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  • @maryxm912
    @maryxm912 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +192

    Omar seems so grounded. Allahumma barek. There’s a good balance between your personalities. I like that he doesn’t shy away from his opinions/principles even when they may be controversial/different especially with living in the West lol it’s like there’s a pressure to be a “Yes-Man” and anything else gets you labeled especially as muslim men, and he definitely isn’t falling for that. May Allah protect and bless your marriage.

  • @hiba7170
    @hiba7170 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    I think of the James Baldwin quote about core values "We can disagree and still love each other unless your disagreement is rooted in my oppression and denial of my humanity and right to exist."

    • @MC-vd5kp
      @MC-vd5kp 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Both sides of the conflict believe this.

  • @amandadavispomeroy
    @amandadavispomeroy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    So glad you got a nanny! Having that dedicated support person is a game changer for a lot of families! (I’m a nanny, so I may be biased! Haha)

  • @alhamdiuallah2989
    @alhamdiuallah2989 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    The way I get through daily tasks is listening to tafseer of Quran on my wireless headphones while I work! it gives me so much joy even while doing boring chores.. with 1 head phone on low for mamas

  • @SalehFamily
    @SalehFamily 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +140

    Team no sleep here 😂 our kids never slept through the night until 2 and 3. Time flies though so enjoy the snuggles ❤

    • @salwazaidi546
      @salwazaidi546 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Omg don’t say that😭 my son doesn’t sleep through the night he’s 1 and I have another one on the way InshaAllah and I’m just dreddddingggg no sleep rn 😭🤣

  • @dhartipatel5611
    @dhartipatel5611 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    leena, 1899 was canceled after 1 season but the creators of that show first made a show called DARK on netflix, its 3 season, probably one of the best shows I've watched. The original is in german but there is a English dubbed version too. if you guys like 1899 am sure you and your mom would love dark!

    • @Withloveleenaofficial
      @Withloveleenaofficial  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Ohh thank you!!! We are gonna check it out 😍

    • @reneeupdike2220
      @reneeupdike2220 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Dark is one of the BEST shows I have ever watched. It's very complicated in an intelligent way. I didn't mind it being in German and reading the English subtitles. I had to watch it twice to understand it more. So so Good! I am going to have to check out 1899.

    • @sparklydemon
      @sparklydemon 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      never heard about 1899 before but I really loved Dark

    • @somebodysopinion543
      @somebodysopinion543 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      dark was so mind tripping, I was so lost by the end of it

    • @Saturn57
      @Saturn57 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I loved 1899. I have Dark on my list. Check out Manifest if you haven't watched it.

  • @lauradelucastroia4191
    @lauradelucastroia4191 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    On parenting, I think it’s important to set boundaries and stick with them consistently. Boundaries help children feel secure. It’s so much work to be a good parent and to love your children enough to discipline them, but it pays off. And children who are intelligent are often much more challenging, if that’s any comfort. I used to worry so much as a single parent, but my daughter is such a blessing and turned out to be so wonderful, thanks to God. ❤

    • @zainabaziz741
      @zainabaziz741 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Was very comforting reading this comment 😂, my girl is 2 (terrible 2s) very intelligent but sooo challenging 😅I worry about her but hopefully she grows up to be just as wonderful ❤

  • @Laila-jn7eq
    @Laila-jn7eq 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Please make sure to keep cameras in your house. I don't trust babysitters even sometimes family ones. This world is scary. You guys deserve your time together and I think a babysitter is a great idea just be cautious insha'Allah.

  • @fozzymalik
    @fozzymalik 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I so enjoyed this video! Thanks for being so honest and vulnerable both of you. It was like chatting with friends. Very easy going. Appreciate it!

  • @risingconvertpodcast
    @risingconvertpodcast 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    29:20 - 29:41 Omar nailed it with the advice. "You gotta let them know." I couldn't agree more. Communication and reflection takes time and you must be sincere about it. Once you have figured it out and you tell them, you''re actually adding value to the conversation you want to have with your partner to solve the issue.
    This video has been one of the best ones yet! I've really enjoyed listening to both of you touch on parenting as currently pregnant and soon to be a first time momma inshaAllah.
    BarakAllah feek to you both.

  • @laraineshawa1912
    @laraineshawa1912 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Yall need a podcast!!! Loved this video ❤

  • @mariamadiaw9055
    @mariamadiaw9055 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I loved this video, I really like seeing your personalities, being spontaneous with your responses. It’s fun!

  • @vee9133
    @vee9133 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I would love to see a tour of the upstairs of your home even if it’s not finished.

  • @aliahgapor6489
    @aliahgapor6489 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    1899 is such a gooddddd show!!! so underrated!

  • @aabidahsiebritz3839
    @aabidahsiebritz3839 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    My youngest son was the same, he wouldn't sleep until I layed down too, you're a genius getting a nanny lol. Also Omar saying shopping for groceries must be your hobby because you do it so much, like you guys don't need to eat lol

  • @Cyberkatz487
    @Cyberkatz487 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Children r gentle when u treat them with kindness

  • @taylorburdette2518
    @taylorburdette2518 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Awh leena and Omar mashallah! I’ve been here since your first Q&A together!!❤️❤️❤️ also so happy for y’all I was a nanny for 8yrs! It’s such a rewarding job.

  • @Jakejake20
    @Jakejake20 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    LMAOOOOOOOOO HE SAID GROCERY SHOPPING MADE ME DIE MashAllah love you guys

  • @seyamnida7061
    @seyamnida7061 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    so are we just ignoring the fact that Leena reached 1M ??? lol Congratulations! Mabrook

    • @Withloveleenaofficial
      @Withloveleenaofficial  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Thank you!!! 💗🥹🥹

    • @21972012145525
      @21972012145525 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She talked about it in the last video

  • @sah-nae
    @sah-nae 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Congratulations Leena on 1M subscribers 🎉 You and Omar are such a beautiful humble couple with the cutest babies 🥰, and Leena you are so beautiful inside and out 🥹🥰

  • @NK-jy4zy
    @NK-jy4zy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Please consider doing a video on the topic Muslim couple with kids date night ideas and tips on making time for each other. Thanks.

  • @sherryidibo2304
    @sherryidibo2304 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I enjoyed this chit chat video. You both seems a great parents.

  • @sabaa1308
    @sabaa1308 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    heyyy luv ur videos they just bring me comfront especially as a young hijabi girl, I have been watching u for years and I just want to say how amazing yous are mashallah

  • @MuslimahTiktok
    @MuslimahTiktok 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    In life with hardship comes easy. We can experience both at the same time.

  • @asyed1980
    @asyed1980 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you for being so honest. I named my daughter Alaina after your Alaina❤. Sick a beautiful name.

  • @monaelayan
    @monaelayan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My kids are 1 and 3, and our date nights have been replaced by family nights. Ita still fun and we get to go out!

  • @mairahumaira2257
    @mairahumaira2257 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A mother with a 6yo girl and 4yo twin boys here. It will get better! Trust the process. I understand how overwhelming it feels to have more than 2 kids. My family grown from 1 to 3 kids in a blink of my eyes but now we have more time for my marriage. Happy n

  • @hanibeeez
    @hanibeeez 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Please be careful promoting better help. They’ve been exposed multiple times before for the shady stuff they do with patients health information. And now they are supporting Israel and giving them free therapy

  • @jeniferjohnson374
    @jeniferjohnson374 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I do the same exact thing. I can be stern with my little one but if baba is stern with him I'm like nooo don't do that🥺😅. Gentle parenting is like medication I feel, use where needed.

  • @hauwafayinkeh
    @hauwafayinkeh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love love this question and answer session the level your honesty 😊

  • @shonaloren5117
    @shonaloren5117 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Better help are offering free sessions to Israelis affected by war and not Palestinians. No thanks

  • @aniraz90s
    @aniraz90s 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Salam Leena, it's normal for kids to behave that way. They are adjusting to having a sibling in their life. It's just a phase and Insyaa'Allah everything will get better. I have two boys and my eldest son is an easy baby. My youngest is very challenging and demanding. He's turned 5 and he is much better as he gets older. He's very clingy to me compared to my eldest son who isn't at all. Different kids have different personalities and my boys are opposite of each other. One likes to read books and the other one doesn't like to read books. One of them is able to sit still and quietly while another one is always climbing around and jumping. It's really hard even for me so just be patient and understand that kids are always in a developing stage. It's important to educate them by communicating with reasons and explanations. I'm sure you guys will do just fine. 🤗

  • @NoName-dj9tu
    @NoName-dj9tu 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hey Leena da everyone. We also have noone to Look after our Kids…
    We have 3 Daughters 4,3 almost 2.
    I put them down to sleep between 6-7 pm. So we have 3-4 Hours of Husband and Wife Time. ❤️🙏🏼 & it works perfekt alhamduallah

  • @sanaaatime
    @sanaaatime 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such a cute video! Very easy to watch and so honest, we love it ❤

  • @ameenoahmad
    @ameenoahmad 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I swear I am so happy a new video is out😍😍I missed you guys

  • @yaldasafari1496
    @yaldasafari1496 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Who else loves watching Q&A video's?🥰🥰🥰

  • @noreenzahoor9804
    @noreenzahoor9804 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you sooo much. Loved the video and really needed this xxx

  • @Japple123
    @Japple123 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Gonna make my husband listen to this so I can try convincing him to get a nanny 😆😫 help with little children is so important!

  • @Saturn57
    @Saturn57 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you guys liked 1899, you should watch Manifest. It's 4 seasons. I loved it.

  • @romonaharrison3268
    @romonaharrison3268 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I thought Better Help was backing Israel's atrocities.

    • @sallyw184
      @sallyw184 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      it I'd.

  • @sevinjaa655
    @sevinjaa655 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi both, great video as always😊 could you please also share with us how you deal with your strong willed Alaina. my daughter is also strong willed, and sometimes I loose my mind :( would be nice to know your approach and if it works. I have tried a lot of things throughout the years, but she always somehow figures out how to get what she wants and manipulate us. she is now 7 y.o., and it's scary to think about her teenage years😞

  • @sallyw184
    @sallyw184 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i love how honest you guys are.l0ve you both.

  • @mariaelyoussif
    @mariaelyoussif 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Leena, I need your lip combo! so pretty

  • @biancaf8708
    @biancaf8708 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Omg 1899 is such a good show!!!!!!

  • @fat10100
    @fat10100 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    1899 got cancelled 😢 but watch dark it has similar vibes and its amazing!

  • @taramisu1483
    @taramisu1483 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    MashaAllah tabarakallah may Allah Swt continue to bless your marriage and growing family allahumma Ameen

  • @janafarouk3900
    @janafarouk3900 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Salaam Leena❤
    Love you so much from Egypt 🇪🇬 We need more TH-cam videos on the Palestinian issue🇵🇸🍉

  • @zarahhamid3304
    @zarahhamid3304 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hey Leena! I'm not trying to offend you or anyone with this but I'm pretty sure betterhelp does supoort Israel.

    • @irisr3898
      @irisr3898 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’ve commented this before and my comments were removed

    • @zarahhamid3304
      @zarahhamid3304 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@irisr3898 sounds familiar, yt deleting comments abt Palestine. 🤷🏻‍♀

  • @user-zc7bn3cl9o
    @user-zc7bn3cl9o 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First congratulations Leena for 1M 🎉 and you guys very kind and wise , I like watching your videos ❤

  • @ewablonska
    @ewablonska 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are very wise smart and kind people, really love to watch your films, beautiful couple and family and all answers to questions were beautiful 😍😍😍😍

  • @NikkiLynn22
    @NikkiLynn22 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was the cutest video❣️you guys did so good with all of those questions across the board!

  • @s.a5758
    @s.a5758 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Aww I loved this thanks for sharing g such a cute raw video please share more of these. And I love how you always include 🇵🇸 on IG. ❤❤

  • @renukasrinivasan5955
    @renukasrinivasan5955 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sending you both lots and lots of love !!🧿🧿🧿🧿

  • @leenaabed1817
    @leenaabed1817 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Laughing at the favorite meal and favorite outfit 😂😂😂

  • @melissasantos1823
    @melissasantos1823 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Asa Wr Wb Leena and Omar alhamdulilah. Thank you for choosing to share and being real about things. You are wonderful parents and a lovely
    Couple. I agree Ireland would be a good place! Inshallah I will be there soon for a visit

  • @shakeelahbehardien8768
    @shakeelahbehardien8768 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Leena and Omar - The lovely and oh so cute couple. Mashallah. All the best for 2024. 💙

  • @karlstheg8
    @karlstheg8 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    29:34 "stop breathing" me to my partner LMAO

  • @yallalebanon5778
    @yallalebanon5778 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Why did it make me laugh so much how you said "as far as like demons and stuff..I'm not into that" 😂
    May you always be blessed 🤲
    As usual ✌🇵🇸🤲

  • @karlstheg8
    @karlstheg8 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    31:00 My brain "every time" I get ignored LMAO

  • @sereneyacoub8875
    @sereneyacoub8875 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the video! ❤️

  • @Dbyugfeyybfgfregyg
    @Dbyugfeyybfgfregyg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy new year sweetheart. What colour of your hijab, is white or pear and also is this from Haute hijab

  • @fathinahxx
    @fathinahxx 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Allahumma barik lahum. Ma sha Allah. Good to see you guys together. Allahumma barik lahum. Ma sha Allah

  • @emanuelaberaldo5272
    @emanuelaberaldo5272 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Leena could you talk about the October 7th Hamas attack? I would be interested in knowing your opinion on what happened. I am very upset with what is happening in Palestine but I want to also know about how Palestinians feel about Hamas. thank you I hope you can answer this Blessings from Canada. I'm praying for Peace and I am Pro People and Pro Peace

  • @mehmudaaslam9478
    @mehmudaaslam9478 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Leena! Mashallah i loved this Q and A as it was so fun❤Keep up ur hard and good work. Can i ask u what is ur next vlog going to be about because they are sooo fun and interesting. Also thank u for posting about Palestine 🇵🇸❤ Leena keep up hard work!

  • @bezauta
    @bezauta 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You two are so adorable and sweet. ❤

  • @martagarcia6428
    @martagarcia6428 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you guys !!

  • @MirroredInMud
    @MirroredInMud 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    20:32 Breast feeding is thirty months minus the duration of your pregnancy. Per the faith. I calculated and weaned on the exact date, I was so afraid of committing injustice to him. 🙈

  • @Jenna20001
    @Jenna20001 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mashaallah you and your husband mach together may Allah keep you guys together❤❤❤❤❤

  • @21972012145525
    @21972012145525 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Leena, what?! You were trying to have a discussion when he was playing video games? 😅

  • @asma9988
    @asma9988 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love that hijab where is it from?

  • @fmss6694
    @fmss6694 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You guys are a great example for other Muslim progressive couples. I wish I had an example of this when I was younger. May Allah bless you guys. Do t worry though the kids thing will pass and they will get older and more independent but always try to make time for each and communicate and listen.

  • @zahraaalsaffar8996
    @zahraaalsaffar8996 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love your videos. ❤️❤️

  • @domspoems2124
    @domspoems2124 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The side eye the thumbnail 😂

  • @martagarcia6428
    @martagarcia6428 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you please do a house tour?!

    • @QueenHayaat
      @QueenHayaat 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She has an empty house tour on YT but yet id loveee to see a furnished house tour In Sha Allah💗

  • @Dandoony
    @Dandoony 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1899 is sooooo good!!!!

  • @shakela3554
    @shakela3554 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    @withloveleena in todays world hiring a nanny is very scary to leave ur baby alone with …family is more safe even a daycare with camera if you need to work to make money

  • @deenakarem558
    @deenakarem558 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    leena better help are an israeli corporation🥺

  • @aisyahsyafiqah5053
    @aisyahsyafiqah5053 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    House Tour please,, Love from Malaysia ❤

  • @holidaygirl1224
    @holidaygirl1224 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Even coming from a different background, I really appreciate your couples content so much. It is very honest and makes me feel less alone in the every day grind of trying to maintain a relationship with young kids 🫶

  • @faseegahdavids7978
    @faseegahdavids7978 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    May ALLAH bless you both Insha Allah 💕

  • @kafeole
    @kafeole 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I struggle to trust this when their goal is to promote Better Help, a company that wants you to have mental illness because they capitalize on that.

  • @kan2903
    @kan2903 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good one👏

  • @murniati6211
    @murniati6211 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Omar likes paranormal movies 👍 me too

  • @marisaeventsmichigan2292
    @marisaeventsmichigan2292 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1 M congratulations 👏🎉

  • @zinaelladan7311
    @zinaelladan7311 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Better help supports Israel...they even provided free therapy for the soldiers 😔

  • @hadeeljaber5105
    @hadeeljaber5105 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I could tell there's something off between the two of them here.. especially Leena, she's not her usual self at all..

  • @barbtheresa5693
    @barbtheresa5693 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    yeess FIFA Croatia

  • @ShenZA6
    @ShenZA6 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    your husband is the younger version of gerard butler

  • @Fatemesheikhlarr
    @Fatemesheikhlarr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    love you ❤

  • @AEO123
    @AEO123 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omar, are you sweating?? Turn on the AC 😂

  • @rahnuma11
    @rahnuma11 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lol 2 little kids and they worried about date nights. Sorry it will only get waaaaaay harder before it gets easy! ESP if you guys want even more kids…..

  • @MC-vd5kp
    @MC-vd5kp 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's possible to be pro-Israel AND pro-Palestine. We are ALL human. PS I wish I was raised with gentle parenting!!! At the same time, I would not allow my child to tell me to stop talking, and would certainly NOT stop talking bc a 3 yr old "told" me to. The child needs to respect the parents and speaking like that is not ok.

    • @Lailaabear
      @Lailaabear 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You can't support the oppressed when you support their oppressor

  • @anglaismedical5573
    @anglaismedical5573 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you Leena for mentioning Palestine in the beginning. Content for Palestine is a priority right now! Entire videos should be completely devoted for Palestine: history, geography, Palestinians' lives for the past 75 years.. please use your platform in a way that makes you happier on the day of judgement ❤😊

  • @imanebahnane6568
    @imanebahnane6568 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @31TheMini
    @31TheMini 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What’s ‘paranormal’? What??

    • @erin6945
      @erin6945 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Paranormal, like supernatural.

  • @OmarAhmed-vh8yo
    @OmarAhmed-vh8yo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omar you need to join Top G’s ‘The Real World’ bro - you guys shouldn’t see a therapist, ask Allah and he shall give! Maybe increase your worship to the almighty?

  • @mariyavatulko7922
    @mariyavatulko7922 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kids should be the reason 😂

  • @reinventinglamour
    @reinventinglamour 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Shop for groceries 😂😂😂omg

  • @danahbdair9402
    @danahbdair9402 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Allah bless you both 🤍🤍🤍

  • @1234Lainey
    @1234Lainey 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ✨💕✨