God for our own desires. so many times i’ve operated from a void that i didnt wait for God to heal & got myself into deeper, traumatizing, & heartbreaking experiences because I moved from a lack of wisdom. THIS WAS GOOD
This skit is convicting me. This skit is on point. God bless all the viewers. Bless there relationships, open there inner ear where they are able to hear the word. In Jesus name Amen
…are you “making the RIGHT DECISIONS, or trying to MAKE your DECISIONS, RIGHT?” 😯 THAT HIT ME HARD❣️. I’m into tarot… astrology, predictions, etc. my family keeps saying the Bible warns us about FORTUNE-telling… and prophets BUT I’m over here responding to my family with “No. I’m NOT using tarot to win the lottery nor do witchcraft. I just like the astrology part… the “loose” guidance as map for your life PART.” I didn’t realize this was me attempting repeatedly to MAKE MY DECISIONS RIGHT (i.e. justify my actions)? YOo 😮… Pastor Flowers just BLEW-UP my … I don’t even know the best way to articulate it. BUT today’s message JUST BLEW that RIGHT UP.
How did I arrive here (to this video)? 2 nights ago, I complained to a family member that my day was so busy I didn’t get to enjoy tarot once today. This family member quietly laughed and suggested I look up Isaiah 47 verse 12 thru 13 NLT. I looked it up 😯😟 and was shocked 😧.
The next night, I woke up still thinking about this verse. The night after that… still thinking about the suggested verse and now tonight… I’m on TH-cam revisiting Joyce Meyer messages and discovering more profound biblical teachings from pastor flowers (whom this same family member also introduced his biblical teachings to me). This family member may have changed my life by just that one suggested verse.
I haven’t been to church in 10 years and now I’m here thinking about repenting.
Please pray for me, all… 🙏🏾
Girrrl you better drop that tarot/astrology its all softcore satanism. Please just throw it out.shiTs just turned my WHOLE LIFE upside down
I'm proud of you!!
I’m Proud of you…it may be a journey by it being such a big part but u got this🙌🏽🙌🏽 I literally just listened to tarot and follow this one lady on TikTok and I try to tell myself well it’s just a general reading for whatever energy and how it’s not directed toward me but when u just said that as a tarot reader yourself now I’m rethinking because tarot, astrology is something we shouldn’t do. I’m a work in progress. And although I may fail on my journey of being a better child of God I won’t give up and neither will you🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️
God always waits for us to return to Him and his path.
💜Amen🙏🏾
This is amazing ...I BET so many people cannot handle this video because it hits SO CLOSE TO HOME.
I am proud of you
Tanisha has asked the question that most of us have asked, "where we ridin to and why I got ta die???" And her tone of voice when asking was🤌🏽PERFECTION!!!!
I’m proud of u
im so proud of you! keep going for the Lord!!!!!!!
This therapy Thursday is breaking me into being healed!
❤Im proud of you for showing up👍😊🎉🎊🙌🙌🙌🙌
I am proud of you!!!
@@scheherazadewherry1410 thank you for supporting me through this
@@nazrielthomas4428 thank you for the encouragement 🙏🏾
I'm proud of you!!
This video needs to be shown to every couple who wants to get married. There were some points it brought me to tears. This is the rawness in marriages that most people don't see. The baggage we all bring into it. Trust me, I know.
Whhhheeeeewwwwwww!!!!! This is loaded!!!!!! So many are living this same nightmare!
Praise God for healing and deliverance!!!
I'm proud of you
@@frederickbrisco1135I’m proud of you 🎉❤
The reality in that skit 😢. Great eye opener. We all need to deal with our traumas and heal before we enter marriage or any relationship.
Wow! This was tough to watch. My mind went through a million feelings at once with every debate. My God you are truly doing something here Mr. Flowers. Never change. We have enough Versace suit wearing, short suit syrup pouring pastors to last us a lifetime(respectfully). You are one of the few that keep it real without disrespecting God and his Word. Thank you!
I am proud of you ❤❤
I'm proud of you!!
Him and Philip Mitchell of 2819 Church are people I really love listening too. Dr. Dharius Daniels as well.
I'm proud of everyone that's reading this right now.
This skit is straight up real, no drama at all. Many of us can't deal with this.
I'm proud of you!!
True
WHEN GOD SHOWS RED FLAGS. Thank you for this 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I'm proud of you!!
I'm proud of you
I'm proud of you!!!
Y’all done turned therapy Thursday up a notch with this one lol 🫡
I hope that you open your eyes. Every time this man post his Thursday therapy, he takes a “foundation text” and twist it to make it sound like he wants. For example in this one he took Acts 16:6 to make it sounds like it’s talking on marriage. This is called eisegesis where people insert their own idea into the text thus completely misinterpreting the text. He does that most of the time. He uses the Word of God as illustration for his own ideas. This is bad.
Y’all should win a Oscar with the wedding part of this video. This is real.
yessss
I'm proud of you!!
You know how you ask God to show you and then He does and it’s not the answer you want to hear you’re like whhhyyyy?! Yall pray for me.🙏🏾😁
It is so important in marriage to verbalize expectations. When we never tell our spouse what we really want it leads to infidelity. A clear line of communication is truly how we be naked . This is how we show up with God and be healed . Awesome I thank God for you being obedient to the will of God on your life .
I love this skit 😂 It touched so many things. I’ve seen so many arguments just like this, arguing in circles.
Wow!! Wish I had this before I married. Super powerful. This sermon should be a life requirement.
Brother, the work that you guys are doing for God is priceless. Thank you all for allowing God to use you guys to change hearts and minds all around the world for the greater good. Much love and respect 🙏 Thank you guys, you all are appreciated 🙏
I'm proud of you!!
I love you all and I’m proud of US for being intentional and faithful in our healing journeys. Please never give up! ❤
I am proud of you
I love this, I see myself and my husband in this skit after 9 years of marriage. This is ministering to me.
This skit is really good. I can identify with many of the insecurities and character traits 🤯🙏🏾
Mrs Flowers: Where are we riding to? 😂😂 and why do I have to die???😂😂 #rydordie. This message spoke volumes. Thank you so much for creating and sharing this PJ. The whole time... God loved us❤ and loves us still.
Thank you Mr. And Mrs. Flowers for doing this video so it can open my eyes and the eyes of many of what God doesn’t want us to be in a marriage.
I’m proud of all of us who are working on getting our hearts rehab first, to break generational curses!
Oh my when she said control and I DONT WANNA HE ALONE I feel that so deep I almost threw my phone !!!!! I needed this this is my sign to go back to therapy
The wedding skit was intense because this is a full length mirror of me. This is a lot to take in but so helpful
I'm proud of the person who's reading this. God bless you. 🙏🏾
“red flags are invitations not warnings “I had to rewind to hear what was said❤❤love your teachings
I’m proud of all of you and to be able to share this special moment watching this blessing 🙌🏾🙌🏾
We don’t hope for fruit, we see fruit
I'm proud of you!!
God’s grace is not a permission slip to get by.
I am proud of you ✨God is with you 🫶🏼
@@Vaeh-by8roI need The Most High more than ever. Amen.
This ministry is my absolute favorite!! I'm so glad I found it last year while healing from a breakup. I've been so blessed by Pastor Jerry's teachings.
“I’m not enough” got me in tears 😭 that’s how I feel because of trauma in my last relationship. But my lord is healing ❤️🩹
And He is!
Amen
We be ignoring that unease feeling in our souls because we want it then end up in situations we could’ve avoided if we didn’t ignore the feeling
I'm proud of whomever is reading this. Be blessed.
I’m PROUD OF ANYONE READING THIS!! You did it! You chose to heal, you chose God. Go you 💪🏾
That skit was on my toes, my neck and my forehead!! 😅 I told my boyfriend I think we need a break, but I believe I am self-sabotaging, again! I believe our relationship is God ordained, so many GREEN Flags, but certain things concern me and after seeing this I’m concerned I’m projecting past let downs into this relationship. Thank you Pastor & First Lady
I'm proud of you Pastor Jerry .. you the Truth 🙏
This makes me cry this is exactly the cycle I keep getting stuck in 😢😢😢 ugh lord deliver me from this dysfunctional cycle with co-dependency and numerous child hood negative traits
Heart Therapy is the reason I follow The Flowers’s Ministry! Thank you for this reminder . This skit literally got me back walking with God. I resonated with Mrs. Flowers down to the last word . Thank you guys again. & thank you for reminding me why I need Jesus 😊‼️
Im Proud of you yes🫵🏾 keep going. You got this💪🏾
Wow… this skit sounds too familiar to my last marriage. That was definitely me and that was definitely him… Thanks for the transparency 👏👏👏💯💯👊🫶🙌
Best marriage vows, this is how conversations should start up front. Usually we avoid to share our triggers, but the truth sets us free. Well done! This marriage video should be shared for pre marital counseling. Hopefully couples will see each other through eyes of grace with forgiveness and compassion.
Thank you for being the hands and feet of our mighty Lord.. please help me to follow through in what the Lord is laying on my heart to do.
Paster and first Lady this was so Amazing and forward thinking to demonstrate how our brokenness causes us to attract someone with the same broken issues or worse and expect to have a successful marriage in holy matrimony. This is painfully true and so necessary. God Bless you both for this 🙏🏼
As I type this I am in tears I’m 34 minutes in and this has hit me so very hard because I can identify with being this woman and having this man in my life twice now and I don’t know what to do….I feel like I am healing but in so much pain because this skit is making me breakdown these walls I’ve put up and I’m letting this little girl feel. I realize my people pleasing, identity issues, sadness, anger, and so much more needs to be cleaned up! So much was revealed to me about me in this how much work needs to be done inside of this soul of mine but thank you Pastor and First Lady Flowers for this wonderful amazing encouragement and
This ok to look deep inside and release…I have so much more to say but the words aren’t here💖🙏🏾😢😔😊
I'm proud of you!❤
This skit was 😮😮😮😮 So on point!!!!!! This Therapy Thursday was 🔥🔥 So good Pastor and wife!
Wow this wildly accurate. Are you able to deal with the shame of it not working out?? Are you able to deal with being left with kids . Are you able to deal with starting over with numerous children?? So many people deal with this type of situation. This was awesome 🎉
Good evening 🙏 everyone if no one has told u I love u all my brother's and sister's in christ ❤️ 💖
Praise God I am so proud to be here and for all who are strong or vulnerable enough to be here 😊 praise God
This is so Real and I love it! You see, I can deal with facts, then you know your starting point and are able to make Real Choices to move forward.
I'm her, she is me. God heal us. I can see God is healing me from all this ❤. I surrender to the process of God's healing ❤️🙏
That skit was sooooo accurate👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. I used to ignore the red flags because I hated being alone but now I’ve learned to be alone and doesn’t give any and everybody access to me anymore and i refuse to be with a man who isn’t willing to stop the generational cycles and doesn’t care enough to heal so generational trauma wouldn’t be pass down to our kids. I turned 20 last month but regardless of my age ik God has someone out there for me I just continue to seek him everyday and heal till he sends him and don’t entertain counterfeits
It’s the skit for me 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Thank You God 🙏🏽🙏🏽
The skit had me in TEARS hearing the same words, phrases and themes that have been in my relationship the whole time with my husband from the start to now. Knowing I white knuckles through the red flags. Prayed a prayer and then stuck my fingers in my ears because I didn’t really want the answer. We have a daughter now, and more than ever God I am listening. God heal the relationship or deliver us from it. I am not perfect, but I want your will.
just started watching and been being filled with a lot of wisdom. All glory to Jesus.
@abriahserenity I’m proud of you.
God is so GOOOODDD. The conviction I feel watching it.
Hey family!! SOO glad y'all here with me getting healed and delivered!
I’m proud of you.❤
Im proud of everyone in the comments, that’s going through something in this life but still trying to better themselves
This was GOOD! LIKE REALLY REALLY GOOD! I thank God for you and you wife and may he continue to bless you and your ministry. Whew Lord I needed this!!!
wow this is just what i needed to make peace with my breakup. He is a good man but as you’ve said, i haven’t been making the right decisions but I’ve been trying to make my decisions right. God will provide a man who will be equally yoked with me at His right time. i’m grateful for you pastor Jerry! 🩷
Sometimes I block myself from something God has willed for me, so I see that God used that block to expose my distrust in Him in that particular area.
I am watching this on 9/16/24, and I wanted you to know that you are AWESOME! God bless you today, tomorrow, and forever more ❤
God knows I needed this message on today. I don’t always understand His plan, but I trust that His plans are greater than mine
Man this is some peoples lives 😭😂 they did a good job with the acting, what a good message
❤❤ This has blessed me! I’m proud 🥹 of anybody reading this because that means that you are in the same journey as me and looking for change! May the Peace of God be with 🙏🏽🙏🏽‼️‼️
So I started watching and was like okay, timely and relevant. Then.... the skit 😅. I see myself in her as a black woman so clearly and completely struggling with her self love, self acceptance, self worth and self esteem caused by familial and societal wounds, and my ex partners were black men raised in broken homes and guided by modelling of toxic masculinity. Thank you ❤. Thank you ❤. Thank you ❤.
Perfectly said… I feel you Sis… same here 🙂👊
I experience alot of childhood abuse from parents and later with partners. I'm Indian but does it matter my race? Anyway it was the Lord who taught me self love. He demonstrated over & overt that I was his beautiful daughter.
@@danilaroche1156 🫂. I see you, I hear you and acknowledge your experience.
No race doesn't matter. Culture & socioeconomic factors unfortunately do. For some of us we were responsible far too early for ourselves and for others. We then repeat that cycle in adulthood. We repeat what we haven't repaired. We repeat circumstances (of the original wound) hoping for a different outcome (resolution of the original wound), only to sustain even more damage.
I heard this saying recently regarding forgiveness, "I refuse to allow you to hide your pain in my body."
You were worthy of more than what you unfortunately experienced.
Stay blessed 🫶🏽
@@danilaroche1156 🫂 🫶🏾
I married the red flag and I’m paying for it and learning who I never want to be.. heart issues and I thought I could change him if I was good.
I’m proud of you for knowing where you are and acknowledging who you don’t want to be. I understand and had this same realization. We cannot love another to wholeness without breaking our own.
This is so real life! Thank you both for being so authentic and transparent with us, all while showing us God's way❤
if you’re reading this I’m proud of you ❤️❤️ keep going
Im proud of you for being intentional with your healing.
This is my second time watching this, because it is so good, and I never want to make it to the altar knowing that this person has these issues the amount of compassion in her voice speaks volumes. This speaks volumes, fatherless Holmes. I never want my son to be like this, because he only sees me. I’m going to teach him how to cook I’m going to teach him how to clean and remain abstinent until you are married. This was a good video more people did this before they reached the altar it wouldn’t be a lot of marriages and so much dysfunction in the world, people need to be open and honest about themselves from the beginning so people can make a clear judgment of what they’re getting themselves into.
Mmmmmmmaaaaaaaannnnnnn this message and that skit tho! Yow it resonated with my soul Pastor Jerry. Thank you for the Therapy Thursday Series. You are out here doing God's work. You and your team are out here putting words anf counsel to things and feelings no one has the courage to talk about. God bless you, your family, and your beautiful ministry! 🎉🎉🎉😊
😭😭 This was me for sure years ago, and I was talking about this same thing when I was asked how you are always so humble. That close call made me very humble up to this day!
Hey everyone! I’m super proud of everyone who is working towards healing and loving yourself 💙💙
I am proud of you
I’m proud of everyone . First time here joining.
THE HOLY SPIRIT BLOCKED THAT PATH!!!
This is my first time here. I am so glad I found this channel. Thank you for this incredible message. I needed it so much.
I’m proud of you!!
I’m proud of everyone here! This walk is not easy! Let’s keep praying for one another.🙏🏾☺️
I’m proud of you 👏🏽
I'm proud of everyone who is seeking God and healing ❤❤!
Straight up, y'all just acted out the past 10years of my marriage... my God!
When i te you this was my life years ago geesh deliverance ❤
@@workoutstonya4414 Facts!!!!!🙌🏼🙌🏼